| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 85 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works) | ClownPrince6 | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 07:07 PM | |
| 9 | How to Hook Up for the first time | ClownPrince6 | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 03:42 PM | |
| 5 | I live next door to a cool bar, how do I use this to my advantage? | ClownPrince6 | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 09:18 PM | |
| 2 | I want a girlfriend. Is this bad for seduction/building attraction? | ClownPrince6 | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 01:07 PM | |
| 2 | Got a girls number at a party, what do/how | ClownPrince6 | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 04:34 AM | |
| 2 | Cannot Sustain Attraction | ClownPrince6 | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 06:59 PM | |
| 1 | Looking For An Image/Link About Mens Groups | ClownPrince6 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 09:01 PM | |
| 0 | Young, Purple Pill, Seeking Advice/Answers | ClownPrince6 | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 03:38 PM |
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| 2 | Went 0 for 5 tonightKeep approaching and learning/reflecting on the interactions; even though you didn't pull, that is the best way to learn. Also, don't try and look for IOIs, it's the wrong frame. She should be reacting and responding to you, not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I want a girlfriend. Is this bad for seduction/building attraction?Okay cheers, so by screening what exactly do you mean? Would that be getting certain info from the girl that matters to you, like asking questions about herself? Also what is conversation threading? | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I want a girlfriend. Is this bad for seduction/building attraction?Okay cheers, that's interesting. I've been a bit like that in the past with the 'she could be the one' mindset, it does put so much pressure on yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | I want a girlfriend. Is this bad for seduction/building attraction?Thanks for your comment, that's really helpful. So perhaps I should approach things as 'I want to meet great girls and have a connection with people' not just 'want-a-girlfriend'. Do you know of any tips/advice for avoiding coming across as needy/desperate? I wouldn't describe myself as 'desperate', more just that I know I want a relationship. | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.These are your best bets to meet girls at college Societies/Clubs Parties Before/During/After Class | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Keeping a conversation going with a shy girl without it feeling like interviewing her.Yeah man, you were unlucky I think. Try and hit the girl up if you can, but keep it moving with other girls either way. | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 06:12 PM |
| 13 | Keeping a conversation going with a shy girl without it feeling like interviewing her.You were probably right to leave it when they were arguing, there's no point getting involved with that. I think you were just unlucky or maybe left it too late to return to her. Either way, I think if you would have gone back to see her once the bickering had stopped you would have probably pulled. Also, you can try and make her invest more by being like "you can leave if you want to.." that's quite a strong move and if the girl is really shy it'll backfire, but it does work really well in my e… | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Not sure how to go about 'asking a girl back to your house'I've not tried this myself but I recently saw an RSD video where Julien would just say "after-party?" and frame it as if there's an after-party at his place (but they both not there's not). He said it almost always works, and only one time a girl was like 'wtf where's the after-party?'. Might be worth trying out. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Avoid froend zone without being sleazy - examples?Kiss her as soon as possible. | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know what to do once I bring a girl to my room..Just think this: You've already done the hard part by getting her to like you enough to go into your room with you. You know she likes you by that point. After that, the pressure or nervousness should be off, as you've already got her there. Once there, you just have to relax and enjoy being with her. Escalate physically as you see fit and at the right pace for both of you. | /r/seduction | 12/01/19 08:28 PM |
| 3 | How to I initiate a kiss?I don't think it has to be a 'linear' process, like first hug her, then hold her waist, then kiss he etc. You'll probably want to make some physical contact before you kiss her, but don't think too much about it. I posted here recently about eye contact and I also think that's crucial to initiating a kiss, it can be like a tractor-beam that pulls you two closer together, you can just kiss her without saying anything. Another way of doing it is what I did around the age of 16/17 on a date with th… | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works)Not sure I know what you mean... Just don't have a weird or overly intense expression. If you can sense it makes her uncomfortable than stop, though if she is receptive to you eye contact then keep it up. It should be easy to tell in the moment. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works)Thanks, I've been aware of this actually as I once watched a Michael Caine interview where he spoke about his delivering lines to another actor during a close-up shot. He said the he picked one eye to look into as it made him look 'less nervous' just as you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works)I think the key to this is that you said you "checked her out", rather than 'made eye-contact'. The two are very different; eye contact is a lot more 'honest' and girls respond much more positively to that rather than being 'checked out'. Don't worry about it though mate, everyone has to start somewhere and learn from their mistakes. Don't let it knock your future confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works)I agree, that's a great point about how girls are more receptive to eye contact than men. During a conversation, it can be like a tractor-beam pulling you closer together. | /r/seduction | 09/01/19 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works)Haha, first to look away looses! | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 08:38 PM |
| 11 | Eye Contact (My experience and why it works)Yeah I'm certainly talking about the latter. Don't 'death stare' a girl or you'll come across like a psychopath haha. | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 08:34 PM |
| 3 | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?Then pull the trigger and ask her out. Make her your girl by taking her out on dates and spending time with her etc. Until you do that, she has every right to flirt with whoever she likes. | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Social Media and WomenThe thing thats really difficult is that it boosts women's naturally hypergamous nature to a point where men that are in her league, or even a bit above it, are still not good enough in her eyes, because she believes she has all these other options she can 'swipe' through on Tinder or people on her IG/SC. Social media is basically set up to favour women, particularly IG, as men are more 'visual' in terms of how they become attracted to people. So what you end up with is a source constantly valid… | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approached....What are you talking about? Who is "he"?....(who actually cares haha). | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedI don't get what your saying re: we should "avoid the mindset of projecting why "we" might do something onto an action other people might have"...that sentence doesn't make sense. Either way, I would suggest that it's best not to put too much weight on the girls signals at the start of the interaction (or before the interaction has even begun!) and instead focus on her reactions as it's happening. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | General behavior patterns to identify if a girl wants to be approachedHow about this: instead of obsessing over minute potential signs that she may or may not want you to approach her - you just approach her. Who cares? As RSD Julien says 'calibrate after the fact (after the approach)'. It's such a low-value mindset... You may as well just assume she open for the approach and go for it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 09:45 AM |
| 1 | still haven't even kissed a girl and i'm about to turn 23.Then sack up and start cold-approaching girls. There's no excuse for being bad at interacting with girls. Either you're a natural (rare) or you're not very good (like most guys) and so the responsibility lies squarely on your shoulders to get good by taking risks, talking to girls and figuring out what works/what doesn't. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 10:45 AM |
| 4 | still haven't even kissed a girl and i'm about to turn 23.I'd recommend expanding your social circle, even it's just more guy friends. Inevitably, as your circle increases you'll get invited to parties and events and there will be women there. Having a good group of friends including guys/girls and looking a like a normal, sociable type of guy produces 'social proof' and this can go a long way in meeting lots of girls and coming from a good starting point in the interaction. You've said that you don't do cold approach, so this is the other option; meet… | /r/seduction | 06/05/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to Hook Up for the first timeOkay, thanks man. I actually live next door to a bar so this could be very useful! | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | I approached a girl for the first time todayThere is no courage without fear. Well done man. | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 11:57 AM |
| 2 | How to Hook Up for the first timeI have, and that's something positive I'll take from this interaction, wether anything comes of it or not. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How to Hook Up for the first timeYeah that's kind of what I'm asking; I could ask her out for drinks but I don't know how that leads to hooking up etc. It seems to *forward to just invite her over to my house. | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 10:49 PM |
| 5 | How do i change her mindNever ask or vocalize being in a relationship until she brings it up. Just behave how you want to; ask her on dates, kiss her, invite her round your place etc. Escalate interactions as you see fit. It's way more natural than just asking "are you my girlfriend yet?". | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 01:36 PM |
| 7 | I think l’m just mentally fucked.You shouldn't base your actions on what you interpret or 'read' from women; that's the wrong frame to have in your mind. Come from the perspective that you're superior or, at the very least, equal to every girl you try and game. If things are going well, escalate, go in for the the kiss if you want; if she rejects it, don't apologize, just smile and carry on talking to her as if it didn't even phase you. That shows high value. Generally speaking the phrase 'who dares wins' is a really important … | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 10:40 PM |
| – | Strategy: How To Pull My Teacher?It's not illegal in the UK, only 'frowned upon'. I've actually looked into this, apparently it's only illegal if it is not consensual (obviously), or that there's evidence to show that it created a bias over the students assessments. So it's basically fine. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 04:43 PM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling so fucking bad about not succeeding with women?You should feel bad. If you suck with women, get better. That's the only way to improve and feel better about women. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I live next door to a cool bar, how do I use this to my advantage?Okay cool, as someone else said, not mention that I live next door until closing, keep it casual. Sounds good to me! | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:25 PM |
| 8 | I live next door to a cool bar, how do I use this to my advantage?Haha, one time I was in bed late at night, and they had a live singer/guitarist performing. He started covering some of my favourite tunes, but soon said that he had reached the end of his set due to a 'noise curfew' in bars. I then threw on some track bottoms, went downstairs, walked on stage and said something to the guy like "I live next door, and it's fine, carry on!" and the guy continued with like 5 more songs. I got a free beer from the landlady as well lol | /r/seduction | 07/02/18 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Young, Purple Pill, Seeking Advice/AnswersReally interesting, thanks for your reply. I think the fact that men love much more deeply than women ever could has been the hardest 'pill' to swallow. Its so sad, in a way, that men will never experience truly reciprocal love from a woman. So, always remaining of a higher value to the woman would be a good way to keep a bond. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Young, Purple Pill, Seeking Advice/AnswersThanks for your reply, I though it was obvious, but the 'three good women' are my Mum and her two sisters that I mentioned earlier in the post. They're loyal, happy, family orientated women who are happy to, and want, a strong male to lead them and their famlies. The point is that, I, and many other young men, need 'the eggs'. I have an awesome relationship with my Father, and he with his Father. And I want to pass on this linage, life lessons, heritage etc. to my future son. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with another guy hitting on my girl?Look, here's what you do. Pull the guy aside and tell him quietly that it's not funny anymore and he needs to stop asking my girlfriend to fuck. If he continues, I'd see that as a personal insult and k.o the guy. Don't talk to your girl about it, it's not her fault if some guy starts hitting on her. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 08:57 AM |
| 2 | What’s your biggest regret in dating?Not picking up on signs that girls are into me. Not having the self confidence (as a teenager) to even think that the girl I liked even could be into me; but looking back, I can tell that she was. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 10:57 PM |
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