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Solid criticism and solid advice, BPP. Thank you. I know just how I'm going to handle it and will update soon.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 09:08 PM
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I think you misunderstood my post. I'm partly to blame because of the way I wrote it so let me try to explain more clearly. About a year ago the issue came up and we talked. I made it very clear that it was wrong and improper for a married woman and it was soon cancelled. I never forbid her from going. Then this year to my utter shock (yes, shock is the correct term), she disclosed that the plans were back on. There is no doubt in my mind (no covert bargain here) that she knew I strongly disappr…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:50 AM
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Thanks freshona for the story and the advice. This is similar to my situation. I'll be consistent, not silent.
/r/askMRP11/10/18 11:53 PM
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She did go overboard this time. She crossed a boundary when she told her plans of meeting this man in a hotel room. And one day she will go overboard and actually go to his hotel room. Just because she's bluffed before doesn't mean that will always continue to bluff. You're in a tough spot. You will have to tell her that meeting another man in a hotel room is inappropriate. Don't overtalk it. Don't yell. Gauge her reaction to this and act appropriately. Good luck.
/r/askMRP11/10/18 11:46 PM
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OK thanks. Thanks to the help I received here, I've decided against any form of punishment. But this does change our marriage. It's going to be much more about me with no apologies. We'll see where that leads us.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 04:35 AM
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Most people who replied don't have a serious reply and I get that. I didn't and still don't want to provide some specific details and I can see how that would piss people off. That said, my problem and questions are real. So I appreciate your response and have literally read it 4 times. I have some important things to think about. "Fuck society’s opinion, go by your rules." Thanks screech.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 04:30 AM
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You are obviously correct with your points. I appreciate your reply. I'm now regretting making this post.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 10:38 PM
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What was the ultimatum? Did you threaten divorce?
/r/askMRP09/10/18 08:34 PM
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no friends outside 2 guys at work (high introvert), OP, get into playing sports with other men. It's great exercise and you'll meet new friends. Just don't do couples friends (your wife becomes friends with your friend's wife) because everything you tell him will get back to your wife.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 08:39 PM
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Exactly. You can always next her later. Tell her you don't like it. If she starts an argument about how you're controlling, you know what to do.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 03:44 PM
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I think she is just being playful with you. It's time to simply name a place and a time tonight, then see if she responds.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 08:26 PM
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Exactly. Just google "Salma Hayek closeup". She's probably had a lot of work done along with good genetics but she is still losing it. In many of the pictures, she even has a nose hair problem so her eyesight is probably going too.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 09:28 PM
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It's like going to a restaurant and only being able to smell the great food, then have to go home and eat fast food. I've heard this argument before and it sounds clever but think of it like this: Do you avoid looking at a very attractive women that you pass on the street? You should if she's better looking than your wife.
/r/askMRP31/12/16 03:40 PM
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OK I get this. I like that you put "visiting strip clubs" in the same categories as gaming and watching TV. It makes sense. However, I wasn't asking if people recommended it. It was more a question of whether other married redpill people liked it. It seems like the answer is no. This makes me think people are unwilling to speak up or that I'm very different. It's like someone coming out and saying, "I really liked watching Breaking Bad" and other people are like, "You're such a loser for watchin…
/r/askMRP31/12/16 03:34 PM
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So do you find these places fun? Would you go by yourself?
/r/askMRP30/12/16 10:22 PM
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Dance clubs don't have any appeal to me. I'm too old, the music is too loud, I would have to approach, etc. You do make a good point about abundance mentality. What do you mean when you say, "...to find the stripper that's going to take you"?
/r/askMRP30/12/16 10:21 PM
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Well they are weird places. It's like an alternate reality you're living in for an hour or so. And yes I assume the strippers are all broken to some degree so I never talk about their childhood or fathers.
/r/askMRP30/12/16 09:47 PM
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OP, you've asked a good question. Keep it funny but not at the expense of making the groom look like a bumbling loser or a fool (you do that stuff when it's all guy friends together). Don't say stuff about how lucky he is to have her. I have heard too much of this stuff at Wedding toasts and it was really embarrassing.
/r/askMRP25/04/16 07:58 PM
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Well there are two data points now. Maybe this is actually a thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 10:14 PM
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Don't ever drink alcohol when you're around her on company picnics, parties or even business dinners. Not even one glass of wine.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 09:41 PM
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Point taken about working in opposition vs mutually exclusive. Well, one time about a year ago I said (spontaneously) that it was either her or the cat. That didn't change her mind FYI, and no, I wasn't serious. In an ideal world, a wife would say something like, "Well I really don't want to have sex right now and I understand how men's sex drives can be very high. How about a blowjob? Or how about sex tomorrow?" Instead, in the real world, I get angry and refuse to re-initiate for days or even …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 04:07 PM
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Thanks for writing this. You made some good points. However, it seems to me that Desire and Outcome Independence are mutually exclusive. At one point you are overcome with desire (uncontrollable lust as you say), and then the next minute you are not angry frustrated or bitter if she then rejects you. Wouldn't it seem to her that your uncontrollable lust was an act if you can just sit down and watch TV with her? My problem is that I have inner anger when rejected. I try not to show it but I hones…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 03:22 PM
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Wow, thank you so much for writing this. I plan on reading this again very carefully and taking appropriate action. Yes, you are correct with your analysis that despite my efforts to change, I am still "too nice."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 08:38 PM
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Thank you for this practical advice, fasterpussycatdie. I will update tomorrow.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:37 PM
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Well I don't know 100% if it's true about where they went, but yes I believe they went to the girlfriend's apartment. It might be that the reason he focused on the other girl is that she isn't married. This I have a lot more doubt about. So nopbeentheredonethat, did you misunderstand my original post about where they went?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:33 PM
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To clear up something ambiguous from my OP: The timeline is that the guy left the restaurant, paying their bill on the way out. When leaving later, the girls found out their bill was paid. They then went to the girlfriend's apartment, not the guy's apartment. OK this makes me think of the logistics of her story. If the guy had left earlier, how could their bill be paid if they hadn't finished ordering (maybe coffee or another drink). Maybe that's what the $100 tip was for (to cover additional ex…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:24 PM
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Rattle my cage? Definitely not her style. Because she brought up twice saying the attention was on the friend, she definitely wasn't implying that she fucked him. I think she just wanted to demonstrate to me that with the comment about her body from an attractive man that she's still got it.This is hard to explain, so you'll have to trust my judgement. I mean, how would the guy have fucked either of them? The girls were together and would have to conspire to keep the pick-up secret. Seems like a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:56 PM
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Yes, I do plenty (repairs, finances, earning money) and do lead the household. I make all the important decisions and she deals with the style of drapes and wall paint colors and linens. I also go out occasionally (poker night, golf, etc). When I do go out for a beer with a friend or two from work, flirting with girls is the last thing on my mind. I wouldn't say I have high SMV, but it is ok and rising. Fuck, I just wish there was a way to squeeze more information out of her without losing frame…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:22 PM
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It seems like you're saying that I have free will but she doesn't. Marriage is a legal union and there are certain promises that you both make at the altar. It seems tempting to confront her but I can easily see her deny that she was flirting (and maybe even believe it) and turn it around to how ridiculous and jealous I'm behaving. I think I have to just move on and be better next time. This whole thread has actually made me feel much worse but I want to know the truth even if it's unpleasant.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 06:47 PM
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Well we were staying over which is my lame excuse as to why I was somewhat drunk. I won't make this mistake again. However, I don't agree that a confrontation was right in this case. The thing I should have done was to "playfully interrupt" to break them apart as described by I_AMA_Naughty_Boy below. If that didn't work, then a confrontation might be in order.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 05:29 PM
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Yes this is it. I needed a way to "playfully interrupt." It might seem obvious to you but it wasn't to me, so thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 12:09 AM
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I was actually talking and joking around with other people including many of the girls. I wasn't flirting though. Is that what you're recommending?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 12:06 AM
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Yes you're right of course. I just wasn't expecting someone to game my wife while I was standing right next to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/14 12:04 AM
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