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| 1 | Wholesome❤️My grandparents, especially my grandmother, did this to my father when my mom divorced him for being abusive. They also helped my mom and helped raise us, my maternal grandma was a terrible parent and my paternal grandma became like the mother figure my mom always wanted. Grandma passed away in 2010 from cancer and I miss her all the time and am so thankful for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:18 AM |
| 10 | Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it.A lot of men complain that makeup is "false advertising" when I notice all my friends look just as pretty without makeup as with it on, if anything it helps them look more polished but that's it, I wouldn't consider any of them ugly without it by far. Yet that is a common thing men say Take a guy's nice, groomed beard off however..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Seriously, what a QueenYour body, your choice. Not your husband's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?I thought this too but then I met my new guy and I can't get enough of him! He's not a "Chad" like TRP thinks women only go after, but he has great hygiene & perfect teeth, grooms himself & dresses nice. On top of that he's a sweetheart & has provider mentality. My sex drive for someone else has never been higher, I can't keep my hands off him. Having sex with ugly smelly broke scrotes on their floor mattress takes away the beautiful experience in an orgasm lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:42 PM |
| 112 | Saw a surprising amount of HVM in the wild under a facebook article today. Happy Friday ☀️This reminds me of another post I saw, on an article where someone was voted the "most beautiful female face of 2020" and a comment by a man named Richard below was, "she is attractive, but not as beautiful as my wife, who is 66 and just getting her pension" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:57 AM |
| 6 | It’s Hilarious How Many Men Are Triggered By This Amazing Song (Ugh I Love Doja)Whenever a male says shit about Megan Thee Stallion or Cardi or whatever, I ask him since he listens to male rappers is he gay? Because he'll happily listen to a guy rap about his dick and sex life but he's grossed out about women rapping about theirs. "Sounds pretty gay to me." They get so flustered bc internalized homophobia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Potent.Not just being the best versions of ourselves but protecting ourselves best we can from ending up exploited or as another statistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Why Does He Do That? Answer: Because he canI honestly believe that feminists have done as much as we can on our part. The rest of getting to true equality/equity is on men to speak up for us and actively work to change things. And I don't think they ever will. If marriage & birth rates fell I genuinely believe they would rather enslave us then treat us as true equals. The future seems very bleak, I hope I'm wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 08:29 AM |
| 6 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.What's funny is I prefer big dicks and tall men but my fiancé is 6 inches and 5'8". 🤷🏻♀️ Preferences aren't always deal breakers. But the scrotes can't comprehend that and take everything as a personal attack. Funny they will scream "no body shaming" when it comes to dick size but won't hesitate to say a woman's boobs are too small or she's too fat etc to her face or behind her back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Women are getting it now. Slowly but surely.Asking why we gave it up is like asking why did slaves choose to work in the fields. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Imposed ideas of femininity harm and oppress women - Change my mind. 🥰Ideally I'm sure many women nowadays would love to be a "traditional wife." Absolutely no sex before marriage, expensive ring (at least 4 months salary worth) when you propose, and be sure to do that within at least 2 years or so because other equally qualified men will be courting her too. Pay for a house or build one yourself from scratch, pay for all the bills and childcare and everything and allot her money from your salary for her savings and makeup/clothes/skincare/haircare/nails etc to up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 25 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?Grosssss!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 7 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?He says he likes it when I wear whatever is comfy because it makes him happy that I can feel comfortable around him. :) Sometimes I wear coordinated lounge wear in case I need to run errands during the day, I also feel better about myself doing this sometimes (it's like making your bed in the morning, just gives me the good brain feelings). Most of the time I just wear pj/sweat pants and a graphic tee or tank top. I find most underwear uncomfortable so I don't really wear it unless I'm going out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:48 PM |
| 5 | If your man isn't supporting your hobbies, it's time to move him along and replace him with a woodworking shop that does.Oh my goshh this is so sweet!! I'm into costuming and renaissance faires, a lot of people have found it weird but my dude has sewn pieces into my wigs, made a whole lighting setup for me to get good photos of my costumes, helped find new events going on in the area, gone out to eat with me after events while I'm in a full on medieval elf costume, etc. It's so nice compared to my other partners who just seemed embarrassed of it. I always say don't just date someone who tolerates xyz passion, date… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 9 | And that’s the 🍵👀https://changehim.com/the-friends-with-benefits-myth/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:24 PM |
| 6 | This guy gets it.I love Fleeksie she is one of my favorite tiktokers, even if I don't agree with her on everything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:20 PM |
| 9 | Most men have bad taste. Don't lose yourself or your uniqueness trying to conform to it Chances are, the male gaze is not your aesthetic.If it makes you feel hopeful my fiancé doesn't mind that the whole house is pink (and other pastels) lol. He gets his office/work space to decorate how he pleases but says the pink and "happy colors" make the house look more lively and cheerful. :) He's even been surprising me with new pastel stuff to replace the old things. Some men have good taste! :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 18 | LVM have always and will always diminish powerful women. Continue being powerful, Queens 👑If women could really fuck their way to the top, there would be a lot more women at the top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:55 AM |
| 115 | Too many men think they’re above jobs in the sex industry to make ends meet and let their prejudices hold them backWhen I see a comment or whatever of someone saying women live life on "easy mode," I tell them I know lots of men with successful OnlyFans, and male strippers that make a lot of money. I say, "it's 2021 now, you guys can do it too, go live your dream bro!" Then suddenly they get all quiet 😂 The 2nd image is SO true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 135 | It's okay if you make a mistake. Growth isn't linear.I believe there's a lot of women here who are still in relationships with LVM for a multitude of reasons, or act somewhat differently than what is preached, or disagree with some parts of the handbook. None of us are perfect or share the exact same values and patriarchy is a big battle we've all been fighting since birth. What's important is that we're all here and learning, and have this resource and community to fall back on. We are better united. You are trying to change against a system that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:29 PM |
| 3 | posted by a large account on instagram. everything in this is bad but the phrase "bad little girl" gives me major pedo vibes. i hate that this is so normalized.Lol I could go for the second half with my fiancé any day but the first part, no thanks wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Some important changes in the prosecution of rape cases made in NSW, Australia yesterday. This makes me feel so hopeful, and proud of the progress being made in Australia. I hope these laws can be an example for law makers around the world and more widely adopted.If false rape accusations ruin men's lives then how come a man with 25 of them was president. 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 71 | Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls.Their reproduction rates are at an all time low, which is totally shocking.... Not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 69 | Men were not socialized the same way you were. Keep that in mind when you listen to them talk about women.I feel like every traditional negative stereotype about women is just men projecting. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 3 | But we know that will never happenYup. And imagine if men were the ones who got periods. They'd gloat about how it was so manly they bleed for a week straight, how tough they are for dealing with the cramping, how PMS emotions make them feel so strong 😂🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:43 PM |
| 6 | In a world full of disappointing pickmeishas, I’m thankful for creators like her. Been watching her journey since law school and I love how open she is about having high standards on tiktok, a platform where that isn’t usually welcomed.I had a friend (not anymore because it wasn't healthy to keep her around in my life) who's LVM would drop her off at the restaurant she worked, then he drove to see his ex, and bought gifts for her with her money. Then he'd leave, pick her up, when they got home she'd hand him her money from working and get to cleaning the house and making dinner for them. When he finally got a job he called her job shitty (even though she'd been supporting them for 2+ years) and called HER a gold digger who wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 43 | No quarter for coomersOne time I went down on a boyfriend and shortly after I started he pulled out his phone and held it blocking my face, opened pornhub and started watching something. He couldn't understand why I got so offended. Ex now, thankfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 28 | Our culture teaches men that it isn’t romantic to ask for permissionI think it's more of a symptom of male entitlement than a cause, or maybe one feeds into the other and vice versa. Either way it's a lie. Two times I've ever had men ask me if they could kiss me (one being my current fiancé) and when they did it made me melt inside. It was incredibly romantic for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 12 | Stay away from deadbeat dads even if your child freeThere was one thread on fb arguing that men should be able to not pay child support by "completely signing off their rights as a parent and not be involved" (nevermind the fact they can and have done that for centuries) and I just. Child support exists for the child because regardless of who wants a kid or not, they're in the world now and deserve to be supported financially (at the minimum). I could not just abandon my child and NOT provide for them at LEAST financially with no guilt. But I gue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:00 AM |
| 77 | FDS is anti-redpill. We protect women from abusive men, including redpillers. Saying that FDS is "redpill for women" is literally victim blaming.Does it scare anyone else how redpill language is becoming so mainstream? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:56 PM |
| 11 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantLmao pathetic. When I hear guys say this I say back, "oh yeah? I'm a girth girl myself" and ask all the surrounding women if they're a length or girth gal. I saw it in a meme but it really does make them shut the fuck up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantI truly think they will enslave us or allow the human race to die out before they do this. Or they'll be rendered completely unnecessary by technology advancement. I hope I'm wrong but I really think one of those 3 outcomes is where we're headed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 32 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantDon't forget the #1 cause of pregnant women dying is homicide and abusive men show their true colors during/after pregnancy and marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:55 PM |
| 20 | Nobody in the comments section pointed out the obvious, which is that he wants to f*ck this woman if he hasn't alreadyMy loser ex (surprise, also age gap) bought a $100 meaningful gift for "just a friend." To be fair they WERE childhood friends so I let it slide. Then one day I found out he texting her flirting, calling her the one that got away, and laughing at how I felt "threatened" by their friendship (fyi I'd only brought it up once). Dumped him and now I have an amazing HVM who treats me as his #1. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:14 AM |
| 3 | I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’yup, my ex let me use his iPad while he was at work to watch youtube videos and a text from another woman popped up that seemed weird, so I opened the conversation and found them flirting, exchanging nudes & he was talking shit about me, he also had bought her a $100 gift. I texted him that I was leaving & he left work and cried to me about how it was a dumb mistake, he was sO sCaReD that I'd leave and he'd never see me again, etc. My dumb ass stayed with him 🤡 but I told him I needed space, nex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 14 | Mother’s Day PSAyup, same with Valentine's Day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Dear Scrotes: HVM does not mean a rich chad.Before I turned off DM's, I got a huge message in my inbox from a scrote whining that because he wasn't a doctor and couldn't afford $200 dates he would be single forever. LOL if there are pickmes willing to go 50/50 or happily pay for you to leech off her, and you're still single, then maybe women aren't the issue 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:22 PM |
| 3 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’I made a post about this not too long ago. I'd love to be a parent, but after a cost benefit analysis it seems like a horrible choice. I wish I could be a father honestly. You do the absolute bare minimum and are praised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:15 PM |
| 37 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩The US also has archaic laws, in Florida a girl as young as 11 can be married off to an older man. The point I'm making is horrible pedophile men transcend every type of country, culture & race. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | FROM THE HORSE'S MOUTH: Why we don't ask men outYup they screech if you wear any eyeshadows with color LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Let’s Discuss How Sex Workers Can Support Civilian WomenI don't support prostitution but come on. Why are we blaming exploited women for the actions of men? A lot of these men would and do cheat on their wives/gf's whether they pay for it or not. Most sex workers (the ones who need to support their kids or pay their bills) do not have the luxury to turn down clients or regulars who are otherwise safe to service (who will simply run to another prostitute anyways), they need the money more than they need to police another man's morals. Also why are we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Beauty Standards Are Bullshit by Karolina Zebrowska. A look into historical beauty standards and how 'beauty standards' are all...well...bullshit.I can't watch the video right now but womens beauty standards is just what is the most unattainable, if you think about it. Back before grocery stores and supermarkets, when we had to hunt & gather & treat our own food, being full figured was the beauty standard. (Look at depictions of goddesses that represented beauty & fertility, from the Stone Age Venus figurine all the way to Birth of Venus in the Renaissance era, statues of Aphrodite, another one, etc) Safe food wasn't easy to procure. Havi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 4 | LVM and their "advice" to young girlsLiterally with every other medical procedure you are told all the risks that may happen and are given a paper that you have to read through and sign a waiver. Even if you are horribly sick/injured, unless you are literally unconscious and unable to make that decision yourself, you are given informed consent & allowed to deny the procedure. Why isn't it the same with pregnancy & childbirth? Nobody talks about the horrible details and death risk & led on to make an informed decision.... ohh right … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 152 | w0MeN aREn'T viSUaLI remember watching a documentary about the making of Disney's Tangled, and when creating Flynn Rider they wanted him to be the most attractive love interest Disney had created yet, so they held a "hot man meeting" where they asked every female employee to be very specific about their ideal "hot man" and all the male employees got very offended 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 163 | FROM THE HORSE'S MOUTH: Why we don't ask men outIf there's anything I've learned from working with men it's that they don't know what they want 😂 In addition to this post I'll add some other contradictions I've witnessed "I don't like makeup" = He likes, at the minimum; foundation/concealer, mascara/fake eyelashes, eyebrow pomade/pencil, blush, light contour, brown eyeshadow, and lip gloss. "I don't like plastic surgery, I prefer natural" = He likes plastic surgery that isn't botched. Most of them genuinely think huge pornstar tits are real, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 3 | wage gap isn't realThis and this (along with all their other related articles) may be helpful to you. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 04:30 AM |
| 48 | Black women and weaponsThey literally live by Bro Code so valiantly that they are willing to plug their ears in to support a system where their mothers, sisters, daughters, partners, have to live in a world that endangers us every single day. 3 women dead by their partners a day, every woman is sexually harassed or assaulted at some point in their lives, but they will defend rapist bros they don't even know over their own family. A small part of me admires the loyalty but most of me is just disgusted constantly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 08:20 AM |
| 4 | You ever feel like the women who are happy with their men are kind of just...dumb?So my mom's boyfriend's mother was like this. Pos husband & all sons that took after him. Turns out she's high. Like literally 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Nothing but truth was spoken.She's 21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 47 | Nothing but truth was spoken.She LITERALLY photoshops herself to look slim & flat chested, lies about/uses angles to make herself appear short when she's 5'6", wears fake braces, & wears literal childrens clothing. Like how delusional can they be. It's one thing to "look" young, it's another to intentionally market yourself to appeal to pedos. jfc. Without makeup she looks her actual age | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 8 | Say this louder!This is so catty and counterproductive. For most people makeup is a hobby lol. It's not that deep. I mostly do it for cosplay, theatre, renaissance faires & play around with unconventional looks, I also go bare faced outside 90% of the time so your point of me doing it just to follow trends or do it for men is invalid. (Not to mention I have a man, who prefers me without makeup) The idea we do our makeup simply to pander to men is outdated. No man would be told he does anything traditionally mal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Hint; this is done on purpose. It's not that men/grown boys can't aim, it's an assertion of dominance over women.I read somewhere that in the case of homeless people, men will pee in random areas & women won't & it's definitely related to dominance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Say this louder!I don't do makeup for the male gaze. While I am aware that it CAN be done for that reason (& nobody should have to), & I acknowledge that, I do it for me, to raise my own confidence, and because it's a form of self expression. I am not spending hundreds on limited edition makeup (I collect) & nice products just for men (most of which nowadays don't like it anyways). It's literally painting, just on your face. Makeup skills can take years & years to perfect just like any other form of art. Makeup… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Say this louder!On Tiktok, you can use other people's sound (which is labelled in the app), and when you tap the sound, it takes you to the original creator's video. So all videos where they use the creator's sound is credited by default. They definitely need to fix this issue for people sharing videos outside of the app, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I don't defend men or their plights on social media at allEven if he is upset about it like... deal with it like the rest of us. Go to therapy. Read a book, get a pet, take your mind off it. That's what we are expected to do (the ones actually experiencing the loss & going through the medical procedure) but why do they have to be coddled? Men are such babies lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 7 | I don't defend men or their plights on social media at allI should have mentioned in my original post that this was before I knew what Johnny Depp did to her & was found guilty of 14 counts of abuse. My bad, I will edit my OP. I only recently learned about that side of the story a few weeks ago & was disappointed but not surprised that the man isn't the innocent angel the media makes him out to be. Also ever since I've brought this point up in comments regarding this topic since then I've been vilified & told "achskully that's not true." So fucked but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:18 AM |
| 44 | Please google your name and “opt out” of these background check websites that make it easier for men to stalk you.One time I googled my name out of curiosity as well and discovered my full legal name being talked about in a Twitch chat archive. My ex was sharing my full name, social media pages, where I went to college, and other personal information with the chat. They were saying things like "I will find and r*pe her to be closer to you (my ex)." So fucking chilling. I had an anxiety attack. I emailed the admin of the site who were thankfully very helpful and able to remove it quickly, but it'd already be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 15 | Please google your name and “opt out” of these background check websites that make it easier for men to stalk you.https://www.netreputation.com/how-to-remove-your-name-from-background-checks/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Help me name my Venus fly trap something empowering and kickass.Lilith | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:15 PM |
| 14 | Stop mourning awful men dying.If the dead don't want to be disrespected in death, they shouldn't have been an asshat in life. 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | I was calling out Pickminique on why NOT to date guys with mental health issues, because I grew up with a man WITH serious mental health issues which seriously affect my own mental health (Note: she didn't like it)The problem isn't that men have mental health issues, it's that they don't get help for it & don't want to. Or use it as an excuse to hurt others around them. I've dated women with mental illness that genuinely tried to be the best they could despite it & were still empathetic of others. They are intentionally choosing to be this way. My mom used to say life is 20% what happens to you and 80% how you handle it. A good person is still good & will try to be so, despite their mental illness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 10 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️I'm a stripper. When people ask if i'm empowered, I just want to cringe. i've noticed most girls who start this for fun or to "empower" themselves, stop coming in after about a month or two. This is definitely NOT for everyone & the industry is ABSOLUTELY not free of criticism. I hate my nipples being touched now, because of so many men licking/pinching them without permission. I've had fingers in places where they shouldn't be, came on during dances, etc. Most strippers are on drugs or have dri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 39 | Yes, you’re cheap. Good for this queen for turning down this low effort “date”!And if they pay for a date most of them expect sex in exchange for it. What they are really looking for is budget prostitutes. Even street walkers charge more than $30 for full service. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 54 | Yes, you’re cheap. Good for this queen for turning down this low effort “date”!This comment is valid af but I personally expect a lavish dinner LOL. My skincare routine is $100, plus facials at salons because I have sensitive + acne-prone skin. My makeup collection is easily $250+. I box dye my hair + put in extensions myself so that's not too pricy there, but still an expense. Nails + pedi, outfit, etc. Add to that meeting with a strange man is a risk on its own that I have to prepare for (texting a friend to let them know when I'll be home, buying pepper spray). Now I do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 156 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingI saw this post the other day: "Whenever you start to miss your ex (or other toxic person you cut off), think of/write down 10 things you can do now, that you couldn't do while they were in your life." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 11 | Reproductive StrategyIf there's one thing I do appreciate about men, it's that they are extremely vocal & uncompromising about their boundaries & desires. Maybe this is due to their entitlement & how they were raised, but it's still true. If he wants you, you will know. If he wants something, you will know. There's no point in trying to guess if a man wants you or not. "If he wanted to, he would." I've started to take notes & be the same way. If the most mediocre of men can be so vocal about what they want & don't w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:40 AM |
| 5 | A reminder that porn ruined relationships and livesWhen the PornHub scandal happened, you wouldn't believe the amount of men whining in every discussion board. I can’t help but find humor in how they lost all the free porn they thought they were entitled to. Go on the PornHub subreddit to see grown ass men having an epic meltdown, LOL! One of the threads on there says, “Am I supposed to just use my imagination now?” LMAO! Funny thing is PH only removed videos where the creator wasn't verified so there were still millions of free videos on there,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:32 AM |
| 4 | A reminder that porn ruined relationships and livesCouldn't have said it better myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:27 AM |
| 22 | He's not gonna change sis. You can do better! You still have plenty of time for a HVM, but you're wasting your time with that scrote! Think a HVM is gonna waste his time with a taken woman? Nope! You're disrespecting yourself when you lower your standards! Level up. Dump him. Love yourself."If your boyfriend isn't working for you, leave him and find your husband." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 7 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.Most incel, pickup artist and right wing male icons have podcasts. What's the issue lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:38 PM |
| 69 | A reminder that porn ruined relationships and livesI just started laughing because this reminded me of this TIFU reddit post I saw, he was addicted to scat porn and watched it daily. Eventually he hired an escort to live out his fantasies and when she pooped in his mouth he was instantly repulsed. Like no shit!! (Pun intended) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 33 | Apparently the manosphere thinks that women are "sexually harassing" men by wearing makeup and revealing clothes. Female beauty is seen as aggression against men, which in their mind justifies male violence against women. I wonder if the Atlanta shooter spent any time on Reddit incel forums 🤔But when they stealth, (which is ACTUALLY rape by deception because you wouldn't have agreed to sex without a condom to begin with) they "don't understand" why it's such a big deal and you should just get over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 15 | Violence Against Women In Media Is EXHAUSTINGI've posted about this before, but you can use this website to see if a TV series, movie, or book contains sexual violence before viewing. Media is rated by a color system (green, yellow, red) and gives you a quick description of explicit scenes. If a work is missing you can add it or request it to be added. https://www.unconsentingmedia.org/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 31 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeAlso dating a LVM comes with FAR more dangers than dating a LVW. People like to conveniently forget that most women who die from homicide, die by their (ex) boyfriend/husband's hand. Men rape, harass, and assault the most. Women CAN have behaviors like these, but generally it's not something I have to worry about with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 22 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️This. Making prostitution completely illegal just pushes the industry further underground leading to more women harmed and unable to get help. They get pimped out/assaulted and can't call the police for help or they get arrested. (i'm not saying Backpage should still be up, that site was a cesspool as other commenters wrote) How they should do it is make it legal to provide but illegal to purchase. So only the john gets prosecuted, and if the sex worker gets hurt or needs help, she has access to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | 18 year old radfem standing up against sugar baby culture and the exploitation of minors. Proud of my generationI don't support the adult industry as a whole, (you can read my thoughts about it in my previous posts) I'm disabled and need to make a living. On most days where pain in my body flares up so bad I can't get out of bed, it was between adult industry (where I can choose when to work or not that day and work once a month and still make rent) or homelessness/poverty. Being in this industry only cemented my thoughts on the importance of following FDS. (Not only how men are, but that women have a lon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 22 | My journey w/ FDS that might be useful for women lurking here (idk if irrelevant but)I'm leftist af. Believe me I WISH we could live in a world where men would appreciate what we do & sexism wasn't real. That's a big issue with liberal feminism. As progressive as you want to be, there's only so much you can do against millions of years of sexual dimorphism evolution & statistics being the same for years & years time & time again. As a woman, once you realize how most men actually are & how they see things, you realize it's best to protect yourself. Someone made a really good pos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:51 AM |
| 49 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEA family member of mine works with cancer survivors and you wouldn't believe how many of their husbands cheat, divorce or turn abusive when they're sick with fucking cancer. Including husbands they'd been with for 30+ years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 12 | STOP PLAYING HOUSEI met my now fiancé almost 3 years ago, and we moved in together after a month. We're getting married this year (was supposed to be last year but CoVid happened and we want a decent sized family event), and he is amazing in every way, but looking back it was stupid and no way in hell would I recommend it to any woman nor repeat it, saying I lucked out would be an understatement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:26 AM |
| 117 | 💯Don't forget them crying with their feelings all hurt because it hurt him to know how much he hurt you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:18 AM |
| 24 | 18 year old radfem standing up against sugar baby culture and the exploitation of minors. Proud of my generationAs someone in the adult industry (I don't sugar), it's well known by vets to specifically avoid SA because as OP said, it's a prostitution site loaded with scammers who take advantage of newbies. Also you might get arrested by undercover cops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:15 AM |
| 5 | "Boys are way better friends than girls" - I've never met a woman who has said this that ended up being a good friend and wasn't a Pickmeisha.I used to be like that. My female friends have remembered my birthdays (& gotten me gifts/made plans), been passionate about our shared hobbies (we'd even do group workshops together pre Covid!), checked in on me when I wasn't okay, visited me in the hospital when I was there overnight, & much more. My guy friends would invite me over, offer me weed/alcohol, smoke right next to me instead of going outside, & try to fuck/extract nudes from me. I have 3 genuine male friendships that never overstep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:09 AM |
| 9 | Due to Tiktok being taken over by semi naked pickmeishas, I also won't be dating men that have a tiktok accountLmao I ordered a dress off etsy and reviewed it. I posted a photo. (I like supporting small women owned businesses & I know a picture review can speak a thousand words for potential customers) Got men hitting on my ETSY DM'S of all places. Jfc. Their depravity has no bounds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:02 AM |
| 15 | Man’s idea of clean is actually super messy. Avoid men who cannot take care of their living space, even when nobody else will see it. His home should be kept tidy regardless of whether a guest is coming over.Derailing a bit but as someone who was the same this helps sooo much https://www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:49 AM |
| 6 | MAXIUM FEMALE BENEFIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPSThanks for this. I've had a similar situation. A LVF messaged me out of the blue. She manipulated me, put me down at every moment, put me in uncomfortable situations, etc. When we grew apart, she started bullying & spreading rumors. She even bullied my sister to the point where she had to drop out. Well she reached out to me & send a long ass apology (mostly filled with excuses) & that she was attending intensive therapy. Funny thing though my sister who got the worse of the bullying never recei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:38 AM |
| 29 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?I will absolute gatekeep sex. If you want it, you have to work for it, prove you are worthy, & prove that you won't be detrimental to my wellbeing. Works for nearly every other species as a law of nature but most humans got it ass backwards somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:21 AM |
| 35 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!Even then, you traded your company/time, seems fair enough to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?I'm with you there. I adore kids when they're not mine, LOL. I have all the respect in the world for moms, especially single moms! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:18 PM |
| 6 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?I love this. Thank you for this comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:55 AM |
| 27 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?Same here. But honestly, I'd rather regret not having kids than regret having them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:50 AM |
| 26 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?I love this! I don't think motherhood is horrible overall. My sister struggles, but I can tell she loves being a mom, even if it's rough. In fact it seems like she's found herself with her kid, she totally changed in the best way, her standards for the company she kept skyrocketed, and there is this light/glow in her soul that wasn't there before her daughter came along. I didn't mean to create a misogynist statement, I just meant in a misogynist culture where women are expected to have kids ear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:38 AM |
| 108 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?I feel this too. Not to mention most men just do not deserve their genetic material to be passed on, period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:24 PM |
| 75 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?This is where I'm at too. I'd also be terrified for the kid. If I had a son and he turned out to be a LVM/rapist/awful person, I would be disappointed in myself. If I had a daughter, there is only so much I can do to protect her in a world where 1 in 6 women are raped. There are things I could do to guide them but ultimately they would form their own opinions, & things would happen that were out of my (or my kid's) control. We truly live in a fallen world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 20 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?That's a good point! I think adoption here is the sweet spot for me personally, but I also have trypophobia. :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:11 PM |
| 24 | Modern relationships in a nutshellhttps://www.vice.com/en/article/4xkzxq/as-rental-prices-rise-women-stay-in-bad-relationships-to-survive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:12 PM |
| 23 | Plastic surgery and the paradox of datingThis along with porn and FaceTune/Photoshop men have forgotten what real female bodies look like. I work in the adult entertainment industry. They literally think that huge fake breasts/pornstars breasts are natural. They genuinely cannot tell most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 33 | Remember: in nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It's time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly.Yup. Up until marriage was invented (and even up until about the mid 20th century) men who couldn't provide or prove himself suitable did not have access to women. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 16 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!That's true but even broke men will use your money to pretend they're splurging on you, "treat" you to taco bell, and get insecure when you make more money than them. Also beg to move in with you when they need a place to stay or a maid to pick up after them, etc. But i'm sorry you went through all that. *hugs* Now you have FDS to help you know better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.LOL scrotes gonna scrote. My fiancé likes FDS, why? Because he's a HVM. If you're really a good man, FDS teachings only benefits you. Only scrotes would get mad at FDS because it calls them out on their bullshit. Die mad, scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Women vs menI'm like this too. It's great. In situations where people would always blame the woman first (like a man cheating on his wife), I instantly blame the man first and people are flabbergasted. I'm following the exact same logic they are just genders reversed. They still don't see it. It's hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 10 | Women vs menYup. Think about it. All the earliest religions worshipped women or women-looking deities. For our ability to create, grow, and bear life. Then interestingly, they invented a male God (or male gods), who created man first and foremost, then told him he was in charge of everything that roams the earth, including his "helpmate" who also interestingly, crawled out of his ribs instead of him crawling out of our vaginas. 🤔 We are (generally- there are always exceptions) smarter, better looking, and l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 28 | "A Medieval Device for a Medieval Act" [Truly sad it got to the point of a Queen inventing this though] OldieButGoodieI know this is history but it saddens me so much how women have always been treated. Disposable. Nothing but broodmares. Men are lucky we want equality and not revenge. Even then they just whine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 5 | YupYou're missing the point of this post. There's nothing wrong with this when the male is actually pulling his weight. Most of the time they don't. Women have been used for their free labor for thousands of years. I'm glad you have never had to deal with a dude like OP is talking about. I love cooking for my SO, it brings me happiness to see him eat the food I make, he doesn't expect me to cook every single night or be his personal chef or tailor every dish to his tastes. I love having sex with my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 28 | The vibes of liberal men towards me since I started with FDSLiberal men are only liberal when it benefits their dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 07:35 PM |
| 38 | Women are constantly bombarded by marketing and advertising, from a very young age, and how that reduces women's sense of self, how both marketers and men viciously try to make women feel unhappy and inadequate.This is why men should absolutely be providers, it's more expensive to be a woman, aside from the pink tax which charges more for slapping a pink handle on a razor, there's more shit we are expected to buy just to live, we are expected to keep better hygiene & looks up or we suffer socially, (pretty privilege's being a thing & hitting harder if you're a woman) not to mention the wage gap and expectation of domestic duties is STILL a thing with us. The LEAST they can do is pay all our bills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 8 | Say no to easy men 👀Yeah it depends for me, I've seen the "harem of pick mes" situation, but if a guy has NO female friends that's also a red flag for me. It screams to me that he befriends women only for the possibility of sex/hookups/validation and doesn't see us as actual people (objectifying). My partner has a few female friends he games with regularly (one being an ex) and they're all really respectful of our relationship and I've never gotten weird vibes or had a reason to distrust any of it. Definitely a cas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenThis!! Thank you!! I feel like people are missing the point of this meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:53 AM |
| 5 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenThis was the original meaning but I've seen scrotes/LVM using it as a derogatory term towards HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:52 AM |
| 5 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenSo it started as a word for the "neckbeard nice guys" who are desperate, insecure losers. But it evolved to mean any man who treats a woman with basic respect or courts her properly. It has different meanings depending on who's using it, I'm guessing your sister is using it in the context of the OP meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 11:51 AM |
| 29 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenI'm not condoning the use of the word at all, in fact, I despise it alongside many other terms like thot, gold digger etc. I just thought that status that was posted was cool because; when IS that word used? Scrotes who call other men "simps" are the ones who are treating her girlfriends like shit as described. The original poster was pointing that out, "simp" nowadays just means a man with basic respect for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:14 PM |
| 35 | simp = guy with basic respect for womenIt started that way, but then those types of guys now use the term "simp" to insult any man who properly courts/takes care of a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 5 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulIf something ever happened with my current partner & I, this would be my ideal situation. If we broke up I wouldn't want to commit to a man ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:46 AM |
| 7 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulyes I agree 100% with this comment, you worded it better than I ever could have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:44 AM |
| 58 | More and more women are starting to catch on. This is hopefulYes!! I may be in the minority here, but I think engaging in NSA sex is fine if you want to. I think something a lot of radfeminists look over is that women do enjoy sex too and that's fine, just have high standards for any man you engage with. I stopped giving men free attention a long time ago unless it benefit me personally. If I felt like engaging in NSA sex, I would still vet them, have them take me out for dinner, & court me. I can't orgasm from sex unless I feel safe and taken care of any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Are you tired of being surprised by rape scenes and movies and TV shows? This website allows women to check if there is rape or other sexual violence in a movie before watching!Books are included in the database! Search by the title, you can add/request one if it's missing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:55 AM |
| 18 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.I'd drain as many rich men's bank accounts as possible and give it all to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:37 AM |
| 33 | Are you tired of being surprised by rape scenes and movies and TV shows? This website allows women to check if there is rape or other sexual violence in a movie before watching!You also wouldn't believe the amount of men that think the only form of rape is extremely violent where the victim is screaming and thrashing and fighting back. Rape where someone freezes up and has no idea how to react, rape where someone is pressured/guilted/manipulated into a yes, reluctant consent, incest, large age gaps, rape where consent is withdrawn but they keep going anyways, rape where someone was unable to give consent to begin with, rape where a husband forces himself onto his wife,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:14 AM |
| 61 | Are you tired of being surprised by rape scenes and movies and TV shows? This website allows women to check if there is rape or other sexual violence in a movie before watching!In their "fantasy" worlds it is always only the women who are raped, enslaved, degraded, and seen as beneath men because that is a man's fantasy world. Same reason why they are mostly white actors and if there's any POC or black roles, it's for the nonhuman, usually "lesser" and also enslaved races like elves. Poc and black people do not exist in a white man's perfect "fantasy" world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Sexual Violence on Television is ProblematicSpeaking of female leads, an example of sexual abuse as a plot device done well is Jenny from Forrest Gump. Explanation here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/18lvwe/who_is_the_most_misunderstood_character_in_all_of/c8g4njy/ Of course scrotes write her off as someone who used Forrest his whole life and "married him to leave him with an AIDS baby after she died." First of all, that was HIS kid she raised without help for years and was she supposed to just let him go to a foster home lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??wholesome reply! haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 09:53 AM |
| 6 | Take my word for it, because I couldn't take your's...I love it haha. Reminds me of the "men are so confused about their current market value" thing going around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Sexual Violence on Television is ProblematicYeah, this and it needs to contribute to the plot somehow, but either way I think it's cheap writing when every female lead's terrible, dark secret is either rape/sexual abuse or infertility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 58 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??They are so narcissistic and proud of their past "sexual conquests" they can't help but tell them how their sexual legacy survives through their children 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:33 PM |
| 14 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??On top of having his last name already being used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:42 PM |
| 23 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??It's probably a weird sexual dominance thing. They see sex as conquests. I also saw that a common reason for men to circumcise their sons is so their penis looks like theirs. Not joking whatsoever. I wish I were. They really think their dicks and sex life are that important to the point they want to "mark" them in some way on their kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 12 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??I mean shit, you do the work of growing her and going into labor, and he (usually, not always) gets to slap his last name on her, the least you can do is pick her first name! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:39 PM |
| 21 | Why are men so vile naming their children after previous hookups??This makes me feel a little better that even some NVM won't stoop that low haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 25 | Sexual Violence on Television is Problematichttps://www.unconsentingmedia.org/ I thought I would share this here. It's a mass collection of movies, tv shows and books that will warn you if there's sexual assault, rape, incest etc in it. You can search by any title and they are ranked green, yellow or red by severity, and a checklist and short descriptions of graphic scenes. The statistics are pretty depressing. But I hope it is of use to someone here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 09:14 AM |
| 10 | Pedophile impregnates teenager and she marries him due to lack of insurance. 🤮People justify these types of age gaps relationships all the time because "it worked out for me!" or "well my (close family member or friend) met at 17 and 23 and they're doing amazing!" Thing is, it doesn't matter if it "worked out." There's PLENTY of stories where it DIDN'T work out and the girl ended up groomed, abused, and harmed. The power imbalance and difference in life experience makes it inherently predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 29 | Take my word for it, because I couldn't take your's...Yes, I love this. Also OP you'd enjoy this read. https://medium.com/matter/the-dickonomics-of-tinder-b14956c0c2c7 I'm LOVING to see this mindset change vs the media's "how to keep a man" angle they were doing in the early-mid 2000s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 08:48 AM |
| 23 | Daily reminder that some “nice guys” are the oppositeMen like this would never hire an escort. It literally goes against their ideals. It hurts their ego if they don't feel like they "earnt it" (aka coerced, pressured, manipulated or threatened her into sexual compliance). Instead they are focused on getting laid for as cheaply and easily as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:30 AM |
| 10 | If you ever had any doubts that vetting is extremely important in new relationships and if you aren't sure about advice in this sub, pop over to justnoSO to see your possible future.Honestly, for most women, why bother?? We want to be loved unconditionally without having to put our guard down. But it seems men aren't capable of that. You have to train them like dogs or children that you won't accept bad behavior, and it never ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:33 AM |
| 9 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .That's totally valid. I was thinking of donating eggs a while back, I don't qualify but while the money would've been a bonus, (eggs are worth a LOT of money), I would feel fulfillment in helping someone start a family. I don't know if male sperm donors feel that way (especially since they are getting paid way less) or if it's a vanity thing for them, but I'd hope it was the former. I'm on the adoption bandwagon with you there, I've actually been looking into getting sterilized because of the po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 24 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .Sperm donors don't earn much $$ themselves (I think only like $1k a month at maximum and that's pretty much just side hustle money) and must pass vigorous testing. They also need a college education. So at least you are getting ideal genetics that would benefit your offspring and set them up for success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Sounds like someone I used to love 🤔These same men hate the fuck out of Harley Quinn lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 5 | They wanna take all and give back nothingI meant the boyfriend was still seeing his ex-gf and would buy that girl gifts with money his current gf (my ex-roommate) made at work. But yeah she was happy when he bought her gifts with her own money too lmao. The bar is on the ground | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:12 AM |
| 49 | They wanna take all and give back nothingThing is men today literally have no shame with even digging gold. They'll demand split bills, buy me PS5, let me move in because i'd be homeless otherwise, manage the finances, work and give me the money to give you an allowance, etc. My ex-roommate used to be dropped off at work by her BF and then he'd drive her car to buy presents for his ex-gf with her money. Ex-roommate would come home, hand over his money and then get started on dinner 🙄 Then call us gold diggers lmao, they don't get they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:17 AM |
| 33 | If only men would be more “natural”My theory is that all the misogynist religions that are widespread & groom women to submit exist that way on purpose. I mean think about it. The very first & earliest religions all worshipped women or women-looking figures/deities. Something went wrong. Though we're smarter, better looking, live longer, and are creators who birth them; they still don't see us as their equals and probably never will. After all, "God" interestingly a man told them that they are in charge of everything that roams t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Had no idea how common this wasThis is why if I were ever single again I literally wouldn't bother dating, you give them an inch of leniency and they just go for the throat & take advantage of you. Imagine being unable to relax around your "partner" or rely on them to do anything on their own. The barest minimum is incapable for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:03 PM |
| 6 | Mugshots of 8 of the right wing terrorists who plotted to kidnap the governor of Michigan, Gretchen Whitmer, who is a woman. Nobody is talking about this, but would they have tried to kidnap a male governor? I think we women know the likely answer.r/nametheproblem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...Penises are the biggest and worst disease to this planet. Sad I will never feel truly safe in my lifetime but what can you do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:26 AM |
| 8 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?https://www.businessinsider.com/unmarried-childless-women-are-happiest-expert-says-2019-5 "If you are a man, you should probably get married; if you are a woman, don't bother." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:50 AM |
| 8 | Is marriage really worth it ? Are men even worth the trouble ?Why not, honestly? They use us in worse ways. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:48 AM |
| 56 | Just another reminder that many Disney films are a breeding ground for teaching harmful stereotypes to our young women. Prince Charming is a LIE.Phil was shown as creepy for that action though, and I always saw Meg's line as her just spitting truths for how men are. lol I think Hercules as a character is a HVM. He left his parents' nest to improve himself (and even bought them a house after he got big). He gained confidence because of this, but never acted entitled or displayed toxic masculinity from it. Although their first meeting didn't go as expected, he didn't call her ungrateful or act kind in expectation of a relationship. He's re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomYou weren't being unreasonable, you need to keep your babies safe first and foremost, not to mention your initial boundary wasn't anything unreasonable to begin with. If he can't control masturbating until you're asleep or out of the room (or when your CHILD is no less), it's not healthy anymore. I was sick once and my partner and I didn't do anything sexual for a month - he never pressured me or asked me to do anything, simply comforted me and took care of himself when I was asleep. Now we're b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | There's a difference.Call them "boys." They will jump to correct you SO fast. They hate it. It's hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomRight?? My partner masturbates all the time when I'm asleep. And that's totally fine, masturbation is healthy and we have a great sex life otherwise. But in that situation I'd kick him out IMMEDIATELY. Either OP's bf is a pedo or so addicted to masturbation that he can't even wait until there's not a BABY nearby to get one in. Disgusting either way and I'd be protecting my children. Not to mention let's take the baby out of the equation for a second, asking him not to do it when she's around is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisJust don't be in the wrong place at the wrong time, obviously /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Carry easily accessible self-defense items sisI conceal carry. I believe in gun control as in only women should control guns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:06 AM |
| 40 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomAnything between them and their nut is abusive. Even jacking off in front of a fucking infant is totally ok because he needed to nut /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 16 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomYup..... zero faith in humanity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:59 AM |
| 3 | ‘I’m totally fine with porn, but.....’ughh that is so fucking disgusting. Not to mention the amount of people enabling that bullshit. Adults with Onlyfans is one thing, minors literally cannot consent to begin with & do not know the impact of the choices they're making.... It reminds me of a Facebook post I saw the other day. Someone posted a photo of a girl and wrote the caption "she's only 12" & told people to message them for her nudes. SO many fucking pedophiles asking to be dm'd. There were people calling out the pedos but the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:37 AM |
| 6 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.I wish it all the success in the world! This is why I've only tried to support women-owned companies when possible. We need more women owned companies & leaders! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:30 AM |
| 40 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomYes and why I believe there is no such thing as "good men." "Good men" are more than happy to stay silent or enable the vile, horrifying ones. Either because it benefits them (they get to be average and seen as "good" compared to actions of others), peer pressure, or they actually see no problem with those actions. If "good men" really were good they'd speak up, & rape and sexual assault would not be such a widespread problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 70 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomRight?? Like holy shit he really can't wait until everyone's asleep & there's not a literal fucking baby staring him down??? He's a pedo at worst and has an unhealthy porn/whack addiction at best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | ‘I’m totally fine with porn, but.....’How? When you sign up you have to take a photo of your ID, take a photo of your ID next to your face, and then fill out tax documents, it all takes up to a week before it's verified and only then can you start posting & making money. Although my sister was buying alcohol at 17 with a fake scannable ID so I guess anything is possible. ughh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 13 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.I love this post, I also want to say as a stripper, I was afraid of commenting here to begin with due to the SWERF reputation here, but I was accepted. I've seen other sex workers comment here with no issue. You are so right that people who defend sex workers should not be mad at women who demand the bill be paid for them. FDS has a mindset of "hate the game, not the player" which is basically how I feel as a sex worker and what I believe is right. In a perfect world my job wouldn't exist, but w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.It is too PC to say men and women are equal honestly.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Why are these nasty ugly lvms even called men?https://mynorthwest.com/1084132/road-rage-attack-i-5/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 25 | Why "walk dates" are a thing on OLD and why they should be trashed every single time.I'm not saying we should literally equate the cost of a date to the price tag to our bodies. I'm saying why sleep with a stranger when he can't even be bothered to spend $20 to feed you (while the woman is putting way more effort in before we even show up) and insists on "going for a walk" which costs him $0 and no effort. I don't think sexual promiscuity is degrading, I think the bar being so low that we accept "walk dates" while we're putting our all into hair, makeup, outfits, staying safe, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:04 AM |
| 40 | Why "walk dates" are a thing on OLD and why they should be trashed every single time.Right - if a woman wants to sleep around without settling down, I'm not gonna judge her. But why spread your legs and let someone inside when they think spending $20 at Applebee's for you to eat is too much??? Wtf?? Your pussy don't even cost $20? A corner escort even charges more than that. You're putting on makeup, doing your hair, dressing nicely, & risking your safety to let some skeeze bone for free?? You think someone who thinks you're worth $0 is gonna think you're worth giving an orgasm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 18 | Why "walk dates" are a thing on OLD and why they should be trashed every single time.I love walk dates with my SO but we also go somewhere nice like a beach and we'll have lunch/dinner or wine at the end. lol On top of pathetic for a first date they're also dangerous. Walking or hiking with a stranger for a first date?? lol I'm not trying to be assaulted, raped or killed. Hard pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 40 | Another reason why you shouldn’t accept a low effort date: men benefit from being seen in the company of a womanThey think it is so much money 😭 The makeup products on my face cost way more than $50!! If I want to eat nice food I'll pay for it myself and then I can enjoy it without having to pretend to like a needy ass annoying man lol What actually happens is; they go on date, woman decides it's not going to work out for xyz reason (red flags or she's just not into him, all which is valid), texts him afterwards to thank him and let him know, and since men are so entitled to sex & can't bear the thought o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 10 | When You Try to Help a PickMeRight, they never want to be choked, never want to be tied up, never want to be pegged and called a dumb scrote who couldn't find the clit with a map and flashlight. Men are so fucking boring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 6 | When You Try to Help a PickMeSo glad my current partner isn't into it. I was beat as a young child and I don't remember it but I can't even wear necklaces because they are such a huge trigger. I remember friends in school trying to poke my neck and laughing because I'd start freaking out & hyperventilating. Even looking at this image makes me get that cringe recoil feeling because of the object around his neck, and I can't even watch movies where they choke or cut people's necks in a scene. One partner tried it with me and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 88 | They don’t even try to hide how vile they are. They just tell on themselves.Unfortunately, they'd probably get assaulted. Because men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 7 | Scrotes being so entitled to free sex they expect us to pay for it and drop everything else 😂It's eggs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 72 | Scrotes being so entitled to free sex they expect us to pay for it and drop everything else 😂Ohhh sis they will judge us by our covers no matter what. My best friend dresses like the 1950s (hairstyles, makeup, jewelry and everything it's too cute) and she attracts LMV hitting on her who thinks she has 50s values too and just want a meek, submissive bangmaid. (Surprise, she's leftist, feminist and a lesbian) Men are so ridiculous especially when they have absolutely nothing to offer, lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"They did a survey on it, I can't for the life of me find it right now but I'll come back and edit this comment if I do. They surveyed a bunch of adult women asking when they first noticed grown men were sexualizing them (inappropriate comments, touching, catcalling etc) and the average answer was 10 or 11 with the youngest age on the survey being 6 or 7. Yeah my mom did that too. Still does. I stopped by her house on my way to the airport (vacation pre-Covid) and she told me to change my clothes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"Same here. I'm happily engaged, I love this sub because it's the ONLY place where we can call out men on their bs. Even through memes, holding men accountable for their actions is a controversial opinion in every other discussion forum I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"Oh that's just when we personally start to notice grown ass men are sexualizing us. It actually starts when we're in the womb. 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 67 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"Like someone here said before. If someone gets attacked by a dog, they may develop a fear of jumpy dogs or loud barking. They may feel unease around dogs, and may warm up to friendly ones- but would likely never own a dog themselves, and people are understanding. Women get used, abused, manipulated, lied to, harassed, stalked, assaulted, raped and killed by men EVERY DAY. Every single day. Girls notice that grown ass men start seeing them in a sexual light from when we're as young as 7 years old… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lolIt's not new it's been around for way too long without a cure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 3 | DisgustingI wish I could live to be in it :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 82 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lolLVM run women into early graves. Either by stress, neglect, or literally killing us themselves. Best to just not engage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Being directly targeted just because I enjoy being here.I got an unsolicited dm last week (before I blocked them) scrote was whining and crying to me saying have fun dying alone with cats b****. I showed my fiance who I've been with for 3 years and we just laughed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:43 PM |
| 146 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lolI saw a facebook group the other day that read "can incels and pickmes just get married so we can be done with this nonsense" but I don't even think the pickme cream of the crop can live up to their clownery 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 6 | These companies owned by scrotes, Telling us to “fix” ourselves by paying them money. The message to “fix” our “broken” and “not good enough” selves is EVERYWHERE in advertising and media with objectified images of women used to sell us things. Vet culture and companies too not just menYes, on top of this, drink plenty of water! I also do a face mask a day or two before a big event or just once a week to treat myself, has my skin glowing. Doesn't have to be anything expensive, I like the $1 masks from Kbeauty brands, and the $10 clay mask off Amazon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Women aren’t sad that you don’t view us as sex dollsPlease replace us with sex dolls leave us the fuck alone lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:56 AM |
| 36 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusAll I gotta say this is why I love FDS's teachings. Being with a LVM doesn't just affect you at that point, it effects everyone around you and especially your offspring. I'm STILL dealing with trauma dealt from my abusive deadbeat dad and I likely will for the rest of my life. Breeding with LVM is guaranteeing generational curses, abuse and trauma to continue. If a woman has her future kids' best interests at heart she absolutely should be extremely picky with who she chooses to procreate with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 46 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusI'm a stripper. Sadly this type of gaslighting isn't uncommon. "Deadbeat bf who doesn't work and lives out of his stripper gf's pocket" is a tale as old as time. The trope is so damn common, there's at least one at every club. Sadly you can't help, engaging with them just leeches off your energy so I don't bother. It doesn't matter if you quit dancing for them either, usually they won't even offer to pay your bills/expenses for you to quit for them, and they'll still use "you used to strip" agai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 99 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusHonestly.... I'd abort. If I wanted a baby that badly to raise on my own, I could adopt or get a sperm donor, without having to deal with a crazy narcissist and go into custody battles whilst trying to raise a whole ass baby on my own. I can't judge her for her own choices, but that's what I'd personally do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Man tries to get his girlfriend to sell the condo she worked her ass off for so he can take the money and be put on the deed since his is shitty and he can’t benefit from the one solely in her name. He tries to guilt her into selling by slut shaming her since she used stripper money.Did y'all see the update?? She posted on LegalAdvice. He admitted to poking holes in her condom so they could sell the apartment and he could put money into his failing business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:52 PM |
| 101 | That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen itSis.... I wouldn't blame you. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:This is why I say, stop putting the blame entirely on women. We know sex work wouldn't exist in a perfect world, but since we DO live in a patriarchal hellscape I'm at least glad I have stripping to support myself with. Blame the system & gender who oppresses and objectifies us so much they created this market, not the singular woman who is using Onlyfans to just try to pay her bills and feed her kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 14 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!The 50s wasn't perfect by any means but I do have to give the baby boomers credit on this one. The man would always pay for the date and if the woman even brought up the idea of splitting the bill he'd be embarrassed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | I didn't make this, and yet, it matches my sentiments exactlyI love the tiny sheds except I'd just put the husband in the tiny shed and keep the big house for myself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:21 PM |
| 4 | The hammer really hit the nail on the head in this conversation. FDS is than about a gender is about a way of being an empowered and equal, a true equal in society. I wish people saw it more that way.Homophobia also starts to make a lot more sense when you realize that gay men are hated because they suck/take dick and that's what women do and society hates women. (Same with homophobes hating "flamboyant" gay men or ask why gay men have to act any differently than straight men) Why do you think even in ancient Greece and Rome, it was totally fine to be gay and was even encouraged, so long as you were a top and not on the "receiving" end? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 7 | Saw this on tik tok 😂 apparently it’s from a show called “disenchantment”It's also made by the same people who made Futurama, highly recommend it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Gentlemen Prefer Blondes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Women are in the workforce now more than ever but are expected to do everything else too AND pay half of bills? Something's not adding up.inb4 male lurkers "waaahhh, that's slavery!! All FDS wants is men to submit to a life of slavery wahhhh" (Actual unsolicited DM I got btw. Lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Women are in the workforce now more than ever but are expected to do everything else too AND pay half of bills? Something's not adding up.I actually saw something the other day - the gender pay gap is closing in terms of companies paying men vs women similar rates, however women are still paid less because of domestic duties they must tend to at home, hurts their work performance and many drop their careers altogether once the kids start coming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 32 | Women are in the workforce now more than ever but are expected to do everything else too AND pay half of bills? Something's not adding up.It's such a scam lol, women still fall for it because of indoctrination and also they take advantage of our empathy and the fact we are more emotional. We're supposed to do this all in the name of "love" and be happy to do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 9 | This scrote is divorcing his wife while she is healing from a broken leg. He hid all the money from her and she is completely financially dependent on him.We were literally set up to be slaves and to be happy about it. They should be thankful we want true equality and not revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 9 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don'tRight lol, I'm literally autistic too and I don't act this fucking entitled and disrespectful. Just scrotes bein' scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:14 PM |
| 9 | My LVM ex. He used to like and comment shit like this on local women’s/strangers pics. Absolutely pathetic.Stripper here, I have heard of a few dancers that ended up marrying customers and it worked out (they were usually the ones who spent thousands in VIP and were respectful of boundaries) but most of us have a "don't date customers" policy for exactly the reasons you stated. I also agree pimping is a huge trope in this industry, "deadbeat bf who doesn't work and lives out of his stripper gf's pocket" is a tale as old as time, although ANY man can do that and not club customers. (My ex-roommate is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 46 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isEven worse they went 50/50 on the nuggets lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 36 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isLemme tell you I physically cringed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 54 | McDonald's commercial, what a joke. Hate how widespread struggle love & 50/50 mentality isSummary for those who don't wanna watch- couple walks into McDonald's, he tells her to get whatever she wants. She suggests they share a 20pc Nuggets for $4.99. He starts daydreaming calling her beautiful, smart, sensible, calling her a jackpot etc. Then they sit down to eat & she says "guess who's going to the game!" and pulls out tickets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 26 | Hearing ‘ILYBINILWY’ speechHe told you who he was - if he wanted you to stay, he would've said that instead of just "okay." You deserve more than someone being "okay" if you leave. I'm proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.If my partner and I ever split I'd definitely have those standards lol I don't blame you. I just lucked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:16 AM |
| 116 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.My fiance makes just above minimum wage and STILL pays for every date, pays 90% of the bills, surprises me with flowers or stuffed animals or some other small gift weekly, saves up for big gifts "just because" or for special occasions, is incredibly supportive with everything I do, etc etc. A poor man can still be a provider if he works hard & wants to be. There is NO damn excuse I definitely agree tho I lucked out. Most aren't like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Oops, I need a man to logic this out for me!!Lol because they don't care about women being disrespected. :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | this was posted to r/iamatotalpieceofshit and all of the commenters were sympathizing with the guy in this scenario...they aren’t getting itWe don't even use them for dinner, what actually happens is, it didn't work out and they felt entitled to sex/can't handle rejection so they squawk "sHe UsEd Me FoR a FrEe MeAl." Not realizing that dating (and thus paying for dates) is part of the courting process and just because you pay doesn't mean we owe you shit. It's even more of a joke when they think women are just going around "using" them for a $25, $50 or even $100 meal. They think it is so much money. 😂 The makeup on my face I wore t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:10 AM |
| 43 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?I literally use a throwaway account here because I'm scared of being harassed/doxxed on my main lol. I've already gotten unsolicited male dm's on this account. But incels/MGTOW/RP are out and proud without this fear. Male lurkers, if you ACTUALLY want to make a difference? Quit the "devil's advocate" b.s. which is really just male entitlement and go out and make it in your everyday lives. Speak out (not OVER us) against violence and rape, advocate for our rights and safety, shut down "locker roo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 5 | 100% agreedLol yeah someone just dm'd me crying because he's not a doctor and can't afford fancy dinner dates and shopping sprees. There are literally PLENTY of women in the dating pool right now who are happy to go 50/50 on dates, accept McDonald's or going out for walks as a date etc. But instead of going out to find one he's in my dm's whining about the ones he can't have 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | 100% agreedAgreed. I just got a dm from a male whining because he's not a doctor and can't afford fancy dinners and shopping spree dates lol. I actually make more than my partner, he is not rich by any means, but he acts exactly as you described. He saved up some of his money to buy me a camera I really wanted and surprised me by taking me out and doing a little mini impromptu photoshoot. Another example- my best friend just got into a relationship with a HVM too, she said she was sad because she didn't ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 21 | 100% agreedI definitely agree, but idk if it's been 5 months and he's not at least TRYING to relieve some of that burden, that's a red flag to me. When I was out of work for 3 months (this was before CoVid, but I was sick) my HVM took care of everything but also hustled on the side so we'd still have some extra spending money. Also, is he helping with cooking, cleaning, errands, kids too, or just sitting around? No way in hell would I work just to come home and cook/clean every day if I had a SO who wasn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:12 AM |
| 18 | 100% agreedHe won't, they never do, speaking from experience.... but I still wish you all the best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:36 AM |
| 1 | I hope this hasn’t been posted before, seen on Instagram and had to share!This is literally a big reason why I'm a stripper. I get no treated differently at a strip club than when I was a waitress. Actually at the club, at least I can walk away from a major asshole customer or have him kicked out, instead of having to smile through it & continue to take their order. They are all that narcissistic & think the same. Might as well use it to my advantage and make a 6 figure salary for it (compared to minimum wage or not much better at a customer service job). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:36 AM |
| 24 | 100% agreedYou need to leave him hun. Men like that are only leeches and block your way to success. They are NEVER worth it, nor are they thankful for it in the end. They usually feel insecure you make more than them & wear you down for it. Usually, once you give your livelihood, energy and finances providing for them, and they're "built up," they leave you for someone who they can splurge and dote on, saying they're too good for you. Witnessed it firsthand with my former roommates. She has a son she aband… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:29 AM |
| 9 | Please don’t stop posting screenshots of your messages for both good and bad experiences. They are so helpful and I learn a lot from them and the comments!!I'm autistic and sometimes have trouble in social situations so these "what to do" and "what not to do" examples are really amazing for me to learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:03 PM |
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