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| 3 | People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men.Okay I already said it was the discussion at hand..... Ngl, I'm already frustrated with this conversation imma bail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 01:06 PM |
| 6 | People should be consistent with any criticism they have with men.Dude Trauma dumping is such a loaded term, and veers dangerously into weaponized therapy language, I was speaking about my experiences after a family accident, which left me broke, trying to support my family, bills lining up, drinking to cope, working 60-80 hour weeks as a result, and eventually putting on weight from lack of exercise from overwork, and drinking. I was immediately accused of trauma dumping, the subject at hand was my experiences dating while being ugly, and broke. I've had ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 12:28 PM |
| 4 | The "No True Good Guy" FallacyIt's an overly simplified view of the world, the problem is the simplicity they offer does exist, and women by and large offer if anything an increasingly more absurd philosophy that is even more simplified. This is a systemic, national problem, actually affecting our culture and our economy in a corrosive way. And everyone is too busy trying to score points on each other to put any thought into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | The "No True Good Guy" FallacyI of course believe you, I do think you're foolish for believing all women when they say they feel something similar. I was always a handsome man, and a very socially active one, throughout my whole life I've had great friends. But I did have a family tragedy, it fucked up my life, debt skyrocketed, and I put on weight from stress and drinking to cope. And existing as a ugly man, was an insanely different experience, I've been a Mexican man my entire life, the first time I was got called a slur … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Then how come you lied? You said several things I said, that I just genuinely didn't. For real, it literally only me and you hear, do you gaslight your family the same way. Jeesh, this is why I insult you. You can't even stand by your own actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?You made a series of assumptions about me, didn't listen to a single word I said, put words in my mouth, and even lied about what I was saying. That is worth disrespect, like you said, I matched energy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Have fun with your kids, I promise you I'm not the person you jerkishly assumed me to be, I hope you have a good time, and reflect on how you treat others while anonymous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Yes, because you're not treating them as human, you're making apologies for something that need no apologies for. Why shouldn't women choose to date a kind man, caveat one of an attractiveness level she enjoys, and one from a social status she feels keeps up with her. She should do that! At the same time, treating women in the dating world as rewards for kindness, dehumanizing them as people who only make good and ethical choices is ridiculous! It's genuinely sexist. I had to drop out of school,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Because I never said any of those things, so when I never said any of those things, you feel like a mix between a doofus, a resentful stubborn jerk, and arrogant. So I matched your energy, you're a insulting doofus, who never once touched any aspect of my personality any closely to at all be insulting. Laughably wrong about everything I have said, and have flat out lied about much of it And if you expect me coming out of this conversation with anything besides just genuine disrespect to you, it'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?You're being a liar right now is what's happening, because I literally typed in that message of course women want Kind men, but they often prioritize looks and money. Jesus, do you really think imma change my mind or feel stupid from you lying, we are the only two here. You really aren't smart, has nothing to do with you being a woman, it has everything to do with you being a cactus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?That's not at all what I said. Do you genuinely believe in you're head I'm going at all feel stupid, insulted, or rethink things over something I never said or believe? That's ridiculous, you're a ridiculous person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?I was being insulting, it's fair to stop listening when you're being insulted. Go ahead and stop listening. Three things You didn't stop listening. You're making arguments against things I didn't say, and don't believe thinking I'll somehow be insulted back 😂😂. And you deserve to be insulted, so I don't intend on stopping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?I've never been part of a red pill, I have wonderful relationships with women, and I might think you're stupid now, but not because you're a woman, but because you seem to think I'll feel stupid after you haven't listened to a single word I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?It's more likely you read it, and have nothing. You know you're not being cool, and you have to much ego to own up to it You're not fooling anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?You're not meeting me with the same energy, you got upset over assumptions about me, very big ones. You're not a very good person. And I find it odd, that you won't answer the question, so I'll be blunt. I'm making assumptions myself. So let me tell you what's going through my head, I never suggested women wanted Unkind men, they obviously want kind men. But they very often don't end up with Kind men, they end up with good looking and wealthy men. I would suggest there is nothing wrong with wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?I'd rather you answer the question, if a woman overtly valued looks, openly. Would she be a bad person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 04:01 PM |
| 0 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?The idea women can't have physical standards is legit sexist, like I literally think you see women as a fundamentally inhuman creature. Let me ask you this if a woman theoretically hooked up with good looking men, would you define her as functioning as a "bad woman"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 03:33 PM |
| 0 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Then get it, I'm not standing in your way, 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 02:58 PM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI don't care about your opinion, that's the point. And maybe I did care about other opinions, a little more when I was very vulnerable, and people abused that vulnerability. But I've improved and work on myself. Please keep up, for real, you're like 8 steps behind on this conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 01:32 AM |
| 8 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhat was your solution again? It happens to women too, so shut, up fuck that. I would have your back if someone was mean about your appearance. I would. You're a fake person. Posing a principled one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 7 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI have never insulted a woman's appearance? So I should just suck it up for the team. See this is my big problem with modern online "feminism", which I see as a very different and inferior thing to real actual feminist work. The idea, that since women's experiences are awful, men collectively should deal with it. In my experience, Is white women have always disrespected since I was literally a baby, via race, money, class or appearance. And each time it becomes uncouthe to use race to demean me,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 01:14 AM |
| 2 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Thank you, but I disagree, I am a frequent visitor, to blue pill subs. I like to deescalate red pill dudes, I abhor the red pill, and I like to try to pull people away. And I will say the women in those subs, truly moralize sex to a ridiculously misogynistic degree, which they see as this great thing, because it's some sort of deifying misogyny. Which is of course ridiculous, they just feed into the same stupid game, and show men there they shouldn't be listened to, which is why I think all thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 01:08 AM |
| 4 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?I only skimmed it, because I completely missed the point, the point isn't that women should fuck me, the point was that making it a moralist issue, a referendum of character is terrible. In fact I cleared that up in my next reply, you wrote like five pages addressing stuff I have no problem with, and it's already frustrating. Jeesh, sorry for being so rude, but you skipped right past the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 12:37 AM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADShe's my friend, which means two things, my eternal love and support, and her sexual habits aren't things I'm at all interested in, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's a fetish she's allowed to have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:45 PM |
| 10 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI know for a fact I was getting rejected for being ugly, because women won't be coy, people think it's an assumption, no most women will just shit on your appearance to your face. Don't believe listen to TikTok for five minutes, they are all trashing ugly men every other video. Another reason I know, is because I wasn't unattractive in my youth, and eventually became attractive again. Trust me, it's a different world. It's weird people can't acknowledge it. I think it's perfectly valid for women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:38 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMy best friend is a woman who is 5'1, who won't date anyone under 6'3, she's gone as tall as 6'7. Now there isn't anything wrong with that. People are allowed to have their preferences, but when preferences become too common like that, it becomes a systemic obstacle. Nobody anymore is keeping Black People out of med school, but we acknowledge a whole civilization has built a world where the frequently just don't. In the same regard if tall men get most matches on a dating app, and 1/3 of relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why Don’t Straight Women Acknowledge That Dating Is Easier for Them?I've never hurt a woman, in fact I have saved a friend from an assault once, I have negative hurting women under my belt. I have been raped before by a woman. Attacked physically, slandered by them. It's a dangerous world for women, but being a decent man means being disrespected anyways, and still getting the worst from women. The good people from every gender have to suffer at the worst of the other gender, the difference is men are expected to act as if they deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Why Don’t Straight Women Acknowledge That Dating Is Easier for Them?As someone who has always been a really socially active person, with a mixed group of friends from all walks of life. I had to cut off a lot of male friends for being horrible people, so I get women's complaints, but in the same regard I had to cut off just as many women for being horrible as friends. In fact almost every woman I know had to jettison a great many of female friends that crossed lines. So if a woman can get twenty dates, and they are all horrible, but we can acknowledge women are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Why Don’t Straight Women Acknowledge That Dating Is Easier for Them?I noticed alot of men on Inceltears often posted how the first person they met just coincidentally ended up being the love of their life. The first person I dated when I was young was a wonderful woman, who I adore, and we are still on good terms, but we hardly needed to be together forever. I feel like it happening once is nice, when I saw too many comment on that phenomenon they are just trauma bonding onto the first person they got a yes from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?This idea that women don't give a shit about money, and looks, that personalities matter more. It's really the opposite side of the coin, the heads on the misogynistic coin, the Madonna in the Whore/Madonna complex. Women aren't magical sex angels, that grant blessing on the worthy, they like people they are attracted to, they want people who can improve their lives, that's perfectly valid and okay. Instead of acknowledging the reality about how life can be unfair to ugly/broke men, we treat wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Thanks, but I will be clear, the moralization of sex by both gender devasted my spirit. The idea, that men deserve sex, fucking is sick, don't they want someone who cares, don't they want to feel desired. But in the same regard, women being magical sex angels bestowing booty on the deserving is really fucked up of a thing feminists often try to sell people on. And it's weird that they don't see how dehumanizing that is to women. Like they are incapable of finding attractive people attractive, li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:42 PM |
| 2 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Well would you allow to explain my mindset in this matter, I feel like you could come to an understanding Edit: someone else asked the question, and I answered them, so instead of typing twice check out my other reply, please and thank you, you seem like a cool person. 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?There is no unified "woman" where everything will work, which is why this red pill, Incels, blue pill shit are assholes The problem is alot of women buy into blue pill shit, when they are literally the least equipped out of three to enact any meaningful changes to men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:18 PM |
| 5 | The dichotomy between looks and Money in dating, what’s the real balance Women seek?Fuck that, mens talking points I was a well liked guy in my youth, I've always had great social skills, I've always tried to be a good person, and I've done great things, things I'm proud of genuinely. I've always had a good relationship with women. Lots of friendships. I went broke, my whole family did, I'm from a working class Latino family, where a serious accident fucked us all over, has to drop out of school, get a job, never finished my degree. I was broke, started drinking, put on weight.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessI get where you're coming from. But it's fundamentally wrong, almost every blue pill discussion, Ive seen harbors under the impression that everyone having problems is a deeply dysfunctional human being. Just an absolute mess. I have found the opposite to be true, most men struggling in the modern era are very normal functional people, a minority is the weird incel freaks, hate filled, no friends, no job. But all discussion is tailored around them. It is great advice for someone who is completel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Men don't take enough responsibility for male lonelinessNot a great message, I put on some weight drinking in a really bad place in my life, some real fucked shit happened to me. And I was lonely, and it wasn't due to a lack of friends, I've always had strong friendships. The idea that they can always be there, is fucking stupid. Like hey, I know you got kids, but I'm going through a lot in a school night. I know you all have husbands/boyfriends/girlfriends/wives......but you know it's Saturday, and you're my only plans, otherwise im going go carting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:12 PM |
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