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I mean I’d expect some overlap.
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:53 AM
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Ignore this. Dont contact either of them again. Move on with your life. Keep a photo of the note. Also dont sleep with people who have boyfriends.
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:32 AM
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Look good and be around them https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mere-exposure_effect In studies of interpersonal attraction, the more often people see a person, the more pleasing and likeable they find that person. This is why people rightfully give the advice that if you want to sleep with more women, BE AROUND WOMEN OFTEN. Have groups where you can see them regularly.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:15 AM
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To be fair, most guys without disabilities are also filtered out by 95% of women from a practical sense. That’s just the nature of dating. It isnt inherently bad, we should be with people we like and want to be with, not wasting time with people we dont. Be happy you have a life and live it to your fullest. Everyone has their own challenges. A perfectly able and healthy handsome guy can also have severe mental issues and be horribly insecure. I think I’d prefer some disabilities over being that …
/r/seduction31/10/22 12:49 AM
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Im sorry, physical disability is a turn off for women. That doesnt mean all women, but your chances are lower. There’s nothing you can do about it besides work on what you can work on. Your mindset, your fashion, etc. but there are plenty of open-minded women. And in a way your disability filters for them so you get higher quality women (if you reach out and approach or interact with women regularly).
/r/seduction31/10/22 12:48 AM
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everyone is superficial about looks. we have eyes for a reason.
/r/seduction26/10/22 06:19 PM
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Go for it, accept the consequences. Dont be disrespectful or rude tho. Talk to your friend first so he cant say you went behind his back.
/r/seduction21/10/22 02:47 AM
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Lol just cuz you fucked amazing doesnt mean anything. Theres many factors that could cause her to lose interest.
/r/seduction21/10/22 01:43 AM
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Of course...but I think people over pursue because we're all scared of losing someone we really click with. You rarely meet someone that makes you feel that way.
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:16 PM
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almost 99% of submissions here are basically overthinking crap.
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:16 AM
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overanalyzing this stuff is just a waste of your time and worse, it might lead you to have harmful ideas and conclusions. who gives a shit.
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:15 AM
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Is there anything you can do? Yeah, ask her out again and make a move. But the chances are lower than the first few times.
/r/seduction18/10/22 07:05 AM
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Anyone else see this? There’s also a ton of women that are very hostile to this on Reddit probably because they've had bad experiences of guys not taking no for an answer. approach any women you want, most women and people in general are fine to have a convo and reject you softly if you ask them out.
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:04 PM
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Look, you absolutely can. But getting help is always going to be worth it. Unless you're barely scraping by. It sounds like it bothers you a lot and is impacting your life to some extent. You could ask your close friends, parents, or someone else for help for free as well. I'd pay for a therapist or at least some counselor (some insurance providers offer free therapy sessions through group providers). The key to all this is being vulnerable and honest to whatever you're feeling even if it's emba…
/r/seduction15/10/22 12:29 AM
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I think it may be some part of unresolved insecurity in myself speaking but I swore not to do it again and yet tonight I went back at it and did it again with a girl I didn't really like (she was pleasant and cute but not my body type or personality). you answered the question here. it's all about yourself. we can't really fix anything or offer useful advice because i don't know enough about your life. a therapist will help you get to the bottom of this. some past experiences and trauma are maki…
/r/seduction15/10/22 12:21 AM
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i live in bay area, you must have bought 7-10 drinks then. that's just you being dumb there. wtf are you spending that much on drinks for at a club. rookie mistake.
/r/seduction15/10/22 12:18 AM
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Women are only looking in what you can offer them. As opposed to men, who look at what women can't offer to them to decide a partner?
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:24 PM
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i think you handled it well but not sure why you spent $100 on drinks.
/r/seduction14/10/22 08:22 PM
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Yes because you learn many things and develop yourself in your 20s post college life. Of course if you do none of that its the same. Being below average looking is shit. It means the best you get consistently are below average and ugly girls.
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:20 PM
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unfortunately 99% of posts will still be about this. the sub is whining party.
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:06 PM
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most people online are totally detached from reality and making shit up. i seen guys who are shorter than you consistently be with decent women. also many taller girls (think 6 feet or around there) are intimidating and most guys do not even approach them. they DONT MIND shorter guys given the scarcity of guys even talking to them.
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:04 PM
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Compliments need to be genuine. People can tell when you’re just being polite or needy.
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:50 AM
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Club game is pretty much impossible if your goal is to sleep with the hotter women. They just will not do a ONS with any attractive guy. Hotter women dont go back with guys they just met, they MIGHT but in general they have less reason. They have lists of dudes that they know and keep around they could fuck where its more safe secure. You need to establish some form of familiarity or comfort (IE mutual friends/connection). This will increase arousal more than just grinding kissing etc.
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:15 AM
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You probably lack many things you thought you had. Self evaluation is hard. Yes even guys who have shit confidence and hate themselves probably will not be able to evaluate their attractiveness. So dont think you dont lack. In fact try to assume you have more to improve. You not finding yourself not ugly is irrelevant unless your goal is to sleep with “not ugly” women. Did you decide you wanted average to below average women all your life? Because thats what a “not ugly” gets. How about being a …
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:08 AM
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Introvert isnt an excuse to be a pussy and afraid of rejection. self proclaimed introverts arent introverts at all theyre just massive pussies about rejection and socialization. If they had more positive outcomes they’d be extraverte.
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:03 AM
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Then dont.
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:49 AM
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Sports bet? Sounds like a scam. She’s using her sex as a way to get people to get in her scheme. But she also might be down to have sex as well. So just dont pay for anything or be coerced.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:25 PM
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Escalating, willing to risk rejection and embarrassment. This isn’t easy to master, and if you dont practice it you will lose this skill.
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:55 PM
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If you think that you should talk to her about it. You know her better than a lot of people.
/r/seduction08/10/22 05:20 PM
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Lol you’ll get em next time
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:23 AM
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Skill doesnt matter at all. In fact it’s only relevant if you’re extremely attractive and trying to date extremely attractive people. You will get way more value by being attractive. Dont even give a shit about skills. Worthless to hone. When they call it game they mean it, it’s literally a silly game meant to amuse you and other clueless dudes and never actually get you laid
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:59 AM
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I dont get people who keep doing that here. Whats the point? You wont get any validation for lying and nobody has any tricks for you to fix your problem besides putting in the work
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:03 AM
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It means nothing you’re in your own head.
/r/seduction08/10/22 01:47 AM
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Some girls play with their hair when nervous. That nervousness could be due to attraction or it could be theyre nervous about something else. I dont know what you’re talking about specifically. Does it happen once or twice? Means nothing. Need more context.
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:39 AM
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Or they will regardless
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:06 PM
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After knowing that she has a bf, does it still makes sense to shoot my shot with her?
/r/seduction07/10/22 09:05 PM
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Well if i'm being candid it could be combo of these things: you're probably lying or exaggerating your attraction and development as a person. this is due to ego and delusion and honestly it's hard to evaluate where you're at. you really aren't approaching as much as you think. this can take hundreds of approaches (it shouldnt but maybe your luck is that shit?) intangibles we can't evaluate online. your body language, personality, and what you say is so off calibrated and socially ostracizing th…
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:43 PM
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then what's the bitching about? what you're doing is fine if you're attractive.
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:35 PM
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So the idea that I need to become that obnoxious loud drunken frat bro to date is honestly a dealbreaker. okay dont.
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:33 PM
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how is it fake to be attractive and liked by women? who wants to be unattractive and unliked by women?
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:25 PM
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it works alot more if you actually have met someone and haven't established some platonic friendship already.
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:55 PM
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Im active, physically fit, passionate about my job, serious about my hobbies, and travel every summer. I maximize the efforts of my free time. If all this is true.... I approach women with the intent of getting to know them, but I think in doing so, Ive disable myself from building any sexual tension so that may develop into something romantic. Then you should have SOME sort of success by just approaching women consistently and asking for dates. Even if you are awful at escalating or creating te…
/r/seduction06/10/22 04:44 PM
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Act cool fun and flirty. Be into her friend while being kind to her friend. Then just ask her friend or them both when it feels right? Honestly the key to threesomes is the same as asking women out. You just go for it and risk rejection. These girls seem chill and wouldnt care or be disgusted if you asked after some rapport.
/r/seduction06/10/22 05:58 AM
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Well you sound like someone that’d bitch even if they didnt give you their number.
/r/seduction06/10/22 05:54 AM
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La has a lot of broke people date them. Plenty of people cant afford it comfortably.
/r/seduction06/10/22 05:53 AM
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I guess because i look nerdy, dress well with good quality clothes, and my overall behaviour basically signifies i am a "rich kid", which i actually am btw, so you think you don't give off the look of a rich kid despite being a rich kid? you probably do and are not really good at self evaluation.
/r/seduction05/10/22 08:06 PM
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you have gained size, you're just losing confidence. i saw your bench, you look good.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:52 PM
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reduce baby fat in your cheeks to define your jaw more. groom hair to make your face more symmetrical. wear shoes that make you taller, wear clothing that fits and is darker to look taller.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:52 PM
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yes, but i can assume your default non swoled state is muscular enough. are you wearing baggy oversized clothes or something? i just dont see how you look non-musucular. you have some definition, you don't need to be a BB.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:50 PM
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i can literally see your vascularity on muscles, you aren't as small as you think.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:09 PM
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You have plenty of muscle, what are you even saying lol. You have a serious confidence issue or some body dysmorphia.
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:12 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:03 PM
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You probably dont gain muscle because you dont diet correctly. You need to eat at maintenance calories or above your maintenance to gain muscle. You arent benching 300 if you have no visible muscle, quit lying dude. This is delusional.
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:46 PM
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No it’s not genetic. Dont make excuses. Unless you have down syndrome it isnt genetic. There are countless material on improving attraction. If you take this seriously you’ll follow the guides.
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:45 PM
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Bad photos You’re ugly and arent working out/wearing clothes that fit and look nice/need a haircut or grooming
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:44 PM
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Lol you’re not getting laid
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:40 PM
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Lmao what were you thinking
/r/seduction05/10/22 03:39 PM
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Wouldnt say dating gets harder after college. Unless you move to bumfuck nowhere. Having a lot more money and freedom makes dating easier actually. You also can date women from all walks of life rather than other college students. If anything dating after college will actually enhanced your life and experiences
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:21 AM
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Because men and women can have standards.
/r/seduction05/10/22 01:00 AM
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keep practicing, when you feel more comfortable and get more experience you’ll worry less about being creepy and likely be less creepy as you read cues and project confidence more. Also bhe more attractive. Things are less creepy from an attractive person
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:45 AM
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Incel poster like this need a spanking
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:43 AM
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Make friends everywhere. Attend parties even if you show up and its boring and ya wanna leave asap. You never know what’ll happen.
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:29 PM
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In my school you can't get into frat parties unless you're in a frat or a woman lol its okay other people have parties, 99% of the student body is not in a frat
/r/seduction04/10/22 08:33 PM
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are you dieting or just lifting? girls don't care about strength as much as being cut.
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:53 PM
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you don't want to make yourself look TOO much more attractive in your pics as you don't want to disappoint them in person. this is only going to happen if you dress like crap in person and also dont groom yourself whatsoever etc. everyone expects IRL to look different than photos. nobody is deluded. (unless you heavily photoshop your photos). Iff professional pics work for you then I'm happy for you, just as different methods work for everyone. yeah, of course. do what works, but if you're not f…
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:37 PM
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Yeah, the girls I'm sleeping with aren't ugly at all, just lower than what I'd get irl. This is particularly true on Tinder. I live in London too so the competition is pretty insane. Tinder from what I've seen is messy and also filled with bots and people wasting more time than usual on the app. Try Bumble and Hinge. I'm personally not so interested in OLD for sex and filter pretty hard for girls I actually can see being with long term.
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:16 PM
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Define bad pics? If they work for me then they can't be that bad. i define bad pics as, do they fail maximize how attractive you are. if you're level of attractiveness is a 5 in in person, then a photo should make you look like a 6. you can find any friend or person who takes okay photos and do a photoshoot for 30 minutes and get yourself to that level. obviously professional photos can do even more. don't say that's too tryhard, you've probably blown more money on other dumb shit thinking it wo…
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:14 PM
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How would you define shit photos? If you're good looking you can pretty much put anything up. That is in general yes, but that doesn't mean good looking dudes can't take bad photos as well. Mine aren't professionally done at all and the camera quality is shit for example but I still have no issues getting laid from them. I mean, getting laid is vague. You said you're not getting laid from people you deem at your level or above.
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:11 PM
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My pics are fine they're probably worse than you think. it's just much better to find women irl of course it is. If you're ugly you won't get anything on apps no matter how "good" your pics are. you definitely can improve your chances. the best part is having the best photos of yourself, you can get laid without much effort while also doing irl stuff.
/r/seduction04/10/22 05:06 PM
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Because your photos probably are shit so you arent decent looking in your profile. If you took better photos, you’d have better results. Men just dont want to do that. They’ll invent any excuse or rationale from “OLD is only for 1% of guys”. There’s a tried and true playbook for OLD for success. But it requires things such as good photos which most guys dont have.
/r/seduction04/10/22 03:27 PM
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i didn't say sex doesn't matter. your interpretation is bizarre. if you suck at sex but are attractive to her and good at other aspects of seduction, the sex matters a whole lot less in keeping her around. so long as you are having sex and actually try your best to give her pleasure (whether or not your dick is tiny, you have no stamina, have no idea what foreplay is).
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:41 AM
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if a woman is attracted to you and you nail the other parts of seduction, the SEX itself matters less than the other aspects of dating. woman already dont care about the physical aspect of sex as much as men, they enjoy the courtship and romantic aspects of dating that culminate with sex.
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:02 AM
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i can see why you're dating women who tell you how other dudes make them feel better than you.
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:52 AM
2

beta isnt a real thing
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:51 AM
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I was dating a girl who was telling me how good her ex was in bed, how big he was and how he made her squirt and they did BDSM and stuff. kind of a weird thing to talk about unless you really digged at her for this info. you don't need to be good in bed, you just need to act like you care about making her feel good. intention matters more than the actual action
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:50 AM
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cool, just keep trying. Find someone who can encourage you or push you.
/r/seduction04/10/22 01:50 AM
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I didnt say be a dumb open book. Dont do things like: Lying about intentions, being deceptive, not trusting people and seeing them as tricking you or fucking with you. That doesnt mean you tell everyone your life story and social security. You are misinterpreting honest because of trust problems?
/r/seduction04/10/22 01:39 AM
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It does for the most part. A few dishonest people you encounter should not change this. You are traumatized obviously and should seek some therapy if you think dishonesty is the way to go.
/r/seduction04/10/22 01:30 AM
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Find other girls that arent being hit on?
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:56 AM
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If you like dishonest women, be dishonest. If you want honest women who dont play games, be honest.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:30 PM
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It isnt common, the reason you think so is because the exceptions stand out in your mind while the norm does not. It’s selection bias. This isnt to imply racism, it’s just natural and practical to date someone your race. You have more cultural familiarity and probability you can relate on things is higher.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:01 PM
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No you cant. Because with someone as inexperienced as you, any interaction is a success you can learn from.
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:58 PM
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I’m not saying they have lower standards. I’m saying hotter women generally will not fuck in a drunken ons with a random. Because it doesnt make any sense for them. They have plenty of options all the time.
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:56 PM
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you're 17 jesus dude. yes if it's stressing you out call it quits and focus on other things in life.
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:24 PM
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but I also think that a lot of guys go wrong about “just talking to her” and become a firm “NO” that it seems like a bad idea and builds this wrong sense of failure but in reality nothing ever starts if you don't do that so maybe that's why I thought of it as a risk. what? this makes no sense. you can't go wrong with talking to someone and asking them out even if it's an awful interaction and rejection. Also I don't really ask for extremely specific advice for example if someone were to come and…
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:17 PM
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wow u had sex so cool
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:05 PM
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What I mean by risky is just the fact that I want to keep talking to them and if I blow it that will be the end of it. the only thing you will risk is the friendship. you're not dating her right now. so what are you 'blowing' besides that? you want to keep a unrecipricated romantic interest around for what reason? I mean stuff like “Oh when I do this it helps me or when combo gets dry and I don't know what to say I do this” but again my wording was pretty ass so can't blame you on that one. i do…
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:02 PM
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This guy seems confused and afraid of the label of committment. You need to have an honest conversation about how you feel, what you want and ask him what he wants. If he can't give you straight answers and be clear on where you guys stand by the end of it, it's time to 'break up'. He's clearly is too immature. This has run it's course and will get messy. You've done pretty much everything couples will do besides move in together at this point. He's not a baby, he's a grown man, he should be abl…
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:54 PM
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Hello all, I am in college and want to start hooking up with girls, however I don’t want to be serious with them and take multiple girls on all these dates just to get laid. okay go to a party or bar and find drunk girls for one night stands? how is this even a question lol? you'll find this isn't very fun after a few times because only the uglier or lamer girls will be down to fuck immediately, but again that's what you got to accept.
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:51 PM
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This is because attraction for many people is how much they feel they're dating someone more attractive than them (IE you are more attracted the more you feel they're more attractive than you). In part it feeds one's ego and self-esteem. Thus when you're more attracted, feeling attractive yourself, you want to be more sexually open. People who are very horny will do more things in sex.
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:47 PM
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I don't get these comments, I don't have much emotion so low emotional intelligence one well you have emotion, you express or interpret it differently. perhaps you decide to bottle it up and never acknowledge it. nobody has no emotion, that's bullshit that people who are not in touch with their emotions and identity say to never understand how they feel about a situation. I see people saying go out and talk to random strangers but me being in college I already everyday do that but how is that su…
/r/seduction03/10/22 08:42 PM
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uh no. there was not way anyone would prosecute this as sexual assault or rape. it's purely testimony and nothing else.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:56 PM
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There is no reason to create a 'smooth' transition. if there's an opportunity for you to be clever go for it. but the best way is simply work on being as attractive as possible with your OLD profile via good photos and self improvement then just ask them out after establishing a bit of rapport. anything else is just busy work and wasting time. you aren't going to talk your way out of being ugly.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:52 PM
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Everywhere in the world. This is a universal fact.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:50 PM
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After the kiss we agreed it was kind of a mistake since it could ruin the dynamic of our friend group but, needless to say, I fell back for her. you fell for someone over a kiss? or you fell for her before the kiss. because those are two different things and i believe it's likely over the latter. in this case, you accept you won't date her and wont pursue romance and its purely a friendship or you risk it and confess your feelings and hope for the best. DO NOT WAIT, pick one or the other. here's…
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:49 PM
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go jerk off regularly, should work.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:45 PM
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That's the reality of all dating. You go will go pass hundreds of women a day, none of them are fucking you. Why bitch about OLD then, it's the same concept.
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:44 PM
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No, they have horrible results because most men are below average or average and they want girls who are above average. Let's put it this way: if money wasn't an issue would you pick eating shit food, average food, good food, or excellent food? Women get more to pick, but men expect that being shitty should yield elite results. Why would that be the case? Does that apply to ANY other aspect of life?
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:42 PM
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lol if you can barely talk to other people, you're not going to find much success suddenly beginning to talk to women. There isn't much advice here for you besides just go say hi and say whatever. You might fail, you might succeed, but the experience is a good start. Go speak to many people in all sorts of settings, not just women I have zero social skills This isn't what an introvert means. This is beyond being an introvert, you are not socially intelligent and likely are not emotionally intell…
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:39 PM
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Ever? Yes. But most people do not date outside of their race (whatever that may be).
/r/seduction03/10/22 07:06 PM
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Doesnt matter. Dont be weird and obsessively commenting if she doesnt show interest in what you write.
/r/seduction03/10/22 05:12 PM
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Well i think it might be fair to say you wont have time to talk to 100 girls a night and it might be good to find some sort of method to narrow it down.
/r/seduction02/10/22 12:06 AM
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Obviously being in shape helps, but that takes months of work. I’m asking about simple things that you can do in a weekend or over a month or so? Personally, this is a weird way of thinking. You can do simple things like a haircut but anything that actually makes you more attractive of any significance requires much more time than that.
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:43 PM
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You can google this. You don't need this sub. The information is out there and easy available. The problem is actually doing it, most guys are lazy. They don't want to put in effort. They'll make any excuse or blame women or society. You see it the most with the incessant whining about OLD. Yes, it isn't ideal but you don't put any effort in Tinder anyways. You spend a few minutes a day swiping and then you expect massive returns for what? Doing nothing?
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:33 PM
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Sure, most men are lazy too.
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:20 PM
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I shave and prefer shaved. But a little hair that’s clearly trimmed is also good.
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:04 PM
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Who cares if someone likes your pics, i like pics of people i hate lol
/r/seduction30/09/22 11:01 PM
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It’s all in your head. Especially if it’s someone you literally did not have a long term relationship with. Since it’s all in your head and imaginary, you can go distract yourself or find other people.
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:30 AM
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Check my reply to OP. Make a list, be honest with yourself, then rank the list, your top 3-5 (number doesnt really matter this range can be as short or long as you want).
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:23 AM
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Yeah this stop assuming these apps are honest.. they’re using a lot of psychological games. You dont see all your matches and likes. Sometimes its trickled out slowly.
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:35 PM
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That said it’s frustrating because very few people I know met their partners through forcing themselves to go out and meet people, if usually just happened… but whatever, I need to be more proactive with it if it makes you feel better, not all those people are happy with their partners and are probably 50/50 headed towards a breakup, and perhaps if they were more proactive about identifying what they truly wanted in a partner they'd find that person.
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:59 PM
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This isn't really a type. This is what anybody can say. Do you think anyone goes "I want a close-minded idiot who is judgemental and lacks creativity". No, everyone wants a smart, creative, intelligent person. But that itself is a pretty subjective and vague thing. Here's an exercise you can do: Write down SPECIFICALLY in a list of what attracts you. Be extremely specific to the point it's silly/petty ("I want her nose to be long!" "I want her tits to be big!" "I want her to have read this book …
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:54 PM
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I can take a guess that you have this problem because you dont really know whats your type. You didnt describe it once in this post
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:38 PM
8

Which is why a lot of people who “build” attractiveness tend to be more successful than other guys who won generic lotteries
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:27 AM
18

Well yeah. And ugly dude who everyone knows plays videogames all day is less attractive than an ugly dude who everyone knows does marathons, runs his own successful business, and owns a mansion.
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:24 AM
114

Yes, but not everyone is totally aware of their level of attractiveness
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:24 PM
5

PS: In 2 days I see her again and I want to ask her if she wants to go on a date with me. Wish me luck. yeah dont worry about if she's into you. just ask. i didnt even read your post tbh, total waste of time to analyze and figure this out when you can easily answer your question by asking her out.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:32 PM
33

Dont be obligated to make it “fun”. Because if someone is interested in you, even basic chitchat is fun for them in the early stages.
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:34 AM
17

That’s a good thing. I’m the same way. I also stop finding them personally attractive.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:58 PM
1

They’d also just say hey let’s fuck.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:50 PM
5

This is why it benefits everyone for making women feel more comfortable being direct and openly desire sex. Instead of shaming them for body counts or other nonsense. Better communication = better relationships.
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:49 AM
19

Yes it would be. You will misread, you will get embarrassed, these will be your learning pains. These are inevitable things that occur on the road to success. It is part of the process.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:57 PM
2

If you hook up with someone, you treat them nicely and respectfully almost like they’re a human being! Women will appreciate it and tell others and your reputation will improve regardless.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:55 PM
3

Time will heal this.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Play games at the bar whether it’s pool, darts, whatever.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:52 PM
-1

If you really dont want to improve your inner game then why not just go the full way and order some Ukrainian brides or some shit? Dont lie to yourself.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:49 PM
41

This question is asked a billion times every fucking day dude. You can’t. Every person and situation is a different. You’ll need to just brute force this through experience and assume regardless of her flirting or not, that you are trying to be purposeful in setting yourself as a confident attractive man people want to date. Outside of consent and respecting rejection, it doesn’t matter what she is doing. You’re on your own path. Who cares if she’s flirting? Most women dont know how to flirt any…
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:47 PM
2

Yeah I’m sure most guys have done it sooner or later.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:42 PM
1

It works in spite of the groin pad
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:17 AM
2

Groin pad????
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:16 AM
1

So you’re basically saying you’re somehow great at everything yet somehow have no success. Tell me what’s more likely? That you’re not being honest or you’re the unluckiest man in the world. The way you talk about yourself already raises eyebrows. Like it’s a lie you repeat to shield your insecurity over your faults. Which is bad because now you’ll never feel the need to work on it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:50 AM
0

You’re probably none of those things and just delusional. It’s not easy to be objective on yourself.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:30 AM
1

Theyre all fine. If you actually approach. That being said you’d be surprised how many girls are less inclined to fuck in general.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:55 PM
2

No details so how do we know you did anything
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:17 AM
6

If you are confident in yourself sexually and willing to get rejected then it certainly helps. But many guys just think the friends with girls part works without the inner stuff, which without only has you being platonic with women.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:21 AM
1

People get very confused what this stuff is about lol. If you’re getting a lot of public attention from women but not having sex anywhere close to what the attention implies all you’re doing is … nothing. Who cares lol.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:05 AM
1

She’s giving you another shot. But there’s really little you should do beyond the typical fundamentals in texting. Keep it brief and set up a date. The idea the woman wants attention is kind of true but not in the way the losers think. She is LONELY, she wants attention from someone who she is attracted to. Just like you want a hot girl to give you attention. The fuck else do you think you’re on here for? Hoping girls dont give you any attention?
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:56 AM
6

Thats cool, did he actually have sex with them though?
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:44 AM
1

Guess your sex wasnt that good lol. So she wasnt down?
/r/seduction14/09/22 06:25 PM
1

Lets do this again later this/next week. Just ask dude. Unless shes mortified or has no desire to ever speak to you again.
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:54 PM
1

Any of those things you listed. Sometimes its all of them. Soemtimes its silly. A lot of relationships start from funny situations and places for a reason (how many people say they met their partner in bizarre unthinkable circumstances).
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:31 PM
2

Who cares? You didnt do anything wrong, or at least nothing you realistically could have done better at.
/r/seduction13/09/22 10:16 AM
0

He literally wrote “how does he use socializing as a means to an end”. Yeah unless he want to be diagnosed as a sociopath, it shouldnt be seen as that way. It isnt how humans work or wired. We are biologically social. Even chit chatting about weather is something that keeps us mentally stimulated and alive. There’s nothing to advise on that besides socializing can be the end, not the means. And if that isnt going to work for you, again: sociopath. This shit is how school shooters begin as well.
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:05 AM
0

If you really cant find anyone interesting then you should quit being a judgemental prick and try to understand and learn about more people. I cant see how as a normal human being you dont want to talk and learn about people then EXPECT people to want to socialize with you and possibly fuck you. The more you get rid of this idea that socializing is a means to an end and not a part of being human the sooner the better
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:13 PM
0

Its not just women unless you’re a misogynist
/r/seduction12/09/22 10:56 AM
0

2is very true for guys and girls. Anyone can cheat, it’s total nonsense to believe you’re 100% capable of never cheating. The people who dont end up being unfaithful are ones that dont put themselves in situations where drug, drinking, and partying are common. Those people are in denial about how easy and quickly one can turn into a cheater with just some drug influence.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:21 AM
2

You’ll have plenty of sex in your 20s and you wont care much.
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:26 AM
-3

I dont think stds are all that big of a deal
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:26 AM
1

Try touching them instead of saying something.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:30 PM
0

shit tests arent real. Answer how you want, but honestly or respectfully honest is the way to go if you want to maximize your chances of a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:34 PM
1

You dont need to be actively flirtatious and charming. It’s a total myth that PUAs like to do because it means they get to sell bullshit to you but its not necessary. It might also feel good, but again, not necessary to get laid. Dont put this pressure on yourself. Just being interesting and interested will work 99% of the time.
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:24 PM
4

She mightve wanted to vibe at a concert and that’s it lol. Your expectations were a bit too high. No worries.
/r/seduction09/09/22 11:01 AM
2

Well the over explained concept is dumb. But there’s clearly things women do when theyre interested.
/r/seduction09/09/22 10:57 AM
4

Lotta dudes start as lite misogynist then just become plain misanthropes. Lol.
/r/seduction09/09/22 10:09 AM
4

Your post on how women dont respect you is being rejected (or in the latter case, she didn’t give you a snapchat but an instagram). So you’re basically saying you dont feel respect because people don’t do what you want? Why should anyone respect someone who thinks like that? The lack of respect is all in your head btw. Sounds like they respect you fine, that doesnt mean you get to stick your dick in them. Relax, keep going. Stop letting minor irrelevant defeats bother you.
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:59 AM
0

Or dont be an absolute fool and be respectful and non judgemental. Having a basic convo where you guys get to know each other doesnt require to tell her your strong opinion on abortion or other shit. But maybe a few fun opinions on pineapple on pizza. The idea being quiet and not talking much isnt going to work for most dudes. The advice is outdated and played out. You arent brad pitt you dont get to scoot by being silent. I’ve gone on so many dates where women complained briefly about she dated…
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:56 AM
1

Mightve been kind of weird to write, or it doesnt matter and she woudlve ghosted anyways. You’ll say and do plenty of things. Dont focus on minutae here
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:15 AM
1

This isnt as true as the introverts and socially awkward people want it to believe.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:09 AM
-4

You dont talk, you dont have an opinion on anything
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:03 AM
1

This isnt worth parsing over. Obviously you have a bone to pick since your ex didnt change like you hoped. Too bad dude.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:45 PM
1

Why are you measuring it by DRINKING? I said they BOTH do it. Your reading comprehension is poor which is why you struggle. 18 years olds have many things they wouldnt have done. You 4 fewer years of life they havent experienced when they already experienced little. 4 fewer years of being legally adult 4 fewer years of living on their own 22 year olds often finished their undergrad or are close so they will start or have started to think about their careers and long term life goals Idk how you r…
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:56 PM
1

Ok maybe go ahead and add something to this worthless back and forth then
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:25 PM
1

What is my barometer? Since I never stated it, I guess you read my mind.
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:06 PM
1

You might but given that half of the submissions on this sub are dudes whining and not listening to advice given, men dont see to like advice either. Just validation.
/r/seduction08/09/22 07:02 AM
5

That is a weird way to diffrentiate. People party into their late 20s that doesnt mean a 27 year old is the same as an 18 year old. Your barometer for different isnt exactly nuanced.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:33 PM
1

You literally cried when I told you what to do. Go read the post again.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:32 PM
1

Ok, so what if they have options? What is your point? Do you think most women enjoy dating forever and spending time with different guys all the time? If you think they do, you know jackshit about women. They love familiarity and comfort. They want to be with a partner or atleast someone they can see consistently.
/r/seduction07/09/22 08:10 PM
1

Lol okay. You dont want advice, you want to cry. Go find your mommy. I bet you think you’re logical and smart too.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:32 PM
1

be more attractive and better looking. regardless how attractive you are, you could be better. bigger muscle definition, more ab definition, better haircut, smile more, fix your teeth, dress better. even minor things will make a difference because most people are shit at judging their own looks fix your personality, be more positive about yourself and others. find joy in everyone and everything and understand people even if they dont reciprocate or are rude to you. shut up about objectively ugly…
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:26 PM
1

Lmao ugly does not mean give up. Jesus christ. It’s an assessment what I think you are. Do you think lying and saying you’re objectively good looking is working? Because your post is about how you failed and feel defeated. You are beyond help if you can’t take feedback that you’re probably ugly. Be honest what you are so you can get better. Or just cry and be ugly.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:16 PM
1

Nowhere did I say give up. You have a serious negative mentality you need to work on since you're seeing shit that isnt there now.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:11 PM
6

it's really easy to be a good listener. stop fucking talking and listen. literally treat listening to her and not commenting like an exercise or habit you need to hone. some of you guys are legit like children. wtf is this lol
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:10 PM
1

there's a sidebar for you to read. i think you knew that already. you don't want to put in effort, you think whining will fix things or magically life will give you what you want (maybe it did in the past and now your luck ran out)
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:09 PM
1

How am I getting dates then if I'm objectively ugly? I said one of them must be true. That doesn't make sense. Okay, so my explanation doesn't make sense. So let's use your explanation. Most women on OLD are entitled right? is that why I know so many of my friends and myself have had pretty good success none of us are Sean Connery levels of charming or good looking. It can't be the fact that it's a you problem right? No, that's crazy! You sound like a catch. You're going around trying to date wo…
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:07 PM
14

Most dudes here are so fucking delusional and it's hilarious how they're giving each other wrong advice but hyping it up.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:04 PM
11

dating an 18 year old is different than a 22 year old. they're not the same.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:04 PM
2

Based on what? Your posts, your mindset, your opinions. They're all massive turnoffs and you will not succeed at life like this. if you're below average, work on being above average. wtf do you think is supposed to happen? you magically get better by bitching all the time? do you see people who complain 24/7 about everything get a better life?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:02 PM
2

It doesn't matter if there are objectively good looking people, you aren't objectively one of them. you aren't a model or handsome celebrity. you're a normal dude, who may look good or not. but given you fail so many dates one or both of of these must be true: you are ugly you have a repulsive personality and it's obvious in a few minutes to a girl the good news is the ugly part doesnt even matter. it's the 2nd part that will take more work. you have clear ego issues that stem from insecurity. T…
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:58 PM
5

When someone says Im objectively above her looks wise: I am not surprised you failed on so many dates, you sound obnoxious and a chore to be around You probably are ugly
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:12 PM
3

You honestly sound like you’re below average yourself.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:11 PM
0

This isnt the right mindset to take. It makes me doubt you really did any of that as well. Almost 99% of women I have met thru OLD have been nice respectful and kind. I cant imagine anyone just being a jerk but putting in time in their day to meet you lol. Maybe she had a shitty day, dont let that cloud your worldview.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:08 PM
3

I mean did you act fun and interested? Or just awkward and uninterested. Did you assume since she was uglier than you that you didnt need to flirt or talk much at all? A lot of people think if someones below their league they get to put less effort and act rude because the other person should be happy you give them the time of day. It has nothing to do with location.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:19 PM
11

Are you on a date or just hanging out as friends? You need to be clear, not only to us, but make it clear to whoever you want to have sex with that you are not on a friends hang out. It’s a date.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:13 PM
3

Dont go on dates if you cant try a little. It sounds like while she couldve not been so rude, I’m sure you werent exactly a gentlemen either. Theres no advice but forget it and move on
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:10 PM
1

Bumble and hinge.
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:58 PM
2

if you're obsessed with some girl and you guys already have some sense of a relationship, maybe it's time to ask her about more seriousness? what is there to lose? you really want to obsess over someone you aren't with?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:04 AM
2

lol, there's no fucking way he has zero matches unless he swipes right on only 10s. i'm average with good pics and i get constant matches though i've basically tuned out of trying since other apps are way better for dates. he's probably ugly, with worse pictures. stop making shit up, tinder isn't great but guess what you dont put any effort in it so who cares. do you cry about the quality of free food?
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:00 AM
7

there's genuine open relationships that work fine, but the problem is insecure people put themselves in one. you can't do this if you are even the slightest bit insecure about your identity and position.
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:49 AM
6

i've done casual sex with both. friends, strangers, coworkers a few times (don't recommend but I got lucky)
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:45 AM
1

That's everyone, especially fragile redditors if you disagree with the narrative. Mass downvotes and hysterics over what you said.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:53 PM
2

any step forward is a good step. appreciate any wins, big or small, if you build upon it.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:34 PM
56

on this sub? women are pretty logical and rational, most guys who cry otherwise are the same illogical, irrational, whiny "bitches" that they complain about. it sucks they had a few bad experiences but there's a reason those experiences standout and shape their worldview (it has something to do with them) instead of healthily accepting there's both men and women who got problems and there's no reason to moan about it 24/7. there is a push-pull to relationships in general, but especially between …
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:33 PM
4

You listen, you don't do whatever she asks (since oftentimes people don't know what they want). You should take what she says into account (that doesn't mean doing what she says). You can do whatever you want and face consequences of that, but if you want a successful long term relationship and build something you will have to start listening and making decisions based on her answers and actions. yes it's not easy, that's why dudes suck at it and instead fall into bizarre patterns of not listeni…
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:26 PM
1

It sounded like you wanted to date her more than just sleep with her. Either way is bad but the former is more likely to fuck with you way more.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:19 PM
2

Honestly you guys are right but sometimes you need to just read what the women says or wants. You can even ask. Generally speaking, if after the 1st time you have sex, you can text more. After a few more dates you can text a LOT more. However, all this is contextual. Just communicate with her what she wants and what you want.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:03 PM
2

If you’re falling for people and they want not much to do with long term, that is a you thing. Driven by loneliness, insecurity, or other personal issues that were shaped by past experiences. This isnt meant to offend or criticize, but it’s important to develop past this. Women and men are both guilty of this esp in their 20s. A person with experience or better in touch with themselves does not fall or get upset with women who may or may not want anything more than a hookup. They enjoy time toge…
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:57 PM
1

Yeah so you arent some greek god to compensate for your terrible social skills it sounds like. Humans are programmed to be social creatures, you need to realize it’s your biological instinct. Dont be so defeatist. Go work on this. Theres trillions of self help books to work on being a more approachable guy who people want to be friends with and talk to.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:07 AM
2

This is the most risk averse way to do FWBs , however you need to be someone who is pretty sexual experienced and comfortable for her to accept this consistently. Otherwise she loses interest and would rather spend time with someone who does the dating stuff. Like the sex you offer should be something she cant have anywhere else. But if its vanilla and you just do some plain pumping and dumping and maybe some oral here and there. Nah.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:05 AM
2

Lol no.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:03 AM
1

You probably arent as fit as you think to compensate for someone who sounds like theyre socially awkward and have few friends (keyword you said is tried). If you’re a social person, it’s not necessary to try at that point. But you arent there yet, so try harder. Actually socialize with anyone, make friends, fuck it force the friendships if you have to (and get used to rejection).
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:59 AM
6

Mmm, I think is called social momentum. In general it’s good to practice it when you want to approach. Talk to anyone and have a convo.
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:56 AM
3

How old are you? She’s gonna spurn you bad. Someone like this is generally bad at communicating, has identity crisis or serious personal issues. The fact shes shitting on her boyfriend and not feeling much guilt and wants to pursue this is major red flags dude. Use your brain. I could understand you think this is a catch because you havent fucked many attractive women before but believe me, it’s not.
/r/seduction06/09/22 08:53 AM
3

uh sure so do many other things including what side of the bed you woke up on.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:23 AM
3

No girl knows your dick size before she sleeps with you. Even if they felt it by grabbing your crotch they’d have no idea.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:18 AM
10

If you’re frustrated about not achieving something, then you keep doing things or practicing to achieve that result you want. There is no other way besides praying and being lucky but that is also something that can happen as you work on yourself. theres plenty of material here and online to help you meet women who want to date you. I dont think given you’re stuck studying medicine you will have as much time unfortunately but if you want something badly you make time for it. Or you dont and acce…
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:16 AM
2

you can either develop empathy by understanding people more through more interactions or by practicing empathetic related gestures and actions. Or you’re a sociopath in which case you cant really do much.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:07 AM
1

The other thing of course is that sex at 4am drunk and tired with a stranger who probably has gonorrhoea isn’t that great either eh i doubt you'll be with someone who has gonorrhea and the chances of contracting it even if you did (and didn't use a condom) is very unlikely. at least for me I can barely even get it up when I’m drunk and I’d rather just have sex with someone I’ve at least gotten to know a bit so the juice probably isn’t worth the squeeze all things considered yeah that makes sense…
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:21 AM
2

women are logical, they may not be reliant on logic as men but that doesnt mean they dont use logic lol.
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:43 AM
31

you sound like you have some issues you should really work on in that case. and i mean so in a genuine manner.
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:19 AM
25

this is terrible advice not because he's wrong. but because no inexperienced can interpret this correctly and be successful with it. if you're new and you suck at this, you 100% have to try. have you ever learned a skill without trying first? i doubt it. trying should be: look more attractive: clothes, haircut, physique be more attractive: have some hobbies that involve groups, good social media game, a solid friend group your friend doesn't have any useful advice for you despite his alleged suc…
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:11 AM
2

in case you dont find anyone, you dont need a wing man for that road. if you're white or farang you literally can just walk around and talk to people (and a lot of people there are very interested in talking).
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:53 AM
67

what's the point of being healthy if healthy people also get cancer or terminal diseases? that's how you sound like right now.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:52 AM
1

But if you’re not escalating on the dance floor and you’re in a place where it’s too loud to hold a conversation you can escalate on the dance floor but from my experience that gets you some kisses and grinding. that doesn't get you laid as much. i dont know why, but it's been my experience. i'm sure some people can have a different experience but i'd say i'm not some 9/10 hot shit and a fairly average guy (in terms of face) who has a decent build, and takes cares of myself (clothes fit, haircut…
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:50 AM
1

you're assuming hinge is entirely honest and shows you likes whenever someone likes you and it's not selective in what it shows you have to have an extremely attractive profile, which most guys don't have girls barely browse through discovery on hinge, they get a gazillion likes and filter through the people who liked them first. you're basically putting yourself at a handicap by not doing it overall though, just do what you like. if you are lazy and dont want to put energy into hinge but find t…
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:00 PM
0

He’s not a gnome. He’s 5’8”. He’s taller than most men and people.
/r/seduction05/09/22 09:04 PM
6

Haha this isnt true. Ive clubbed, hung out with a girl group. The attractive ones got hit on all night by a carousel of guys. I basically just talked to a few of them who seemed fun just to socialize. By the end of the night those girls were asking me if I wanted to hang out with them after (while the guys hitting on them basically all got rejected from an f-close). After I said yes, a few them tried to fuck me the second we got back the house There is no rhyme and reason to clubbing. You can do…
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:26 PM
10

hmmm id say most people are looking for a relationship but it would need to be with the right person.
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:17 PM
16

no, there are women who want to have sex with men that they want to have sex with and repulsed by men who they dont want to have sex with proposing sex to them.
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:52 AM
1

i dont care if people do this but personally i think it's kind of lame especially given that you feel a shame or embarassment about getting caught. like you're 5'8" you're taller than most people, relax.
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:03 AM
6

Yes that works.
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:55 PM
-1

Usually dont do this doesnt mean theyve never done it. Just means its pretty uncommon. So it’s not a lie. What you are doing is interpreting things how you want, not what was intended.
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:54 PM
0

They also probably aren’t lying.
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:30 PM
2

No it doesnt. Its proven people who read a lot of books are better at learning and digesting ideas.
/r/seduction03/09/22 08:14 AM
1

reading books has some more benefits than the other two.
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:45 AM
4

Eat some grass at this rate
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:05 AM
2

This isnt true. Most hobbies are fairly productive. They improve certain fundamental skills in life or create things. If you knit, you make things for example. Drawing makes sketches. Painting etc…. And those skills transfer to many other things. Gaming not so much. Maybe it improves your typing speed. Or gives you carpal tunnel lol.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:04 AM
2

Because videogames involve sitting at home doing nothing and invite sloth like behavior for most people who play. Unless you go to LAN parties or something more active with games, thats it.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:01 AM
15

Op you’re suffering from overanalysis. Stop making everything about everything. Doesnt matter who texts.
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:46 AM
4

Hey its blahblah, you’re pretty cute and I think we should hang out this Friday at 7pm. Just say anything lol. Its not rocket science. You’re leaving anyways.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:30 PM
16

Ok what exactly is the problem here? Seems fine? You can pick whomever if it’s genuinely your preference and not bizarre insecurities you havent resolved.
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:38 AM
3

You should have some expectations of success. If you arent achieving even marginal success you should re evaluate. The goal isnt the process its the goal. You dont pass ball around you score the basket.
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:47 AM
1

I give you a 6. You have a lot of easily fixable things to get to a 7-8. I don’t think you need to change anything you dont want to tho, since you have success anyways
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:12 AM
1

this is not good advice, the goal here is for you to have sex with attractive women and you follow processes like approaching, working our, building confidence as a means to that end. the means is not THE end, approaching to approach but not achieving your goal is brain dead unless you dont like having sex with women
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:06 AM
1

7 hours? What…
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:34 AM
1

If you never talked to someone before, dont give them advice. Why dont you ask what she’s doing ? How often she’s at the gym?
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:57 PM
14

If a girl invites you over to her house you can literally just bone her openly. If she wants something different than what you’re doing she’ll tell you. Just listen.
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:56 PM
2

I dont think you need to open with anything but “Hi , you’re cute. What are you doing right now?” If they reply to that or not, it’s out of your control. Keep it neutral and not to overtly flirty or detailed. Give them an easy way to reply.
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:29 AM
3

Yeah im curious too, but getting advice about this from 18 year olds pretending otherwise isnt going to help
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:17 AM
48

You really used all your brain cells for that one
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:14 AM
32

You have quite the post history.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:58 AM
1

If you’re 50 nobody can tell you of any first hand experience
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:57 AM
1

You’re asking what you should do? Or how should you do what you want to do? Because what you SHOULD do is not bother and go hit on literally anyone else instead of making your workplace difficult.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:34 AM
1

I mean why arent you into texting? If you replace that form of comms with something else it is “okay”. But it’s pretty weird to not text at all to the point it would impact your dating life. Nobody expects you to reply 24/7 and chitchat.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:33 PM
1

Then its fine. Just dont do anything funky or flirty at the bar when they all can see. You’re all friends.
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:26 PM
3

Lol mysterious silent guy is the total wrong image you want someone to think of. But the rest of your advice is correct.
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:30 PM
0

I appreciate the fluff but what you’re saying is the same adage repeated here all the time: experience life and try new things, challenge yourself. There isn’t much more to it.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:36 PM
7

This is good bait
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:58 AM
1

do you tell people how to pop wheelies when they dont even know how to operate a clutch?
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:28 AM
1

This isn’t a debate nerd.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:39 AM
0

i have empathy for you, i do wonder where it went wrong for you.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:31 AM
0

the truth sure has liberated your brain from your head.
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:08 AM
-1

glad we have posts like this here to really show the ingenuity of the sub. i'm so glad guys are taking advice from someone like this all the time.
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:28 AM
2

You not wanting something to be true, doesn't make it less true. What you wear, what you choose to do with your body represents some facet of who you are to others. That fact will never change. Unless you have something significant that alters that perception: IE homeless looking rich guy then you're just going to have live with it. I don't understand why you think you can't change your look. You can't wear different clothes? You can't take photos or do things that don't fit in your words "rappe…
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:24 AM
1

but I don’t hang out with them outside the activities, literally easiest thing to do after the activity is ask them if they want to eat or grab a drink and talk. then make it a regular occurrence. add them on social media, comment on what they post positively.
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:22 AM
2

If your look doesn't match your personality, then why aren't you changing your look via clothes or accessories or haircuts?
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:20 AM
2

There’s very little you can do within an approach to change your chances of success. Almost all you do is outside the approach. Building a fun life, being physically attractive, having a good attitude and life, etc. The whole idea you can do this and that within the conversation to change things is true maybe 1% of encounters but the fact you’re here means you shouldnt bother, focus on improving it on a macro level not micro. The reason a lot of guys think these minor irrelevant details matter i…
/r/seduction31/08/22 01:12 AM
1

Idk if you should be using the term orientals.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:30 AM
0

Why would you want to sleep with this girl? You seriously have problems if you think this is a good idea. She’s clearly a shitty person and you would be showing your massive insecurity by even attempting this. Not to mention being an actual piece of shit. Are you a sentient human or a dog who humps everything it can? I don’t believe you’d make this post for any reason beyond hoping some idiots on this sub validate you fucking your best friends fiance.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:21 AM
2

If you have to ask, you shouldnt try to flirt over text much. It gets misinterpreted easily and has a lot of dynamics that require experience.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:18 AM
26

conversation topics dont matter. you can ask what theyre looking for in a partner i guess. The best way is physical escalation by touch.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:19 PM
2

Hi how are you doing? It’s me (name) Remember when i got your number on tinder well I like calling to ask a girl out. Let’s go grab a drink at 6pm on thursday. Okay, let’s meet at this (location).
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:01 AM
1

The fact you dont have friends is bizarre despite you claiming to do things like dancing or fixing cars. These kind of activities lend themselves to socializing and meeting people who have similar interests. Nobody begins dancing or fixing cars solo, someone taught them or showed them. Even people who have autism and learning disabilities can have friends. You have to stop making excuses. Make some friends, put in effort to reach out and meet people and establish bonds. Part of that is being pro…
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:53 AM
5

It doesnt matter. Reply whenever. Guys who think their texting intervals are why the girl dropped interest are the most clueless and misinformed dudes. They will blame a totally irrelevant subject to avoid acknowledging the other factors (some of which out of your control)
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:13 AM
3

Here’s an easy way to start being comfortable with your sexuality, start talking to girls about other girls you find attractive. Not like a creepy perv or horny dude but in a respectful or humorous way.
/r/seduction30/08/22 06:12 AM
1

I wont say the other answers are wrong but based on what you wrote, you didnt do anything particularly wrong. It sounds like her problem and not related to your actions. So there isnt anything to worry about. Maybe she was cheating, maybe she got shocked about having sex, maybe she was horny and then didnt feel horny and thought you were ugly. All these random things might be true as much as the other.
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:12 AM
1

When you see a guy with messy hair, in black jeans, or a leather jacket smoking cigarettes in a photo, what kind of vibe does that give off? Look the way you want to be portrayed. Then do things that you think a person who you want to be does. It’s fairly simple once you break it down that way, but you’ll need to do those things once you have it broken down. If you have issues developing a style that makes you feel attractive (before we worry about what others think) that’s okay, it takes work. …
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:09 AM
1

It’s okay. You should have more pics taken of yourself. Candid photos arent difficult if you have one friend just snapping you doing ANYTHING. if you’re in good shape it should show thru.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:47 PM
3

Yes it does. Speaking from experience, you start to not care and sometimes just go on dates or whatever out of routine than any real desire.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:38 PM
4

Well if you dont know which many people struggle at reading, then you can only find out by approaching and making a move blindly and learn thru experience. But we dont have all the time in the world, and eventually you want to filter people out and not spend time barking up the wrong trees. You’ll start to read cues and understand better when girls show interest. But in the end, the best way to know will always be to ask her out. Also what fucks up a lot of guys is they cant read signals and get…
/r/seduction29/08/22 01:23 AM
3

Nobody is walking away from someone due to catholicism except weird catholic haters who I doubt you run into. You are overthinking it, unless you’re lying. Literally nobody assumes a catholic is conservative and hates gay people or something. The POTUS is a catholic and he goes around talking about protecting trans people.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:50 AM
6

How is gay marriage a controversial topic? Do you live in Saudi Arabia? What is there to even discuss? It’s legal, it’s socially accepted, universally popular or tolerated atleast. Do you really have some beef with gay people? In general shut up, don’t say anything on the topic even if you mostly agree. One part of early dating is knowing boundaries on topics. Like you wouldnt poor every detail about your ex before you got know a person or it sounds like you have no boundaries. Of course I’d als…
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:46 AM
-8

Ok? Why the fuck would I care about that? Is it s competition between you and annoying women to be alone? Because if so, sounds like you’re winning.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:38 AM
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But if you’re a straight man, they don’t give a fuck about you. he sounds like a twat. judging all women for the actions of one or maybe a few.
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:00 AM
2

In all my years, i have never been stood up. Ive had people cancel/flake but give me a heads up before I show up like a dumbass. This is over 100 + dates. I’m not saying it wouldnt upset me or surprise me if it happened. It would, but like I also wouldnt act like its some pattern I need to judge women over. It’s about that individual only and nothing else. And to be fair, if I saw this as your date, I’d flake too. You sound like a twat and not attractive.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:48 AM
4

How many flakes? How many approaches and women gave you numbers? Are you texting a lot? What are you texting? Without these specifics, there’s no way to know if you’re whining and being a baby about 2-3 flakes (perfectly normal) or there might be something else you are doing wrong
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:47 AM
12

There is little zero info in this post to help us distinguish. Also she’s your colleague, she HAS to be friendly. If you MUST hit on and try to date colleagues, the path to that is starting off on a friendly lunch with no expectations. Usually it’s a lot more complicated than straight up asking someone out IMO, of course depends on the workplace. A restaurant is a lot more direct and open, an office is indirect. IDK i also think most girls/guys who date in the workplace dont have the best judgme…
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:42 AM
16

Say however many. If she bails, then you know, she probably wasn’t fucking you that night anyways. Women who treat that as a dealbreaker are not having sex with you easily. Which is fine. It’s for the best that compatible people match.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:39 AM
2

Exactly if you find that if you cant tell if theyre joking or serious, and that already throws YOU off. It certainly would throw off other women you just met or barely know. You are probably less funny than you think! But that’s okay, people dont need you to be a comedian.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:36 AM
4

Without exact recording, I can’t say for certain. But 9/10 it’s because you dont sound comfortable that you would make a women open up to you. Women open up to even strangers EASILY. Also what is a sarcastic person? Sarcasm is a pretty lame and weak way to inject humor. Use it sparingly. For one, it isnt all that funny. Standup comedians might use it once or twice in an act. That should tell you it isnt a good thing to label yourself. Also ask yourself if a woman was as sarcastic to you as you a…
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:19 AM
0

Lmfao, you probably give off a vibe that cant be trustworthy. Girls open up to me all the damn time. Even on first dates, the key? Dont sound judgemental, and be open and honest yourself. I act masculine. I actually will make some soft gender jokes and talk about how I work out and ride my motorbike on the weekends. A big part of this myth is probably most guys think saying little about themselves and just sounding like a mysterious loner is “cool”. Sorry you arent, this isnt Drive. You just are…
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:19 AM
1

He should tell the truth. The reality is, most women are okay with you being truthful but compassionate. Girls ate okay with casual relationships. She’s on dating apps, she is not a moron. She knows what the chances are that LTRs don’t always happen.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:43 PM
1

I think you should try in this relationship. It could go poorly, you could get hurt, but you sound like you need to risk it and experience life. At its worst, you’ll grow and learn much about yourself. It is not just about fucking around.
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:34 PM
1

Sounds like this would improve your QOL. Give it a shot.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:00 PM
4

this one's easy, ignore all the advice saying "do this and do that". that itself is too much 'logic'. just talk to more people, anywhere you can meet people, of all walks of life, girls or guys. talk to more of them, make more friends. eventually you'll emulate aspects of them include their speech and attitudes and sound less like a dork. this is how culture works.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:42 PM
2

having 1-2 pictures of you with other people will get you more matches because it conveys a feeling that you have friends and are sociable.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:40 PM
1

if you don't like living in downtown then don't do it. if you do, then go for it.
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:19 PM
1

Lol why are you judging a bouncer again
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:18 PM
0

If she isnt relationship material why you trippin’? Could be anything from she had a bad day to she’s on her period. Who knows. Nothing you said gives enough detail.
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:03 PM
1

You can work on those things easy. Dont take what Im saying as an inevitable. Just an honest assessment.
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:12 PM
1

Everything you wrote is the same for guys. Boyfriend check out other girls. Everyone wants their partner to be physically attractive and desired. The one thing guys get that girls dont, is being attractive as a guy is easier than it is as a girl. You dont need to throw on makeup all day.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:46 PM
0

Like most comments on this sub
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:48 PM
1

All those girls are asking you to not be awkward, not be ugly, and dress like you arent homeless. Not a lot to ask for. Yet here you are.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:30 PM
1

Who reads your bio to cold approach lmfao
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:29 PM
1

Men definitely pretend otherwise. More than half the guy here lie to themselves how ugly they are, how despicably annoying they are to interact with, how they perceive women (so they can justify why they can’t get laid). Also a majority of politicians are men, and politicians are the biggest lying scumbags of all time. So those politicians covered the lying for the rest.
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:28 PM
1

Dont forget it’s a sub of WANNABE PUAs who make shit up to rationalize their failed lives
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:26 PM
-3

Kk little one not sure what the food is salty comparison relates to broad generalizations
/r/seduction24/08/22 03:24 PM
2

having sex on tinder and never talking again is 100% normal. in fact half the time even if shes/shes smoking hot, the post nut clarity where you have zero horniness shows you dont care an iota about the other person. Girls are just as horny as dudes. So they fall for the same biological deception.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:58 AM
-18

Yeah I would. And it still makes no sense. It’s more likely you got unlucky or attract mentally trouble women yourself. Then when you dated one from non dating apps you call yourself an expert? Well whatever people can take their advice from reddit i guess. Not like I take this shit that seriously. Go make your own framework and boundaries if it makes you happy.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:54 AM
-45

Yeah but that personal pov is worthless. Thats like me saying mexican food is bad because i only ate at taco bell once. If i stated that you’d call me an idiot. Rightfully.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:46 AM
-25

Unless youve dated thousands of women, your sample size has to be way too low to make this statement non anecdotally
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:21 AM
3

No one cares at all. Just post it.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:19 AM
0

she sounds like she does this with a lot of guys. the whole im with friends thing sounds like she invited multiple dudes and its just primarily for having a big group and maybe one of them gets lucky. Also the kind of nonchalant take it or leave it answers doesnt sound very promising. But regardless you can just go and see what happens on Thursday. Bring other friends. You’ll know in 15 minutes if shes interested in you. If not, go find some other girls at the club.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:06 AM
6

I have few friends and but don't interact that much and we just don't know that much about each other. Huh? These arent really friends then. More like acquaintances. Its totally possible to be a loner and get a gf. You will have a bit more trouble though since guys without friends tend to be red flags for girls.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:02 AM
1

They’re all just massive party fests. So dont bother if you dont like being stuck with drunk people
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:25 PM
1

You did the right thing
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:24 PM
2

No.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:54 PM
1

You arent getting matches cuz your pictures suck my man.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:32 PM
1

this, but if you’re getting laid and having fun. It’s whatever man.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:29 AM
1

Yeah you’re right. This is one of those that can be solved.
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:23 AM
21

You’re not Jamel Debbouze
/r/seduction23/08/22 01:22 AM
1

Taking 50 pics is really not that time consuming or hard. You just continuously press a button on your phone. Might take 2 minute tops. These women are actually not spending anymore time on it than you do on reddit doing god knows what useless embarrassing shit
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:16 AM
2

So what? If 99% of those guys are ugly and you’re slightly more attractive she gives you a chance. Who gives a fuck how many dudes she has after her if you rise above the pack? It makes you look way hotter. Girls want to find a guy (the right guy) they have to filter 100 likes, they’ll pick a few. Just be one of the top 10. It’s not that hard really. The odds are in your favor AS long as you arent a sad self pitied whiner about how the odds are against you. They really arent. Never fall for this…
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:04 AM
2

Nah, most guys are just lazy as shit and dont take good pics either. Dont be an ugly person since you prolly arent that ugly and get some good photos. Hang out with friends tell them to take alot of candid pics, learn how to pose (easy), Is this going to have you fucking 10s? No, because thats hard for hot guys even. But it should bump up your chances for everyone else
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:47 PM
10

Ok then go fix that? Or find satisfaction in life with other things besides the last hot girl you fucked. Kinda silly to get so hung up and depressed over a hookup.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:46 PM
40

You put her on a pedestal. You’d probably find her boring after a few more lays and without much chemistry or personality attraction, she’d just be any average girl.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:31 PM
1

It’s not unless you make it seem like you have baggage from them.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:30 PM
2

All tattoos are shitty lol. It’s a given. And I’d know, I have a fuckton
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:55 PM
2

This is bait
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:52 PM
0

You’re an absolute clown
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:11 PM
10

In scandinavia, dating culture is very different. It’s not abnormal for girls to propose sex after flirting for a while, have sex, and continue on like no one’s business as if nothing happened.
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:09 PM
1

This isnt true anymore lol. Women dont need to feel safe and secure with a big guy, not even in under developed countries. Security is if they make enough and are nice. Who the fuck is a big guy going to protect them from? A bullet?
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:06 PM
1

In general skinnier guys fare better than fatter guys. Obviously not skinny that you look anorexic
/r/seduction21/08/22 08:05 PM
3

If she isnt attractive but you decided you should message her to practice…then why the hell didnt you actually practice? when you practice for something you basically go full throttle as if it was the real thing. Because if you cant even do it in practice you arent going to in the big leagues Honestly you sound kind of delusional. Yeah if she isnt attractive you probably arent either if thats all you match with lol.
/r/seduction21/08/22 02:11 AM
1

Guys do this too. You wouldnt know cuz you’re ugly.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:49 PM
0

Tbh any of the comments here are worthless. Nobody here actually has got it to tell you yea or no. I would say if it does enhance your face, it helps, not as much as you’d like though.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:17 PM
1

This might be said 1/100 times. It doesnt matter a whole lot what to say here because you shouldnt be encountering this. If she likes you, say whatever from “because I’m cool” to “i got a big house”
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:36 PM
1

Also cause I’ve read you’re supposed to let her ask so I don’t come off too clingy/needy. after sex, you should just ask "Hey, where do you see this going? I'm interested in something a bit more serious." then you'll know right there, most people are more honest after sex. if she's not interested at all, then you probably should break it off since you caught feelings and it'll end badly. if she is interested, she might be a bit coy and give an indirect answer then tell you sometime after she wan…
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:35 AM
2

Reply the next day...if you arranged a date like I said, it shouldn't be too long until you guys meet lol. After the 2nd date, you can do whatever as long as you don't act needy and keep things happening IRL.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:04 PM
1

I'm not really a big time texter and I don't feel like we should be mainly planning dates through text at this stage. Then just do that. Don't text much. Did you guys even have sex yet? If so, just arrange another date (within a week) and just keep the texting very minimal. Maybe just a text or two a day
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:56 PM
8

Yes, I would avoid this. Girls who are even average have a decent amount of options, so if they're coming back around they have something weird going on.
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:56 PM
1

regardless, you shouldnt react. it'll blow over soon.
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:55 PM
1

gonna take a stab in the dark and say you might be exaggerating what's going on and it's all in your own head. maybe just chill out, doesn't sound serious if even something that should impact you.
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:20 PM
0

yeah because she's 16. they have no idea what they're doing even if it's wrong. chill the fuck out. when you get some perspective in life beyond your suburb you'll realize that it was no biggie and forgive her.
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:18 PM
1

wow, 10 years before you met? how did this work i'm curious.
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:04 PM
0

no they really dont, not the way you think. Because she wouldn't have moved on to someone so quickly from me. this isn't manipulation or lying. people deal with breakups differently. you don't need to presume what their intention is.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:45 PM
0

how old was she, 16 year old girls dont manipulate people like this much. theyre just as confused and stupid as you are
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:31 PM
0

What is the part that hurts? Because if you acknowledge it wasnt one, then why are you hurt?
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:15 PM
1

What kind of therapist are you seeing that is passive aggressive to you You can also do those things and see a therapist or a counselor or anyone. If it isnt for you, fine. But dont pretend it hurts you lmfao.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:10 PM
2

Means nothing at all. Without context.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:21 AM
1

Anyone who told you to not confirm the date the day of and maybe even an hour or so before is a total clown and idiot. They do not live in the real world and have no credibility and likely havent dated any women ever. You can avoid being stood up this way. And if some reason she never confirms but showed up anyways. Well something is going on with her that wasnt right, girls have their phones 24/7
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:19 AM
5

No, stop doing this. Doesnt help you get laid You’re also indulging in delusions and taking the wrong path You seem like you have some self hatred and internal demons you’re fighting based on things like being so angry at mundane inconveniences like being ghosted by a nobody online. That isnt healthy for your brain to react this way. Your priority should be stop worrying about dating apps and what people do on them. And put your mind on something productive and healthy like a hobby that is socia…
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:13 AM
8

This isnt a relationship dude.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:09 AM
4

You got abused in a relationship and you’re 18. I think you need therapy first and to not worry about women so much and work on yourself. You’re young and such fresh trauma would lead to some pretty nasty baggage being brought into relationships with other girls who are also immature and got all the same teenage mental shit going on. This would continue the cycle of bad relationships if you just started meeting women and trying to date.
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:08 AM
1

Oh my bad, you’re getting so much sex you cant handle it anymore. So you have to hide in Thailand where you’re finally free of the succubus draining your dick dry?
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:05 AM
1

I dont need to refute someone who admits in their OP that they cant get laid and have no confidence and have anxiety. You basically shat on yourself and when I told you to cut out being lame and going for shortcuts you lashed out and only showed your flaws. You are making yourself look like a clown. I dont need to clapback or argue, your submission post is sad enough. Go get some friends and enjoy your life. Or go to thailand if you think it solves your problems. Just dont be delusional why you’…
/r/seduction17/08/22 09:02 AM
1

did you time travel from 2016? Sjw as an insult in 2022 is some lame ass shit bro.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:55 AM
2

you said you're working on yourself and getting better? it's hard work but you're on the right track. you've done hard stuff before in life right?
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:25 AM
1

Hi, I think you're cute. I'd like to talk to you. Get rejected asap, then go swim or chill at the pool like you should lmfao. Don't waste your time barking up a wrong tree spitting 'game' if she isnt even down to talk to you again.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:34 AM
2

Then just fuck more women dude, once you do, you'll have other insecurities and miserable things to worry about.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:32 AM
1

So you're saying you aren't fucking enough women to feel attractive or it's not the kind of women you want to fuck? IDK, I think I get what you're saying though. There was a time I was like this, then I found a women I thought was beautiful amazing and wanted by a lot of men. She chose me and we dated for years. Of course it didn't work out because a LTR is a lot different than any advice you find online. It ended terribly. Then I realize I don't really care I guess. An amazing beautiful girl ch…
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:28 AM
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If he was Ashton Kutcher she'd cancel and be there. yes if he was a high profile celebrity, she'd be there. what a take. no fucking shit, but he's not and nobody here is and many guys who fuck a lot aren't.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:27 AM
1

this sounds awesome man, however, i hope you do like her and make her happy too.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:25 AM
1

you get better at kissing by kissing more girls. either enough girls will say your kissing sucks and teach you how to kiss or you'll learn what sucks and what you like doing because they do it to you. there is no other advice sorry. any other advice is total hogwash and very anecdotal.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:24 AM
2

its fine if you ask, this has no impact on whether she kisses you. this advice is passed around by guys who think the girl didnt want to kiss because they asked, not because they're ugly or unattractive to the girl. because the latter would be a bit more painful of a truth to swallow.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:23 AM
2

I feel like I’ll never truly be happy until I know that I’m sexually desired by a lot of women. What makes you feel like you aren't?
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:20 AM
1

travel to a poorer country and flex how you were born in a richer country and fuck the women there while other poorer guys there dont get those girls american women are spoiled. lmfao you're an incel and idiot.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:19 AM
2

this advice is pretty useless. you dont need to 'say' anything. you just need to take good pictures that become easier to take if you're attractive. so work on being more attractive physically through diet/gym. then do attractive things like travel/work out/hobbies and have photos of that taken. Try finding something interesting about her profile and comment on that does not fucking matter, yes this is okay advice if all you want to do is chat with some bored girls on the internet and never fuck…
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:18 AM
1

How would you demonstrate this say with online dating? visually with pictures then meet them asap once you match
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:16 AM
2

I get laid here albeit not as often as I would like. It’s more about helping me be more confident and “come out of my shell”. nobody gets laid as often as they like, the point is most people shouldnt have to have sex whenever their dick says so and it doesnt need to be a problem. that isnt all what life is about. the reason they think that is because they feel they're ugly and unfulfilled and part of why they think it's sex is because sex comes when you're fit, handsome, rich and otherwise succe…
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:13 AM
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Did you read the OP? People I know who have gone to Thailand have no problem getting laid or having relationships in the UK/West Do you see them admitting to anyone they had sex with Thai girls? No it isnt. Thats like saying rich people shouldnt be allowed to date poor people within your own city. Or that tall people shouldnt be able to date short people. That isn't the same thing though. "The existence of a smear/label must mean that the smear/label is true". Right, so reverse this, if a girl i…
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:07 AM
1

Girls who are comfortable talking about it will talk about it themselves or hint at it. Those are openings for you. Girls who arent and dont, you can actually just start with physical escalation. That works way better.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:59 AM
1

Nah theres a ton of well off indian guys who go there for a girlfriend. Girls who mostly use them same as white guys.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:57 AM
4

Yeah you love asian cultures but you posted about going to asia to talk to girls. You seem to mostly just dislike yourself
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:56 AM
1

How is there nothing wrong with doing this though? It’s basically admitting you cant get laid so you flew to another country for sex. Of course thats wrong. It isnt a crime but it’s clearly a bad thing. Otherwise nobody would have the term sexpat. It’s like saying it’s totally cool to pay for sex. No its not, thats why people who do dont flaunt it the same as dudes who have a hot gf.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:54 AM
1

This isnt going to help you get girls. So go ahead and do it for fun, it’s your vacation. It wont change what your issue is and eventually your self perception will go back to its old self when you realize you’re validation is that you’re white (which you wont find fulfilling in partners who seek that?
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:52 AM
5

No, you just had two you know of. More women would probably be interested in you with more initiative on your part.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:51 AM
3

If a girl doesnt reschedule she isnt interested.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:37 AM
1

besides powering through it, maybe try to meet girls who are less attractive but still likeable etc. for you? it would help your ability to atleast deal with rejection by feeling validated.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:53 PM
1

I'm 6'4 and fairly good looking but fact is even women less attractive have options coming out of their asses and there's really no reason why they would get attached to any one guy enough to enthusiastically message him and initiate conversations and put a lot of effort in. you're probably not that good looking, and i dont mean just physically attractive. your personality or vibe or whatever you want to call it doesnt reach your height. women who are attracted to you, enthusiastically message y…
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:34 PM
5

this shit is dumb and doesn't matter
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:28 PM
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extroverts get a billion thoughts in their head. you're not special dude. stop using introvert as a label that matters. that's the fucking thing i despise since introvert and extrovert became an identity socially. literally just endless excuses about social interaction (or lack thereof) because you're an introvert and the idea that your brains legitimately work differently than extroverts. no they dont. everyone has a billion thoughts second guessing themselves ALL the time.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:14 AM
1

this is a good question to ask a prostitute.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:09 AM
1

Lol i feel for you. There wont be an issue attracting men, but you’ll have to learn how to filter and find the ones you want to be with
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:48 AM
3

Yes its weird. Not super weird but weird.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:32 PM
1

Uhhh you just try it if you feel chemistry, like any fucking culture? The difference is expectations. Dont get butthurt you get more rejections than in America when grinding. You shouldnt get butthurt anyways because who cares about kissing if you’re not having sex either. Anyone can make out with 10s.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:28 PM
2

Shes your girlfriend dude. You should say whatever you feel is appropriate. Not what the internet or some clown who writes a book tells you. Like isnt the point of a committed relationship supposed to be being yourself, saying what you feel like saying, being vulnerable, and sharing experiences with someone else. This will be your own special unique circumstance. Nobody can tell you how to behave besides core fundamentals (be romantic, be caring, be selfless, take care of yourself as well)
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:28 PM
2

You must be a guy who bangs ugly chicks who’d fuck anyone and attributes it to his smoking while also justifying it continuing his addiction Also bizarre your entire comment history is about cigarettes. You literally made smoking your identity lol.
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:19 PM
3

90% of the time this is true in western dating culture. The fact is, most dudes who cant find women, merely dont even initiate or find enough women to meet. They will lie and make excuses that women dont come flying to their bed despite putting zero effort in trying to be attractive (even putting in 50% effort improves your chances tenfold) Once you’re at an okay level of attraction (because most people arent naturally attractive by definition) you’ll get plenty of opportunities, all you have to…
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:09 PM
1

They werent that interested. You probably could tweak a few things you did but I doubt 9/10 it wouldve changed things. Any moderately attractive girl in dating scenes get like multiple date propositions weekly. They say yes to all of them then weed out ones theyre not super hot on as time comes closer since there isnt that much time to date everyone lol. Dont dwell on this or care too much. You could have even fucked and done dirty shit and get flaked on asap. Thats the game these days, get used…
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:01 PM
1

No impact on if you get a kiss or not. If she wants to kiss you, asking isnt gonna change her mind.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:57 PM
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Lol, you wouldnt last in central/south america. Grinding and dancing with dudes is equal to a handshake.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:56 PM
1

In the US? Nobody cares. If anything it might help you as long as you dont exhibit someone with problems that signal WHY you’re in therapy.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:54 PM
5

So what? You’re making a bizarre defense of smoking. Why do you need to smoke to pick up women exactly? I guarantee most those male smokers arent getting any girls
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:52 PM
9

Idk the decades of research showing its impact on your lungs. And theres safer alternatives that dont have even 1/4 of the impact
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:40 AM
11

Dont do this, smoking is bad.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:55 PM
2

Theres too many variables here. Just ask.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:54 PM
1

Dont waste time with girls who dont want to fuck, if you’re good looking that could be an issue.
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:53 PM
1

Why do you want a ONS from the onset? Those are random unplanned situations. Generally dudes shouldnt aim for ONS. Casual is fine, but go into every women you want to fuck with the open mind of dating (casually)
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:14 AM
1

2 hours away is a logistical issue, people date people in their vicinity. This isnt ideal. However if she agrees to meet you and hopefully she doesnt stand you up, then you’re 75% there. All you need to do is chat a bit, learn about each other, then get closer and touch her body. Start with a hug, then as you guys converse and are more comfortable. Try hands, arm or waist (if she has jewelry, tattoos etc you can ask about them by touching gently and respectfully) walk closer to each other (walki…
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:11 AM
1

This isnt gonna help you get girls tho, but its fun I agree.
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:05 AM
2

The easiest way to initiate sex is to make it clear on the beginning of meeting each other you want sex/romance. Do this by making a joke or comment that a FRIEND WOULDNT MAKE. This sets the trajectory towards sex for both parties. If she’s interested she’ll lay the red carpet of flirting and foreplay to the sex, if she isnt that its probably likely she doesnt want sex with you or there’s more complicated shit you shouldnt worry about right now.
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:02 AM
1

They do date them lol you just dont pay attention. I know plenty of nice guys who never dated much or hooked up with a girl for decades. This nice guy crap is so overdone and on the verge of reverse satire. Nice guys will get a girlfriend, is it a relationship that you and I want? Depends. But relationships are complicated and subjective in itself. If your goal is to have sex with as many quality women then being a ‘nice guy’ probably isnt ideal (though if you’re good looking its fine) but no sh…
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:58 AM
1

Lol go have a bunch of fat ugly chicks as options then. Tell me if it actually changes anything. It isnt related to just options. You need to be able to brush it off and do it.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:55 AM
1

Do you really want to see the guy
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:24 PM
2

My rule of thumb is if she fucks you on a first date, no matter what she says, she wasnt looking for a serious relationship in her heart. It’ll be a lot harder for you to make a serious relationship at that point. And if you wanted fuckbuddy casual stuff, you’d have to demonstrate good ass sex or be good looking. That doesnt mean you shouldnt try to score on a first date, but I’ve never had a LTR when we fucked on a first date.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:27 PM
0

it is exhausting if you got a lot going on but it cant be that hard unless all you care about is sex and not her as a person
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:04 AM
2

unless u guys are together, it does not work this way.
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:02 AM
4

phone number and instagram are synonymous sometimes. but asking for a number of a girl you just met is a social signal that you want to date. instagram is more casual. however you can still use either and just be direct about setting up a date. it wont change if you get rejected or not. if she gave you ur instagram and was going to reject you, it wasnt gonna change by asking for her number lmfao. she was going to reject you at the number. so atleast you get an instagram and maybe she can look at…
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:19 AM
1

you're messing up bad, girls give numbers out like candy. unless they think you're a axe murderer or disgusting. they'll entertain even texting with you before flaking/ghosting if they were really not interested but liked some validation and wanted to be nice as well.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:16 AM
1

2 dates of 10 numbers is pretty good given i dont know how most guys would even find time for 2 dates a week if they live a relatively interesting life.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:14 AM
1

you have a special skill that if you improved other aspects of your game would put you ahead of the pack by a long shot. very few people are this tenacious and resilient to the mental trauma of failure.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:13 AM
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gyms arent off limits, it's off limits if you're a rude person who cant read social cues when a girl isnt interested or you're ruining her workout. but also, it's silly to try to bang girls at a gym if you really like your gym imo. i think you should focus on working out there and not have your mind distracted. make friends and stuff that's cool but anything else you might wanna be careful unless you are very good at focusing and blocking out noise.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:11 AM
5

but I just need to work on being more fun(ny) unless your job is stand up comedy, you don't need to be more fun(ny). you ever hang out with close friends or close family and find not really funny stuff absolutely hilarious. if it was a different person you'd fucking think it was lame or whatever. why is it fun(ny) then? because everyone likes each other and wants to be around each other. this is the same thing occurring with women who are attracted to you. if they are attracted, unless you start…
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:08 AM
4

Something just got triggered inside me in the worst way and I found it better to leave. you have inherent jealousy because you lack confidence. seeing other people successful at doing what you want to do but cant do well gets you upset. what you need to understand is that it doesnt matter if you suck at shit. if you make marginal improvements while sucking (no matter how long it takes) then you're a huge success story. 99% of people will not really get better at anything in their lives after hig…
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:04 AM
2

if this is normal or what I should do. it's normal, unless you have a killer profile and high level of attractiveness (you better be an 8) or you're after the ugliest unattractive women (and even then they'll flake a lot). dating apps for reasons stated a billion times inviting flakey behavior from women and even men. once you get the match, talk to a few people, and maybe get a few interesting arousing ideas in your head of the other person you kind of satisfy your ego right there and the drive…
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:01 AM
4

there is no point in clubbing if your goal is to get laid consistently with quality women for your level of attractiveness. that isn't to say you won't get laid by clubbing but it's more likely you can redirect that energy/time/money to improving other aspects of yourself that help you get laid more consistently long term.
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:59 AM
1

it is weird if you arent good at owning it. So it might benefit you to lie if people ask who you’re here with. Also a big part of being able to own it, is being attractive. If you arent and look ugly, you’ll be seen as a loser
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:38 PM
6

Possible yes. But its a total waste of your energy unless you mastered and eliminated approach anxiety. Because you’re at the beach to have fun and relax right and now all you’re going to do is wind yourself up like you are now. Like all you had to do was just strike up a conversation like any place. But you psyched yourself out thinking theres some trick or scheme. Nope.
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:35 PM
2

you can literally talk about sex anytime you want if you had an actual date.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:03 AM
0

she's not intereste.d move on.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:03 AM
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Generally yes, but to add a bit of nuance. Sometimes if they like you but there's barriers, if they aren't 100% feeling butterflys and shit, then they wont jump those barriers. Things like distance apart, possible drama when seeing each other, etc. Also there are very career driven women who also value their personal life and hobbies way more than dating.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:01 AM
1

A study found that 90,000 people want to control inflation but want their home price to go up at the same time.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:00 PM
15

if you're ugly, why do you care if the bitch is ugly then? you're fucking your type. stop whining. also plenty of 'ugly' girls have a lot to offer in terms of teaching you about women/people, life, and in terms of sex are very good at things 'hot' women can't/won't do.
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:56 PM
2

A lot, but looks aren't permanent and can be changed. So you have no real reason to use them as an excuse unless you have a serious genetic disorder.
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:56 PM
13

The only reason you should approach at the gym is if you are socially intelligent enough to see she's really interested in you and has given more than enough cues. Otherwise, everyone in gym should be platonic friends who you are buddies with and maybe friends outside.
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:52 PM
1

Exposure
/r/seduction25/07/22 04:50 PM
1

everyone has something to offer...
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:22 AM
2

i think most women recognize it's stupid but it's fun anyways. like many things men also know are stupid but partake in (like being an absolute menace on a guys night out)
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:23 AM
1

Everyone has something to offer. Nobody is really that boring and basic, most of those people just have shells or walls around their real personality that take harder to crack. Of course incompatibility is a thing, but the point is you don't really need to worry about those you're not sure what they are. Since they obviously don't care to show you who they are either. Everyone who likes you will show you their real identity and personality.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:21 AM
1

I don’t really enjoy at the best of times, but if there’s actually something with substance to talk about - whatever that may be - I’m fine. This mentality doesn't make sense. You act like the deep conversations begin out of nowhere. They ALWAYS start with small talk. It's basic human socialization. It's how you get a feel and chemistry (friendship or romantic). do you just jump into discussing your views on controversial topics out of the blue with strangers? no. in reality, there is no aversio…
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:18 AM
1

well yes, if you're sending pointless texts that aren't interesting then NOBODY is going to reply. not even your friends lol. you should read people's interest in what you're saying and not be clueless.
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:17 PM
17

it really doesnt matter if you reply immediately or not. if it matters, then you probably had no chance anyways since sooner or later you'd lose attraction. these little dumb ideas about texting game are all pointless. it doesn't matter. if you want to text asap, go for it. if you don't, then don't. dont overanalyze this crap.
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:21 AM
2

i dont get how you guys got the point of being engaged and you couldn't figure out her spending habits and who should pay. this sounds fake to me, or completely ignorant and not having self respect. She has money, her ex husband pays for her lifestyle, home, utilities, insurance, car, everything and gives her $1750. All she pays for is food and a cell phone bill. She has a nice collection of Louis Vuitton and Gucci purses. So what exactly about this person would want to make you marry her when y…
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:12 AM
9

lol it's online dating, what do you expect? the complaining about online dating makes sense but people look at it wrong. imagine every person you pass by irl has to swipe left and right on you manually. you're going to get rejected 24/7. that's what online dating is, how real life would work if you had to interact and speed date every person you ever met but you don't get to show off your personality and character much (unless you have a good scientifically attractive profile). once you understa…
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:29 PM
1

I wouldnt ask women for advice on how to date women except maybe fashion. Most average girls can dress you well if you suck at it. That being said Definitely dont ask most men for advice either. They dont know.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:08 AM
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hi lets go get a drink or some food. if she says yea, you’re in. No need to be pushy. Act chill in person, little flirty, ask about her life maybe delve into some of her ideal partner or person, then say lets go back to my place. If shes makes an excuse to not go without offering an alternative, she isnt interested. also dont expect to see them again after fucking, well maybe you will, but most of the time people get post nut clarity and lose the attraction caused by the “chase”.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:21 AM
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Everyone wants validation. Not just women lol
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:48 PM
4

atleast 50% of people in the club are going there alone or with someone they don't really have a close relationship with. that makes them easy to befriend and hang out with, they're looking for someone (guy or girl), so just talk to people.
/r/seduction12/07/22 09:30 AM
3

depends on the job, but i dont think most people in office settings are dating.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:53 PM
1

except the smaller pool of women are MORE INTERESTED in meeting and talking to people. it's self selection working in your favor.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:52 PM
1

Unless you’re a loser dude, you should stand out amongst the pack then
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:42 PM
0

This is a really pathetic view on life
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:14 PM
2

Probably want to expand your circles. Is there other things you do that you dont do socially? Or just be patient, there will always be new people. Of course, if you want to be more proactive you can be focused on dating and approaching women like this subreddit suggests. But that’s tackling another beast as well.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:49 PM
2

Having fun with women consistently will lead to women proposing you. Its possible you are also different and your idea of fun is bizarre.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:28 PM
1

If someone is successful at what you want to be successful, their advice is useful. Whether or not it applies universally it’s always worth considering.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:26 PM
3

try doing things that are fun with people you like to hang out with (those tend to be fun people). in due time you’ll meet a person you can probably have a relationship with. This is where 90% of serious relationships start for most people.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:24 PM
1

Me either
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:47 PM
2

but I feel like some of these are my inherent traits. lol go see therapy, they only are that because you choose to
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:10 AM
1

I dated a hot girl in a LTR, one of the worst relationships ever when I look back at it. For both of us, we were not compatible but forced it (in the beginning me, i begged or acted like a pathetic pushover. Then when I stopped she did the same). Once I experienced it and ended that relationship, my dumb penis realized it aint shit and i should listen to my brain.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:44 AM
0

You dodged a bullet buddy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:41 AM
2

If you really can’t tell, nobody is going to teach you. If it really isnt that obvious, Statistically speaking you should just go for it and ask her out. If she rejects you move on. Most guys are really bad at reading signals and signals themselves mean little anyways so being good at reading them is about as useful as palm reading. It’s either you get it or you don’t. And most of the time you won’t. So dont bother and work on the parts you can control.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:40 AM
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