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Just go out meet everyone and have fun man!
/r/seduction17/10/15 02:49 AM
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This is ridiculous. No calibration. Way too far. Don't model game from this guy.
/r/seduction17/10/15 02:48 AM
1

Glad im not the only sane one here. I'd back you on the Mod/Admin business.
/r/seduction01/10/15 12:59 AM
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Typically it's better to schedule a meetup or date within two days rather than any later. If you plan out a week in advance just make sure you keep a presence through the week every other day or so at the least. Some of this really comes from presenting intent right away. If I know I wont or don't want to keep chatting a girl althroughout a 5 day gap of a date I'll flat out tell her "hey your awesome! Suck I'll be busy all week til we meet your fun to chat to :)" I communicate I'll be in touch w…
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:02 AM
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I was at the bars friday. Saw a kid laid out on the street, he started bleeding from the mouth. I performed first aid, got him stable and conscious. Then went my on marry way. Never told anyone I did it or that it happened. One female friend saw it happen but that it. I didn't flaunt that around but I was being nice I just didn't do it from a place of insecurity to bring value to myself. The second I was done I was back in the bar having fun. Make sense?
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:21 PM
1

Make some moves. You'll regret it if you dont.
/r/seduction27/09/15 06:17 PM
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1st off when do you see guys approaching at a bar? Pretty rare. Looks aren't that important. In fact your so far off I think this posy is a bit of poison to the community. I dragged a girl away from her bf at a bar last night. I know because they got into a fight when i left. I was not more handsome then him. I did it because I knew how attract her not because I look pretty.
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:43 AM
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OP is actually a girl as well to clarify. She says "I look like a lesbian, guess that makes you the one that got away" she was kidding and got hit with wifey's comment
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:27 AM
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Naw. Your just blending them. Every nice guy isn't an AFC.
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:25 AM
1

Lol I see your point but the actual post from TIFU when they are dancing the girl makes a joke, and they newly wed goes-Nope, I was way into you, you broke my heart. Paraphrased. She didnt fish for a comment like that at all.
/r/seduction27/09/15 05:23 AM
1

confident, sexually-aware
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:22 AM
15

He shut her down for fear of rejection, not to be nice.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:14 AM
1

It's subtle. The neck is very sensual spot on the body. If a girl said that to me I would imaging kissing the neck. Thus why it's subtle.
/r/seduction27/09/15 02:00 AM
-1

Well... you've never been in love.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:44 AM
12

It wasn't nice guy syndrome it was modified version of approach anxeity
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:43 AM
4

I agree with this guy 1000%
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:42 AM
2

Not gunna lie that just tugged on my heart strings.....
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:41 AM
2

Welcome :) she looked at you funny because the comment was sexual.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:38 AM
1

This^ Anything that is borderline to dress up you can tell her to dress up for date 2.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:37 AM
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Think of it this way, the things she does and say to you, would she do or say to a homeless person? That will usually give you a good idea. Commenting on her neck... I like it.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:33 AM
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I wouldn't do that. I even think you sound salty, just act like none of it happened and if she's cool have fun in a Platonic way. Hitting the next button is forgetting the past except the lessons you learn and having fun with the next opportunity.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:31 AM
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You should have left that post up. It was a good example of attraction. That what seddit is all about. Tell her how she has very kissable lips. 100$ says her face will light up like a Christmas tree.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:28 AM
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This whole post was your pretty much describing how attracted she was to you. Felling your arms, saying how attractive you are, using her fingers to play with you. The only way it can get more clear is if you write the IOI's on a bus and hit you with them at 70 miles an hour. Did I mention she's interested in your love life and who you attracted to? Just kino and escalate, the rest is already done.
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:23 AM
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You have to keep in mind that breaking eye contact aka checking your phone and crossing your arms can have multiple meanings. Arm crossing is also used in way to challenge others. Breaking eye contact is a classic sign of being nervous. Girls get nervous too. The only for sure way to test things like that is to provoke a response. convey some intent and you'll get an answer. For example if you said "your defiantly pretty enough to serve me, do you have good sense of humor though?" that starts to…
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:15 AM
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The work it would take to flip out of the friend zone isn't worth it. It's usually doable but rarely is the juice worth the squeeze. Friend zone her and move on. If you do that she'll probably start chasing anyway. Your "did they scold you line" is interesting. If she was actually upset she could've taken that the wrong way but if there is enough attraction a comment like that won't get ignored. I assume "cheezy lines" were conveying interest. That's playing with fire. You don't need to verbaliz…
/r/seduction27/09/15 01:06 AM
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It's resilience. It's going to take time to toughen you mind state to not be affected by state in the field. Having good wings is a big deal. Ideal wing is positive above all else, no matter what happens in the night and the better your wings are the quicker you'll learn and improve. Sounds like your ACTUALLY taking on game. This shit gets so damn fun when you get results, it'll even change your life in ways you wont expect. I've posted on here and found wings along with other place with good su…
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:46 PM
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You could be running good game, and then fucking it up intermittently. Imagine a girl inflating in and out of being obese and bombshell. That'll cause some mixed signals.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:32 PM
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Pretty much means you have a lot of trust/comfort/rapport. Don't expect most women to understand why they feel the way they do. Feeling, emotions, ect isnt a choice.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:27 PM
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Shit happens. After all you said you had a moment of vulnerability so you probably not the first to convey the wrong message in that state. lol
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:22 PM
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At least you asked instead just assuming. Thats pretty respectable if you ask me.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:17 PM
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It all depend on trhe guy trying to learn. I feel your assume these guys here just want a pussy hunt (yes, some do) but most want to be able to take a girl by surprise, bring on a date and see her smile and light up while having a good connection and a little sexual tension. Sexuality is fun as long as your responsible with it. Some are bad with women and just want a girlfriend, wife, or flat-out just want a meaningful connection. I hope your not stereotyping too much.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:14 PM
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I have a couple routines I use. Some are mine some I stole. 2 truths and a lie are good. Fuck marry kill game with celebs is good. Question game. Joking by framing your date funny can be good if you have a good foundation too. "I'm kidnapping you thursday night at 8. Wear something sexy I only kidnap sexy girls" ect.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:11 PM
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I use a similar line on tinder. I often go with something like "sweet eyes, and a smile like your plotting mischief. -Blah blah blah comment or question-" big thing is not to just drop the reason and leave provoke a response.
/r/seduction26/09/15 10:00 PM
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Probably
/r/seduction26/09/15 09:56 PM
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It was me
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:19 PM
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You played the waiter thing great. Just call her out in a playful way. She got more into yopu probably because you showed confidence and that made her escalate. Not sure what your confused on specifically maybe I answered it. Did you pull?
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:38 PM
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"lets just Bill Cosby"
/r/seduction23/09/15 08:38 PM
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I find a lot that the better things are going the more shit tests I get. Some are subtle some aren't. Even married folk get shit tests. Think of it this way, if you were a girl would you shit test a homeless guy? No. No point to test him your not interested.
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:40 PM
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I've always wanted to, how did you get into it?
/r/seduction22/09/15 10:37 PM
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As a side note to me alpha is essentially confidence. There's only a few actual personality types out there once you've dated a bunch. If she is shy I'll lean tward making fun of her and embarrassing her. Sassy (your sounds sassy) I'll challenge them, call them on their shit, but most of all you gotta be able to play the banter game. Practice is crucial. Her "we would make good friends" Me "then dont look at me like you want to fuck me" (if you know she is very attracted) or... "there's no way I…
/r/seduction22/09/15 10:17 PM
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It's shit tests man. The best friend thing is one too. I went on a date a week ago where my date straight up hit on my good friend to shit test me. Called her out and 25 min later I was wrapped between her thighs. If they test you- they like you. I've had that one and even said back "good thing I fuck my best friends, its like bonding" whispered into her ear. DONT do that if you cant feel out the vibe and be rock solid confident because I've never said things that bold and not gotten hit with mu…
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:59 PM
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Guess we've just had different experiences. I've had many 30-40 and it's different then 20's but I love it. Must be different taste.
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:54 PM
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I get this really rarely as well. I think anyone that goes out a lot will run into the unicorns. In the back of your head know you have to take everything with a grain of salt and just have fun. The real kicker that helps me is I just verbalize a little of what I'm thinking in a playful way. Some I use are... "why am I so attracted to you, your not even my type" "your making me nervous your either too beautiful or a serial killer, either way you should go" (playful)
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:29 PM
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The best sex hands down was with older women. Think about this. People start having sex around 15-16 late bloomers around 18. A 40yr old have been having sex for 25 years VS a 20 year old who has been for maybe 4. 4 shitty years not knowing what they're doing.
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:19 PM
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If you have one that really into snap, use it. You can convey tones on top of a message. Easier to be funny, playful, sexual, skeptical ect. Huge tool.
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:14 PM
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You read the signs as I'd have read them. Women don't put sexuality up as a big of deal as guys as well. They just love the turn on.
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:05 PM
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Most would agree with you but I'd say it depends how much anticipation you want to build. Kissing lowering tension often. Unless you throw an insane amount of passion into it. Depends on the girl and vibe for that.
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:03 PM
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That wedding comment was a shit test! You could've have played that comment hard. "know way I'd let a dirty girl like you at my wedding" (with playful smirk) for sexuality. "what makes you think I'll even still know you?" (smirk) for push pull. Romanticism, ignore her comment and lead her out of the club (ill do that to get her out of venue and when shes asks where were going I say for a walk). This kind of back and forth is like dancing and you walked off the dance floor man!! Killer job otherw…
/r/seduction22/09/15 05:01 PM
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The problem isnt push pull like everyone is saying. It's tact. I can't tell you how many first dates I've been on and never have I had an issue with the kiss and can tell when I can pull them home on a 1st. You'll pick up as time goes on what it looks like when she's attracted and how she acts as well. Your creating good rapport is seems but you need to create polarity and make it a male/female dynamic, not 2 girls at bennigans chatting. Ladies don't kiss friends.
/r/seduction22/09/15 04:53 PM
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Even a blind squirrel gets a nut. Consistency is how you know have have a skill set or understanding. I'm pretty much on here for fun occasionally learn something know or relearn an old concept. Just got a text today from a girl freaking out because I haven't talk her her in 4 days lol
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:26 AM
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It's only leading her on if he isn't clear in his intent. All you have to do is say im not looking to date seriously yet.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:23 AM
1

Jeans bro, fucking jeans.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:19 AM
1

Not true. It's building a muscle. His eye contact is weak he is making it stronger. Approach is bonus points.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:17 AM
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Creepy is essentially not having social proof or being within the cultural norm. In other words if she liked it, your fine. If not who cares and nobody likely noticed. keeping doing 3-5 second eye contact until your feel no adrenaline because it's natural.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:15 AM
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Your trying to drink from a firehose. You can't change that drastically overnight, but here's my tips. 1. open 24/7 and be alway talking to someone and keep a smile 100% of the time (1/2 for socail proof 1/2 for positive energy) 2. do this with your only goal being to have fun, learning about someone is a bonus. 3. look at some PUA material. The guys that post here arent all that reliable 100% of time. I read a lot of ignorance and BS here. RSD is awesome specifically Tyler Durden and Brad. They…
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:10 AM
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Lol yeah people get caught up in the facts to much. Literal words Vs feel and vibe.
/r/seduction10/09/15 06:01 AM
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This sounds like a rare breed. She might be attention seeking but likely she just doesn't like the idea of dating in general but is still a woman and gets attracted. Last one I had like this it was because dating intimidated her. -She is chasing you, act like it. If you go out your the one who decides it's just coffee, not a date. Joking about how she need to quit act like shes for BF ect is nice touch too. Frame it as her chasing you and make jokes about it playfully. Change her frame. I feel y…
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:57 AM
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You have to hook and build attraction right away. Kino isn't required but goes a long way. Hook, frame the interaction as man to woman, then slow everything down and keep intense eye contact. It's 20% eye contact at most that gets you there.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:47 AM
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None of that really matters as long as your comfortable with doing it and it feels natural. ASSUMING you can still can control the frame when you want, convey the tones and messaging while doing the uh huh/yeah's
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:44 AM
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Just think of the kind of mhm and yeah's you would never give to your mother
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:36 AM
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The words aren't building tension though which is what OP is referring to. His speech quirk is what he is questioning. Tension is built by slowing down and changing your tone of body language and voice. Voice being the big one.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:35 AM
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Just replace the words it'll make a big difference. I use "interesting" a lot. To the point of it being commented on. Which works out even better because playfully I can play of it then.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:33 AM
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This plus how you talk (slow, smooth, diliberate), being able to build suspense and excite.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:30 AM
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Your probably falling back on validation because you have found your style yet. It's said a lot to no be outcome dependent. In the start you do that by just walking up and chatting with people and just having fun with the conversation. Not being like oh shit I need to get a number today, but I had fun doing this or worst case scenario finding out what style of game you like, or even more importantly what type of girl you like. Get away from gaining stats.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:24 AM
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How you say things matters, thats usually were the neediness comes in. If I take a girl out give her 4 orgasms at the end of the night and the next day face to face say "how'd you like our date last night" with a smirk it's totally different then wimply spilling out-"did... did you like our date?..." usually that phrase IS said in weakness tho. People to to much emphasis on the literal words said.
/r/seduction10/09/15 05:19 AM
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Apocalypse opener?
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:33 PM
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I want to experiment with something challenging. Once you pick up girls learning how to be yourself it's easy. =NOT CHALLENGING Everything you say is technically true. Your forgetting I already know Pick-Up. Thus me putting in the fact I have multiple FWB's... to spell it out I didnt want this response.
/r/seduction25/11/14 07:05 AM
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Accusations are good. "You look dangerous/like trouble/like fun ect. Just deliver it right... as with any opener.
/r/seduction25/11/14 06:01 AM
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RSD/tyler durden has really good material on this. You either want to blow out the friends or #close her (preferably early) so you can still game her. Go for #'s early. Still keep the interaction going but get #'s early so that when club chaos takes over you always have a way to game/meet up with her.
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:58 AM
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Women do hold out on replies. It's a shit test. You just don't know when it's a shit test and when they're actually busy. I will say in my experience only about 25% of girl do it though.
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:43 AM
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if she toughs it out. she can take it. Make jokes when she gives you shit or doesnt give compliance... like... "shut the fuck up or I'll hit you in the eye again"
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:15 AM
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Id ONLY advise gaming at work if your game is beyond on point. Not just with attracting and fucking her, but with controlling her emotions, damage control, and re-framing any fuck sessions or dating to where you never look like the bad guy.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:58 AM
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I'm vaguely familiar with shock and awe. I use a similar method on half the girls i see.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:53 AM
1

Use the force choke... she won't forget it.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:49 AM
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My advise... your going to want to learn to to amp up your dirty talk/coming off as sexually confident. If a girl thinks you not just fuck her, but fuck her good and make her cum like crazy she'll want to jump you. For short term arrangements that's going to really help your game. They just might not expect a LTR.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:46 AM
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Smell her neck, brush her hair behind her hair (never failed a k-close when a girl smiled to me doing this) if she has a necklace, hold her necklace with your hand resting on her chest and compliment her necklace. Or verbally open her. you look like your imagining kissing me, if you were in kissing school what grade would you get /she answers/ then you say- lets find out. Lots of ways.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:40 AM
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Half of game is vibing off the girl and calibrating. You have to be able to tell if she's really into you and wants you it's not an issue. If shes only mildy interested... thats were issues come in. Lots of sex = Attraction. you should be fine.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:35 AM
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You dont have polarity. You need to be seen as a man to her thats why you getting friend zoned. You need to be more "fuckly" than "friendly"
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:32 AM
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the whole thread was IOI's. That "I guess my personality shone threw" was banter/flirting. It wasnt a shit test it was an IOI.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:26 AM
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If they mention it. (doubt they will) just say something cocky with a smirk like... "Yeah, but they obviously look way better on me."
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:20 AM
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Get experience with it. It will seriously boost sexual confidence.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:17 AM
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Nope. Not a fan. Girl wants the experience first, body second. She rather get told how you pull her hair, blind fold her, spank her, make her squirt over your dick size. She'll forget your dick size. She wont forget the image of a guy doing all those things while fucking her.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:17 AM
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One I had recently was a girl who said "I love netflix" (innocent comment) I said "hmm.. interesting" Her "why that?" Me "you might be too much of a good little girl ;)" Her "maybe you shouldnt judge a book by its cover ;)" Me "maybe we should open the book then, are you up for daring conversation?" (if she says yes, which she likely always will because she then looks like a pussy if she doesnt and she just implied she wasnt a good girl, then you can go for bold questions. ) Her "sure" Me "bigge…
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:13 AM
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I used to be bigger. I get that. You are just going to have to use banter. Unfortunately bigger guy need better game. As far as clubs... anything thats busy. You can burn the club to the ground that way. Easier to find attractive women that arent so superficial.
/r/seduction24/11/14 02:44 AM
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Suburbs can suck. Been there. OKC/POF is good since you can target them anywhere and when its on, you can get them to come to you. If no club nearby extractions can be tough. (I used to live 30 min from nearest good club) You can always game a club tho and then if you dont get an extraction just day 2 her. If those arent your thing you have to relentlessly hit up everything. Coffee shop employee, waitress's. Girl in line at target. Girl walking on the street. Hell... I've even hit girls up at st…
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:54 AM
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For me I am nice to anyone at first. If they are disrespectful or rude/cruel. Then that is revoked. I may tell them off in a polite way. I surely wont hold the door for them or say the simple courtesies like please/thank you. At first I give everyone respect and kindness. If I was seeking approval I wouldn't politely tell them off or stop being nice. Personally that's how I know.
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:48 AM
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Rub one out and shrug it off. I run also, workout anything to get blood pumping. Higher heart rate puts you back to your focus and center. Then I use online game (always some girl up late online.) Game the shit out of her in an aggressive way. Sexual as fuck but in my head I commit to not meeting her. This keeps me dominant and abundant because I don't care how it goes and I say what I want. Then in person my game is usually right back on point. It's kinda like purging for me.
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:43 AM
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+Apply it. Keep applying it and it'll get build into. Woman love this. 100% alpha. Fucked a FWB in spite of her BF of 2years. Hook ups for 4mo's. Couldnt've done it without it and its very often overlooked.
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:36 AM
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Tinder is full of girls that use it for an ego boost or if they're bored. Line from (A) will really only work if they're bored AND horny. (Generally speaking) I use comments accusing the of things. IE, being a bad girl/trouble/having devil horn ect. I get the best responses from this.
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:31 AM
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Nowadays I come of very sexual right away. This is because I want to screen women for this right off the bat. When I didnt do this I found ways to work it into the convo kinda like what you did above. Or... when she'd be sweet and innocent I'd tell her she might be to much of a good girl for me. They usually respond to that as a challenge and say "no im not" or "you'd be suprized" from there you can challenge her more. I had questions that I would ask that would lead to sex.
/r/seduction24/11/14 01:27 AM
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Confidence comes from know your better then the other guys. not just thinking you are. When you have that you don't to flaunt it. There's no point. you don't bring it up (unless making her admit it to you to get more compliance or amp attraction.) You just dont give a shit about other guys because they're background noise.
/r/seduction23/11/14 11:28 PM
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This is sound advice. In scenarios were discretion is not as necessary it isn't as effective however. Like at your place where your both on the couch alone. Those times playful touches are more effective. Like grabbing her arm by holding her hand up and softly sueezing her bicep/triceps area. and saying something like "Oh, your so strong. I don't think I could take you in an arm wrestle." with a smirk. She'll know you don't need to touch her arm and hold her hand that way but wonder why you aren…
/r/seduction23/11/14 10:23 PM
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Yup, made me laugh.
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:57 AM
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You should have set up a date on the spot when you got the hint to do so. You can still get her but the frame has to be different. You gave the power to her. Big no no. You go somewhere she just come with you. Also you should have escalated more, it sounds like you've had more kino, solidified the attraction by getting her invested, and I would have definitely kissed her or slept with her right after work. Sounds like you need refining on some inner and outer game.
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:48 AM
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Use this to make her hold up her part of the conversation, if you stay quiet, relaxed, confident and hold eye contact she will get nervous and start talking. I use this in almost every set once I have a good hook point.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:42 AM
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Seeing as no one has touched on this, just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean she's not into you or wouldn't sleep with you. My style is more "Why are looking at me like you wanna pounce then?"
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:39 AM
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Step 1 acknowledge your a pussy. Step 2 catch yourself being a pussy. Step 3 Man up at all costs.
/r/seduction11/04/14 04:56 PM
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Adding on to this, if you are confident and the girl sees this she will almost always be comfortable with you escalating(assuming there is some attraction) if you are comfortable and have a strong frame she will likely want you to do this. You probably see women give you "that look". That look mean she is thinking "oh I really hope he makes a move.
/r/seduction04/04/14 03:43 AM
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I understand your point thus why I toned it down/dropped it. I genuinely did not mean to troll. I feel passionately about the post is all and honestly I figured I would get a lot more down votes for my post than I did. Your probably right though.
/r/seduction04/04/14 02:33 AM
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They also made guns for reason. See the metaphor.
/r/seduction04/04/14 02:30 AM
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Yeah bro your soo cool and intuitive. What have you done that's an accomplishment? Name what RSD, Tyler Durden, Richard LaRuina, Adam Lyons, Mystery, Niel Strauss are known for. It's not AA. Who are you to judge them anyway? Fuck off.
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:22 AM
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"You would be really pretty if you were a girl." Haha Nice, I hope you came back with "I'd be a prettier girl than you" I've been hit with a few here's some favorites. Her- "Is it weird that sometimes I just wanna give blowjobs?" Me- "Well... we wouldn't want you unemployed" Her- "If you could have sex with anyone in this room who would it be?" Me- "Your sister, she's prettier than you" (She was an identical twin, she was speechless) Super risky don't actually try that one by the way. Her- "Ya k…
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:50 AM
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Usually my girlfriend just puts her hand down my pants, but I'm not so sure that counts as subtle. If a man does this in a social event and no one else know this is subtle because it's your secret.
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:20 AM
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Cure by oneitis by practicing abundance mentality. Get different girls. That simple.
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:17 AM
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Car is the first that comes to mind. Seduce at the car door, then simple escalate into the car. If she open minded she'll this it's adventurous and exciting.
/r/seduction01/04/14 05:01 AM
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Use this in push pull. Any qualifier/compliment- slight pause-, You know it's April fool's day right?
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:02 AM
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This is the only good response I've seen yet. Beautiful. DJ: Of course, that’s the first thing I noticed about you. I’m totally a virgin myself, I wouldn’t know what crazy sex was if it came up and spanked me on the ass Awesome line, I might try to steal this to be honest. You know your text game unlike most self claimed "PUA's" out there. Rookies take note!
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:32 AM
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Mount Everest was climbed one step at a time.
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:27 AM
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Sales manager. It has helped some because manager is a more powerful title than some. Mostly my job helped me be more alpha and better with soccail skills with the sales part. (I also have to train people.) Part time I am also in the US Army national Guard. Obvious that title has helped but I never tell a girl. I let her find out through converation so it doesn't come off as a DHV story. Much more attractive that way.
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:23 AM
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This is my favorite part of game. Picking up on these signs is huge. It tells you what works and how fast you can escalate. IOI's (indicator of interest) come in all shapes and sizes. Here is a general rule on picking up on them. Ask yourself this... Would she do xyz with a homeless guy/ugly dude she's disgusted with? This is everything from slapping your ass to hitting you on the arm. This really helps separate what isn't and is an IOI. People talk about some common ones, like if she touches he…
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:58 AM
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You the worst possible mindset on this. You have two choices. 1. Man up and learn this skill set. It's takes practice if your not a natural. 2. Admit defeat, walk through life never experiencing the amazing thing that come with learning this. The pain of regret is much worse than the pain of short length of being uncomfortable. You need to focus on inner game first. Thats your weakness.
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:43 AM
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I think the "let me ask you a question" is more for stopping her in her tracks. She will immediately want to know the question.
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:37 AM
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When you get good at game (which you will if you keep at it and don't give up) you will realize what you first thought was logical is all wrong. You have to give a leap of faith just like everyone else in your boat. Once you learn the game and understand it, it will make sense and you will see what is "is logical" as completely different things. It's an awesome adventure. DON'T BAIL OUT BEFORE YOU'VE STARTED!!
/r/seduction31/03/14 08:16 AM
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I completely understand. I used to think the same way. I had a 2year relationship end about 6mo ago. Really it was over about 3-4 months before that. I did know how to crush her heart/split up with her. I was thinking of other women for that 3-4mo period. Women are the same if not worse.
/r/seduction31/03/14 08:11 AM
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There is a few ways you can go for first text. Often now I will keep the convo going after I make her put her number in my phone. (I just hand her the phone and she puts it in, this makes it smother so I don't have to talk while entering numbers which would force me to break eye contact and change my body language more so.) Then I'll keep the conversation going and immediately text her something playful like "your a dork" I just do playful text while in convo. This does a few things. Confirms th…
/r/seduction31/03/14 08:07 AM
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This all may be true. Bottom line is you have to go for it. You won't know 100% otherwise. This is also a key difference in mind set. Honestly over the years I've started to believe almost every girl is into me. Often I am right though, and that's not an accident. I'm not saying I'm Casanova, 'I'm saying from this I come off confident and it is more attractive. Secondly there is 4-5 IOI's in a short post. Good sign at that point she's more than a little interested.
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:48 AM
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I can see your point with the free drinks. So that could go either way. the "I'm trying to figure you out." comment is a classic. Before I really knew what it meant I used to use it myself. I found out from female friends that even women are aware it mean's "I'm into you".
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:19 AM
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This is all rock solid. Having the girl go that last 10% is like saying "I know you want it, I dare you to resist." Also It's kinda the difference between her saying you kissed her, and we kissed. The latter is much better. There's way to much in seduction to add. If you have sticking points or things you want to learn spill the beans, direction gives distance.
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:14 AM
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Getting numbers then continuing convo defiantly gives you stronger numbers. My theory is when you text her the last interaction is how she remembers you. Stranger she handed a number to vs. cool guy he was chatting with comes off better. What does your first text look like?
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:09 AM
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Take it one step at a time. Step 1: Eye contact, make eye contact with her whilst walking. Step 2: Hold eye contact the whole time, only she is allowed to look away. (Quick tip smile while you do this, or even smirk like your thinking of her sexually) Step 3: Check her out while she is looking in an obvious way. Then make eye contact. Same rule as step 2. Each step puts you out of your comfort zone in comparison to the previous. Get to 10 reps of step 3 and tell me your still nervous. I dare you…
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:04 AM
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This is the most helpful comment I've seen here so far. There's no secret potion or book to get over approach anxiety. You just have to grab your balls and do it. No shortcuts out there. Only thing that I've really heard of helping is making eye contact with everyone you meet. You can add in waving or saying "Hi" but no matter what you still have to approach.
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:48 AM
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Make the date as soon as possible. The longer you wait the more time interest has to fade away. The sooner you date the higher % chance she will not flake AND be more receptive to you during the date. Edit: Also, if you are wearing clothes that look like shit, or don't fit... Get at least one good outfit beforehand. Women pick up on if you can dress/groom yourself well.
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:43 AM
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She's interested. You listed so many IOI's it ridiculous. she didn't charge me for my last two drinks and when I asked how much I owed she said she wasn't charging me, I asked her why and she said "don't feel like it", but she did charge my friends. What? What bartender doesn't charge?! we hadn't been in there for a month she recognized me and remembered my name when I came in. A month is a long time for seeing someone once and remembering their name. A caught her staring at me inquisitively a f…
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:40 AM
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If you think that's good learn palmistry. My god is it ridiculous how women respond. Usually it starts by them looking at their hand in shock, looking up at you and saying "how did you read all that?!" at that point you have their complete 100% undivided attention haha
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:51 AM
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Plenty of guys like you bud, *sigh, it just has to click. Keep reading the articles. A lot of good ones on here. Start approaching and find out first hand what does and doesnt work. Take everything as far as you possibly can. You'll get there.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:42 AM
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Seduction is about making the girl interested/attracted in you sexually, emotionally, and mentally. Not finding a girl who already is. You can't really do that though can you? Atleast not in my experience/observations. If a girl likes a guy, she liked him to begin with. The sex farie didn't walk up and toss attraction glitter all over every girl who's been into you. You were you, displayed attractive qualities and she liked you. You sound like the is issue is you don't know what you did.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:20 AM
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There is an obvious morale question here. The real thing no one is addressing is that she said she's willing to sleep with him, She asked what he'd do if she's single, She went out on a date with him. Isn't she already in a single woman's mindset? Rhetorical. She is already thinking of breaking up with him. I never suggest to purposefully end relationships. This one already ended in her own head though, she probably just doesn't know how to break it to the boyfriend. Brother... Just go for it. (…
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:51 AM
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I had this twice before. Both times I pulled out a routine cube/palmistry and distract her from the movie. Then just escalated. You have to break her from her current movie watching mindset. It really sounds like she wanted to watch that movie.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:27 AM
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You want to know what worked? Nothing on this subreddit helped me because you guys think women are complicated games. You just have to fucking do it bro. This may be true, but I would dare to say this sub is more about how to increase your odds and close ratio.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:15 AM
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Most people say don't text except for getting logistic sorted out. I can see that. If you don't have text game, that's good advise. If you do, you need no explanation on what to do. So... seeing as how you don't... do it minimally. Texting her just the right amount is all about how interested she is. Multiple texts in a row or if she texts you first can be easy ways to gauge this. That isn't the only way, just the simplest.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:13 AM
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If a girl trys to make you jealous, it's simply because she want your attention and she wants you to give it to her, to chase her. It's an IOI and a shit test in one.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:07 AM
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This is the only comment you need to read.
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:03 AM
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Power through friend. The anxiety of approach fades a lot quicker then the feeling of regret from not doing it.
/r/seduction29/03/14 02:13 AM
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I literally just pulled of that someone kidnapped you text the other day. It worked great. I often go for the date super quick. With that I've had to have a back-up plan if a girl shut me out. It's my style but it's worked for me for years. After I've slept with women I often ask them when they first realized the were attracted to me. I've had plenty say my quirky texts that always come from left field left them anticipating what I'd say next in suspense. Ever see a girl look down at her phone a…
/r/seduction29/03/14 01:59 AM
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Perfect example of keeping frame, and nicknames are an awesome tool to use. Then you keep calling her Shaq the whole night haha!
/r/seduction29/03/14 01:35 AM
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If she goes to stop you there is a different process for that. That's what I was referring to. Pull back 1 step, go forward 2. The point with me making that comment is that if you get to the point of feeling her up underneath her bra, your probably home free.
/r/seduction28/03/14 11:02 PM
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Baddie sounds like he know his club game. Eye contact+body language+seductive smirk=5 sec kiss close.
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:58 PM
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Don't give up kid. This post touch me. It touched me because I was you one day a long time ago. Only you can defeat your own AA. No one else period. If you fear embarrassment from your friends don't approach in front of them. I few years back I couldn't approach, last week I opened a set of 6-7 girls at an applebee's when I was having a few drinks with my friends. They saw me open, sit down, make them all laugh, pick up my targets number, then later kiss her all within an hour. Their jaws droppe…
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:23 PM
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Push/pull is awesome. Essentially you show interest and then take it away. You are too cute, your just like my little sister. You have the sexiest legs i've seen, too bad i'm not into short/tall girls. You're the the most beautiful girl I've met,(slight pause) that's named Katie Johnson Another way to think of push pull is qualify/disqualify
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:11 PM
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First text is huge, I never go for logistics first text. I send something humorous or get them to talk about themselves. Something as simple as "you dance right?" sets different tone than "heyy (her name), i just checked my schedule, sat at noon good :)?" Assuming she dances (almost no one actually know how to dance) creates the frame of me qualifying her and when she doesn't she usually tries to recover and can even start the frame of chasing me. I sent this a lot and get "no, I'd love to learn…
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:55 PM
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Oh jeez, well I've used a lot over the years. Now mine have a keen style. Before I start I'll talk about some others. One way is to comment on something in a photo, bio, profile and play off that. For example a girl recently had hockey crap all over her profile so my line was- you just got into hockey because of jason vorheese huh? She didnt know who he was so i proceeded to bust her balls about it. Another I love using Is to send a girl a blank message. When she replies with something like "why…
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:30 AM
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Glad to hear it. Your welcome. And pin that tail on the donkey.
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:51 AM
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Your gunna have to "go rogue" to have a good fight in round 2. Pretty much just go in run game but throw a curveball with something like "your really adorable just like my little sister, you seem like you'd be a good friend" Use whatever transition you normally would for date. By friend-zoning her it's put's her off guard and disarms that boyfriend objection. The obvious issue here is you can't just go for the kiss willy nilly, it'll blow your cover. So build enough attraction to get her to buyi…
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:38 AM
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Have unique openers, drop dead gorgeous girls get crazy inboxes. I've had a few lady friends build a profile of them for me so I could see what their openers looked like(they know what I do). Huge eye opener. All text game applies to messages so treat it as such. One thing I see often is guys don't transition into a day 1 quick enough. For me Ideally I want to set up a date on the first day I send a message, assuming she replies right away and often, if not then my scale is I transition to date …
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:25 AM
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you better post the link on here so i can find it haha P.S. I LOVE how you take the time to post this before hand
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:05 AM
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http://www.thepuablog.com/text-game-how-to-talk-to-girls/ This one show a lot of shit tests, and a great example of how not to fail them. http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html This one is openers, some really suck if you ask me but I don't exactly have normal openers. Even in the pick-up world mine can be out there, but I guess it's whatever works with your style. Make it you.
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:54 AM
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I'm with RandinHero on this one. Texting is my favorite tool and is what got me into online game. No one can expect you to respond In any time frame. You can text back in 5 seconds or 2 days. You can fit this around YOUR lifestyle and it's an easy way to juggle multiple women while still building attraction with all of them, and set up dates or meet ups. This is all without mention you can create emotion through text, you can arouse a girl through text, you can build rapport through text. You ca…
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:39 AM
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Once you've isolated her, relax. I put music on because I think that in the silence of transitioning it keeps the mind focused on music instead of OMG random thought/what am i doing. It's also soothing making her more relax. Personal preference though. Here's what I started off with that really helped me. It's a routine of sorts but you can create your own variation. * Gentle kissing having hands on her back * Reach up and gently tug on her hair * Use the hair tug to pull her head back and kiss …
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:23 AM
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First off. Ignore state_of_nonreturn. People are on here to learn not be trolled by dickbags. I have mad respect for those who want to actually learn and take initiative. Now that's over, if 90% of your numbers go dead it's usually one of two things. * 1 your first text * 2 you didn't build enough attraction in the initial interaction. I'm gunna tackle #2 first since that's my favorite. You did good by checking logistics when you asked what her day was like. I use kino right of the bat, sometime…
/r/seduction28/03/14 07:52 AM
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There is lots of tips on this everywhere. Can you elaborate more? What's your sticking points. (kissing, the lay, generating sexual tension you can both feel, ect.)
/r/seduction28/03/14 07:12 AM
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I won't say never use a compliment opener. It is not a good idea usually though. If you compliment, compliment her shoes, handbag, shirt, anything that does not directly compliment her. If you compliment her directly (ex. your beautiful) it can come as "I like you, now you talk" which is not attractive. If you know her already my preferred method is to ball-bust. If i see her wearing a shiny necklace I'd say "wow I wasn't sure that was you. The light was shining from that crazy loud necklace you…
/r/seduction28/03/14 06:56 AM
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She said yes, looking disappointed herself. Do you mean she said no, as in she has a boyfriend? I'm assuming so. She was obviously attracted if she's eyeing you the whole night. Never ask a girl if she's single or taken. She might be taken, but if she is giving you IOIs left and right she is interested. Meaning if she does have a boyfriend... She isn't serious about him. Asking that risky question can put you in a pitfall like that. Always assume she's single.
/r/seduction28/03/14 06:36 AM
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