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“I keep having this recurring dream where I am tied up on a stone table and 200 Amazon women are throwing sliced pickles on me. What do you think it means?” - from the movie real genius I read that girls have 2 main sexual fantasies, to be tied down or have a lesbian experience, which one are you? Lesbian, friend or stranger? etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:32 PM
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Give her the other girl’s phone # and let them talk it out while you move onto others. Women are really good at talking to each other.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:12 PM
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You could do some experiments to find out. Start escalating her behavior and see where she stops. Start slow like not wearing panties with a skirt out in public. Then slowly escalate to other things, topless public sun bathing, etc. Work up to a ffm with slutty friend or her agreeing to going to a sex club or setting up a swinging profile. This would give you a middle ground so that you don’t waste years of your life when you probably already know the outcome. If I could go back in time, 30 year…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:53 AM
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I have 500 acres of beautiful land in FL that would be perfect for you and the Mrs. to build your dream home. I’ll sell it to you for $500. You’ll have plenty of room to build a bunk house for all her male friends and exes. The ones that are defective and have no interest in sex with her, Just spending special time with your unicorn. You could build a big activity center for them to do whatever they are into. Do they sit around scrap booking or are they all fashion models on instagram? Personall…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:32 AM
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Yes. My time was mainly spent in Madrid on business trips with weekend trips to the coast. We basically drove all over the country. No real exciting stories to tell, I just loved everything about it. Everyone was nice. The clubs were great. Great pedestrian areas. Great food. Easy going life style. Most people were fit. I liked Barcelona the least and Madrid the Best. Overall, I spent about 12 weeks in country over 3 years. Travel / living is very personal, you might hate it. I would visit for a…
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:10 AM
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I got caught years ago. Girlfriend confronted me with an ultimatum on dumping #2. I told her no, if I was going to keep 1, it would be the OLTR that was OK with me sleeping with other girls. It was fantastic for 6 months with both of them and occasional randoms until their grandmother died and they found out they were cousins. Point is, you are cheating for a reason. Time to change things. If that is not possible for you. Create an account for your girl friend on Tinder with public photos. Confr…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:53 PM
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Why waste your precious time on something you already know ain’t gonna work?
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:46 PM
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Women do not want to do the work or use logic. I have met some unicorns, but most perfer emotions. A computer does not care about her emotions. She cannot feel better about fixing a poor program, but a nurse or teacher allows her to feel like she is saving her part of the world. BTW, I wrote my first prgram in 1979. I have a lot of life experience in this area. What do you call an attractive woman at an IT company? A visitor.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:42 PM
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“I trust yer”, bad idea
/r/askTRP22/01/20 02:18 AM
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I am guessing you, her, and the kids all rode on the short bus? Both of you should check your state laws, some have laws about taking advantage of mentally challenged people. I never had a woman ask me what my intentions were. It is not hard to let them know that they make you hard.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:10 AM
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I went there on some business trips and I loved the women and the culture. If I would have went there after school, I probably would have just rented beach chairs and party for the rest of my life. Great weather, and beautiful, tall, olive, women. They are night owls and take naps in the afternoon. I would see todlers eating out at 1 am. I really dug the place, but you might dig somewhere else. Only one way to find out, go check em all out.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:20 AM
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I would still hard next, but I am old and closer to death. If you are questioning it, I would go with your gut. Bad behaviors usually get worse, not better.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 03:01 AM
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Source: Mathematician / Programmer in my early 50s. You will always be in demand. Personally, I would spend some time in Spain, as much as you can. Career wise, being an actuary in re-insurance will pay you well and you get to retire in 20 years. I ended up doing statistical programming for clinical trials which worked out well for me, but it might not be for a young man. If I was young now, I would go into robotics, that field is expanding like crazy.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 02:56 AM
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Demote, not LTR material. Life is to short for that crap. me thinks she assumes you will be acting like her when you go out with your friends . Regardless, lies 1.5 months in = demote at least. I personally would hard next.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 02:43 AM
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“Wouldn’t your time be better spent sucking my dick, cooking dinner, or cleaning”
/r/askTRP18/01/20 02:00 AM
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‘I have them. Thank you for checking. I have a lot going on these days and that could have easily slipped my mind. It would really help me if you can be responsible for ticket management from now on. Is that OK with you? I would be willing to manage something you need help with in return.’. After about the 3rd cycle of reminders that you agreed on who will manage what, she will stop asking stupid stuff because she will know that it will become her job or you will have a lot more free time, so he…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:06 AM
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The Zig Ziglar axiom of speaking on a 7th grade level holds true. I have worked with hundreds of ivy league post grads and smaller words win the day every time. In general, I ask people if they have a question if they side bar while I am presnting something. If they continue it, I don’t help when they eventually need it. I’ve told tens of people if they had paid attention during the training/meeting/presentation they wouldn’t have to waste my time afterwards. For one particular asshole, I risked…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:31 PM
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If you don’t know where smart people hang out, you aren’t one. So, you need a smart woman so your kids are average or slighly above. If you are looking for an LTR, stem fields and where they hangout. Not rocket science. For example, find a STEM company in your area and target places within 15 minutes of that place. Avoid anyone in education, they are lazy, not smart. There is such a thing as too smart. Very smart people have a higher incidence of mental illness and laziness. Most mensa members a…
/r/askTRP27/12/19 12:38 PM
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FFS, yes. Assume women that send you dirty pics are DTF until you go for it and they tell you no. What more do you need? Are you waiting for her to walk up and grab your cock?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:21 AM
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The Bidens?
/r/askTRP26/12/19 05:08 AM
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Any country where women are looking to get a green card out of there.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:51 AM
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Always go for it. Everyone should just assume that you will. Thus, when you get rejected, it is not a big deal. Babe Ruth wasn’t afraid of striking out.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:48 AM
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I ‘free style’ meditate daily for 15 minutes and let my brain think about whatever it wants. I also do stretchy yoga for 15 minutes. I take kava kava and valerean root. All suggested by a therapist. I went from only being able to sleep 3 hours a night to 6 or 7.5 hours a night. Never goes away, but this helps me manage. TRP got me from 0 hours to 3 hours a night.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:46 AM
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Yes, but primarily as a gateway to other girls that see her as competition. You can bounce from one to another for years. You just got to be different than the 1,000s of other men hitting on her non-stop. I would not marry one or procreate with one. I did and it was a nightmare.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 04:00 AM
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Barry White
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:57 AM
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Trade her in for a new model
/r/askTRP21/12/19 01:53 AM
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I got all the friends I need.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:21 PM
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Yes, but not as a life style. I am in my 50s, I have yelled at people about once a decade since my 20s. This is usually right before I hurt them. To paraphrase Kenny Rogers, sometimes you got to fight when you are a man. When people cross a boundary of mine, I calmly confront them. They either respect my boundaries or they are removed from my life. Life is too short for stress makers. In my 20s, my boss’s boss yelled at me when I was working at a top 6 consulting firm for how I worded my resume.…
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:20 PM
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Free lance mathematician and programmer
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:26 AM
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I ask for a safe word, how long they can hold their breathe, and any medical conditions first. Their responses usually give me an idea.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:41 AM
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I don’t avoid with women when asked or if it comes up, but I avoid at work / social settings. Being a libertarian, it has worked in my favor. In my personal life, I do what I want and let others sort themselves out. I don’t try to convince people, I just state what I believe and what I would do. For example, this week a women asked if they can come to my compound if things go bad. I told her no, because they are useless in an emergency situation, etc.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:37 AM
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Just leave next time, life is too short to spend time with people who give you stress. If she was into you, she wouldn’y be talking to anyone else.
/r/askTRP12/12/19 12:15 AM
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https://www.lincolnshirelive.co.uk/news/lincoln-news/court-punishes-man-assault-during-2349398
/r/askTRP11/12/19 10:14 PM
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Google. Search on bratting. Warm her butt up first by rubbing and light spanking. This will reduce bruising and see if she is into it. Ask her to rank your spanks on a scale of 1 to 10. What you are doing versus what she can handle/wants. Do it in a playful manner to test the waters. Later, if she is into it, you can look into a corporal punishment vibe. I would send texts or emails on spankings that shows her willingness just in case you need it in court one day.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 03:02 AM
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SJW = RUN away as fast as you can! You will be the cause of all the problems, someone else, never her.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:42 PM
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I don’t think so. God is a 10th dimensional being from a physics viepoint. He exists before and after time, I am the alpha-omega, etc. He knew what was going to happen and it was his permissive will to allow it. Satan would have not stopped if she said let me ask my husband. Who knows how many permutations and combinations were considered before this reality was allowed. Also, for those that believe lilith was adam’s first wife, it just shows that it was bound to happen with other wives or desce…
/r/RPChristians03/12/19 02:14 PM
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Point to OP was that there are only 2 reasons in the bible and his is not one of them. Personally, I would leave since she refuses to respect a hard boundary. How do you reconcile that my recommendaiton not being very red pilled given Rule #7? Always looking for an opportunity to learn. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash onc…
/r/RPChristians02/12/19 10:13 PM
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What’s better for your child? Seeing a hen pecked father, exposed to an unhealthy relationship, or dedicated time with loving father? I think if you sort that out, then you will have your answer.
/r/RPChristians02/12/19 09:59 PM
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Does this smell like chloroform?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:11 PM
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The next time she does it, hand her divorce papers you already have drawn up. My grown kids told me they just wished I had divorced their mother sooner. The kids will be OK. I equate this to a battered woman. There are only 2 reasons for getting a divorce is adultry and being unevenly yoked. There is no exemption for abuse. Yet, everyone would tell a battered woman to get a divorce or even getting verbally abused. Switch the roles, female verbally abusing a male, and it is a big deal for the man…
/r/RPChristians02/12/19 02:57 PM
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Who cares? She is probably just saying that to give you shit and make it worse on you. Logically, it is either bull shit on her part or true. If its bullshit, then its just her blaming everything else for her poor choices. If it is true, then she is breaking up a home for something as silly as the size of dicks. What would you think of a man who left his wife for a set of bigger tits. Luckily, being alpha has nothing to do with dick size. She married you knowing all your virtues, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/19 04:05 AM
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Don’t start texting new girls so much to prevent the problem from repeating.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:38 AM
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This. Just ask. You could always make it funny. If she rejects you, just roll with it.
/r/RPChristians01/12/19 11:20 PM
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If avoiding fails, isolate and escalate individually. You can start easy enough by just showing up where they are usually alone. Just a silent way of letting them know that you know where they live. If you can’t beat them by yourself and have no friends, start approaching people they care about that you could harm / disrupt, girlfriend, kids, nephews, sister etc. A thousand ways to do this. My go to conflict resolution is to escalate. in 45 years of doing this, I have run into only 1 man who was…
/r/askTRP01/12/19 05:20 PM
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use a condom and make her wonder why. Does he think I am a whore, diesn’t want to get trapped with a kid, or is he with other girls and doesn’t want me to get anything. You could also change your sex routine up, pull out and pump it in her mouth, etc. Why the change? Did some other girl show him that? Start pushing her to a threesome or sex clubs. basically, covertly communicate if she wants to be a whore, she should go all in. Have her sniff coke of a strippers ass instead of having guys over t…
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:36 AM
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you let her dom another sub in a ffm
/r/askTRP30/11/19 03:21 AM
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Ask her to be your wing women to pick up another girl for a ffm.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 03:19 AM
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Find someone else that is just functional crazy and does not need a therapists / drugs etc. Life is hard, don’t start it with an anchor. If you have kids with her, they will have a higher % of being crazy, etc. because of genetics. Family law would pour even more suck on your divorce because your kids will be identified as special which will break any norms / limits on support. I am guessing that she will have a higher % of cheating. New guy makes her feel good and the sex makes her feel needed,…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:15 AM
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Train her to do it as part of your foreplay and standard ending. Eventually, she will get to where it will turn her on like Plavo’s dog, when the dick goes in her mouth, she knows an Orgasim is headed her way. She associates the two together and will get wet when she sucks on you. When I just want a BJ, I tell her “suck my dick” . We also have Taco Tuesday for her. If this is a deal breaker for her, find another LTR or see if she would be OK with outsourcing the BJ work to another girl. Maybe sh…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:57 PM
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You could also use something like the apple watch that physically taps your wrist when your alarm goes off.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:37 PM
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Sketchy, but the real issue is her desire to go out alone. Bad things happen to women that are isolated / alone. Women know this. She wanted to be near some guy at that gathering enough to go out alone late at night in a city. Add on other things that she normally does not do, you have a verification that she is up to something. Nothing wrong with women getting dressed up if they do it as part of there normal routine. The walking into random buildings is extremely abnormal. She was drunk, though…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 02:09 PM
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My guess is that your root problem is you are not getting enough sleep. Read ‘Sleep Smarter’ by Shawn Stevenson. Basically, you go to bed ar a regular time (10 PM is best for hormone release) and get up at a regular time. You should try a 1.5 hour sleep cycle time, 6, 7.5, 9 hours, etc. when your body is naturally releasing hormones to wake you up. The book has routines, suuplements, lotions, stretches, to help sleep better.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:41 PM
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Axe throwing
/r/askTRP16/11/19 01:20 AM
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You wear something like a nice / unique watch band, ring, necklass, hat, or clothes from your travels, when asked about it, you can say you picked it up in x country. Also, habits or observations, you do or see / comment on a 2 vs 3 check kiss greeting, etc. I sincerely like to guess where people are from based on dialect or looks. I am pretty good at it, usually close. This includes n generation Americans. I can take a good guess of where they immigrated from. My house is full of nick nacks fro…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:25 PM
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“That’s great, I have another hot girl friend that is interested in a threesome with us, but I told her you would not be interested. I’ll see if she can come over this Saturday.”
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:42 PM
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Go to the biggest church in town. You’ll have half the women in town trying to set you up and telling where to go.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:35 AM
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.7 hip to waist ratio. No gag reflex. Can hold breath for 3 minutes. Long hair, shoulder to ass length. C cup or better breast with a heart shaped ass with enough cushion to make a wave when it is slapped. Doesn’t talk too much. Can point to the 7 continents on a map. Willing to make out with girls is a plus.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:19 PM
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You got it backwards. She would have already blocked him if you were her priority. You set a boundary of not entertaining other guys and she broke it. You set a soft boundary of no girls trips and she broke it. No need in talking to her about it. The medium is the message. Observe and change your behavior, get plates. All you have done is let her know that she has to put a little effort into hiding her behavior. So, now her phone is clean for now, great. If it was me in her situation, I would se…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:17 PM
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Sounds like a perfect time for side job in the porn business. She likes being filmed and watched. You like making videos. Spice it up a bit,
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:32 PM
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Demote to plate, not because of the trip, but because she booked it knowing you did not approve and not talking to you about it first. She is not LTR material. I would not tell her a thing, still hang out with her while you are adding other plates. I doubt you will do this though. From highlander: “I would save you the pain brother”. This will lead to more issues. At a minimum, define your hard boundaries, because she is going to cross them. When she does, stand up straight, grab your balls, and…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:22 PM
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It differs between cultures / religions , etc. For me, culture is old school Appalachian mountains. You take care of your family, even if that’s just you. If somebody crosses that boundary, there is a blood price to be paid. Do the right thing, even when nobody is watching. You provide the basics for your family, food, shelter, clothes. Simple lifestyle, house no more than 1,000 square foot, etc. unless your uncle jesse rich. No debt, so you can be free to make manly decsions like tell your boss…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:09 AM
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“ I hope you find what you are looking for in life. You are a great person. I am lucky to have known you.”
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:57 AM
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Maybe her dream is a MMF with brothers? Only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:11 AM
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Don’t do it alone. If they are just friends, hang out with them with your LTR. No reason to be alone with women in today’s society unless you are intimate. Too much risk exposure, fake rape or lies to your girl friend, etc. Friend interested in you. might go crazy, you never know.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:57 AM
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You need to assemble a mastermind team (Think and grow Rich, Hill): CPA, Lawyers, Tax Attorney, Real Estate advisor, other Dentists for advise. Talk to a lot of people and decide what you want to do. What appeals to you.? Stocks, Commodities, Precious Metals, Bonds, and all the forms of real estate. Then form your team around that. I had a Dr that owned his office buildings and always built extra offices to lease out to other medical services, etc. For example, 20 years ago most Drs and Dentists…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:31 AM
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Bartending job sounds great. I have a BS in mathematics and my bones as a C++ programmer. I never paid $90 for anything until I was in my 30s. As a SE, you should track your approaches and conversion rates. My guess is that you would do much better in offline strategies and more at bats. STEM and military schools are usually male dominated, but the always seem to come up with ways to offset this, nursing school close by etc. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:01 AM
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It’s time to move on. I have a friend who has been trapped financially in a sexless marriage for 16 years. It is only going to get worse. Life is too short for this kind of sacrifice. Be friends / roomates, but go get some action.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:48 AM
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How much time do you commit to this? Is that the best use of your time? If you spend an hour a day, assuming you can make at least $20 / hour, that’s at least $7,280 a year you could invest. When I was your age, I delivered cokes on the weekends for $. While delivering drinks to grocerry stores and drug stores, I kept my calendar full of dates. You could do the same while volunteering, going to church, working out, or hobbies, etc.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:36 AM
1

Top 20% of a sample of men in a given context. For red pill, attractiveness to females. Beta being the second 20% or cohort. The bottom 60% does not matter. This is from a mathematician’s view anyway.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:59 AM
3

Spend your time posting on reddit instead of talking to people irl.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:57 AM
6

Heard from women in a Japanense office, that it comes down to penis size.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:08 PM
1

No. Only 3% of young males actually fight and it has historically been people with something to loose. On average, when young men cannot afford to provide for their families, things get dicy. You can read the rise and they fall of the Roman empire to get a feel on how this happens. This is how America used the banking system to start the arab spring in Eygpt. Inflation sky rocketed to the point a man could work all day and not have enough to feed his family. Don’t believe the bullshit on TV when…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 02:06 PM
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Watch the movie Secretary for some ides, I like the pony saddle idea. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secretary_(2002_film)
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:46 PM
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No, I need you to make me sandwhiches too
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:39 PM
5

Ask her if you can walk her across the street for your boy scout badge.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:32 PM
3

As long as you are not lying to her, I don’t see a problem. If she’s old enough to work, she’s old enough to make her own decisions. Maybe being your cook and your last sex option makes her happy and prevents an otherwise lonely life for her?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:29 PM
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I would have fun with her. Escalate until she decides to leave. I doubt you have any black friends since you felt the need to call that out, but if you do, invite one along on your next date. See what she does. Take em to a sex club, etc., bring a girl along. Just tell her your ready to try new stuff, never mention this or other incidents. See if she will be a cam girl and take a % of her $ for setting it up, managing it, etc. I would never think or treat her as anything else but a fun toy at th…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:23 PM
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Ask her about hooking up with one of her friends to get connected more, etc. More chances at bat, etc.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 05:13 AM
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She is talking to me.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:48 PM
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I lost 70 lbs in 4 months doing a combination of Keto and time restricted eating (16/8). I am on maintenance now with the same regimine, just normal maintenance calories instead of a deficit. Less than 30 net carbs a day works for me. I get blood work every 3 months with my doctor and my numbers are great especially for a man in his 50s. The key to Keto is to be metobotically flexible. You body has a chance to burn fat in addition to carbs. I cycle through burning carbs every weekend and then fa…
/r/askMRP29/09/19 08:35 PM
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No, if she feels like your equal, she will see it as failure on her part for settling. She can obviously do better. Men should lead and be better, not turn her into a lesbian by acting like a woman. You should not try to breast feed the kids either. Different roles for each equal gender, only 2 btw. I assume you are talking about normal behavior not bdsm, etc. I have treated the women very good in my life, but from the lead position, like a shepard, with much love and responsibility. She can get…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:33 PM
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You gotta stop sending these. My wife is getting suspicious.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 10:07 PM
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Burn them. I am am in my 50s and only have a few regrets which are not burning bridges sooner, brighter, and very publically. Started in my 40s and I feel so much better.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:55 AM
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Georgia in 2005
/r/askMRP05/09/19 01:38 AM
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“Fuck off” is how I usually handle it. If I am feeling playful or the wife is around, “Do I know you?”, him:”No”, me: “Fuck off then”. The wife really likes that exchange. It doesn’t heppen often, maybe once a year, but it seems to work. Usually at a casino or other activity where people like to give unsolicted advise. Most males like this really do not know how to fight. That’s good if you do. It’s bad because these are the dumbasses that accidentally kill people. Personally, I never hit anyone…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 01:09 PM
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“Do those freckles go all over your body?”, no: “can I see where they aren’t”, yes: “Can I connect the dots with my tongue?” “how long can you hold your breath” “did you know 25% of women have no gag reflex?’
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:25 PM
1

I am not a fan of surprises. A friend of mine lost a lot of good shoes that way when the husband came home early. You might see her kissing a man goodbye, etc. Best to give her attention once she is back in your frame/life/area of operations.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:55 AM
0

No need to tell unless you got kids that are at your house sometimes. If you live in a small town, 500 people, then go ahead and tell becuase they already know.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:19 AM
1

I wouldn’t mess with women in Iran. Watch the 13th warrior. The plan seems good. Nothing beats practice, except a cane beating in Singapore. Better be careful, you don’t want to get into a Midnight Express situation. Seriously now, map out your process and alternative paths. Record your results for analysis. Capture the type of girl you are approaching based on your initial thoughts. For example, Girl #1537 had a gold link on her burka, I took this to mean she was a well educated rebel. Tried ap…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:16 AM
2

Run from the dependapotimus
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:02 AM
3

Axe throwing, tell her to wear a tank top and tennis shoes.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:00 AM
4

It has, but it took time. Jury gave me 95% of what I asked. I just wished I had done it sooner. So, much wasted time.
/r/askMRP18/08/19 10:58 PM
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Source: 50ish grandfather here with a divorce when kids were young. I was a traveling consultant which has a 99% divorce rate. I have seen a lot of divorces with coworkers and friends. You are not OK. You are in a world of shit. You seem like you are in denial. You are in a one sided war right now. The enemy has already acquired allies and is encroaching on your position. Your open marriage idea is shit and will be used to turn your kids, family, friends, workers, dating leads, and the legal sys…
/r/askMRP18/08/19 01:40 PM
1

Maybe you should read the side bar on here. There is a post labeled Plate or Bitch management. It describes the process of a man taking a woman from being a plate (sex buddy) through the process to being a LTR per TRP. Maybe your guy is a unicorn, but that post describes how men operate. I wish you all the best.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:58 PM
1

Why do you think things like “being a charity case”, “self respect”, “humiliation”. “Sell your soul”? It seems like he offered what you wanted, sex. I was giving you ideas how to win him over. None of these things should affect your self-respect, etc. You should not do anything you don’t want to do. Billions of other women have done a lot more than this just for kicks. My respect, etc, comes from my life, not sex. A 9 or 10 could think whatever she wanted about me as long as she was in the right…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 05:38 PM
2

When it happens again, tell her you’d be OK with MMF threesome if she does a FFM threesome first.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 05:21 PM
3

Myabe the fat wife could eat popcorn while watching; Everbody is happy; Win/Win/Win.
/r/askMRP17/08/19 02:32 PM
1

This guy sounds very charitable. Try being his side girl and out do the other women. Find out what his fantasies are and jump in. Compete for him outside the bedroom as well. Be willing to bring him and his side ho breakfast in bed? Spank her when she does something wrong? Clean his house in lingerie.? Whatever he is into. How many guys really turn your crank like this guy? You must have some redeeming qualities if he is willing to drop his side ho standard by 2 points. If you aren’t willing to …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:28 PM
2

The cat bath girl was in 1985 when I was 18. I just read the rationale male / trp this year and understood the why. Before that it was just observation and experimentation. I was always like, I am not sure why, but there is a subset of girls that I encounter that behave this way. Picked my favorite behaviors and focused my time on finding those girls. In general, I find the old school ways of doing things work best for me, look at men in culture from 1900 to 1950 (books, movies, etc.). Be very m…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:06 PM
2

I am a lover, not a fighter. But it has come in handy.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:49 PM
61

Best advice I ever got was from my Tae Kwon Do instructor: when someone bothers, smile, think of all the ways you could kill him, and then go about your way.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:15 PM
1

Stoicism
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:47 AM
4

You make enough money to solve the problem while you are young. There are lots of solutions out there. You have your legal team prepare trusts, etc. in case you loose your mind. You should have like a chain of 5 legal firms in case some go out of business and the other legal firms can replace it with another. You need a process where at least 3 people/companies are legally on the hook to take care of you in any given area. 3 or more is the magic number, historically, 2 people can convince each o…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 07:08 PM
5

You will have better results if you focus on a niche that works for you, hb9-10 that are cheerleaders, groupies, models, lawyers, nurses, xor nannies. For your chosen niche that matches your chosen lifestyle, what are those women into? The best place to meet them? Insert yourself into that market. Do not chase them or act like every other johnson. Approach, talk, leave. Wait for them to approach you the next time. You want to be 80% of what they are looking for and 20% mysterious / different. Ha…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:42 PM
2

In person, always, else you get the follow up “closure” ambush with her later. You sound young, so say something like “I do not see a future with us. I know you will find someone who will be your future.” Then leave as soon as possible. No need to linger or respond to her questions or promises to change to make it work. If you can’t pull this off, tell her its something she cannot change, like “I recently discvoered I have a fetish for women that are 6’5” or 4’5”. My mother told me that the only…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:07 PM
3

In general, you have similar resources to everyone else in your socio-enconomic strata. How you manage your resources and your time will allow to either achieve your goals or not. If you are serious about your goals, you will find a way. An extreme example, if someone hurt my children, even though they are in their 20s and 30s, there is nothing on earth that could stop me from getting revenge. If the bad guy was in the middle of the Kremlin with a million gaurds, I would find a way to get him. I…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:55 PM
3

Ask her how she feels about Polygamy. Ask her if having sister wives would help. For example, one sister wife could do the cooking for example and take care of the kids while she is at work. One short 5 minute conversation, don’t drone on about it. If she aint cooking in a month, evict her.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:19 PM
5

Always learning, context changes over time which also changes your actions. My approach when I was in my teens would not work on women in their 50s, etc. Fewer surprises with experience. You put up with less. Women become less of a focus in your life. You might spend the same amount of time on them, but you are fine tuning things instead of trying to figure stuff out. For example, I am more concerned right now in learning more about Commodity Options than anything related to women.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:14 PM
7

Yes. I’ve had side girls that were into just being the side girl. One liked to give me a cat bath with her tongue immediately after my girl friend left.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:43 PM
1

My guess is she is banging every night when she travels at least. I was a full time travel consultant and saw this happen all the time. I never cheated on my wife, but my co-workers went to town all the time. Most had “locals” on long term contracts in a particular town. You are kidding yourself with location tracking on her phone. Cheating 101, buy a burner and leave your phone in the hotel room/office/locker at gym/etc. Another guess, if you try to prorate your expenses based on income, she wi…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:02 PM
1

Devout girls / women are the wildest ones that I was ever with. Even dating, she should be all over you. She knows you need a release. The bible is full of examples, take King David or Solomon. If she ain’t all over you while dating, offering hand jobs, blow jobs, or anal, she aint going to make a good wife, sexually.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 07:11 PM
2

I ask the guy if he is right or left handed. He says, right, why? I say, if you touch my woman again, I am going to break your arm, but I don’t want you to miss any work.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 07:03 PM
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Fuck his girl or tell her he is fucking some gym bimbo on the side. If he doesn’t have a girl, order him a male stripper or escort to show up at the gym. Have a gym accident like dropping a 45 lb plate on his foot. Put laxative in his protien shake. Have a gym bimbo you know lure him somewhere for a date off campus and kick his ass there. I am old school, you take crap from some people, everyone thinks they can crap on you.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:30 AM
6

Thanks for posting, I am no longer worried about Germany taking over the world again. I will sleep better knowing the German youth sit around wandering if their future wife should be sleeping with another guy while taking Molly? Seriously though, do you have some older men around that you can get as a mentor? My family would have slapped me across the face if I ever got into a situation like that. If she has anything in your flat, I would burn it just to kill the diseases.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 11:18 AM
1

Walk backwards with your hands up in the interview situation. If he comes at you, put him on the ground softly. I always try the belt buckle and finger in the dip in the collar bone first. Words are useless, sometimes they cannot hear you in a loud bar, drunk, or on drugs, Trying to physically leave, puts you in a better legal situation.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 04:59 AM
2

I read several Penthouse letters that started like this.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 06:08 AM
1

You need OPSEC. How does your mother know where you work? Who told her? You need to eliminate any loose ends that communicate anything to your mother. You need to scrub any internet / social media leaks. You should also let HR know your situation ahead of time. I would also get a restraing order from the local court in the US. Not that a piece of paper is going to change anything, but it would be better to have it when you tell this story to HR, the police, or loved ones. It makes it more believ…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 04:00 PM
1

If you are staying at a hotel, go to the Concierge when you get there, tell them the stuff you like to do (outdoorsy vs. museums, etc.), and let them plan / book stuff for you. You can also just walk into a nice hotel and do this if you are staying with her family or a cheap hotel. Tip them. They also get kick-backs from the venues, etc. I have found this to be the best and easiest option. I have traveled on 5 continents and about 75 countries. I have a deep Southern accent, so even in countries…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:50 PM
3

Get a better friend, or confront. After a couple of warnings, escalate to putting a submission hold on him every time he crosses your boundaries. Guys usually learn fairly quick.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:42 PM
3

Only concentual punishment
/r/askTRP25/07/19 01:09 PM
8

Use the 80/20 rule and your process. Keep metrics, note succes and failure, and adjust process. Let’s say you have an 80% success rate on a 4 step process at each step: asking for date, 1st date, 2nd date, and 3rd date with lay. Let’s also say you need a week to go on 3 dates. Your target is 9. 3rd Date: 9 is 80% of 11 2nd Date: 11 is 80% of 14 1st Date: 14 is 80% of 18 Ask out: 18 is 80% of 23 So, with this simple model you need to ask out 23 girls by Christmas. Your results will vary. Maybe 90…
/r/seduction25/07/19 04:45 AM
5

I use a bambo cane
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:13 AM
0

It’s a good book to meet the right women for you. It is not a book to pick-up women. It’s great life advice. If you are just looking for easy one night stands, I hear hanging out at a meth house is the way to go ;-)
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:38 PM
3

Ask her what her fantasies are. Most women have model, stripper, role playing, lesbian, and/or tied down fantasies. I sent my wife a cosmos article that a women wrote about all the things she did to spice up her marriage. This list included swinging, FFM, MMF, etc. I sent the article to my wife and asked her which ones she wanted to try. I was shocked at the things she sent back. Nothing involving other people, but CNC (rape play) and some other things. You never know until you try. Also, I alwa…
/r/askMRP19/07/19 12:53 AM
6

I liked taking my wife to them and having the girls give her a lap dance. Was not thinking about Dread, but just having agood time. Helped her with strip moves back in our bedroom. A little bit of money has paid off in the last 10 years in our bedroom.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 12:35 AM
2

My bad, Mark Manson: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00C93Q5KK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_d_asin_title_o01aud_?ie=UTF8&psc=1
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:34 PM
4

You should be yourself around everyone, I act no different around women, the janitor, or c-level executives. It has really help my career. My mom taught me this as a toddler. I suppose you could take a situation with group b and think what would I do around group a? Then do that. I do this with my clients. When they do something stupid that I would normally call someone a dumbass in my personal life, I call my client a dumbass. I makes my partners really nervous with 7 figure contracts on the li…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:26 PM
1

Move for financial gains and tax advantages, not for women. Make enough money, and you can travel all over whenever you want to. I have several friends that do this. Some just go for sex and come back. Others lease a 18 y/o models for 7 years via marriage until they get their citizenship. Then they divorce, go back, and get another one. They are 50ish now and the girls are still 18.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:04 PM
2

If it helps, he probably has 5 other plates and she does not have a clue. You are better off now, then having to go through this while losing half or your assets. Nothing cures heartbreak like new girls.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:59 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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