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The problem here is that women do everything right and still become victims of violence. Women no matter what they do are blamed for said violence, and that women still want to live their lives. I want an education and I enjoy drinking and dancing? Why must I sacrifice my personal hobbies? Do we tell this to men who enjoy running at night or the many other dangerous male hobbies? Or do we admire their willingness to go out and take risks for the sake of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:41 AM
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Nobody: Redditors: what about black people n crime statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:37 AM
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This is a problem of you’re personal misanthropy, idk what else to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:50 PM
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Lots of words to just say “I think women who go to bars are dumb whores,” okay…if you’re so much smarter than them it shouldn’t be hard to carry a conversation or impress them right? Ignoring the fact that I party and dj and my friends range from nuclear scientists and charge nurse of the ICU, so idk. I fear the dumb one might be you for putting people into such a small box
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:55 PM
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I agree!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:56 AM
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“Low iq normie” you guys talk like Patrick Bateman parody clones. Im a bar person and I build computers,skateboard, play dnd, rave,dj, currently gearing up to go to law school with my political science degree,play video games. I’ve been called many things in life but as a black girl with the above hobbies normie isn’t one of them. I just like shaking ass. Assuming everyone at a bar is a low- iq normie gives judgmental asshole with sour grapes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:52 AM
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No you are just refusing to see it as effort, because you think it’s what women are supposed to do it. “Grooming” would be maintaining hygiene, not shaving armpits and having a flat stomach. You walked right into the point and missed it. As for you’re men have to initiate, I say once again, women have to put in just as much work to be approached, and men in my experience don’t take you seriously when you approach them, they usually just use you for sex. I agree the gender dynamic that men lead t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:43 AM
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It’s literally both of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:30 AM
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Yes I’m pulling it from my ass I never said differently. Science is also on my side as many psychologists disagree with how introversion is used now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:26 AM
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You have never been to a bar and postering. I go to many bars where that is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:24 AM
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I agree with this but in a feminist “gender is a social construct way” and find the belief that women are more naturally empathetic a part of the patriarchal conditioning women to through
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:57 PM
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It’s more in my experience: Improv class +club = sex. I know it’s maybe not the wokest but I know these men are out here trying to get out there and if one of the not terrible ones who wants to put himself out there, sees my posts and decides to start pushing himself to go out more that’s worth an incel who can’t even bare to leave his house getting the wrong idea about clubs in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:53 PM
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No it’s not it’s a measurement of personality. Some are more introverted than others but can train yourself out of it or grow out of it, there was no introverted people when lived in caves because they would have died being alone from people? You think that means no introverts were born or that they were socialized out of it? I think the latter I was a introvert the first 22 years of my life before I met my extroverted bf and it took a long time but I truly no longer identify with the label at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:48 PM
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I just dislike this optimization culture that says drinking even a little will kill you. Drinking is bad in excessive quantities and addiction kills. Acknowledging drinking as a social lubricant that must be controlled is much better than the way I see many people of the younger gen treat drinking now. But yes, we need more alternatives for people who don’t like to drink to do fun stuff, but there is a lot for them they just will be in the minority not partaking, which is I think they’re REAL pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:32 PM
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Bars/clubs are pretty wide ranging things. And I’m not sure why yall despise drinking so much. We’ve been cultivating it for 30,000 years for a reason. It’s really good as a social lubricant. If it’s not ur thing smoking weed is always my recommendation. Maybe this is a post about why straight laced men struggle to get laid 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:24 PM
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I ain’t reading all that have fun being bitchless and approaching women who want to be left alone at hobby clubs or grocery stores or whatever the red pillers are telling you instead of just going to a dnd night at a brewery and meeting the nerdy girl of your dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:22 PM
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I’m a depressed people and the only way to beat it is by forcing yourself to do shit. It’s the same with introversion. It’s a personality measurement more so than a trait, and it can be adjusted, just not easy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:21 PM
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The same for those other social activities. Hobby clubs I hear aren’t the best to meet women and many women go just for their hobbies unlike bars or parties where women sometimes do go just to meet others. Anime cons haven’t been going the best either I heard they’ve implemented speed dating there and it’s been awful. And cold approaching has a very low success rate. Pick your poison. I say go to a nerdy dive bar hosting a dnd night or a trivia or arts and crafts is just as good as shooting ur s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:19 PM
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Yes but those people have bad conversational skills and/or social anxiety, both of which could be solved by pushing through and thugging it out till you get the hang of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:16 PM
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Im in the club scene and i wake up every other day at 7 am to go on runs at the trail by my house. I also am a proficient camper and planning on once I finish law school doing the pca trail. I skateboard 4 times a week and go to the gym(I do eat like shit though I love potato chips and pasta) I’m relatively healthy minus my proclivity to do drugs(never much of a drinker) I know rave girls who rave till 3 then hit Pilates classes at 7, and they don’t drink or smoke, just love to dance and love th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:15 PM
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But yeah tall is just taller than me tbh I didn’t even notice my bf was short until other people pointed it out cause I didn’t care as long as they were taller than me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:09 PM
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This is true I also can’t tell 6” from 8” it just all looks big to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:08 PM
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You also see women say “I wish guys hit on me more” or “I’m wearing this so my gym crush sees and talks to me” and you’ll see women say things like “I like blue” and women say things like “I hate blue because it reminds me of my dead grandmother “ women are very diverse people, there’s like a billion or so of them, and some of them, even think differently from one another. It’s you’re job as a man to read social cues and body language to see if a woman is down, an arduous task I won’t deny, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:06 PM
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Okay so then just lie down and die and never enjoy getting your dick sucked. You can complain and wine about how likely it is or get out there and do something. It’s not a 1% chance you meet a women , its a 90% chance you meet someone, ANYONE, who could maybe introduce to someone else, and so forth until you happen upon a lady you like. That’s still how majority of adult relationships are founded(mutual friends). I know it’s not easy but being alone is easy and look how unenjoyable it is for so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:00 PM
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I’m talking moreso raves, dive bars, kickbacks, house parties, dinner parties. All are parting bar/club adjacent and all yield much higher result than the busies nightclub in your city. Sorry for not clarifying, but i didn’t assume you all would choose the most incompatible partying type for deep relationship connection, but I forgot this is the internet lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:57 PM
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The effort is not optional. You didn’t answer my question, where are all your posts thirsting after hairy women with cystic acne scars and thin tiny lips? Why do women get paid less when wearing makeup, and women who don’t wear makeup less likely to be promoted? Women put in a lot of effort, you are specifically talking about how men are burdened with approaching, which is lowkey men’s fault for coining the term “slut” and deducing any women with open sexual desire and forwardness is no longer a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:53 PM
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…..I didn’t say that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:49 PM
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Yes. Like going to a bar trivia night or going bowling and/or going to something like a game arena. This isn’t opposing what I said. And again, plenty of introverted women go out. They just prefer to stay in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:48 PM
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I’ve been going out since 2018 and I can say the opposite. Shall we continue trading antidotes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:46 PM
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Got me there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:45 PM
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It’s not low. That’s what you’re not getting. There’s like a billion people living in first world nations where women can go to bars by themselves. If you go there for a week you could meet an introvert women, even for a day, or meet her extroverted friend who thinks ur cute and sets u up. Or an extroverted guy who’s new to city and can set you up with some of his girl friends. There is possibility!! Endless possibilities!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:43 PM
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Thinking this conversation is anything more than amusement at you’re small mindedness is hilarious but as a man when losing an argument it’s of your lower nature to accuse someone of being emotional than listening to the basic logic in my comment. Anyways. Have fun in judgmental no friends land. I’m sure that gets you all the bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:39 PM
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I have a huge social circle and few are with their significant others from college. I live in a big city though. I am sorry you have this experience, as a raver I have had the opposite and it’s opened my eyes a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:37 PM
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Being an ra and being a performer at bars(heyyy I was too) is not the same as patronizing ur local dive bar for a couple weeks and seeing who u can start and maintain a conversation with. It’s a good skill to have regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:36 PM
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I wouldn’t either but that’s because I like to know if it’s big before I get attached. Your logic is very flawed but Godspeed to you brother
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:34 PM
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There’s always a million excuses with you guys. You don’t want to change and get women, you want to complain about women and for the record I’m a feminist and so are all my horndog female friends and they don’t complain about being hit on, they complain about being harassed. I love a good compliment and I always try to tell guys that I have to reject thank you and that I think they’re brave for coming to talk to me, this often backfires and has almost gotten me physically endangered. So…I get wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:32 PM
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And women notoriously never put in effort! That’s why there’s a 300 billion dollar makeup industry and 20 billion dollar hair removal industry, that’s why it’s estimated women spend thousands of dollars a year on their hair(double for black women) and why majority of ed and body dysmophia sufferers are women right? Cause they don’t have to do much? It’s why you prefer women with armpit hair right? Mustaches and saggy tits and fat bellies and hairy legs? Because you don’t want a women who does mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:27 PM
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Nah fuck that we going friend for friend! Jkjk. I can see what you are saying, I just disagree that the only way to meet people is online and feel it’s sooo much worse than meeting someone at the bar , having chemistry and going from there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:24 PM
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Also shout out my onlyfans model friend with 10k followers on instagram cause she’s so hot who met her 5’6 receding hairline bf at the club. Men there’s hope!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:21 PM
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Not true my bf is 5’7 and I met him at the club after he walked up to me after I was staring at him making googly eyes Source: I am a woman who goes out every weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:20 PM
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What are these dynamics? I fear you can’t tell the difference because you don’t go out much
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:17 PM
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I’d argue that too. There’s one with charm and ones without. Predatory men are everywhere. Thankfully all you have to do as a man is not be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:17 PM
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Neither of those are true this is soooo funny Introverted women go to bars. And extroverted women hang in small groups too. Women are not in boxes. People are very diverse if you go outside and give them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:15 PM
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People in general go less. And women go less would affect straight male dating. And trust, I have theories as well but I am of a sociological and statistical knowledge type so mine are probably different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:13 PM
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Ahhhh so you’re judgemental and close minded. Have you ever thought about starting with unpacking that then getting gf? Nonetheless, I party almost every weekend and am very confident I’m smarter, more esoteric, and interesting than you. It’s kind of my favorite part about being a party girl, is meeting men like you than easily showing how much smarter and cooler I am than the dumb person who assumes cause I love to dance im dumb. Go on op, tell me how cool you are sitting at home playing on pho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:11 PM
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So how are they supposed to make friends? Through work? And if they don’t mix then what? They just die friendless? How have people made new friends in a city for years? Alcohol is not required!!!! I go to raves so I meet lots of people who don’t drink! Smoke some weed! Do some ketamine! Idc ! The point is to lower you inhibitions which raises your confidence. Or just be sober which many people are especially at things like crafts or trivia nights There’s alot of assumptions going on here that re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:06 PM
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Being introverted isn’t a choice it’s a choice to not change it and sit inside all day and do nothing Gen Z not going to bars(I am Gen Z btw born in the early 2000s) is more proof of my post. Because imo it’s one of many factors making dating harder for straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:00 PM
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Not sure where u live that is in such a baddie deficit but, my dive bars are filled with beautiful women of all ilks. You can meet friends at the bar who introduce to other people do, life is a river not a dam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:58 PM
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I also don’t understand this rhetoric because plenty of people go out for a drink due to other circumstances and still prefer a cozy night in, yall act like people are black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:57 PM
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Oh god. So I guess men have to break into her house and hope she has a kink for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:56 PM
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Why do you need a women who doesn’t like the bar. What does bar liking imply to you that it is a necessary thing she must not be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:55 PM
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Good response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:54 PM
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U can. It’s harder but you can! I know because I did it myself. Was overly sheltered, nerdy and ugly as a kid and had to push myself to be the social butterfly I am today
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:53 PM
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You seem to have missed my numerous posts documenting my love of dnd and mtg and niche anime’s but I unfortunately refuse to play the “ur not a real gamer girl” game with you because I’m currently building my pcs motherboard and that game is only available on Xbox 360 with no cross playing :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:52 PM
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There are dive bars as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:49 PM
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I’d say it was more like learning how to read with dyslexia or going to an all white school when you’re black or being a female mechanic with no other women around. It’s hard. As fuck. And makes you wanna scream. That’s what makes it so rewarding! And if I can do it as chopped and weird and ugly as I was I believe anyone can
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:48 PM
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Explain the kind of woman who goes to the bar without using misogynistic tropes go!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:46 PM
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I’m willing to bet I have more friends than you op so I understand but I bet you’re friends like you are rather socially reserved. I know plenty of people who meet their partners outside of college fs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:46 PM
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Name some women at the bar that are sober? Should I send ur the pictures too? You are unable to deduce if someone is in their right mind to engage in sex? If so then maybe you are correct to stay away from bars but I’d extend that to women in general tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:44 PM
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I was gonna disagree but I actually agree with this take. Male friendship seems much harder to start and maintain as a women whose had gfs get mad at me for the most ridiculous things, I still prefer the passion over what I see in a lot of male friendships ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:42 PM
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Maybe doesn’t exist is a little extreme but I’d say 80-90% of people(especially online) who claim to be introverts have social anxiety. After all, how can one tell the difference between being exhausted socially cause you’re constantly over analyzing everything or being exhausted from the thing itself. And science is on my side as the scientific personality measuring trait of introversion is much different than how we use it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:40 PM
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Also the articles linked are tracking the scientific personality measure of introversion, which is different than the many so called self identified introverts online, I’m talking colloquially
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:38 PM
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I literally had to be alone to recharge until I changed it for myself. I was an introvert through and through. Social scientists still are arguing if introverted people can even fully be diveded from those with social anxiety so I maintain my stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:37 PM
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What are bar and party people? I’m one n I am a nerdy gamer girl who got turned on by her bf talking to her for 40 minutes about warhammer? My friend is one and she’s quiet and shy and prefers reading to people, she just loves dancing. My guy friend is one we’re building a pc together and he’s teaching me how to code. So I again ask…what’s a bar/party person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:34 PM
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I used to be like you op and that novelty fades just as well. Hope you get the casual sex you’re looking for, hoping u care as much about the women cumming as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:32 PM
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This is true but not for the reasons you think Women are shamed if they have casual sex so they need a really good incentive to go against the societal grain. A man being say, really really hot, makes you go “well I may be called a slut, but at least I fucked one of the hottest guys in school,” or they’ll go, this guy may have a reputation for being a whore, but if I want some casual sex I want it to be good, and I heard he’s really good at sex, so I’ll take the risk on it.” In many straight wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:30 PM
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There is a lot of leaps going on here. You are going to dive bars to meet people point blank, you can be compatible with someone who goes out. I go out and I’m still a huge anime and dnd and video game nerd, something that when I go to cons most men are shocked to learn and vice versa when I meet a man at the bar. People are not predictable n you can meet a girl who loves to party who goes “my introvert gf has been dying to find her introvert bf,” boom. That is what I am saying happens. Or you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:23 PM
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Yes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:20 PM
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That is called conversational techniques and you can learn how to get good at those by practicing it! A good place to practice would be something like…idk…a dive bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:20 PM
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My bf lowkey did this to me and now I just go out with girlfriends get drunk come home and suck his dick I don’t see the problem lol. Also people go to bars for all sorts of reasons including just to be support when they usually hate it. I hate doing my taxes but guess what’s done?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:19 PM
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Alot. Dive bars, pool bars, old head bars, gay bars, upscale bars, all types all filled with people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:17 PM
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Not when ur fat, black and ugly. I hate when you guys ignore conventionally unattractive women and pretend every woman has it super easy dating. I literally couldn’t lose my virginity despite desperately trying because I was so chopped. Ugly bitches struggle too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:16 PM
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Exactly!! They practice!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:14 PM
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I met my fiancé at the club so not always but I know most men here desire that so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:12 PM
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You guys have never met someone you thought was mid, got to know their personality, and thought of them as beautiful? Never? You guys think you’re so ugly no women could do that for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:11 PM
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Sometimes. Sometimes you’ll meet the girl dragged out with her friends because it’s a friends birthday. Or the girls whose just there because it’s a friends bachelorette, or maybe a girl who stopped in to see a friend whose working.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:10 PM
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We have them! Most people are doing the research into them. And you don’t have to pick up drunk women. There’s women doing cocaine too. And even sober ones. There is no “you have to be drunk” law at the bar..ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:09 PM
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I know what an introvert is thank you for the reminder. I am sorry to hear that, I’ll be honest, I don’t believe you? And if that is true then I need to see what you are texting these women. Also re ur friends, most people now still meet through mutual friends, so that doesn’t surprise me, but you can still go to clubs and dive bars and make friends with either gender. Befriend a guy who has a girlfriend or lots of female friends. Chat up a lesbian at crafts night and bond over something. These …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:08 PM
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Name them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:05 PM
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That’s a really big leap there. I said go to dive bar and you said incoherent drunk people. I know yall are terminally online but most dive bars don’t have that. In America they legally are responsible if you drive drunk and have a legal responsibility to cut you off when you seem drunk so…. No! Don’t hang around those people! Go to a dive bar, play some trivia, do some arts and crafts! Learn darts!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:04 PM
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Even one friend will do. And while going out alone is hard even for girls to make friends, the traits you listed are kinda necessary for dating in general. If you never take risks, go out on a limb and risk being awkward you won’t ever grow especially in terms of getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:02 PM
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I agree with this too! Although technically we work far less than our predecessors, but more than those in the direct generation behind us. I can see how all of these things add to social isolation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:01 PM
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Ayyyy gotta be clear nowadays can’t have some dummy getting the wrong idea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:59 PM
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You are deeply mistaken sir, I love casual sex but sex with someone you love is always gonna be better(ew how cringe) plus women can desire casual sex with you and still not do it, or desire casual sex with you for the wrong reasons (this guys ugly and broke but his dick is big so I’m gonna fuck him till I find someone I respect) is something that many my women friends have told me they do. One’s validation should never rely on others :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:59 PM
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Yes! And ugly and short don’t look that bad in the dark after it’s bought u a couple drinks, ugly and short might be very charming and probably not that ugly once you get to know him. It’s very easy to at least get dates I think from this approach
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:56 PM
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I used to be one, or rather I spent 22 years believing I was one and then I grew up, got less depressed, went to the gym, and learned being uncomfortable socially only comes when ur constantly asocial. and put myself out there constantly. Now I am no longer an introvert and have a lot of friends. I am a still lowkey a nerdy loser who likes playing dnd and mtg and playing black ops, so I believe anyone can do this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:55 PM
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This man has never heard of a dive bar. It’s where you sit and talk and can play pool, darts, trivia, some have cute little movie nights. My dive bar is hosting an arts and crafts event. And funnily enough I met my long term bf at a loud dance club where we were had to yell over music
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:52 PM
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Lots of people don’t enjoy drinking and go out. Lots of people don’t like going out and only go out to meet people. Idk what to tell you if you don’t like those places, just don’t complain about being single and dying alone if ur not gonna take any initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:50 PM
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Yes but let’s remember a woman too fucked up to walk, speak clearly or whose completely blacked out cannot consent!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:49 PM
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I fear most people don’t have social lives due to choices(choices to stay inside and doom scroll rather than say go outside) than it is just a mass social isolation epidemic. Also not to be tinfoil-y I think part of it is a push via capitalism to isolate consumers because the more isolated you are the more they can sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:48 PM
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I agree!! I had to learn the art of it from friends who were more naturally adjusted, but it was 100% worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:46 PM
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What does proving or maintaining the belief men are more horny do or show in our society? Cause as much you as can argue men throw away their lives you could argue for women. Women, who were killed if adulterous, impregnated or beseeched if they engaged in unapproved sexual activity still regularly did so. Men have never had such barriers on their sexuality and have always had their pleasure centered. When studying remote tribes in Africa untouched by western influence female sexuality was equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:44 PM
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I think they were probably right honestly. I feel like women are more libidinous but trapped due to gender roles and patriarchy saying sex is more a “male” sphere. I think that’s why so many women have such…dangerous we could say kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:40 PM
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Time is relative. To the sun, the entirety of human existence is just a blip. Besides my comment is merely pointing out the fluidity of gendered traits due to gender being socially constructed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:39 PM
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Ancient Greeks thought so. The idea of men being the more libidinous gender is fairly recent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:52 AM
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I fear you’re misreading my comment. SOME women find “getting “ women hard. As a bisexual for me there was a learning curve. Nonetheless,many queer women have admitted that they did have to shift or change their perspective or approach due to the loss of gender roles. Something many heterosexual men are facing today, hence my comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:21 PM
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Even lesbians say getting women can be difficult(co-signed as a bisexual) Yet despite being 5-1% of the population, and regularly still being persecuted, I have never heard of a lesbian incel. I’ve heard of lesbians who can’t date, and wish they could do so, but not entire subreddits and posts dedicated to how fems only want toxic masculine mascs who abuse them and only the top percentage of lesbians get all the women. If men were only complaining about how it’s hard to get women and date it’d b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:42 PM
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As a rare women who doesn’t relate to the average women experience of being hit on since age 12 I can agree most women can’t relate to having nothing vrs lots of men who want to sleep with you and nothing else. I will be honest and admit I prefer the later having been on both sides, but getting sex as a women is not the same as getting a boyfriend, which is what the men of this sub claim to want as well, a relationship, so it is the same in that aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:13 PM
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Why does this sub think ugly women don’t exist? It’d be flattering if it wasn’t so revealing of one’s misogyny towards those who don’t fit the ideal beauty standards. I’m a black woman, I hear men all the time online say they wouldn’t date a women like me. I see men hate on fat women. There’s women with half their faces blown off, women missing limbs, burn victims, trans women etc etc You think these women can enter the dating market as they wish? That they have orbiters and men in their DMs who…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:09 PM
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Being charming, being flirtatious, being witty, being able to have an engaging conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:17 PM
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This just again sounds like u need social skills. If you can’t flirt and be sexy without making women uncomfortable it’s a failure on ur part. Ur either talking to only prudes or are too forward too soon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:16 PM
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You’d do well reading late and modern feminist literature, many famous feminist writers commentate on this phenomenon and agree with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:14 PM
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Totally fair because us women don't all have to like the same thing despite with lonely Redditors think. I actually hate online approaching with a passion and meet all my lovers from being outside and social and having a wide social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:28 PM
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I'm the exact opposite. I love a man with the confidence to approach and I love a good and witty cold approach. I guess this means ur lying since all women have to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:34 AM
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The way feminism is an academic study with many branches disagreeing and contradicting one another. Women are in fact people with differing ideas I know this might be a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:14 AM
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Comments like these make me realize what men think of as "chads" is just men who take time to understand how women communicate. Not sure why this makes other men not willing to do this work so mad though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:11 AM
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Why are u fighting to never have to learn to read between the lines like an adult. Humans never say what they really mean. Are you 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:03 AM
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Skill issue. Social skills have been helping men since the dawn of time. Charisma can be learned. A women doing something like smiling and prolonged eye contact can be approached vs a women not doing these things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:44 AM
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This post would be a gotcha if all women in the world thought the same and wanted the same things. There is no universal expectation. When I'm at work I can't slap my bosses ass despite being able to do that to a low level acquaintance . And fwiw, me and my friends regularly go out and none have ever had a problem with being approached, it's the not taking no for answer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:31 AM
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Yes, I don't like how it is in current form. No I don't want it banned or think sex work is inherently harmful or destructive any more than any body inclusive labor anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:42 PM
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Yknow what's funny? Feminists agree with you in that a lot of why women slut shame other women is because they know it lowers the collective "sex withholding " power of the group. And feminist actually criticize these beliefs because it reinforces sex as something men gain, women lose. It'd be awesome if u read some theory and knew this but alas
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:23 PM
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This is not true. I'm a radical feminist and I'm pro sex work. I want decriminalization and better worker protections not abolition. Op is correct in that real feminist know decrim is the only way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:18 PM
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A film term originating from film studies coining the way the camera is often assumed to be male and captures his eyes. Again, let's learn what words mean before we hate them. The anti-intellectualism is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:31 PM
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No we don't he's literally using the term incorrectly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:33 PM
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It's good to know the meaning of words before you disagree them, FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:32 PM
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Sex in general is happening less due to phones, not feminism That is statistically not true. Studies have repeatedly shown where women are not shamed they are more open for sexual activity. Imagine if we undid the past 500 years of indoctrination telling women that sex is bad, that's the scale I'm talking on, that hasn't happened yet and we're currently in a puritan backslide
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:53 AM
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Okay I love my stupid short small dicked boyfriend who doesn't make me cum !!! Is this proof that you will find love now? Or is this the proof all women are cuckholding mistresses out for the beta bucksss that you obviously want ? I'm genuinely trying to give u what u want here(which I thought was honesty but I guess not)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:43 PM
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No im saying idc because he puts me through the mattress and is taller than me. Aren't yall the logical gender? Whats up with this emotional "i hate short guys " bait. First of all im 5'1 so ive never cared about height. I've dated men who were 5'5 . It's okay that ur short bro. Some girl(or guy) is gonna love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:23 PM
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Think what? I just said he's very handsome in my opinion (using some slang terms) and him being 5'7 doesn't bother me, the inches went else where...iykwim So yes he doesn't know I know he's 5'7 and handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:18 PM
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He'd honestly hate me telling yall hes 5'7 b/c he maintains he's 5'8 and half. Face card does give in my personal opinion but he's also a dark skin African man with a bald head due to a receding hairline in a world where the beauty standard is the complete opposite . So....no..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:10 PM
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Make sex less costly for women then. Don't call women sluts. Don't talk about n counts. Close the orgasm gap. Make sex worth it for women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:28 PM
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I started hooking up with a friend of a friend I was playing dnd with just like this ^
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:27 PM
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Im getting milked and u ain't....moooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:57 PM
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And ur not getting ur dick sucked at all. Rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:30 PM
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Ur on Reddit.....too.....saying slurs......ur on Reddit calling people slurs and my bf is getting his dick sucked.... Guess dipshits are winning
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:14 PM
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I'm sorry I didn't bring up how to pick up my sister from the dragon that time I fell into a hole to prove I'm an anime nerd. Jesus Christ u guys are doing the "name five anime's" unironically and not realizing why u can't get bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:06 PM
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Gonna blow ur mind if u met my bf, who is both extroverted and assertive and also rewatching the entirety of one piece for fun. Just be fun . You don't have to sit online. Bad bitches like when men approach them and have lives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:46 PM
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God I hate when y'all say this. Women liking sex isn't rare - a women who likes sex as much or more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:56 AM
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Exactly. As someone who's been both a nerd and a party girl sex haver, men don't understand that there's women who are lame and don't get men too. I was def being passed over for my party hot girl friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:53 AM
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Me going through the same thing as a women with my female friends but men don't believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:51 AM
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I too like to fuck hot guys, is this a crime? Will I be rewarded with cash and not called a slut if I fuck the ugly ones? Why is this an obsession with the men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:48 AM
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It's so strange how they act like the majority of women are lying about it, until it's time to victim blame. then it's "all men want sex and you should've known," curious to how many times OP has gotten mad at a women for thinking a guy trying to sleep with her is her friend or blamed a women for being assaulted for not picking up a guy wanted to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:05 AM
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I'm not talking about myself I'm talking about other women, and the men I bring into the scene agree. I live in a bigger city though so maybe that's why but I doubt every women you are seeing is "fat" and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:18 PM
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As a woman who loves to go out, usually that scene is filled with VERY conventionally attractive women. I rarely see bigger women when I go out(probably because of how mean men are when they find u unattractive) that scene in general tends to attract outgoing and attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:15 PM
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But what about the friendship? Going out means you can make friends with other men too. My boyfriend is obsessed with helping his male friends land women and calls himself the greatest wingman. How come it seems so many men of this sub aren't interested in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:13 PM
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Men: want a women with standards Also men: why won't this women fuck me I just bought her a flower?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:36 PM
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All of this writing you could've just genuinely asked women or the thousands of feminist and women studies philosophers who discuss this very phenomenon you're talking about. All of this complaining and you could've , idk, read a book on female sexuality? Read into the Madonna/Whore complex (which you are unconsciously playing into) Women sleep with guys they don't like faster than guys they do like because guys don't like when you sleep with them. It's that simple. Start treating women who rewa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:19 PM
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I know so many men like how you describe but instead of makeup routine it's their gym routine. And as a woman who loves dirty and controversial humor, I can't stand much of women who don't like them either, but I've met a decent amount of women who appreciate my raunchiness. You might be looking in the wrong places
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:16 PM
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The fact they were probably having really interesting conversations but you dismissed them on the fact they were women is more likely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:14 PM
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I'm a women who loves anime and a good manga series but also love traveling, going out, skateboarding, there's more to life than the couch man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:13 PM
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If men believed that they wouldn't be the number one consumers of porn and sex work. The issue is the view sex as domination and power
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:04 PM
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Well if it's possible to attain this aura is it not possible to change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:04 AM
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Ur both wrong. Rapists are normal every day men who seek sexual power and domination of subordinates. Rape is 90% power and control and 10% psycho abusive behavioral thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:04 AM
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Right I read that as a woman and was like damnnnnn maybe I'm the problem because all I could think about is waiting 6 months and getting some wack ass sex . Absolutely not. Longest I did is with my current bf and that's like, 4 dates. But to each their own!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:01 AM
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Slightly off topic but as a woman how does this work when dating? I've heard women suggest to me but me and all my close friends could never relate to waiting or a 3-6 months rule. I personally just don't date men that don't make me feel like jumping on them the second we meet so every time I've attempted on making a guy "wait" it consisted of me holding myself back and being withdrawn.(also why I find threads like these so interesting ) So how does work? Do you just never go over late to each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:55 AM
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So you admit it, you want female nerds to uphold standards of beauty(skinny) and u don't just want any women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:33 PM
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These men don't believe us cause they hear female nerd and think Pokimane , not a cisgendered version of Christine Chandler, which I assume are the type of nerds you and I are discussing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:19 PM
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But same men also slut shame women for wanting a quick fling with a hot guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:19 AM
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That's...not true but if it keeps weirdos like you out believe it and also everyone gets unalived and forced to shoot up too. It's awful :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:33 PM
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There's literally a female only party event touring the United States rn. And straight women love gay bars. Not sure where u got that belief from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:15 AM
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Only online and it mostly men seem to believe it's impossible to go to clubs just to dance. So glad I'm a raver and don't gotta deal with beliefs like this in the scene
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:14 AM
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Like I mentioned before, if you actually want to talk about this, I study sexual sociology and what you are describing i think is one of the failures of the sexual script of heterosexuality. Something many feminists(like me) do want to work on abolishing, which DOES include the belief women just accept sex, but also includes men thrusting and not touching a women's clit at all, no foreplay being the standard and a man finishing the decided "end" of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:35 AM
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If this was true pillow princesses and stone tops would never orgasm either, which isn't true as a bisexual woman. Op, I think what you are referring to is an actual sociological phenomenon called the sexual script of heterosexuality. It's a well studied term describing what we taught is "supposed " to happen during sex. The belief the women lies there and takes it is apart of it yes, but so is the outright ignoring of the female orgasm. Think about your average porno. How often does it explicit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:33 AM
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Personal experience doesn't account for actual evidence though. I've bet plenty feel differently especially men on the younger side where sucking dick to completion is more likely. Also this still feeds into the orgasm gap cause women receive head way less frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 04:27 AM
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Not true as a loser women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:08 PM
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Men do not have higher sex drives than women. Men are granted sexual agency and ownership and aren't told if they like to have sex their deviants going to hell. I and many of my of my female friends have higher sex drives than the men in our lives
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:25 PM
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I do everything you listed as a relationship for my female friends. Men just don't regularly practice intimate friendships with other men so think it's leading them on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:04 PM
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I'm a feminist blue piller who's read Andrea Dworkin to Alice walker when it comes to hard core feminist theories and none of them discuss how men shouldn't flirt with women. Definitively.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:02 PM
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Tbf she could be like me and have all man-eater friends. I'm doing my more square male friends a service not introducing him to my girl friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:58 AM
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Do men want the shrewd,sex hating fun destroyer even if she is safe, predictable and makes money or?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:57 AM
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So interesting being a women with other women who grew up thinking it was always the men who were cold heartless monsters. Not sure if the evidence supports your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:17 AM
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THANK YOU!! It's women like OP who made me feel like I was a "man" because of having a sex drive. Justice for horndog women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:10 PM
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Same when I hear women say that about other women I think they have no game. Im bisexual and I've had an easier time with casual hookups with women than men. Also there are lesbian hookup apps btw op. Maybe you're just not as well versed in WLW as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:08 PM
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So this is women's fault because??!? Also women have "sneaky links" too lol. Plenty of my gfs have ugly or embarrassing for whatever reason men they were letting pipe cause it got late and they were horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:05 PM
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I'm an 18-29 year old regular club goer. This is true of women as well. Any person deemed popular will have majority friends and opposite sex interest. I know a really hot guy in the scene who gets lots of women. He's also funny, dresses cool , and knows how to talk to them. It's also true that women he's mostly surrounded by are 1. His friends 2. Just as charismatic and successful with the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:00 PM
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I'm going to say something about the whole "throwing that away for a good fuck," comment. Most women aren't getting fucked good. Imagine never having had had cake before. You've got the sweetest tooth imaginable but never heard of cake. The first time someone gives you some really really good cake you're gonna think of them pretty fondly right? Now imagine how you would feel after years of having sex finally finding a man who can make you cum. Even if that man was a little strange, you're probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:42 PM
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How does it feel being homophobic as a women and knowing your belief funds the pain and suffering of every women u love?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:07 AM
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Heterophobia doesn't exist. The bigot playbook is the same all over
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:03 AM
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Refusing to date Asians is xenophobic. There's no Asian look or Asian behavior. Race is a social construct created to justify slavery. You don't have to date them but saying you would never is almost always a racist reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:02 AM
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That doesn't mean u have to date bi men though. Y'all don't HAVE to stop being bigots if u don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:58 AM
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Women to women thoughts like these are why we will never achieve equality. Yall want to have freedom while still subjecting men to patriarchal standards of masculinity. I see what men mean now when they say women want to have their cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:55 AM
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The reason is homophobia and you get mad because you wanna perpetuate a social stigma yet be a women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:42 AM
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Nobody wants you to date gay or bi we want you to admit your reasons are almost always homophobia and biphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:42 AM
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Yeah ur just homophobic honey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:37 AM
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Only a man would look up "scientific " studies to show women don't actually "need" orgasms. And yall say women hate yall too much online!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:10 PM
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People have been saying feminist are misandrists since the suffereggets You can be trad and what not just know it's not feminism. And is the opposite. Your beliefs are literally sexist, no matter how much you keep them to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:06 AM
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It provides insights into the why and how fractures come about though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:51 PM
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I'd be ran through asf(not that I agree with such a misogynistic term)if I was lesbian so it does not surprise me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:50 PM
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This is not shocking, as a progressive intersectional Feminist, we know that y'all hate women and black people, and that yall are mad that it's no longer cool to say that. Couching it up in all this great replacement esqe talk of how the misandrist feminist who can't even get 30% of college aged women to openly identify as even the feminist part, and also couldn't even get a women elected were running this nation shows : 1. You get all your news from fox 2. You are deeply unaware of what's actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:52 PM
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Yes if you factor for every possible thing that could possibly make a women a better candidate then the pay gap lessens. Just like how if you count every black athlete you can prove racial wealth gap doesn't exist! Statistics are fun when they're used for evil! Here's some social phenomena that oppress women and these are very large blanket terms that have entire books written on them mind you, so this is simplified: Rape culture: the culture of dismissing rape and rape victims. "What was she we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:25 PM
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That's not even what feminism is about this is sooooo funny. You can't be trad(ie the status quo of oppression of women) and then say you're a feminist. This is why the word has such bad PR yall don't READ!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:16 PM
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This is good to note. There's several branches of feminism, the one the commenter above is talking about is 2nd wave it seems as they tend to have more conservative views on things like sex and/or "choice feminism" I myself at most identify as an intersectional feminist(centering women in othered identities) or a womanist. There's Marxist feminist, post feminist feminists even, the word is lowkey limited on the internet cause it hides decades of evolving and even contradictory theory
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:15 PM
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"If the blacks and women aren't nice, I will turn far-right," Mostly of my bullies have been black(am black myself) and most of my hurtful betrayals have been from women, yet I don't think taking away their rights is okay? Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:11 PM
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I think a lot of men like you seem to not have an understanding of oppression. I'm sure in the 1880s they said there's no more racism cause slavery is over. Oppression moves through social and legislative or legal means, a lot of the issues facing (yt) women are social stigmas, although there are still systemic barriers like the proven pay gap, lack of good country wide maternity leave , etc etc These can all be googled btw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:09 PM
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So the 60-80% of women who aren't orgasming regularly are all to blame? Even when multiple men since the beginning of time have stated they don't try to make women cum? And for the record, I'm blessed enough to not really have this problem. That's how I know men are just genuinely bad at sex. It's relatively easy(as someone who's slept with men and women) to make me nut. So when a man can't, I know they just aren't trying/suck. Also, if it was majority of men not orgasming Y'all would call women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:12 AM
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Look man I get it, you don't really get what I'm saying and being able to hate sluts makes you feel good about yourself. I'll let you have it, hell, maybe hating hot sexy women who have sex makes your skin clear or something what the hell do I know. Before I go though, just know this: The problem starts with men seeing sexual women as less than, not sexual women making women less than Unless you can prove to me how and why sex (only for women) is degrading, you're just going "because it is" with…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:36 PM
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Y'all men's assessments of women just be an assortment of stereotypes projected onto a person I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:18 PM
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"Normal people find opening up their butt humiliating" baby we've got thousands of years of homophobia as proof as that yes. But if that's the case why is it only women(or the receiver in case of gay men)who are shamed primarily. If sex is so degrading, why is it women are the degradee?why is it degradation being done to a woman rather than both man and woman becoming less than? What is so inherently dominating, degrading about a man penetrating you? Why do we conceptualize the act of penetratin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:14 PM
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I don't think what you said is true, mostly women are annoyed at double standards and being asked to give pussy while also told giving pussy makes you a slut. You can't really explain any logical non misogyny /envy based position why you feel so intensely about insta bops, so again I implore you, open up that butt. There's plenty of gay men who will pay you good money to buss it. You can be an insta bop too!!! Hell i know a straight guy making great money on only fans, maybe that can be you! No …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:57 PM
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Whatever you have to tell yourself hunny. I think that most people, are either envious or simply misogynistic otherwise this hatred of sex workers makes no sense. I'm also not sure why the act of providing sexual service is so looked down upon when so many women and men seem to believe men "need sex" I just don't get why everyone hates sluts so much...especially women. If you're dignity as a woman is tied to whether men sexualize you or not, you're one bad placed trust in a male partner, one lie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:00 PM
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I feel like men like you be jealous of instagram hoes tbh. As one Twitter user said: you can hit the gym and open up that butt and be making just as much as her!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:56 AM
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Where she asks would they still want the sex if there was no orgasm guarantee and he wasn't attracted to her in the slightest. I can see and have thought to myself of being in the position of a "normal" woman who has guys throwing themselves at her, but what are they throwing? How are they gonna treat you afterwards? What are you getting? These are what she's asking you to consider. If you're answer is: "validation I am sexy" I get that, and I'm a pretty unique women as I know the "male experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:36 PM
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And she's saying they wouldn't, because they don't know what sex is like for straight women Imagine having sex where every time you leave with blue balls, it hurts, or is boring, it's over in 2-3 min and she demands you give her head while not even breathing near your dick. That's how most my straight girl friends describe their casual sex/hell even some early relationship sex with men. Men wanna have pleasurable sex, the sex they are imagining, it'd be a hell of a lot different if the sex they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:26 PM
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What world y'all live in where every man who fucks you wants to date and commit to you and give me the address immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:23 PM
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And like genuinely I used to think the same thing as you as a woman. My friends would say the same thing "omg no they don't like me they just wanna fuck," and I'd get frustrated cause it's like to me at lEAST he wanted to fuck(embarrassing 17 yr old brain) but honestly, being fucked and still being treated like shit isn't that great of a feeling, although I'll be honest, I prefer at least getting fucked. Doesn't mean they don't look down and/or hate yo unfortunately though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:22 PM
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Btw they literally did studies that showed majority of that white DNA is from white males...fun fact...maybe not fun...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:19 PM
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Men will have sex with you and think you're worthless. African Americans have 30% of white dna as proof of this. I mean we see how mean "treat " slut despite jumping at a chance to bang one. Trust me as a girl who couldn't get dick I learned this brutally hard in college. A man will think you're lower than dirt and nut in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:18 PM
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I'm a woman who's had and enjoyed casual sex and statistically speaking she is correct, this is an indictment of a heterosexual sex script that limits women pleasure. 1. Most women don't allow themselves to want or enjoy casual sex 2. Most men think only gfs deserve orgasms
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:16 PM
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I feel like you're dismissing her here. That is the reality for the men looking for a "quick fuck" with you as a woman. And it is the reality that a lot of women have experienced only having men wanting to fuck you, not date. And the fucking ain't even worth it dog
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:15 PM
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Women enjoy sex with men who care about giving women orgasms Which the vast majority of heterosexual men don't. A quick google search of the "orgasm gap" will tell you this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:13 PM
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I can as I've been someone considered unfuckable. She's trying to get you to understand how it is for woman. Awnser the question honestly,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:12 PM
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I'm a woman and I agree, to some extent. as a women who has experienced having no one not even wanting to fuck you, it's an experience not even a lot woman can relate or empathize because they deal with the opposite, people doing and sexualizing them to the point where they become dehumanized and/or assaulted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:10 PM
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This analysis is what I assume happens when a bunch of people unknowing of the history discuss black people and crime. Cause I'm a bi woman and it's true , dating and fucking women IS harder. I feel like most straight women will admit that. As said in ur post "the bar is in hell," mainly refers to LTR not hookups. Most straight women are of the belief men like sex more, most women have been told a "desirable " woman is approached, not approaching. They've been told being too assertive is slutty,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:57 PM
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Then why are men mad at getting boyfriend material treatment (ie, less sexual adventurousness ) especially if as per your response men have no interest in giving these woman orgasms or making them like or enjoy the sex. I'd make the guy I like wait too and hook up with the hottie down the street I know for sure will make me cum from all my girlfriends reviews too if I was single because until yall see woman as people with sexual agency that doesn't lower their value, their going to attempt to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:03 PM
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If being a boyfriend isn't tolerable for men then they should date men? Lol what is this arguement? I'm talking to men who are actually heterosexual. If the act of being in companionship with women shouldn't inspire resentment in men unless they DONT like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:56 PM
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Which is my point. Y'all treat women you deem as hoes as less than humans all the time. Women know this. A good 60% of women's childhoods are spent being told and taught not to be whores. That's why they're not "whores" with the man they like, cause they know how you treat and how you think of "those" women. So change it. Make porn stars cool celebrities again. Maybe help decriminalize sexwork and push for women to explore and demand orgasms. Incorporate the female orgasm into the common heteros…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:57 PM
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Eh. I want someone not socially awkward cause I'm a social butterfly if you will. I regularly bring my significant other to parties and get togethers and art gatherings. Them being able to talk to people is a must because I have a big social group and like socializing and rather not be functionally setting my partner up to be bullied whenever I wanna go for some drinks with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:46 PM
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Shy guys just make me feel like imma make them cry - loud extroverted woman. So I do tend to avoid them. Plenty of shy girls love shy men though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:40 PM
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So maybe it's not douche-y frat bros but introverts? I couldn't handle someone like you (no offense) because I'm a party girl who loves large gatherings and being active (running, skateboarding,) so an introverted guy would bore me and hold me back. There's plenty of women who would like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:37 PM
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These would be owns if men treated the women they deem as "fuck material" the same as girlfriend material. Or if they liked you when you sleep with them fast. It's men who say "don't fuck him on the first date if you want him to take you seriously," and men who tell women if they want to be treated with respect they have to be sexually reserved. If you want women to be sexually expressive with men they deem"bf material " tell men to cuff the women who lets them fuck on the first date. Tell men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 AM
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I just feel like you don't watch him. So it's like I'm trying to argue against a caricature you built. I watch him regularly and lack of depth isn't really correct. He goes into depth frequently and uses different pop culture branches to weeve in while still doing a pretty good job explaining the politics behind certain topics. Now, when it comes to his views on black people and occasionally woman , I have various criticisms of him but again I don't really think you actually watch or understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:30 AM
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Okay who else do I have to list I think is hot then? Elijah wood? Tom Holland? I know plenty of IRL androgynously handsome men, esp as someone with my hobbies, but I don't know every single hot feminine male celebrity. Why do you assume I'm just a stupid woman instead of the logic of me just not having enough perfect celeb examples from the top of my head?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:25 AM
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Not to be mean but I think you're just jealous. You can have a lot of critiques of Hasan but saying he has no emotional or actual intelligence is a stretch. He's argued very articulately from things as wide ranging as Palestine and women's rights and has pretty extensive knowledge of Politics. I actually started following him for the politics via twitter, and then got the lucky bonus of observing he is also quite hot. I think if you have a lack of understanding of leftism and politics as most Am…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:50 PM
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This as well? Can a girl just not enjoy all flavors of men? Rugged men? Hot. Feminine men who are pretty like a girl? Also hot. Hasan Piker(hot) is 6'4 with a beard but still paints his nails and wears crop tops(which is hot) FREE YOURSELVES there's a women who think ur style is hot I promise!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:16 PM
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The data behind that supports men who make less than their wives being cheaters, so it's not really lining up with your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:14 PM
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Rape is worse than falsely accusing someone. Both are terrible and harmful to victims. One is the literal act of disrespecting someone's body and sense of self One is lying. A really awful terrible lie that should receive punishment maybe, in the future where 80% of rape victims aren't shamed into not reporting. But it's not equal. We do have however a practice that goes back centuries of treating rape victims like shit. Half of men think if a women drinks and is at the club she "deserves it" I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:58 AM
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I'd say the significant amount of backlash and vitriol thrown her way and tarnishing of her character counts as punishment no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:08 AM
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The only lives destroyed by false accusations are the many black men lynched and murdered. But I'd say that's less the false accusation and more the racism. Due to how this world works. Victims are always gonna be doubted so men with FA's are always gonna have an easier time. The men who don't usually tend to be men with other negative social stigmas: black, gay, mentally ill of some sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:07 AM
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Well I am especially when you don't and treat them as equals victims of rape get hurt more. Considering there's more victims of rape than false accusation victims, I do think our energy should be outsourced on them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:54 PM
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I don't think rape needs to be proven "beyond a reasonable doubt" and that also adds to silencing tactics of victims. In the court of law? Sure. But in every day life? No. Especially when most victims don't even report.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:51 PM
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I don't think having false accusations is as bad as being raped. Especially when u can just be like "oh she lied" and a sizable a lot of men (and women) will believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:50 PM
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The only women I know who weren't punished for a rape allegation, falsely or not are white women accusing black men of rape. Do what that what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:17 PM
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Also I feel like when y'all say this y'all overestimate how people treat victims. Victim blaming is still common and in style
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:16 PM
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You do know this means if a women accuses a man and simply doesn't have "proof" (which you can imagine is quite common as rapists usually don't let u take pics) she could be punished? This just means dropping the 15% who report to like 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:15 PM
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Have you genuinely met a "normal" chaste person? Like with normal sexual views
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:52 AM
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Yalls refusal to see women as people never ceases to amaze me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:05 AM
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The guys roasting me for being ugly and weird? Very much doubtful. I truly just wasn't seen as "fuckable" and couldn't pull. Which is fine. It made me funny and cool and I got to see men in a different way than most women cause the male friends I had were truly do to shared interest, so they would talk about women around me like "one of the guys" which is why I tend to get men a lot easier than my peers who've been hot their whole life. But still, trust me, there's girls just like you man. I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:02 PM
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Yes. I had a guy best friend and male acquaintance who I both asked to deflower me(I was the first femcel) who both were in equal low social status with me and weren't the most conventionally attractive (pimples, short, skinny, lacking in certain idealized hegemonic masculine traits) and they both said no, and yes I was devastatedly embarrassed even though I love telling that antidote to men who think men won't curve u. The guy best friend literally said he wanted it to be special (was a virgin …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:30 PM
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I did. And still wasn't getting play.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:26 PM
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Y'all think every woman can get dick and it offends me as an ugly woman who got dick off of being funny and cool until I got hot. We have to work too man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:25 AM
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Bars and clubs thing is a cope . Go to a dive bar and talk to the chick reading a book. Go To the dive bar and strike up a conversation over football with a popular guy in the city and mean his friend group of attractive single women. Idk why this is so shocking here, but every hot popular person I knows goes out. It's also an easy way to join a niche. Hobby groups/artists collectivist/fashion collectives all throw parties. Hell, go to a local free gallery hop or arts festival in the summer by f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:58 PM
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I know lots of very assertive, direct women. And lots of shy, non confrontational men. Passivity is a seen as a feminized trait, doesn't mean every feminine identifying person will be passive. Hell, I know high femme gay men who are assertive and can fight damn good as well and are not shy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:10 AM
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I mean "promiscuous " to men could mean more than 1 boyfriend so trying to prove how much ur a Madonna who likes to fuck in this sub is kinda pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:31 AM
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But yet yall are so convinced that yall are mind readers who know what "women really want" so if that's true why aren't bagging them? Walking doesn't really require just smarts it requires muscle control and the ability to do so. There's no man with an inability to talk to women that not psychological based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:31 PM
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Genuinely confused, telling men to play guitar, take an improv class for social skills and maybe read a book on female orgasm is sexist. My bad I thought yall wanted to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:36 PM
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Then why do lesbians and bisexual women report orgasm more than straight women. Why do men literally say quite often how they don't care if their partner orgasms? Is pointing out how 90% of crime is done by men sexist too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:35 PM
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Sex doesn't take practice it takes willingness to learn. If most men went into sex with the knowledge that most women nut from clit stimulation and demonstrated listening skills they'd be way better. Most men are bad cause they don't care about female orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:11 PM
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I wish men getting emotional support wasn't so weird man I feel for yall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:57 PM
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Why can't u ask ur female friends to hook u up? It was one of my favorite activities for my guy friends I didn't know girls stopped doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:54 PM
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Improv class seconded!! It'll make u immune to embarrassment while adding a sense of vulnerability and wit!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:53 PM
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How are you able to read the minds of women so well but still not managing to be fucked? General question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:48 PM
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But why do you think that about women? Every guy I've heard espouse similar sentiments always have a messed up stereotype view on women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:46 PM
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You can get funnier, get better at sex, get a cool hobby, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:44 PM
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Consensual* Sex isn't the only way one can get pregnant. And many of the men complaining don't seem to be complaining about non consensual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:42 PM
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I see plenty of hot guys men are just unfortunately very weird. Face cards be carding though. Men are denied a lot of community and social activities I think for a variety of reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:31 PM
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Yessss I'm so intrigued by this group of people as a women who loves outside and "hate at home" my time spent as a lonely gaming introvert as a women was filled with wallowing in depression and bong ripping but I always had a community you could say. These men seem to not and it's so interesting to me how that comes about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:24 PM
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Yeah it's interesting when men complain about joining hobbies groups and when asked which ones they joined list dnd, warhammer and Mtg, like I'm a girl whose liked those things herself and dated guys who I met at my local libraries mtg competition. I was the only girl. Fat black and surrounded by nerds and I couldn't even get a serious boyfriend till leaving that scene and glowing up so I can't imaging how it is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:22 PM
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What makes you think cops(40% of whom commit domestic abuse themselves) would side with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:59 PM
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What makes you think cops(40% of whom commit domestic abuse themselves) would side with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:52 PM
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What makes you think cops(40% of whom commit domestic abuse themselves) would side with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:52 PM
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It's more like "those other guys were just for fun," I'm making you wait cause I want you to like me and I see you as a potential husband
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:47 AM
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The data actually shows you what it is but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:58 PM
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If it's more complicated why can other women do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:57 PM
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I've seen porn from the 1920s and the way they have sex is way different. I've had sex with guys with different cultural backgrounds who as well, have sex differently from each other in a way that men of similar cultural backgrounds do not. Unless you likewise think wiping your ass is a natural state, you are taught to have sex. Your dad learned from porn dvds and your grandpa learned from magazines and your ancestors would learn from elders, plays, or even just tending to one's peasant farm. Hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:52 PM
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Sometimes is doing a lot of carrying here, most women know that they cum from cliteral stimulation, but as you said, women have sex differently with each other then men and women. There's usually more communication, more turn taking and more focus on mutual pleasure. So it's not really that women are broken, it's the way men are women are socialized to behave during sex. Look up the sociological term Sexual Script. Ion laymen's terms it's about the way heterosexuals are taught to have sex with e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:47 PM
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Women orgasm with every other gender besides men. Even bisexual women orgasm more than heterosexual women. How does biology explain that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:48 PM
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Just because you're not smart enough to know the meaning doesn't mean it's nonsense And that's fine, but majority of men as well don't meet those standards and this sub is full of men complaining women aren't fucking them, and instead of being good at sex or stopping slut shaming, yall get mad, well one way is to get sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:01 PM
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Stop calling women sluts and more women would be willing to risk orgasmless sex for men that could potentially decide to kill her after for funsies. And god forbid he does, as her dead body and photo will be paraded for weeks about what happens when a loose women behaves so, and how if she would have just done X, not done y, she'd still be alive. Like yeah, if a women is risking: bad sex, being slut shamed, pain, humiliation, rape or other unpleasant things Would you risk it with the super sexy …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:06 PM
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90% of men are taller than that but okay whatever. Y'all could blame a 5 year old if it was a women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:17 AM
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See and like, I never felt shame, only shame put into me by men. That's how I knowww this shit goes deep. And it really doesn't matter how much u like sex or excited to have it, the way men treat you during, after. It makes the experience something lower than sex and worse/equal to having none at all. And I know what it's like to have none at all by force. I'm sorry you went through that and glad you found a way out!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:59 PM
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Ahhh I see. My mistake. I was under the interpretation you were smart enough to understand what I was saying, and not project ur women hatred onto me. That was wrong on my behalf and I apologize. Let me put it simply: everything IS a social construct. The way humans had sex before advent of media was by being taught how to have sex, the same way humans have always learned everything. I love that the average American is at your obviously 6th grade reading level and thus lacks the comprehension to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:55 PM
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How about instead of women being trained from birth to fight, or only have sec with people they feel they could take in a fight, how about we encourage a culture of respecting women so much the thought of doing things like physically abusing one vulnerable enough to have sex with you would be as unthinkable as cannibalism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:43 PM
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You be brave when ur 5'1 and 120lbs and the 6'3 250 linebacker is literally almost on top of you. Shit. Men don't even be brave with men. Every body be shooting instead of throwing hands
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:47 AM
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Yes. I have gold in horny Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:45 AM
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But anyways, heterosexual sexual script is a sociology term documenting the way heterosexual couples are taught how to have sex. It is informed by things like porn, movies and tv, music etc. Since, like almost everything else in human society, sex has to be taught, sexual psychologist and sociologist have various theories and studies documenting this phenomenon, and how it mostly applies to heterosexual since they are the ones getting the most messaging/information about it. It's not even a femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:44 AM
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You want me to respond to this in good faith when you call actual academic terms "made up feminist word salad," i guess economics and psychology are not real too ? I know you guys don't know anything about what you are talking about but come on, give me something to work with here!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:39 AM
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But you see how this contradicts sex being pleasurable and validating for women tho right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:37 AM
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Except straight men rape straight men in prison and rape little girls and unconscious women. None of that has to do with desire or a need for sex when there are many women willing to fulfill certain niches men may seek. It's entirely about domination and power. Psychologists are unanimous in this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:11 AM
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I'm a very horny women who used to not even relate to other women due to my said horniness until I learned myself that most women are as horny as men, it's just that for centuries a horny women was as good as dead, and being seen as horny/sexual for a women led to violence and degradation. Even today openly sexual women are denigrated. Not esteemed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:18 AM
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Yeah sex is soooooooo fun when u have to teach the guy in explicit detail how to make u cum ...that's how sex works
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:15 AM
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Blaming women for the orgasm gap when the only consistent evidence is that women only don't orgasm when they have sex with men, vs masturbating and sex with other women is like hilarious. The science does not back this up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:14 AM
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Research also shows women don't speak during sex for things ranging from safety to the heterosexual sexual script(how we're taught sex happens). And shows women orgasm with women more, even bisexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:12 AM
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I'm a women whose horny 24/7 and I've rarely met men who keep up. Y'all not as horny as you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:10 AM
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Rape has nothing to do with sexual attraction and is entirely about power and dominance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:09 AM
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This implies the sex is like, some inherent good instead of neutral. Would u still want the sex if it came with ridicule, reinforcement of your low value and no pleasure/orgasm? I'm saying as someone who has adhd with sex as my special interest, who used to be "too ugly to fuck," and so once I became fuckable I said yes to every man, even if I didn't want to cause I thought "when might I get the chance again?," the sex is not good sex. It's barely even sex(ie an activity for mutual pleasure) and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:37 PM
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Actually women are people and people change. A women wanting to settle down no matter her whoreishness doesn't mean anything. Riley Reid is married. Whores get cuffed everyday. I think men just say they don't to feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:59 PM
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Yes. Women who are beaten and raped are victims. I'm sorry this upsets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:42 PM
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Black people in interracial relationships go five minutes without telling us challenge failed once again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:54 PM
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You should be more worried about her using pics of you to say the nword
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:52 PM
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Right, cause me and my Girl friends do this too. Now, I hang with "wilder" women per se, but showing pics of the hottest guys/gals u snagged is gender neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:51 PM
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Again, you acting like the people on this subreddit go outside. They do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:46 PM
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This is reminding of that meme where guys post women who they think aren't wearing makeup while the women is in a full face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:40 PM
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The average estimate is 70 - 30 men to women. That's the conservative number. When accounting for bots and scammers it's probably 85-90 men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:38 PM
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Oh, ur gonna keep proving my point. That's fine. I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:25 PM
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You can't say this on this subreddit because the average Redditor is an introvert who has no knowledge of the outside world. All of their arguments are based off tinder data not knowing how much women are leaving dating apps behind and don't use them. The hottest most outgoing women don't need dating apps and same with the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:25 PM
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I can't even argue with you cause ur so far from the truth. I don't even know where to begin. Good to know that I could give someone a full face and probably disguise them to you since you understand makeup so little though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:18 PM
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I'm gonna need to book a session with you asap since you're this 5 star MUA with makeup knowledge! What's ur instagram bestie I need a new look for a wedding!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:10 PM
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Can you tell me you know at all what ur talking about In any way or keep proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:07 PM
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Okay I don't get why yall say this. Yes a women will be more willing to risk the shame, pain and suffering that can come with hooking up with a random for a hot guy. Men spend more money and do more stuff for hotter women. If you're gonna buy a women an expensive drink ur gonna pick the hotter one. Duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:06 PM
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I've seen many a women be pressured and shamed for being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:03 PM
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Yet it doesn't, and haven't , historically. Soooooooooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:02 PM
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It's literally the opposite of same difference. Men get to have sex and women don't. How is that the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:00 PM
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Right y'all mad when we fuck ugly guys, yall made when we don't fuck guys. Women can't win
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:59 PM
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I wish yall saw women as people because there's reasons behind this but yall just want an excuse to enjoy watching women be hurt by men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:57 PM
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They dont
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:56 PM
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Even if the women ignored certain signs, some women are autistic, some women have adhd(hey) and aren't able to pick up on all the "signs" men are using you. Especially when men will literally tell you "hey I like you a lot and want to date you," and whole time be lying. You're whole argument boils down to women being mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:53 PM
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It's soooopp funny how men keep complaining about women not liking casual sex, but no men want to : Stop calling women sluts Give women orgasms They just want us to be shamed and not cum for their benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:51 PM
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This is literally not true and usually the opposite is assumed lmfaoo. Do you talk to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:46 PM
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Okay can you tell me what a contour and highlight is since ur the king of understanding make up and make up culture. Since ur speaking over women who probably have knowledge in the field u must be a professional right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:41 PM
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There's thing called the Dunning Krueger and you should look into that. Makeup absolutely can take and average/mid women and make her pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:40 PM
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Women also get treated worse when ugly than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:38 PM
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As a former fat and ugly girl who was not introverted or shy, no, not true. At most , guys will get drunk/comfortable and try to fuck you. That's it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:37 PM
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So I'm assuming you never slut shame/victim blame women for being used by men then!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:36 PM
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Maybe if men didnt pump and dump, call women sluts for being pumped and dumped, and blame them for not picking up they were being pumped and dumped and tell them to "choose better " then they wouldn't be so scared/adverse to it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:36 PM
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You want me to take you serious when u think men should have the right to legally abandoned an already born and alive and child? That's .....that's equality to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:35 PM
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Just because women somewhere else had it worse, does not mean women here are not oppressed. Black people used to be enslaved, should we just say black people arent oppressed now despite the stats cause it's not as bad? This is lacking in logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:34 PM
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You don't know what that word means and it's okay ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:33 PM
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The draft ended in the 70s Cis men do have rights women don't have in western society. Abortion being banned in certain states one, it's still constitutionally legal to discriminate against women is another. Also I'm pretty sure marital rape is still legal in some southern states, again, there is definitely in group bias
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:32 PM
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It's kind of funny when you compare them though, what's a man hating feminist who'll never gain any political power to the hundreds of men with social and economic means to oppress women who do so every day. Men man not be a monolith, but they do occupy a specific class of people in society that are dictating laws, social movements, and general attitudes towards their favor since humans invented agriculture 14 thousand years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:51 AM
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Sigh, you're limited thinking doesn't just apply to sex I see. There's this thing, called defending one thing doesn't mean I hate x thing. YOU explicitly said your distaste of women who are promiscuous, and like most women who buy into the Madonna/whore complex , think when I'm talking about women like you, I'm talking about all sexually conservative women. No. I don't mind a socially aware sexually conservative woman who doesn't play into the complex and knows that even though she is esteemed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:50 PM
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A man having sex with me and then deciding he doesn't want a relationship, a man saying he wants a relationship who just wants to sleep with me , a man who didn't like me just having me around for sex, none of those have any reflection of who I am as a person and everything to do with the man who was doing what he did, withholding communication and/or being a normal human deciding.I met my longest most loving relationship giving top at a random party and all my long term relationships started fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 12:09 PM
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Unless you find sexual activity itself some kind of defilement, you can have a partner who is very serious about sexual stuff yet has had casual experiences in the past, is what I am explaining to you. Sexual activity isn't an exact indication of one's attitudes towards sex either(homophobic men who sleep with men comes to mind) so you're logic of "I want someone who takes it as seriously as I do" doesn't really back up as logical when looked at with reason. I suspect, because it's not an attitu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:52 PM
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Also you could be a "technical virgin" or even a full virgin, had the idea of liking casual sex, and then just change you're mind as well regarding casual sex, and sexual intimacy, but I do hope/am glad u find ur like minded person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:14 PM
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I'm not saying you have to I'm saying say the reason(you think it's icky) and stop trying to couch it in this deep logic that you can't even back up. Worst side effect of this woke shit is the way people try so hard to sound moral about things that are definitely just because they personally, think it's icky(I'm not anti finding things icky) I just find it interesting (and sad) to see a women doing it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:11 PM
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Honestly coming back to this this explains why I have so few female friends and cannot relate to the way I hear so many heterosexual women discuss sex. You really think when you have sex you're giving something up to a man, and are losing. I've simply never related to that. When I was raped at 17, I made a promise to myself that this would always be my body, I would always control my sex and my sexuality and I would never let a man make me think he had power over me again. I think deconstructing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:04 PM
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But you can have a person who thinks that now and have had causal sex in the past. Wouldn't a person who has had sex then deciding the best sex is one with sacred and intimate partners be a more logically backed up point and have more belief in it? Celibacy and the such are popular rn for a reason. I think only one of my high school friends who said they wanted to wait till marriage actually waited till marriage, why wouldn't the opposite be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:55 PM
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I'm sorry that every time you have sex you get used. That's unfortunate and I wish men weren't so socialized to not care about female pleasure for this to be a less common belief for women. But it is a BELIEF. A patriarchal belief that sex only benefits men and therefore telling women to have sex means men win(I guess lesbians don't exist but whatever) But I do not feel used during sex. I don't get used during sex. Sex does not makes me feel degraded or disrespected. Quite the opposite in fact. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:53 PM
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Chiming in here to say it is 100% misogynistic to call a women a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:31 PM
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That's why I always respected promiscuous women more than women who uphold the Madonna/whore complex because every women knows how men treat women they deem "slut" choosing to say fuck it, I'm gonna be myself rather that's highly sexual and seen as slutty or not, is radical and feminist in my opinion. At the end of the day it's called Madonna/whore not sexy girl/good girl. The whore is always in a state of degradation. So it is feminist to choose to not care about how society judges promiscuous …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:23 PM
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Monogamy is not the opposite of having lots of sex with different women.....you can be monogamous and do that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:16 PM
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I guess? Values change. I love casual sex but am very much a lover girl and value relationships, romance, loyalty and love. I just also like to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 12:16 PM
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You are saying that word I do not think you know what it means when used in a feminist context specifically, so do tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:55 PM
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God I hate those feminists so much and I find them lowkey misogynistic the way they always assume all things revolving around sex are for men and only defended by men and women who want to impress men. Can't tell u how many times I've been misgendered for defending porn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:55 PM
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Also you probably don't wanna go for the most popular kids if you're just starting out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:11 AM
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No I'm saying, being open to anybody is the point. Men like you wanna meet open minded people so yall can be yourself. Nerds and weirdos need to meet other like minded nerds and weirdos and so being open and finding other open minded people makes that easier. And as a nerd and weirdo who loves to party, they do exist! If I as a woman can still be open and agreeable after I've been sexually assaulted more than 3 times, had a gun pulled out on me and been roofied(all from going out and being a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:10 AM
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Same. I'm a party girl and I love dnd and video games and I'm in a stem degree rn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:51 PM
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Have you been to a rave?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:50 PM
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I only know partiers who get /have sex regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:47 PM
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What alternatives? And what my dear sir has lied to you so deeply that it said you can't improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:43 PM
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"What do you think of the music?" Is my Favorite line to start a conversation in the club At raves I ask them about the artist's specifically and ask them "is this your first time seeing excision?" And then go from there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:41 PM
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The "especially " means it's a bonus, not requirement. Also my cool is nerdy pokemom collecting weirdos, some peoples cool is classic cool guys. The point is the openness. Which many outgoing types will have
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:31 PM
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Try raves or metal/goth scene. Just spent the day hanging with a Danny Devito doppelgänger who had only hot woman around him. Clubs are more superficial but I see plenty of unattractive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:25 PM
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I literally have adhd and bpd. It's a valid question. How do you expect to meet people not going to where people be. Most introverts as adults suck it up and go out on occasion to maintain friends or doom themselves to loneliness. So unless you expect women/friends to break into your house, how do you expect to meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:22 PM
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I guess....but you never know if you try! I've been breaking into my local music scene to make friends and while It is hard and people are superficial I have made several real friends! You never wanna get so defeated if you don't try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:19 PM
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I mean I guess? Doing drugs and working out and going to parties is just the easy way out. Learning how to dj, guitar, throw a great party. That's harder dedication shit most men don't wanna do. So for an easy way to get way women yeah. But even things like taking an improv class to be funny or idk practicing your social skills can help. I just feel like drugs make it easier. And again, you don't have to drink if that's not your thing. I prefer weed and party drugs(raver) but I'm saying there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:17 PM
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I am literally a woman telling that's not true but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:45 AM
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Most people meet through friends of friends . Then online dating then bars
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:44 AM
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I guess if you've truly discovered I can't tell you otherwise! But I was like you believe I was introverted and hated parties and socializing. Really I was just socially anxious and not use to socializing regularly. And getting a boyfriend isn't easier as a woman even in nerd spaces. As a fat and ugly nerd who liked fellow nerds I was barely treated as a human let alone a girl. NOW men think it's cool that I was into dnd and video games but before I was just one of the guys. Granted I was black …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:39 AM
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Most local bands play at smaller venues/bars too!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:44 PM
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Try EDMTRAIN/Eventbrite and/or asking who to follow from the attendees
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:43 PM
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Is it being someone or not or allowing yourself to step outside your comfort zone and explore different versions yourself? I was a dnd mtg playing introvert and was convinced I would always be that way and never get a boy/girl friend. If I had said, I'm just a naturally introverted shy type I'd never have a boyfriend who pays my bills and wide circle of friends. It might be that you don't like parties but that ur telling yourself so you can limit yourself Nonetheless, dating apps will be hard si…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:41 PM
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Yes but understand that's why you don't get women. Women want fun easy going guys. Guys with a vibe. Last night me and all my friends who would definitely be considered very beautiful hung out with a 5'7 white guy not thicker than my wrist because he had drugs and dressed like a cool opium boy. He was and fun confident. If a guy that average or ugly can get women than you can too. You're choosing not to. I could've stayed a fat ugly nerd who just played my dnd and cod games all day but I picked …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:38 PM
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No wonder y'all get no woman yall hate everything fun
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:06 PM
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I met my boyfriend at a club. As a raver most of my friends met bfs/hookups that way
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:06 PM
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I'm a woman who loves to go out and disagree. I've been approached by men alone and have enjoyed the conversations we've had and mostly do go out to meet friends and partners
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:56 PM
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How do you expect to meet people/make friends if you hate everywhere the people be though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:55 PM
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No way you believe this. I'm a regular raver and party girl and I love when random people talk to me especially if they're cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:52 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:51 PM
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The issue is, women who like what you like are like you, and probably also introverts who don't leave the house
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:50 PM
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Have you tried getting into the local rock/punk scene? If your city has a nice-ish music scene meeting local and smaller bands is a good way to make friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:49 PM
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It doesn't make sense to complain about women with this point of view though. Y'all complain y'all can't get bitches but hate everywhere the bitches be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:48 PM
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Big city in the Midwest but not huge, and no I see it at raves, festivals, clubs, concerts, it happened to my bf and roommate yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:37 PM
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I have seen all male friend groups meet up with strangers and make new friends. I've seen single male friends do this. What communities do you frequent that you think that doesn't happen to normies?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:55 PM
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Then can you say you're searching/attempting to get a relationship? Or have a desire for one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:53 PM
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Is that my point? I think my point was how given historical context, basic logic, and general scientific and historical consensus, women have been an oppressed group of people since humans started learning to cultivate food and crops. What's your counter to checks notes literal hundreds of books and thousands of historical anecdotes supporting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:52 PM
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Your gender was sent to die Women didn't have to get "sent" anywhere to die. They were dying in backalleys and hospitals from failed abortions/birth mishaps (Also you know who made it so only men get sent to war?- men. You wanna know what group of people fought to put women on the front line of the military?-its feminists If you don't think women were oppressed for 14 thousand years we can open a history book together and can read the role of women's lives post agriculture revolution(when most a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:49 PM
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You apparently can't read cause I made several points. Terrible sense of humor and lack of reading comprehension is a bad combination.......
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:27 PM
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Sorry I know this is mostly pertaining to dating but the idea that the gender who couldn't even open credit cards till 50 years ago and had to be married to have rights for majority of history has the "longer stick" in this equation is objectively hilarious to me. Like even if all misogyny magically stopped the day second wave feminism ended, that's still 15 thousand years of gender inequality to correct.....in 50 years(not even) it's just ridiculous the logic you guys employ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:56 AM
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Also women get tested way more than heterosexual men. Even gay men get tested more than straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:53 AM
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OP if you want to get hot girls just sell drugs. literally the ugliest dude I know sells cocaine and gets the hottest bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:36 PM
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I find it odd that so many men on the sub pretend it's not the same with men. of course if a guy is boring and nerdy women are not gonna like him. you have to pick either or. you can be really hot and boring or really nerdy and hot or even really exciting, but really nerdy, but being nerdy and boring wouldn't appeal to women unless it's other boring and nerdy woman. This makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:16 PM
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That's not my only argument but I forgot on Reddit we do a thing where we make the most worst assumptions possible so. I was pointing out a way it could benefit men, there's many other ways but for incels I'd figure I'd point it out And finally, because I am and a talk to women who say things like: I don't want to be seen a slut I don't want to "waste" my sex. They wouldn't feel these things without pressure. Also because women want sex too and aren't all just robots programmed to go after chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:28 AM
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Saying this on purple pill where's there's tons of incels that cry about not getting laid. Feminism says women shouldn't be shamed around sex, once women have more sex they'll probably be more willing to have lower standards for casual sex(ie more men will have casual sex) but I mean that would require men stop shooting themselves in the foot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:46 PM
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Maybe what's bad to her isn't bad to you? I skate and party and probably/mostly scare introverted/shy guy types but still want a man to be nice, we can't always tell when a man is gonna be bad or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 03:42 PM
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Today I learned I'm physiologically impossible. Sidenote: I definitely know this isn't true because women risk more infinitely more during sex than men AND are judged twice as harshly. That's how you know we the real horndogs/fuckers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:32 PM
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"Isms" isn't an arguement" is only true when you have a misunderstanding, lack of understanding and deep ignorance of said isms. Your inability to see women as people with a wide array of hobbies implies a lack of humanity you see in women. Lack of seeing humanity in women can often lead to thinking women are less than. Thinking women are less than is bad and is misogyny. I know some people aren't taught that they can think women are beneath them without explicitly thinking(women are beneath me)…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:53 PM
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What so now I'm not a person cause I watch porn? You know how many people are unpersons now? misogyny runs deep within you sir
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:25 PM
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I'm a women telling you not always. I think I would know 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:45 PM
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I skateboard, play video games(exclusively fps' mind you) am into computer building, esports, djing/producing and DND. Porn. These hobbies tend to be very male dominated. I tend to get along with guys a lot because of said similar hobbies, all my female friends are women with a lot of guy friends because of said hobbies. Women are people. I think you should consider this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:24 PM
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I personally have never seen that particular brand but assuming you are being hyperbolic as someone who has adhd and used to be ugly, unless a man is like "I'd smash your vagina to bits" I assume he wants to be my friend, am often rudely awakened when it's not so. My bf will be like: "that guys totally wants to fuck you" and it'd be a man who like, did a basic human decency thing, so I always dismiss said claims, I will say, men never performed said basic acts when I was fat and ugly, so he may …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:16 PM
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"Anytime I'm with my buddies and the female friend shows up, they just become an asshole" Explain this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 09:27 PM
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Thinking befriending the KKK ends racism is so funny like the saying "I have a black friend" isn't there for a reaosn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:27 AM
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This makes sense b/c im a girl who doesn't do that and guys always think im flirting with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:10 PM
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Women not deriving sexual pleasure from men(orgasm gap) encourages you to be against our plight?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:34 AM
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The self feeding part misses something imo. "Men" the societal class. Created slut shaming and such. Its very old. But not as old as we think. It's best to just continue not shaming women as this lowers cost for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:55 AM
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Bro, this is a general consensus on why women seem so much more picky on who they decide to have casual sex with. That doesn't mean every women likes casual sex and is just super picky about it. It means most women are gonna need a super special occasion IF they're gonna do it. Not all women will even if the guy is super hot. Some women really are not sex for sex'a sake(idgi either tbh) but yes some women don't like it no matter who. Most are just more picky about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 12:38 AM
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I think what ur complaining about can be fixed. Lower the stakes. Picture this: you're chances of sleeping with a random women could in theory: get you killed and/or raped. Actually I lied most women know their killers so even if it's an acquaintance. This person can easily kill you. With their bare hands. On a whim. Not even that you can assaulted. Violently sexually. To the point of damage psychologically or otherwise, and you have no idea how or when this might could happen and every women yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:29 PM
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If it makes you feel better I'm a horny woman who would love to have casual sex but men seem not to like you very much when you sleep with them and also keep shaming, degrading and dehumanizing you when they think you're the type to have casual sex as well so 🤷🏾‍♀️ (Also men orgasm 40-80% of hookups compared to heterosexual women's 11%) Most of my female friends are similar horndogs who report the same. It's less detrimental to you to just keep it on the low and lean towards monogamy. Less assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:56 PM
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Hey man, one thing being ugly taught me is that it's way easier than u think to level up A lot of what is "ugly" can be fixed. wrong glasses shape, changing how u dress. facial hair can help give a jaw line/shape a guys face. My first(and hopefully only) bf was balding when we met and now he's completely bald and i still find him very sexy, and many women I meet do too! I'm 5'1 so I never cared about height. And in me and my friends opinions, the hottest guys are like 5'7-5'10 I feel like after …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:00 PM
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Yes. I was ugly then I got hot. You know how in SpongeBob how handsome squisdward happened? Literally me. Thanks skateboarding accident, running 3x a week and gym going. But before that, I got like, zero peen. And I was trying. I was willing to sleep with no strings attached, I was willing to let my one and straight only guy friend hit(he declined) I made the first move, still nothing. All of this while being told men fuck anything and how every girl gets dick. It was very hard and made me wanna…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:36 AM
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I'm a women and I'd say it's moreso most women can't imagine what it's like to have nobody that's want to FUCK you. As a former unfuckably ugly femcel I can tell you that it IS possible and DOES happen. They just tend to be less likely to have enough girl friends who understand/get it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:19 AM
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It's not taking it personal it's wanting time to be away from that sometimes. Something people deserve. Everyone deserves to have spaces where they don't have to be worried about being attacked for their skin color or gender. Women and people of color shouldn't HAVE to develop extra thick skin to put up with trolls. Especially when we are disproportionately getting hateful comments and harassment. Again you're argument is "sucks to suck" and I'm deeply curious as to why you, as a woman are oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:13 AM
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Not the same kind of threats, the same level of severity or the same amount of harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:51 AM
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You said being shitty and making jokes. I said harassed. Meaning death and rape threats, doxxing, misogynistic slurs, etc etc I can tell by this comment you've never been truly harassed or denied you're humanity at every turn. It's very annoying. Especially when you're just trying to have a specific kind of discussion or perform a specific activity. Also, in this argument you're making you yourself aren't denying this happens, just that "who cares" meaning you don't think harassment of people is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:07 PM
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When y'all say feminists y'all mean women who studied feminist theory or a woman on the internet with loud opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:02 PM
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Because women are often harassed to their detriment online. As a gamer, a woman and a nerd, safe communities are needed. As a black person I'm not trying to be around people who are constantly challenging my humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:50 PM
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I doubt it. I am a pro porn(in theory) feminist and like op I once thought as a woman I must be insane, or not really a woman at all because of my preoccupation with sex and I often to this day find it hard to relate to a lot of normie heterosexual women and even most hetfem feminists view sex because of the way sex is socialized to you as a woman. Most woman think women shouldn't be shamed but can't/won't/maybe aren't? Understanding of a woman who just enjoys sex for sex's sake, enough to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:32 PM
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I was literally a women. Trying to get a boyfriend,then trying to have sex and I wasn't getting any. At all. And it was not from lack of trying. I wasn't shy I put myself out there I made the first move (attempted to have casual sex with a male friend-contrary to popular belief they don't all wanna fuck they're friends- and he rejected said offer and I remained a virgin well until I experienced said glow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:33 PM
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Not true at all especially for average women, ugly women, women who are fat or disabled or old. You're talking about conventionally beautiful women who fit a certain demographic. I was said ugly fat women and was not offered like water and was rejected when trying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:15 PM
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How is figuring out a rapist or misogynist easier than the "game" necessary for men to get laid. Women have to be hot too lol. There's a reason why there's thousands of makeup tutorials and a billion dollar beauty industry. Men just aren't taught the correct skills to best achieve sex. And good sex is not easier for women then men. Women only orgasm 11% of the time during hookups. It's 60-80% for men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:13 PM
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Yes on an ONLINE DATING APP where 70% of its user base are male it's easy for women to have sex every day. I'm talking about real life. Online dating app men again, could kill and/or rape you, probably be bad sex, and aren't in real life, most don't message back after a couple replies either or fizzle out. That's why so many women don't like dating apps. But if dating apps are the metric yes. I agree. It's not an accurate representation of the actual world. I think the flown out women are the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:08 PM
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I'm telling it does take skill and effort for women to have sex though. Like literally. Especially if you want GOOD sex that won't leave your murdered or raped. It also takes skill to have the thick skin to not constantly have ones boundaries pushed and/or called a slut. None of this is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:33 PM
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Yeah. That's proof sex isn't easy for all women. Only the hot ones. I was just hot and willing and probably more cause of all the hormones and yet had no takers. It's proof women just care more about being fuckable, and work harder at doing so, to the point of sacrificing a lot of personal self 2."average " women can't either man lol. I am around a lot of above average women so I know what that life is like. I'm talking women who get flewed out/dms by rappers etc etc. they do not look like avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:30 PM
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Thanks nice guy apologizist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:01 PM
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Why would a women being highly sexual lead to doubt? For what basis? Most women have experiences with sexual assault, virgin or otherwise. I was virgin who hadn't gotten past 2nd base, I knew girls who were on double digit numbers before it happened, I know married women and little girls with sexual assault stories. Being sexually open has nothing to do with it and I'm not at all sure why it would be antithetical to the other
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:00 PM
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Lmfaooooooo(🖕🏾) I literally refuse to main or ever play support because of that stereotype 😭😭😭❤️❤️😭 I was Soldier 76, D.va and orisha main until they nerfed her :/. I'm starting to like junk rat a lil bit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:43 PM
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Well Im a lover of the outdoors. I skateboard 3+ times a week on top running 3 times a week, going to the gym twice a week and I love to party/edm scene so I regularly attend raves and festivals. I talk to the people people there on top of seeing them. I live in a pretty big city as well. I wouldn't say all men but a lot of them do. Maybe it isn't a majority but it's enough to matter. Especially with painted nails on men being such a big trend rn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:26 PM
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I'll tell you as a former ugly women having sex as a women is not easy. I was a MTG playing anime nerd into fanfics, comics and video games. I was surrounded by men. But because I was fat ugly and black I got no 🍆. None. Despite constantly trying lol. Like I was rejected by male crushes and peers and most didn't wanna befriend me anyways cause I was ugly. It wasn't until I got skinny and left high school/lookmaxxed that I got any at all. I worked hard to be able to be a slut dammit! What's wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:22 PM
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Honestly celebs shouldn't be the marker or empowering cause they're a brand. It's like when they make a female video game character dress skimpy and say it's empowering cause choice. Choice of her male brand execs is what it is 😭😭😭 I'm pro sex work though I don't think it's empowering, moreso valid work that will always exist. But I also hate the industry and agree that sad work under capitalism is hard to keep safe and keep sex workers having their autonomy so ideally it would exist in a world …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:12 PM
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Why is metoo antithetical to WAP? I have been sexually assaulted before , and am still a very sexual person and comfortably so, these two things can coexist? Also where's that millennial statement from? I think you are misunderstanding a lot of things in your statement so as a feminist I'll break down a few Male gaze is originally a film term used to describe the objectification of women in film specifically. It soon became a catch all in recent years for how men objectify women as a whole and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:07 PM
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I'm a feminist but I disagree. I fall into more radical pro trans alliances but I think sex can be empowering, as well as limiting and everything else Most of all I think sex is an obsession of humans that will never go away. Wanting to be sexy, wanting to have sex, that's never going away, wanting to titalate others will never only. As a black feminist especially I enjoy seeing the loud sexual expression of black women that is not controlled by others. Op has a lot to learn about feminism and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:54 PM
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But you're downgrading women who have a lot of sex? Even if they're being safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:49 PM
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You can be an open sociopath. Openness has nothing to do with a lack of empathy and regard for others as characterized by aspd(the modern term for what we colloquially refer to as sociopathy)Openness is being open to responding. Rather to people or things. Thank you, glad we agree I will push back on this. Both of those pieces of media regularly make claims about the world but I guess the thing is people are more open about not believing it. My relationship and many others to astrology is that o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:38 PM
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I see men everyday who paint their nails, and love fashion. Like a guy who gets his nails done and dresses flamboyant and is super into fashion and he's in a open with relationship with 2 very beautiful attractive women. "Stacy's" if you will. Not a minority you just need to get outside and open your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:26 PM
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Maybe there's a reason women don't wanna date conservative men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:14 PM
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Popular men are open. Meaning if a women whose into astrology talks to him about it he can entertain OR playfully push back on her a little. The reflex to dismiss a women's intelligence is something you should maybe pause on, as a man. Astrology is as real as anime or video games or dnd(all things I love) why is that so shit on by men but girls into nerdy stuff are kinda idolized(if they're hot and not too nerdy)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:04 PM
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This is so hilarious. The astrology hoe didn't give you no pussy so now you think all astrology girls must be dumb. I think most women know/think it's fake. It's just fun! And also sun sign compatibility is looked down upon by most astrologers and she would need to know you're moon/Venus/4th house placements or calculate the synestry between the both of your charts to "accurately" measure astrological compatibility. So not only was she most likely incorrect, Sounds like she wasn't that deep into…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:53 PM
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What's the bingo?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:50 PM
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The way your head is gonna explode when I tell you I love and exclusively play fps' and am the midst of building my own PC, just finished binge watching the latest season of Demon slayer, and also love astrology, girly pop music and pink
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:48 PM
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Also you should definitely get into skateboarding. Huge welcoming community, easy way to make friends and great physical activity. I lost like 30+lbs boarding everyday for a year
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:32 PM
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Even for sex man. It’s a little satisfying now that I’m considered fuckable those same men trying to sleep with me now , I’m sure my younger self would feel gratitude . And I looooove short guys, some of the best d ever tbh 😭😭. I’m glad I could at least somewhat? Satisfy you? I implore you to explore the nerdy girl in your library or smash bros comp because you’re probably ignoring her and she’s probably just as horny as you. You should also focus on believing women when they tell you about wome…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:31 PM
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I promise I’m not lying. Swear it on my favorite grandmother, I can answer any question you like to prove it but I’m not sure if this will adequately satisfy you. Yes and yes. At the time I was not shy and had no problem chatting up strangers and enjoyed things like dnd, going out drinking, anime cons, playing video games etc Yes and yes. I’ve even offered and been turned down, multiple times in fact lol. I am not shy again and enjoy sex/feeling sexy quite a bit so those times did not feel good …
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 02:03 PM
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No it’s true I’m real. I was ugly. And weird. And I was very outgoing and openly sexual but still no man wanted to sleep with me even. Very embarrassing for me as a women tbh and not many women understood it
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:43 PM
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I was once a female incel and could never get anybody or anyone so seeing men who felt the same way I did is interesting to me
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:40 PM
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Why do y’all assume feminists go around saying all men are rapists?? I genuinely enjoy the male figure you could say and still acknowledge the ways men uphold systems that hurt us. Men being silent when misogyny happens men perpetuating misogyny men agreeing with misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:04 PM
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The thing is that violence against women isn’t an extreme rarity. 48% of black women have experienced domestic violence. A women is killed by her bf/husband every day. The ranges on sexual harassment are even higher. The idea that it’s just the one off crazy guy is kinda why people don’t believe rape victims
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:56 PM
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