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DebateClutterboxx/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:48 PM
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I love how Menslib is pretty much dead at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:36 PM
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they do not give two shits about what happens to their wife and kids in the event of a divorce By definition in divorce she's no longer my wife so why should I give a shit? Are you even listening to yourself? The kids are a different story but there's zero reason why anyone should continue paying their spouse money after breaking the marriage contract, all that does is give incentives to break the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:25 PM
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I find this logic and excuse for alimony in modern times very idiotic because there's absolutely no precedent for having kids standing in the way of working a job. Single women with kids still have jobs, where's their alimony? A pointless law from a forgotten age which ironically is a factor in why modern men are avoiding marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:38 PM
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Yes it is common for men who are virgins to get mocked it's pretty much a meme that's been ongoing for a while. People like to link whatever they dislike about a person to their virginity or lack of success with women. If you were an attractive guy who was a virgin past a certain age women would just assume you were gay, if you were unattractive they'd assume you were a misogynist (because looks don't matter remember).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:25 AM
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What makes mens standards okay to have but women should lower and adjust their's? Women are the ones bitching about how there's no good men left to date while pursuing men clearly out of their league and making the rest jump through hoops. Why is it wrong for women to say they that they like handsome, tall guys who are also rich See this is the problem, men who fit the criteria of being both tall and rich are less than 5% of the male population. I'm not even talking about being handsome just bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:24 PM
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The niche politics that women and black people exist? Women and black people have always been in popular media, it's only one group of people saying otherwise. I don’t see why it’s so bad that geek media appeals to more people. Because it's basically tokenism. They are serving a rehash of old material while changing the race or gender of some side character is representation, it's lazy and honestly insulting. Geek media did appeal to a wide range of people, only so called progressives started th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:25 AM
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Individual farmhands have had their labor undercut by undocumented immigrants while also competing against foreign processed foods. Farmers routinely said they struggle to find consistent workers who will do the job. Do you think it makes sense or is fair that farmers make like $40k annually, while young urbanite slackers make triple that for putting together a lazy power point presentation that AI can now generate? Seems you are more interested in spiting some random office worker than anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 05:07 PM
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There's a world of difference between having a realistic assessment of yourself and the men available to date in your area and fucking every guy you see. Because I assert that most men do not want women to be sexually indiscriminate— they want a woman who is very selective, and strongly prefers him over other men Yes, however women interpret this as "the only men worthy of my time are the men I am most attracted to regardless of if they are attracted to me or know I even exist". I'd strongly pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:22 PM
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Almost all the responses are in agreement they just think you're a big meanie for saying it bare and not considering women's feewings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:36 PM
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"Alpha Fucks Beta buxx isn't real I married this unattractive dude see"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:32 PM
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See they want to strawman the Redpill to silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 12:31 PM
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I can find multiple women to fulfil the role of number 1, number 2 is harder to find, I'll go with option 2 please.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:28 PM
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I'm not even going to respond to a post that's this long and not properly formatted I can barely tell when my quote ends and yours begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:27 AM
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What do you mean by "dating down"? Women want to uphold gender roles where the men they find acceptable to date earn more, are better educated, taller, stronger and more sociable than they are. If you remind them times have changed and the sort of man they're looking for is part of an ever decreasing minority they'll whine and tell men to "be better" and fix several decades of systemic issues over the course of one weekend. Im not a piller at all No pill is Bluepill RPers are incel-adjacent A lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:52 PM
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You make it sound like finding a functioning adult male you you get along with is an impossible task. This is why I believe women shouldn't be trusted when discussing dating standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:18 PM
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So you can't find a single guy who fits the above criteria to be in a committed long term relationship with you? Mind you this woman is a self proclaimed "proud slut" something off putting to even the most liberal of men yet she doesn't find a guy who fits the criterion for a decent man good enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:11 PM
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Two incomes? Someone to raise kids with?A tax break? A friend in general? You gave friends right? Do you ask them what you get out of being friends with them every time you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:15 PM
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Has a job Not a felon Wants to start a family At least finished high school Not addicted to drugs or alcohol Cleans up after himself Is in decent shape or at least working on it Has hobbies and interests outside of media consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:04 PM
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Women hardly consider themselves victims of brain rot and unrealistic expectations, this is a label strictly for men and what body types they find attractive. Women could easily find a decent man who wants long term relationships but can't be enough of a self centred wet blanket to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:24 PM
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If we actually examine and break down what she means by this and what traits she finds acceptable or deal breakers you'll find out two things. The man she wants doesn't exist He exists and she's just feeling sorry for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:23 PM
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Common theme? All of these arguments reframe women’s independence as a threat or a scam. It’s much easier to believe that equality “ruined dating” than to swallow the pill of truth: the old script no longer guarantees that status, money, looks, or dominance will get you a partner. Okay why are women by a large margin refusing to date down and bemoaning the passivity of modern men? How is it that in a time of total female agency it is apparently impossible to find a "decent partner". This is wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:52 AM
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And if you do they'll say "Men are pigs who only want sex" you can't win with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 12:38 AM
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The problem was culture vultures taking over established franchises and trying to align them with their niche politics especially around race, gender and alternative lifestyles. No a work of fiction does not need to accurately represent every demographic to be enjoyed. It was so obviously fake and clumsily done for quick profits but it backfired when sales dropped. They thought the average person would just go along with it out of fear that they would be cancelled but if you cancel everyone for …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:22 AM
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That's the thing there is no recommendation, every single woman on this post is lying to you. This is just a post hoc rationalisation meant to keep men as orbiters and make them feel bad for putting their interests ahead of some broad's fee fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:01 AM
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It's only "manipulation" if you don't get her coochie wet, otherwise it's charisma or natural charm or "being a good person with a good personality".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:57 AM
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Why do you give a shit what women who rejected you think bro? If she doesn't want date you you are under no obligation to even speak to her again. What are you even going to gain from friendship with a woman, especially a young single woman? These "friendships" are always parasitic and men should feel no shame in cutting them loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:55 AM
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AWALT They're all the same the only difference is you can cycle through the time wasters, single mothers and crazy women easier on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:47 AM
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I don't think he is honestly if you're not meeting bots you're meeting women who want to fuck God and still ghost when they get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:45 AM
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These are generic dating and advice subs you only bring up trolling because the Bluepill only exists to troll. Without the Redpill you guys have nothing, you need us like the Joker needs Batman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 04:45 PM
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Scrolling through reddit threads on other subs I'm surprised to see how Redpill lingo has been normalised in the past few years. Just shows most of the hate the Redpill got at the start was artificial censorship. Imagine all the young boys we could have saved if corporations didn't go all in with the girl boss nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:31 PM
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First!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 03:25 PM
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I'm not interested in every single woman just the 5% that look like Megan Fox who is clearly the average. No wonder some of y'all struggle. Y'all don't want better dating experiences The dating experience of the average man involves constantly getting ghosted, ignored and breadcrumbed by the few people who find you attractive until one decides to settle down. If you don't believe me ask Nora Vincent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:02 PM
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The question is how many? And what did they weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:46 PM
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Nope. You said roommates. And then changed it a man living with a mom and saying that a woman wouldn't date a man who lives with his mom. It's the same situation where a man who doesn't earn enough to live independently is viewed as a loser by women who themselves aren't held to the same standard. Nonetheless, I was asking who women are you referring to who don't have a college degree and think a man without a college degree is "below" her. I'm still waiting for that response. Wait no more becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 04:32 PM
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Meet online can be many things, not just dating apps. People meet on reddit, Tiktok, twitch, etc. The dynamics of dating haven't changed Algorithms and fan culture designed to fit people into neat little consumer boxes definitely changed the dynamic. But since ya don't believe me here's a fun little exercise, ask any guy how successful he's gotten sliding into DMs. Yup, about the same as real life too. Women aren't interested in every single man that comes across. So they aren't interested in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:57 PM
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According to who? You literally said men who date women living in the same situation as them lack standards. Yes, we know that men don't have standards. Women aren't going to apologize for having standards. Half of all adults under 30 (in the United States at least) live with a roommate because of the high cost of living. Again you have a very unrealistic idea of what the average man is like. This isn't accurate either Oh really? Men who are 5'9 have the same amount of relationship success and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:52 PM
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Women who also don't have a college education and earn ~$40k a year and live with roommates Those women consider themselves better than their male peers. How many times has a guy refused to date a woman based off her financial or living situation? How many dudes would reject a woman because she still lives with her mom? Now ask yourself if women do the opposite.. Also is 5'9 supposed to be short? Because that's still tall Most women consider a guy under 6 feet short even though 6 feet is 15% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:16 PM
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60% of couples meet online these days. You may not like it but the dynamics of dating have changed forever. You are the one who seemingly has a skewed idea of what the average man is like. Women swipe right on 5% of men they see, that's 1 in 20 men and those right swipes rarely translate to dates or even getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:10 PM
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If I posted an ad as a 5'9 male with no college education earning 40k a year and living with roommates to afford rent how many girls do you think I'd be able to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:05 PM
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Just like the men here who are desperate for a gf but refuse to do more then have a profile on a dating app! Wants don't always guide behavior. Men had no problems approaching women in real life despite high rejection rates until women came on the Internet to call every guy who approached them Schrödinger’s Rapist or call guys who so much as looked at them eye rapists. Dating apps are the "safe" option to approach women until they make it unambiguously clear that they want a return to normal. Ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:18 PM
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The issue with a lot of gender wars stuff, is it demands you exist in opposite day land. Where it's overwhelmingly men who are eager to pair up and start families. When that's just not reality. For a group who are allegedly eager to pair up and start families women refuse to approach, refuse to initiate sex, refuse to propose, preferring to play mind games and give ultimatums then act shocked when men don't want to deal with that headache. I've never had a male friend antsy and depressed because…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:03 PM
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When has this ever happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:07 PM
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I like how the two responses to my post directly contradict each other it's so funny to watch in real time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:43 PM
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Women can also stimulate their genetalia to orgasm during sex but refuse to do that for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:42 PM
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This doesn't really mean much without additional context. Usually when I use the apps and suggest a date the women unmatch, "forget" or give dozens of excuses until I lose interest. The ones who did want to meet made it easy but they were a minority. Women need to admit they're the largest denominator for turning a match into a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:21 PM
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This is literally how gay sex works and gay men still have a higher drive for sex than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:11 PM
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The entire feminist movement for the past decade has been about downplaying men's struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:09 PM
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She was on the site for three years then found a boyfriend, this was also 30 years ago before online dating was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:07 PM
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*Who ran it for three years then found a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:05 PM
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What you typed isn't rejection it's a failed relationship, two completely different things. Women feel very comfortable assaulting men or spreading libel against them just for having the audacity to approach them. They think this behaviour will signal to betas to stay away but it just makes her look like a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:40 AM
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Were they fat and/or mentally ill hippies who had few options otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:33 AM
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What difference does it make if he's fucking guys or other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:29 AM
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Women don't want equals they want men doing better than they are. Having a degree is in addition to looks, earnings and height standards which narrows their pool of acceptable men into an unrealistic percentage of the male population. If women were dating men without degrees at the same rates men were it wouldn't be hypergamy but that's not what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:22 PM
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The Redpill exists to solve a very specific problem and that's help guys get laid. For a lot of guys their personal issues are related to their inability to get laid. When you apply the Redpill by changing your looks, getting new hobbies focusing on your health and earning more money with the goal of getting laid you'll eventually become happier and realise you didn't need pussy to become a complete human being in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:20 PM
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The only online resource that helped me in the course of self development was the Redpill and videos on optimistic nihilism. And even the Redpill had to be applied in real life for it to work for me I couldn't just read it and tell myself everything was fine. Too many therapyslop vendors like Dr. K treat their product like a religion where the original sin is not being attractive to women and not getting what you want in life and listening to them is the only form of redemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:26 PM
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I don't think we watched the same videos, really All his videos are rambling nonsense other people have noticed this as well np.reddit.com/r/DecodingTheGurus/comments/1bcfpog/healthy_gamer_one_of_the_legit_gurus/l3gf5i1/ He says in 100 words what can be said in 10 and weasels his way around the topic. I think this says more about you than it says about him. You seem unable to consider an approach that isn't based on your personal worldviews, when your own worldviews might be what's preventing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 12:34 PM
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All he does is yap and yap saying a whole lot while saying nothing at all. He knows saying something men might actually find useful will hurt the gynocentric imperative so he keeps yapping away giving the same non advice he pretends to criticise in his videos. If a guy claims to be offering male advice yet a lot of his supporters are women I immediately disregard whatever he has to say as useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:32 AM
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Women with degrees would rather stay single than marry a guy without one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:27 AM
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Men give attention to women for being mediocre all the time. I think men give women too much attention and need to stop hyping them up so this arrogance gets dropped down a peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:25 AM
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Nobody should be listening to Dr. K
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:16 AM
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Women talk all the time about screening men but think they aren't being screened as well which explains a lot of their complaints about online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:10 AM
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That's obviously a bot, all it does is post about Charlie Kirk and try to start arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:56 AM
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You guys are so used to being led around by talking heads you couldn't even fathom a guy coming to these conclusions based off his own experiences. There's kooks of all kinds on the Internet yet the manosphere resonates with men regardless of age or background.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:33 AM
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Everyone will eventually get Redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:51 PM
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Each woman is personally responsible for getting off, if you can't communicate what you need to have satisfying sex you shouldn't be having sex at all. Having a miserable lay and coming online to complain about it like it's a societal issue is pathetic. My question to you is why do women constantly demand men solve each and every problem they have while hating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:48 PM
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A lot of men want women to show the same amount of effort they show. Women only seem to be active participants in the initial stages of a relationship if The guy is really hot They are very unattractive This mismatch in how women rate themselves relative to men only works out in the favor of the top men. They get to treat women like shit and get away with it, women get frustrated that they are competing for a small pool of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:55 PM
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Because women don't care about unattractive men, they gain nothing from helping non naturals get more women. In fact they stand to lose a lot with each non natural who manages to sneak his way into the gene pool and make more of himself, which is why they detest the Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:50 PM
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Convenient how women largely seem to like men who have a disproportionate financial imbalance over them even though they're independent and make their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:08 PM
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Women are leaving men behind because men are broke relative to women. Women have never had it so good in human history yet they're still miserable and whining about everything. We've reached the point where women in the most developed countries would rather allow their societies die than drop hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:39 PM
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No, every woman is more at risk of being murdered by a man than ever being murdered by a woman, statistically Non sequitor Having dictators have never prevented women from being hurt The crime rate in El Salvador went down tremendously, the leader is also a massive dictator. Men commit the majority of violence in the world And who makes up the majority of law enforcement in the world? I'll give you a hint, it's not women. Again comparing a silly hashtag to actual violence is why no one takes you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:31 PM
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I can easily back up my point that mass killers have directly referenced red pill beliefs as a motivation for killing people Redpill beliefs of... Being lonely and mentally ill therefore using violence and throwing your life away is the only real solution to your problems. Sounds very Redpill indeed... Same way Aileen Wurnous was motivated by the feminist belief that killing men is fun. Elliot Roger for starters. Can you show me one specific text or video where Elliot Rodger said he was going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:48 PM
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The fact that you have to move the goalposts that far is pretty telling. The fact that you can't back up the central point of your post with a single name is pretty telling. Where did Aileen reference feminism as a motivation for killing people? Where did any mass shooter reference the Redpill as motivation for their crimes. Radical Islam is always blamed for Islamic based attacks. What a weird fuckin gotcha. I'm not seeing you guys advocate for the suppression of a religion that promotes violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:31 PM
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Can you mention even one killer who referenced the Redpill sub or any so called Redpill grifters online? When Aileen Wurnous murdered people am I allowed to blame feminism or when another Islamist goes on a shooting and stabbing spree can I call for the dismantling of Islam?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:22 PM
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Because if we wanted to actually fix all forms of violence against women that would require a dictatorial police state similar to what Trump is trying to achieve and the same people posting #killallmen would be the first to protest it. It’s hard to have an online bully, probably harder to survive mass shootings. You're more likely to be murdered by a random woman than in a mass shooting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:17 PM
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You're a waste of time who can't read between the lines. I already told you women would rather be in relationships with men who earn more, if the men can't earn more they'll be single which explains Gen Z. Read and stop wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:14 PM
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Sure let's blame the guys telling you to do things that make you attractive to women on mentally ill people going on a rampage. I'm sure your brilliant strategy of posting #killallmen and antagonising mentally ill people on the Internet will clearly fix the mass shooting problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:36 AM
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Incoherent word vomit, I don't even have the energy to prove her* wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:18 AM
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Who would have thought the guys who were posting dating and workout advice instead of #killallmen were the ones men would listen to...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:12 AM
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Holy Wall of Text Batman. I spend an unhealthy amount of time on this sub but I'm not reading all that. Do you think this is a college forum and posting gives you extra credit? In what universe do you expect me to parse through and debate this subject matter, it will take me all week! Genuinely mods get a fucking character limit or something this is getting out of hand, and she had the gall to write "thank you for reading", no, screw you for posting. I should get paid to even engage with this po…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:48 PM
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In other words the average woman is dating a man who doing better than her, if she can not access a man who is doing better than her she would rather remain single, which explains the current relationship crisis facing younger generations Literally just read the second part of the OP you absolute woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:44 PM
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You say “taller” like the average man isn’t taller than the average woman Okay. Being a short or perceived as short man does work against you You also say “earn more” like the average man doesn’t earn more than the average woman. On the contrary women earn more than men in the Gen Z demographic. Gen Z coincidentally is the generation with the highest rates of singledom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:21 PM
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A 5'8 by all accounts average guy slept with a single mom alpha widow. Same old story, just betas fucking betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:58 PM
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Tupac kept calling women bitches and hoes in his music and interviews if Tupac was alive today with the same views he'd probably be slandered for having "Redpill" views. Tupac mean or not rice Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:27 PM
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You seem confused, in your post you already acknowledge "nice guys" are picked last when they're older and women want to settle down with a safe option. You view it as maturity, I don't, this is a marriage of convenience and not genuine desire. As far as punishing goes what are you even trying to say? Is the guy rejecting this hypothetical woman a form of punishment? Is it refusing to be a doormat punishment for the women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:22 PM
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Average man in the western world is 5'9, white, earns around 40,000 USD, has some higher education, works in services and leans conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:35 AM
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Because women don't want to reciprocate and would rather mock your efforts for the validation of strangers if she doesn't like you. On the other hand men she's actually interested in don't have to put up this dog and pony show so why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:48 PM
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What women consider average and the real average are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:45 PM
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Women are, on average, dating men who are taller, equally or more educated, earn more and are liked by other women. In other words the average woman is dating a man who doing better than her, if she can not access a man who is doing better than her she would rather remain single, which explains the current relationship crisis facing younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:43 PM
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twitter comment of a woman End the thread, this sort of idea is how women get rid of competition like feminists who claim men are scum but have a boyfriend, get married and pop out male children in their personal lives. some men who are undesirable in the dating world are just spreading this narrative that women are shallow bitches A lot of women are shallow bitches or are friends and relatives of shallow bitches and thus mitate their views. After getting burned by these women irl and online it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:40 PM
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Let me jerk off to her naked every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:21 PM
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Because women, our parents, the media, kept telling us you don't need to be attractive to get a date and relationships, you just had to be yourself and this was a load of bullshit. They even went further to say if you're not dating or getting in a relationship you must be evil by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:41 PM
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I love how all you women are ignoring the second link and trying to tell me women don't have height requirements based of your narrow and possibly made up experiences. being tall is slightly more attractive to most women, like big boobs are more attractive to most men. Men don't have a cup size requirement like women have height requirements. Women made it taboo for men to discuss women's bodies and their preferences in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:35 PM
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Men with known baby mamas still get other women to sleep with them and have their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:23 PM
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Aren't you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:22 AM
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Selection bias my friend. Someone who sells her body will attract nothing but buyers. Sure the average guy is watching porn and jerking off but a very small percentage is paying for it and giving out specific requests. If men could get the sort of intimacy they crave in real life they wouldn't watch porn as much, I know I didn't. Massive porn use is a result of the problem not the actual problem. Getting a woman who wants to have sex on a consistent basis without getting married might as well be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:21 AM
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I'm going to eat some shawarma and watch my favourite show
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:15 AM
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Hearing women discuss men and relationships when they think no man is around to listen and without being cancelled will turn any man with commonsense to a Redpill advocate overnight. It's a mix of bragging about fucking some Chad or random rich dude, whining about dozens of DMs from orbiters, exchanging strategies on how to turn men to beta buxx, unfiltered discussions about their vaginal health, gossip about every single guy at work. Then when you (stupidly) try to ask them for advice they say …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:15 AM
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Girl advice; Just be yourself looks don't matter anyway Don't approach women in public it makes them uncomfortable and scared that you'll assault them Don't approach women at work it makes them feel unsafe Don't approach women in bars you're taking advantage of her being intoxicated to get laid Don't approach women at the gym, they're trying to work out in peace Don't approach women at the cafe, they're trying to work Just be gay if you can't get a woman Big muscles are gross Just be a nice guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:12 AM
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See this is exactly what I really dislike about this sort of mindset, you don't see things as they are you see them as you like them to be. The reason Russia invaded Ukraine and not Alaska is because Ukraine was relatively weak and the United States would blast them to the stone age of they tried it. If they had enough bombs several thousand Ukrainians would still be alive and millions more would be living peacefully in their homes. But sure tell yourself your donation of food is helping when an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:01 AM
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Stop being ugly, fix your hair and clothes Hit the gym, get good at a sport or just do it for fun Stop spending money and time on women who won't do the same for you Change your frame of mind so you don't dwell on rejection and breakups Never allow yourself to be gaslit into the idea that it's your responsibility to make women as a group happy over your personal happiness Lemme guess - it’s something to do with the girls being nicer to us. Would it kill them to be? Has society gotten better sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:56 AM
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It's usually some bs about how men should cry more and be more emotional about their problems Right on the money How about you? Unlike the yapping you call advocacy I actually save men's lives and keeps them healthy. I also donate and advocate for Ukrainian resistance so the men have enough bombs to help defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:44 AM
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Random woman tells unfunny joke that basically amounts to a defense of hypergamy. Women do this thing where they moralise sex and someone's ability to reproduce as some divine justice rather than the result of a breakdown in human social interaction and economic policy. I might as well say the drug dealing, alcoholic and violent men with multiple criminal records are actually great people because they had multiple kids with multiple women and don't complain about their situation online. I'm sick…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:58 PM
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I got that from the fact that he's a self identified Bluepill male. Ask him what he means by lifting each other up and it's going to be some sanctimonious bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:50 PM
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There is absolutely no self identified Bluepill male who gives a crap about actually helping men. It's usually some bs about how men should cry more and be more emotional about their problems, it's never about giving men the tools to solve those problems because their priority is fixing women's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:34 PM
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Every time men try to fix men's problems there's always men like you standing in the way because you put women's feelings over everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:24 PM
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Dating apps and feminism that removed the pressure in the first place Feminists kept telling women men suck except a small few, dating apps kept a steady stream of men from around the world at your fingertips so there was always a Chad a call away. The pressure on men to date and have sex increased by contrast. Now instead of being mocked for being a virgin any guy who's unattractive and doesn't go with the majority opinion is branded "incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:21 PM
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No? Women's romance novels are just a way for them to express their deepest sexual fantasies without it affecting their politics. It's all about being forced to love a man who's much more powerful than they are, the force is an essential element because they get to enjoy all the benefits without any of the blame. Men aren't seeking relationships with large power imbalances against them. They might choose to be submissive in certain contexts but the craving for a billionaire werewolf criminal is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 04:07 PM
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Yes they do. Guys here dont want to be 3 to 6s that get decent relationships, because they call them beta cuck simps. They want to be the alphas, the chads, the guys who can make women go stupid with desire, and can treat women like garbage but still have alot of them chasing him. A lot of guys did want decent decent relationships but were used or rejected by women until the women ran through all their options and settled for him. A man with options isn't going to put up with a woman's bs which …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:41 PM
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Too many guys just wanna fuck and not want to be honest about it. And I'm sure every guy who slid into your DMs saying "wanna fuck?" would be blocked and have the screenshot posted online. Do you think no man has ever tried to be honest about his pursuit of casual sex before? If women are mad that men lie to them it's because that's what actually works. It does in a relationship, which “nice guys” dont actually care about. They want to get fucked and are mad being nice doesnt moisten panties. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:12 PM
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Tl;Dr Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks Did you ask for a hookup? Y'all will bitch and moan when men ask anyway women like to play games while theyre playing games Women could make most of their complaints dissappear if they collectively stopped being coy about sex and dating. Thing is, when women are hearing “what women want”, theyre thinking of relationships. Theyre not thinking “What would make my panties drop immediately?” Women generally want to fuck men they're in relationships with. The idea that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:25 PM
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At work, at school, in public, in video chats, at the gym, in the mirror. Even for guys who aren't ugly they admit they're struggling with dating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:50 AM
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I think it’s equal to marry someone who is in the same class and income bracket as you Nothing to say about men who earn less? Oh I forgot those men are just background noise anyway. If you are only going for men earning equal or higher when women and men now earn the same (with Gen Z women now apparently put earning men) then you are by definition not pro equality. It would be upholding the patriarchy to only be interested in men who make significantly more That describes the majority of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:29 PM
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It exists because girls and women generally do not behave the way boys and men do. This is not me saying one is worse or better than the other. There are pros and cons to all things. I’m simply explaining dynamics and differences. Everyone knows women and men behave differently the problem with WAW is women's negative behaviour gets a pass from larger society leading to mass hypoagency and persistence of toxic behaviours among women. The most obvious one is more males than females tend to be vio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:19 PM
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I don't think you can claim to be pro equality of the sexes while upholding one of the oldest gender roles that places a man above you in all aspects. It would be more honest to say you just want power by association and the convenience that comes with it rather than equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:59 PM
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See I don't even know what kind of man you're describing because this hardly represents the average Gen Z male at all especially that word brazen. Gen Z men won't even attempt to make a woman uncomfortable lest he be photographed and have his future ruined. Gen Z men barely even approach women and stick their faces in the nearest screen most of the day. Men of several generations ago, the cat calling, tobacco chewing, ass grabbing men, women legislated and shamed into silence don't exist at larg…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:18 AM
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That's what happens when you put the pressure of initiating a relationship entirely on men. As a woman a man probably isn't going to leave you for being boring but every single guy has had a woman drop him for another guy she thought was more interesting to hangout with. If women hate having to "act interested" they're going to have to approach more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:17 AM
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Men these days are magnitudes better than their fathers and grandfathers. They aren't getting drunk every weekend, don't hit their women, actually give a damn about women's opinions, don't have a second secret family across the country. The the thing modern men are doing worse than men of the past is earning less than their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:46 AM
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This is a very interesting mindset you're coming into this discussion with. You acknowledge that women are earning more and getting more educated than men, therefore women are more "successful". Despite this women refuse to form relationships with men who aren't doing the same or better than they are. Rather than admit that women's ideas of gender equality are contradictory and they will always crave the patriarchy even in personal relationships you put the blame on men for not being gay enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:18 AM
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You guys keep blaming women's behaviour that we see and experience every day on the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:24 PM
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The body positivity, free bleeding, gender dismantling and slut walks weren't started by men. Meghan Trainor who got rich off telling women it's okay to be fat lost weight and got plastic surgery when she no longer needed their sympathy to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:38 PM
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Unfortunately people don't want a woman who will start pointless fights, bring another man's baby home, put you in debt or crash your car because she had a bad day. Women are already notoriously difficult to deal with as it is and many have conflated being confrontational with being independent. In an attempt to be less feminine they decided to be burdens instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:09 PM
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The article says only 27% of women use dating apps Relevance? Do you not understand how sample sizes work? So, 60% of 27% of women. Which is a small minority. This is based off the assumption that the women who use dating apps are magically different from the general population 5 11 is not 6 foot That is the mean score, meaning half the respondents wanted a guy who was taller than 5'11 No one said women dont have a height requirement. But its usually 'taller than me' If this was true height woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:03 PM
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Somehow that 15% is all in my college I doubt you've taken any actual statistics related to this topic. The fact that you're 5'5 probably skews your perception a little bit. Y’all act like men being tall is out of the norm It is out of the norm which is why women find it attractive With that said, I’m not interested in dating a giant and most men are taller than me at 5’5” This isn't about you, I don't remember mentioning you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:57 PM
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In this multicultural world do you think people aren't selecting for race when it comes to dating? Do you think a guy who's race is stereotyped negatively doesn't have a harder time dating than someone who makes up the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:55 PM
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Here's a poll from the UK which says the "ideal" height for a man is 5'11 even though most men in the UK are under 5'11. Here's a survey which says 60% of women swiped right on men who were 6 foot or taller. Men who were 6'5 fit the requirements of 90% of people surveyed. This is isn't even including other factors. The height requirement is such a well known unrealistic standard it's even bizarre to think women don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:51 PM
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There's a disconnect in the things men and women consider interesting. A man might find analysing a game winning play of his favourite sport to be interesting, a woman might think it's a waste of time. A woman might think her pottery collection or frequent trips are interesting, a man might think she's a hoarder or bad with money. In my experience the women who considered themselves "interesting" were the ones who would word vomit their latest "Matcha Labubu Dubai chocolate at the club" craze to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:41 PM
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Those are the requirements to attract Chad and not the average man unfortunately hypergamy makes the average man invisible to women in these sorts of discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:31 PM
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Just the expectation that men be 6 feet tall. Men who are 6 feet tall are 15 percent of the population, add other requirements like education, income, race, religion, charisma, politics, and shared interests and the men a lot of women assume is ideal just doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:22 PM
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Holding women to a higher standard was a central point of the manosphere but that got derailed when the modern feminist movement and their beta footstools kept insisting women were perfect as they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:18 PM
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You literally built up a strawman with that statement. The average age of getting married isn't dependent on the average age of the general population. The average age of Japan is higher than the United States but the average age of first marriage is the same. many people in the west are not having children by choice Again strawman most people aren't antinatalist and the factors stopping them from having kids are the same ones stopping them from getting into a relationship in the first place. Ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:28 PM
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You do realise that average age will only go up as things stay the same? Even if the average age didn't go up it doesn't change the fact that most men are on course to never get married ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:09 PM
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Sure if you include all the middle aged men who got married in the Obama administration, young men are objectively not doing fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:55 PM
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Yikes just throwing everything at the wall hoping it sticks. As an actual man I can tell you there's nobody more Redpilled than a hot young woman, she will play with your feelings and take advantage of her looks to get free stuff. There's no algorithm that could make this up if you see it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:54 PM
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Yes people do tend to ignore made up fiction that doesn't reflect their realities with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:37 PM
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You're so right women do like a variety of men most men will be found attractive by at least some women Okay so let's assume this ridiculous idea is true and most women find most men attractive why is dating still a massive slog for the majority of men? Why aren't women making it easier by just approaching these men and ending their singledom? Something isn't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:37 PM
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It is capitalist ideology that women will date a guy with a Ferrari over a guy with a corolla and a guy with a corolla over a guy with no driver's licence. Yeah man that makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:28 PM
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All women do is talk about themselves, how they act in the real world is what matters and we already know how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:15 PM
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Dumb farming implement sings whiny song about not being paid for existing. This is the future women wanted after all, you're independent human beings with your own money who should be appreciated for more than your looks. If we are going for actual tradition AKA dating in the 60s it was an inexpensive date at the local food joint with her parent's permission, after several of these dates marriage would be on the table. But women want it both ways, they want expensive dates with multiple men whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:52 AM
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It's so funny how feminists and the Bluepill got what they wanted while simultaneously losing the culture war.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:27 PM
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Thorough some recent field work I've come to understand a lot of women don't actually care about how witty you are, they might in fact be straight dumb. This is why men should continue giving those generic one word answers women love to complain about so much, she's already decided she wants to fuck you or not from the start anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:43 PM
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Top men are the prize, women will modify their bodies and lifestyles just to get within shouting distance of a top man, the rest of mankind is practically invisible to them. Use this knowledge to better yourself or adjust accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:05 PM
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This only applies when men's hormones are raging in their teens and early 20s. I don't even think this was the case until the modern era where women were shunning marriage in favour of their careers. It used to be men kept trying to find spaces and pursuits to get away from women who wanted to chain them down with stability and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:03 PM
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You need to calm down, you're taking this way to heart. The unfortunate truth is there's entire industries based around helping women appeal to men and you know it. You think women are getting those bbls, lipo, botox, DDD implants, hair extensions and vulva sculpting to appeal to other women? You think all the women complaining about men no longer approaching and would rather play video games/ watch porn are making it up? These women base their entire existence around men, if it's not their fath…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:07 PM
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I've given attention to objectively unattractive women and they are no different once they get comfortable. Sure they're easier to talk to at first (because they're desperate) but that changes when they assume a hot man talking to them = they are hot as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:08 PM
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That's the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:28 PM
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Yup definitely a bot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:27 PM
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Well you are making a claim that most of its adherents aren't successful I'd like to know your thought process and how you came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:52 PM
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Make of it what you will buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:48 PM
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Are you intimately embedded in the personal lives of everyone who has read the Redpill sub or are you making a claim based off seeing the ones who complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:46 PM
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Remember guys if the Redpill was a lie and guys could get girls by just being themselves they would and there would be no Redpill. But for some reason this doesn't happen and guys need to tick off a checklist before women acknowledge their humanity let alone date them long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:17 PM
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So I want to believe you are either single, lying or dating in the family because every single person you meet starts off as a stranger. Even if you weren't lying why are you even here on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:35 PM
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Ah yes literally no woman ever sought attention from a stranger to affirm her femininity and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:30 PM
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Men they aren't attracted to* which makes up the majority of men. Just like a sports car company isn't advertising for the general public, it's a display of status meant for a few to access and the rest to envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:53 PM
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You're supposed to lower your gaze dummy! Unless you're Chad then you can look, whistle and she might let you cup a feel. Hell if you're a famous celebrity she might even push her titties on you unprompted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:51 PM
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You literally change the dynamic by moving to a country where you are no longer considered "average". How many men in these countries are even 6 feet and earn 6 figures? You think pulling a guy doing worse than an American college student in Egypt is a flex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:05 PM
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Sure as long as you're open to sharing you can keep those standards, but don't expect top men to go for average women and expect to be exclusive. Women delude themselves into thinking they can get with men who make up 2% of the population while being bang average because a tall rich guy slept with them/their friend once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:15 PM
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You memoryholed the last decade of women bitching about being approached in public by men they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:53 PM
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At this point who gives a shit about being nice? Men who still care about women's opinions about them being "nice" are men who have ZERO dating experience and don't yet know women despise nice guys. With experience you'll realise women don't care about how nice or kind you are and shitty men get more success because they aren't wasting their time on lost causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:59 PM
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Women will give utterly useless and self serving response and wonder why young men turn to the manosphere. Sure if you want to give useless information that makes you feel better while calling it "nice" go right ahead just don't complain when people find alternatives to fix their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:21 AM
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Unfortunately sometimes you have to put being useful ahead of being "nice". Skimping out on the truth and giving vague answers isn't helping. Personally I had a pretty bad haircut growing up and nobody told me because they were trying to be "nice". My dating life changed after I read the Redpill and changed my haircut. With guys who struggle you need to be specific because "dress nice" means different things to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:46 AM
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He wasn't even attending he just worked there as a dancer and women were grabbing his junk and laughing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:09 PM
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Thinking about the booktok convention where a bunch of women sexually harassed a guy and did other obscene acts in public. Women aren't really better than men they're just better at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:20 PM
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The system is lazy about divorce and child support settlements because it's too hard to determine who owns what in a marriage. Ironically this thought process probably contributed to reducing the rates of marriage and childbirth because no one wants to lose everything over a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:27 PM
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All this proves is rich men are stupid for marrying and having kids. The only solution is staying single and hiring a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:25 PM
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A lot of you probably spend more waking hours with your coworkers than your partners. You're mandated to be with these people 5 days a week, 8 hours a day, probably more depending on the kind of job yet you can't "be yourself" around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:20 AM
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The idea that you can’t be yourself around her is even weirder. Why put so much effort allowing one person to show the worst of their behavior but you can’t even show sadness and uncertainty at times? Unfortunately life is all about tradeoffs and not all of us have the luxury of dating a unicorn who just gets us. A lot of women, just like a lot of men, are going to be horrible people depending on the circumstances. It's the same way you can't "be yourself" around your coworkers or extended famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:12 AM
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Women want kindness plus confidence, humor, and compatibility. When the so-called “nice guy” gets overlooked, it’s not because women hate niceness, it’s because he wasn’t offering the full package AKA he didn't give her the tingles Mr Charismatic Asshole was giving. A lot of the time when women describe a guy as nice it's because he's got nothing else going for him or he's too stupid to tell he's being manipulated. Women don't want his easily manipulated genes to pass on to their kids. I also re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:17 PM
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People literally compare it to being a therapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:13 PM
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Women will frame any occurrence in a relationship which isn't self serving as an actual job deserving of financial compensation. I don't think I've seen a form of blatant narcissism like this before. It's bad enough to frame cleaning your own house and raising your own kids as unpaid labour now liberal women want to get paid for listening to the man they chose to date and marry when he has a bad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:27 PM
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"Mature" is just a euphemism for women approaching the wall, of course she wants a kind man after having her fun. Love is the process of seeing someone else's bullshit and choosing to continue to connect with them. That is being a dumbass or having no decent options which might look like love if coming from a romantic partner but people would rarely tolerate this shit with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 01:29 AM
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She tried dating apps and was overwhelmed by the flood of guys showing interest. She decided to pick one and he flew her out the next day but the luxury car he came in was a different model from the one in his profile. He was also 2 inches shorter irl, basically flew all the way for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:19 PM
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The account posted literally no study You must see how these things aren’t equal in reliability What's it with you guy's obsession with things being equal, the point is not about things being equal only that they exist. And nobody said women don’t kill men Yet she said Women aren't killing men when they get angry. The big threat to men was "divorce rape," it’s not comparable to violence against women perpetrated by men Women often times do abuse their partners, male or female, they also get the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:14 PM
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A woman just opened up to me and I realised I was wrong and women have it so hard when it comes to dating. Edit: She tried dating apps and was overwhelmed by the flood of guys showing interest. She decided to pick one and he flew her out the next day but the luxury car he came in was a different model from the one in his profile. He was also 2 inches shorter irl, basically flew all the way for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:49 PM
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This is not true, you are misrepresenting this is the study which shows pregnant women were twice as likely to kill themselves than be victims of homicide. If we want to talk further it shows advances in medical science prevent women from dying from medical complications as opposed to outside factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:28 PM
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Women are very much killing men, a woman shot her husband who had cancer and two young children last week but this never registers to you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:18 PM
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They did, people just don't take them seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:16 PM
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Men already acknowledge they'd fuck a crazy woman if she's hot enough, women want men to believe their lack of success has nothing to do with their looks but their personality (which is a lie)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:27 PM
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"Male men"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:25 PM
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Women's love is conditional on the man being the 80th percentile in looks height and status
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:51 PM
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Man thinks projecting women's views on men makes his opinion valid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:00 PM
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I'm always baffled by women who claim to want a relationship but spend every waking moment with their friends, even going on dates as third wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:57 PM
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Redpill techniques of looking good and not being a whiny loser is manipulative now. You guys keep using loaded language to keep men ignorant and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:50 PM
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Female solipsism makes them believe bad women just don't exist or their behaviour is the fault of an invisible system. Yeah sure most men are shitty and most women are perfect, that's clearly true and factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:00 PM
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Women have already crafted an elaborate story about a man's entire life, personality and intentions before he opens his mouth which explains why they find the vast majority of men to be unattractive or undateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:01 AM
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If it actually did work then men would do it Men are doing it. Because what dude isn’t going to do the thing that gets him laid Playing an instrument gets you laid but a lot of guys don't play instruments. Same reason they don't play pro sports or drive expensive cars. These things are expensive and take a lot of work. Getting a sculpted body, working on your social skills and fashion also take a lot of work. But it’s been 20 years. Its lack of success speaks for itself The Redpill subreddit is …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:58 PM
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The thing is the Redpill does work, it was also largely demonised by feminists and mainstream media so a lot of men just didn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:25 PM
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Why would you have to fake being asleep if he trusted you to support him in that vulnerable moment? I don't get how people can say stuff like this and think I'm going to be on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:47 PM
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Jessica Valenti thinks poor and disaffected men are going to give a shit about women's access to abortion? Isn't is usually the rich and educated men who push for these issues? The greatest enemy of the feminist movement is feminists themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:55 PM
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This reads like self assuring bs women tell each other on fashion forums. Women don't gaf about men's problems which is why "mankeeping" is a thing apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:52 PM
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Just do it? How do you think people with anger issues or other behavioral problems regulate their emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:31 PM
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Lmao what is the "better" here? Even the self acclaimed "progressive" women develop the ick when you show a moment of vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:30 PM
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You might be a robot given how quickly you respond to my posts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:08 PM
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Remember guys, never show your emotions, be as stoic as possible because women either don't care or think you're gay if you cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:03 PM
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Alright I'll have to stop you right there buddy, there are several things wrong with this post. First the largest share of (non white) migrants came in under the Bush administration. George Bush has come on record to rail against nativist immigration policies multiple times. Why wasn't immigration an issue then? Well first, the world was too focused on Iraq and Afghanistan plus Obama wasn't president yet. Every major "issue" that exists today in politics is driven largely by domestic and foreign…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:48 PM
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Reddit is the 7th most visited website in the world and one of the top results for searching generic information. This is ridiculous cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:22 PM
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some may be more true than others Oh it seems we're finally making some progress i just explained why its not supposed to be easy. you think finding someone you can happily live with for years, who is around your age, has similar life goals, who youre attracted to, and also feels the same way about you sounds EASY? This is what families did for generations until several decades ago, makes you wonder why. but why do you only focus on the ones that analogize relationships with jewelry This isn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:18 PM
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It's really funny how subs like 2x and askwomen helped contribute to the downfall of feminism and the larger leftwing movement among Gen Z by banning everyone who asked a question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:36 PM
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theres a circular element in your logic that implies if a complaint exists, it must be true. no complaint could possibly be false It just so happens the things men complain about are true. its not supposed to be easy Why though? Is there any intrinsic benefits women gain from making dating as hard and miserable as possible? Is there any benefits to making men jump through hoops? the simplest explanation for an imbalance if it exists is that one side wants it less And we all know what side. how d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:55 PM
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Since women are natural social climbers, it is in their nature to despise average men. To the average woman the only man worth being around is a man who's doing better than she is and we can tell based off how dating standards evolved. In the past the average person was several inches shorter, now thanks to science there are lots more people above 6 feet so now women demand the ideal man be 6 feet even though it's unrealistic. In the past all a man needed to do to be a provider was make sure you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:25 AM
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Sure they can, it's called the Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:19 AM
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Normal, decent guys who aren't romantically successful don't seem to complain as much and don't blame women. On an anonymous forum how are you supposed to know who's decent in real life? I've seen guys in real life or places like r/guycry get support from women without it being seen as a character flaw. Does any of that support actually fix their problems or is it just "thoughts and prayers"? This obsession with seeing men cry is one massive shit test. Every time I expressed insecurity with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:18 PM
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I don't think women are capable of loving men the same way men love women. If they were a lot of complaints around gender and relationships just wouldn't exist. Women are more in love with the perceived social benefits of being with a man, not the man himself. If there are an equal number of women to men, why is it still so bloody hard to start a relationship? Why do men still have to jump through hoops to get and keep a woman interested in them? Why doesn't this toxic dynamic happen in gay rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:51 PM
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On dating apps the uglier the woman the more likely she is to have a decent personality. In real life prettier women I met have been narcissistic users who get off on the fact that men will give them anything just because they're hot. Always getting your way for just existing isn't great for character development.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:10 PM
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Love how we went full circle with people admitting false rape accusations do happen and are common from the public defender discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:30 PM
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Women are shocked that men can be friends and not know intimate details of each other's lives and that's because we don't need everything to be perfect to enjoy someone's company. A lot of women are miserable because they want someone who can do it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:23 PM
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If a guy keeps giving signals and doesn't want to approach he probably thinks you're a psychotic bitch who will ruin his reputation over the slightest miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:20 PM
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Do you believe women should be allowed to have plastic surgery and wear makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:07 PM
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Women lie to men all the time. They lie about their looks, their body count, they lie about wanting to be friends, they lie about getting an orgasm, they lie lie and lie and it's socially acceptable because making women unhappy is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:07 PM
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Yeah bro every single woman who ever entered a relationship before 1970 did so against her will
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:57 PM
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There is nothing wrong with approaching women for a romantic relationship or sex as long as both parties agree. The approaching and keeping up interest is typically expected of men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:24 PM
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These problems with dating coincide with the push dismantle gender roles for women, they didn't exist in decades past and we didn't have this much of a problem finding and maintaining relationships. Apologies for expecting women who wanted to supplant gender roles to actually practice what they preach. Turns out women never actually hated gender roles they just wanted power under the guise of equality. If you think a reasonable expectation is demanding men be gay why not demand lesbians be strai…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:26 PM
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Hinge doesn't limit you to 8 likes a day only 8 active chats. On hinge you can send a chat to hidden to free up space for new chats. The system doesn't actually do what it claims to be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:42 PM
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Men do that because the algorithm refuses to match men based off any useful information on their profiles. The point is to keep men stuck on the app longer and manipulate them into paying, eventually the cycle feeds itself. Ever notice how you suddenly get swarmed with likes when you take a month long break from the dating apps with very little swiping?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:41 PM
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Unfortunately you seem to be blind to or willingly dismiss political pressures that come with certain marketing decisions. You think companies are shifting to a more conservative image in recent years is just a coincidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:33 PM
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The ones who made a huge fuss about unrealistic beauty standards, tried to ban porn because it made women feel bad, pressured companies to appeal to "diverse bodies", the ones making schools play adolescence to kids, the ones who tried to deplatform Kevin Samuels and celebrated when he died. Those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:49 AM
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Any examples that aren't rich celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:41 AM
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Going to play devil's advocate and remind everyone of that small sliver in history where refusing to date someone because of their race, weight, disability or gender identity was seen as discriminatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:37 AM
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Everyone knows Chad is a naturally tall, good looking and charismatic guy that attracts women effortlessly, especially when young. Having money is a plus especially for long term dating. If you need to pay a woman to love you, she doesn't love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:35 AM
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How women vet - Is he 6 feet or taller? Does he make more than me? Is he good looking? Aside from that most young women don't give a shit about your character until they've had their fair share of dick and want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:21 PM
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Nothing about what you want to find in a real relationship Implying people who have different wants than you aren't in real relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:18 PM
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Women don't go for men who earn the same or not less than they do. That man has to either be extremely physically attractive or she's settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:00 PM
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Women by a large margin prefer men who are doing better than they are If women are "dating down" it's because they don't have any options and prefer that to being single. This would certainly explain why later generations struggle with relationships more than older generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:23 AM
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Women by a large margin prefer men who are doing better than they are which is why men who tried to ask their friends out get confused when it doesn't work and their friend thinks he's a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:51 AM
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This is a very interesting strawman you built up isn't it just common sense to say mutual physical attraction is more realistic than having someone who shares each and every one of your niche interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:48 AM
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Bit presumptuous to assume your idea of an ideal relationship is everyone else's idea. Chasing someone who is exactly identical to date is why most people especially women are single and miserable about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:46 AM
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It means women will tell you anything to get what they want and improve their image but don't actually mean it. Women have been raised to communicate indirectly which confuses men especially when they claim to like you or claim everything is fine but they aren't showing up for you, cancelling dates, denying sex or having inconsistent communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:16 PM
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I want to break free... I want to break free...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:13 PM
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You just described how most women navigate relationships. The only difference being women get enough attention from men that they aren't given the incentive to be better until their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:49 PM
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It's no secret women leverage men's higher sexual drive for their benefit. A lot of women don't enjoy sex or enjoy other things more than sex and are perfectly okay with not having it if it will get them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:42 PM
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Bluepillers don't need studies because anyone dumb enough to call themselves Bluepill without a sense of irony already thinks their superiority complex is enough to get people to agree with them. The entire point of the Bluepill is to keep men in their place as docile providers who overcompensate for the sins of men past by giving women all the power and influence in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:40 AM
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That's because the corporate world decided to run mad one day and give in to every insane demand from radical feminists. The Redpill was of course a target because it didn't kiss women's asses or center on queer people but the sub hadn't broken any rules so they quarantined it to satisfy the radfems. This left the Redpill wide open to be appropriated by grifters on different platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:27 PM
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I'm on this sub to shit post in the daily thread and give some real world advice that might help reverse the calamity that fourth wave feminism has caused to human relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:08 PM
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Also things like voting and joining the military can be productive things that are good for the person. People can build careers in the military and get health and education benefits, etc People can also get permanently disfigured, killed or survive with lifelong psychological problems. These are all expected of you the moment you sign in. The fact that we are eager to allow young people kill each other but not show their naked ass is frankly hilarious. Doing pornography and sex work is objectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:24 PM
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I don't think insurance companies should be the moral arbiters of society especially given how they wrecked the healthcare system and led to numerous unnecessary deaths. Their purpose is acting as a slush fund for investors rather than pooling risk, they'd raise the insurance rates to insane levels for anyone below 50 if it would make them more money, does that mean we should only allow 50 year olds make any sort of decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:17 PM
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Good men want good for other people even if they don't get what they want themselves And the "other people" in question are always women and children. What's good for men is irrelevant, women don't even give a shit about male centred issues unless they're trying to ban something men enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:57 PM
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You are just repeating pseudoscience based off personal insecurities. The idea that the brain needs to be 25 or older to be developed is a myth. If 18 year olds are too stupid to take their clothes off on camera they shouldn't be allowed to vote, drive, own firearms or have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:42 PM
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You think it's sickening for a red blooded man to get a boner when he sees an attractive woman naked?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:51 AM
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She's making this troll post in response to the Tea app post that was made yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:49 AM
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Women aren't better at being single than men, neither do they enjoy it,we just got so used to women bitching about relationships that we've tuned out. A woman complaining about not having sex is a victim of unreasonable beauty standards, a man complaining about not having sex is an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:35 PM
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I'd suggest women stop living through other people's Instagram reels and have realistic expectations but accountability is unfortunately a male trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:33 AM
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All status signifiers aside from cooking. But even the cooking involves cooking the rarest meats on the most expensive grill for a family of 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:21 AM
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Done it before, seen it before. Once you've spoken to enough women you'll realise most don't care about these things if you're pretty low status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:20 AM
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Just saw the girl who posted her Bumble rate me, she's the fucking mayor of chop city!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:02 PM
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Okay toasterchild I will scrape the Internet for your pictures, post them online and ask random people if you're a child abuser. That seems fair right? People asking other people if they think someone is gay is unlikely to be found to be libel, what damages would there be? Losing your relationship, being fired by your homophobic boss, losing out in business because some random broad claimed you were sucking dick in gas station bathrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:24 AM
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What do you think libel means I swear it's like I'm talking to a child. The vast majority of people also don't litter does that mean we should let a few people litter and throw trash all over the place?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:56 PM
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Except the posts are anonymous, the only time your identity is attached is when you're verifying if you're sufficiently female. Is that what this worry is about? Men are afraid women will publicly post their dick size? I already explained why your doxxing and harassment app could be problematic. Women were using the app to find out if men were gay and spreading rumours. Anyway since some of the users had their pictures leaked I wonder how they'll feel about random guys rating them without their …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:37 PM
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Why would anyone go out of their way to make negative comments about someone they barely know? Are you new to the Internet? People don't waste a lot of energy burning people for no reason All it takes is one psycho spreading unverified stories about you though. It's the same reason you don't have your name and face on reddit. Even if it wasn't people posting lies how would you feel if a bunch of random guys you never met had an app where they talked about how tight your box was?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:22 PM
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A lot of assumptions happening. The app isn't just about people women dated it's about people they met online or might know from work/school/hobbies. If you're a top guy then sure you're fine, but for the rest of the male population you're getting absolutely hammered by bad reviews from people you might not even know saying things that might not be true just because they don't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:14 PM
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It's too early to say, the app might get deleted from stores and people will avoid it after the leaks. We also don't have a clear idea about the type of guys who were on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:10 PM
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Sydney Sweeney has great genes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:45 AM
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The mods continue to torment us with more lilith shit posts, when will this end?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:49 PM
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This is just female hypoagency. Honestly a lot of the questions asked on this sub is people trying to read the Redpill without explicitly being Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:26 PM
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That's because mods actually enforce rules against harassment now tea is the opposite of that. It's basically making the same mistake that got reddit in hot water a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:59 PM
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That makes it easier to convert hot women to lesbianism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:41 PM
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Rare Lift_and_Lurk W
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:40 PM
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"u/Solondthewookiee is a creep everyone! Stay away from him, there's no telling what he's posted, warn your friends as well!" If I left this as a standalone post in this sub u/GridReXX would come stomping with the ban hammer. Heck if I posted this in any sub the mods would remove it and I would probably get banned but you think this it's okay for some reason. This is me just calling you, an anonymous profile, a creep. There's women posting guys full names pictures, jobs, claiming stuff they can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:38 PM
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What they never talk about are women in rural areas 80% of Americans live in urban areas, why would they waste time talking about a small minority of people? The woman in Lanark probably just wants a stable life, maybe a family, and a man who treats her well and doesn’t act like he’s auditioning for a YouTube podcast. There are women from rural towns who moved to Miami or any other big city for the excitement, why do you think those towns are dying in the first place? You entire argument hinges …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:34 PM
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That and the UK banning all porn and unless you post your ID is part of their new online surveillance state.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:06 PM
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There are lots of places men are excluded from today in the West: from subs like VindictaRateCelebs and AskWomenOver40, to women-only gyms, to professional organizations, to women-only networking events, etc… To be fair those subreddits are run by bitter radical feminists who want to complain about men and not be banned for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:04 PM
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Sorry but it's people like you having no standards that ruined the modern dating landscape. You might not care about your reputation but the rest of us do. These lies might seem trivial until they affect your job or interactions with other people people in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:00 PM
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Except you're not telling "other women" you're telling the world some guy you may or may not have met is a public danger because he made YOU uncomfortable at some point. It's like carrying a sign to your local Walmart with your ex to girlfriend and calling her crazy. It's gone from being cautious to harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:57 PM
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I came in expecting to see some posts about the tea app, wasn't disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:29 AM
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Punishing the ordinary for talking about the elite pedo ring. Why is it no surprise this is happening right as the Epstien files gain renewed interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:28 AM
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I'm just going to reply with my other message because honestly you people aren't worth having a good faith discussion with. You're talking like this was some random guy from the street who followed her to her room not someone she met in a conference who wanted to continue the discussion. In the end he respected her decision to say no and that was it but she just had to milk this minor exchange for any bit of attention she could get. The only thing we got from this is "Don't approach women with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:52 PM
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You're talking like this was some random guy from the street who followed her to her room not someone she met in a conference who wanted to continue the discussion. In the end he respected her decision to say no and that was it but she just had to milk this minor exchange for any bit of attention she could get. The only thing we got from this is "Don't approach women with similar interests or she'll think you're a rapist". You guys treat social skills like it's something everyone's born with and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:51 PM
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I guess you're too young to remember elevatorgate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:54 AM
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You can't social skill your way out of character assassination from a vindictive woman in this gynocentric world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:42 PM
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"Oh my gosh this creepy guy keeps trying to talk to me at my swim class for days and ignoring my signals, I'm so scared right now!!! Honestly I don't think I'll go back there, women are never safe, why can't men just leave us alone! 😢"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:18 PM
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I JUST SIMULTANEOUSLY WHIPPED AND NAE NAED!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:15 AM
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It's genuinely so refreshing to be with a woman who knows how to use her actual brain instead of playing dumb and expecting me to prove my masculinity by doing everything for her. My gripe with online dating is there are too many lazy and entitled bitches who want a relationship without doing any work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:37 PM
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You're still making an unprovable statement with no basis in reality as a way to rationalise not being desired by your target group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:13 PM
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All men want sex! This shouldn't be a controversial opinion, if a man finds you physically attractive to some degree he will want to have sex with you. When men and women are incompatible in other areas women rationalise it as him just wanting sex instead of her not being the person for him long term. This is very clear when you imply all men who don't just want to bang you and run are already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:20 PM
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Going to have sex tomorrow in a clown outfit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:46 AM
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I'd allow 1 billion people die to save one of you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:45 AM
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Except my gf tonight because she has a "headadhe"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:44 AM
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I seem to have attracted someone who either can't read or can't interact with my posts in good faith. So first off I don't know why solipsism makes you unable to realise I'm not talking about myself? Like women in general would rather moan on social media than approach a man they found attractive in public. It's hilarious, women are their own worst enemies and can't even admit it. For me personally women, at various stages of my life, have decided to play their little game of looking me in the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:43 AM
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Posted from another thread: In today's world where men have been metooed into passivity women should approach men more but a lot of women won't because approaching is an admission that they aren't as hot as they think because approaching is for "desperate" women. Approaching also takes away their major card of with holding intimacy which is why they will personally refuse to approach and discourage other women from approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:02 PM
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In today's world where men have been metooed into passivity women should approach men more but a lot of women won't because approaching is an admission that they aren't as hot as they think because approaching is for "desperate" women. Approaching also takes away their major card of with holding intimacy which is why they will personally refuse to approach and discourage other women from approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:01 PM
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Who gives a shit, what do YOU want!?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:58 PM
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Sorry but I'm reporting you to the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:03 PM
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First! 🖕🕺🖕🍾🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:01 PM
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We stay because we love you and believe we can convince the Bluepill women to sleep with us if we win enough debates. The truth is harsh but it must be told.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:05 PM
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Your comment from PurplePillDebate was removed because of: 'No insults or incivility' Hi u/GridReXX, Be civil. This includes direct attacks against an individual, indirect attacks against an individual, or witch hunting. Original comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1m38a3r/discussion_about_main_ppd_posts_looks_and_ncount/n40spm5/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:03 PM
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The mods just remove every post that's explicitly Redpill while allowing Bluepill accounts to post ragebait 24/7. The only way to get any sort of opinion out that the mods won't nuke is in the daily thread. New people who aren't used to reddit either give up or go to the more obscure subs with lax moderation. I even found a great Redpill leaning sub that I won't be talking about so the dregs of PPD don't infiltrate and ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:29 PM
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Are they excluding gay men and liars who skew those results?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:25 PM
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Evans spends a lot of time shirtless but even at that no one complained about them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:30 PM
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Leave it to women to show they can't read and tell us every single interaction they have on the streets is catcalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:45 PM
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Loneliness is an amorphous concept. You can be drowning in dick but still feel lonely because it's not premium dick or the guys are your type so you don't want to be associated with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:43 PM
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How much interest do you think the average woman receives from men? On a daily basis? On a weekly basis? On a monthly basis? A lot given how they constantly complain and wish men would leave them alone I'd say it's a lot. What type of interest do you think women are receiving and how are they receiving it? Men being nice to them on the streets, at work, at hobbies, getting likes and sliding into DMs online. That's more than I can say for the average man who has to work hard just to recieve a fra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:05 AM
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Women want to read books where they're fucked by a werewolf billionaire with a 12 inch penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:51 PM
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Because the mainstream co-opted incel to mean every guy who struggles with relationships so every guy who struggled with relationships started calling himself an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:51 PM
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In the, in the 60s, women were moaning about burlesque dancers showing too much thigh, in the 70s it was hippies with their tits out, in the 80s women were bitching about Playboy giving men unrealistic expectations, in the 90s it was video vixens, in the 2000s it was Penthouse and Internet porn. Women have always been complaining about men having unrealistic standards even though women are the ones driving most of these trends and men just want to see a nice pair of tits every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:46 PM
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Why don't Trump fans just admit they only want white immigrants and don't give a damn about the legal process of immigration? Fox News already admitted to being Nazis so this should be a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:45 PM
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Notice how none of those words were in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:41 PM
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Exactly, why are we stretching the definition of gender to appeal to a very small subsection of people who likely have mental disorders? Why is someone's job dependent on calling someone the correct pronoun which shifts and twists as time goes on? Why are politicians dedicating so much time to discussing these issues when there are real problems going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:38 PM
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Unfortunately it does given how a lot of rules both in government and societal interaction have been changed to accommodate them. It has gotten to a point where gender is being stretched to the extreme just to piss off as many people as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:36 PM
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Women take great pride in their ability to lie to men but unfortunately men aren't as dumb as they think. A lot of women give themselves away as not really liking a man through constant complaints and a refusal to initiate or actively participate in intimacy. Men pick up on this when she stops feeling like a wife and more like a roommate or bratty sister you occasionally sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:29 PM
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That post reads like it was written by a child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:19 PM
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Is this a serious question? Are you seriously asking how a man knows others don't have any excitement or enthusiasm to be around him? I swear it's like women don't see men as actual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:17 PM
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No, just admit you're upset you're not attractive enough to participate in hookup culture and resent the fact women want commitment before sleeping with you. The men that woman slept with before didn't have to jump through hoops so why is she making the guy she supposedly loves and wants to spend the rest of her life with wait? Does she actually love him or is she just manipulating him into staying with her because she has very few redeeming traits aside from her pussy? Also the notorious "frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:12 PM
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First! 🥇 🖕🕺🍾🖕
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:25 PM
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You are contradicting yourself. The study surveyed men and women, there was no noticeable difference between men's attraction regardless of relationship status but women showed more interest when the subject was already in a relationship. You can download the PDF with the questions here but I'm sure you already knew that but refused to say it because it discredits your argument. Furthermore, how are you supposed to garner sympathy when you speak aggressively. “rEaD iT aNd WeEp” I never asked for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:34 PM
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Read it and weep
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:00 PM
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Literally half the top level comments are women whining about how they're just as lonely as men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:55 PM
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I'm not single though Women can't whine about being lonely while rejecting guys for trivial reasons and putting next to no effort to initiate a relationship besides looking pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:26 PM
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Almost every book and piece of media shows you that being attractive and or socially smooth is the way to succeed This isn't even revisionism at this point this is a straight up lie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:40 PM
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I love how this doesn't even address the actual point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:35 PM
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There are more women than you men once you hit 50 and the men start dying off from all the alcohol, dangerous jobs or suicide. There are more males born than females and since there's no wars and less dangerous jobs that cause men to die this is going to be the norm for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:34 PM
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Women absolutely tolerate sharing in the form of preselection of married/coupled men and dating men with multiple kids from different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:32 PM
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Y'all keep choosing them To quote my own post: Women can't whine about being lonely while rejecting guys for trivial reasons and putting next to no effort to initiate a relationship besides looking pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:28 PM
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69% of your value should come from sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:35 PM
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I just brute force it, ask them out, make it unambiguous and if they don't want it I stop wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:41 AM
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Seems the people you hang around are just better at hiding it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:40 AM
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How does this address the initial choosing "Hey, me and your friends/ family should hang out for this and that activity this week" before engaging in anything concrete? Don't play dumb we all know women are "talking" to multiple men at the same until she finds one to openly commit to. Once again, getting pregnant by a guy happens significantly after the initial selection process Okay, use some common sense and birth control? See above See above It seems you're shopping for an answer that tells y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:29 AM
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You make that much yet never thought about getting any sort of plastic surgery or medical intervention for your face? Even your parents couldn't think about that? Man get out of here with that bs lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:44 AM
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Trying to get to know a guy better before sleeping with him is labeled as either willful manipulation or demeaning punishment and proof women aren't genuinely attracted to the men they have relationships with Women use this line when they want to keep a guy on the hook while shopping around for her top pick. If they want women will waste months and even years "getting to know you" while getting tongued down by guys she met 2 hours ago in a bar. They'd rather lie than tell you they're not that in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:39 AM
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I’m a 23 year old guy Who types like a woman writing about her romantic fantasies. And while I’m not arguing for the classic blue-pilling of pretending like looks, money, and status don’t matter because they do, they’re just not everything as the internet makes it seem. The entire point of the Redpill isn't to attract every single woman it's to be attractive to most women and increase your bang/relationship success rate. Those things just happen to appeal to most women. I think it’s the little t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:36 AM
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Men are the ones who publish and curate that content for women. The majority of magazine writers and editors are women, these are products made by women for women. You can't even come up with a decent lie. Women like good men. "nice guy" refers to men who are not actually genuinely good people but put on the facade to use their "kind" acts as leverage for demands and control. And a bad boy is someone who's shamelessly self centred and anti social but gets a pass because his borderline or just pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:16 AM
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Welcome to the world of being dating as a man. Men compromise on a lot just to have emotional fulfilment in the form of sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:36 AM
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For a long while yeah nobody would approach me, even when I was good looking. They'd just sort of hover or give out ambiguous signals. When I hung out with my gf or female friends they'd get approached by men when I wasn't near, never had something like that happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:28 AM
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Since you're a woman with no experience with dating as a man I'll explain in a way you can understand We do care, we also realise that women take for granted whatever comes easily. If you date around enough you'll realise women get turned off when you put in "too much" interest in making them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:32 PM
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The premise of the red pill is HATE for women. Wrong. You seem to have FDS and the Redpill confused. It’s the ideology that women are superficial, vapid, stupid, manipulative, and cruel. Do women like this just not exist? Superficial, vapid and manipulative women have no influence on the dating market or society in general? Have you opened a women's magazine or been to a nail salon before? The Red Pill believes that women even like abuse and are attracted mainly to men who are narcissistic bulli…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:30 PM
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It wasn't porn it was rap music showing women throwing ass. Before the 90s you just had to be skinny with big tits and a pretty face to be a 10, now you need to have a fat ass as well as all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:48 PM
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There's three types of women looking for dating advice; "How do I change my aesthetics so only hot and available men approach me and no one else?" "How do I change the guy I settled for so he stops driving me crazy?" "I'm 30 and grew up sheltered so I have no dating experience or social skills, how do I get a boyfriend who wants to marry RIGHT NOW!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:26 AM
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It's so funny how radical feminism reveals itself to be a conservative movement that wants to take choices away from women because they're dumb and weak and don't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:13 PM
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Dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:09 PM
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Those who had "good" experiences are fucking for the vibe. Those who had "bad" experiences don't even like sex in general and think putting out for Chad will make him commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:12 AM
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Imagine never leaving your house, going camping, hiking or just sitting at the beach because you might get stung by a wasp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:08 PM
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Direct her to a homeless shelter what the fuck? I'd either assume this was a scam or the boyfriend would rob me in my sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:31 AM
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I'd say 50% are Bangalore, 80% with a lot of work would be passable, only about 30% are unmistakably sexy with little effort. Also your post is likely going to be deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:29 AM
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There's no mass paranoia about going on boats with hot rich men but the media and enlightened Bluepillers want us to think every guy who they meet on the apps is Jeffery Dahmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:20 PM
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I'm saying the supposed danger of meeting a guy is overstated and used as an excuse to justify not being attracted to bang average dudes who need the apps to gain proximity to women. Think of all the dangerous things people do that aren't viewed with the same amount of irrational paranoia, like driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:15 PM
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Doubt it's really about danger and more about the men not being exciting enough. Going out on a boat with a random guy is dangerous but a lot of women still do it because it might be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:38 PM
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Because they don't care and there's little political capital in showing empathy for straight men's dating problems. The empathy won't make the men more attractive it might even cause them to stop trying and become whiny bitch boys, an instant pussy dryer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:36 PM
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Seems kind of dumb. By the time these people become women who are old enough to date most young men right now will be 50 with a different set of problems, a lot of men would have died and the rest would have divorced or turned into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:29 PM
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Wow people who struggle with dating tend to discuss those things online, in other news a fork was found in a kitchen today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 03:26 AM
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As a counterpoint I'll say women aren't disgusted by male sexuality, rather they are disgusted by the prospect of being manhandled and owned in their most vulnerable by an inferior male. Once you're attractive women will let you do whatever you want with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 12:35 AM
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Had nasty sex with an absolute babe today, thanks Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:31 PM
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This is what men already go through, the only difference is we don't even get to sleep with the object of our desires and are labelled "entitled nice guys" for complaining about how much our dating lives suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:35 PM
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40 year old virgin women because they don’t care about 40 year old women Because most men on the Redpill are in their 20s and 30s so they won't be dating 40 year old women if they want an actual future. Why do you hate context so much? No, women aren’t asking you to treat them like a commodity You seem to be really insecure about growing old and losing out to younger women. Sad truth is everyone sees dating as a market and some people miss out. Young men had to watch as our peers dated older and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 01:13 PM
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Yes, there's this movie called "The Matrix" where the main character takes an actual Redpill and becomes like a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:48 AM
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I didn’t ask for an apology, I stated a simple fact. And you also didn’t read what I said correctly. I said “Not one red piller would ever have such a compassionate take towards any woman at 40. Not a 40 year old virgin woman. See there's this thing called "context" and it drives discussions. Any female who you deem worthless for being near or post menopause. Regardless of her sexual history. Again Redpill men don't care about women past menopause, the only titbit of advice is don't date them if…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:50 PM
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Not one red piller would ever have such a compassionate take towards any woman at 40. Sorry the male sexual strategy movement doesn't prioritise compassion for women who by some miracle remained virgins at 40. Do you know how thirsty the average man is for a woman to still remain a virgin at 40? She either never leaves her house, is a nun or doesn't exist. As a guy you can be in the prime of your life, nothing wrong with you, and still struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:11 PM
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Wasn't there a movie and subsequent meme mocking men for being virgins past 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:03 PM
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If this were true the women dating over 40 subreddit wouldn't be filed with bitter crybabies complaining about men. I don't think that sub even talks about dating they just talk about how much men suck. At this point if you're chronically single past a certain age as a woman you're clearly a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:30 PM
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Bezos is in his 50s and just one guy, most Redpill men are in their 20s and 30s, you are ignoring a whole lot of context because he's simply the richest man in the world right now. Elon Musk was the richest man and he got multiple 20 year olds pregnant, does that prove men want to spin plates forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:08 PM
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They well lit full body pictures, have actual hobbies that force them to leave the house, no overt politics, no whining, no pictures with other men, no pronouns in bio and none of that friendship or taking it slow crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:12 AM
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No, I mean produce and sell and post porn. Host sex parties in hotels Aside from the fact that this doesn't harm anyone who's mutually consenting the puritan ideal wants to go back to an era of sexual repression only seen in modern day sharia States. These strict sexual rules don't really do anything to curb abuses or keep people faithful and often create disordered behaviours around sex and inter gender interaction. Sex isn't "sex" Yes it is Sex encompasses a huge array of behaviors, many of wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:35 AM
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Why is it necessary for people to "sexually express" themselves to the general public? You mean like kiss their wives/girlfriends? Wear tight clothes or go shirtless at the beach/gym? Make or watch movies were romance is involved? Talk about sex in general with their peers as a normal thing humans do and not some sick crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:48 PM
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Aren't you the extremist reactionary No for being so afraid of purity culture and traditional sexual restraint As someone who grew up experiencing what you call "traditional sexual restraint" it is based entirely on fear, lies and control which ends up creating a lot of negative attitudes towards sex and people in general. You're made to see your own body as dirty and natural desires as evil, so you rush into relationships hoping to get married ASAP just to fulfil those desires. It's not enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:26 PM
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Were they highly religious and insecure about being bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:53 PM
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Those who hold the view that porn addiction is indeed a real problem often believe watching porn in any capacity is bad and you are tainted for having done so. This is one of those weird situations where ultra conservatives and certain "liberals" intersect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:53 PM
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I genuinely don't believe there's such a thing as porn addiction and it's a forced narrative being pushed by insecure and sexually repressed women trying to understand why their bf/husband doesn't want to fuck them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:41 PM
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Seems they just want a surrogate father as their boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:15 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with the OP but see how you stealthily inserted the expectation of sex into the thread just to make up a strawman argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:12 PM
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Seeing a lot of cope around being labeled a cat lady. Contrary to popular belief it doesn't mean "no husband" it means no friends, no children, no relatives and no social interaction that doesn't come from an animal. It means regular humans found you so off putting that your only source of intimacy comes from animals that depend on you for their survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:39 AM
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Seems there's a huge disconnect between men and women on what counts as "low expectations". Agreeable men tend to struggle with relationships yet men with obvious personality disorders don't have the same struggles as long as they are sufficiently masculine. The Redpill school of thought says this is women being attracted to masculine traits even if they are disordered which explains why agreeable men struggle despite the bar being "in hell".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:24 AM
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Read the entire article and it just seems like a lot of rationalising going on. Women will have 300 deal breakers and refuse to go on a date with a guy who made an Austin Powers impression or wore a bow tie but overtly abusive men enter relationship after relationship. Anyway, men's standards are actually very low when it comes to dating, just be clean, at a decent weight, want sex sometimes and don't be a psychopath. We realise early on that getting everything in one person is unrealistic. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:25 PM
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I've had the most success in OLD by making the most overtly sexual profile and being overall crass with women, it really weeds out the time wasters. They are either DTF or we don't match.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:10 AM
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I think it's ridiculous to compare sex work to drug dealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:08 AM
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What about male sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:05 AM
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I don't care about what they do, it's a fun break from the mundane reality sometimes. Just get tired of seeing OF bots on social media and dating sites. It seems to have tapered off since everyone realised there's no money in it. Edit: After reading the responses to this post I think a lot of people on this sub need to let go of their harmful views and personal trauma around sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:02 AM
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Yes she must be covered in a burqa 24/7 unless I want to have sexy times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:26 PM
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Massive tits Fat jiggly ass Tight gorrila grip pussy No public hair Not fat 6 feet tall Pretty face Blonde hair Blue eyes Must be German, Austrian Or Swiss Earns 100k a year minimum No single mothers Must cook No pronouns in bio Must not watch reality TV Virgin Must want sex on tap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:30 PM
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That's the thing though, you aren't explaining anything, you're just repeating the same clichés your daddy told you when he wanted you to get lost. Well anything to feel smug and superior I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:35 PM
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This is why I can never take Bluepill advice seriously, it consists almost entirely of thought terminating clichés. Just be yourself but also do things you don't want to do, but stay true to yourself, just to end up calling you a loser for not being a boisterous extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:48 PM
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Women don't make men feel unsafe in the same way men make women feel unsafe and women objectively don't post the pshyical harm to men as men do to women so that isn't a double standard How you feel about an issue and the actual likelihood of that issue affecting you are two different things. I can use how I feel about a strange culture or an individual with rare features as an excuse to discriminate against them, doesn't mean I'll actually suffer harm from them. Men seldom reject women after sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:43 PM
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"Be your true self" just means you should be a loud, boisterous extrovert. If your true self hates going out in public and prefers to play video games the same people telling you to be yourself will call you a loser who needs to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:34 PM
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Women often imply the men they reject are dangerous and she's doing what would otherwise be interpreted as rude and anti social for her own safety. As a man you're not owed a gracious rejection because women have to think of their own safety first. This might make sense until you apply it to any group that isn't straight men. If I rudely reject a gay man and justify it by implying gay men will rape me, that would be seen as homophobic. There are also double standards of how society sees disinter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:01 AM
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A rude comment from a spurned jackass and a reality check from a close friend are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:52 AM
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Anecdotally asking women out for a date is an easy way to get no showed since they never want to do anything besides texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:49 AM
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I genuinely didn't even read that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:47 AM
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It is but acknowledging the obvious goes against your agenda so we have nothing to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:40 AM
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There's no point engaging with someone who views the obvious truth as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:35 AM
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Women's idea of love is entirely self serving so it's no surprise Redpill men see men who buy into this idiocy as stupid. After all if AFBB never existed most men would be in stable long term relationships from the onset of puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:25 AM
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A couple of guys on reddit isn't the entirety of men worldwide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:49 PM
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There are homeless shelters that specifically exclude men even though they are the majority of homeless people. If you're an able bodied adult without dependents you can only recieve food aid for 3 months at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:45 PM
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Read what I wrote again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:17 PM
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I see you decided to ignore the rest of that paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:16 PM
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Because therapists are pretend doctors trying to engage in psychiatric care with no real end goal in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:37 PM
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Men: Society doesnt want to help men and their problems! Men commit suicide more and no one cares yet women get help.Women: We go to therapy.Men: FUCK THERAPY. This is a clear disconnect between men and women. A lot of men's mental health issues are related to economic issues. Telling a man to go to (expensive) therapy won't fix the cause of his mental distress and will just make it worse. Men don't have a lot of social safety nets unless they are old or completely disabled. Men will say no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:35 PM
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Lilithofbabylon. Now that's a name I haven't heard in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:17 PM
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This isn't the problem it's the double standards they shamelessly deny when it comes to dating. They tell you looks don't matter, average people are married all the time and being a beta buxx is a myth while having "girl talk" where they say the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:51 PM
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Why would I try to get a woman attracted to me by seeking her approval? This is the premise of every teen movie where the shy nerd gets the popular cheerleader to suck his nuts after leaving her asshole jock boyfriend. Media brainwashing is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:30 PM
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I am noticing the double standards on the subject of women having AI boyfriends compared to men who used realistic sex dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:22 AM
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You mean gay men or men who don't cry enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:24 PM
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Just world fallacy. The idea that the universe is somehow giving you some karmic punishment by being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:22 PM
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Women who go concerns half naked with their ass and tits out what exactly are you trying to achieve? Edit: Might make this a Q4W, might not, it depends since the mods keep deleting my posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:17 PM
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Having your own place so you can get intimate alone, having your own car so you can drop her off after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:29 AM
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Once you get past college I don't think any new woman is going to bang you behind the office locker room.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:07 AM
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Nobody talks about how much of your ability to get laid is tied to having your own house and car. Boomers might have accelerated the incel problem by pricing young men out of their own spaces and new vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:46 PM
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Women only need to get horny once a year to pass their genes, men need to be horny constantly. Because of this the traits women find attractive are those which are rare and more likely to add value to their potential offspring like height, strength, bone structure, intelligence, leadership and so on. The male equivalent to this would be only getting hard for Jessica Alba.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:24 PM
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Women can't even do the bare minimum of being a safe space for the person they're dating. Genuinely what are women even good for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:10 PM
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Women expect men to give them a chance for being ugly, fat, hairy or a different race all the time. Women turned their inability to find a relationship into a political issue that still affects people to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:03 PM
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All you wrote is that women are narcissists. Personally I will no longer be beholden to women's delusions of grandeur. A lot of women's standards only exist because horny men kept hyping up mid and shitty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:53 PM
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Women's standards - Have a good job, college degree, be 6 feet, be fit, make me laugh, have a good car, know my specific quirks and treat me like a princess. Men's standards - Don't look like a pig, don't stink, don't be greedy, text back, be willing to have sex at some point in the relationship. I actually tried this once and approached someone I considered "ugly" and all it did was give her an ego boost which wasted my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:27 PM
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It is said often by men, that women should know that of a man befriends a woman she should obviously know he has feelings or an attraction to her. Men don't say this, being friends with a woman doesn't mean you have feelings for her, women do know when a man is acting like a surrogate boyfriend and take full advantage of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:22 PM
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Don't forget to brush your teeth and just go outside bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:24 AM
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I’ve noticed that men of Reddit and forums claim to be the most intelligent men who have ever graced earth Do they? For example, if you’re an average-looking guy struggling, and haven’t figured out that at least part of it is how you interact or part of it is your lacking presence of mind to improve what’s mutable, are you actually “super smart”? A smarter person would’ve grokked that sooner. A lot of people on reddit understand this perfectly, they also understand its not going to get the resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:59 PM
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We can hardly call what goes on these days courting. People are deceiving themselves because they like the idea of being in a relationship and not the actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:15 PM
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I don't worry about reciprocation because it's not the point of marriage for me. See this is where you have to see things from the eyes of a single man. Since you're already married you've already "won" so to speak. To a single guy, doing things for someone who made no commitments to you and isn't reciprocating is a recipe for disaster. Women already can't be bothered to do the bare minimum and think they must be rewarded with princess treatment for just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:05 AM
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Gay pornography exists, male porn actors exist, solo and independent models exist. Let's put all that aside, is drawn porn still acceptable in your eyes since no real people are involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:31 AM
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The "biological clock" is a myth and a fantasy men project onto women to try to deal with the fact they're not as desired and never will be, Menopause is now a myth apparently sperm banks wouldn't exist if women are so inclined to just settle with any dude for babies Less than 1% of women use sperm banks. This is such a statistically insignificant portion of the female population it's absolutely pointless to bring them up. As I've said before on this sub, if men were really settled for anywhere …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:37 PM
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Looking for a deep connection with an outgoing emotionally available man who is not afraid to show his vulnerable side. "Please don't ghost me after we hookup" A man who can keep up, KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS, and can make me laugh until my stomach hurts 😂 "I have low self esteem and need constant reassurance that you're still interested in me" About me: Unapologetically myself "I am unapologetically selfish and will disregard your feelings" I love going out, but also enjoy staying in and curling up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:24 PM
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Women are simply on the whole more attractive and have more sexual value than men. This is only true until they hit 30, looks start to fade and the biological clock gets louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:20 PM
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So you're proving the Redpill right by monkeybranching?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:24 PM
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I don't think you realise just how little the average woman gives a shit about the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:10 AM
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Makeup and fillers are apparently okay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:53 AM
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I got my first real relationship by following it to the letter. Went to the gym, had hobbies for fun, wasn't afraid to lose her and called her out on her bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:35 AM
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They'll be dropping advice that made sense 30 years ago but have no understanding of how much the Internet destroyed the brains of kids and their communication styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:11 AM
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So many people on there have no soul, just want a perfect relationship while putting in zero effort
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:08 AM
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Thanks, that necessary moment of character development helped me find the Redpill and change out of my old self.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:47 PM
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She berated me in public for asking for her number. I didn't say much, just thanked her for her time and left. Kept seeing her around with this guilty look on her face but never talked to her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:37 PM
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Doja Cat just metooed a gay dude for being friendly, this is the bs men have been talking about but no one cared until they were gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 05:38 PM
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https://cepr.org/voxeu/columns/arrests-are-effective-breaking-cycle-domestic-violence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:31 AM
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You act like women don't already do this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:28 AM
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You and I know this statement is false
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:08 AM
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Someone else is going to do it so why not do it for your own benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:23 PM
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Not if you build resistance to it like venom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:21 PM
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Yeah that's harassment which is squarely in criminal territory
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:35 PM
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There weren't this many until the recent decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:34 PM
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It's impossible to know this until you approach since everyone has a different tolerance for social interaction. I believe all men, as long as they aren't breaking the law should try.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:34 PM
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Well it's not really going to matter since men are the ones doing most of the approaching anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:29 PM
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It's small but I am seeing a pattern. Complaints about time wasters, ghosting after arranging a meetup, being expected to fill "male" gender roles like paying and taking initiative in most interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:26 PM
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I personally believe men's discomfort comes from a fear of social consequences from offending women. Those fears might not be real but the results are manifesting in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:18 PM
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Are we really in disagreement? There's a lot of contradictory advice going on but the general idea is men have been told not to make women uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:17 PM
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I've been studying lesbian dating culture and they have the exact same complaints men have about dating and relationships with women. It seems women have a consistent pattern of behaviour regardless of sexual orientation but it's only a problem when men don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:08 PM
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There are opportunities but we have been socialised not to take them because we're scared of making women "uncomfortable". The Internet spreading approach panic and stranger danger. I think as men we should stop giving a shit and asking random women if they'd like to hang out later. Some some will be uncomfortable and whine on the Internet that a man had the audacity to find her attractive but it's a bullet dodged in that case. The gender segregation of hobbies. If I'm a guy who likes stereotypi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:58 PM
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Engaging in polyamory, extreme fetishes, will say/post inappropriate sexual things constantly, more dtf and generally easier to lay, more eager to send nudes or display their bodies at public events.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:17 PM
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We need to talk about why ugly people tend to be more sexually degenerate than hot or average looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:37 PM
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How do we end the myth that women are just as horny as men? Women can go months without masturbating, aren't the main market for porn, there's few male titty bars and gooner bait catered to women. If you say it's true and want to blame society for shaming women why isn't there a female grindr?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:30 AM
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I did? I guess reddit removed the meta links
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:21 AM
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Okay idk if English is your second language Man get out so I’ll be nice but the first one is saying they will wait a week and see if they are pushy about meeting up sooner. Where in that post is it said or implied they'll meet on the 7th day of her wasting the man's time? The second one is someone who use to wait a few days and up to a few weeks but now skips convos through text to meet asap You asked where women make men wait weeks for a date Where are woman waiting weeks to go on dates? I post…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:20 AM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 01:10 AM
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Sixth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:41 PM
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One https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/ Two https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands Three https://ifstudies.org/blog/more-money-more-marriage-how-breadwinning-matters-for-both-men-and-women-today
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:24 AM
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Right here in the chain https://np.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/swcq9h/old_when_the_other_person_asks_you_out_too_soon/hxlir1e/ And another comment under the post https://np.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/swcq9h/old_when_the_other_person_asks_you_out_too_soon/hxlfjtb/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:13 AM
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Just looking at this entire comment chain and even a few other comments https://np.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/swcq9h/old_when_the_other_person_asks_you_out_too_soon/hxl5ybf/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:10 AM
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The whole niceguy thing feels like some huge selection bias. If a guy is nice and gets the girl he's a good guy that other guys should follow but if he doesn't he's a manipulative creep. Truth is for men being attractive and holding social power is more important to your dating success than being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:24 AM
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It's a commonly thrown piece of advice on the dating subs. Some women want to "take it slow" which is code for them being time wasters who don't know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 12:17 AM
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One of the funniest womanisms is making a man wait weeks for a date "just to be sure he isn't a murderer". I mean yeah apart from being a totally irrational way to see the world, wouldn't you take the same precautions meeting someone for the first time regardless of how long you've been talking? On the microscopically small chance he is is a murderer you'd have spent weeks talking to him just to get the same results. In the end being made to wait and compared to an actual criminal is a sign she …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 11:42 PM
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Who cares as long as the women consent? Do you want men you're not going to fuck to remain persistent or lie to you? Genuinely what do you people fucking want?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:36 PM
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Did you read any sort of history book? There's congressmen right now who were teenagers in the segregation era.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:31 PM
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The older Conservatives that used to hold picnics at lynchings or assault gays?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:07 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:14 PM
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Another glowupgirl shit post, the mods are not seeing the pearly gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:50 AM
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With the exception of the women looking for an older guy to take care of them Which is most women. I never see 18-25 year olds just drooling over men over 35 Because you don't interact with people in that age range. They are drooling over his car, house, stable job and 401k. If he's in decent Snape he can date whoever he likes. Men age just like women do Men don't become infertile at 45. The material things women are after also increase as men age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:38 AM
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Yeah religious people may act that way in public but they're total freaks in private. The atheist girlies can't even pretend to be frigid because that's just how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:04 AM
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But I thought “men can’t get responses at all.” Men do get responses, they just need to have a higher SMV to get a reasonable share and SMV increases for men as they get older, richer and women rush to start a family or find a stepdad. “haha old women get fucked” Apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:58 AM
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Every time I match with an atheist or agnostic woman she's always been an insufferable bitch while the religious women acted more like normal human beings. Is it religious belief keeping the worst impulses in check or the fact that atheist women are more likely to be argumentative in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:36 AM
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Seems you misread me as not caring about this topic when my real issue is not caring about being perceived as a misogynist. So you think I'm a misogynist, who cares? I certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:30 AM
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No I think I'll comment on any thread as long as I'm appropriately flaired thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 06:23 AM
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But spewing them to a woman unsolicited is the core of mansplaining, even if you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:54 AM
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I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:52 AM
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The complaint wasn’t that they couldn’t get dates Start of the post But I haven’t been asked on a date by any of the men I’ve matched with End of the post. The jokes really do write themselves I figure these are the guys who match every chick and they decide after talking to me for a bit they would rather someone more attractive or whatever and the get a sense that I won’t fuck them immediately Sour grapes my friend, you implied that you're older and therefore you're competing with younger women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:51 AM
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No gentlemen don't give women the tingles, they'll keep that one on a string until it's time to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:35 AM
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Apparently mansplaining is great when you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:19 AM
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Very few third spaces to meet people weekly that aren't bars and clubs. If you didn't get a large social following in school it's basically too late for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:15 PM
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Everyone else also cares about our climate, political tensions, their closest relatives, overall suffering, tries their best Except they don't, if you spend enough time around people you'll realise a lot of them are evil, shitty people who may act "nice" to certain people or in certain contexts but that does not make them "nice people" in general. A "nice guy" is specifically a guy who's nice to everyone or almost everyone even at his own expense. "Jerks" as in "teasing the opposite gender in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:15 AM
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Even some dude showing his cock to some gay dude his age for a quick 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 12:31 AM
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So a white woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:39 PM
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Is liking MILFs a form of male pre selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:21 PM
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Men do this because if you date long enough you'll realise the vast majority of women approach relationships the same way even though they might have a different coat of paint on. Refusing to approach women because they don't fall into your brand of consumerism will just reduce your chances of success
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:47 PM
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After reading through Q4W threads I'm sure there are no "liberal" women on this subreddit, just conservatives who haven't reached menopause yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:37 PM
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This broad definition makes all sex work exploitation regardless of the circumstances, this is pretty circular logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:34 PM
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So the problem here is just meaningless tone policing. People have "used" private security, a surveyor, a realtor, an accountant, but this is suddenly dehumanising when it refers to a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:10 PM
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Women who chat with a guy on dating apps then ghost after asking to meet, what do you gain from wasting men's time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:00 AM
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This is how gambling addicts navigate life. I also don't think there is such a thing as "the one" given the high divorce rates and the fact that people remarry even after their spouse dies. Chasing the one is just going to keep you disappointed with what you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:47 PM
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This is why 30 year old women on dating apps are easier to get with than younger chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:36 PM
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"Sick man found in hospital"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:34 PM
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My intention of having sex with someone is to have sex, that could be in a committed relationship or with a random stranger. Why are you hinging your commitment someone based off sex? Does anyone responding not have any other means of keeping someone interested besides a vagina? You can't just put sex coins into a vending machine and expect a committed relationship out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:25 PM
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a carrot needs to be dangled in order for someone to want to have sex with you, then you’re manipulating and therefore using them Or the person is a whore who uses their body for favors because they have no useful skills or redeeming traits. if not for that carrot, then they would not have wanted to have sex with you. That makes the person a whore If the condition for sex depends on you either misleading the person, lying to them, making them wait for something you know you won’t give them or so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 06:01 AM
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Look buddy, you either want to have sex or you don't, attaching promises or whatever to the sex is skirting around prostitution territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:36 AM
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So you're telling me women won't have sex unless there's a reward attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:01 AM
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I never really understood this statement, how do you "use" another consenting individual for sex? Are you expecting some reward for having sex of your own free will?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:46 AM
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The friendzone is a one sided situation where the guy is clearly in love with the girl and the girl is clearly playing in his face for personal benefits. Guys who tend to end up in a friendzone are inexperienced guys with oneitis who believed the societies lies like "Just be nice to her" or "Just be yourself". The Redpill answer to the friendzone is to stop wasting time on girls who aren't willing to fuck you or at least reciprocate your interest regardless of how much you like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:45 AM
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Did you actually watch the video or are you just attacking the source? Would linking another source make you actually watch the video and respond to the points of the woman speaking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:56 PM
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Men are still held to their own standards, women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:52 PM
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Right here, Democrat strategists keep scrambling trying to appeal to men. They realised that demonising men as a group cost them the last election and they're trying to stop this. https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/1927837998537687126
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:49 PM
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In most relationships who approaches first? In most relationships who proposes marriage? If you can answer these two questions you will get what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:40 PM
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I mean, if that's how you feel, then opt out. Men are opting out, have you seen the marriage and birth rates lately? Men opting out of relationships has spooked people in government and media talking heads to the point where they're trying to walk back most of the anti social policies they supported to please women. Why attempt to change an entire gender and their standards This singular statement would kneecap the online feminist movement if people were logically consistent but unfortunately th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:59 PM
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Why are so many submissions today could be answered by reading that Slate Star Codex article, Men believe and are raised to believe that they are owed romantic success, and that they should have to work very little towards this. Men are raised that they should approach first, flirt and be funny to keep her interest, be attractive, pay for dinner, don't be too sexual, buy her flowers, keep her attention, buy her gifts, after 4 dates maybe she will fuck you, but you still have to do all the work a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:36 PM
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This question can easily be answered by reading "Radicalising the Romanceless". You also sort of answer your own question in the end, there are so many shitty women around that they're impossible to ignore. This shitty behaviour is encouraged because it promotes consumerist lifestyles and society as a whole gave up on enforcing any standards on young women lest they be seen as oppressive and anti feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 02:17 PM
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Not really, wearing makeup is an analogue for being beautiful, men want your beauty not your makeup, your skirt or dresses. Men wanting "submission" is their way of saying they don't want a woman who argues constantly. Most men couldn't care less about your hobbies or interests as long as you're objectively hot, not a nag and open to new things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:18 AM
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I love how women always reveal their true feelings whenever they get upset. You're basically implying he needs to be a great person to "earn" a relationship. What's wrong with normal people wanting to be in a relationship? Human affection has been turned to another commodity instead of being the result of mutual feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:17 PM
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This video remains undefeated
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 02:02 PM
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Pretty much everyone struggles with dating at some point No? Someone who gets dozens of dates but can't find a specific person and someone who hasn't been on a date since they were 12 can't be said to be struggling in the same way. Only one group insists it's because women's delusional standards and they're riding the cock carousel with the top 20% of men until they hit the wall Women do have delusional standards especially with regards to height, fitness and income, these are normalised so nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:55 PM
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I think you're just insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:09 PM
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intentionally misrepresented as being criticism of any man struggling with dating It's not a misrepresentation, the Internet loves to mock unsuccessful and unattractive men then justify it by blaming faceless straw-incels. Look at the popular tips fedora meme. The guy in that photo was an actor who took a funny picture but got turned into the face of creepyness and sexism. He was barely even online or expressed any negative views of the women, people just expect chronically single men to be fat …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:27 PM
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I love watching women say stuff like "Men barely see us as human" to absolve themselves of the guilt from objectifying men. Like honey it's okay to just want sex you don't need to have altruistic reasons for using your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:29 PM
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I'm never alone there's always some drunk guy wanting to pair up and I'm all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:50 AM
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Just do it bro nobody cares about you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:31 AM
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Went outside today, it was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 02:31 AM
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Does it? I clearly wrote the word force in plain English didn't I? If men were accommodating women out of their own free will it's all fine and good but that's not what I said now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:44 PM
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Men don't seem to like girls at all, they literally hate on our interests, our personalities, fashion choices, the fact we age, body hair, politics, dating standards, list goes on. Men don't hate women, what (some) men hate is the fact that a large chunk of women are horrible people who hide behind the "Women are Wonderful Effect" and social justice movements to escape any form of accountability. Do you realise the mountain of the shitty behaviour women get away with on a daily basis that men wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:28 PM
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No need to dick ride my good friend, I do it for the love of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 11:14 PM
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People are more fit now than they were 100 years ago but people are more lonely than ever. Take height for example, a human above 6 feet in the USA was a genetic anomaly 100 years ago, now women expect an attractive man to be 6 feet (among other things) even though it's 14% of the population. Height is just one example we don't have a lot of diseases because of vaccines and better safety standards but it seems people get less and less paired up with each successive generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:05 PM
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I dont want his utility, my ult goal is have a loyal, safe, and satisfying marriage Will you personally marry a man who does nothing but sit on the couch all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:48 PM
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Bruh the average man will fuck anything that showered this morning, the idea that they don't go for average girls is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:07 PM
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The average man is invisible because he gives his utility away for free without demanding anything from women, this is why women take men for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:05 PM
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It doesn't matter because women will just raise the standards again. Women having a larger pool of attractive men to ignore and waste their time won't fix the inherent flaws in how they approach relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:03 PM
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I mean the "no one owes you anything" mentality encourages anti social behaviour like ghosting, being rude and it only applies one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:49 AM
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you don't have to date or be friends with them Obviously but this behaviour is encouraged (in women) and nobody seems to realise how toxic it is, like they have zero self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:55 PM
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You're literally just building a strawman to attack the Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:54 PM
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Great I'm going to ghost 15 women right now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:50 PM
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Imagine joining a club where everyone just ignores you or going to a store where the cashier runs up everyone's order except yours. Sure you can just leave but you'll definitely feel like there's something wrong with you and you don't know why
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:35 PM
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Not what I said at all. Paternity fraud is an obvious sign of cheating, if I have no other sign I have no other reason to suspect she is cheating. Bringing another person's child home would 100% end the relationship and it would be much better to end it quickly than wait years down the line because of "trust".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:26 PM
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You're missing the part where no one is forcing you to date them. Yes but humans generally interact for things to happen, not all of that is going to be romantic. I'd rather not date your guts and assume you're a bad person because we weren't compatible for a relationship. You don't owe a woman niceness and courtesy, just like she doesn't owe you the same. Okay, this may be true on paper but don't you think a lot social problems especially post pandemic keep happening because of this mindset? I …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:59 PM
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Lack of trust and being cucked are two issues which are related but not the same. If the kid's not mine she's definitely cheating, if not just go as I've always gone. If I get tired of her behaviour I'll just dump her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:52 PM
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Verbalising it is the problem, men should just do the test anyway and if the kid is theirs discard the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:43 PM
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I find it so funny how Bluepillers will tell you niceness and courtesy is the bare minimum standard of human behaviour while saying "Nobody owes you anything" to justify women being rude or ghosting at the start of a potential relationship. WHICH ONE IS IT BLUEPILLERS? Oh wait that was a sarcastic question, Bluepillers obviously hold men to higher standards of behaviour so it's pointless to ask them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:42 PM
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Drug Kingpins are horrible people but somehow their family members still love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 03:14 AM
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Remember when guys who talked about their good qualities or good qualities in other men like selflessness, availability, constant communication, willing to spend time, money, skills to make their woman happy were branded "nice guys"? Truth is there's no winning with you people, once men set a standard of behaviour, women and their lackeys push it higher because only the top men are good men, the rest are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:49 PM
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The point of these female dating experts isn't to help anyone date, it's to reenforce existing confirmation biases in their audience so they make money from views.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:47 PM
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How do you grow up with almost no social interaction? Are you unfamiliar with being homeschooled or growing up with ultra conservative helicopter parents? Or your parents not having the time to drive you everywhere? Regardless, the answer is: you try. We know, a lot guys are saying that trying isn't worth it, hence the title. but if you have no interests outside of making money, don't complain when people, including most women, will think you're boring. Everyone has interests, we also have bills…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:07 PM
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I haven't given up but it's a lot of effort for a guy to end up with a woman who's doesn't care about your needs and is more interested in validation from her friends and strangers online. I wouldn't blame a lot of guys for taking the black pill and sinking into nihilism. The way I see it you can be miserable in search of a relationship or miserable alone, which is less effort on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:13 AM
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Yes like Contrapoints thick, juicy tranny lips and long skinny thighs while she femsplains patriarchy to me... ughhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:39 PM
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Just took a stroll over to the dating advice sub and one of the top contributors is a 40 year old man -hating rad fem who moderates another dating sub. These are the people setting men up to fail in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 04:30 PM
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I think religious tradcons have no place in the Redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:38 PM
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Bruh the bombs don't discriminate, as long as you're in the uniform and mobile there's a chance you'll become a fine mist just for doing your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:06 PM
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What's written wrong? If you're old enough to sign your life away but not enough to kiss someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 02:03 PM
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Why must two people have the exact same life experience and supposed social power to be in a relationship? This could as well be used to say interracial relationships need to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:58 PM
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Is OP on a marathon to have the most retarded topics get posted until she's banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:45 PM
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You're right, you're less likely to get your legs blown off
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:44 PM
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Height - only 20% of men are above 6 feet, this is a common standard to have but is entirely unrealistic Penis - Less talked about than height but the average penis size is 5 inches, wanting anything bigger than 6 is unrealistic Wealth - You must make more than or at least the same as her although demanding a rich man isn't frowned upon regardless of her own income. Education - You must have a degree even though only 40% of adults in the United States and 6% globally have one. Body - Be physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:16 PM
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Okay let me try and take this post as seriously as I can even though I'm laughing as I type this. Trans women already exist, sure they're few and come with a whole host of mental issues but they exist and it's not taboo to like them as long as you look like a normal couple and don't bring up your past. I personally wouldn't take the pill, being gay is apparently only fun if you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:06 PM
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This is a shit test, a way to weed out weak men. It's like men saying they want women to be sexually forward but won't date Lilly Philips. It would be nice to see from people they don't want to reproduce with but want emotional fulfilment from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:55 PM
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How could you possibly know the details of other people's relationships? You're just making shit up in your head and deciding it's correct based on nothing. I could as well ask you the same thing since you believe a man having long term relationship is "success" regardless of the state of the actual relationship. You know, I'll bet if I brought up the wage gap Completely unrelated to this topic bring it up on your own time. If I made this exact statement, but about the greater risk of harassment…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:12 PM
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In order to fix the incel problem men need to be less considerate about offending women. A lot of incel issues revolve around anxiety and insecurity being labelled as creepy and the negative social repercussions of that. The internet amplifying failed approaches makes this anxiety worse. The solution, while oxymoronic is to encourage men to not give a shit. Drown out the anti social rhetoric by sex negative lesbians of the feminist left. They have to understand that in life you're going to offen…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:32 PM
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Or you can date around for a while, have minimal success, and then find someone you're compatible with a bit later on in life. This is basically what men say when they tell you a woman will settle for you because her looks are fading or she wants to raise kids in her 30s but put through a woman filter. more women than men aged 18-29 are in relationships Case closed Almost like neither men nor women have it that easy when it comes to dating. This is why I don't empathise about women's purported d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:08 PM
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The majority of men wind up in long-term relationships. It cannot possibly be true that women only date a specific type of man. You too can be the step dad for a single mom when you hit 30 after spending the prime of your life single. I doubt the majority of gen Z men will even end up doing that. This has been debunked. TL;DR: The study vastly oversampled women in relationships. Basically went on a tirade just to come to the same conclusion that there's more young women in relationships than men…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:18 AM
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That women only date those men, or are only attracted to those men. Outliers exist yes. There is no scientific consensus that women have an easier time dating. 51% of men aged 18 to 29 are single compared to 32% of women in the same age bracket. The only age group where there are more single women than men is at age 65+ when men begin to die off at faster rates than women. Online or on dating apps, sure. But not in any other way. One of the greatest complaints women have is getting too much atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:15 AM
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Are you just responding to argue? Did you read my flair at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:18 PM
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The entire point of Fifty Shades was the relationship not the BDSM. This sort of relationship manifests itself through different fairytales and media.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:17 PM
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That's not the point of the book, it's the fantasy of having a man do everything for you, the BDSM isn't the entire point of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:16 PM
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Just watch the video man. The Redpill is aimed at men they aren't going to use the prissy euphemisms women use to talk about sex. This is literally all explained in the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:57 PM
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Yet women enjoy "princess treatment" or The Fifty Shades Of Grey treatment that gets panties soaked. She talks about this in the video too. Same actions, different messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:55 PM
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Yes, she was pretty shameless about the whole thing. Usually it's because some outside influence like friends or family have been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:47 PM
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The Contrapoints Twilight video is actually pretty good and explains a lot of Redpill Theory to her largely Bluepilled audience. I think a lot of hate for the Redpill comes from who the messengers are rather than the actual message.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:44 PM
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It's the obsession with glamour and materialism, cattines, toxic Stan culture and trying to pull down any sort of competition. Basically the more effete the more visible these traits are going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:37 PM
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Now what exactly is the most common dating advice given to be dateable Won't matter if you're ugly and a lot of it is nebulous at best. How is someone who grew up with barely any social interaction going to just "be sociable", they're going to make a fool out of themselves, get called creepy and get discouraged. These are things that cost nothing Hobbies cost money and time that could be spent making more money. most women don't mind if a man is asocial or is overweight as long as he has other q…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:26 PM
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It's funny how trans women and effeminate gays amplify all the negative aspects of femininity some people claim don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:03 PM
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What would convince you that TRP is wrong? Absolutely nothing that would happen in our universe. We'd have to create a new universe where gender roles and biological differences between men and women don't exist. Personally, I would at least consider changing my mind if the scientific consensus shifted to support TRP. What scientific consensus? That women don't like tall, fit, rich confident men and they don't have an easier time dating? Hot women don't have an easier time dating? Women do the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:58 AM
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We know that but there's also the common saying of "looks don't matter much, if you're having no luck with dating it's because you're a horrible person who refuses to shower or brush your teeth". Overall lots of conflicting advice going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:10 AM
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It's the blanket use of statements like "Don't approach women in x setting" without the caveat of being attractive. When discussing sexuality among women it seems like there's a deliberate effort to erase the sex appeal of men in an attempt to sound less shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:04 AM
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It's just funny seeing an otherwise respectable woman date a menace to society then complain about his actions down the line. Skai Jackson dating Yerky Yerk is a great example of this. Women as a collective complain about toxic men yet toxic men never seem to be single even if they're losers. On the flip side, a woman who's come to her senses and avoiding toxic men will demand other guys level up to meet her standards or deal with her baggage which could be kids, an STD, bizzare expectations or …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:18 PM
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A simp is a guy who goes out of his way to please a woman with no benefits to himself. A guy who pays a woman's car loan off even though they've only been talking for only two weeks is a good example. She got a car and he got nothing, maybe a thank you but that's it. The hypothetical woman would never pay off a guy's loan even if they dated because it's of no benefit to her. Men act like simps because they're often overcompensating for being unattractive in other ways or they're just naive about…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:55 AM
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The Redpill is a sexual strategy guide for men aimed at improving their success in dating and relationships. Success could be more sexual partners, a more interesting relationship, a stable marriage or an enjoyable life post divorce. Like most guys I found TheRedPill online after getting no luck in dating, the sub being bashed by deranged feminists made me want to look into it more. A lot of Redpill theory answered the questions I have about why women act the way they do and how to not get screw…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:49 AM
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This reads like a Fed or at least some blogger looking for content
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:23 AM
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Sure just be gay and date into a niche subculture that's avoided by every respectable person, makes complete sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:22 AM
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Download the Redpill handbook it's got most of the information from the sidebar in a compressed format. This sub got starved of fresh perspectives since the quarantine and the general idea of the Redpill has been taken over by grifters and bad actors.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/25 03:32 PM
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Reading this exchange and other responses I can see clearly why women aren't seen as romantic. A lot of women don't want to do grand gestures because they're lazy and self centred. They'd rather change the definition of romance than take some initiative. Sure if you want to insist making a sandwich and buying jewellery are romantic in the same sense you are entitled to do so, most women don't even the they should make a sandwich but are deserving of a diamond ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:30 AM
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How come men keep saying women are too entitled nowadays and then keep pushing the narrative that only big gestures are romantic? Because some women expect men to be like the 1% of guys they see on social media while doing nothing in return for their potential man. Women who even try to appeal to men are shamed as "pick me" girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:22 AM
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I'd say a lot of guys don't care anymore and I can't blame them since women can't be bothered to do anything to appeal to men besides looking pretty. Why should any guy buy flowers and do all the stereotypical bullshit when the woman is going to ghost him then suck some random guy's cock after three margaritas?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:28 AM
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Speed dating goes against every thing you're supposed to do to form actual relationships. You're not supposed to meet someone and decide compatibility based off a few facts and interactions. It is anti romance, there is no shared experience to be had or challenges to overcome, just meet someone and dump them once you're bored in five minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:53 PM
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You're just rambling at this point, trying to turn women into helpless hypoagents in defence of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:39 PM
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You talk as if women have no desire to reproduce of their own free will and are doing men a favour by giving birth to their own kids. You are not sacrificing anything by passing your own genes, you aren't a surrogate, those are your own children and you're participating in a process as old as life itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:08 PM
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Since women can't shame unattractive men into avoiding them through the religious puritan lens they have adopted a secular framework around bodily autonomy to dissuade unworthy mates from even thinking about them in a sexual manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:05 PM
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Anyone can leave a relationship for any reason This is one of the most damaging notions about modern day relationships, the ease with which people are discarded is awful but only ever seems to apply in one direction. Sure I can also abandon my wife, friends, job and community for any reason, that doesn't mean I won't be seen as an untrustworthy asshole and damage any future interactions I have with those people. Or do you want to tell me a man will face no backlash for leaving his wife who just …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:48 PM
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Absolutely irrelevant to the subject matter at hand, you can choose to eat any meal that's available or you can choose to demand a gourmet meal because that's your "standard" and you don't want to settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:42 PM
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Being picky doesn't guarantee things won't go wrong for you while pregnant, maybe you as a woman just weren't meant to have kids, natural selection goes both ways. Trying to minimize it because you don't have to deal with it, trying to mock it because you don't have to deal with it , changes absolutely nothing You are more likely to die from food related hazards than pregnancy and this affects both genders. You're just upset I rubbushed your appeal to emotion fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:45 PM
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"If I have to risk choking or diarrhea every meal I eat must be gourmet. No I don't want to eat for my own sake or because it's a natural process that's been happening since the beginning of time, I do it for the cook's feelings"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:27 PM
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"But I did eat breakfast this morning"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:35 PM
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Hang out with women long enough they'll tell you everything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:34 PM
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Your use of "people" in this post is deceptive when it is clearly aimed at Women. The problem with this is we're supposed to be "equal" and not judge people for things they can't control but women face no social penalties for having unrealistic standards but men are shamed for having any standards at all. Openly wanting a woman who's got a specific body type, n count, ethnicity or age range is bad for a man's reputation and will offend a bunch of people who don't fit those standards for absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:15 PM
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Based and waxpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:18 AM
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Why does it seem like most women under 30 act like absolute psychopaths? I swear there has to be some brain chip that gets activated once you hit that age because the difference is night and day once you talk to both groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:18 AM
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I have severe autism Yeah we can tell from the massive wall of text, also what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:39 PM
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So most dating advice to men sucks to you and the solution is to become a transgender furry who only dates neurodivergent bisexuals. Yeah I think I'll stick with advice catered towards normal people, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:36 PM
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If you spend too much time caring about offending women you're never going to get far with dating. That's why the Redpill tells men to stop giving a shit about the opinions of women they aren't fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:59 AM
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"Game" is a uniquely western concept, a very recent one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:55 AM
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It's not hard to tell when a woman isn't interested in talking to you. The difference in response times when women wanted something from me vs when I was no longer useful to them was night and day. If you don't initiate most of the time they'll be happy to let your message get pushed down to oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:24 AM
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But it is true, ask yourself how many dates did you get out of women who took entire weeks to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:32 PM
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The Redpill belief is any woman you're not satisfied with should be dumped at the speed of light for a suitable replacement. You're supposed to be so preoccupied with multiple options that one falling out doesn't register in your mind enough for you to care. If a woman isn't fucking ecstatic to see your messages, she hates your guts and wishes you would stop bothering her, nobody is that busy especially not a young woman with a phone in reach. The fact that you're coming to PPD to ask a question…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:10 AM
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Women already charge for sex in other ways by withholding intimacy until they get some sort of reward or task done by whoever they're dating. Part of the reason why slut shaming is so prevalent among women despite women being the targets themselves is because it reduces their collective bargaining power over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:31 PM
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You're right, men do need to have higher standards when it comes to appearance and personality, however, the unwillingness of women to meet men's level of interest means things will stay this way for a long time. For those who don't understand, I am talking about how women refuse to make the first move or even reciprocate romantic interest in men they like because it is not their "role" or because it makes them look "easy" so men just go after the ones who do make themselves available or show in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:25 PM
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People have been killed because of false rape accusations. It is essentially a form of blood libel at worst, at best your career prospects are ruined based off something you didn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:07 AM
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Most women will have guys lining up to fuck her even if she had 100 children, few of those men are willing to be a step dad which is what she wants. We believe this because we see this happening in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:10 AM
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The fact that you have to be a 6 ft 3 guy with a good job, full head of hair, physically fit, among other traits to meet the standards of a 31 year old single mom who dropped out of high school, waits tables and lives with her parents is why men need the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:38 AM
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You're always on the wrong side of every debate OP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 01:26 AM
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If a man is still talking to you he hasn't rejected you, men aren't like women who use weasel words to avoid conflict, they'll just drop you immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:07 PM
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Someone who downloaded Tinder on a whim just to go on a date the same day doesn't seem like someone who cares about patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:50 PM
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Bruh that post was made on a Wednesday, unless she's unemployed and not going to school it's obviously going to be busy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:14 PM
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The vast majority of men do this, women will just ghost or refuse to reschedule because some random from Tinder has already offered himself as a sacrifice to pacify her monumental ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:22 AM
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Sounds like your friend is a narcissist who's wasting Tinder guy's time to feel better about getting rejected. The absolute scum of the dating pool are validation seekers who keep wasting everyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:21 AM
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Boring, heard this same bs argument a dozen times, please refer to my previous post np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1kgsaot/women_do_you_hatedespise_unattractive_incel/mr3o3sq/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:43 PM
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Before the term "incel" became the Internet's favourite ad-homenim they'd just call men virgins, neck beards, white knights, anything that signalled you were unattractive and unworthy of love. And it's not like those guys were advocating for the subjugation of women it was genuinely inexperienced guys getting bashed for asking questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:39 PM
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I'm not calling them beta males I'm mentioning beta males in general
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:27 PM
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In order to understand woman logic you must think in reverse. A man who is able to abuse a woman is attractive enough for her to stick around even though he's a piece of shit, this is honest and base pilled, maybe if they find the right combination of words he'll change and be the perfect man. A man who's "a great guy" but no woman wants to be with is secretly the worst person alive and just pretending to get into our pants. He must be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:17 PM
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Wrong, incels are avoided because there's a visceral reaction women have to beta males that makes them sick to their stomachs. Andrew Tate somehow had women lining up to fuck him even after being both violent and posting hatred for women online. Elon Musk has a dozen children with multiple women despite being the most incel coded guy in existence because he's rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:04 PM
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There's been songs written about BBW women for decades now stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:56 PM
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Give up and meet some fat single mom in her 30s to wife and be miserable with until she leaves you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:06 PM
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All those videos prove is that women are perpetually miserable and we should never take what they say seriously. At this point let's just nuke this sub since women will argue against every thing they supported if given enough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:29 AM
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Why don't men want to eat a random hot dog that was left at a party? It's still edible and probably delicious since someone else took a bite. But wait, the hotdog was left there for a reason, and when you decide to take a bite you'll see why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:03 AM
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The thing men want is what women feel they should never provide, which is mutual effort and open communication early on. However the female dating norms dissuade women from saying what they actually want and prefer to waste everyone's time on silly games and shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:55 PM
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Defending a woman in an absurd position or to your own detriment definitely is, especially if you had no prior relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:53 AM
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You have options, if you're rich, good looking, tall and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:35 AM
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Two words, Andrew Tate. He is possibly the most cartoonishly abusive human on the planet yet a woman still hopped on his dick and cried about his behaviour later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:33 AM
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You're literally replying a post that said it happens but is extremely rare. The difference is that is reflected by anecdotes and actually scientific data, and what you said is just straight up false.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:01 PM
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If people weren't looking for ways to screw each other over there wouldn't be a police force or Republican Party.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:58 PM
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Woman logic: It happened to me therefore everyone does it. Not sure if it's solipsism or just a complete lack of empathy at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:54 PM
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There's no way you just said nursing, cleaning and teaching are dangerous jobs. Construction, mining, the military all male oriented jobs that carry considerable risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:29 PM
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Yeah bro all women who had multiple kids were victims of rape but thanks to Gloria Stienem, no women are abused today. All hail feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:21 PM
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Everyone likes beautiful people, even babies who haven't developed a moral compass yet. Also you can't divorce sex from children, because that was typically how it went for thousands of years until the invention of birth control and antibiotics. Virginity, youth and beauty were valued because it was an easy way to tell if you were healthy and could provide healthy children or you'd keel over and die from some inherited disease at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:53 AM
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Yeah, women demanded to enter the workforce with the end result being them having to financially contribute to the household, still they wanted to maintain hypergamy by demanding their partner just earn more for her to spend or he was deficient in some way. It's not a social taboo for women to demand a provider (who's also 6 feet tall) even if she's one of the 1% earners, it is a social taboo for a man to demand his woman cook and clean even if she's not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:45 AM
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Whereas women are taught to be passive, our worth is not in working hard to make our partners happy, but in being an object of desire Yeah this is a load of bs right here. Traditionally women weren't desired for just being pretty, they had actual roles to fill like raising children and taking care of the home. A woman who was just pretty but couldn't cook or take care of a cactus let alone a baby was seen as worthless. The feminist movement encouraged the current selfishness by dismantling femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:52 AM
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Being a selfish asshole is working quite well for me, I feel happy, my skin is clear, my bank account is up, life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:36 PM
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I never understood the idea that friendzoned guys never ask the object of their affection out. The go to response when they do is "You're such a good friend we could never date" when they want to let him down but still keep him around until he's no longer useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:35 PM
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You have to understand its not always the same people on this sub. Some are newbies asking and probing, some are seasoned posters who's minds have been made up. I personally am not interested in asking about women's preferences anymore, I learned what they respond to through experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:31 PM
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Women have equal agency yet expect men to uphold patriarchal standards that favor them, this is why they're unhappy with dating apps. Unfortunately expecting women to actually take initiative is a waste of time so of course the onus is on men to meet the ever increasing patriarchal standards so they can be deserving of a mediocre woman. Men also shouldn't point this out because women and men like op are too deluded and self centred to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:11 PM
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This week I'm going to try being a self centred asshole and see how it affects my overall satisfaction with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:50 PM
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I saw a tiktok where a woman was scrolling through a list of men she met in one night, dozens phone numbers, few of them saved. Many were texting her to hang out or initiate conversation and she would text 5 at once before scrolling and making fun of a few. A lot of these men were pretty well to do, one was even a doctor and she was wasting their time for attention. The attention she got from them apparently wasn't enough she had to post it on tiktok for even more attention. The average modern w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:36 PM
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Men complain about the friendzone because they are being used but don't realise it until it's too late. Women aren't dumb and know when a man is interested in them, they'll just milk it until he's no longer useful. I usually noticed when a guy in the friendzone starts showing interest in other women she'll breadcrumb him into staying with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:28 PM
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Look man I know you're only going to engage in bad faith so I'm not going to discuss this further with you, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:06 PM
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This stand alone comment is related to this post which I already commented on https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1k32akd/discussion_about_main_ppd_posts_looks_and_ncount/mo1hrb4/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:58 PM
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This is why I believe mindlessly demonising the manosphere is pointless, most people who read the sidebar know you're not supposed to waste time with people who aren't receptive to your advances but actually useful advice gets buried in the noise. I'm convinced grifters like tate would vanish if men got actual actionable advice instead of "the stars will align" or "Just take a shower".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:57 PM
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Too many women and blue pilled men have channeled their displeasure at men's new found awareness of sexual market dynamics as being the fault of Andrew Tate. Even though Andrew is a piece of shit, he isn't the real thing they hate, they just hate men having discussions around sex and dating that don't centre on pleasing hypothetical women. This sub is over a decade old and we're still having the same discussions. The same conflating of bs talking points unrelated to the redpill are happening onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:36 PM
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Okay bro let's test this out, go ask 6 random women "Hey I showered today and don't listen to Andrew Tate, would you like to go out sometime"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:00 PM
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Seems you can't link cause and effect. There's less women on dating apps precisely because men are horn dogs who keep pestering women in real life hoping to smash. Male attention is easy to come by, hence the current dynamic, take it away and the dynamic changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:56 PM
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It will, a lack of horny men at your beck and call forces women to rethink their dating habits, a fact most women learn when they get closer to menopause or have multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:13 AM
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Because most women are boring and have no personality. The main reason men seek out women in general is because of their libido, take this away and watch the entire dating market change.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:54 PM
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Because that's the entire point, if being yourself was getting you into a satisfactory relationship you wouldn't need any dating advice in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:30 AM
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