Comfy_Cozy_Sofa_Bear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
300	Dealing with embarrassment after dating poorly	SHOWER THOUGHT	Comfy_Cozy_Sofa_Bear	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 01:41 PM

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1	What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth? Ask him what he thinks about maternity leave! My NV ex would “jokingly” ask why women needed time off when they weren’t going back to labor intensive jobs after having a baby—“they’re just sitting at a desk.” He also thought paternity leave was a waste of time. Turns out he wasn’t joking about any of this, and in real life, he did NOT value motherhood despite being the child of a single mom. He loved performing fatherhood for a crowd (including his enabling family members) but was a piss poor pa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 03:33 AM
12	Men benefit from women romanticizing marriage through the lens of unconditional love YES! And it’s wild that their desire to be doted on has not diminished a BIT! They still expect, demand and feel shortchanged if they aren’t catered to and admired by their partner. But they aren’t even close to being a provider or protector.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/21 05:24 AM