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Cold-Reach-7498/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 12:23 AM
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Could i message you?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 09:55 AM
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Nice AI response. Maybe next time you get on Reddit to troll and shame people use your own words. He didn’t “wake up”, he walked away from a relationship that challenged him to grow as a person. I hope your incel logic of women performing purity and avoiding joy or humor takes you and my ex far. And no, I won’t “take accountability” for something traumatic that happened to me. Maybe men should start to take accountability for the staggering sexual assault and rape statistics rather than constant…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/25 01:33 PM
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My 4 year relationship just ended because of something very similar to this. Feel free to read my post and message me if you want to support each other. I’m so sorry
/r/ExRedPill01/04/25 10:46 PM
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Why, though? If someone had a lot of sex, say in their early 20s, but they are now 35 and have only had a couple partners over the past couple years how does that have anything to do with the relationship? People should not be expected to live lives of purity to “prepare” themselves for their future partner. How do they know who their future partner is, until they have gone through other partners? Why does sex say something negative about them? My femininity now has nothing to do with anything I…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/25 03:25 PM
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Being wise doesn’t prevent people from lying to you. Nor does basing your entire bond/future with someone on their sexual past. If that’s a major contender for you in whether or not you’re with a person then you should not date until you’ve resolved that. Sex is not inherently bad or something to be ashamed of. Only those with internalized shame, jealousy and often times misogyny, are worried about how many people their partner has been with. Why does it matter- genuinely? I can understand feeli…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 08:01 PM
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His insecure masculinity was never my problem to fix. It could’ve worked out for us if he fixed his own insecurities, fears and shame. That was what ended the relationship, his reaction to my assault which came as a direct result of his fucked up inner world. Not the assault itself. It’s a flawed mindset because if I had never told him, the relationship would’ve continued as normal and we probably would’ve gotten married and had a life together. He would’ve been none the wiser. Same way he can g…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 07:36 PM
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I mean.. not often really. Of course I vented to him from time to time but I never required much emotionally. He vented to me too but we never lingered on the topic. As far as protecting me I think he would have been honored to do so. Not every relationship fits into the standards you describe. His masculinity, if it were secure, would have been inclined to support, trust and believe his girlfriend rather than the opposite. I did my best to nurture his healthy masculinity in our relationship and…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 06:45 PM
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Also- it wouldn’t have even mattered if I was able to “prove” the assault was real, or that I somehow made a mistake leading up to it. He told me the amount of men I’d been with was “really starting to gross him out whether I called it ‘assault’ or not” in his exact words Not only did he not believe me that I was assaulted, but he also was simply grossed out by the fact that it happened. He did not want to imagine me “sucking off 4 guys in one day” as he put it. That’s his own sexual shame and i…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 12:47 PM
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You would think that when you love someone and plan to marry them, you wouldn’t hold a belief so strong that could split you apart over something like this. He’s free to think however he wants, but that doesn’t mean it’s just or fair. There’s an undercurrent of victim blaming no matter how you spin it. I understand what you’re trying to say, but I guess I was hoping the man I loved would have more grace and empathy for me rather than calling my assault a lie then saying it was disgusting and a l…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 12:39 PM
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I did mention details. I’m not going to write out the entire story on Reddit. I don’t think anything was going to change his mind. I tried to talk to him about it, and he was completely set in his opinion and uninterested in hearing anything else I had to say. I also don’t think I should have to prove to a partner why I was partially at fault, nor do I think something from 11 years ago when I was a child should be held over my head during a long-term relationship. I also think it goes without sa…
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 10:57 AM
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It’s incredibly ironic because he’s been with more people than I have but he views my assault as some kind of trashy group sex I decided to participate in
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 04:09 AM
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Thank you so much for your kind words, advice, and recommendations. I have seen that book by lundy bancroft before, I’ll have to order it.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/25 04:07 AM
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We’re broken up now and no longer in contact. At this point, I’m not going to ask him any more questions because he doesn’t even know what’s going on truthfully. He would probably get annoyed with me for even asking. I don’t know whether or not I can call him a good person or a bad person. I guess it’s not on me to make that judgment but the things he said to me, make me lean more towards the bad. I’m sure that the guy I knew for 4 years is still in there somewhere & it is incredibly sad that he…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 09:30 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 09:24 AM
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Agreed and that’s the thing that is really making this so hard for me because I didn’t understand why he was basically treating me like a stranger, like our close bond didn’t matter or hadn’t made any kind of impact on him in the way of feeling secure in our relationship, because I never did anything to him that would have broken his trust. He decided I was untrustworthy with no evidence to back it up. You would think that all of our time together means something, but he told me “I don’t know wh…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 09:23 AM
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I hope not, but at this point I don’t think anything is off the table :( I could never picture him doing that, but I’ll never know
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 09:20 AM
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That’s really what it is. He’s been radicalized and it’s so sad. Thank you
/r/ExRedPill29/03/25 12:31 AM
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