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Thanks for posting. I've been struggling with this myself for a long time. Not only because my predisposition to anxiety from my mother's side but having been diagnosed with PTSD at a young age, I definitely have a problem with trying to escape and isolate and I get very frustrated at times with meditation as it requires patience and practice and when you're spiraling into or out of a flashback state, it's very difficult to unwind enough to feel like 'meditating' is actually doing anything. Not …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:15 AM
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I feel you man. Good story. I don't like to tell my story because, well i'm still battling my own issues. But I've got body image issues myself and I remember thinking so much about how I should off myself because I was so ugly, doing the math about plastic surgery and coming to the conclusion that I ought to off myself. In other words, I thought I was fatally ugly to the point that I wouldn't leave the house for long periods thinking my presence alone would catch peoples attention and they'd fe…
/r/seduction30/12/15 06:34 PM
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Agree with this. Especially if you're going to a party or club or something like that, you get decent amount of alcohol in you, you might find your hormones speaking for yourselves as I did. While i've learned lots, had various life experiences, read plenty, etc, I wasn't getting a lot of infield experience for a long time as I had more important issues at the time (well I still do, but I'm getting the experience in when I can.) I, of course, didn't want to get intimate or interested in any girl…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 12:10 PM
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What about when she is suddenly always...stressed...?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 08:27 AM
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This is kind of a bad way of looking at it. More like, if a girl breaks your frame, you currently THINK she's out of your league, for the time being. That's how you process it, cause every hotter girl up the ladder has messed with my frame one way or another as my mind re-arranged its beliefs about myself and my value and theirs.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:00 AM
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Step 1: Gotcha, like I said, that's pretty much my normal way of calling out these shit-tests, "He sound's pretty awesome, why don't you fuck him?" In this case, I know they were boyfriend and girlfriend in the past for a very short time and broke up due to 'incompatibilities' (found out later through her friend that she fell asleep the first time they fucked, bahahaha) so I'm kinda feeling like that shit-test would result in more story telling/drama than getting her to shut up. Step 2: Probably…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 06:14 AM
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Thanks, this is kinda how I felt about it. I didn't like the guy before I met her for other reasons, but I wouldn't just tell somebody I think their 'best' friends are lame (even if I thought so) if this somebody's personal lives weren't of any importance to me so telling her he sucks would make me appear concerned about him. Plus, I'm kind of more the quiet, stoic type about my masculinity and he's on the other side of the spectrum. Glad you could put it into words. I think i've just been talki…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 05:01 AM
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Okay, good to know, i'm VERY out of practice in socializing in general so I think I was suckered into more frequent contact than I thought was smart by the nudes. Definitely not committing to this one, just got a little optimistic that women could be as good of friends as any even with attraction involved (and hadn't picked up all the crazy yet...)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 04:59 AM
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She was fishing and when she is fishing you need to set your boundaries again. Even if you said you liked her when she asked if you liked liked her or just liked her, then she will get the wrong impression. This is the same as the "does this dress make me look fat?" shit/fitness test. There is no right answer. Agreed. This was kind of my fault. I really tried to stick to my guns, and told her, "why are you asking me this right now?" "why don't you wait until we hang out a few times, I just met y…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:41 PM
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Hmm, good idea... I did really think her dude 'best friend' was a douche before I even knew the girl so it'll be hard to pretend he's a cool guy. hahaha, guess I'll stick with the sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:16 PM
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I do this when I know where it's going and it works. At the moment, i'm getting out of the honeymoon phase where the conversations were actually good all the way through, and now i'm learning her pattern so I can tell the shit-test stories from the actual conversation.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:13 PM
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The endless stories did just start, normally our conversations are actually enjoyable back and forth's. She is a bit insecure and chooses to compensate with these stories, but sometimes she tells legitimately good non-shit test stories. For the most part, I feel we don't contact each other that much (I could be wrong as i'm used to high school girls who have too much time on their hands). Every other day or two maybe a tiny text between days. And 99% of the time there is nothing romantic going o…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:12 PM
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Yes, she's got a whole thing going about him coming into town at the end of the month. We aren't meeting regularly by any means, but do 30 minute phone conversations a couple times a week imply too much interest? I do honestly have fun talking to her when she's not shit-testing. So sometimes, I just really don't know if it's going to be a real conversation or going to be 80% shit-test filler. I imagine once I pick up her pattern I'll be able to just be direct and cut her short early on. I can de…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 08:08 PM
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Thanks, I was about to post about a thread about a fuck buddy and I accidentally ended up getting her to think I have feelings for her and now i'm getting repeated 'jealousy' shit tests which I honestly don't give a damn about but find annoying to listen to as they're rather grandiose and stupid. I sat there silently listening, not interested, a couple uhuh's , but they were really annoying simply because they were boring, and I thought maybe just being quiet and letting her go on and on seemed …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 07:25 PM
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Yeah, of course, being incapable of critical thought is a trait of all these terrible movements of people believing they're the good guy. They'll happily talk shit about religions and religious people (who while fucked up in ways do at least promote family values, ethics, and generosity) all the while they blindly follow their own unaware religious beliefs of cultural marxist thought.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 01:04 AM
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This is one of the biggest slaps in the face. For me particularly as a white guy from a poor European immigrant family that has always lived in a part of California dominated by poverty, illegal immigration (because it's farm country) and thus the minorities are in fact the majority here and the idea that telling people to hire other people based on their race and culture is ANTI-racist is so ridiculous it's sad.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 01:01 AM
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I read the first quote as: "It's over, it doesn't fucking matter really." rather than as a submissive thing, but I mean, who knows. Quote 2 made me laugh as well.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 06:11 AM
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What a horrible cunt. It must mean something for me, either that my cynicism has reached new heights or the red pill has sunk in a bit more than the last I checked, because I didn't feel particularly angry and I laughed while reading this post or maybe it's simply because it wasn't written from her husband's perspective. Either way, it was all too predictable. The only thing i'm mad about is that the actual article's comments are closed. Strange, she put it up only yesterday, couldn't deal with …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 06:08 AM
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Pardon the long post, but as a relative newbie maybe it'll be a bit closer to home??? I can't say I'm even close to fullblown ALPHA redpill, whatever you wanna call it. I've been exposed to and mostly understand a lot of it and why it is what it is but simultaneously, much like you probably have, I've been exposed to mindless and endless bs of idealized feminine perfection + infallibility and male inferiority and fairy tale ways of courtship, and it doesn't exactly leave quietly when it's been d…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 07:39 AM
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Can you turn a ho into a housewife?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 06:24 AM
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They never overtly assume guilt or responsibility for it, they'll just put themselves in such a position that they can make it seem like it's an accident. It's childish and abhorrent but hey, it is what it is. They have to be able to rationalize that it wasn't their fault.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/13 06:23 AM
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Weird, this is pretty much the attitude I had all the way back in middle school which I started to think was just a rationalization I made for not seeking relationships with girls/being a pussy. I started to find that all the physically attractive women I spoke to/dated were so vapid, and the girls that I enjoyed talking to enough to become good friends with were the chubby ones. Generally, if the girl has enough self-esteem to think she's attractive without question and a bit of social ability …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 12:53 PM
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I may not be speaking for this guy as I've always been sort of picky and ocd but for me making girls qualify to me makes me just more picky and turns into an excuse itself, ehh she's too shallow, bleh she's a mindless pop culture drone, blehhh I'm not into blondes, etc. Then I can disqualify girls and not make a move because they're not what I REALLY want (but what I REALLY want is to get my dick sucked), this guy and me don't fuck around enough to feel confident when our ideal girl IS around, s…
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:37 AM
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This post is very spot on, I learned this stuff first hand when I first started learning the game, which I of course decided to start learning because I had a CRUSH that (I thought) I absolutely had to be with. So because I was so entranced by this crush, was already good at talking to females in a friendly capacity when they weren't attractive, but couldn't approach and game this girl I had put on such a pedestal she was ethereal to me. I was stuck, so I read a bit, got a haircut, dressed bette…
/r/seduction20/08/13 08:09 PM
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That's probably mostly because you've been conditioned to see everything you do that is not passive as automatically creepy.
/r/seduction17/08/13 12:17 AM
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Can't be stated enough, rather, it can't be reprogrammed enough. The whole programming that women don't enjoy sex, that sex is basically only enjoyable for the man, that we have to 'trick' women into it, that they don't want it, and then all the apprehensive mangina 'am I being creepy? a rapist? etc' bullshit. It gets so embedded in my head that when the sexual tension comes with a new girl I totally forget that the new girls I haven't touched yet's desires are no different from my past girlfrie…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 01:06 PM
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I can't say i'm religious or that i'd wanna save it for marriage myself, but I've been there as a guy with my girlfriend where I felt comfortable with everything up until actual sex and then because I said, "No." I was verbally berated, hit and screamed at. Just telling other guys that I said no to sex is enough to get them to accuse me of being gay or express disbelief so I understand the feeling of shame. I guess you need to decide if you feel okay being with somebody who wants to violate your…
/r/MensRights31/07/13 08:29 AM
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I'd say no, I grew up catholic, a lot of catholics are catholic more as a tradition because their parents came from a historically catholic country ala Italy, Portugal, Spain, Mexico etc and they aren't religious except for a few holidays each year. They aren't even close to being as religious or morally bound as a lot of flat out christian church-goers are because it really doesn't have any actual place in their life. Basically, many Catholics are part-time Christians.
/r/seduction29/07/13 03:55 AM
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Being a rational guy these days IS awkward. Haha. Dworkin, really???? FUCKkkkk
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 02:41 AM
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California, yep. In one of the poorer areas composed of mainly farmworkers, and people who buy houses here because the property value is extremely cheap and then commute to different areas because the unemployment is extremely high.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 05:23 PM
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Right on, growing up in one of the rare areas in the U.S. where brown people (mainly Mexicans) dominate the population and whites are a true minority a lot of hate is directed at whites and they are generally treated as the outsider group, so I grew up thinking Mexican chicks or even Asians for the most part didn't want to date us white guys with the way I hear Mexicans talk about white people in such stereotypical fashion. But my experience has been entirely different, they love us white dudes,…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 08:01 AM
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One of the few people in my early 20's who actually openly despises tattoos on women. Couldn't think of a better way to describe it. Seriously, that shit is distracting why ruin a good body/good skin.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 07:53 AM
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My SONS? I'm still teaching myself... haha. (Only 22 here)
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 08:02 PM
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Nope, just regretted it every day for the next 2 years. -___- I was an awkward teenager, in my mind I COULDN'T JUST TALK TO HER, what is life some kind of porno?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 07:18 PM
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Your story sounds exactly like mine. And to this day, my ideal hope is for my future girlfriend, or even wife if it comes to that, to be intelligent and fun enough to be my best friend. Sexy and sexual enough for us to have lots of great sex. Feminine, takes care of herself, and all that. And to never fall into that horrible things I see where couples become like aloof old friends who never show affection, stop having sex, and just seem to be roommates. I still have those aspirations for an idea…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 09:23 AM
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Of course, when you're not getting laid for your tactics and way of life, you need some kind of validation for doing your 'good deed' and dysfunctional culture is there to reinforce your poor value system.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 07:39 AM
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I've yet to read those, gotta check them out. I've gotta say i'm coming from the opposite perspective, where I thought most women were close to my ideal, then became a 'player' with no game in high school, and realized most hot women were dumb attention whores or party girls and simply boring as people. And now i'm coming back to the game after realizing there are some intelligent, somewhat mature, respectable girls out there now that i'm hitting my 20's (and the previously unattractive intellig…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 05:25 AM
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Red-pill readers, this might interest you. A description of the Impulsive Stage (E2) of ego development: "Here the child 'asserts his growing sense of self' and views the world in ego-centric terms.[5] At this stage 'the child is preoccupied with bodily impulses, particularly (age-appropriate) sexual and aggressive ones.[12] The child is too immersed in the moment and view the world solely in terms of how things affect them. Their impulses affirm their sense of self however are 'curbed by the en…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 05:10 AM
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That's hilarious. One time when I was 17, I had moved into a new house with my mom. Our neighbors were these 2 girls about 16 years old, (well... and their parents), but that's besides the point. One them was a fatty, the other was pretty hot. Our house was old and had no a/c and it was a hot ass California summer that year so I had made a habit of leaving my window open for a breeze, my windows were right outside of where my desk/pc was. One day I was chilling, internetting, you know, whatever …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 04:56 AM
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what... in the fuck
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 04:25 AM
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The whole foreveralone thing has always made me cringe, especially self-identified foreveralone people.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 04:24 AM
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Agreed. The constant dive into porn is a problem that is stopping them, but it's not the ONLY problem stopping them. The thing is that masturbation/porn as sad as it sounds can make you so self-satisfied that you don't act on your sexual desires with real girls. I'm speaking as a guy whose had more than a few chances to fuck real women and I didn't go through with it because it'd be safer, easier, less risky, more comfortable, require less intimacy, less anxieties, etc to just do it at home. I w…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 04:22 AM
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Right there with ya bud. I came from the school of romantic movies and television, had my world shattered when my first girlfriend was a sexual maniac who used me for my cock and ended up being the exact opposite of the ideal vision of women I had in my head til then. I decided to read 'the game' for fun, it interested the hell out of me but I just couldn't approach it the way in the book as it seemed too inorganic. So I stepped away, got pissed off with the way life was going, re-examined it wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 04:14 AM
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Hell yeah, that book forever changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 12:10 AM
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At one point, I had women do this to me. I was beta, hadn't taken care of myself (long hair, not working out), BUT when I changed my appearance a bit women thought I was good looking and I was working out a bit, and actively trying to improve myself. Now I was still lacking confidence, I couldn't even bring myself to ask a girl out to the movies, but my girlfriend called me a player and kept accusing me of lying about being a virgin. The women seemed to flock in even harder the more they saw oth…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 10:52 PM
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Puking inside
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 10:33 PM
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Ah, this is a bit more difficult as this is about a 5 year relationship, but I've been sitting on the sidelines watching it decline for years now, frankly the guy treats the woman like a pet or a deprived housewife (even though they're barely in their early 20's) and almost totally ignores her. He doesn't even seem to want to be friends with me anymore. He seems to just want to befriend and hang out with more beta guys that won't be a threat to his woman while not bothering to sexually please he…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 09:13 PM
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The reality is that too many women (or even men for that matter) are generally too fucked in the head to be worth having a long term relationship with these days so hook ups are about the only thing worth seeking as their personalities and values are so poorly developed having a relationship is basically suicidal in most cases. Look at the divorce rate.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 05:43 PM
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Oh boy, reading this from you is making fucking my best friend seem comically easy. She's been telling me for at least a year now that her boyfriend isn't fucking her, of course, I was mangina'd at that point and didn't find her attractive, so I offered a bit of worthless, ":/ meh that sucks." I saw her a few months back after close to a year of not seeing her, and she has lost all her excess weight and looks very poke-able now, we both gave eachother a good look-over when I got there and she go…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 08:39 AM
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Fucking amazing. This reminds me of an idea I thought for my own approach anxiety line I had thought up which was repeating this http://youtu.be/Pht7-QReItY verbatim. It's great in that it's so ridiculous you can only laugh at anything that happens, but then again, it's almost too complex.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 08:11 AM
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Aw, what a lame reason to miss it haha, love Del/Deltron/Heiroglyphics. Up here by the Bay myself plenty of Del around but I still haven't seen him.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 07:54 PM
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off topic: but I love Dr. Octagon. nice username
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 05:14 AM
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I've had girls get angry with me for not being upset when they dump me. One of these same crazy bitches asked me back out the same night. And 2 years after I dumped her she repeatedly contacted me online and when I agreed to see her again she told me she was with somebody but wanted to continue to see me, I said no and she cried like a baby and never spoke to me again even though we saw eachother at parties constantly. Everything in this thread rings true. I've never had a stupid stuck up bitch …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 04:16 AM
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