CmrShep Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	"Hollywood Boulevard" technique Interesting. I smile, and tell them that it's not nice to kiss and tell.	/r/seduction	12/06/15 12:55 PM
1	If you think no one wants you This is true in the best possible way. You might find that girl on the other side of the planet, so keep looking.	/r/seduction	11/06/15 01:57 AM
2	"Experts" in the game... how often were you rejected when you first started? What was your success rate? First, you should define success for yourself. Do you want a girlfriend? FWB? ONS? Looking for a wife? After you answer that question, rejection is meaningless. You're looking for someone who will be a good match for your goals. It's like trying to find the right key for the lock. You don't get mad if you pick the wrong one off the key ring, you just try the next one.	/r/seduction	09/06/15 02:30 PM
13	Tips and resources to learn teasing and being playful with women Watch stand up comedy, and talk to everyone.	/r/seduction	09/06/15 02:47 AM
2	The most important thing I've learned over the last couple months. Try out something like this: http://www.reddit.com/r/NonZeroDay/comments/1qbxvz/the_gospel_of_uryans01_helpful_advice_for_anyone/	/r/seduction	04/06/15 05:20 PM
2	Is there anyone here older than 30? Being over 30 is great. In the past year, I've been with girls from ages 22 to 37. The best thing about being older is that you have more confidence in yourself to pick the girls that are the best fit for you.	/r/seduction	03/06/15 03:44 AM
1	whats the largest age gap you're comfortable with? Age does not equal maturity.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 01:20 PM
1	What's my next move? Then start talking to other girls. Replacement therapy.	/r/seduction	20/05/15 05:31 PM
2	They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this? Should have prefaced this with assuming she showed interest in the first place. Like she agreed to go out with you, and you established rapport.	/r/seduction	20/05/15 04:59 PM
2	Going over to a girls place to cuddle and watch Netflix. What should I do when I get there? Relevant username	/r/seduction	20/05/15 02:42 PM
1	They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this? It's up to you to turn her on and tease her. She will be coy, but the signals will be there. Remember, she wants to do it with you, she doesn't want to be perceived as easy.	/r/seduction	20/05/15 02:35 PM
12	A little mental trick i use to help me overcome some approach anxiety. Great idea. She's (probably) waiting for someone to come up to her and talk to her that way. Too many guys are intimidated by her or creepy. Be the hero.	/r/seduction	11/05/15 07:58 PM
5	100 failed approaches from now until Labor Day Agreed. The idea is to conquer your fear. You don't need to conduct a graduate level social experiment. You'll know when you're ready.	/r/seduction	07/05/15 12:47 PM
2	Response for when a girl says "Tell me a secret." I tell them that I can see the future, and I know what they're doing later tonight. I don't expand on that part at all, I make them tell me a secret.	/r/seduction	06/05/15 11:43 AM
2	My (barely noticable) disability keeps me from being close to girls Double this. It's not your disability, it's your perception of it.	/r/seduction	22/04/15 03:41 PM
5	How To Build Sexual Tension Great post. Think of it as walking a middle line between being too timid and too aggressive. You're making your intentions known in a way that's fun and playful.	/r/seduction	22/04/15 03:07 PM
1	17 Keys to Manliness that will unlock your natural attraction automatically. There isn't anything new here. It's just a copy and paste of most of the inner game stuff.	/r/seduction	10/04/15 03:11 PM
0	Best places/methods to pickup for over 30 ? Southeast Asia. Seriously.	/r/seduction	08/04/15 01:28 PM
1	What I've Learned Returning to the Dating Pool in My 30s As someone in their early 30s, it is both socially acceptable and easy to date someone ten years younger than me. I find it funny that my FWB was barely a teenager when I graduated college.	/r/seduction	27/03/15 12:49 PM
8	Few things to remember, in order to improve this sub This is 100% spot on. 1 a.) If she doesn't respond positively- move on. It doesn't matter why it didn't work.	/r/seduction	23/03/15 05:00 PM
2	The Most Liberating Thing You Can Possibly Hear If You Are Scared To Talk To Girls Great read. It doesn't matter how good looking you are if you don't have chemistry with her.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 05:56 PM
2	Messaging an acquaintance you haven't seen in years on facebook? Tell her you noticed she moved to your town, and you'll show her some fun places. Make it seem casual and fun.	/r/seduction	17/02/15 07:17 PM
3	Helpful book for us "nice guys". The Way of the Superior Man is a good book. Instead of using a "nice guy" vs. "asshole" paradigm, it shows you how trying to be a "nice guy" is presenting a neutered version of yourself.	/r/seduction	17/02/15 03:41 PM
2	Have a sexy presence? Yes, you have to feel like you're in control of the room. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=btjBvrly2aI	/r/seduction	13/02/15 04:47 PM
1	How to wake up and get in the fuckin zone? Watch videos that inspire you- movie clips, music, speeches. Watch people who act the way that you want to be.	/r/seduction	10/02/15 03:42 PM
3	[FR] Talked about goat fucking, ended with kiss close. Good recovery. You dug a small hole with the goat, but you jumped right out.	/r/seduction	02/02/15 04:17 PM
3	Why do you guys put so much emphasis on kissing? Without a kiss, it's like climbing a ladder missing the first five rungs.	/r/seduction	21/01/15 02:17 PM
1	The 6 Pillars of Self Esteem I didn't like this video. I haven't read the book, but video presenter pulls that BS entrepreneurs vs. everyone else dichotomy. You can have a fulfilling life and career if you are not an entrepreneur.	/r/seduction	14/01/15 03:04 PM
2	Lifestyle building I like this list. The suggestions are universal. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/186jaj/so_you_want_to_improve_yourself_here_are_a_few/	/r/seduction	09/01/15 03:57 PM
1	This sub isn't what it used to be This sub helps you accentuate the difference from being a good person, and being a "nice guy." I think this sub exists to help eliminate the "white knight" and "nice guy" behaviors, and foster true confidence and success. Average people do extraordinary things all the time. In this context, who decides on what "average" is anyway?	/r/seduction	09/01/15 02:45 PM
1	I love seddit and I owe a lot to it, but through my reading and watching I've realized a few things. The old you is gone. This is you now: "I've become infinitely more confident, I've started talking to girls, and I actually feel attractive." Embrace it and enjoy all the new opportunities.	/r/seduction	02/01/15 02:42 PM
1	[FR] Warming up at the bar Go into depth on the topics that spark her to smile and talk, tell a few relevant stories about yourself. Think of conversation as eliciting emotion, not just learning facts. When I said push the line, I meant that I didn't use much kino on her. We were separated by a bar, and the owners were hovering. I didn't want to get her in trouble at work.	/r/seduction	01/01/15 02:15 PM
2	What does /r/Seddit think about Richard LaRuina? I only know him through Seddit, but I found his videos on body language and non verbal communication useful. I took a few things from this video verbatim, and was successful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE	/r/seduction	30/12/14 02:37 PM
1	Do you have any New Year's resolutions? Get specific with your goals. Make them things that you are excited about, and can you can hold yourself accountable for. Maybe you don't have the resources to climb Mt.Everest or Kiliminjaro, but you can climb the highest mountain in your region. I always wanted to teach English in another country. That's not going to happen, because of my situation. However, I am going to travel to those countries that I always wanted to go to and enjoy myself. Right now, I ask myself: "What have I always want…	/r/seduction	30/12/14 02:32 PM
2	3 Reasons to Give People the Benefit of the Doubt This is an attractive characteristic in all your relationships: work, family, friends and with your SO. Being able to do this says that you are secure with yourself, and that you accept that everyone makes mistakes.	/r/seduction	29/12/14 02:54 PM
1	Where can a beginner learn to be more masculine? Everything ebrau36 said, and do things that make you feel confident. What are you good at doing?	/r/seduction	19/12/14 07:50 PM
1	At what age did you start reading PUA/seduction/self-help material? And how has it changed you; for better or worse? One message that I've gotten reading this sub can improve with women. Last year I was browsing Gone Wild, dead bedrooms and video game subs. Last night, I had a gorgeous girl (I don't understand the HB scale) qualifying herself to me. I internalized that I am interesting, positive and fun. I have or have the potential to have beautiful women in my life. I let girls know that I have options, and that I enjoy their company, but I don't NEED them.	/r/seduction	19/12/14 04:49 PM
5	At what age did you start reading PUA/seduction/self-help material? And how has it changed you; for better or worse? Work related goal (get a part time job)- completed Start a creative hobby- not completed- I'm going to do improv in 2015, I couldn't in 2014 because of schedule. Get back into martial arts- completed -started Kyokushin, and sticking with it Go to SE Asia- completed-I went to Thailand by myself, bike tour Bike a century- completed-metric century My goals for 2015 are to improve the things that I started in 2014. I make my goals things that I can control. I can't control the girl related stuff, so…	/r/seduction	18/12/14 06:07 PM
18	At what age did you start reading PUA/seduction/self-help material? And how has it changed you; for better or worse? I started reading at age 30, and I'm almost 32. It's become all about self-improvement, eliminating bad habits and improving confidence. Girls are only part of the whole. It forced me to look at myself and say "Whatever you've been doing has not been working for you, it's time to try something different." I discovered that I was my own greatest enemy. I created a list of five goals for the year for 2014. I completed 4 out of the 5. I immediately got out of my comfort zone, and did the things tha…	/r/seduction	18/12/14 02:39 PM
1	In A Rut "...barely making any moves." There's the problem. Your past is holding you back. Whatever your doing isn't working. Why continue on that path? It's better for you to get rejected 20 times in and be successful on the 21st. Otherwise, you have 20 ambiguous "maybe someday girls."	/r/seduction	15/12/14 03:23 PM
2	Which post have you saved ? Never underestimate eye contact. It took awhile for me to figure out what all the fuss was about, but it's way more effective with girls then you probably think. And it works at every step of the process: Don't know them? catch their eyes, linger for like 1-3 seconds, then smile. They are now ridiculously intrigued. Why did you smile at them? Who is this guy that looks at what he wants unwavering? If they look back your way, catch their eyes again (bonus points: wink ;) at this point, you can wa…	/r/seduction	25/11/14 01:43 PM
6	Learning From My Mistake [For ANYONE getting friendzoned/Oneitis] Give yourself two options: Escalate, and if she doesn't reciprocate, be ready to cut her out of your life. Accept her friendship, and be a good friend to her. You recognize the value in her friendship, and you are 100% ok with not being romantically/physically involved. You have an abundance mentality, and there are plenty more like her or better than her for you. Be in control of the direction of the relationship.	/r/seduction	04/11/14 03:07 PM
1	One point I use to motivate myself There's a great quote in r/getmotivated: "Would you rather shit your pants or die from constipation?"	/r/seduction	21/10/14 02:56 PM
1	How do I sexy up the title "computer programmer" Your identity isn't your major/career. Have fun with it, and be one of the things suggested in this thread.	/r/seduction	06/10/14 05:41 PM
1	Sedditors who have improved. What have you done or changed that has had the most positive impact on your game? Eye contact and I stopped caring about the outcome. I changed my thinking to "I wonder what she's like."	/r/seduction	06/10/14 05:18 PM
1	A little note about choosing what to do for a date. Some of the best advice you will get here is that you will be better off if you make the choice. Bowling is only bad if she has severe carpal tunnel, and a bar is bad if she doesn't drink. Do something that you find fun, and bring her along for the ride. When you're having fun, she should be too.	/r/seduction	18/09/14 12:42 PM
65	Oneitis Buster for the Day, From a Very Wise Bartender. That's very concise and liberating. Tip him extra.	/r/seduction	17/09/14 12:15 PM
2	Guys who went from bad, to good with holding conversations, tell us how you did it. If the conversation dies, push them to talk a little bit. Make them work for it too. Your responsibility isn't to entertain them without reciprocity.	/r/seduction	09/08/14 03:48 PM
2	FR: Yogurt Shop Daygame- First Date F- Close Well done. I picture a young Ethan Hawke playing you in the film version.	/r/seduction	25/06/14 06:22 AM
4	What are some ways an introvert can use his introversion to his advantage? If you're a quiet person, focus on being an active listener.	/r/seduction	27/05/14 03:39 PM
2	Why girls like guys who don't give a shit about them Well written. This is a lesson that you need to absorb and help guide your behaviors.	/r/seduction	13/04/14 04:25 AM
3	[FR] Tried to be an helpful nice guy. Ended up picking up the girl?! Showing the drawings was a great idea. All I could think of was "Come in, I'll show you my Skyrim character. I'll kill one dragon, and you can leave."	/r/seduction	11/10/13 01:04 PM