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CoBudemeRobit/r/seduction19/06/19 12:21 AM
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Youre talking to a friend, or at least pretend. Just talk about what is happing around, its not an interview
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:33 PM
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I got standards.
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:30 PM
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I eight, whys a 2 asking me?
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:30 PM
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To not beat around the bush as you say. Youre doing the right things. The question is are you expecting to be hit on or are you hitting on and not getting results? What is your question?
/r/seduction24/11/25 02:01 PM
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Consider that you may be with a controlling woman that feels high stress during the day. She may be exhausted at the end of the day and wants to be controlled. Get yourself in that mindset and tell her what she needs to do and fuck the shit out of her, and take some viagra just in case as others said, till the language becomes the norm
/r/seduction20/11/25 02:49 PM
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Pretend shes your friend.. youll actually have a conversation and not play stupid games.
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:24 PM
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text, call, meet or video call.. in that order
/r/seduction02/09/25 06:44 PM
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I usually say Ill pay for the food and you pay for the drinks
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:04 AM
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Are you able to vibe with strangers?
/r/seduction23/08/25 01:53 PM
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Just go to a gay bar
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:36 AM
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The word projection comes to mind. Im fully aware its overused but hear me out. To keep it short, isolated and stubborn people that I came across, do it with abundance. Not only do they aggressively assume they are judged therefore they counter with their own insecurities. But I noticed it says a lot about their jaded assumptions of whats cool, who’s trying too hard, or whatever. But the truth is that if they see a person not giving a shit and having fun, the ones mentioned above look for reason…
/r/seduction20/08/25 10:56 AM
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I had one invite me after the date to “smoke some weed” at her place it was a fun couple months
/r/seduction19/08/25 05:51 AM
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didnt know pedo-cheeto was in this sub
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:06 PM
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some say jerking off, Id say at that age the partners arent as experienced and ONS are not exactly comforting. You want to get fucked good, and you deserve it. Find a horny freak and stick to her and the language will develop. As Ive read earlier this week that will never stop being true: Communication is lubrication. Tension is also a huge part
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:32 AM
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Bruh I literally turned down a game of spin the bottle with a hottie cause I thought it was immature
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:48 AM
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Thank you for checking their account history
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:33 AM
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apps are for people who dont go out much
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:35 PM
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Something to work on then, cause the implied punch line could use polishing
/r/seduction26/06/25 07:36 AM
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Youre assuming that WE all have insta
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:39 AM
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that forst line suggest that youd potentially keep her locked in a fucking basement
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:38 AM
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try this one for improv its short and sweet ISBN-10 0997703008
/r/seduction18/05/25 06:16 AM
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gotchu. On improv, Im on the hunt for one so if you want to combine forces, finding one thats light and fun to read. Lets touch base next week. But to circle back, learning to be present and unfazed, undistracted and relatable is a huge confidence read. Nothing drags a person down than talking to a human that is in their head. Your response to your surrounding says youre not a passive consumer. And to add to the whole value schtick, noting screams value more than being comfortable in your own wo…
/r/seduction09/05/25 09:52 AM
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read a book on improv, flirting isnt words its being present and keeping it engaging. If Im comfortable, you’re comfortable. We’re brainstorming it’s us against the world
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:26 AM
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can you connect with a random domesticated animal, instantly? Or a friends child? Because that is a skill that requires communication outside of words and brings it back to the vibe. Edit: not numbers
/r/seduction20/04/25 12:47 PM
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does her being older cross your mind when she says those things? Women that know, tend to know what the want, and youre providing it. She aint fucking with you. But I agree it is a mind fuck at a point. You have and give what she wants. That's given. Do you get what you want and do you let her know or are you just a fuck boy?
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:57 AM
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not my question
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:44 AM
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never mentioned how old you are. And does experience have anything to with it?
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:30 AM
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care to elaborate? What I see is comparison to familiarity. Honestly not a bad read. Constructive feedback welcomed. Basic downplay is well.. basic Edit: If anything, your response is what could be generated towards any comment by said AFC/GPT
/r/seduction22/03/25 11:42 AM
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sounds like more work to stage it than for him to be that charismatic. Watch how he talks to them, like they were already friends, he’s good at what he does and honestly if he approached me, as a guy, Id probably give him my time of day as well. At least for that 30 seconds banter while Im waiting for something.
/r/seduction18/03/25 07:34 PM
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if… you have to be the vibe, if shes into this music style shouldnt be an issue but if she isnt read her and have a back up plan across the street so to speak
/r/seduction17/02/25 10:49 AM
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just being cheeky, but go ahead and teach us your ways
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:11 AM
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yea we get it you speak French and chicks dig it
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:02 AM
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had the opportunity to live with a female roommate with similar interests and she gave me some good tips, start with with simple jeans that fit and black or white tshirt that feels good, build from there. Sounds silly but it was a game changer for me. Dont go full Bieber with ripped jeans and funky jackets if you cant even figure out what fits, looks, and feels good to wear. Also just because its on sale doesnt mean its you. Once you get comfy with that simple and you look and feel good rocking …
/r/seduction15/02/25 03:15 PM
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real talk though, it does feel familiar and safe. Trying new shit without a feedback guide tends to feel estranged. So many damn choices out there and what ever we see looking good on one guy doesnt mean it will look good on us.
/r/seduction15/02/25 02:28 PM
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ditch apps and go outside and touch grass. Interact like youve been friends for while and never ask for free drinks in advance you aint a hoe
/r/seduction12/02/25 03:48 PM
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be the golden retriever or a husky, choose your breed but be wise and dont turn into a chihuahua
/r/seduction12/02/25 03:43 PM
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seriously, now I want to go to church cause it seem like fish in barrel
/r/seduction12/02/25 03:26 PM
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cool.
/r/seduction12/02/25 03:05 PM
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a cat wont chase a rock, it likes to chase an unpredictable object. Not one that insults and hurts but one that presents a challenge in its agility and keeps it on its toes. Dogs on the other hand like belly rubs and be safe. We are dogs chasing cats, be that cool dog that cats can’t read and want to play with, not the eager dog that wants the cat to be its bestie.
/r/seduction12/02/25 02:56 PM
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pretend like youve been friends for a while
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:50 AM
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A hot girls opinion is always appreciated. Though your input is coming from a perspective of someone that doesnt have to lead. I feel like I can speak confidently for most of this sub that you, being the target of interest, are not much aware of how much of that said confidence and self worth is put forth to just initiate banter let alone keep the interest going. Let me ask you, how many men do you approach and entertain in a single night out? And how many of those those interactions turn into r…
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:35 PM
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to reiterate what you just said before I dove into this thread. A clean well presented person would not compromise their status by being abusive.. but we all know that isnt true when it comes to people in power/strong positions
/r/seduction17/08/24 05:36 PM
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Mostly mindshift change, first it was everyone has to like me. Second was I trust that Im not bad therefore take it or leave it
/r/seduction16/08/24 09:17 AM
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You took me home that one night and we had a blast I cant believe you dont remember!
/r/seduction11/08/24 12:01 AM
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shut up and dance, apparently
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:44 PM
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if you want to be her shoulder keep being her rock to talk to. If you want to take her out of her misery aay ok, let me take your mind off this and take her doing something that she told you she loves doing and her bf wont do it with her. When she starts bringing him up tell her to stop and enjoy the moment also when she complains ask her if she wants you to just listen or if she wants you to offer alternatives that should give you an idea, make aure you brush you hair and dont make her think yo…
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:23 PM
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It depends on the woman, but generally even if that is what youre looking for, the person that would do all those things as soon as you met them would give you red flags. Apparently there is a courting stage where youre not necessarily playing games but youre also not laying all your cards out, my favorite metaphor is a rubber band, or a see saw, basically you skip and see if the skip the same way to gauge rhythm. I found this out the hard way, maybe at a certain age the cards go faster but both…
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:34 PM
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is he also tall? cause thats like having big boobs. Confidence comes across in different ways. Not so tall men tend to overcompensate though taller guys tend to be more insecure in other parts. That balance in between can make a ton of difference
/r/seduction31/07/24 11:35 AM
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find a juice you like.. get soda splash of.. said juice youll be golden. It looks like a cocktail. Add a splash of redbull into it if you need a bit of a pick me up also sometimes I ask for half sprite half soda. works well too
/r/seduction23/07/24 08:26 PM
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ugh the anticipation is killing me
/r/seduction19/07/24 12:20 AM
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My ‘game’ has always been just pretending that shes your friend and no matter what you say that is in your interest will spark her curiosity. That being said 100 may be just a number but also read your audience. Sometimes the initial dialtone is enough for her to be intrigued but then it dies. Sometimes the initial is just an intro and later that familiarity will make her feel more comfortable to dive deeper. And sometimes its a lost cause, just read your audience. No need to adjust who you are.…
/r/seduction18/07/24 10:48 AM
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was she right though? Curious on expanding her theory. With the right chick I feel like a god but starfishes make me lose interest halfway through the deed. Sounds like she knows what she wants and floats her boat, and vice versa than anything
/r/seduction18/07/24 10:43 AM
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breathe
/r/seduction14/03/24 04:03 PM
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Is his frame more fun than yours? Usually I bring the vibe and energy and other men asking wheres shes from or talking about baseball are no competition theyll literally ignore them. Now if she becomes engulfed in his conversation and your only save is asking him politely then youre doing something wrong imo
/r/seduction29/02/24 02:54 AM
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Valentines has always been my self care day, like I order food to home chill and binge watch something cool or watcha trilogy. If there is a woman in my life I do the same but with her. No I aint reserving shit in a crowded restaurant and hell fucking no am I buying you overprices plastic garbage.
/r/seduction16/02/24 07:13 AM
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I find going to a bar earlier and during the week, think happy hour, you can catch many women even with friends with their guard down
/r/seduction13/02/24 04:27 AM
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Wtf you think youre some psychic or some shit? Seriously how in the world can you confidently assume what someone is thinking. Snap out of it. If anything theyre thinking about their own problems, not you, be nice.
/r/seduction24/02/21 05:03 AM
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Theres a confident stride that is present. Which is what you described. Then theres a walk with a purpose that doesnt involve taking in the surroundings and just being in your thoughts and own world. Sometimes thats the only way people walk, and the world around them becomes scary and judgmental. When in reality all they have to do is fix their posture and put their chin up to see and appreciate the world around them, again.
/r/seduction24/02/21 05:01 AM
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Can conform, when I talk that way I make people yawn. Low tones can have rhythm and variety of octaves try to find yours. When you speak youre singing.
/r/seduction23/01/21 02:27 AM
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In short it sounds like the interactions are started, but the guys that initiated them were afraid of going further. Id say you attract shy guys, and maybe figure out a way to take the lead in the next conversation that pops up. If youre shy as well try to have something ready if improv isnt your thing. Sometimes its ok to bring up your headspace and what youre thinking about at the time, that makes for a great conversation piece. Ex: "my moms birthday is coming up, and I cant decide between ...…
/r/seduction22/01/21 10:30 AM
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how about you learn to make friends with women, yall so scared of the friendzone its debilitating. Show them you can lead, are passionate about something and have boundaries and watch that friendzone crumble while she gets thirsty watching you talk about what you love.
/r/seduction15/05/20 12:19 AM
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can we put this at the top? the top comment is only "obtainable" its important to just go for it. if you feel shes uncomfortable go to the next but just give it a go. youd be surprised how well they will react to attention, you never know what their status is. maybe theyre done with asshole macho fucks, at the moment, and want a more decent human beings teasing them.
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:53 AM
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uninterested short answers. Felt like they were genuine but still felt like I had to carry the whole thing, so I just backed away
/r/seduction26/03/20 06:45 AM
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Prolly just let her know and see how she responds. Or text her something like. I bet you miss me, I would too.
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:27 PM
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Texted her last night
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:26 PM
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To be fair, my buddy tries to flirt he gets super uncomfortable and talks about new technical bullshit in the tech world. That's where his days are, reading this stuff. Now people want to dive into a conversation, they don't need to listen to monologs. Now self criticism in high gear... Record yourself if necessary and recreate what happened, watch it.. and see if you'd want to listen to this guy Edit: two chicks in 1 week straight up told me that I talk too much, so I started to catch myself it…
/r/seduction23/01/20 08:02 AM
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fucking, we're not having sex tonight is something I've heard couple times lately and it led to us naked in bed having sex. It's strange how ahead of us these women are
/r/seduction20/01/20 01:21 AM
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Nobody knows but it sounds edgy!
/r/seduction17/01/20 05:03 PM
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Try a compliment: I like your man purse, your socks really bring out the flip flops, or sweet mullet. You know something they obviously put thought and time into.
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:10 AM
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Had this happen to me two nights ago, the high was good for the first day after, now I feel like I got played and used :/ maybe I'm just really high and overthinking it but she was pretty straightforward to let me know that I'm not gonna see her anytime soon that she's super busy with her work right now.
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:07 AM
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Get into meditating, it will teach you self control which ultimately leads to a more calmer idgaf attitude
/r/seduction11/01/20 10:11 PM
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I was just at the science museum and they had a plastic rink no ice just smooth plastic for skating with ice skates it's was the strangest thing
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:59 PM
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I feel like when I 'try' to smile it looks creepy so I 'try' to keep a smirk happening and for some reason even that little bitch ass smirk makes everything feel better and people feel invited to share my space. It's been a game changer
/r/seduction17/12/19 05:13 AM
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Guilty. I don't even know how I got into this habit but I scared a few girls away this way.
/r/seduction13/12/19 11:26 PM
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r/croppingishard
/r/seduction04/12/19 11:37 PM
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Also learn to friend zone girls. They make good friends too.
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:52 AM
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Krist-offer sounds like a potential sacrifice human
/r/seduction18/11/19 05:46 PM
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I checked your post history, you're handling the breakup pretty heavily. I suspect your self-esteem took a dive and just making eye contact may be difficult. Heres a few things that got my head out of the gutter.. 1 is fresh air. I know it sounds stupid but for me when I bike uphill I'm so exhausted O can't think of anything else but getting to the top and on top of that when you're done your energy is off the charts. Find yourself something that you'd enjoy preferably outside and join a Meetup/…
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:20 PM
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Fucking savage
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:14 PM
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My God I've meaning to put this thought process to words and this guy nailed it.
/r/seduction09/10/19 01:41 PM
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Just understand that you're both there for the pleasure chemistry, which is reading and communicating, communicating on a subconscious level, you're not there to get off, you're both there for the ride, the ride of intimacy. Giving feedback and reading feedback. If shes spread eagle doing starfish pose telling you to fuck her with 0 foreplay just zip up and leave before shit turns sour. Foreplay is sex, penetration is advancement of that, orgasm is the reward. ALWAYS start at square one.. if it …
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:34 PM
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lol
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:14 PM
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Hmm. If she 17 thought he was hot 22 and she was turning 18.. Id be high fiving either way
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:08 AM
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Neat.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:00 AM
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Desperate is a strong word. If the chemistry is there and she felt comfortable saying that I think OP is gonna get some and we can all high five him
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:59 AM
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Just a grower with high standards
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:01 AM
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So here's where you fucked up. And I can tell you that I knew this was gonna happen even after reading just the title. You built it up waaaaay up. And even if you did manage to 'catch' her in the hallway youd make it awkward and your game would be mostly recovery which sounds like something that wouldnt be your best game either. Keep it natural. Satelite her until the opportunity arises and say somethjbg stupid like that green on your backpack is dope and see how she responds. When you start ove…
/r/seduction12/04/19 05:08 PM
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