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What do you consider the most beta subreddit?

Ragna_The_Blood_Edge
July 7, 2013
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Title What do you consider the most beta subreddit?
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Ragna_The_Blood_Edge
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Date July 7, 2013 2:11 AM UTC
(13 years ago)
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Why is r/Foreveralone so pathetic?

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November 8, 2013
/r/TheRedPill

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[–]Hoogstens 48 points49 points50 points 13 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Too easy. /r/SRSMen

[–]hiyuh 39 points40 points41 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

  • "Is it problematic to want to be more masculine?"

  • "Against Patriarchy: Tools for Men to Further Feminist Revolution*"

  • "How to be successful in dating and relationships within a feminist context."

  • Saw this go up near my house, was pleasantly surprised to see it was done by a group of (mostly) men.

Holy shit, you win.

[–]VeryWideDoucheNozzle 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"Manage your Sex Drive?"

No ... Fuck off!

Porn & Hookers! FTW!

[–]Repealer 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Bender, is that you?

[–]Croc_Chop 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

is this the famous imp that has been to all the brothels in westeros?

[–]JohnPeel 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tip#6 is handy advice if you cheekily try and slip it in her pooper.

[–]cagethepepper 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That last one...that sounds to me like men admitting that they want to rape women. Fucked up.

[–]Jiujitsuismygf 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

getting consent is the entirely point, right?

[–]RedeemingVices16 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"Toxic masculinity." Fucking hell. The fact that they don't see the massive hypocrisy of their "everything male is evil" stance is as infuriating as it is flabbergasting.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

5 Ways Regular Guys Ruin Their First Impression With Women | Cracked(John Cheese) Standard content warning applies with regard to problematic language

Problematic language? Watch out for the thought police.

Don't step in the toxic masculinity.

[–]troubadour1492 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Every time I hear the words "toxic masculinity" I have the urge to go kick the shit out of someone.

[–]140Watts 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I cringed reading some of the top posts.

[–]Hormander 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I facepalmed at every single thread there.

[–]DEVi4TION 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit that sidebar is scary. Sad world...

[–]wh40k_Junkie 67 points68 points69 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

/r/gonewild : just a bunch of guys salivating over whores that post naked pictures of themselves and give out compliments in the hope for the girl noticing it

[–]t21spectre 22 points23 points24 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

And if you say anything even remotely perceivable as negative they will down vote you to oblivion.

"I'm not a big fan of short hair" -12

[–]QuietlyLearning 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That or you tell them that a close up shot of pussy isn't as enticing as an erotic pose; the replies amount to "this is the only way you see one".

[–]t21spectre 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And you can find an uncountable number of better pictures with a simple Google search.

[–]MSoftHarem 33 points34 points35 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Reddit.com

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]AlwaysLateToThreads 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. The best way to reddit is to unsubscribe to all the defaults then subscribe to subs of value.

Such as /r/grass and /r/avocadosgonewild.

[–]Ragna_The_Blood_Edge[S] 20 points21 points22 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I'd say /r/Foreveralone

[–]CodeineCowboy 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

The whole foreveralone thing has always made me cringe, especially self-identified foreveralone people.

[–]wh40k_Junkie 23 points24 points25 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

To be fair, I made the transition from foreveralone to here after reaching my rock bottom. Sometimes, you gotta start shoveling the dirt to realize you can actuallly climb

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[–]wh40k_Junkie 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, I just found my way here from a link in askmen, but the transition since has been insane.

I think foreveralone is a good recruiting ground because not all of the people on there are incapable of any social interaction. Even before I found TRP, I was still super social but my results with women were zero. A lot of people on there are pretty much ready to try any new system so I'd say it could work.

Also, consider /r/deadbedrooms ?

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But if you are with a group of foreveralone'ers, does that mean you aren't alone anymore?

[–]_Molon_Labe_ 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What do you think an obese, or morbidly obese, person who play's mmos 12 hours a day and surfs porn and reddit is going to do besides wallow in their own misery and self loathing?

[–]Ragna_The_Blood_Edge[S] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But they're nice guys! /s

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The wiser nofappers don't have this problem

[–]DrunkNewb 19 points20 points21 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. The constant dive into porn is a problem that is stopping them, but it's not the ONLY problem stopping them.

But if it's giving them confidence, then all the more power. I friggin love the NoFappers so much - I have never seen a more supporting sub in my life.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, if they believe not fapping will make them better at getting women, they will probably be more confident, leading to getting more women

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Spiderman486 points 13 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Nofapper here. I gave up porn too when going on nofap. Most of us give up both.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i second this

[–]captainedship2 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nofapper here as well.

I still think lack of ejaculation is most important for me. Def more assertive and definitely will go to greater lengths to get women.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

There is a /r/pornfree , which should have been NoFap from the beginning, but NoFap is marketable.

[–]theitalianstallion76 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of people are on nofap because of ED.

[–]CodeineCowboy 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. The constant dive into porn is a problem that is stopping them, but it's not the ONLY problem stopping them.

The thing is that masturbation/porn as sad as it sounds can make you so self-satisfied that you don't act on your sexual desires with real girls. I'm speaking as a guy whose had more than a few chances to fuck real women and I didn't go through with it because it'd be safer, easier, less risky, more comfortable, require less intimacy, less anxieties, etc to just do it at home. I wasn't happy with the fact that porn was removing my drive to get laid to the point where I felt like there was something wrong with me and I hated looking back at women who wanted to fuck and thinking damn it, I could've got that puss so easy.

edit: i.e. do you think most guys who are looking at porn regularly would rather risk being rejected, not performing to their imaginary ideals of perfection, etc or taking those risks to sleep with a female that was less than their porno perfection of beauty.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

do you think most guys who are looking at porn regularly would rather risk being rejected, not performing to their imaginary ideals of perfection, etc or taking those risks to sleep with a female that was less than their porno perfection of beauty.

That is more or less why I'd rather not masturbate and try to get laid. Every other time I jerk off, I remind myself of that.

If it wasn't for the thrill (heh) and fun of approaching and eventually closing, I probably wouldn't be pursuing women at all. I would just do my own thing, and maybe occasionally talk to a girl with a pretty face, in the hopes that she matches up to my Lost in Translation/Before Sunrise fabrications.

When I was redirected to this sub from Seddit, I knew I was on to something big when I read "Men in Love" and "Women in Love".

[–]CodeineCowboy 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I've yet to read those, gotta check them out. I've gotta say i'm coming from the opposite perspective, where I thought most women were close to my ideal, then became a 'player' with no game in high school, and realized most hot women were dumb attention whores or party girls and simply boring as people. And now i'm coming back to the game after realizing there are some intelligent, somewhat mature, respectable girls out there now that i'm hitting my 20's (and the previously unattractive intelligent girls are starting to learn to dress and do their makeup as well) so my interest in actually having a relationship is back so no more porn.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice.

Thanks for sharing. I always like to get some new perspectives.

[–]Phaint 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When you embark on NoFap you get a biological drive to pursue women that used to be satiated by your hand. It can sometimes be overwhelming.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I think it's far and away /r/cuckold, /r/cuckoldcommunity.

[–]phasetwenty 8 points9 points10 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can't get more literal.

[–]Ronfar 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That actually exists??? Wow. Just wow.

[–]QuietlyLearning 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thankfully there is also /r/cuckqueancommunity for those who like it the other way around.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

To be fair to them, it's a fetish that they are embracing. They are fully aware of what they are doing and aren't just 'beta by default'. It's obviously not for me, but if that's what they want, fair enough.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes this. Red pill is not a standard set of behaviors/relationships for everybody. Red pill is about taking in information about the world, and basing your decisions on that information to get the outcome you want. If you are turned on by cuckolding, and you arrange your life to get that outcome, that's not blue pill at all. Unintentional cuckolding, that's blue pill.

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[–]DrunkNewb 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

MFW I opened this subreddit: http://i.imgur.com/PP6r8yW.gif

[–][deleted] 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe some of them are misanthropes or have lost faith in the human race.

/dramatictone

To be fair, I can understand the sentiment, even though I wouldn't try to make up an imaginary friend.

I find some "constructs" - for e.g, I've just started reading the Discworld series by Pratchett and Black Hole by Burns - way more interesting than actual life. There's a strong human aspect in the writing, and you could imagine those conversations playing out if the natural world you live in was similar to that one.

But I digress...those guys should read "How to Make Friends..." and start approaching. And also watch the RSD vid about Hard Case Newbies.

[–]CodeineCowboy 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

what... in the fuck

[–]cagethepepper 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I always say to myself "Well, there's people out there who have foot fetishes, so nothing should surprise me about people" but that definitely set the bar higher.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/r/mylittlepony might need mentioning

But that's less outright, bog-standard beta and more beta because of really severe emotional problems

[–]Staple_Stable 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

/r/short and perhaps surprisingly, /r/tall are incredibly beta.

[–]ct2k7 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And why would that be?

[–]Misocainea 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I used to subscribe to /r/tall and it is basically tall women posting pictures and guys drooling over them.

[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

/r/theredpill since these stupid threads started popping up. Leave this shit for subreddits plagued by teenage girls.

[–]Twentey 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The sub has turned into a parody of itself.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I call that "the reddit effect"

[+]Ragna_The_Blood_Edge[S] -6 points-5 points-4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Quit your bitching you Beta fuck.

[+]Ummm42 -13 points-12 points-11 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

r/MensRights

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[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 12 points13 points14 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As someone that has been reading /r/mensrights type stuff for the last ten years, I've come to agree wtih you. However, where the MRA's get it right is that the government shouldn't be discriminating based on gender. If there is a problem about violence against women, then make a gender-neutral law. If more women require this than men (not in this case, it's about equal), so be it. But at least men are protected as well.

They also have exposed the Marriage 2.0 scam and I know it's saved my ass a few times in college from women wanting a ring (then not working ever again or wanting children). I consider men's rights a root of TRP theory, but it's not the entire thing of course.

That's just my two cents.

[+]Nuke_Jerusalem -6 points-5 points-4 points 13 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

A lot of them are little crazy, they even have a problem with benevolent sexism, for example holding doors for girls is seen as sexism against men.

[–]salami_inferno 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

for example holding doors for girls is seen as sexism against men.

Meh, I've never seen that, could you provide an example?

[–]JoshtheAspie 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How would that be benevolent sexism against men? The man is providing the benefit to the woman.

The complaints I've seen over there most often are a "shamed if you do, shamed if you don't" problem. Lots of women out there still expect you to hold a door open, while others are offended if you do. And you don't know ahead of time which is which.

One guy even lost his job because he made a sarcastic remark after getting belittled for opening a door.

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