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I’m in the exact same position as you, blew my mind when she reached out after we both started seeing other people
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:04 PM
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I think it depends on the situation, if the plate is disrespecting you then let them go, don’t instigate, allow them to come to you and if they don’t then leave them be and assume it’s a broken plate.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:17 AM
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Dunno just pissed me off, plate 2 lives far away from that house and logistics would be difficult getting new girls there because I don’t have a car there etc.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:12 PM
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I’m in the same position as you. Recently I made it through all the application stages at a very large company (big 4). As far as video interviews go, google some information, there’s often lots of similar questions that come up in the video interview. As someone else said in this thread, practice a lot of stories from your experience, whether that be from group work or previous work experience. Most of the questions are the same for a lot of companies such as why this company and why this role.…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:44 AM
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I’m only in this house for another week, then it’s Easter break for 3 weeks and then another month or so after that before our lease expires. I think I’ll stay.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:58 PM
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What do you think will happen
/r/askTRP13/03/21 05:24 PM
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So here’s the update, I came for the party with my friends from home and was just enjoying it, pretended she didn’t exist and then halfway through went for a pee, she followed me upstairs and asked to chat. I said ok and she explained to me that they did nothing more than kiss (yea right). From there on out she was kinda attached to me, we ended up making out outside and then again in front of my friends from home. Eventually ended up fucking her but had to cut it short because people were outsi…
/r/askTRP13/03/21 03:09 PM
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Yeah maybe I will in the week
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:03 PM
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What would you have done in that situation
/r/askTRP12/03/21 12:02 PM
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There is one girl who has interest in me but I dunno if I want to pursue it purely to get ‘revenge’, I guess the biggest question for myself right now is whether or not I stay in the house. You would think that as friends (with benefits) they would have a level of respect for you where they wouldn’t pull shit like that
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:50 AM
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It’s kinda ironic because 4-5 days before this all happened her friend came over for a party and I started talking to her. This friend doesn’t know about my fwb with this girl and apparently she said she wanted to fuck me that night. This resulted in the fwb getting angry and asking me about the situation. Maybe I will fuck that friend of hers. We had discussed boundaries before and she told me she doesn’t sleep with more than one person at a time so I interpreted that as as long as everything i…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:47 AM
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I couldn’t take it anymore. Had to remove myself from the house
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:43 AM
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I’ve got a new girl who is dtf but she lives about an hour away, the only option then would be to see her in the Easter break that begins in a week
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:30 AM
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You’re going through the same thing right now? Also did you tell her that she crossed a line or did you just withdraw attention and stop seeing her
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:27 AM
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Because I don’t wanna spend the rest of my time there having to listen to her and this dude next door.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:19 AM
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We agreed on the title of fwb, I didn’t think she’d be disrespectful enough to do what I described in the post though. To me that’s just common decency. What’s the best way to proceed her? Let her know she’s crossed a boundary or just hard next and move out
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:16 AM
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No I’m asking if I should hard next her by moving home and cutting contact, not sure whether that’s the best option or to just soft next
/r/askTRP12/03/21 10:07 AM
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I suppose it is a dangerous assumption but it’s just because I’ve known her for 2.5 years and was always close so I guess i trusted her too much from the offset.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 09:28 PM
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She has a history of keeping a few orbiters for attention and validation and it makes me wonder if she’s trying to just keep this guy as a new orbiter. Recently there was a situation where a mutual friend of ours admitted his feelings to her and she led him on for a few weeks by not completely shutting him down. Think he realised he was being played though. I know for a fact that she’s had me in her head (she’s admitted to liking me multiple times) for at least a year now, in which time she has …
/r/askTRP09/03/21 07:18 PM
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Okay, that does make sense, as do a lot of answers on this thread though. It’s a loaded situation and I doubt she herself even knows what she’s doing. That is exactly what I will do, there’s no reason to for her to stop giving me sex unless I break frame and act butthurt. Guess I’ll just take it as it comes from now on. Thanks for your reply bro
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:39 PM
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Sure, which is why I posted this question. Are you trying to say she’s still evaluating her options and keeping me here by giving me sex?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:49 PM
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I’m confused. Why do you think she’s leading this guy on? Also why do you think she’s still fucking w me
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:02 PM
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Can you elaborate? Why RIP that guy?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:48 PM
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I guess so. That is what I will do on Thursday, I’ll just go see that other girl, see how she is and how my fwb reacts to the situation
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:54 AM
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Yes, we live in the same house currently. I understand the abundance stuff but I would’ve always thought that remaining stoic and unaffected about her antics would lead to her realising that oh shit this guy is unphased, making her want me more? I guess the living together dynamic is kinda fucked up, things will be different when we aren’t seeing each other everyday. Over xmas she went on a few dates with her ex but let me fuck her the first night back in January. Same thing now, she’s seen this…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:51 AM
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Oh well, I’m moving out in like 2 months anyways so I guess it can’t get much worse. If that’s the case and her behaviour doesn’t change then I will cut her out of my life. Not much of what she does makes any sense to me. Why are you so confident that it’s done?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:42 AM
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You’re right, I guess it just bothers me more than it should, there’s no reason for me to believe the benefits are gonna end if she’s sleeping around though right?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:39 AM
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What’s the goal with not talking about it, are we trying to get her to talk about it?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:35 AM
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You’re saying there’s nothing I can do to fix it? She fucked me 2 days ago because she was upset about her friend flirting with me, didn’t include that detail but to me that shows that she’s invested and isn’t done
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:32 AM
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No, you must have misread. The fwb bothers me with her antics so I’m not sure how navigate to keep the benefits alive
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:24 AM
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Yea, she openly tells me when she goes to see this guy. She will see me going on this date in 2 days but she’s reassured me that she’s okay with it and has even encouraged me to go. Last time I went to see this old girl because she met with her ex and she freaked out, not sure what her reaction will be like this time round. As for the no no-sex dates it’s not really possible as we live together so there’s almost an obligation that we will be around each other most days. Personally I just don’t w…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 10:23 AM
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I probably wrote that slightly wrong. I just get the urge to punch him sometimes, I’m not going to do it, just thought I should mention it. Thanks for your reply though
/r/askTRP01/03/21 08:56 AM
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I just have the urge to sometimes, he pisses me off. That’s all there is to it, I’m not gonna actually fight the dude. I know I shouldn’t be shitting where I eat but it’s too late now. This is the situation. Just want to know what’s best to move forward
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:35 PM
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So just continue as usual, don’t give too much of a fuck about who she sees and then everything should continue smoothly? I’m kinda scared of fucking up things, just need to ensure my behaviour is in line with not fucking things up
/r/askTRP28/02/21 10:31 PM
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Don’t overthink it, books will only get you so far. The best way is repeated practice and experience. As long as you aren’t staring them down like a serial killer or looking at the floor you’re good.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:15 PM
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You’re right and I have read this before. However this girl is weird, after that she said she doesn’t want a relationship, she had admitted feelings but says she doesn’t wanna get into a relationship, neither do I but I just don’t understand what’s going on in her head
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:44 PM
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So what’s the implication here, do you think she’s gonna try and have a conversation about it?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:02 PM
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What youre saying does make sense but she said it’s fine if I see other girls, we both agreed to let each other know if we’re interested in someone else too. Yesterday I told her about this walk and she even encouraged it. Thanks for your reply
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:18 PM
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Haha yeah, I knew it was a risk. But what do you think about the invitation to her bedroom? That’s what I’m confused about
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:55 AM
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I guess you’re right, I was going to confront her about the messaging exes at an earlier point but I kinda knew it had a good chance of fucking things up and I wanted to prolong the good parts of our relationship as long as possible. We never had the exclusivity chat and I didn’t want to be the one to bring it up so everytime I hinted at the fact that she messages her exes was weird she brushed it off saying we’re not in a relationship so it’s not weird. Even though we were fucking everyday. Wha…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:34 AM
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I have studied the sidebar before, been rp aware for about 4 years now. The fact that she went from almost constant sex to nothing makes me think either she was lying about how she felt or she feels the same but we just need some physical distance because we did spend most days together during our most recent “lockdown”, this was kinda forced because nobody really had the option of leaving the house to see people or go places.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:20 AM
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That’s the thing, she was messaging them but I’m 99% sure it was just for attention. I’m pretty certain she didn’t meet up with them even once since we started. My options are not so bad, definitely comparable to her, just maybe less abundant than they should be
/r/askTRP12/12/20 11:17 AM
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What do you think I should do going forward? ignore her for a few days and then ask her again?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:04 PM
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Doesn’t that seem desperate?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:32 AM
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Arb the delta?
/r/MGTOW08/09/19 12:20 AM
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Interesting question, I'd like to know the answer too. My guess would be that the value of his investments are predicted to grow at a higher % rate compared to the mortgage.
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 09:12 PM
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Thanks for the reply. My plan is to casually talk to the 8 soon and then ask her to meet up at some point. Mention nothing of it to the lesser SMV friend.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:07 PM
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Plausible Deniability. Speak to her covertly and you'll have no issues. If your arguing then that is something you have to decide to put up with. So you think I should tell my friend that I'm going to ask out her BF who is an 8? I'd imagine she'd tell her straight away and they would come up with some scheme, resulting in their collective best interest (which I guess would be neither of them date me), unless I ask the 8 out without her having heard about my plans from the mutual friend. What hap…
/r/askTRP12/07/19 11:24 AM
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Gets complicated here because I don’t know what information they share. There was a girl at the end of last year that she knows about and this girl was hotter than the 8, theres a few other examples of girls that were 8 or somewhat close to 8. The thing is I don’t know if this girl tells the 8 about the other girls I pull, if I had to guess I’d say she tells her about them. We also don’t live very close, maybe an hour apart so hanging out with other girls in front of them isn’t really an option.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:15 AM
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It’s pretty drastic, the BF is about an 8, other girl is 4-5 haha
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:04 AM
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You must have misread, I got the head from the girl who I used to live with, not the girl of my interest. The girl I used to live with is into me, her friend, who im interested in knows this, she also knows about the head I got from her. It’s kinda confusing I know haha. I’d imagine my perceived smv would have increased for the girl I’m interested in because of her friends interest. However, I cannot confirm this as we’ve never really spent time alone together, which is what my goal is right now…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 11:07 PM
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Yeah I guess that’s what I’ll eventually text her but I think I need to build some more comfort before then, maybe get a gauge of how interested she is based off her replies. In my experience girls are more likely to agree to meet up after you’ve been casually texting. The problem is she recently denied liking me after I called her out about it, she knows that I’m not sexually attracted to her, which is probably why she denied it. She probably felt embarrassed and wanted to save face. Either way…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:55 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/MGTOW27/04/19 07:42 AM
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I fucked a fat girl once and I maintain to this day that she caused my libido to fall drastically for the next 6 months. She was basically a catfish, arrived at her house and she was way bigger than I thought, did it anyway. From personal experience, only do it if you want to.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:21 AM
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Maxx Chewning
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:15 AM
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Similar experience, not identical. A hb9 showed interest in me, made out with her in a club so I guessed she was interested. Asked her to meet up and she said no because she's "busy". I said Okay and havent spoken to her since. I definitely lost interest compared to how I would have reacted to this situation 2-3 years ago.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:51 AM
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I think this is true particularly for younger girls, think 18-23 or so. Most girls I know live on Instagram and if you can display high SMV through your page then this will work in your favour. Stuff like topless pics in a normal setting, at a beach or something, not topless selfies, and pictures of you in social situations will work well. I don’t have a big Instagram and I haven’t posted in over a year but I use it daily (it’s bad I know).
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:32 PM
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Although I haven’t tried this a lot, every time I have tried it it’s failed
/r/askTRP04/01/19 11:16 PM
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You’ve decided you’re exclusive and that you’re going to do more schooling elsewhere. Personally, because you’ve mentioned a potential eating disorder, I think she could be a handful, as you said she’s clingy and doesn’t do much in terms of hobbies. Sounds like she’ll be a pain if you try to do Long distance. Since you regard yourself as good looking with a decent build I’d imagine you’d have no problem getting new girls when you move. Having said that, if you’re happy with her then keep it goin…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 01:32 PM
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Think you're right, Im not going to text her anymore.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:27 PM
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Appreciate your reply, I definitely wouldn't LTR it, I knew that from the start. Treading carefully seems to be the best option here. Don't want to give her the boot just yet incase theres some plating potential.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:06 PM
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I actually agree with this
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:43 PM
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Do you have any links for good posts on 'damaged goods'? I'm not up to date with the quarantine status of the main sub but I have tried searching on there and it doesn't return any results.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:39 PM
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Good point, I have considered that
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:37 PM
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You could be right. I ignored it, I'm not her therapist.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:03 PM
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I didn't verbally beg for anything, all I did was try to escalate again. I've already classified her as damaged goods but does that mean that I shouldn't be seeing her?
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:45 PM
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It's saying the instant invite is invalid or expired?
/r/askTRP25/04/18 08:32 AM
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Could it be related to the 80/20 principle in any way?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 05:35 PM
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It's implicit. You don't need to sit down and have a talk about your boundaries. Whenever she does something out of line let her know and act accordingly
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:53 AM
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Yes. I'd say having a few pints once in a while is good, nothing wrong with that but as you say its the people that get in the cycle of work, waste paycheck on drinking/clubbing and repeat
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:57 AM
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Cheers for the insights and good luck to you too!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:54 AM
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You have good points and yes they are attention whores but where I live its widely accepted for people to act like that, okay, we can all agree that they're doing it for the wrong reasons but that doesn't change the fact that it's fundamentally wrong. Reading back I did use a childish tone but I was in a strange mood when writing that. I've also just deleted 2 people off my Snapchat who regularly post that sort of shit. I guess this is the process of 'swallowing the red pill' because what I've s…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:25 PM
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Would you disagree and go out every weekend and get outrageously drunk?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:25 PM
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Well I'm going to the gym tonight cause I've had no time in the day, I think it's irrelevant because anyone that wants to be successful at anything in life shouldn't be wasting their time fooling about on the weekend
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 05:16 PM
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Can massively agree with this, there way too many teenagers, especially girls drinking like fish. I'm 17 and I've never been drunk, not sure if that's something to be proud of but I cringe when I see how some people(girls) aimlessly waste their lives away every Friday/Saturday night.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:22 PM
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Sounds good, I'll try it on my commute to work today
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:44 AM
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Seems intimidating although I've tried something similar before. I might give it a go today on my way to work
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:41 AM
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Look at the James bond picture as an example, his one hand is in his pocket, I think it can be acceptable in certain scenarios but I reckon its best to avoid hands in pocket whilst trying to improve your body language.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:30 AM
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I feel fairly confident with your points/examples but eye contact can really catch me out. Any advice on improving ones eye contact?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 10:54 PM
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You probably aren't ugly though. Lots of guys think that about themselves.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:00 AM
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That's actually a good idea. Although I can't imagine a girl randomly sitting next to me and asking me that
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:22 PM
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You're not alone. It really sucks
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:25 AM
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