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| 1 | Toronto is hell if you're a normal black dude tryna dateHow many women have you hit on in person, in the last 2 weeks? Be honest. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Short men success stories?social media is fake, dude go outside, plenty of short men with bitches, girlfriends, wives, families everywhere | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Hi , Need a little helpThis a woman you love, yet it's the first time you meet? Only thing I'd tell you is if you try to kiss her or hold her hand or caress her butt or invite her to go back to your place to have sex etc. and she doesn't want to let you? Just end the date right then and there. You're not going to be interested in someone who's isn't attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Constantly reflecting if I’m unlucky with the women I meet, or if I’m just that boring.based on your initial post, your feet are mangled | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Constantly reflecting if I’m unlucky with the women I meet, or if I’m just that boring.I'm sure when you scroll through their pics, you're checking out their lips, tits, ass and it's probably turning you on cause you're imagining the things you wanna do to them. Right? That's the shit you should be talking to them about in the very first convo. Cause whatever you're describing to her, is what she's gonna start imagining. And if it feels good to her in her mind, she's going to be turned on. Why do you think they love erotic novels, and sexy xxx rated songs? What do you think she's … | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 07:10 PM |
| 0 | What would you do in my place?Never talk to her again. "I didn't want to screw things up with this girl" You put her on a pedestal and she knows it. Her pussy's drier than the Sahara. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Second Shift = No Dates. What Would You Do?You don't need to take these women out on dates. Just invite them over to your place for a quick smash and tell them to go home. She can come through in the morning, or during lunch. or after 11pm. If she's that interested in sleeping with you, the time of day doesn't matter. BTW you're fucking killing it at your age. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 06:39 PM |
| 4 | If a woman sets up a date and then suddenly cancels saying she is no longer interested and the "vibe is off", how do you guys react?If you set up a date and then all of a sudden you're not interested in the woman, and you cancelled, how would you want the woman to react to you? You would probably want her to not talk to you anymore, right? There's your answer. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date?You know, you can just invite women over to your place to have sex. You don't have to take them on dates. Thus not having to deal with these situations. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 06:32 PM |
| 63 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?They are everywhere, buddy. Just go outside, run your errands, go places you like. When you run into one you're attracted to, just talk to her for a minute (introduce yourself, tell her the reason you're talking to her), give her your number and tell her to call/text you that night. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I don’t approach anymore & it’s gotten me laid more times than i can count..You still meeting and talking to new women though. + all the cold approaching/sex talk you did led to you being this way. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Help me change my thought processIf you were hungry, and you found a restaurant where you can order a meal. Are you gonna enter the restaurant, go up to the cashier and ask them how their day is going, give them a bunch of compliments, tell them a bunch of jokes, listen to all their problems and then leave the restaurant and complain online, why the restaurant didn't give you any food yet everyone else gets food? Or are you just gonna go up to the cashier and tell them what food you want to order? And if they don't have what yo… | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Approaching women who aren’t approachableYou say it works, yet you're single. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women who aren’t approachableYour advice for dude is buying a bunch of drinks and desert for a bunch of complete strangers so he can leave his number? 99.9% the dude that did that for you, you never let his cock anywhere near your mouth or pussy . | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Happened again - girl got validation and leftYou did fine dude. Maybe leave the heavy makeout to when you're already in a room/place/car where you can have sex. Other than that, nothing wrong with what you did/said. Dudes saying you were too forward are simps. Dudes saying women are 304s with no self respect for sleeping with you quick are straight up judgmental goofs. God forbid a woman is excited and willing to have sex with you after only 5 mins of talking to you. Instead of wasting your time "comforting" her, having long gay ass conver… | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 05:20 PM |
| 5 | How long does it take to learn game?Game isn't about women/dating. It's about you. Loving yourself, respecting yourself, knowing who you are, knowing what you want, what you allow in your life, and knowing what to do to get it without losing your self-respect. Basically until you're dead, you never stop learning game. Men, women and children should all learn game. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:57 PM |
| -1 | What to wear for casual date with older woman?she's coming over? basketball shorts/sweatpants/pj pants do not wear underwear better have some condoms closeby. if you wanna drink, just have a bottle you like and just be like eg. "I'm gonna have a rum/coke, you want one to?" | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?Don't put these women on pedestals. You're the 10. Put yourself on that pedestal. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?How does it come off as desperate? His interest is sex but he still doesn't care whether he gets it or not. That's why he tells her she can leave if she doesn't want to have sex. Being too friendly with women you're interested in, "physical escalation", "building attraction" bs you see on here, that shit makes you look desperate. Better to be upfront and firm with what you want, so you can find if it aligns with what she wants, so both of you don't waste your time | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Question about climaxCondoms and not being used to sex. Try "Prone bone" sex position. Make sure her legs are closed tight together. Even when I'm high and struggling to climax, this shit works 99% of the time. Also helps having a visual in your mind while fucking, something that turns you on (eg. I like imagining my chick's ass (or other chicks' asses) in a thong, or spandex while I'm fucking her) | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking date ideas? Does it really matter what you do?Just tell her to come over to your place or to go to hers, so you can give her some dick. I'm serious. She doesn't give a fuck about the dates. She wants you to pound her tight wet pussy. Make it easy for her to get that. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?get offline and suck your man's dick he's had a long day | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching women is wrong?You're full of shit. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How much time would you give her to thinkManipulating you for your time, your attention, your money (if you're paying for dates) etc. when deep down she's not interested in you. But you like being liked so doubt you even care. And if you don't care about waiting and you're not pinning for her, and you're seeing all these women, why are you even asking how long should you wait with her..why is she so special? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 11:45 PM |
| 0 | How much time would you give her to thinkSo sex isn't that important for relationships? And people liking you automatically means they're sexually/romantically interested in you? I think she's manipulating you. And I'm just helping you out. You're gonna waste your time, if you don't find out if she's actually sexually interested in you. All those "casual dates" (as in dates where no sex happens) are gonna lead to nothing. No sex, no gf. And your heart is gonna be the one broken. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 10:44 PM |
| 3 | How much time would you give her to thinkYou went on 1 date. She tells you she's interested in casual dating but she likes you too much and doesn't want to have her heart broken and needs time to think? After 1 date? And you say she's not christian and doesn't want kids? This shit sounds confusing and manipulative. That's why I say invite her over for sex so you have zero doubt about her interest for you. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How much time would you give her to thinkIf she just wants something casual, why don't you just invite her over for sex, then? She doesn't want to be your gf, so why force it? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Seduction by auntWhen you're alone with her, anytime during the conversation, just be straight up and say: "I want to fuck you. Do you want me to fuck you?" She's either going to say yes or no politely. Now, If she gives you a negative reaction but didn't give you a yes or no (like she's upset, or angry) stay quiet, look in her eyes, don't react to it, just smirk and then say: "so you're not interested in me fucking you?" (make her reject you) If she still doesn't give you an answer, again don't be upset, just s… | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 11:17 PM |
| 16 | Is she testing me or just being honest?She wanted your dick. She assumed you two were gonna meet up and fuck. Instead she got stuck in a 2 hour conversation talking about things that makes her pussy dry. Now, she doesn't want your dick anymore. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna workSounds like you're just scared of getting rejected which is understandable. But lets just say you did approach a woman, and she just ignores you and walks away, are you gonna stand there and literally break down and start crying? Or lets say she hears what you have to say, you ask her out and she says politely "oh I'm not interested." or "Sorry I have a bf/husband?" again are you gonna stand there, in tears crying in front of her? what if there's a crowd around, are you gonna cry in front of eve… | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | I am living in my head and so sick of it. How the do I calm downIf you want to calm down, just tell yourself "fuck it" and go up to her, say Hi, and just tell her "give me a few seconds, I'm a little nervous" You will feel a big sense of relief almost right away. And you'll be surprised a woman (who isn't in a hurry) will be cool about it and be patient enough to wait for you to say what you have to say to her. I approached this very sexy woman on the street, this way on the weekend. She was very cool and polite. Eventhough she declined wanting to have sex w… | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How is it possible to be attractive if we are not preselected?All you have to do is just tell the girl that you like, that you're interested in dating her/ or just sleeping with her. If she tells you she isn't, just move on and go talk to the next one you like. This is all this shit is. Stop thinking about all this other BS, it's a huge waste of your time, you're gonna be stuck in the same place 5 years later with no girlfriend still. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approach is mostly useless?So he managed to get dates from women who had some interest/attraction towards him but since he didn't like those women and found them "low quality" cold approaching is useless? But his advice (outside of gym, dress good, discover passions) is to "meet women" (still cold approaching) for the purpose of friendship during the activities he likes doing? The author is contradicting himself. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | I've failed had honestly, I feel so pathetic and lost.Have you actually told these women that you went out with.. that you wanted to have sex with them? If not, you should start letting them know that. Preferably before you take them out. (You can actually skip having a date, and just invite them to your place, or go to theirs) Plenty of women out there looking for hook-ups. They're just waiting for guys to tell them they want the same asap. Just be honest about what you want and, you're gonna lose your virginity. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**Agree The moment, I stopped focusing on online dating, was when all I was meeting up with were women, that didn't even look like their pics. And when we met, all we did was makeout, and maaaybe I'd get a handjob. No sex. They were just being teases. Maybe they thought I was desperate? While in the meantime, I'm approaching women on the streets, women that I actually found attractive, and we're having sex our first meetup. And sometimes having sex 10-30 mins after I even approached her. It was a … | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching in MallsSo you're saying you''ve never approached any woman at the mall? Never pulled one back to your/her place or to your car and fucked same day? | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approaching in MallsOP is a teenager, dude. Why would mall security give a shit about high school kids going up and talking to other high school kids? | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:58 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate?guy: "I want to kiss you." girl: "no" guy: "okay" walks away | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 05:39 PM |
| -2 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?Just read this: https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html there are plenty of videos on youtube/rumble with his advice/philosophy, and how to's, there's a subreddit as well i know this is what you're looking for, cause you hate all the bs courtship and fake shit that makes no sense just as I did. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Learning game as an acoustic mangreat advice | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesWhere in my post, did I say he needs to dirty talk to get laid? | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | After two dates she told me that she lost interestInstead of the cafe and dinner, maybe she was hoping to go over to your place and fuck? But since you probably never expressed that desire in either date, she just assumed you weren't interested in having sex with her and she lost interest. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 06:55 PM |
| -10 | Horny in periods?only thought i have, is u on ur knees with my dick in ur mouth | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 06:42 PM |
| 9 | Question about genderwas her pussy getting wet? | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | She Confessed me but doesn’t wanna date meTell her she has to start sucking your dick if she wants to keep talking to you. I guarantee you, if she says no, you're going to have zero interest in her, and naturally move on. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionSo he was talking dirty to her and she was enjoying it. But there are dummies on here who keep saying: "Don't talk about sex. She will be creeped out." | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why am I getting rejected even when I get their number or go on a date with them?Just tell them, you just want to hook up/fuck. Since you said it yourself, that's what you want. Believe me when I say this, when you're that bold/honest, a rejection doesn't feel bad at all. You actually feel relieved. And to add to that, just because she says no, right now, doesn't mean she won't hit you up in the future when she feels horny (if she has your phone #) Because you're probably right now the only guy she met recently who was that confident in letting her know that sex was what you… | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 03:21 AM |
| -1 | Nervous about setting up a datehow do you create "sexual tension" without telling her you want to have sex? | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 09:49 PM |
| -1 | Nervous about setting up a dateForget the pier. Just tell her to come over to your place so you two can fuck. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How to subtly escalate with a friend"Let's fuck" its that simple | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Good Ways to End Dates on a High Note?Stating your intentions and asking for consent is insecure? And you actually believe there's some method that guarantees you sex for every woman you interact with? | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 11:14 PM |
| -2 | Good Ways to End Dates on a High Note?"Listen. I'd love to have sex with you tonight. But only if, you tell me right now, that's what you want." | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 3 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whytry it out | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 03:26 AM |
| 3 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyWhat's so funny about it? I end up having sex with women that want to have sex with me. And I don't have sex with women that don't want to have sex with me. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 01:47 AM |
| 2 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyHow about before going on a date, you tell her the reason you two are meeting up is to have sex? Now you don't have to worry about "escalation" to find out if she wants to have sex. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 11:55 PM |
| 0 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?"I'd treat you like my personal fuck toy" | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 01:55 PM |
| 10 | Clubs are the worst place to start conversations. I'm sorry+add the large amount of attention whores and cock teasers you run into in clubs You can have a chick, grinding her ass on your dick (or grinding her pussy on your leg), even tongue kissing you, and she still says she won't fuck you. Cause she has to go home to her bf/husband/kids, or she has to leave with her massive group of friends/coworkers. In any other environment, we're most likely fucking. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | IM SO TIRED OF THE REJECTIONwatch/listen to this: https://youtu.be/S4F2X5tCnS0?t=21m35s and this: https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E?t=5m15s and this: https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko and read this: https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html I promise, this will help you once you apply it. It's a lot different than what people here recommend but dude is speaking facts. And the technique is legit. You're gonna be good, brother. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 06:38 PM |
| 25 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesGood stuff Not bad for no game starting from complete scratch. If you knew how to screen women & dirty talk (get them aroused), instead of 2 lays, you'd probably have 20-40. By the way, since you've just been rejected 1000+ times, can you confirm that you absolutely don't remember 90%+ of the women that rejected you.m, what their name was or what they looked like? edit: when i started, took about 300 approaches before i got laid, after that it was probably every 20-50 approaches, I'd get laid. B… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 10:57 PM |
| 3 | A day in the life of a hot girlRead all of it. Great post. It's why I feel, all that indirect/build rapport/emotional connection/pretend to be her friend to get laid/take her out on multiple dates etc., is such a waste of time if you wanna get laid. | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Met a cute girl on the street, we share a unique hobby, how not to get friendzoned?Just tell her u want to fuck her. And if she's genuinely not interested, to tell you right now. She already knows the answer. Get her to spill the truth, so you both have peace of mind. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Went out solo todayWatch this, brother: https://youtu.be/jGJDKxWmcxA Talks about: it's ok to be awkward when approaching. Not everything has to be super smooth. Especially when you're a beginner. Just go in, and get comfortable with the act of approaching. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What is the best cost-effective way to follow up after a successful cold approachdeception (noun) de·cep·tion di-ˈsep-shən 1a : the act of causing someone to accept as true or valid what is false or invalid : the act of deceiving resorting to falsehood and deception | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 09:11 PM |
| -1 | What is the best cost-effective way to follow up after a successful cold approach"potentially leading up to third base" so do you want your dick sucked or no? edit: no homo lol | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:30 PM |
| -1 | What is the best cost-effective way to follow up after a successful cold approachJust call her and tell her you want to see her on her knees, with your dick in her mouth. If she doesn't say: no, tell her over to come over to your place. Saved you money(dates), and saved you time (rapport/get know each other BS) | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girlsI disagree. All this reads like you're afraid of being rejected. Majority of advice shared on this sub is like this to. What's wrong with just going up to a woman, telling her you want to fuck her, and just have her let you know if she's interested or not? There are women out there waiting for a guy they're attracted to, to tell them this. And this shit takes less than 5 mins. Rather than spending weeks/months building a whole friend network that will probably not pan out and your "game/rizz" is… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 11:47 PM |
| 3 | I have a stunning inability to get the women I want on dating apps - no idea if its race or height but something is up in Torontoyou're 30 what the fuck are they gonna do if you did? | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 10:56 PM |
| 2 | I have a stunning inability to get the women I want on dating apps - no idea if its race or height but something is up in TorontoBTW when I was your age living at home, first time I had sex with one of my ex-gfs, she came over and met my dad before we went to my room lol. it's not a big deal. Women who are close to their families don't care if you live at home. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Do you wait for signs to approach?No. One of the most attractive women, I've slept with (and the quickest) she didn't even see me coming towards her (I was across the street). And this was on the street, in the evening. Not a bar/club or whatever. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 07:36 PM |
| 7 | I have a stunning inability to get the women I want on dating apps - no idea if its race or height but something is up in TorontoIf you had your own place, money, and in another country, you'd still struggle. Getting laid isn't about any of those things. Your words, your behaviour aren't turning these women on. It's that simple. You're waiting for IOIs to approach meaning you're not approaching much and you're scared of rejection. So you're inexperienced and not confident. How can any woman want to hook up with you? Watch this video dude: start it at 4 mins: YOU really need to watch it, cause you need a complete mindset c… | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach in 2024I had to watch it again. You're right. (see how easy tiktok can fuck with your head) I thought the guy was following her, didn't realize he was far away from her. This girl just a weirdo, probably been harassed before so she takes it out on all guys. But if you're gonna stop cold approaching because you fear this? Come on. This is nothing. | /r/seduction | 11/05/24 03:43 PM |
| 16 | Cold approach in 2024The guy in the vid, kept trying to talk to her after she said no. That's harassment. Most women are polite when they tell you they're not interested/have a bf/husband. Others will just ignore you and not talk to you. Just walk away and leave them alone. And you're not gonna end up on tiktok or whatever like this guy. edit: guy wasn't harassing her | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 10:37 PM |
| 28 | What's something that you have learned from getting rejectedYou can get rejected by 50 women in a row, and #51 is sucking your dick in an alleyway within 5 mins of talking to her. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Woman who initiates a conversation?She just wanted free attention. If you respond with something sexual like: "suck my dick" or "let's go fuck", they go away. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards himu gay? "I actually told the dude that my friend (The girl) thinks hes attractive." Come on dude lol | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a girl suggests dinner"How about, you buy me dinner after I fuck the shit out of you." I'm serious | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to girls?read this: Alan's old webpage, he shares the philosophy, and shares a few stories with the verbage he used. https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html watch this: https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E (start at 4 mins) (how to approach/talk) https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko You're gonna be nervous and terrible at it in the beginning. It's fine. The more you do it, the better you get, the more bold you're gonna become, the more confident you're gonna be. Talking … | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:53 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?What you're doing is the textbook definition of bigotry : obstinate or intolerant devotion to one's own opinions and prejudices : the state of mind of a bigot https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/bigotry#:~:text=%3A%20obstinate%20or%20intolerant%20devotion%20to,of%20mind%20of%20a%20bigot | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 10:55 PM |
| -2 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?You can live however you want. Why are you shaming people who aren't doing anything illegal? What you're saying is no different than what someone who's anti-lgbtq would say. Using "morals" as a reason. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 10:47 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?you scared of backlash? so even if you're not breaking laws, you're gonna allow others to dictate how you live your life? that's a sad miserable life | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 10:17 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?"mentally still kids" yet we allow them to: drive, have a bank account/credit card, get a college loan, have a job, own a business, go in porn, become strippers/escorts/onlyfans models, vote, be soldiers, pay bills, rent/own their own place, get married, start their own families..etc. but god forbid a guy 10 years older than her, wants to put his dick in her...no can't have that. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?Explain how it's predatory. Give me examples. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 05:39 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?Why are you talking about children? OP's talking about 18-25 | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 05:33 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?I don't see anything wrong. Don't listen to these dudes telling you otherwise, they're probably closet pedos anyway. you said 18-25 y/o, and they're acting like you said 7-12 y/o. bunch of goofs | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:59 PM |
| 6 | What do you think of going to college campuses as a non-student to get chicks?"predatory behaviour" lol you're a dude that types like a female incel. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: First Time Going Out this YearYou should read this article, it's not long: https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html how to do the approach (5 min vid) https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko It teaches true seduction, how to get a woman sexually aroused, with examples. You have to read it over and over again, over time (while taking action) cause there are things you're not gonna understand on the first read. If you've already had experience, you might get a few "a ha!" moments. You appl… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 07:07 PM |
| 6 | Did I just miss a great opportunity?"horribly wrong" wtf he just said something that was awkward, it isn't that serious | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Being the funny guy?For seducing women? Making her laugh is a waste of time. Makes you look like a clown. When has a woman, ever played with her pussy listening to jokes? When have you jacked off, to a woman telling you jokes? | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Female coworker asked for phone number !Just tell her to meet you outside after work, and just be straightforward with her. That you're interested in her sexually/romantically and that if she's not interested to tell you right now so you don't waste each other's time. Don't do the whole pretending to be a friend. Shit is really manipulative. And you're gonna be even more upset if she rejects your sexual advances, days, weeks, months later. when she says that all she ever saw you as, was a friend/coworker/brother. And you're probably g… | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | For the guys who had zero experience with womenwatch this (5 mins): https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko read this: https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html It's ok, that you're an introvert. It's ok, you don't enjoy small talk. You don't need to be some extroverted, great listener, great talker, super funny guy, really interesting person to seduce women. I wasted so much time doing/learning that. Because it went against my natural personality and I get exhausted after. It's honestly just about being … | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Toronto Downtown (looking for serious wings)"0% interested even if you're fine as hell" you'd be, outside, on your knees, dick in each hand, letting him and the mandem, finish in your mouth and enjoying every second | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Failure in real life approaches but master at online datingwatch this, brother, its less than 5 mins but he shows exactly how to seduce a woman (first thing out of his mouth when he approaches), I co-sign this approach because it fucking works for me, the women that bite, get really turned on. its scary at first, but you have a 100+ bodycount, you already know women love fucking https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 01:00 AM |
| 5 | I never actually learned how to actually flirtwho wins the jackpot multiple times? | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 2 | I never actually learned how to actually flirtlol buddy, you can have sex with women within 5-10 mins of meeting them for the 1st time Plenty of people(me included) on this subreddit can attest to that and share stories if they wanted to. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 12:40 AM |
| 10 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?Its only old single female incels, simps who don't get laid or guys with daughters who say this shit. Acting like they're the authority of who people can or can't fuck. Bunch of goofs. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 10:03 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?tell them your age and then tell them from now on, to refer to you as "Daddy" or "Monsieur" | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 07:23 PM |
| 4 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.Facts. I have a story. One time, I met up with a girl, late at night like 1am. I had grabbed her # at the mall the week before. Hardly ever texted except sharing sexy pics. When we met up, I thought we were gonna have sex. Nope, the whole time she was being a bitch, didn't give me any play. I didn't say anything, but she knew looking at my face, I was pissed. I just wanted to drop her home and never deal with her again. After I dropped her home. She texts me: "are u mad at me?" I just reply: "un… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?Facts. Kind of like, there's very few times you remember people who did good things for you. But you remember every person that did you wrong or pissed you off. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?"When they were rude i just played it off and pretended like i didnt notice it." That's what I was talking about. You didn't give a shit. You didn't let it get to you. That's attractive. As far as those other girls. Looks like they just wanted attention from you and nothing else. Being lovey dovey, lots of texting you end up dealing with this type a lot. When you start texting/talking you have to find out right away if you two are gonna have sex (not "maybe, we'll have sex", I mean is it gonna h… | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?It's not that. When they behave rude/negative, you probably didn't bend over backwards for them or changed your behaviour to change their mood. Is that what you did? Cause Jerks/assholes do the same. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:04 PM |
| 0 | SECRET info: How to get the ‘baddies’.It's crazy some people here don't get this. If I wanted to intentionally disrespect someone, that means I want to get a reaction out of them. I want their attention. If I don't get anything, I would have zero power over that person. Eventually I'd show them respect. Because nothing I do, would make them crack. Since women love attention, who's to say they wouldn't behave the same way? | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm so close to throwing in the towel and giving upThere's your problem, You have to let them know, to find out if they want the same thing. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 08:01 PM |
| 10 | Having more success sealing the deal with girls that acted cold towards me?Heard a guy say this once: "Every woman that I slept with, has called me an asshole/jerk or has been upset with me. Every woman that has had only good things to say about me, we were never more than friends." cold hard truth | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm so close to throwing in the towel and giving upDid you tell any of these women, you wanted to sleep with them? | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:41 PM |
| -2 | Cosplay GirlsThats cool. Still she'll see you have bigger balls than anyone of there if you did say it. Especially if she gets upset or acts offended, and you don't apologize. Her pussy will get wet x100 | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Cosplay GirlsYeah. I just noticed when the OP replied. Thought it was you. My bad. Don't call me a moron though. I never insulted you once. | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 03:24 AM |
| -1 | Cosplay GirlsI meant what I would do if I was in your situation. Based on what my buddy, used to do when he was going and hooking up. I've never been to a convention. But I've done this approach outside(street/park/beach), at the mall, gym, weddings, resort, while working (on customers), bars/club. And I've never dealt with security, police, never had a girl slap me, or throw a drink at me. Not a single time. Maybe the guys you're talking about are touching women without their consent, or keep trying to talk… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 09:51 PM |
| -2 | Cosplay GirlsYou wanted some tips for a short term hookup, and I gave one to you. All that build rapport/increase tension/isolate/escalate etc. is just gonna make you waste a lot of time, if at the end she says "No, we can't. I want to get to know you better." and you're back in your hotel room with your dick in your hand. You need to screen women, to find who genuinely wants to have sex with you, instead of trying all these methods to convince women who genuinely don't. these cosplay girls are down to fuck,… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new peopleAnytime, brother | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 06:00 PM |
| -10 | Cosplay GirlsMy buddy used to go to these event and told me all these cosplay girls are dtf. That they have orgies back in their hotel rooms. I would walk up to every single one and the first words out of my mouth would be "we're definitely gonna be fucking, back in my hotel" until one says yes. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new peopleI went on your profile to try and figure out where you're from. If you still live in that country (I just looked its laws in regards to sex assault/harrasment) your approach online(and in person) to get laid, would be to just open up at the very beginning of meeting someone and say that you're only looking for casual sex and to ask if she's interested in having sex with you. No vulgar language needed because I read thats considered sexual harrasment if the person isn't your spouse or they haven'… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn HOW TO LEARN to pick up girls / seduce girlsVideo is less than 5 mins. You don't have to be as x-rated as this guy, but you still have to make your sexual intentions very clear. https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko Real verbal seduction (with stories shared) https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Everything starts well and they just ghost meDo you wanna spend time with women that genuinely want to fuck, or spend time/A LOT of time with those who genuinely don't? | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | i got a crush ? i think ?u just typed a whole wiki on him you're down bad | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Everything starts well and they just ghost meAbout the location of the 1st date. I get it. Could still be creative though, it would be an adventure for her lol Don't be afraid of just inviting a woman to your place or to hers, as the very 1st date/1st time you get together either, instead of meeting somewhere else. You already have the experience, make it easier for you. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 10:11 PM |
| 0 | i got a crush ? i think ?Yes. Do you wanna feel his dick in you? Or do u just wanna play with your pussy thinking about him? | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | i got a crush ? i think ?Just invite him to come over to your place and that you'll let him have his way with you. It's clear you want his dick, bad. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Everything starts well and they just ghost meShe told you were hot and she gave you a ton of attention. She clearly wanted to have sex with you. Thing is, she isn't gonna tell you blatantly because a) she doesn't wanna look like a slut b) she scared of getting rejected. So she's waiting for YOU, the man, to tell her you want to have sex, so she can then open up and tell you if she wants it or not. If you don't tell her as soon as possible, she either thinks you're to scared to say it, or you're not really sexually interested in her. And th… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Everything starts well and they just ghost meWho's talking about "everything"? You're asking why you're getting ghosted and I'm telling you what it might be. You said, that girl told you how fucking hot you are. What do you think she's thinking about, if she's tellling you this? "Wow, he's so fucking hot, I just want him to take me out on fun dates and spend money on me." "Wow, he's so fucking hot, I just want him to tell me jokes and make me laugh." "Wow, he's so fucking hot, I just want him to be friendly and polite towards me. Send me t… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Everything starts well and they just ghost meCause none of the shit you're talking to her about, gets her wet, gets her aroused. Thats why she ghosts you. In what world, would a woman say: "Wow he was so nice, so friendly, I want his cock inside me so bad." "Wow he was so funny and entertaining, my pussy is getting so wet." "He is such a great person, I just want him to treat me like his personal dirty little slut, and let him do whatever he wants to me." Think about what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesI agree. How do you feel about guys on this subreddit recommending "physical escalation" (i.e. touching a woman) to demonstrate his sexual interest in a woman instead of verbalizing it before it gets physical? If you were in that situation would you feel comfortable or uncomfortable? eg. If you two are just talking about whatever. Guy never mentions to you his intentions whether or not, he wants to have sex with you. And all of a sudden, while you're talking he starts putting his hand on your sh… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesMan tells woman. "I'd love to have sex with you. If you don't want to have sex with me, tell me right now, and I'll leave you alone." Show me the threat. This is textbook asking for consent. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 06:24 PM |
| -3 | How slow is too slow?Call her and tell her the next time you meet, that you two are gonna fuck. And if she doesn't want to fuck to tell you right now, so that you don't waste anymore time with her. 6 dates from a 28 y/o in 2024 and no sex? what? I wouldn't be surprised if she's sleeping with another guy right now. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Women’s interest just die outJust think about it like this: If a woman, you ARE NOT attracted to, started telling you jokes/being entertaining, would that turn you on enough to sleep with her? If a woman, you ARE NOT attracted to, told you she'd love to feel your cock in her mouth, would that turn you on enough to sleep with her? If a woman, you ARE attracted to, started telling you jokes/being entertaining, would that turn you on enough to sleep with her? If a woman, you ARE attracted to, told you she'd love to feel your c… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I get past the spam filter here?You got this, brother. Get fit, improve your hygiene and dress a bit better. You still have to go meet women and tell them what you want (having sex with her) in the process. It's the only way you become confident. Don't become obsessed with the age/looks thing. It's only gonna hinder you. I have mutual friends (women in their 30s) in relationships with guys in their 50s-60s. These guys aren't GQ models. They're balding, have pot bellies, dress like they just finished mowing their lawn. They're … | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Women’s interest just die outI'm guessing all your conversations are either the friendly/polite getting to know each other type or the funny/entertaining joking type. And you end up never asking her out/to meet or telling her what you want (relationship or sex-only). Would I be correct in that assumption? | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people?Parks, retail/department stores, fast food restaurants, rec center/gym/outdoor pool, starbucks, dessert places, nail spa, movie theater. You'll have to hit on store workers/cashiers. You can hit on 16-17 year olds to, since you're only 20, most people won't see it as a big deal. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Cold approachedIt was good that you introduced yourself, but it was a waste of an approach since you have no clue if she's interested in you romantically/sexually. You have to remember why you're approaching her and what you want from her. A woman already knows what she wants or doesn't want from you before you even say anything. So tell her what you want ASAP, to find out if she wants the same thing. (no small talk needed, no funny/polite convos, no 5+ mins conversations needed, no need to impress her) Yo can… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How do I get past the spam filter here?Watch this (the truth): https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E?t=4m16s Watch these (how to approach): https://youtu.be/d_M4WxPFi8Q https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko Read this (the philosophy): https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html Apply this daily and you'll notice your behaviour changing over the next couple months/years and become a lot more confident in yourself than you are now. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | First time texting on tinder need advicedish it, but can't take it eh? | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 03:48 AM |
| -1 | First time texting on tinder need advicenah, got your mom, your sisters and your future daughters for that | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 01:13 AM |
| -4 | First time texting on tinder need adviceafter that 2nd text i would've just said "so when are we gonna fuck?" and then tell her to come over. texting over and over is just a waste of time | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.The earlier the better. And there's no smooth or right way to get into that conversation. Life isn't a movie lol, you can say whatever you want to say, whenever you want to say it. You guys can be talking about anything at the moment. And you can cut her off and say: "You look so..fucking...sexy.... in your outfit right now...I just wanna fuck you.. right here...right now." Even a woman who's just standing there minding her own business, you can walk up to her and in a low discreet voice and say… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | 25M bout to get laid for the first time. Need helpToilet paper is gonna leave residue on her pussy/your dick. Paper towel is rough. Just buy the baby wipes, she's gonna thank you. And buy lube, you don't know if her pussy is super tight. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | 25M bout to get laid for the first time. Need helpWhen you're kissing, pull your cock out, take her hand and make her stroke it. When she does, rub her pussy, and then tell her to suck your cock When she's sucking it, reach down in her pants and finger her. When you're rock hard just tell her you wanna put it in, slip the condom on and fuck her: Missionary (+ play/pinch her nipples, rub her clit, put your hand on her throat while you're fucking her), Cowgirl (+play with nipples, suck them, let her rub her pussy against you, put your hand behind… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.Can you imagine a woman talking to her friend and saying: "AdSweet1054 made me laugh so much, my pussy was getting so wet." or "AdSweet1054 is so nice and friendly, I want him to fuck me so bad" or "AdSweet1054 was talking about all the places he's been to, and I was getting so horny. All I could think about was his cock in my mouth." lol cause I sure can't. You have to talk about fucking her, so she can imagine you fucking her. Get her aroused. And if that thought, of you fucking her is turning… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Girl asked me to try her drink? Ghosted. Am I just not gaming enough?agree and I'll add taking women out on dates as well | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How to change your mindset about cold approach and killing the "it is not legitimate to approach" - mindset other than just approaching?Ask him what's embarassing or shameful about doing it. Ask if he's ever asked his family their opinions on it, and what did they think about it. Ask what about it scares him. Rejections? Negative reactions? And just go over each scenario, and determine what's the worst thing that can happen. I don't know if you approach during the day but you should have him come hang out with you, and just do a few approaches in front of him. Your friend doesn't have to approach, just let him see you get differ… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Approached at the gym... seeking opinionsIt's no big deal. Only thing that sucked was you apologized. Always own the things you say. No matter if someone feels offended. That's their issue not yours. You're not accountable for people's feelings. Don't defend yourself. Don't apologize. The best response after that text she sent you would've been: "so" Just talk to other women at the gym and ignore her until she comes talks to you. | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | My self esteem and self image is basically down the toilet especially with woman what do I docheck the comment i posted | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | My self esteem and self image is basically down the toilet especially with woman what do I do"Wow, you are so hot!. Meet me at my place, tonight... If not tonight, next week." "You look... so sexy...we need to get together at my place or yours... in the next week or two." "You look sooo.. sexy.... in your outfit right now... I just wanna fuck you.. right here...right now." "We need to fuck, as soon as possible, you look so fucking hot right now." The next 100 women you're interested in, just say any one of these sentences. Whether you walk up to them and its the first thing out of your … | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | My self esteem and self image is basically down the toilet especially with woman what do I doHow many girls have you actually asked out in your life and they told you they weren't interested? Be honest. | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Reasons you've rejected or lost interest in the girl?I just read that report. 6 hour date? Jesus bro lol My experiences, if I didn't have sex with her the 1st time we hang out, I would stop talking to her. | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth.She hasn't even touched your penis. Go hit on more women | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | hooked up with a stranger out of stateThis post is for all the guys who say, you need to go on 3, 5, 10 dates before having sex. And those who believe, she won't want a relationship if you two have sex on the 1st date/one night stand. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How should I go about escalating in my Situation?That's good. I say dont text her. (Just confirm you're meeting on the day of) When you two are hanging out, Just tell her right away, that you only want to fuck her, and you're not looking for anything serious. She's either gonna say she's down. (and be excited about it) Or she's gonna say she's not. (she'll be polite, trust me) If she starts calling you a jerk/asshole, or reacts "negative", just close your mouth, look into her eyes, relax and let her vent. She's testing you. Hold your ground. D… | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 04:50 AM |
| 0 | How to offer to go down on wemenDo it, bro. Don't listen to these guys telling you not to. They're scared of getting rejected or getting a negative reaction. Women deep down like that type of xxx-rated boldness. Even when they're angry, upset and insult you, deep down they're still thinking about what you said, and when she keeps thinking about it, she gets turned on and ends up wanting you. A girl who really isn't interested. Would just politely tell you she's not. That's from my experience. They just say they don't like it s… | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about escalating in my Situation?So you wanna fuck her? | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?You agreed to be fwb. Why would you care if she's hooking up with other guys? | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why would she text me out of the blue (month or more) after a couple dates, I respond..then she doesn’t reply?You weren't honest. You went on a bunch of dates with her, you didn't express your sexual intentions to her. So nothing happened. No tongue kissing, no blowjob, no sex. So what was the point of going out on multiple dates? You're the one playing games. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 04:06 PM |
| 3 | How to offer to go down on wemen"I know you'd love... to feel my tongue... in your pussy." | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:19 PM |
| 5 | Throw yourself in imperfectly"Most of the time the woman already made up their mind before you opened your mouth and sometimes it has nothing to do with you." 100% Agree. But most guys won't understand this until they've had one night stands. And I mean quick ones (under 30 mins from approach to sex), that doesn't involve alcohol. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Where should you not approach girls?Maybe that applies to you but not all women care. I've had sex with women i met at the gym, on the street (daytime and evening), at the mall, park, resort, store, restaurant, while they were working, while I was working, wedding, bus stop, on the bus etc. Some we'd hook up literally minutes after, the rest would be first time we meet. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Is cold approaching ever out of bounds?I've done it for food delivery. Customers and workers. Got a few numbers. I'd say keep the interaction short, like 1-2 mins. Don't get stuck in 5-10+ min coversations. There are women that'll just talk for the sake of conversation. Find out quick if she's interested in you romantically/sexually. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesI disagree about times changed for the worst. In this time where everything is pro-LGBTQ+ in schools, being an ONLYfans model isn't a big deal, kids for the last 10 years having the easiest access to porn ever, and you got popular songs like WAP, Big Dick Energy etc. I think people are way more open than ever. And I'm not from the 80s. I did this stuff the last couple of years, without having to go to clubs/or use alcohol/drugs. You meet the right woman at the right time and your the right guy w… | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourceslol he's shared this story a few times, it was a 24 hour store in the middle of the night. I believe it, just because I've fucked a few women that I just met quickly, in public places where people could see, did see, and was once even told to stop lol | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How do you not feel bad and upset about teens having more experience than you?Guessing you're american? Just go find a chinese hooker who works out of her condo. Pay her 80 bucks and just go to town for 20 mins. If you wanna lose your virginity that bad. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Need some real, ACTUAL pointers for getting more Second Dates.2 questions Do you think you acted in anyway different on these dates than what her male friends or gay friends would act around her? And If a woman you did not find attractive behaved the same way you did on your dates, towards you, would you be turned on/sexually aroused enough to want to sleep with her? | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesI don't send dick pics unless a girl asks me to send one. You talked about harassment... A guy walks up to you, you decide to not move or walk away. So he leans in, doesn't touch you. He whispers in your left ear, and all he says to you is: that you're gonna go over to his place tomorrow night, so he can see you on your knees with his dick in your mouth. And right away, you tell him you're not interested, or you decide to just ignore him and walk away. In both of these situations he leaves you a… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesThe only risk you mentioned was having your face all over the internet. So? There are people who've been convicted of rape, who've murdered people, who incite genocide, have thousands/millions of fans online. Someone who went up to to a woman and said he wants to see her sucking his dick is as bad or worse than these people? lol I'm definitely gonna start postin field reports soon, because people here really don't believe this shit works. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesYou're saying it's risky. And I'm saying what's the risk? What crime are you committing by telling her you want to have sex? If you have the evidence, post stories of someone who was arrested/covicted for telling a woman he wanted to have sex. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:39 PM |
| -1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesHow is telling a woman, you want to have sex with her "verbal assault"? How are you threatening her life/health/property by saying that? If a woman walked up to you and told you she'd love to have sex with you, she's verbal assaulting you as well? Is your life/health/property threatened? | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesIt does work. Women get sexually aroused by your looks, your behaviour, and/or the words you say. If words didn't get women turned on, than 50 shades of Grey and other erotic books wouldn't be popular among women. Singers wouldn't have women obssessed with them. I've been blasted online before. You don't need to worry about pathetic antisocial men and women, who don't leave their house, who wouldn't ever say shit to your face, telling you to go k*ll yourself. It's fucking comedy when you read th… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesAnything Alan Roger Currie (R.I.P.) https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html he shares 5 seduction stories in detail, if you scroll below and here he shows you how to do the approach (just a 5 min video) https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko you can also go on Audible/Amazon and download his audiobook called "Oooooh..say it again" https://www.amazon.ca/Oooooh-Say-Again-Mastering-Seduction-ebook/dp/B006V2XQ84 | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Approaching someone at the canteen at work. What can happen?pretending to be friends to get laid is fucked up | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Approaching someone at the canteen at work. What can happen?"Here. Take down my number. If you're ever bored after work, just text me at 5pm. You can come over to my place.... and i'll fuck the hell out of you." You gave her your contact info. You stated what you want. And you're giving her the choice to pursue it or not. Now you stand out over every other guy who's trying to coerce by being friendly to get in her pants. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 05:55 PM |
| -2 | Update on approachingPerfect. If u wanna fuck her and make her cum, just tell her. If she says "no" just say ok she'll probably hit u back in a few days, or weeks when she's horny and she's thinking about what you said, picturing herself getting fucked by you., and getting turned on | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 12:42 AM |
| -7 | Update on approaching"cum over thursday night, 9pm I just wanna fuck the shit out of you" | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 12:34 AM |
| -2 | Girl (maybe) losing interest after sex?How would you react if you locked eyes with a guy you found attractive and deep down you wanted him to fuck you..and he just walked up to you, leaned into your left ear and whispered: "I can't wait...to see my dick in your mouth" how would you react? | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually?sex is just sex go see a prostitute | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give upHow would you know if you never tried it hundreds of times? You don't need to say anything else. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give up"I want to have sex with you. Do you want to have sex with me?" That's it, dude. Thats all it is. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Is this a hard no?Hey, you're allowed to believe whatever you want. But then there's reality. And it's that sex is a biological need. Just like eating food, drinking water and getting sleep. It's in our dna. Judging someone for it, isn't gonna do you any favors. Trust me. You're just gonna turn into an incel, mad at the world, alone, jerking off every night. Intellectual/emotional connections, you can get that from close friends and family members. You can get that from gfs/wives to. But if the sex isn't good, or… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give upEven the popular advice is snake oil. From my experiences, I believe that there are women that already want to have sex with you and women that don't. When you approach a woman, your goal/your approach is to identify as quickly as possible, which one she is. "Building rapport/attraction" ,"making her comfortable", "escalating", being funny, go out on multiple dates, talk/text for days on end, just doesn't do that. And any pickup artist, dating coach, anyone recommending this, doesn't know what t… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this a hard no?Single moms have casual sex to. Even when the kid is in the house lol. Even if you're looking to date, I found that it's way better to have sex a few times to see if you have sexual chemistry. And then, if your personalities click you can now decide if you really want to date that person. Focusing on getting to know each other/dating, before even finding out if you have sexual chemistry, I always felt puts you in a place where you can get your feelings hurt when they reject your advances (since … | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this a hard no?The whole conversation was on Teams? She didn't text your number? Do you both work in the office or remote? I definitely agree with you, I wouldn't use company email/chat group to run game lol unless I didn't give a fuck about that job. But I'd probably use teams/email, to just tell her to meet me outside for a few minutes during lunch or at the end of work to talk about something non work related. So then when you're face to face you can get down to the sex talk and invite her over to your plac… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Is this a hard no?It's cool bro. You've been in a relationship for a long time. Just need a mindset change and get your reps in. And yeah that was a vague and friendly text. Imagine a woman sent that to you. Can you picture you two having some hot steamy sex afterwards just by reading that? Think about it. Listen to this (for 20-30 mins) This is the mindset you need. https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E?t=9m59s You can check my comment history as well. I keep re-iterating the same mindset/approach over and over, so peopl… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Is this a hard no?l'm guessing you asked her out on a date? And you were really nice about it? If she got out of a long term relationship, and she doesn't want to jump into another one. Dates probably won't be appealing to her. But just because she got out of a relationship doesn't mean she isn't craving casual sex if the right guy came up to her. Her calling you a nice guy, pretty much tells you how you presented yourself to her. You're not sexually appealing. In her mind, based on your behaviour, she can't pict… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 08:07 PM |
| 2 | What is the best way not to feel negative when you are rejected?Get rejected as quickly as possible. When you invest hours, days, weeks, investing your emotions on one girl, thats when rejection sucks. But if its your first interaction with her, and you were to go up to her and within 10 seconds, you tell her you want to have sex with her or you want her to be your wife/girlfriend. When she says no or ignores you, you're gonna forget about her so fast. You won't even remember what she looks like within a few hours. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give upThat's understandable. Especially when you don't have any experience. But once you try different things, and you start seeing how things turn out, you realize whats bullshit and what isn't. For me, I thought I had to go on multiple dates, talk and text for days, get to know each other, be a funny, caring, polite guy and women would just give me sex. So once I started having sex with women the first time we hung out, or just minutes after approaching her (even by being a jerk). Or having sex with… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terribleWatch this https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E?t=10m3s You're allowed to tell a girl you want to have sex with her. Women love sex more than guys. It's the truth. You're not gonna get slapped. You're not get killed. You're not going to jail. (I've done it so many times, it's never happened) You're literally asking for her consent. And you're gonna feel good about it. Because getting rejected by asking for a date sucks. You take it personal. Having your offer of sex, declined, feels way better. Because … | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 05:50 AM |
| 2 | At what point do you know you just failed and it's time to give upA little long, but I don't want to want to see you give up. You had sex with 2 women, by only using instagram and facebook 50 times. That's impressive. Watch this https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E?t=30m3s Using this method, you'll have sex with women that want to have sex with you, and you won't waste time dealing with women that don't want to have sex with you. This works online, in person, day and night and wherever. Rejection hurts a lot when you ask a girl out on a date. You take it personal. But… | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 05:19 AM |
| 1 | I asked this girl out, she rejected me and says she would, but she has boyfriend and doesn't want to do him like that, ended up giving me her # and said if he every fucks up, she'll let me know. What do I do?1 If you wanted to hook up with her, why ask her out on a date? A date isn't necessary to have sex with her. 2 Since she has a boyfriend and she would cheat, what in her right mind would she go out on a date, and increasing the chance of running into friends or relatives of hers or her boyfriend's while she's with you? That ain't a good scenario for you or her. Solution: just tell her if she's down to just fuck, to text you at so and so time and she can come over to your place. Now she knows you… | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | She said I was too young...Just a tip, bro cause I don't want to see you struggle anymore. You don't need to get to know a woman to have sex with her. And a woman doesn't need to get to know you to have sex with you. You can get to know each other after you've had sex a couple times to see if you want to date. When she swiped on your profile, she already knew if she wanted to hook up with you. Just like when you swiped on hers, you already knew if you wanted to hook up with her. Why do you need to talk about anything else… | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 09:09 PM |
| 2 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongno problem, happy its working for you. just keep at it, and dont worry about dry spells its just being at the right place, right time This is a biological thing, there are times when girls just aren't in the mood to fuck. But right before they get their period, they're horny as fuck. GFs confirm this, so does science lol https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/why-am-i-hornier-at-certain-times-of-the-month | /r/seduction | 05/04/24 01:32 AM |
| 0 | Some girls truly aren’t loyal loljust advice for the next girl, that does the same | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 07:12 PM |
| -4 | Some girls truly aren’t loyal lolShe got some free male attention from you, without giving you some pussy. Should've told her to come to your place as soon as she made out with you. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 05:42 AM |
| 2 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongYeah That feeling is different. On the streets, its a huge rush saying that shit. Asking a girl out on a date or for her # and her saying no. You feel like shit. But telling a girl you wana fuck, her saying no. Feels great. It's fucking weird. I think its cause once a girl tells you she doesn't wanna fuck you, you're turned off by her. And its good you found out sooner than later. That snapchat girl might hit you up again, in the future. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongI'm 35 now. 18-22 I used to be able to get girls to send me nudes. I would have girls grinding on me when I was at the bar/nightclub. Maybe finger a few. But never got laid, didn't know the process. All the advice I was given was be funny, go out on a lot of dates. Make her confortable. So when I would do all that and ask if she wanted to fuck, they'd say: oh you're like a good friend, you're like family. I would get pissed. They're talking shit to me about the guys they fuck, but me the nice gu… | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | I don't get what I'm doing wrongI was you at 18. I definitely know the type of shit you wanna hear. Watch this ("Some men just want sex from women, but they are too afraid to say it" - Alan Roger Currie R.I.P.) : https://youtu.be/q8-SYEJ0E6E Start at 4:25 and here he shows how to do the approach step by step: https://youtu.be/L-CZYxUGBko Here's his old website you can read, where he shares the mindset and gives examples. https://web.archive.org/web/20090414200133/www.geocities.com/modeone2k1/M1-Backstory.html Everything he say… | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Lied to a girl about my ageJust text/call her right now, saying " Hey, I'm not 18. I'm 17." If she says are you serious/for real? just say yea If she gets angry just say ok, or just don't respond, don't even care. It's not even a crime. No ones getting in trouble. If she asks you to apologize.. don't. You told her the truth already. Its done | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | I just gave a waitress my number. It was my first time doing this and i feel it went well, but i dont think she will text me.What if I told her: "I know u wanna get fucked tonight, Take my #. Send me a text after you're done work that says "please fuck me, right now" and I'll send u my address" If she takes my # and texts me what i told her to text me that night. She's clearly interested if not more interested since she took the initiative. She clearly consented. And she wants to comes over. Thats Win, Win, Win. And if she doesn't text me, well I didn't have to invest any of my time texting someone who may or may not … | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman??Escalate as in physically? Like touching their back? Their shoulder/arm? Holding their hands? These are normal things people do with family/friends. Or do you mean sexually? like grabbing their butt, playing with their boobs, kissing them? well you need consent for that first off (because a girl can still file sex assault charges if you never got permission), still doesn't mean you'll end up sleeping with them. I've made out with girls on dates/at nightclubs, they'd rub their butt against me, so… | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Daygame Cold Approach Field ReportsNot gonna diss you for actually approaching. That's awesome. But gotta ask, if the situation was reversed and the girls said the exact same things you said to you. Would you honestly be turned on/horny enough by what they said, to want to sleep with them or get in a relationship? Now think how the girls probably felt then. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Been on 3 first dates this week that went really well, and as a 29 yo man who lives with his folks - how do I navigate Date #2/ getting laid?Just ask at the beginning of the date if they want to go to your place or hers after the date, and mention you stay with your parents. I was at a bar 1 time, and this guy in his 50s pulled one of my gf's friends (in her 30s), back to his home and he lived with his elderly mom. Even a girl that I used to smash(about same age as you) she lived in a nice house in a nice area with her parents, and her ex she'd stay with lived in a small apartment with his parents in the hood. There are women who jus… | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:46 PM |
| 4 | What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman??There's guys you probably find cool/funny/interesting, does that mean you want to sleep with them or be in a romantic relationship? Do you think women are any different? Just because you're entertaining doesn't mean she's turned on or would go out with you. Their gay friends, who they don't sleep with, are entertaining. Their male friends, who they don't sleep with, are entertaining. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 10:20 PM |
| 10 | What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman??Just because she likes talking to you, doesn't mean she'll sleep with you.. You like talking to your friends and family, does that mean you want to have sex with them or be in a romantic relationship? | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Ways to increase attraction during gym dates?If she said that, why would he come on here and ask how to escalate/build attraction with her? Wouldn't he just move on to another girl? And based on your own experiences..how many girls have to told you they won't or will never sleep with you, without you bringing up sex during a conversation? | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Ways to increase attraction during gym dates?The same results apply to everyone. You either end up sleeping with her because she wants to sleep with you. Or you end up not wasting your time trying to run game/rizz with a girl who doesn't want/will never sleep with you. I just dont wanna see u getting your feelings hurt when u spend a whole day with her, and u can't even get a kiss from her. That shit sucks more than any quick rejection. p.s. btw if a girl REALLY wants to sleep with you, she doesn't care who else is in the room. Seen it & e… | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Ways to increase attraction during gym dates?So he shouldn't be upfront and ask for her consent? I listened to an interview with Katie Koestner who was a date rape victim and famous activist against SA, and she says that this approach is the best way to avoid Date Rape/Sexual Assault charges. I've also done this approach many times, and even the women who rejected me said that was the best approach they've heard because it cuts through the BS and both parties are able to be honest with each other. | /r/seduction | 30/03/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Ways to increase attraction during gym dates?Does she live on campus or close by? Just call/text her the day before and tell her, that after the workout, all you wanna do is go to her place after, so you two can fuck. She'll either say yes or no. If she's acting weird, shy, upset or bitchy and is not giving you clear yes or no, just tell her: if you're not interested in having sex with me, you can say no. I'm telling you this because you could end up spending a whole day with a girl who has ZERO interest in you and you're gonna be pissed o… | /r/seduction | 30/03/24 11:01 PM |
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