Hi Guys,

There's a girl I met a few weeks ago at a bar with friends, as part of a college event. I wasn't trying to game her as I'd had a few sets that night which didn't really work out, so after that I was just enjoying the night with friends. Somehow though, everything clicked really well with this girl that night and since then she added me on Fb, started messaging me and even invited me out to go to this concert at my college (which I was going to anyway). I went and we got drinks after and again it went really well. Since then she has been messaging me out of the blue, trying to get me to talk to her etc.

Now that college has started again, I'm thinking it would be a good idea to escalate with this girl and maybe hook up. I had a long-term gf in the past, but thats really all my experience with girls and it would be my first time hooking up. I do not want a relationship, but I would like to get more experience with girls and have fun whilst I'm in college. So what would be the best way to go about this? I can tell she's not the type of girl who hooks up with lots of guys, as she seems kind of shy/quiet and I don't usually see her at parties etc.

Also, I can already anticipate the 'friend zoned' comments because we haven't done anything physical; we have a very flirty vibe and this was 'verified' by a friend who was hanging out with us the second time we met, he said something like "thought I'd leave you two alone that evening as I didn't want to 3rd wheel"

Thanks!