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ColedTouch/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 01:08 AM
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ColedTouch/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 02:26 AM
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ColedTouch/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 07:43 PM
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Hey, you're on your 2nd marriage, or divorce should I say. I ain't judging. But clearly they were "preserving themselves", maybe? You do you. Just know you said you'll feel it for a long while... I might be a piece of shit, but get yourself together. My father has been dead for almost 30 years and look at me. Hang your cape up buddy, or you'll figure out you were the super hero nobody ever asked for. Remember, we all die alone, and the bible specifically states to disconnect/or be willing to los…
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 05:13 AM
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Self Preservation. You can't help anyone if you can't help yourself. "The Kids" always make me laugh, nobody gives a fuck about your relationship with them. NOBODY. The best way to fight fire, is with fire. Water only lessens the impact, but surely not for you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 04:44 AM
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To clarify "Process", I mean pay for an escort to come to your house and fuck her right on the family room couch, let your son, or if he's not your son get some also. What a piece of shit. Treat her accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 04:41 AM
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Wait, did I just read what I thought?! My God, our God, if your Christmas gift isn't to yourself, fuck her and the kids, to get yourself the fuck out and start the process now... Stop this second making excuses to yourself like "after the Holidays" or whatever. If I were you I'd withdraw all available cash and go on the meanest bender to start it off right. Seriously. Don't be a pussy, because hers (yours) was everyone else's... Go get it Tiger 🐅
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 04:36 AM
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Pay for an escort if needed to start the process. Build your confidence back. Just like healing mentally/emotionally takes time, figuring out the retarded new dating scene takes time. Get your dick wet, and I promise you'll forget the rest.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 03:14 AM
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🤮🤢🤷🏼
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 03:32 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/SBe5vIb "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and today is a gift. That's why it's called the present." - Eleanor Roosevelt
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 11:30 AM
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Agreement?! 😆🤣 An agreement takes two parties. Sounds like a hostile takeover. GTFO.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 04:15 AM
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But yeah, you're still in love with her. The only way to get over her, is under someone else. Blah, blah, blah work on yourself... A year or two later you'll still be thinking she's the hottest pussy you ever touched... That's until you touch some new hotter pussy. Anyone disagreeing with me is the exact reason your wife cheated on you in the first place. Whoops 😬🤭
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 04:12 AM
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Send me the saved video via DM so I can feel sorry for you... Then I'll provide you live commentary and snap you the fuck out of whatever "lalaland" this cheating, disloyal, untrustworthy soon to be ex-wife lead you into... Did I read correctly she has a secret boyfriend?!?!?! Dude, you said you have a girl who's head over heals for you... Lol, I'd take a shot crying to her first before some dumb cunt ex-wife who doesn't want me and found comfort in some lame.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 04:06 AM
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Thanks?! It might come off as 'brash', but it mostly comes from the ❤️ if it comes from my chest, then I'm just being a prick. Only God can judge me 🙏🏼
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 03:54 AM
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I don't want to hurt you, but if you feel like you've been stabbed in the back... Infact, she cut your dick off. Leave this disrespectful bitch NOW.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:15 AM
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Absofunkinlutely.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:13 AM
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https://tenor.com/gf1IZuQHKmr.gif
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:10 AM
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Who? Me?! Not sure what that means exactly, but I guess 🤷🏼
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 12:51 AM
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Bravo 👏🏼👌🏼 you said it better then I ever could! No sweat, you're not my type anyways 😉 unless you want to be?! 😊 JK
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 12:50 AM
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To all who are curious, here's my Hinge profile... I got nothing to hide or lose... Normal average guy just like the rest of you. https://imgur.com/a/SBe5vIb
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 09:35 PM
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Sure, send me a DM.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 08:32 PM
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I hear you! It surely hurts. I guess I'm just using the same technique they have used on use men. Smoke and mirrors, being mysterious... IDK... They say they want adventure, loyalty, but really they are just miserable and lazy. Not all of course. Women are fickle... You think you're everything they want, until you're not. So I've learned to keep them on their toes. The one's that stick around I'll actually put time and effort into... The others get tossed back into the sea. This dating scene is …
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 06:22 PM
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You're making me blush ☺️ really though, I am nothing special. Are your photos and answers average? Have you ever asked a female friend or associate to critique your profile? You can feel free to share your profile pics via DM and I'll give you my thoughts... I'll also share mine to give you an idea. My top photo by far is me in a brown sport coat, standing in my apartment (before leaving for a date). There are no photos of me with friends, or hiking Mount Everest... Just me and my dog, or in th…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 05:48 PM
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I see what you did there 😂
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 05:10 PM
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When I was 4 months in I was at the strip club, or trying to get validation wherever I could from women. It's been years now, and I validate myself by looking in the mirror and reminding myself I'm the main character of my own movie. You sensed wrong. But that's alright. I am not here trying to prove anything other then there are plenty of women out there, and you don't have to continue to fall on the sword your ex-wife placed beneath you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 05:09 PM
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IDK, they seem pretty real to me... But I am pretty picky so there's only a handful I'll chat with at a time. https://imgur.com/a/2Q7wJBU
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 05:03 PM
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Tell me about it 😞
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:59 PM
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You got this! 💪🏼
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:58 PM
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I am still trying to figure out it. With Happiness, there is Sadness. So I just try to find Peace each day.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:58 PM
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I like to think I figured out how to market myself to get the initial Like, obviously after that it's up to me to communicate with them and sift through the BS. It is nice chatting with them and has helped me rediscover who I am. I wouldn't consider myself top level by any means.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:57 PM
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No problem! Send it, I'll share mine.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 04:54 PM
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Hey, I read some of your post history. Maybe you should break outside of your box a bit and let loose, no pun intended. It is not about sex, but time around or communication with someone of the other gender. I am not out there laying dick to every women I meet, but I sure am not scared to talk and find compassion from any other female that doesn't happen to be my ex-wife. Who gives a fuck what she's doing. What are you doing is what really matters.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 08:10 AM
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For sure! I'll put something together tomorrow and post back here 👍🏼
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 08:01 AM
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Nope. The most 'liked' photo is me in a sport coat, not my shirtless one. I can thank cancer/chemo for the 'good shape'... sure is easier working your way back from the bottom, then the top.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 08:00 AM
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My children want to see me happy and at peace more then anything, they have not met any women with me other then their mother. I cannot say the same in regards to a man, regardless that's out of my control, nor do I care. I enjoy being in a relationship, and it took me years to put myself out there.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 06:33 AM
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It is about getting yourself out there. Nice work 👍🏼🙏🏼
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 06:28 AM
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Hey, whatever works for you pal. Godspeed 🙏🏼
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 06:27 AM
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Who said I had sex with them all? It was more the interaction and communication. Think what you want bud. I am doing the best I can with what I have. Sure ain't judging you, am I?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 06:26 AM
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About 2 years?! I did my best to do the work on myself, but I do really enjoy being in a relationship and sharing life with a partner. Prior I was super reliant on validation from my ex-wife... It is still pretty new for you. But that doesn't mean you can't be open to have conversation with the other gender to start to regain your sense of self and well-being.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 02:31 AM
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Maybe so, but I am not in a big city, nor would I consider myself a stud. I just figured out how to market myself appropriately. Not like cold approaching women is a thing anymore. Plus, what kills your self esteem more then feeling isolated and that there are no options for you...
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 02:18 AM
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Whelp, that's a you problem it seems. Yeah, I want to be loved and cherished also; honesty, loyalty, and affirmations are something I want more then anything. There is power in numbers, you meet 100 women that might not be the 1, but then you meet the 102 who is everything you want and deserve. She's not going to fall in your lap. Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 02:10 AM
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You absolutely are, you'll forget that throughout the day, you will forget that throughout the lonely mornings, or when you miss it on the weekends. Just remember, that it has always been you vs you. I cannot tell you how many times at work or wherever that married dudes are absolutely jealous of me and my ability to just walk about this world freely talking and fucking whatever I feel. You didn't fuck that up, you were trying to work on it, but now she gets to learn and she ain't your problem. …
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 01:12 AM
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All of us men need to remember one thing, and I've been part of the subreddit for a long time, but the most important thing that we all need to remember is that we are the fucking reward. 20 years old 80 years old 100 years old whatever years old, there's some dude getting his dick sucked and impregnating some chick somewhere no matter what age. We are the reward, comprende?
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 12:55 AM
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Cry, then cry some more. Cry so fucking much that you overcome those 'fond' memories that are cemented in just about every man's memories in this subreddit... but really are absolute bullshit. After that is when you get to cry for yourself. Cry that you probably deserved a lot more a long, long time ago. Then get to crackin'! Get yourself in the right headspace, look in the mirror and stare at yourself until you remember who the fuck you are. In the meantime, find some pussy, literally any pussy…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 12:33 AM
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