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Just came back to check on this sub after a couple years away! Great list and glad to see the seductionists are staying classy! Personally I would say #5 can be a situational red flag. Its easy to say that you'll cut off all toxic people but when you're actually in that situation it can get a lot more difficult. I'd just put that down as someone I'd be willing to date but I'd like her to work on that. Also imo #8 should be higher! Relationships are all about having fun at the end of the day :)
/r/seduction03/04/24 01:38 AM
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I was kinda joking but I wanted to be clear, oneitis is only pursuing a single specific girl at a time thus limiting your options as well as turning that specific girl off. But ain't nothin wrong about dreamin' about finding a really nice girl to settle down with.
/r/seduction20/02/21 04:29 PM
8

This is so true. I can't see any problem from your description. If you posted a video than it may turn out to be something super obvious. Maybe you could have your friend film you while you approach/talk to someone?
/r/seduction11/11/18 05:50 PM
2

You're thinking too far into this. If a girl's says, "Let's go ice skating!", then go ice skating. Don't think too much about it.
/r/seduction30/08/18 06:35 PM
1

I mean it's only natural that you get more unwanted attention as you become more physically attractive. That's not really avoidable. I just hope that you'll find the benefits of leading a healthier life much greater than the negatives.
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:34 PM
33

Hold up for a second here. Do you know the point of escalation? It's to turn on a girl in order to reach a short-term goal, i.e. getting her to come home with you, kissing her, having sex, etc. Is your goal to fuck a girl in the middle of class? I sure hope not. Look, when you're in a class just focus on being attractive. In other words, make sure those smiles are top notch, you seem really driven in the class and enjoy the material, you are an really interesting person to talk to, etc. Over tim…
/r/seduction29/08/18 12:39 AM
1

So you're probably not going to be good at having sex with her. In this situation, even if you managed to overcome your fears it would likely not end well for you if you lead. It's just not possible to take charge when having sex with a girl if you're a virgin. So my recommendation is to simply admit to the girl that you're inexperienced. As long as you don't act to insecure about it, most girls are happy to take the lead for a bit and help you out.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:12 PM
3

Oh hey! I'm at BYU and I grew up in Provo!
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:57 AM
1

I think that'll be a solid/safe choice ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:57 AM
1

Yes. Just do something else that isn't a scary movie.
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:11 AM
1

Well I mean of course you got left on read. If you said, "No worries" then she'll just assume you decided to watch a scary movie anyway, just without her.
/r/seduction26/08/18 08:53 PM
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Actually that's not a rejection. Some people just really hate scary movies. In fact I'm one of those people. If I watch a scary movie I know I will get some vivid and horrific nightmares. I steer clear of scary movies like the plague. Anyway I would just respond with a, "Dang that's fine." and hit her up another week to do something else.
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:47 AM
1

That is kinda long. But there is something that may have made her response time longer. When you text a girl you want her to have to not think to much. That's why it's recommended you send a text asking her to do something with you very directly. Often with a time/place. Answering to the text "wyd" is actually not that easy and takes some thinking because it's so open ended. It's also so casual that it's easy to forget about it/blow off. If you had just gone like, "Hey! You free rn? I'm honestly…
/r/seduction26/06/18 01:20 AM
4

I don't think you understand how girls think in this situation. Girls are simply much value high-value than most guys are. Consider the following two examples. If a guy gets a text from a girl he is interested in, he will likely at least feel the urge to respond immediately. Because why not? Girls are really important! Maybe he'll play it cool or whatever, but the bottom line is the guy will think a lot about that text. But if a girl gets a text from a guy she is interested in, she will think so…
/r/seduction25/06/18 09:25 PM
15

You noticed how you got a girl only after you decided to just have fun? Congrats, you've just discovered the true nature of good game. Just have fun and don't think too much about it.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:44 PM
1

Good points for both girls and guys!
/r/seduction23/04/18 11:55 PM
1

Seduction is a good way to get girls to like you. But making them see you as a friend is another ballpark.
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:41 PM
2

I want to make the note that you should never reveal all your cards. Even when you're in a relationship. Revealing all your cards makes you boring.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:11 PM
1

That's on you! I'm the exact same as you. I'm good looking but I don't have many friends. But it doesn't hold me back at all. Just don't be ashamed about being an introvert. It does suck and make sure to admit you'd like more friends, but don't make a huge deal out of it. I do get shit tested occasionally but I just shrug and say, "I'm just not good with people I guess haha." It's a good chance to show some humble self depreciation.
/r/seduction21/04/18 01:42 AM
3

Ask to hang out > I like you. Good luck!
/r/seduction17/04/18 07:37 PM
1

I like to divide seduction into three phases. The first phase is where you have no idea what you're doing and you're going through this long period of rejection. But you are learning. This phase ends when you get your first success. Que the second phase. This is where you know what you're doing sort of. You start getting some successes and some lays. But for some reason you're still not happy. That's because you still fail. And when you fail in the game of seduction, you fail hard. The game of s…
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:06 PM
1

I would have just said, "Fine, whatever." And walked away. Confident men don't care what others think remember?
/r/seduction15/04/18 05:53 PM
2

From my experience, there's definitely a balance there that one has to play around with to really figure it out. But when asked directly about whether or not you're hitting on her, it's probably best to just be straightforward. That's because mystery comes from two things in tandem. One, the girl doesn't know everything about you. Two , the girl doesn't see a clear way to find out more about you. So it becomes kind of a game to find about more about you. When she directly asks you (i.e. there's …
/r/seduction11/04/18 09:39 PM
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THIS. Stop trying to think of clever lines. Just state your intent.
/r/seduction11/04/18 08:33 PM
26

Got laid like a thousand times with the same girl. Get yoself a girlfriend bro.
/r/seduction29/03/18 06:13 AM
14

Nah lol I'm in mormonville Provo.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:21 PM
40

Sure lol. I Was 18 and really bad at driving. Also I was on a first date with a older girl who was way better at driving. So I was trying to get into a tight spot and the girl was telling me how to do it. After I parked the car as I was getting out I looked at her, smiled, and patted her head saying, "Thanks, you're really good at that!" She melted on the spot lol and was super shy and awkward for a little bit after.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:42 PM
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My secret weapon are head pats.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:15 PM
1

Yeah haha you're probably right. But I think that's so small it wouldn't have mattered either way.
/r/seduction21/03/18 04:36 PM
2

Well put.
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:46 AM
6

Say you do get someone obviously more attractive than her. How do you get her to see? My point is you can't just send her a pic and go like, "Haha I got this super hot girl to love me. Sooooo.........."
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:23 AM
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XD yeah who gives a shit. We're only human after all.
/r/seduction13/03/18 10:05 PM
1

Haha don't think to deep into it. It's supposed to be simple remember? I made it clear I needed her schedule because I wanted to go out with her. Once she does, then I'll pick a specific time.
/r/seduction11/03/18 06:50 AM
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That's one of the fuck ups. But another fuck up is when he doesn't set a specific time. Women like men who have the decisiveness to say let's do this here and at this time.
/r/seduction10/03/18 09:53 PM
2

No problem. The key difference isn't the nature of what you ask for but rather how you go about doing it. In the first two cases there exists the possibility of being highly indecisive. That's what turns a girl off. However, as long as you're very clear with your intentions (i.e. "Let's hang out some time! What's your schedule like this coming week?"), the first two cases are pretty straightforward ways to set up a date. I'd also like to point out that asking a girl out should usually be simple,…
/r/seduction10/03/18 04:46 PM
1

I do a toss up between the following: -Ask her for her schedule and plan something when she's free. -Invite her to something I'm doing the following weekend. -Take her somewhere on the spot and then leave.
/r/seduction10/03/18 05:47 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction09/03/18 08:30 PM
18

Nice guy: Hi Sarah, I was wondering if you are free sometime this weekend to hang out? It's fine if you don't feel like it. Bad boy: Come hang out tonight at my place. Good guy: Heeeyy Sarah! Are you free 7PM tonight? I'm going to go biking tonight. So if you're free come along!
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:49 PM
4

I assure you it's not a myth when you do it right. Maybe mystery is useless on the first date but in the long run you have to be mysterious to a degree or the girl will stop chasing you.
/r/seduction09/03/18 07:45 PM
1

She's still interested but is mad at you and is trying to passively aggressively tell you to man up during sex. How do you man up next time? Well here are some things you can do: -Instead of going, "Soooo what do you want to do?" Go like, "Let's do __." Girls like men with direction. Don't ask her what she wants to do. Tell her we're going to do __. Of course if she's uncomfortable doing something you should notice the cue (she'll be like, "Ehhh maybe next time?") and switch gears. -Give her som…
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:32 AM
1

In it of itself, being a loner/introverted isn't a turn off. It is a turn off when a man isn't pursuing his own interests else where, though. Source: Am loner. Still gets girls.
/r/seduction06/03/18 12:48 AM
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I've read your post history. Your "fucboi" style works simply because it is just so attractive at the spur of the moment. Your body language skills are supreme and I'm sure you dominate the field at bars or clubs. But. Being a seducer is so much more than just having good body language. You need to be good at intelligent conversation, have a good but conservative sense of humor, an attractive sense of direction, the ability to maintain mystery, etc. Anyway from what I can tell for you, you're ab…
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:14 AM
1

You were at it for too long before making some kind of action and she got bored. Here is something you could have done. Say you need to leave early, let's hang out some time, get her number, and leave the party. Simple, easy, and effective.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:56 AM
3

Alphas are usually more quiet. You are supposed to generate an image of not needing to try and yet still being the leader while everyone else needs to try pretty hard to even gain attention. How that is done exactly varies between people. For example, if you are exceptionally good-looking, then you instantly become alpha without saying anything as all the women in the group are attracted to you and all the men in the group are wary of you. Same thing goes for if you are a very like-able person. …
/r/seduction01/03/18 06:23 PM
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A tiny bit of awkwardness is a definite turn on as it makes you appear more human and more genuine.
/r/seduction01/03/18 06:29 AM
4

It's impossible to answer that question. There are just far too many combinations that may end up working or not working.
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:48 AM
5

I like some parts of this. But I disagree with other parts. Here's my take on your thoughts: Hide the bad boy side and only show it occasionally. Being a 100% bad boy isn't a sustainable way to hold attraction as it gets old fast. Instead, just when she thinks she has figured you out as the good boy who would never stare at her tits and smirk at her, pull out that fucboi side. As an added plus doing this spikes your mystery factor up. The fucboi haircut works not because it makes you look like a…
/r/seduction27/02/18 06:37 AM
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In it of itself, being a loner/introverted isn't a turn off. It is a turn off when a man isn't pursuing his own interests else where, though. So instead of doing nothing on weekends, do things like go on hiking trips, join salsa club, etc. Do this even if you don't know anyone in those events.
/r/seduction12/02/18 06:03 PM
3

Don't ever show your paranoia ever. Even if you have those thoughts, hide them. Having those thoughts show insecurity and insecurity is a big, big turn off.
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:20 AM
4

I just stand there and smile. If I'm directly addressed like, "Your boyfriend looks like a wimp." I just smile. In my head I'm like, boy that's not how you make a woman fall in love you lol.
/r/seduction03/01/18 01:13 AM
7

Then pay the 15 bucks to get that haircut every two weeks god damn it.
/r/seduction02/01/18 06:16 AM
1

I had the same problem. I then adapted my style to a more introverted style of confidence. I talked way less and let the girl talk far more. Body language (i.e. smiling, eye contact, etc.) becomes more important in displaying confidence. It makes things easier in a lot of ways. For example, when a girl tests me, instead of thinking of some clever one-liner to respond, I literally just smirk/smile and I pass the test. But yeah, I like this style a lot more because I suck at conversation when I'm …
/r/seduction31/12/17 04:37 PM
1

I'm in Provo, Utah and go to BYU. Just pretend you're open to joining the church.
/r/seduction29/12/17 06:31 PM
2

The other guy offers some good points. But I think it's alright to keep on going with her. Any girl that I've dated consistently in the past, I've had bad dates with. Made mistakes, was awkward, was stupid, etc. Just simply had more good dates than bad dates lol. I feel like it's impossible to have 100% perfect game.
/r/seduction29/12/17 02:17 AM
1

Girls are confusing. Maybe she's a player. Maybe she really wants you as a friend. Whatever. Don't get bogged down with trying to understand why a girl flakes. That never works. Just move on.
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:49 AM
1

Nah, I'd say only meet up if she explicitly asks to.
/r/seduction24/12/17 02:10 AM
1

Well the reason you should move one is because the best chance you have is for her text to you back after you ghost her for a little. That is your best shot. Anyway I think you did alright. You didn't have perfect game, i.e. you didn't move fast enough, but girls rarely expect guys to have perfect game anyway. You seem to have done most other things pretty well though and I think normally that would have been good enough. My bet is you just got unlucky and she found someone else right around the…
/r/seduction24/12/17 01:10 AM
1

Unhealthy hair just looks rougher and dryer. I might be able to tell you how to make it look healthier but you need to tell me how you care for your hair first.
/r/seduction19/12/17 12:11 AM
4

Your hair seems somewhat unhealthy. How do you care for your hair?
/r/seduction18/12/17 08:33 AM
0

For real though.
/r/seduction11/12/17 06:34 PM
1

No prob! I'd also like to mention that this style works especially well if you're good at being a little bit of a bad boy. For example, sometimes when I'm talking to a girl I'll let my eyes fall down to her chest for a little bit and then back up. This makes the girl think, "Wait did this shy and seemingly innocent guy just check my boobs out? Who is he?" Really builds up that mysterious factor.
/r/seduction10/12/17 10:28 AM
3

I'm actually by nature a shy person. But I've since learned to turn that into a positive thing! I have a much more quiet way of seducing. When talking with a girl I just ask a few questions every once a while to steer the conversation and let the girl do most of the talking. The trick is to be confident at the same time. Even though you are a bit quiet you are still smiling, giving eye contact, glancing at her lips, etc. I find it works just as well as the talkative way of seduction except the m…
/r/seduction10/12/17 10:13 AM
1

Well yeah. You still have to think about how to keep your girlfriend's attraction going, so that takes some skill and effort. But all of that is so much easier when you two are official so you end up worrying about it less.
/r/seduction04/12/17 03:55 AM
1

It's fine if you want to get a tattoo but it won't make you more attractive. It might diminish your attractiveness though.
/r/seduction03/12/17 11:24 PM
3

I don't really see what you are looking for. But there is no such thing as text game. Texting is purely used to arrange meet ups.
/r/seduction03/12/17 09:40 PM
1

Get a girlfriend. Then you'll worry about it less.
/r/seduction03/12/17 09:02 PM
1

Same with every other girl.
/r/seduction03/12/17 09:02 PM
0

You're taking this beya cuck shit way to far. It's fine to go like, "Hey I need to piss. Let me use your bathroon." Or, "Yeah I'm totally lost, come pick me up. " Geez alphas aren't Gods.
/r/seduction02/12/17 06:33 PM
1

This is interesting because normally people ask, "How will I get others to like me?" But you're question is almost the opposite. "How will I get myself to like others?" First of all, it doesn't matter that you suck at dating. This is because guys, in all honesty, are very shallow. So while guys need game, girls just need to be hot. As long as you got that, you'll have guys going for you. As for your fears of physical contact and such, I have a question. What type of guys are these? Are they expe…
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:10 PM
2

Nice fitting white t-shirt with nice fitting faded jeans
/r/seduction24/11/17 06:40 PM
1

You don't need anything super confident. Just say, "Hey! What's your name?"
/r/seduction24/11/17 12:42 AM
1

I usually don't say anything in a situation like that. Just give a cute smile and move on.
/r/seduction24/11/17 12:33 AM
2

Always imagine that you haven't quite won over your girl. This way you'll always be thinking to yourself things like, "Oh I have to kiss her tonight or she'll get bored." or "Oh I have to be mysterious for Friday night or she won't chase me." etc. Be creative and try things you've never tried before to keep things fresh.
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:39 PM
15

Well for starters you don't ask. You start by kissing her. Then making out. And escalate slowly from there.
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:36 PM
9

Sorry gillieboy123, I'm going to have to partly disagree with you. Yes ask her out again. But he shouldn't even mention the terrible kiss. Act like it was no big deal and you forgot about it.
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:38 PM
8

No, as you get more experienced you'll come to realize that the small things aren't actually that big of a deal. The bigger problem is you thinking too much about it and trying to fix it, thus coming off needy. Just forget about it and move on. If it brings you comfort, I always make such mistakes when dating pretty girls. But overall, I've got a lot more good than bad so I do fine.
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:35 PM
3

I've dated many girls where I was obviously somewhat nervous at first. It's not that big of a deal so long as you can build connection later.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:29 PM
1

This is a pretty alien situation to deal with, but I think you're problem is probably that you're too confident. It's true that a confident girl is a hot girl. But a confident girl is also scary. I think being more shy/awkward would fix your problem. With no experience on the subject, articulating in words exactly how to perform "shy game" successfully is difficult. So I'll just offer an example. The first girl in this video does the shy thing pretty well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prweTGR…
/r/seduction26/10/17 03:15 PM
2

You must be pretty good looking. I mean it's been this long and she's still the one chasing. But I'm a little confused... Why can't you just sit back and let her chase you?
/r/seduction23/10/17 05:08 PM
1

I think something like that is just practice.
/r/seduction20/10/17 04:39 PM
2

That's kind of disrespectful.
/r/seduction20/10/17 04:36 PM
1

They're about as effective as the 6 pool rush from Starcraft or the four move checkmate from chess. In other words, nothing more than a gimmick.
/r/seduction20/10/17 09:38 AM
2

I'd like to add to that. Doing what S3xcb3ard mentioned (nice name) is actually not that hard. Simply keep the same mindset as before the two of you got together, i.e. being a seducer (with some small changes). Some men might complain, "Does that mean that we are always working; there is never a time to let loose?" Yup, always seduce until the two of you are on your deathbeds.
/r/seduction19/10/17 08:06 PM
1

Then take a little time out of homework to take a nap in preparation for social interactions. You should take your social life more seriously.
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:16 AM
2

It will do you no good messaging her while she is away. Yes she may lose interest. But there's nothing you can do against that.
/r/seduction17/10/17 06:26 AM
5

I don't really believe in "texting game". I always get the girl to invest in person. Then texting is just used to set up dates. Here's an example of my typical text conversations: Her: Sarah. Let's hang out some time! Me: What's your schedule like this week Her: Oh well, I'm busy Tuesday and Thursday, but Monday I'm pretty free :). Me: Haha well let's hang Monday at 8PM, I'll pick you up. What do you say Her: Ok! Sounds good! Simple, quick, and direct. Not too much emotion required. Response tim…
/r/seduction16/10/17 11:38 PM
1

Uh... this guy is kinda bad.
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:59 AM
1

Laidback settings. Like the baking club or the ping pong club.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:49 PM
1

I'd just calmly be my normal attractive self. He's fighting an uphill battle. No way he can beat me in that kind of position lol.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:44 PM
1

Oh haha actually me too. Shy guy here. Anyway at this point there's like only a 50/50 chance you can turn it around. Next time you see her get her number. As you guys have already talked a lot and she already knows who you are, you'll want to just do this straight up, "Hey what's your number?" or "Hey let's hang out sometime." Then set up a date within a couple of days.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:39 PM
1

You could wear a toupee. A toupee is virtually indistinguishable from real hair. The only issue is that it needs to re-glued once every three weeks. Here's a video that depicts what it is pretty well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eCJd0Wr9sm4
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:30 PM
1

It's because you didn't ask her out soon enough. Like duh...
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:26 PM
1

You need to sound less serious and more carefree. What do I mean by this? Let me ask you this. During this discussion about this girl did you ever chuckle, smile, go off topic for a little, or make a little joke? Then at the end did you finish off with a shrug and a whatever? Or did you just stare at her with a solemn face while telling your dreary story?
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:08 PM
1

I never actually played "hard to get". If I'm interested in a girl, I make it fairly clear. However, at the same time I make it clear that she's still fairly far from winning me over. Which is also true as I do have other options.
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:29 PM
11

Haha that's actually pretty cute. On hindsight it's probably actually a good thing to appear a tiny bit inexperienced. It makes a guy more human/relatable to the girl.
/r/seduction09/10/17 01:24 PM
3

Haha perfect example proving that you don't need to be perfect to win out. Great job OP and keep learning.
/r/seduction09/10/17 01:19 PM
3

When you're at a bar or something and you approach a girl, you put the girl in a position of power. She immediately realizes you are trying to hit on her and immediately starts putting you to the test. In a baking club, she thinks, "Oh he's not here for me, he's here because he wants to bake." And when you guys are just spinning dough, she expects you to talk to her, or it would be super awkward. In other words you don't even appear like you are "flirting". You can just focus on having a fun con…
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:23 AM
1

I don't think they're turned off you don't have a car. Dating someone is just hard for a woman if the man doesn't have a car.
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:14 AM
2

Join uni clubs. Like baking club, running club, etc. People underestimate the power of casual settings lol.
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:13 AM
3

Keep on dating, eventually it will start to feel more natural.
/r/seduction04/10/17 11:05 PM
2

I think that falls under "predictability and boringness are enemies of attraction", right? Yeah, that's exactly right.
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:41 PM
1

Imagine you with your best friend. Another human being. Do you joke around way too much/try to hard with your best friend? No. Treat dates like humans bro.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:42 PM
3

I think I can offer a less extreme version of that. Yes you should be just as invested as your partner. But even during a relationship you should keep a girl chasing after you just a little. Edit: Keyword, JUST A LITTLE.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:34 PM
0

Ignore him. This guy seems super needy and is far from a charmer. He's got nothing on you. If you react it will seem quite insecure. Just realize that you'll crush him without even doing anything.
/r/seduction20/09/17 05:07 PM
1

Join uni clubs. The ones that girls join. Like the baking club.
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:39 AM
1

No sometimes a girl is genuinely busy.
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:36 AM
1

There's no such thing as texting game. You should make a girl be attracted to you in person. Then just use texting as a way to see her more in person. In fact my text convos are pretty bland tonewise: Me: You free tomorrow night? Her: Yeah I am!! Did you want to do anything :)? Me: Haha ok let's go _____
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:03 AM
1

Don't focus on flirting. Have a good and fun conversation about your life and her life. Keep those RSD tricks in the back of your head because they'll be helpful when certain situations come up. However your focus should be, "Hey you are an interesting person and I want to know more about you!" Not, "I'm going to push your buttons to make you want to have sex with me."
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:48 PM
1

It means you could be a 10 if you worked out, figured out how to do your hair, dressed right, and learned how to talk to girls.
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:47 PM
1

Use shampoo less and get a blowdryer. Also many other things. If you're bad at something you should figure out how to get better lol.
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:45 PM
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Alomg with developing your confidence like the other commentors said, you should also make sure you are trying your best to look as attractive as possible: -Do you have a lean athletic looking body. -Do you understand what hairstyle suits your face. -Do you understand how to dress properly. -Etc.
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:43 PM
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What's your height and weight?
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:36 PM
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You can always ask her, "Can I kiss you?" with a confident smile. If a girl is already really into you it should work. It's really not as bad of an idea as the people on here lead you to believe. Sure it's not as sexy as speaking with just your eyes, but it'll get the job done.
/r/seduction10/09/17 05:51 PM
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Don't flirt. Have a good conversation about her life and your life.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:22 AM
1

Smiles and eye contact man. If she smiles at you wave her over or say hey, it won't be awkward if you've already made non-verbal exchange.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:18 AM
2

Dude the rules should be something to help you along the way if you're a little confused. For example, if she seems to be getting a little bored then you think to yourself, "Oh! She probably wants me to escalate!" Seduction shouldn't be some formula you plug and chug. Internalize a few things but when you're with a girl just have fun and get to know each other. Focus on the bigger picture.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:13 AM
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Just a dark sexy smile without saying anything will do fine.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:03 AM
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Oh ok thanks.
/r/seduction12/08/17 03:48 PM
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This is pretty natural. It happens to everyone. Someone who is too easy is just not as interesting.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:27 AM
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If you are really good at girls it will eventually look easy to other people. You will appear like you aren't even flirting with them. In reality there's so much going on with your body language, the way you guide the conversation with short phrases, etc.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:23 AM
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Tell him to work out. That was my first step. I was like wow I can get hotter. I wonder how hot I can get. Sorry I'm tired it's late.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:19 AM
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Don't flirt. Just have an interesting conversation about your life and her life.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:16 AM
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I feel like you should be touching her from the very beginning. A random touch near the end is bound to feel weird.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:15 AM
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Probably you were to slow. They wanted you to ask them out or something. You didn't so they moved on.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:51 AM
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Yup exactly. Fitness comes first. Though tailoring really only matters for shirts in my opinion.
/r/seduction09/08/17 05:12 AM
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Damn man. Must have hurt for girls to only use you for your body. What was it like being a young fuckboi senpai?
/r/seduction09/08/17 04:40 AM
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I tweeked it a tad but how about: Hey you seem pretty fun! I'm going to (cool local bar) tomorrow night. Meet me there!
/r/seduction09/08/17 04:26 AM
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Haha true true. But looks matter for men to lol.
/r/seduction09/08/17 04:25 AM
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Oh hihihi! This is my area! Seduction for hot guys is a tad different. But let's get down to the obvious first. When you're online, after having a decent SHORT convo, be direct and ask her out, i.e. hey let's grab a drink at X place at Y time. Same concept goes for texting a girl you just met. Texting is purely for getting girls out (still keep it a little fun though or you're gonna appear like a businessman lol). Now what to do in person? Since you're fairly attractive she will probably be aski…
/r/seduction09/08/17 03:37 AM
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That would be pretty helpful haha! My personal tip is to just join an art club or something like that. That's probably THE most effective environment out of any place to pick up women.
/r/seduction09/08/17 03:26 AM
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Well you can start by getting fit, figuring how to do your hair right, and earning a sense of style.
/r/seduction09/08/17 03:17 AM
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You: What are you doing X day haha. Her: Lol nothing. You: Let's go do Y on X day at Z time.
/r/seduction09/08/17 03:15 AM
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I mean what's stopping you from getting her number, then asking her out a few hours later like the normal way. Or even better you can do it person; "Hey you seem fun, let's hang out some time."
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:14 PM
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Also you can use the google cached version to read it without limit.
/r/seduction29/07/17 04:19 PM
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You can let her handle most of the talking. If she's into you she'll probably ask you a ton of questions. Every once in a while steer the conversation the way you like it.
/r/seduction29/07/17 04:14 PM
1

You think to yourself. Damn I am hot. Hey you! I'm going to check you out! Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Small smile. Ok cool bye!
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:29 AM
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Oh man this is how I talk! Calm and powerful. I think it works way better than talkative and flirty guys. But that's just my opinion as I've tried both. I think those girls may just be testing you. But if you still feel like you have a problem try to smile more (dark sexy smiles) and give some strong eye contact. Ever seen Baby Driver? Baby talks like you, but he really kills it.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:16 AM
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Some girls text first, others don't. Don't rely on this.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:11 AM
1

Actually yes! Too many sedditors think that you should strive to be the perfect man with the perfect game. But it is actually really attractive when a really strong guy has very tiny sliver of weakness. So strive to be really confident but don't try to hide that tidbit of anxiety.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:07 AM
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I'm hot. So if I got out I'm going to get laid tonight.
/r/seduction29/07/17 07:00 AM
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The cold approach is hard work man. Find a chill atmosphere. Sit down at some eating place, catch a girls eye, smile at her, and have a chill conversation.
/r/seduction29/07/17 06:31 AM
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Heeeeey man! If you're looking for feedback here's a pretty apparent one! You weren't decisive enough at one point! Here's what I mean! Change this: Me: I'll take you out and we'll see how it goes. If its too weird, then no hard feelings. We'll go back to how things were. To this: Head tilt + sly smile + no talking Overall though you did do a good job with some points!
/r/seduction29/07/17 06:15 AM
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One suggestion!: Change this: Me: I'll take you out and we'll see how it goes. If its too weird, then no hard feelings. We'll go back to how things were. To this: Head tilt + sly smile + no talking
/r/seduction29/07/17 06:07 AM
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I don't look that hard for parties anymore. These days if I want to have success with women I join some of my uni's art clubs or something of the like. Honestly I think these places are pretty underrated when it comes to picking up girls. It's just a super chill environment where you can meet a lot of people. Also women don't just automatically assume you are there to hook up with them, so that's a plus lol. Anyway I think most people on this forum are an older bunch who live in big cities or so…
/r/seduction25/07/17 02:10 AM
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Lol you're in college right? It almost feels the game is quite a bit more chill in college.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:57 AM
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OMG this is my thread! Hi hi! Ok so women get pretty bored over time. You as the man have to make it interesting! That entails a few things! You have to do awesome manly things every so often. For example during the most random part of the day get behind her, gently pull her head back, and give her a hot make out sesh. Things like this keep it interesting! Don't do it too often or she'll get a little used to it. Do something fun like this every few days and then tone it down! Keep her anticipati…
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:50 AM
1

Yeah for real. It's not like you should try to be sleeping with every girl out there.
/r/seduction25/07/17 01:41 AM
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Hey don't get me wrong man. Putting a girl on a pedestal is a good thing and is the end goal. But it's definitely a mistake to be too emotionally invetsed way to early right? Or idk I've never seen this girl so she may have something special in her.
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:30 PM
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You're two main mistakes were waiting too long and putting her on a pedestal. The first is self explanatory. The second one is clear to see from reading your text. Though I guess these things are kinda hard when its long distance.
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:00 PM
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Let me tell you one of my stories from when I was just starting. A girl asked about my virginity. I responded honestly: "Haha I'm a virgin. I'm not to great with girls I guess haha!" Did that turn her off? Not at all. Looking back it was quite confident of me to be able to laugh at myself and she liked that.
/r/seduction19/07/17 11:26 PM
1

It's hard to say what happened. There are so many possible reasons. As mentioned by some of the sedditors here, you weren't decisive enough, which girls love. Next time be a little more manly and you'll be fine. But in the end I doubt that's what made the difference simply because she was the one who actually initiated the date and was likely still reasonably interested in you at the time. It was probably something else, quite possibly out of your control, so don't think to much about it. Dating…
/r/seduction15/07/17 01:29 AM
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You can "test the waters" by kissing her. Geez you're thinking too much.
/r/seduction08/07/17 07:45 PM
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Dang. Haha well if that's really the case you should probably turn your next lay into a girlfriend.
/r/seduction03/07/17 03:19 PM
1

Honestly this kind of sounds like you need more knowledge and practice.
/r/seduction03/07/17 02:26 PM
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Stop arguing and take a moment to actually learn.
/r/seduction03/07/17 02:06 PM
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