Hey sedditors! I hope you're all having a nice day! So today I read a post that where a sedditor asked the community whether or not he should reveal his virginity. He seemed fairly afraid to admit it to women he was dating. So I wanted to bring my perspective into this issue in general.

I remember one time I was asked the same thing by a girl I was dating. At the time I was virgin. So what was my response? "Haha yeah I'm a virgin. I'm just not to great with girls I guess! Hahaha! Whatever, I like being just friends with girls!" For many of you newer people this may seem like a turn off to women. But it isn't. In fact it made her chase even harder. Why? Well the reason was because the rest of my "game" was on point (by game I mean confidence, kino, etc. just the basics of attraction and the like). From her point of view I was definitely a very attractive man. So it can't actually be that I can't get women. It must be that I was just shrugging it off!

What does this show to a girl? It shows confidence. I, a confident man am not afraid of laughing at himself. A man who knows he is awesome doesn't strive to talk big about it. He will just shrug and let his actions speak far louder than his words. Only a weak and un-confident man feels the need to talk excessively about his achievements.

So what does this story mean to you? Well the thing is don't think too much about secrets you should keep from a girl (well unless it's a really bad one). You can tell a girl you are dumb, bad with girls, and a pretty boring person and it will actually turn her on if you are obviously intelligent, very attractive, and a very interesting and mysterious person.