In A Rut

CmrShep · 2014-12-15T15:23:42+00:00

"...barely making any moves." There's the problem. Your past is holding you back. Whatever your doing isn't working. Why continue on that path? It's better for you to get rejected 20 times in and be successful on the 21st. Otherwise, you have 20 ambiguous "maybe someday girls."

Herewiththebeer · 2014-12-15T15:55:27+00:00

I am constantly worrying that she’s interested in him and not me.

You should NEVER EVER be jealous of another guy, they don't have any special magic that you don't possess. If they've got a better car or more money then good for them, don't be jealous, just get your own..

There's nothing less attractive than someone whom is jealous and needy. If a female acts like she wants another guy then kick her to the curb.

I think your main issue may be that you don't know how to treat someone how they're treating you. If she's treating you hot and cold then treat her back with a dose of her own medicine. If she flirts with someone else, let her see you flirt with someone else.

Also, it sounds like these girls that you're giving attention towards are using you as their wingman.. They don't sound worthy of your attention. And maybe you might want to avoid being around those guys that are "mutual friends" if they're stealing your thunder, there's a good chance that they might even be using you because you talk a big game and attract women for them. Find another place away from them where you stand out as the alpha.

Title	In A Rut
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	December 15, 2014 8:53 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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