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We got matching Christmas sweaters that say "I got everything I want for Christmas" and mine says "it's me, I'm everything" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:02 PM
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Women are always treated worse than men all the time forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 05:15 PM
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If you're not married in your 40s, it's because you prefer to be single. There's the whole meme about desperate women in their 30s on first dates like "me and my three remaining viable eggs are having a great time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:02 PM
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My flair says man. Automod removes my comments for not being flaired man. To signal my manliness, I refuse to ask for help how to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:52 PM
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Aww me too. Being a one of a kind guy, I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:38 PM
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My wife is the best case scenario relationship for me. Incels will read that and think "oh that poor guy..."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:22 PM
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Would you say you're extra good at pattern recognition? What's your favorite train?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:00 AM
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You can just call us "normal" 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:47 AM
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Why do neurodivergent people double down after I clarify that I compared two bad things to show that both things are bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:55 AM
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Why do neurodivergent people see the comparison between misandry and racism as a support of racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:38 AM
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Well by neutral I mean people who sit on the subway minding their own business not looking at anyone or talking to anyone. How don't you know what neutral means?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:54 PM
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To be fair, it was made by men who had a big problem with hypergamous women. (I'm 60% Italian)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:48 PM
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Really? I'm neutral by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:45 PM
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I got the idea from Daniel Tosh when he said "Being an ugly woman is like being a man, you're going to have to get a job". So I figured that ugly women are as invisible as men are when it comes to people being nice to them. Most of the time it's just a smile and a good morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:44 PM
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Haha could you imagine some guy being nice to you and then telling you it's because you're ugly?? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:34 PM
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So that's really only internet fiction. Go ask any of your IRL guy friends about the last time one of them was complemented by a stranger and how that went. It's pretty risk free unless you're complementing strange men in dark alleyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:59 PM
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Kinda feel like 9/11 was worse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:55 PM
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Oh yeah, if you're pretty you're supposed to finish complements with "bro" to make it platonic. I just kinda assume Redditors are all pretty mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:48 PM
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Well personally, I make a point to be extra nice to fat or ugly women because I know they don't get a lot of positive attention from men, so it makes me happy to make them happy for a little bit. Literally all you have to do is pick a trait of theirs and be like "I like that shirt, blue looks good on you" and he'll feel so good that his wardrobe will be 80% blue for the next ten years. It's nice to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:34 PM
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I'm saying that abnormal people see the comparison and think it means racism good. Are you abnormal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:18 PM
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What's neat is that most normal see a comparison to racism, they think "oh this thing they compared to racism is bad" instead of being so deeply rooted in their own hatred that they think "oh this thing they compared to racism is good, which means they think racism is good"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:40 PM
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He also used pronouns in his sentence, if I bold them does that make it the most important thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:58 PM
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Do you have examples of whatever it is that you’re talking about? Women aren't even accountable for their own short term memory 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:50 PM
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My point is that there's a set of behaviors men should have in regards to women. For example, holding the door. There are no such expectations for women. You asked me to prove there are no expectations for women. This is insanity, which is to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:46 PM
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Your inability to answer the question is why I'm right. Thank you for that ☺️ Bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:39 PM
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There needs to be a better way reddit tags new people to conversations. Yeah I was talking about the original person I replied to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:38 PM
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Exactly my point. Which is why I said I think OF would collapse if more women realized the dangers, the lasting consequences, and the fact that the median income for an OF model is like $100/mo It gets more bleak when you notice the volume of models during economic downturns. OF is the new "Hey, do you know how to dance? Want to make some easy money?" $100 is absolutely nothing too. It's like one shift at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:36 PM
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He also said creeps. Do you think being called creep cracks the top 20 insults for what a man has been called in his actual life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:30 PM
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Well that kind of ties back to how common the thing is. Just playing the statistics, you not only know a woman who's had an abortion but you're probably closely related to one. You've never met anyone whose met anyone who was a cannibal. To be an effective feelings hurter, you have to tie it to something personal and attack it. The thing that caught my attention is that you called slut the worst thing that comes to mind for an insult against women. It makes me curious about your life experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:27 PM
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My example is this direct question: Do you have a few examples of the proper way a woman should treat men that isn't Sharia Law?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:20 PM
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Men don't have the tribalism that women have. When a man does something wrong, men will call that guy a psychopath. When a woman does something wrong, other women will come out of the woodwork to defend her and explain why it's not really her fault and you're a misogynist for noticing it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:19 PM
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Men raised by single mothers are the most likely to abandon their children. Bro there is a very common theme amongst the shittiest parts of society, and single mothers keep popping up Single mothers also raise the most suicide cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:54 PM
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I said that our society has a set of rules for the proper way that a man is supposed to treat women, and there is no such set of rules for the proper way that a woman is supposed to treat men, and whenever someone suggests that there is it gets called Sharia Law. Do you have a few examples of the proper way a woman should treat men that isn't Sharia Law?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:53 PM
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You misread his comment and thought he said that cancer was demonized, when what he said was that men's double standards are demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:47 PM
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If it was any other variable you'd change your tune. If 85% of violent rapists grew up watching 5 hours of Cartoon Network each day, you'd be on the streets with the rest of the Temperance League trying to get it banned. The Sandy Hook shooter literally stole his single mother's improperly stored gun to commit the shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:44 PM
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Not the point you’re making but I always find it fascinating that the worst thing a man can think of about a woman is “whore.” It's not the worst, it's the go to insult. It's the same exact thing for women whose go to is incel. The worst thing I can think of to call a woman is a baby murderer. Between a quarter and a third of women will commit abortion in their lifetimes. What's nuts is that since 1973, were looking at pentuple-Holocaust numbers of dead babies. This is way more likely to hurt yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:40 PM
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What's annoying is that we're not allowed to get any more specific than just "men" with crime statistics, otherwise were racist or islamaphobic 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:35 PM
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85% of violent rapists are raised by single mothers (the stats for loads of problems tie back to being raised by a single mother) and whenever the conversation of minimum wage as a living wage comes up, the focus is always on single mothers needing yet even more help from the rest of us. It's not that single mothers are evil, they're just burdens who are the primary sources of a lot of evil in the world. The Sandy Hook school shooter was raised by a single mother, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:31 PM
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Society ok's women's double standards while demonizing men's regardless if they are admirable or not It's not the cancer that gets demonized, it's the double standards. Like how there is a proper way for how a man should treat women, but when you suggest the proper ways for women to treat men they start crying about all this Sharia Law everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:25 PM
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The main problem is that the market is so oversaturated that you have to get specific. It's why human dignity costs about as much as a cheeseburger on that app. One girl punched herself in the face until she got a bloody nose for like $10. The Internet is dark and full of terrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:05 PM
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I think OF would collapse if more women realized the dangers, the lasting consequences, and the fact that the median income for an OF model is like $100/mo Imagine doing some depraved shit with kitchen appliances for a small group of strangers and then having to go to your office job the next day and pretend like everything is fine 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:50 PM
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Yes. Everyone's life sucks but yours. What a reasonable thing to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:29 PM
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🤣 typical angry woman. Hear a fact that upsets you? Call it mysogynistic and accuse people of being incels! The NIH says men masturbate three times per week on average. Webmd says couples have sex between two and three times per month Your lived experience doesn't matter when people give you peer reviewed data showing otherwise. This is the female equivalent of white privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:04 PM
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The data is on my side. Without knowing your husband, he has sex with you once or twice a month and he jerks off every other day. This is just the average amount according to multiple studies. The angry women can't tell me why their husbands are jerking off five times for every one time they have sex. No man is responding to my assertions because men know I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:37 PM
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I wouldn't date black women and my wife isn't black, therefore black women are a myth. This is your logic. This is literally what you're telling me with one noun replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:28 PM
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I really didn't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:20 PM
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Literally only women are telling me I'm wrong. 50+ replies to my original comment and not one single guy chimed in to disagree with me. Probably the men you know are like that, but they just don't tell you about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:04 PM
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No man* Only women replied, and they only replied defensively. 🤷🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:56 PM
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How far gone are you that I start my comment with "humans are" and you need me to clarify that I mean men too? Men... are human. What the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:34 PM
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Humans are selfish and will exploit every system they can figure out how to exploit. The only reason McDonald's doesn't put heroin in the burgers is because it's against the law. All women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:20 PM
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Let me ask you- if someone makes a post every day or two on rCats that sparks hundreds of negative responses from one particular group of cat owners, how likely is it that this person actually holds these opinions versus how likely is it that they're a troll or they're engagement farming?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:56 PM
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What's interesting is that my comment sparked 52 replies and a dozen women calling me bad and wrong... but not one man disagreeing with me. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:51 PM
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Your experience of this subreddit changes once you start noticing who engages with what. 99% of the commenters in a Lilith thread are guys telling her she's wrong. This thread has one flared woman replying once out of 90 comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:48 PM
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Give me any reasonable explanation for why the term broad is nasty and I'll take it back, but that dizzy dame 100% just has a chip on her shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:36 AM
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If you're an adult earning enough to not live paycheck to paycheck, polite manners dictate that whoever had the idea for the date pays. Imagine a woman asking you to go to a nice restaurant with her and when the check comes she doesn't even reach for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:57 AM
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I'm taking issue with the other person's framing that your orgasm is my problem. I think the initial comment said something like "I don't know why anyone would put up with that". So if the sex that a woman is having is so lackluster that the response is "why would I put up with this?" I'm saying that you should take responsibility for your own orgasms, much like men do 80% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:36 PM
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Women are so predictable. When you don't like the argument, flip the table over and make some version of an incel accusation 🙄 What a valuable person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:20 PM
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That's cool, I'm talking about women and the choices they make. So while some women find solace in the fact that they're slightly less miserable than single men, most women choose happiness and get hitched.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:55 PM
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It took me 5 seconds to find a study that says you're wrong https://ifstudies.org/press-release/married-moms-twice-as-likely-to-be-very-happy-than-single-or-childless-women It's all fun and games and waiting for mister right until that wall comes at 30 and the doctor says your fertility window is closing. Sincerely though, enjoy your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:41 PM
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The problem with the whole conversation is that promiscuity doesn't exist in a vacuum. The median number of partners for a woman to have in her life is about 4. If a girl I'm dating has had 20 partners, it's not that data point I care about so much as it is the implications like possible mental illness (bipolar, borderline, and even schizophrenia all have hyper promiscuity as symptoms) but also past trauma and baggage and the obvious health risks. So if we're talking about spherical, frictionles…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:36 PM
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Why are you denigrating women based on the stupidity of some broken ones? The argument exists because women have a really hard time admitting that a woman with 4X the median number of partners is deeply damaged. If the response was typically "Wow that's fucked up, she slept with 30 guys?!" nobody would have a problem. But, and this is almost exclusively an internet problem, when a guy goes "eew she blew 26 guys, not in a row though" you are guaranteed to have simps, male feminists, and people li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:11 PM
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Okay but the whole point I'm making is the time investment in a woman's orgasm and which side the average man falls on that cost benefit analysis. So like if you orgasm in 15-20 minutes, you're faster than most women who statistically take about 35 minutes or more, and that doesn't count the preamble or afterglow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:53 PM
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Honestly this is an internet-fabriated issue. As long as it's not some crazy multiple of the median, nobody actually cares. I compare it to food. The average person eats 3 slices of pizza a week and you're eating 5, that probably just means you work at Costco and grab a slice for lunch, no big deal. But if you're eating 2 pizzas a day, that's an eating disorder and implies a whole slew of other issues at play. The analogy doesn't work as well for people who are virgins, but it's the same concept…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:39 PM
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No I constantly mention how 99 times out of 100 the second wife isn't older than the first wife and leaving 😏 comments in threads about stuff like https://nypost.com/2025/04/18/lifestyle/gen-z-warming-up-to-age-gap-relationships-amid-white-lotus-plot-twist/ while women cry about how The Wall doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:13 PM
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rewarding Interesting word choice in a conversation about the orgasm gap...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:04 PM
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3% of women are lesbians, don't let Netflix skew reality for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:00 PM
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Their domestic violence rates also shoot from 28% to 60% so probably calm down about lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:53 PM
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Because the conversation is about the orgasm gap and why men typically prefer only being responsible for their own orgasms. Also don't try and shift to "the point of having sex" because that's literally procreation and evolutionarily the female orgasm is as useless as nipples on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:42 PM
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So you're saying that men choose masturbation 80% of the time because the caliber of sex their wives provide is bad? Because like... this isn't my personal experience, this is "men on average". I'm saying that I can take 45 minutes to preheat my charcoal grill, spend 30 minutes going to the store for ingredients, spend time and effort prepping those ingredients, then another 10-15 minutes cooking and assembling a quality burger... or literally I can have a burger in my hands 5 minutes from now b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:38 PM
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Statistically men masturbate 2-3 times per week. Statistically men have sex with their wives 1-2 times per month. If it's not the time-to-value issue with his orgasm, why do you think the average man choses masturbation 4-5X more often than sex with his wife? Also what's neat is that like 15 women all pounced on my comment with their how dare yous but men are strangely silent to my comparison between fast food and cooking a meal...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:25 PM
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First of all, not everytime you want to have sex does your partner also want to have sex at the same time plus it requires more time than taking care of it yourself, and you don’t always have the time. Okay but this is exactly my point - men masturbate 4-5X more frequently than they have sex with their wives. The variable to mitigate is "women as the gatekeepers of sex" which women hate admitting, and you explicitly agreed to my point about the convenience. What's interesting is that nobody seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:21 PM
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Women are so predictable. There's nothing offensive about the word broad in either the meaning or the origin, you're just permanently offended 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:36 PM
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This isn't an absolute statement because the pedants in the crowd can't understand what a generalization is and it's not a personal story about my life. Go Google it. The average man jerks off 2-3 times per week, 8-12 times per month. The average married man has sex 1-2 times per month. This is a bell curve that shows you what normal, typical people are doing. Are there men who have sex every day? Sure. Are there men who haven't had sex in eight years? Definitely. But if you picked a random marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:31 PM
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Honey I'm so sorry to tell you what gooners did to the wholesome Incredibles story and that powerful Elastigirl character who is a loving mother and wife. The origin of stories don't matter when you're talking about the depravity of the modern sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:24 PM
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I disagree with the framing that your orgasm is my responsibility and women's disregard for the fact that the convenience factor outpaces whatever extra pleasure your orgasm would give me by a factor of 5, as per the frequency men masturbate vs the frequency married couples have sex. I will accept the argument that men are just 5 times as sexual as women, but I'm absolutely sure you don't want to concede that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:19 PM
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Further down the comment chain I point out that the average man goes to Chick Fil-A 2-3 times each week but only cook that meal once or twice a month. So men are masturbating 4 or 5 times as frequently as they're having sex... but all of that doesn't count because of your generic "you're bad at sex" rebuttal. Women are so predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:13 PM
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her first husband Did you ever notice how women can't help but tell on themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:10 PM
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As a reminder, my argument is meant to rebut The orgasm gap is not just from PIV sex. Some men don’t want to get a woman off if she doesn’t finish in a way that requires no extra effort from him. I wouldn’t put up with that. Nobody should.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:08 PM
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Most men experience pleasure from porn as well. If you were right, there wouldn't be this massive dropoff in the frequency of sex among married couples, but there is. Statistically, men masturbate 2-3 times per week and married couples have sex about twice a month. You're not a bad person, just inconvenient and not as pretty or degenerate as the unlimited, infinite access to free porn tailored to your man's specific kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:53 PM
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That's super neat! the rise in this monster porn fetish. Doesn't really matter where the idea of the minotaur originated when I'm talking about why "Morning Glory Milking Farm" (real book) sold literally over 100,000 copies https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/123852869-morning-glory-milking-farm My point is that women goon to monsters not because of the meme about white women fucking their dogs, but because those monsters have all the traits they've squashed out of men for the last generation or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:39 PM
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Masturbation takes 5-10 minutes. Sex takes an hour, plus the time it takes to shower afterwards. Now if it's new exciting sex with someone who looks like one of the women I jerk off to, 110% worth the extra time and energy. But in the same way guys are competing with "the absence of a man in her life" you're competing with that convenience and those women in his head. Without sounding selfish, why specifically should I spend the time and energy going to the store, prepping ingredients and cookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:18 PM
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They've spent decades villainising masculinity which led to the rise in this monster porn fetish. Beauty and the Beast, Twilight, True Blood, the list goes on. It's not okay for men to be masculine anymore otherwise it's "toxic" so in the hyper popular smut they need a magical excuse to be that way to make it okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:36 PM
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Walk me through why it's "nasty" to call women broads. What about the word broads is offensive, specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:25 PM
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Either Vermin Supreme for the clear messaging, Shoe0nHead for the enforcement and gatekeeping, or that Lilith broad who posts here all the time to see how radicalized it can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:38 PM
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I'm secretly trying to start a grassroots movement to elect a Pope of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:03 PM
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There's no such thing as feminism. There are no specific rules for who is and isn't a feminist or anyone with the authority to decide who is and isn't a feminist. For example, an anti-frminist who supports gender equality will often get womansplained to about why he's a feminist even though he hates feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:23 PM
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I thought being drunk excuses you of consequences for your decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:57 PM
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And drunk driving is an action that someone has chosen to inflict on everyone near that road.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 12:31 PM
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They did studies and it's a whole thing about how being married signals to women that he's a man of quality. Men get significantly more attention when they wear their rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:47 AM
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On the other hand, I enjoy fitting in and not feeling like I'm inconvenient to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:20 AM
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Other people: Oh Bill? Yeah he's a nice guy. You: Bill fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:42 AM
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The difference is whether other people are calling you a nice guy or if you're calling yourself a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:25 AM
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My wife has higher expectations of me than she does for anyone else and honestly I should live up to them based solely on how superior I am to other people. There's servile doormat and then there's living the saying "People judge others on their actions and judge themselves on their intentions".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:48 PM
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Honestly I read your title and thought it was the choice of peaceful solitude or living with a woman which gives you constant agita. I love my wife and choose being married to her every day but Jesus Christ there's a full compost bin on my kitchen counter and I still get yelled at for throwing out onion peels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:45 PM
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In the US, a woman with a gun is more likely to have it used against her by a male partner. Than what? Use it in self defense? Because again, 2million crimes are stopped by guns each year and there's like 15,000-20,000 murders a year. And that's not even "murders involving guns". Do you just say shit and assume because you're a girl nobody will question it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:36 PM
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Women don't comprehend dealing with the consequences of their own decisions. If a guy gets blackout drunk, drives home, and wraps his car around a tree killing himself... that's 100% his fault. If a woman did the same thing, you'd have feminists blaming everyone in the world besides the drunk driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:26 PM
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Interesting. So you're scared for your safety... all the time? Like are you scared right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:19 PM
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It will never stop being amazing, the lengths women will go just to abdicate responsibility. Guns prevent about 2million crimes per year, most of them prevented without a shot being fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:36 PM
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Yeah and that's an inherently female take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:31 PM
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Alternatively, Islam is right about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:16 PM
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Then I'd recommend the gun equivalent for whatever country you're in. What's interesting is that no matter the country, women ALWAYS outsource the responsibility for their safety. It's kind of crazy once someone points it out- men take responsibility for their own safety and other things so their advice always comes from that perspective. Women never do, so their advice always comes from that perspective. So like me as a man hear "this person doesn't feel safe" and the response is steps you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:15 PM
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I know. Its only reasonable for people who have sincere, valid concerns for their safety. The whiners and the delusional women don't need one. But if you recognize that you're in actual danger, this is the solution. This is America.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:09 PM
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Okay read the first three words of my reply to that person out loud and come back and repeat your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:05 PM
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Its not "no fear" it's "no common sense". If a guy went to a club and got blackout drunk, whatever happened to him after that is his fault. If a woman went to a club and got blackout drunk, whatever happened to her is the patriarchy's fault and how dare you victim blame?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:00 PM
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Buy a gun, tell him to go down on you, wear a condom. Are women's problems so small?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:58 PM
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Pick me's are just women who don't hate men enough. Like it's as common to call a woman a pick me for occasionally being nice to her man as it is to call a man who dared criticize a woman an incel. These are not serious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:01 AM
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If it was notoriety, we'd see increases in other countries. Its a uniquely American problem even though Canada has 40 guns per person, almost half of what America is packing. And again, about 43-45% of Americans have always owned guns. It peaked in 1960 with 50% but it's never dropped below 40% in 65 years. Scientists would call that "a constant".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:01 AM
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We've always had access to guns though, is the point. So what's changed, do you think? Why do you think we went from one school shooting a decade to one a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:54 AM
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That's on me, 60s not 70s Also holy shit there's 4x as many guns in the US and a smaller percentage of Americans have guns? Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:54 AM
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Bro doesn't know how to control for population growth. Does bro at least know that the population literally doubled since the 70s? Probably not 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:53 AM
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https://news.gallup.com/poll/1645/guns.aspx The percentage of Americans who own a gun has decreased over the last 50 years. Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:15 AM
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Its pretty standard for "certain groups" to not give a shit about reality and reimagine events that confirm their biases. Agree or disagree with the verdict, but too damn many people learned that Kyle Rittenhouse shot white guys on his trial day 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:11 AM
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Yeah she's the victim here, just like when I film people who are asleep in their homes without their consent. Hold 👏 women 👏 accountable 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:08 AM
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Yeah you blamed video games and then I stopped reading. I can't take that seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:27 PM
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Interesting how male feminists will just have entirety different conversations out of nowhere in order to make women the victim somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:04 PM
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That was a different guy. My argument is that there are thousands of more gun laws and regulations than there were fifty years ago and the bullshit rebuttal is "crime happens". Why fucking bother having laws if crime happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:34 PM
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Is nobody abiding the law? Because it doesn't have to be 100% for the access to be diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:08 PM
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The access to guns has absolutely not become more available. Tens of thousands of new gun laws have been enacted since the 1970s what are you talking about?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:45 PM
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Losers have absolutely always existed, I agree. Now if we couple that with the fact that access to guns has always existed... why are there 10X the mass shootings and school shootings as there were back in the 80s and 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:38 PM
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No she's just like 20/21 and in a new relationship. I love my wife, she makes my life better every day, and I'll come across the table if you insult her. But Jesus Christ in 15 years she's done some annoying as fuck stuff and that's just what happens when you live with people for that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:11 PM
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Part of being a bad friend is hearing without listening. Again, 100% of the complaints that actually friend zoned men and not third had complaints from the women they complain about are them telling you about a bad friend. Its like that narcissist Alexandria Ocasio saying that any criticism coming from Republicans is because they want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:47 PM
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Someone who respects my feelings and doesn't complain about their dating troubles shortly after you tell them that you like-like them? Literally every complaint about the friend zone is, at its core, complaining about an objectively bad friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:20 PM
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That's such an insane take that you're either a troll or you've never been in a relationship and are just blind guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:21 PM
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So... condoms...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:12 AM
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So that describes a rape irregardless of the condom situation...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:25 PM
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Its weird that someone who gets a rash from band-aids wouldn't know that standard band-aids have latex and the ones that say "sensitive skin" are latex alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:55 PM
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Hey how does a guy have sex with you without wearing a condom when you want to wear a condom, does he talk you out of pressing charges before or after?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:48 PM
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There's non latex options which someone who is allergic to latex condoms would probably know about....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:39 PM
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That star includes when people don't use them right. Its also the only birth control that both parties can see, so there's no question like there is when you say "I'm on the pill" or "I have a vasectomy"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:11 PM
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Yeah, why bother even making it a law, we should abolish it right? Or is that an insane legbeard take that I'm responding hyperbolically to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:10 PM
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Honey if we're about to have sex and you tell me to put a condom on and I don't but I still have sex with you, that's a Class A Felony.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:05 PM
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Its wild that people will get surgery or change their body chemistry instead of just wearing condoms. Wasn't women's birth control like super dangerous in the 70s and broads just gobbled them up anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:28 PM
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"New Yorkers are kind but not nice, and Californians are nice but not kind." There's a whole subreddit dedicated to this concept called r/chaoticgood
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:00 AM
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This (the OP) is basic feminist trash I'm on this sub too much. I read this and quick scrolled up thinking "Lilith again?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:27 AM
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The first time I learned about this man was from a post a couple hours ago of a clip where he's like "I've only been with my wife, she's my dream I love her" and then just him watching a three minute montage of her talking about what a whore she was, is, and aspires to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:25 AM
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Kanye was right, hurt people hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:16 AM
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The stat is misleading because it includes two and three time losers, when you only count first marriages, it's around 30% and a while back I saw one that broke it down by year of the marriage and if you can make it to 2 years it was like 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:25 PM
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Its important to not take women seriously when they're defending female on male domestic violence so I responded with a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:16 PM
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Did you forget your own post or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:50 PM
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Wait then why is it "happy wife happy life"? If that statistic is true you'd think women would make a much bigger effort to keep their men happy...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 12:36 PM
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Also something uncle Ted talked about - 30 years ago there wasn't really an internet for people to miss. Creature comforts enslave us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:32 PM
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An ax is $35 and the Pacific Northwest is that way, but my point is that things like toilet paper are highly addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:54 PM
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What's the alternative? Like we all see it as a scheme so either you can play the game or... what? Be miserable living paycheck to paycheck with literally no plan for when you're older? I'm as politically Ted Kasczynsky as they come, but even he started his thesis with an explanation that there's no stopping or fighting the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:20 PM
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Yeah definitely has nothing to do with the letter that's 5% of the LGBTQIA being the absolute main characters. Definitely don't notice that part. Please forget that in the 90s they were called "gay pride parades".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:46 PM
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Yeah and it's those brags from a half century ago that cause 85% of women to say they don't identify as feminist. Have you ever noticed how much time you spend doing damage control for feminism? At best it's irrelevant but usually it's abrasive which is why you'll read studies like this Pew article about how everyone supports gender equality despite most people not identifying as feminist and immediately start defending your brand instead of being happy that everyone supports gender equality. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:31 PM
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It was known for trans people in all history. Weird that nobody's hated trans people until about ten years ago, after marriage equality was passed. Definitely don't notice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:02 PM
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99.9999% of the world will consider my death statistically negligible because I won't have a dishonest feminist crying crocodile tears for me. 750,000 people have died from medical malpractice since roe v Wade was overturned. Why aren't you crying for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:58 PM
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How many women have died because Roe v Wade was overturned? As a percentage of Americans who have died from medical malpractice since 2022, how many of that 750,000 are they? The word of the day is "negligible".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:45 PM
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Trans children is a new concept. In 2005 there were two child gender clinics in the US and today there's about 2500. It wouldn't make any sense for trans adults to have gotten meds or surgery as children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:43 PM
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Speaking of experts, how many times does a trans person go in for a consultation and get rejected on legitimate grounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:34 PM
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These bans are specific for trans kids. No bans on circumcision, no bans on child ear piercing, no bans on gender affirming care for non trans children, no bans for puberty blockers not for transition purposes. All of these things require parental consent. If there was a 13 year old kid who wanted bottom surgery and their parents said no. Would you respect their decision or call it a tragedy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:10 PM
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More than 20 percent of transgender children and adolescents in the U.S. can no longer legally access gender-affirming health care Buddy, children can't consent. They can't pierce their ears, or get tattoos, or smoke or drink. Adults don't trust children to make decisions for themselves and nobody calls it an infringement of their rights except when trans people get mad that they can't operate on children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:04 PM
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Nobody has been denied lifesaving treatment. 250,000 people die every year from medical malpractice and none of them are crying oppression. You're being hysterical. You literally don't know anyone who knows anyone who's been denied an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:50 PM
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I wonder which states... Its the whole country. But here's a map that goes by state. Do you see how you believed a lie and nobody's being denied abortion "rights"? He threatened to defund ENTIRE hospitals if they help trans people, not just the procedures. Were you or anyone you know denied the surgery? I don't really care about threats and hypothetical maybes and rumors and predictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:47 PM
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More women committed abortion this year than last year. More women committed abortion last year than the year before. And on and on and on going back something like 20 years. You're parroting a made up lie that you've never actually experienced. Even calling cosmetic surgery "medical care", nobody is denied it. You can be a fat guy taking 17 shots of Ozempic a day to fight off the diabetes, but it's not a human right for the government to have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:24 PM
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We live in America. How? How are you or any women you personally know oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:16 PM
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I explicitly asked you how you or anyone you personally were oppressed and your example was oppressed in any way shape or form and you came up with "I need a doctor to prescribe drugs". You're not a serious person worth talking to 🖐🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:10 PM
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I’m allowed to have access to any drug the FDA has approved? This is the thing you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:33 PM
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Yeah. We live in America. Nobody is oppressed, were just bored and like to bitch and moan on the Internet. Like we have a huge chunk of the country crying about how Trump is a fascist dictator at the same time they're holding giant protests against him and talk show hosts are regularly making homophobic jokes about him. Nobody is flying giant naked baby Putin balloons outside the Kremlin. Dude, even guys are calling out who screech about having to play female main character: Yeah I didn't say I …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:31 PM
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No you're right, you're oppressed because you can't go to Texas and have your face medically swapped with Nicholas Cage. The bar I set was You literally can't name one way that you or any woman you personally know are oppressed. Oh poor baby can't get prescribed heroin, let's all weep for her and pay off her college loans. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:26 PM
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I honestly don't know what the manosphere is and I only know the name Andrew Tate but I've never heard any of his opinions. When people complain about feminism (people, not just men. Feminism is largely unpopular) they're mostly complaining about the social aspects like man-hating legbeards and how women can't relate to a character unless it's female Let me turn it around on you- what's the biggest, most important, most recent thing feminists have accomplished? My guess is you're either going ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:03 PM
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Trump won 45% of the female vote. He made unprecedented gains among black and Hispanic voters. He won the popular vote. Its not MAGA magic, he won the first time because the DNC rigged the primaries for Hillary and he won the second time because the Dems outright suspended the primaries and ran the person who came in dead last in the 2019 primaries. The abject denial from the left is staggering with "she didn't run a flawless enough campaign". Y'all are gonna lose again if you don't figure out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:00 PM
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Right? My actual Plan B when my wife dies is to take all my savings and build a cabin in the Pacific Northwest and just rage quit society. I assumed this was the whole point of getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 01:03 AM
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Kind of an unhinged example for why you're oppressed. The lack of access to prescription morphine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 03:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:25 PM
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That's not a thing, that's feminist delusion. More women committed abortion this year than they did last year. More women committed abortion last year then the year before. And on and on and on going back 20 years. This isn't a fair fight if you're just going to invent scenarios to get upset over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:27 PM
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I refreshed the page and have five new messages from you. I really didn't think calling out your quiet loneliness would cause such a crash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:05 PM
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You’re mixing up personal examples with big social claims, treating things as all or nothing, and using one small situation to "prove" a huge point that it can’t actually prove. Also it's nobody's fault but yours that you don't read in your spare time. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a65554960/loneliness-women-mankeeping-female-friendship/ See how easy it was for me to invalidate the first point you tried to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:02 PM
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You beat biological imperatives by being childless and alone. If you beat one biological imperative, you should be able to beat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:53 PM
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You literally can't name one way that you or any woman you personally know are oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:48 PM
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Biological imperatives are just the body’s "keep-alive" reminders. They say "eat" and "sleep" and "stay safe" and sometimes "make more people". Evolution just means living things slowly change over time to keep surviving in their own ways and the one thing that all life has in common is that everything follows these rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:30 PM
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Right, talking to a woman about science. Biological imperatives are simple rules your body follows to stay alive and happy. They tell you to eat when hungry, drink when thirsty, sleep when tired, stay safe from danger, and be close to people you love. These built-in urges help you grow and keep living every single day too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:40 AM
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The patriarchy isn't a thing Women aren't oppressed in any western country for now, but Europe is really making some great strides with diversity and equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:33 AM
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That's not how biological imperatives work. Hold your breath for 15 minutes before replying to prove to me you've mastered your biological imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:48 AM
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60% of college students are women and yet they still need encouragement to go to college. The absolute entitlement of our ruling class 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:47 AM
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Well you've managed to do something that the vast, vast, vast majority of species on earth haven't been able to do. The option to breed was there and you've resisted it, and that's something life simply doesn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:10 AM
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I mean these people have either beat billions of years of evolution and mastered their biological chemistry or they're mentally ill https://en-academic.com/dic.nsf/enwiki/991075
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:37 AM
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This is your genuine reaction to the suggestion that women view reality more accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:16 AM
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As if society isn't designed to give women relentless support in all things. My favorite example of why you're wrong is how rForeverAloneWomen went private because they got too much "unwanted" male attention hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:07 AM
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That's neat. If women should have more realistic dating standards, they'd probably be less miserable and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:04 AM
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Its not "negging", it's the women are wonderful effect https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect You never noticed that body positivity was only for fat women? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:43 PM
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I definitely think we've made a few mistakes with how we went about "empowering" women. I feel like if we didn't constantly praise women and defend them and protect them from everything from criticism to consequences for their actions, they would have a better understanding of where they stand in the dating market and their standards would be much more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:13 PM
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I couldn't tell you how a single person here treats other people in real life. That's kind of the tricky part. Like I have opinions that might not be very nice, but in my actions every day, I make the effort to be nice. Most people who know me would say that I'm nice. One of my standard rebuttals for when women have a problem with those age gap relationships being the old man preying on the 25 year old girl is that if we can't trust a person to make decisions for their own lives, they can't be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:10 PM
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Haha I honestly thought it was the name of the depression meds you were taking, my b
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:00 PM
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Slaves are usually comfortable in serving a master. That is absolutely not true. Its insane to believe that and you really need to let those women go. Nope. Those were song lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:56 PM
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I wholly agree, I'm not free. I'm bound to her for the rest of my life and I'm so glad that I'm somewhere in the middle of the whole thing. Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose, mister McGee.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:51 PM
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"Kiss me till I'm in a coma, life's so good when you're on Soma!" Its so unsettling how the last 25 years have really been full steam ahead into a Brave New World.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:48 PM
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Counterpoint: my life is better for having my wife in it and literally everything is more enjoyable with her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:52 PM
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Well that's definitely a deep philosophical rabbit hole about how reality is a democracy. But if I were to ask you why that girl over there would like you, you'd better have a better reason than "I'm nice". Being nice is just a part of the social contract that keeps civilization going.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:37 PM
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Well thats also part of it. Who actually doesn't think that they're nice? Even bastards think they're nice "to people who deserve it".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:25 PM
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I mean that's the crux of our disagreement. I think a mature person will be able to describe themselves beyond generic examples that apply to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:16 PM
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But that's my whole point. You never hear a follow up description other than "I'm a nice guy". Myself, I'm socially graceful and genuinely curious about other people, so it's easy for me to meet new people. If I ask you to describe yourself and the first, best thing you've got is that you're nice... that's not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:49 PM
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You never really hear follow ups to that though. Like sure I'm nice, but my wife loves me because I'm wicked smart, confident, capable, and I'm so funny it's actually annoying to her. Being nice is such a basic, nothing-trait that if you live in the right state (read: not New Jersey) everyone you meet is nice. The question that should be asked is "You're nice, so what?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:33 PM
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Misandry is so deeply ingrained in female culture that you're never going to get rid of the men bad narrative. Imagine having a button you could press where none of the bad things that happen to you are your fault and any criticism of you as a person gets immediately invalidated. You'd kill or die before giving that button away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:29 PM
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Women who go for those types are dealing with trauma or depression or no self esteem or some other kind of major problems and those guys are just opportunists. They're not charming, charismatic predators, they just strike out over and over until they don't. I'm not saying that it's a woman's fault for being a domestic violence victim, but what I am saying is that if you look at the rest of her life it's pretty on brand for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:17 PM
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I feel like people don't explain it right. When I was a high school freshman, my teacher went around and asked us to describe ourselves and write it down and she kept it until we were seniors and asked us to describe ourselves again before we opened them and when we were 13 the adjectives were all generic like "kind" or "nice" and when we were 17/18 they developed into things like "funny" or "'clever" or "artistic" and she explained that in our lives we start out as unsure and unfocused but as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:56 PM
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Yep. I'm a male in his thirties but I don't live alone and I have empathy for small animals. See how I was able to draw the connections without feigning offense? "There are no poisons, only poisonous doses." Could your hyper promiscuity come from a place of joy? Sure. But there's about half a dozen mental illnesses that have it listed as a symptom. Hell that's the plot of Girl Interrupted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:32 PM
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Oh neat a "I refuse to understand the concept of comparing two things" person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:03 PM
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The average American woman has 4.3 partners in her lifetime. As a multiple of the average, double digits is high. To put it another way, the average American has about 6 alcoholic beverages per week and you're sitting over there crushing an 18 case saying you don't see the big deal. Now, does drinking that much make you a bad person? No. But everyone around you is thinking "holy shit" and this behavior rightfully impacts your chances of having a successful long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:41 PM
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I am a 37 year old man. Not once in my life have I ever heard anyone in real life praise or respond positively to a man with a high body count. The "men are praised for promiscuity" is a hypothetical situation that women insist is true, but have never actually witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:14 AM
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Well 2.5million is only 10% of the illegal population and like 0.7% of the overall population of America, so you're going to see affects in pockets rather than overall until Trump's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:14 AM
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There are 2.5million fewer illegals in the US today than last November. That's a lot of blue collar jobs opening up. Also The largest declines in median listing prices in 2025 tend to be concentrated in the South and West, where all 19 of the 50 largest U.S. metro areas with median housing prices below July 2022 levels are located. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/home-prices-down-united-states-august-2025/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:54 PM
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What is a dickwad? Like yeah it's a slur, but like... what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:53 PM
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Ukraine stopped men from fleeing as refugees and pressed them into service on the warfront. If it's good enough for zelensky it should be good enough for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:52 PM
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This isn't even the right video, but just going by the title I 100% know it backs up my point. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-e7B7kL-ksE&pp=ygUvd29tYW4gYXR0YWNraW5nIGEgbWFuIGhpZGRlbiBjYW1lcmEgZXhwZXJpbWVudCDSBwkJCwoBhyohjO8%3D Woman hits a man? He deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:05 PM
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They are all assaulting, but its ability/intention/likeliness to do serious damage is just so low, that it's hard to process it as assault. Yeah so when I give my wife a quick five across the eyes for taking too long to order at Denny's, the other lady is saying that it's hard for her to think of that as assault. So like if she was the waitress, she'd side with me against my indecisive wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:34 PM
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Right so don't punch your wife, slap her around is what she's telling me to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:42 PM
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They all register as more "Making a point" than "Assault". They are all assaulting, but its ability/intention/likeliness to do serious damage is just so low, that it's hard to process it as assault. Whenever anyone crams a but in the middle of a sentence, you can ignore everything that came before it. So as long as I keep an open hand, the intention, ability, and likeliness to do serious damage is low, so it doesn't really register as assault 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:32 AM
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Read the sarcasm, Becky. You were saying it's okay for a woman to abuse a man because she won't injure him 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 03:55 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect "Wow I wonder what that guy did to deserve that slap his girlfriend just gave him..." When women can do no wrong, a lot of heinous shit gets normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:10 AM
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So it's cool as long as I hurt my wife but don't injure her. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:08 AM
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The first problem is inflation and the other problem is wage suppression and it's women's fault because of women's lib. Sorry that was unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:07 PM
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I'm pretty sure the secret to comedy is volume so I've been yelling my jokes lately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:59 PM
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If half of the population gaining access to education and jobs is so bad men should leave all the high paying jobs and university courses to women. Problem solved! Unsarcastically if this was 1970s feminists' game plan, we'd be so much better off. Unfortuntely, modern women's attitude is that you'll see a guy without a good job and call him a loser. Women can't understand they can't eat their cake and have it too because nobody holds them accountable for their decisions. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:36 PM
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Exactly. So in your area you should be afraid of white men. But it's different for everyone, so don't just go for a national average, look at who's most likely to commit a violent crime in your city and avoid those people. So like how you never read a news story about an Asian "rape gang". Figure out who typically makes up those "rape gangs" and avoid those people at all costs 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:34 PM
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Your grandmother didn't have the choice to get a job. You don't have the choice to not get a job. Awesome progress on that one 👍 If you think women having the right to get paid for their job is making everything worse it says a lot about you as a person. You're right it's probably fine that College tuition prices are 10X what they were before women were 60% of enrolled students 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:32 PM
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The death of the single income nuclear family. Women in the 70s rampaged through women's lib without any other considerations which doubled the labor pool (suppressing wages) and normalized dual income households (exploding inflation rates) so your grandmother didn't have the choice to work and you don't have the choice to not work. Women made everything worse and only superficially gained equality but only if you don't think about it too hard. There's other stuff but your grandma is the reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:19 PM
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Kids are idiots and only a childless person would think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:13 PM
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Not all drivers are bad. Only 0.002% of drivers get in an accident in a given year. Why are you being such a hypocrite with that seatbelt?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:13 PM
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The vast majority of men are fine and aren't dangerous to women in the slightest. And with a quick few generalizations and crime statistics that reddit loathes, you can spot the ones who are probably dangerous!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:47 PM
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It's not women fault. Nothing is ever women's fault. Can you list two social problems where women are squarely to blame and men aren't to blame even a little?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:42 PM
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That's totally fair, I hate fat women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:12 PM
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And on the other side, I met my wife at work and asked her out on her second day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:23 AM
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I'm glad you beat all the statistics and studies that say otherwise. Really, I mean it. But your experience isn't typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:47 AM
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Wow thanks for making me feel handsome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:46 AM
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I'm sure you're genuinely happy isolating yourself from other people, but https://news.gallup.com/poll/505745/depression-rates-reach-new-highs.aspx Women and young adults have experienced the greatest increases Good fuckin luck Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:33 AM
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I grieve for zoomers because women have become so caustic and high maintenance that there's no places left for men to acceptably approach them. In my day (the 00s) as long as a girl wasn't obviously trying to avoid interacting with people, it was acceptable to say hello. So like "don't gesture for her to take her headphones out". But if you're on the bus and she's reading an author you like, you used to be able to say "oh I love him, have you read this other thing?" Or I'm wrong and it's always …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:34 AM
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So what I'm hearing is that no matter how funny I am, my wife will never laugh at my jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:29 AM
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All the statistics say that married women are happier than single women, and the gap only widens as you get older. If you beat the odds and you're sincerely happy being alone, I'm glad. But there's no data suggesting that women are better off with a cat than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:58 PM
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So like you're 100% right but I can't help but read your comment like you're trying to be sarcastic...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:09 PM
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We need to normalize calling it what it is and not sugar coating it with terms like "high N count women". If the average weight for a woman is 135lbs, you would look at a 280lb woman and rightly assume she has an eating disorder. It's not wrong to want a partner who is within one standard deviation of normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:08 PM
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I hope that comment was a nice break from your life 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:27 PM
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Its less fun than you'd think. My wife's version of trying to fix me is making excuses for everyone in the world except me. I'd complain about it but her argument is that she expects more from me than the loser who just crossed three lanes without signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:38 AM
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"Till they invent a trigger a woman can't pull, if you're a hang man, you're going to hang women." -Oswaldo Morbray, The Hateful Eight People are super fucking dangerous and you never know what someone's got in their pocket. People feel way more safe on a day to day basis than they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:33 AM
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Right? Like as long as your expectations are that they're just a person trying their best, same as you, it's pretty great. ...she could laugh at more of my jokes though 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:14 AM
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Its weird talking to people who aren't married because like am I happy all the time every day? No. But plan b after my wife dies or leaves is to just build a cabin in the woods .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:02 AM
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Statistically married women are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:54 AM
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Holy shit you were together since the Obama years and he never asked you to marry him? You're right girl stay single. Keep yourself out of the dating pool, men don't deserve you 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:51 AM
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Quick question. Who initiated the divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:49 AM
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Counterpoint: you don't sound happy, you sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:47 AM
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Oh yeah, I was telling the other guy how guys go so long without attention that they sincerely can't empathize with how women don't like cat calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:42 PM
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Swipe right on 50 guys in a row right now and get back to me in an hour with how many matches you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:34 PM
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Yeah but like men are so starved for attention that they sincerely can't empathize with why women don't like cat calls. Its just a completely different life experience that we're all living, so like women might not buy more water bottles if they have a wide selection or a narrow one, but if you're dying of thirst, you'll drink out of a dirty puddle and thank God for the mercy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:53 PM
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And it's the opposite for women, most can some can't. When your dating experience is closer to going grocery shopping than applying for a job, your standards are going to skyrocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:55 PM
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There's definitely online dating playing a part too now. Like if you wanted to go on a date tonight, you can make it happen. That wasn't a thing 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:49 PM
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Bro I was addressing each point you were making and used an old boardgame as a reference, it's not that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:11 PM
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If you're cooking at home and you're expected to do the dishes, it's rude. Also dishes are feminine, as per the box of the board game Battleship. Also 5 year olds are taught to clear their plates into the sink regardless of gender, your mother failed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:30 PM
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Doing good makes me feel good regardless of who knows about it. Being praised for doing good also feels good, but it's a different feeling than the original feeling that doing good makes me feel. Maybe it's just a product of our upbringing and once you're like 20 it's too late to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:26 PM
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Cooking is masculine. Name 15 world famous chefs- they're men. Go into the kitchen of any restaurant in your town- all guys back there. Its such a masculine trait that women complain about kitchens being a boys club.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:05 PM
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When I was a kid back in the 1990s my teachers always said that the experts predicted that the human population is going to peak at 12 billion and then slowly decline and stabilize to about 10 billion. That's what experts are currently saying 30 years later. Dating culture will figure itself out, old people will continue to look at young people with confusion and incredulity. Nothing has deviated from the plan, it'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:03 PM
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Yeah that's insane. Only people with resources can afford to get abortions now, that's why there's 103% abortions compared to 2019 Guess you're saying Trump's economy is going gangbusters since more people can access abortion than they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:19 AM
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Your point is invalid. All of the metrics are on my side. Your desire for oppression keeps going unfulfilled so you people keep making up stories and shifting goalposts. If there's more abortions than there used to be, you have nothing to point at to call a restriction. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:59 AM
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Were you the one who didn't understand that if we have more abortions this year than three years ago and five years ago and ten years ago, there's no evidence anyone lost access to abortions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:43 AM
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Exactly what part of society doesn't explicitly cater to women? Every single time I hear women complaining about rights or unfairness they always get super racist or islamaphobic. Where's the oppression, Sarah?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:42 AM
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I was hoping she was just trolling for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 11:01 PM
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Do you feel shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:48 PM
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🤷 women are incapable of listening or learning so idk what I hoped to accomplish with this thread anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:35 PM
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You 👏 asked 👏 us 👏 what 👏 we 👏 think!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:20 PM
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I love that you made the post asking the question and then a man told you the answer and you're like "No men REALLY think this other thing!" Whatever the girl version of manaplaing is, that's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:17 PM
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I wholly agree that liberals are surrounded by absolute psychos. https://amac.us/newsline/politics/poll-liberals-more-likely-to-cut-ties-with-friends-and-family-over-politics/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:11 PM
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Tony Soprano asks the question of his wife about his mistress that answers your question: "With the mouth she uses to kiss my kids goodnight?!" To understand the dichotomy, you have to honestly explore what specifically men are disparaging whores for: These are emotionally broken women with irreparable trauma. A while back there was a post about porn stars who didn't make it to 30 and why. The answer was either suicide or overdose and there were A LOT of examples 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:05 PM
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Every study says the same thing https://ifstudies.org/blog/why-so-blue-liberal-women-are-less-happy-more-lonely-but-why The average number of partners a woman has in her life is 4. To me, trying to normalize 10x than number or 20x that number is no different than encouraging an eating disorder. But why do you think liberals are statistically so miserable and lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:22 PM
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Just to clarify, you're advising young women to be literal whores? Should we pay them with the traditional $20 on the night stand or do we dress it up with like "The money spent on the fancy restaurant counts as her payment"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:48 PM
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OP is this a happy scene to you? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=e9kJ5rpTZE8&pp=ygUeYmxhZGUgcnVubmVyIDIwNDkgd2VsY29tZSBob21l0gcJCQMKAYcqIYzv Its dystopian and really really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:04 AM
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I'm so sorry I missed that post from a year ago. I'll go kill myself for disappointing you. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:51 AM
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slump busters You're just making shit up and putting quotation marks around it to try and make it happen. Stop trying to make fetch happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:46 AM
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Yeah the whole "one person income family" went right out the window with women's lib. If you look closely you can actually pinpoint the exact moment his heart breaks in two
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:09 AM
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Go look it up, according to ChatGPT 60% of men shower every day, 15% shower every other day, and another 10% shower at least twice a week. If you're pulling smelly, shit smeared dudes... You need to work on on yourself so that you can find a higher quality man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:47 AM
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Sometimes I'll disagree with a woman just out of misogyny. Don't assume we're all super logical dudes who have magic answers to any old thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:41 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:39 PM
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They've spent the last 30 years telling each other that you're a potential rapist. Literally just stay in your lane, have realistic standards, and do your best. If you're starting at zero or you're autistic or something literally ask them what you could do better the next time you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:39 PM
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Not really since he isn't old enough to know what the satanic panic was 🤷 Still really confused about that word salad accusation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:33 PM
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That's neat but I'm not assigning moral value to it, I'm saying it exists. Women love making up fake scenarios in their head You sure you're flaired right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:12 PM
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Sometimes they suck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:21 PM
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Basically my role is to protect our family and keep us from being homeless and/or dead and my wife's role is to help me do that by not constantly spending money we don't have and catching things that I miss. So like I nag her to go to the dentist. Though I imagine having a wife whose passion is art is very similar to a woman marrying a car guy or a hunter. Its a lot of "you're aware that your $90 in oil paint could have gone to our house fund, right" stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:01 PM
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ChatGPT said that 67 pages of 50 Shades explicitly described sex, anatomy, arousal or something similar. There's also female gooner books like The Milking Farm which I don't even want to link because it'll fuck up my Amazon algorithm, but go read those reviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:46 PM
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What is this the 90s where we're going to argue about the definition of porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:37 PM
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Have you ever been to the Barnes and Noble romance section? That's where they keep women's porn. Men are very visual so if course their porn is going to be pictures and videos. Women love making up fake scenarios in their head so of course their porn is going to be books.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:29 PM
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If you assume 8 hours of sleep which nobody is actually getting, 1% of your week is about an hour. I'm not saying she's right, I'm saying that it kinda makes sense if you look at it from a scheduling perspective instead of an importance perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:03 PM
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I honestly think she's talking about how much time you spend on sex vs the rest of your time in the relationship, including sleep. 1% of your day is about 15 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 11:03 AM
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Conversely, I constantly see memes about how much this enrages women and it's why they have a list of 115 things they want to do when there's an hour gap in his calendar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:54 AM
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Been through some what? I don't know what that word is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:28 PM
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Also “My throat burned with thirst that had nothing to do with the human sense of the word. I had never felt anything so strong. It took everything I had not to leap across the table and…” — Edward Cullen, Twilight, Chapter 13 (“Confessions”) And in the movie the wolves straight up committed domestic violence, as per the woman with the huge scars on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:25 PM
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Don't fuss. Just because you don't understand what a generalization is doesn't invalidate the generalization. Don't be a pedant, grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:07 PM
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I'm not taking anyone seriously as a grownup when they self censor swears like they're 11 years old, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:01 PM
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“You have no idea how hard it was to stay away from you. I wanted to kill you. I’ve never wanted a human’s blood so much in my life.” — Edward Cullen, Twilight, Chapter 13 ChatGPT is the new Google, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:00 PM
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Technically he was talking about me with #2 I've been with my wife 17 years but got married about 3 years ago. Woulda been sooner but Covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:28 PM
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I'm curious though, have you ever given a man dating advice that worked?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:22 PM
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Okay then let's just agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:16 PM
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Neither about my advice, nor would it work, nor what i wish was true. What advice would you give a guy who wanted a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:55 PM
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Again, your advice is based on what you wish was true, not what would work. If I asked you how to get a girlfriend, you'd start describing all this shit your boyfriend doesn't do for you that you wish he would. Your boyfriend would just describe what he did that worked. My wife loves me, but there's no way she'd tell her single friends to do what I do. Because sometimes there's tickling and she fucking hates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:44 PM
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Probably Barnes and Noble in the "dangerous monster rape fantasy romance" novel section. Whether it's Belle's Beast or Bella's Edward, all evidence points to women wanting a man who's constantly on the verge of beating the shit out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:37 PM
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Women give advice based on what they wish was true. Men give advice based on their experiences. It's the same logic behind a white person writing a book about the struggles of the black experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:35 PM
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How many times do you need to be assaulted by a black guy before you're cool with saying "around blacks, never relax" ? Because that's your argument ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:00 PM
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Its not always vicious hatred. Its like "crossing the street to avoid a man because she's being smart" which is literally the example of a racist scenario when people give an example of racist behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 07:26 PM
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Thank you for your service
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:59 PM
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Literally every woman I've met hates men to some degree. My wife, my sister, my friends, and my coworkers. Its not that they hate each man individually, it's the bigotry type where my (female) supervisor literally told our (female) intern "men are trash" one day at the office where she thought nobody else could hear. How many times has a woman told you "you're one of the good ones"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:50 PM
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Probably the same reason 95% of people marry within their own race or eat at McDonald's even though it's overpriced shitty food. People like what's familiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:52 PM
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So that's actually a big part of it, people DO want an experience match, but even then the phrasing isn't "I want a virgin" because that's creepy and weird. It's always phrased in the negative "I don't want someone who's been with a ton of guys" rather than "I only want someone who's been with just a few or no guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:35 PM
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Its a problem of listening. Men say "a high body count is undesirable" and women take that to mean "men want a low bodycount, which means the most desirable women have slept with 0 people". You've never met a guy who wasn't some super creepy probable pedo who explicitly said he wanted a virgin. Guys only ever talk about not wanting a super high body count. Don't listen to what women say that men say. Listen to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:22 PM
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Its not even virgin/non virgin. Its just "please don't have 10x the amount of partners as the average person" because it probably indicates a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:36 AM
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As always, great talk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:04 PM
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So they mainly see felons and cheaters? How can you cheat if you're only hooking up? Why would he care if the guy cheats if he only wants to hook up. Your premise makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:47 PM
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How can you cheat if you're just hooking up?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:37 PM
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Its a false premise. The complaint presupposes that the complaining guy would want a hookup. The complaint lonely men usually give implies that they're mad Stacey "is in a relationship with" Chad. The lonely guys aren't in clubs or at parties, they're complaining about couples they see walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:26 PM
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No offense but how old are you? Your post and this comment sound like a 16 year old whose parents are going through a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 01:22 PM
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If "getting your shit together" is so off the table that you read that I think you should be alone, yes I think you should be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:31 PM
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So I skimmed your post history because context is always important in these types of situations. When people say "you can't love someone else until you love yourself" what they mean is "if you don't have your shit together emotionally, that baggage is going to be someone else's burden to deal with" When we started dating I had no idea my wife's anxiety was as bad as it is. 15 years in and it was a months long fight to get her to pick up a part time job and she doesn't drive anywhere which has it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 01:09 PM
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Whether you agree with the sources or not, that's what they do. Like I'll ask you to think about all the women you know who did the 4B thing and how many of them got enough male attention to begin with for anyone to notice they've resigned from dating. Alternatively, Red Pillers would link a study cross referencing 4B women and their BMI compared to normal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 10:28 PM
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It explains why the second wife is younger than the first wife 99 times out of 100 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:24 PM
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...and the red pill 20somethings don't have their shit together and aren't working to...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:18 PM
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What they seem to forget is that older men are attractive because they have their shit together...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:15 PM
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That's literally what the conversation was about in the screenshot. I said that we have expectations for how a man should treat women but we don't have expectations for how a woman should treat men, she said that and I asked if there were any positive/good examples or if it's just oppression and Sharia Law and she said that it is seen as good. Its a permanent victim complex thing with her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:49 PM
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So it's a good thing that you're expected to defer to me and make sure I don't get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:17 AM
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We are talking about why it's so hard to raise children if you're poor so why bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:15 AM
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How poor does someone have to be before they're better off dead, in your opinion? Heads up, I'm going to make a "euthanize the homeless" accusation to whatever you're going to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:32 AM
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I mean Are we pretending the Democrats didn't run a candidate so dog shit that she's the first DNC nominee in like 50 years to win fewer votes than the nominee from the previous election? We saw a similar thing in 2016 when the Dems rigged those primaries - something like 10 or 15% of Bernie bros spite voted for Trump. So I'm not as interested as if they voted for Trump last year as I am interested in who they typically vote for. But to go back to the original topic: Gen Z boys are migrating rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:26 AM
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If the midterms bore this out, Reddit's victory lap wouldn't be over a Democrat winning the mayoral race for NYC. ChatGPT says 4 Democrats beat Republican incumbents this week out of the dozens of races. Not exactly an upset 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:54 PM
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So you're just going to gloss over 9/11, the 2008 housing crisis, and the pandemic? Getting caught in lies loses credibility for the next thing you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:14 PM
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The entire 2010’s was democrats glazing women and saying fuck men. If you look at the demographics that Dems pandered to it makes exactly zero sense. They definitely won the support of the LGBT community forever... but at what cost for that about 3% of Americans?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:13 PM
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Also the left: please take us seriously https://apnews.com/article/san-francisco-supervisors-gaza-ceasefire-vote-eec997f13f88de2e80d4a5ac45d259f9 Also leftists https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/white-house/mayorkas-defends-biden-sharp-intensely-probing-detail-oriented-rcna138192 You'll never hear it no matter how many times you're told. Getting caught in lies loses credibility for the next thing you say. You can't bully people into voting with you when the votes are anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:05 PM
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So that's why Trump lost in 2020 and won in 2024, but every single article I've seen where Gen Z conservatives are directly asked, they always say the same thing: "Well one side is saying I'm evil and all our problems are my fault and the other side is saying that I'm not evil and if I work hard I can have a good life". It was so crazy the months after he won when conservatives were desperately trying to explain "they don't care what you're saying because you're so caustic, and you don't get to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:50 PM
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It is honestly hilarious how tone-deaf Democrats and liberals are. Its not that deep. Democrats are literally spending $20million this year to research why men stopped voting for them rather than actually asking men and listening for five seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:25 PM
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Also being corporate slave is better than that "I might be a slave, but at least I live under constant threat of homelessness too!" Dude it's a lateral move at best. You don't have to like me to acknowledge that the current situation is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:25 PM
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Abortion isn't being restricted. Each year in the US there are more abortions than the previous year, going back like 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:13 PM
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So like do you people just not know what the term gilded cage refers to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 08:13 PM
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You graduate college at 22, so I honestly expected the lonely bitter woman to be one of those zoomer man haters. 80% of women in their 30s are either married or in relationships. The vast majority of women aren't wrong, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:58 PM
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I mean it's one of those accepted facts like most people are right handed or married men live longer. Have you really never heard about this before?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:55 PM
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Like I said the horses are out of the barn. I really hope you're as happy as you claim and aren't like the 56% of your friends who've been diagnosed with anxiety or depression. May you be well enough to go through life unmedicated. Take care 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:53 PM
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Because it took the 1970 setup and just made men and women equals. There's no reason it couldn't have happened. Mothers (women) have had near exclusive control over the formative years of every human being that's made it to adulthood. But you guys chose to raise your daughters to hustle and grind and still be dissatisfied enough to want a man who makes more than you. Like what's the point? Its a capitalist dystopia and you're declaring victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:29 PM
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No, I suggest that it would've been better to include men in the revolution so that mom can work and dad can stay home to raise their kids. Men and women should be a team. But women all bull rushed ahead without thinking of the consequences and now the vast majority of women you know have depression and/or anxiety. Coulda been better if we worked together is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:19 PM
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Every year there are about a million abortions in America and about 80% of the women say it's because of bad timing or economic reasons and about a third of women who get an abortion need therapy for the PTSD and depression that their not-really-a-choice caused. I'm happy that you're content with your non-choice. But I'm sad for the hundreds of thousands of women each year who lament that same lack of a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:13 PM
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You don't care that you have no choice. Like I said, it's a gilded cage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:05 PM
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That's my point though. Your grandmother had one version of no choice and you have a different version of no choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:00 PM
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I mean you also think poor Africans live in mud huts and I didn't even call you racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:58 PM
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Just answer this, we don't need to argue. If you chose to stop working and raise a family, is that choice available to you? Because that's kind of my point, that it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:57 PM
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Oh my God that's adorable that you think there's been a middle class since 2007
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:50 PM
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I mean the horses are already out of the barn. If I had a time machine, I'd have slowed down women's lib to maintain the economic structure that supported single income families so that young women could choose to be mothers if they wanted to instead of outsourcing motherhood to strangers in a daycare center because the math works out that she and her husband come out $300 ahead each month if she just agrees to not watch her babies grow up. That's really the saddest part, your gilded cage. Your …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:39 PM
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Because it requires countries to make up for the population decline by importing throngs of immigrants whose backgrounds and lifestyles allow corporations to pay them noticably less than fair market value for their skills, thus suppressing all wages because the natives who aren't having kids have to compete with the guy willing to do his job for a hefty paycut? Yeah that sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:18 PM
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https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED628545.pdf In America, women who have a high school degree or less are averaging 2.8 babies each. Women with a college degree are averaging 1.3 babies. But do go on about your version of reality, it's fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:04 PM
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Oh lol way more than half. I'm not moralizing, I'm saying that poverty and adversity has never stopped humans from breeding until maybe 15 or 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:51 PM
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So there were whole ass famines and things called "The Great Depression" and post WW2 Europe where cities were literally flattened and people were still having enough kids to maintain population growth. In Africa and southeast Asia people are literally starving to death and still having kids. Idk what to tell you. Agree to disagree I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:39 PM
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Poor people have been having the most kids since humans invented money. A more realistic explanation is that modern society has made young adults terrified of responsibility. Like name a third wave feminist issue that isn't just "women shouldn't have to take responsibility for their own decisions"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:30 PM
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Can you elaborate on that? I'm not sure how I proved your point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:27 PM
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So I did a search for that author (assuming she was some legbeard man hater) and this was the top link https://www.tmz.com/2025/11/01/vogue-writer-backlash-boyfriend-embarrassing-chante-joseph/ The second link was her LinkedIn, she graduated college in 2018 which makes her about 30 or 31 And referring back to the thing I said For single women, their 30s follow the denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance path. Yep she's right on track hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:22 PM
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If I had to guess, it's because young women just assume it will happen on its own and young men assume they're going to have to go out and work to find a wife. For single women, their 30s follow the denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance path. When I was young, geriatric pregnancy was a sticky situation and now half the single 35+ year old women I know are like "Kids? Maybe someday."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:46 PM
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Crying “Men arent allowed to have preferences, but women are!” but then this is how they react when they see a woman that doesnt fit his preference He's literally just straight and not pansexual. I understand the solidarity the women had with the trans woman, but there is literally a separate sexuality for when you're attracted to trans people. That's not a fair example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:47 AM
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Oh that. Yeah like have you ever seen that Twitter post where some guy unmatched a tinder date or something because the girl was fatter than she let on, so in response she ate a whole pizza and took a picture of her flicking off the empty pizza box? That. Or like how somewhere else I said "we have all these suppositions about how a man should treat women, but how should a woman treat men?" and the responses were describing Sharia Law. You can't tell a woman she's done something wrong or bad, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:21 AM
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The general consensus is that women can't just receive criticism and that they abhor taking responsibility for their decisions. Is this news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:08 AM
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I feel like if they drink enough for you to raise an eyebrow about it, probably leave. Regardless of whether they have a problem or if they just go too hard on the weekends or whatever it is. I have had a full talk with my wife because she has that white girl confidence about drinking, so when I casually pick up her drink to finish it for her she used to give me guff about it. But that was more of a "you're being too loud in the restaurant" disagreement than an actual issue. But if they drink an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:57 AM
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Interesting dynamic. Are there any positive examples of how a woman should treat men or nah?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:24 AM
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"My wife won't let me come out tonight. Sorry fellas." elicits sympathy "My husband won't let me come out tonight. Sorry girls." elicits a domestic violence home check. Also Lmao looks weird, you should capitalize the whole acronym.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:41 PM
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Nobody is saying 50 Shades would still be a romance novel if the guy lives in a trailer rather than a penthouse. But all signs point to OP being kinda right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:02 PM
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Would you say the ways a man should treat a woman are as good and just as the ways a woman should treat a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:09 PM
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I mean I'm married, so that doesn't really bother me. But whenever this comes up I think of my two friends (real story not a parable). One is a 41 year old divorcee who left Hinge behind due to a couple of "no spark" matches and the other is a 35 year old divorced guy who keeps joining athletic groups (the fucker did a marathon his year) looking to meet women who share his hobby. Which one do you think I pity and which one do you think I'm optimistic for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:36 PM
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Let me put it this way. We all know that there's a way that a man is supposed to treat women. Not "a woman" not "his woman", but the proper way a man is supposed to treat a person who is female. There is no such ruleset for how a woman is supposed to treat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:17 PM
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The individual. If I call you a six, I'm saying that out of all the women I've seen, you're prettier than 60% of them. Its why 10s are always handed out hyperbolically or given to some "professionally attractive" celebrity. There is only room for one 10, but that 10 can be handed out to a new person at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:11 PM
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Okay but even then, in a room full of 10 women, a 5 is prettier than half of them. A 5 just means perfectly average. I understand that it might be a tough pill to swallow, but it's a useful tool to explain how pretty someone is that didn't see that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:04 PM
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You are technically correct, the best kind of correct. Lauren is 5 months older than Mackenzie apparently. You know what I meant though- years or decades, not months.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:00 PM
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I never understood why people get bothered by sorting looks by percentiles. If you're an 8, it means in a random group of 10 people you're prettier than 8 of them. Its like how I'm in the 90th height percentile, but just because I'm taller than 9 out of 10 guys it doesn't assign some inherent value in me that the others lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:57 PM
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Its not that, it's that nobody of either gender wants to be held accountable for the consequences of their decisions. The difference is that society holds men to them far more than it holds women to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:54 PM
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Its because when they read Your standards are too high for what you bring to the table They just see random symbols that don't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:49 PM
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She's talking about periods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:48 PM
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Thank God men's value isn't tied very strongly to their physical appearance then. Otherwise 90% of those age gap relationships wouldn't be "older man, younger woman" 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:47 PM
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50 shades of grey was a cultural phenomenon and had housewives across America admitting they'd let a man beat the shit out of them if his apartment was nice enough. Also there's all those crazy bitches calling Rhianna a snitch for what she did to Chris Brown. Also Bernie Sanders wrote an academic paper on how common it is for women to have rape fantasies. "When you're famous, they let you grab them by the pussy" was literally just an accurate description of groupies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:17 PM
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Men and women are valued for different things. That survey from that dating site where men kept finding 22 year old women the most attractive and women finding men their own age most attractive shows as much. Out of everyone you know who got remarried, is the second wife ever older than the first wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:13 PM
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I'm the guy you replied to initially. GreatBigSteak didn't keep bringing anything up as you're replying to his first comment to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:11 PM
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Its absolutely not real, or that woman is deeply delusional. I was waiting for the other shoe to drop "I have very high standards... I'm finally ready to settle down... I'm 44" Single people in their 40s are either divorced, widowed, or fucking radioactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:33 AM
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Exactly. Which is why I'm asking about "all the women that YOU know who have opted out of dating". I'm asking a personal question about people you're friends with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:01 PM
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Okay but 0% of women who opt out of dating are conservative. This means that you think 100% of conservative women cave to the pressure to get married and have kids. I don't understand why you think that? Like "more likely" doesn't count when it's zero percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:42 PM
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Why don't you think being single is an option for 45% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:36 PM
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But it literally only happens with liberal women. If liberal women sometimes compromise and sometimes settle, why is it exclusively liberal women who rage quit dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:28 PM
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So your opinion is that settling when you date is exclusively a conservative trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:25 PM
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But I'm not talking about women who don't want to get married or women who don't want to be mothers. I'm talking about women who swear off relationships with men. Why are they always liberal women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:17 PM
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My point: Conservative masculinity is desirable in men for women. My most recent question, "Why do you think 100% of the women you know who have sworn off men are liberal, despite about half of women being conservative?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:07 PM
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The headline: Why So Blue: Liberal Women are Less Happy, More Lonely. But Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:48 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/why-so-blue-liberal-women-are-less-happy-more-lonely-but-why So 45% of women voted for Trump last year. I say this to show that about half of women are conservative. Why do you think every single woman you know who "swore off men" is a liberal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:23 PM
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I mean I'm talking about women in general and you're exclusively talking about the exception to my rule and declaring victory. Congratulations on knowing the survivors, but getting shot in the stomach is still usually fatal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:12 PM
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I'm talking about already stablished couples, married, some with kids, where none of them are the "provider". Oh I see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:04 PM
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Conservative masculinity is about putting other people before yourself. Hop on PCM or rConservative and ask them what masculinity means to them and that's what they'll say. Now, a person's ability to adapt to their situation and normalize it for themselves is nothing short of horrifying, but your liberal friends who always split things 50/50 fly in the face of the "if he asks to split the bill on the first date, it's an ick" social norm. It's like whenever a conservative shows you one of the stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:55 PM
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This hit the news cycle a little while back https://nypost.com/2023/06/09/im-a-liberal-hard-to-find-progressive-masculine-men-to-date/ There's been a bit of study on the subject and one of the things someone pointed out is that the rise in popularity of "monster porn romance novels" for women is that the monsters act with the masculinity that those women have demonized in men, but still crave. The last 40 years has been one long Monkey's Paw style adventure for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:43 PM
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"Normal adult in a healthy relationship" Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:39 PM
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Thank you for volunteering the fact that society expects men to be servants. I guess agree to disagree on what the word equal means. God bless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:26 PM
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I love that the concept is so foreign to you that I'm talking about treating your friends equally regardless of gender and you're bringing up human rights. Anything to avoid admitting you don't want to be treated the same...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:19 PM
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I don't treat colleagues as equals. I also treat my friends and family the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:08 PM
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So that's not what equal means. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:57 PM
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There was a whole movie about why this scenario destroys a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:47 PM
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That might make sense of why the longer you're friends the gayer you get But the point remains, you wouldn't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:44 PM
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Its the proof that being gay isn't a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:32 PM
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Haha I thought she was talking about groping. I didn't actually reread my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:32 PM
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I'm reading the comment over and over and I don't see the typo you're taking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:16 PM
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The closer male friends are, the more comfortable they are with gay chicken. My wife tells new friends that she's my beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:16 PM
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You really, really don't want a man to treat you like an equal. You would be horrified if guy friends started greeting you by groping your ass in front of your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:00 PM
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Reddit is my only social media. I didn't even know they put porn back on Tumblr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:45 PM
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He's the billionaire who founded reddit and murdered the fellow founder Aaron Schwartz over him blowing the whistle about the spyware
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:58 PM
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Fun fact! Before it was banned, u/spez moderated that first subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:33 PM
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https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/white-lotus-gez-z-agegap-relationships-b2733659.html Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:55 PM
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I linked the Garfunkel and Oates song. Did you downvote me because you're one of those misogynists who think women can't be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:16 AM
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And then they turn 31.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:13 AM
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My criticism is that women can't take criticism. For examples, scroll through your comment history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:28 AM
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You. Right now. You literally can't take the criticism that women can't take criticism. You're doing that thing women do where they fight and go "name one time I did that!" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:18 AM
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But you're not a guy. You literally think guys don't care that you're ugly. This is the opposite of everything women have said for the last 600 years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:41 AM
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How many guys named Muhammad do you know? Its the most common name in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:19 AM
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I didn't ask
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:18 AM
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There were a bunch of posts about it a little while back, about 40% of zoomer girls are dating guys a decade older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:40 PM
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24 hour access to infinite free porn has fucked up a generation. No wonder 20something women are trending towards dating guys who grew up before everyone had a phone in their pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:53 PM
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I don't own my wife, but our plan is to die married. Just because you have responsibilities to someone doesn't mean they own you. Zoomers are fucked up, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:36 PM
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Nope. Most women don't have guys take turns. You get to about 25 or 26 and then the goal of dating trends towards marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:32 PM
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Perfect. So do you see how you, a woman, were unable to just receive criticism of a woman? That.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:26 PM
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it's not just about being outsoide the norm since men wouldn't care if a woman is autistic, if she's ugly, if she collects insects, if she's a 40 y/o virgin, etc All of that's ridiculous, but a woman would never admit that a guy doesn't care that she's ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:41 PM
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Okay. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:36 PM
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You think. Men don't care. If a woman is ugly. Did someone topple the patriarchy while I was taking a piss?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:36 PM
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Did you just not read my comment at all? The only reason men don't like the obscene body counts is because more than one standard deviation from the norm for any behavior is a sign of mental illness. The median number of partners for an adult woman is about 4, so if you're 10x I'm going to assume you have some undiagnosed BPD and if you're 20x I'm going to assume there's some massive childhood trauma in there. I compared it to an eating disorder because it doesn't make you an inherently bad pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:18 PM
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The only reason men don't like the obscene body counts is because more than one standard deviation from the norm for any behavior is a sign of mental illness. If the average person eats about three slices of pizza each week, you'd be scared to date the guy who knocks down two pizzas a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:00 PM
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The least controversial example is when your mom says "I'm not yelling, THIS IS YELLING"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:37 PM
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Yeah but draw that to the natural conclusion. Its a seller's market for women. When a man cheats, he has to go out and actively pursue another woman, but when a woman cheats it just means she stopped saying no to the guys hitting on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:40 PM
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"You have no data supporting this assertion" is my whole point. So like where'd you hear "women are being denied life saving medical care when their babies die in the womb and other similar complications"? And again, fewer women are dying due to pregnancy complications than before Roe v Wade was repealed, so idk wtf you're reading or if you're just making it up on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:36 PM
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I will say this. OP is being a little dramatic, but when you take women out of the equation, men had so much sex with each other it caused the AIDS pandemic And before you disagree, remember the "fool me twice shame on you" response they had to Monkey Pox a couple of years ago. https://www.newsweek.com/monkeypox-vaccine-priority-gay-community-1726851
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:33 PM
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Fix what? There was even an 11% reduction in childbirth deaths in 2023 compared to 2019. Not that going from 750 to 669 in a country of a third of a billion people matters, but you called it "life saving care" 🙄 If more women are dying now than ten years ago (in a way that isn't keeping pace with natural population growth) the. There's a problem to fix. There are no problems besides your feminist biases. You believe propaganda and idk how to fix it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:26 PM
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Everyone settles in one way or the other 🤷 My wife is my favorite person, but Jesus Christ her political takes get tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:16 PM
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There were more abortions last year and the year before it than in any of the dozen and a half years before Roe v Wade was repealed. Just call it abortion. We both know what you mean, it's disingenuous framing to call it "life saving care", and I'm not too shy to explain why you're wrong about whatever abortion statistics you're going to misinterpret at me. There was even an 11% reduction in childbirth deaths in 2023 compared to 2019. Not that going from 750 to 669 in a country of a third of a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:53 PM
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I think a big issue with the whole gender war is that nobody understands that people settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:44 PM
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It correlates to the fiction that it has somehow become less available in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:47 PM
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Mid 30s. I've been reading study after study about the depression and anxiety of Gen Z and how like 70% of you haven't approached a woman in over a year. In my day we just went up and talked to girls. For centuries that's how it's been done. I remember when we needed a college email to sign up for Facebook. Social media and its consequences and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:44 PM
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Ya know that's fair. Mine was going to be that women would receive criticism earnestly. The least controversial example is when your mom says "I'm not yelling, THIS IS YELLING"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:36 PM
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This subreddit would be so empty if all the guys were just able to maintain eye contact and smile at the cute cashier while saying "Thanks, you have a good day too"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:33 PM
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That you can disregard the fact that there were more abortions after Roe v Wade was overturned? Reality is anathema to the feminist, I fully understand. God bless 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:18 PM
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Oh that's neat! More abortions were committed last year and in 2023 than in any of the about-20 years leading up to the overturning of Roe v Wade. but there aren't any battles for them to fight, so they make things up to get mad about and everyone involved knows it's a farce, including them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:59 PM
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in a lot of places 🙄 American feminists are too self centered to fight for the rights of actually oppressed women abroad. And if you're disingenuously implying that American reproductive rights are being threatened, the data doesn't support that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:29 AM
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The issue is that their mothers fought for women's lib, their grandmothers fought for the sexual revolution, and their great grandmothers fought for suffrage... but there aren't any battles for them to fight, so they make things up to get mad about and everyone involved knows it's a farce, including them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:01 AM
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Disingenuousness should always be called out though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:58 AM
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You're pretty silly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:57 AM
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Who is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:52 AM
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You can just call her my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:49 AM
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Its not just men and it's not just this sub. Like if you go into any thread on the website, at least a third of the people commenting are some kind of diagnosable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:46 AM
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I'm so confused right now. What's a Dobby the house elf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:44 AM
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I don't know what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:37 AM
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Hey so I'm the guy you took the conversation over for and as a fellow grownup, when you realize you're arguing with a 13 year old it's best to just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:29 AM
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I'm not implying anything. You said three things and I replied to those three things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:36 PM
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Just so you know, if you're rude back they're less likely to internalize the criticism. Its like how if someone cuts you off, a 👎 hurts them so much more than a 🖕 Definitely talk to them like a kindergarten teacher though and use soft language. They'll explode.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:17 PM
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I pirate all my media and am an adult so I'm not the target demographic for euphoria and white lotus lost me in season one with that ferocious gay rimming scene. I'm not saying anything beyond "I wouldn't know who she was if it wasn't for those jeans ads"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:08 PM
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I really wish it was normalized to do a debrief for one of these massive Ls. Like sincerely, I want to know why that guy would think anything beyond a text saying "Hey it's Mike this is my number" is needed for the rest of that day. Like "Okay so I'm sorry but the position has been closed, but why do you think "mall kiosk salesman" was the right path to take here?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:00 PM
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Kind of arrogant to assume you're someone's ideal woman. The advice is more for "If you want a fit girlfriend, that means she goes to the gym as her pass time. Either fitness is going to also be your hobby, or you're fighting an uphill battle before you even say hello." Same for anything. You want a nerdy girl, you probably need to know what manga is. You want a wholesome girl, you probably need to be a wholesome fella. Similar advice would be asking your friend to reflect on why she keeps attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:53 PM
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That's a problem of scale though. Like who do you know that doesn't know who Luigi Mangoni is. That guy is not only hot, but literally tens of millions of women know about him. Apparently he only got like 85 pieces of sexy fan mail while in jail. That's an atrocious batting average.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:46 PM
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Its sort of in line with the advice I give younger guys. "Think of your ideal woman. Are you her ideal man? Isn't it only fair to work to become her ideal man?" It is a weird road to take to a responsible decision, but if you squint and tilt your head it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:41 PM
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You know what's funny? I know her bra size, but I can't tell you a single movie she's been in. Everything about that girl I've learned against my will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:38 PM
2

Homie doesn't know what casual dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:29 PM
5

If a man is the type to be told no and have it not matter, that woman was in danger before he even said hello to her. This is the same strategy as trying to ban all gunsfor everyone because gangs exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:36 AM
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Yeah humans have been living in communities since before civilization and it's probably a coincidence that you bedrot and isolate and now you need prescription meds every day just so that you don't end it all. Totally unrelated. You're perfect, change nothing, let's both of us pray that your meds work forever. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:30 AM
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Yeah and how's that going for them? https://news.gallup.com/poll/694199/u.s.-depression-rate-remains-historically-high.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:42 AM
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Back to no means no or back to before millennials perfected consent? Honestly I challenge you to explain to me why a person who isn't comfortable saying "no I don't want this" should be trusted with the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:39 AM
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Yeah, gen x and boomers were kinda rapey.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:23 AM
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That’s because being hit on by men at work or at school or at the coffee shop etc can make women feel gross, uncomfortable and unsafe. To be alive is to be uncomfortable. This is definitely a "kids these days" situation because I side with the boomers- y'all need to grow thicker skin. Millennials were peak with no means no. Now zoomers and alphas literally can't be trusted to have the strength of character to say "no thank you". No wonder the population is starting to collapse 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:07 AM
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So I'm an adult and therefore not affected by the male loneliness epidemic, but a big part of why zoomer men are isolated is because zoomer girls have made it increasingly unacceptable to approach women. I met my wife at work. Before that I met my girlfriend in class. Before that I met my girlfriend at a coffee shop that she worked at. I saw a study not too long ago that said Gen Z men haven't approached a woman in the last 12 months (something like 65%) The culpability I will hold women to is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:51 PM
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Okay so I just said the average housecat weighs 8 pounds and you told me that you read a study saying that the median weight among mammals is 2oz. (That second one is actually accurate, I looked it up and it's such a fun fact)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 10:06 PM
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Okay but "violent sexual crimes" =/= rape though You're drawing a much, much bigger circle And again, this was the first Google search result
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:51 PM
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I would absolutely love to have the "genetically predisposed to crime" talk but I promised my wife I would avoid being horrendously racist today. You have the talk for both of us. For my side just say whatever you said and change "men" to "black men".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:44 PM
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When I Googled it, the first link provided this 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26) https://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/ So the Justice & Behavior Vol 14 is the source moreso than the link
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:13 PM
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The entire problem with any discussion about single mothers is the survivor bias. Are there exceptions to the rule? Sure. But 85% of violent rapists were raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:12 PM
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