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1, SOMETIMES MAYBE 2 if anything more then that im done
/r/seduction16/08/26 10:20 PM
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i have gotten on hundreds of dating app dates and have a very dialed in instagram and have never properly converted from a instagram dm EVER, it comes across as low status and tbh the conversion rates r way lower
/r/seduction11/08/26 02:20 AM
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i do everything possible to get me levearge i have a dialed datinng app, i go out 2-3x every week to nightclubs and bars for the past 4 years and i also cold approach. i also live centrally in my city living alone
/r/seduction10/08/26 05:34 AM
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its not about the looks i treat the 9s and 6s the exact same way and they all behave the same
/r/seduction10/08/26 05:33 AM
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im average looking, nothing exceptional about me maybe slightly above avg sex appeal but not facially gifted by no means
/r/seduction10/08/26 05:28 AM
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i dont even enjoy sex, the sex part is just a byproduct, if i ever felt like id need to cheat id just break up w her cuz ik i can pull endless other ones
/r/seduction10/08/26 04:14 AM
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I am brazillian, i always invite them over for wine+Jenga at my crib, i walk them up from my main lobby wearing lightning mcqueen crocs, gymshark shorts 5 inch inseam and a black t shirt, you always want to come across as confident and not serious making jokes and treating her like a child
/r/seduction10/08/26 04:06 AM
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woman percieve men who persue them as inferior, if ur her dream man and high status to her she will drop her ego and chase u to try and lock u down
/r/seduction10/08/26 04:04 AM
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Fun vibes only u want to be the man she goes to escape reality and responsabilities, non judgemental, not serious and always giggly vibes
/r/seduction10/08/26 04:03 AM
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this is bad advice i approach woman on the street all the time near clubs and have had a lot of success
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:56 PM
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i dont reccomend getting in my position 150 is way to much and as you can see from most the guys in this thread its kinda a useless stat
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:50 PM
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you think i should look into if i have possible ADHD? the reason i engaged it is cuz its always a big high for me when i eventually get them to want me, like the best part for me is the whole process of getting them attracted then eventually them desiring me, the sex isnt even importnant for me i just like the validation from it
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:49 PM
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a lot of them are ons, after i have sex with them i would never reach out first ever again, if they reach out i almost always keep seeing them but a lot of them probably get fed up on how i dont persue them or make efforts to keep interactions going
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:46 PM
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nah if i ever get a gf i dont think i would need to ever cheat since i already know what having options feels like
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:45 PM
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great advice i appreciate it, for me its def not about the looks for me, i find all kinds of different looks attractive to me, my problem is i have issues finding out if im able to actually be vulnerable with them without losing attraction, then the fear she will just leave eventually if thats the case
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:45 PM
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you have a presentation problem if they are putting you into boyfriend/husband zone
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:20 PM
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thank you yes i know it will be a tough hill to get over
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:12 PM
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Yea my main struggle is being vulnerable and being able to trust them that they actually like me for me and not the fun person i appear on dates feel like im putting up a act in order to keep interest as i have perfected what works for short term interactions
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:11 PM
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if a girl calls the cops on you thats a immediate sign to never speak to her again.
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:10 PM
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I have been watching Most of the RSD stuff since i was in highschool 14-16 RSD Todd, RSD Tyler + Early infields of coach kyle aswell as the RP stuff my favorite has been Alpha Male Strategies, but most of it comes from trial and error you can have all the information in the world but if you dont take daily action to try to fail you wont ever see any improvements or skils
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:04 PM
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how do you vet a woman to know she is actually loyal to you?
/r/seduction09/08/26 09:02 PM
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19 & 18
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:09 AM
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Not my fault its not my girlfriend
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:07 AM
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First text, i have been using this a few times and its a 50/50 if it works had some guys in my group use it and somehow it works
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:07 AM
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A lot of guys get in relationships and have many signs but are to weak to ever call the girl out and let them run the relationship so this what causes these things to happen
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:06 AM
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I live in Canada, i am brazilian origin
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:00 AM
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Not even close to being chad
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:00 AM
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Canada
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:59 AM
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Yea i def will never end up dating any of them long term, i know the risks and its a dangerous game, woman now adays will do whatever they want no matter of my opinion, im glad its just not me thats being cheated on
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:58 AM
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Nah she told me "my boyfriend is gone to get me a drink be quick so he doesnt see and kick ur ass"
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:55 AM
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college bars this happen every week
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:51 AM
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5'10 bare foot 6'1 w boots and height inserts
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:50 AM
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What i cant wrap my head around is a guy like me how will i ever be able to get into a stable long term relationship if this is what i have been exposed to
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:48 AM
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in the next 10-20 Years there will be a HUGE population of single unhappy woman and it will not end well
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:47 AM
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Exactly what it is, it has ruined my hopes of ever getting a long term girlfriend
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:46 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:46 AM
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They all use this moral high ground in order to justify their feelings and actions, its the most out of touch shit ever a lot of woman wont even count bodies if its just a ons or if its a fuckboy cuz to her it Just happened
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:45 AM
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its hard to ever get a girlfriend once u live this life
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:41 AM
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5'10 Brazillian w curly hair and goatee
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:40 AM
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According to most Black pill forums i am rated as a Normie or slightly above
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:40 AM
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most woman will cheat and they are damn good at hiding it
/r/seduction07/08/26 07:39 AM
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I am from Brazil, i usually invite them over for wine and to play jenga
/r/seduction06/08/26 07:50 PM
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Pop a Cialis and make sure u pound her well
/r/seduction06/08/26 07:03 PM
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average looking maybe slightly above, black pill scale im called a MTN
/r/seduction06/08/26 05:46 PM
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i’ve had 100+ girls come straight over from dating apps
/r/seduction06/08/26 12:42 AM
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you grab them say “you are so pretty” then grab her and kiss her. i kissed 1000+ woman
/r/seduction04/08/26 11:22 PM
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proabably cuz u were not spending money, you need to actually spend money at the bars or the staff dont see any value of u being in there especially when ur hitting on all the girls
/r/seduction04/08/26 03:39 AM
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DM me we have a group for canadians helping w dating apps
/r/seduction30/07/26 07:21 PM
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i do it all the time especially if im almost guaranteed to get laid. my city has cheap ubers tho max a uber will be is 20$
/r/seduction24/07/26 08:31 PM
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pull it out and tell her to suck it
/r/seduction23/07/26 09:11 PM
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because i know the woman do the exact same thing but will never tell us
/r/seduction23/07/26 07:53 PM
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same shit happened to me recently i normally smash always first date, been on.2 dates w this girl and im cutting her off cuz no sex. dont waste time w girls like this
/r/seduction18/07/26 06:57 PM
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22 YEG 150+ lost count used to work at a club aswell tinder/hinge
/r/seduction02/04/26 03:10 AM
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horribke situation you will have more success trying to hook up w them in ur car right outside the club
/r/seduction29/03/26 12:03 AM
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it’s a statistical fact
/r/seduction03/03/26 09:16 PM
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no girl under 25 will be looking at your wedding rings most dudes arent married in this demographic and most women arent looking at your hand, but a pink hair tie is so different and crazy they will assume u just had a women with you now. thats why it works so well, they always say "whos bitches hair tiie is that"
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:19 PM
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this is meant to increase desire, still need to have other things going for you like communication skills seduction etc
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:16 PM
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some extreme measures i have tried at the club is i would get Red lipstick and make a red kiss mark on my neck or put lipstick on your mouth and smudge it to make it seem like you just got made out with. try at your own risk some will say its doing to much but if you have no leverage you need to do whatever it takes
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:14 PM
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more volume bro ur first yes might be ur 20th approach, faster u fail the faster you can find your winner
/r/seduction26/02/26 05:48 AM
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dm me i can help
/r/seduction12/02/26 10:57 PM
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they all 304s had plenty good girls who came over for jenga first night got cracked and then made her bf wait 5 dates or a month to smash
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:47 PM
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better on dating apps doesn’t work on ig for me personally
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:46 PM
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Always escalate on your couch where the jenga is happening
/r/seduction10/02/26 08:46 PM
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ignore whatever she says and go straight to me+u+wine+jenga
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:03 AM
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go to any hospital
/r/seduction09/02/26 01:46 AM
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they go to a bar or night club
/r/seduction08/02/26 11:24 PM
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sell them a dream
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:48 PM
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If the girl doesnt Initiate first after hooking up w u she does not like you. No high value girl will have sex with a man then never reach out again, if she doesnt message you first after u smash its not a girl you would want to see anyways, prob ran thru slut
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:38 PM
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i ususally do the pizza and cookies as a second date to build more comfort and get to know her deeper, third date we go out on a real date if shes attractive enough i dont mind going a movies or dinner after she proven herself
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:03 PM
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yes i had my fair share of crazies. but that usually doesnt happen unless the girl gets emotionally invested. Important to have video cameras in your apartment and keep valueables hidden
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:59 PM
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ive had friends who are in rural America and still have success with same system
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:58 PM
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Hey Fair Point. Ill give you the run down in summary but i will make further posts breaking my experiences down. i am currently 22 i used to work in nightlife and a bunch of my lays come from then as a club promoter i have been only using the jenga and wine line since around 1 Year ish. My body count is unkown as i lost track and count but i know its over 100 i just stopped counting as i see it as pointless to count. I never been in a real relationship but i have had many long term flings with g…
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:57 PM
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was there on a layover for 24 hours and my dating apps had so many beautiful women, was able to get a date first night and it was great even smashed. Beautiful white women prob some of the best in the country, can’t talk about nightlife because i was there on a tuesday
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:04 PM
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going over for just a drink comes across as low effort and most girls will reject unless they super high interest. the jenga part is what makes it less of a red flag
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:01 PM
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yes many of them, they eventually leave me though for other set of reasons sometimes i don’t know of
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:00 PM
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lock in on ur presentation first then focus on the rest
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:58 PM
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these women have personalities too.
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:58 PM
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i have a dialed routine, at this point i say the same things every single date. once u do enough dates u know what works for ur personality and u will find a routine that works for u
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:57 PM
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i had a few girls that don’t drink and they still come 😂😂, i either get them red bull fresh juice or anything at all, they mainly come for the jenga and the pipe . they forget all about the wine
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:56 PM
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Most girls eventually just end up ghosting me for long term after a few weeks or months. a lot don’t like the fact how i am very open about dating girls and they feel overwhelmed. The truth is if we are a good compatible match and she good personality and everything checks off i will completely put her in a run for long term absolutely. there is more to a relationship then just sex. just because we started off at sex we still go out and do other things on dates for dates 2,3,4
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:55 PM
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Let’s go bro. it may not be fancy but it works. dudes try overcomplicating it when they need to just dumb it down and will reap more rewards
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:52 PM
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i never said not to put in effort in pictures. my profile is top tier yes. i have been on dating apps for years and yes i matched w near 1000 women. But i tried going on real dates and i would never get any success they would waste my time and never come over . my game is top tier and im experienced it is just to many roadblocks. skip the nonsense and get her straight over and my conversions sky rocket. so when u do get a match a chance of a lay is much higher
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:51 PM
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i’ve never had a negative reaction. every girl has the deep desire to someday find a husband your playing on pshycology and being playful that i may just be their future husband. girls don’t care that much
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:49 PM
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you need to focus on a. profile that stands out and has some sex appeal + personality. i go out every weekend to bars and clubs and have success but nothing beats how easy and efficient dating apps r especially when u push volume and filter out high interest only. at my peak id get 2-4 girls a week coming over from apps to play jenga
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:48 PM
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i tested out jenga twister and connect 4, Jenga is by far the best results, my profile is pretty dialed i have very good pictures that show me being a fun and charismatic guy so it is congruent. main advice is dial ur profile so u have enough options to spam volume then copy and paste the line
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:46 PM
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bro ur just dealing w girls that don’t like u, if she makes u text a bunch of nonsense to get her on a date she has higher interest options she would die to go see
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:43 PM
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Hi thanks for your questions, i wouldn’t be annoyed but i do not like girls who hold out on sex because they are trying to manipulate u to like them, in my experience if a girl likes you she will sleep with you fast 1-2 dates max, if she reaches out first after first time i’ll give them a shot for second date if i like their personality enough, but she has to reach out first 2 pretty low, 80% of the girls will sleep w me first night, if we don’t sleep first night most times they just don’t like …
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:42 PM
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because you need to dumb down ur speech when talking to women, being high effort grammar makes u look like a loser, women are basically just adult children
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:37 PM
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yes i am 22 and i only date 18-25 yr olds
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:37 PM
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use this approach, women prefer it then jestermaxing on a boring date
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:34 AM
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jenga is a game of blocks its probably one of the most popular games worldwide most chicks 18-30 will have played it atleast once
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:11 AM
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men would be furious if they were able to see how many girls came over for wine and jenga for both myself and my best friend we do this 2-3x a week
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:11 AM
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ur being way to logical about this, girls know that its a cute joke and ur just role playing, ive had many long term consistent girls that started off coming just for jenga, and you dont even have to smash if u dont like the chick u can just kick her out or just play w her and not smash, you are in control of the situation since she has fell into ur frame by coming over and playing jenga she is high quality and most times high interest aswell
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:10 AM
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need to get a dialed profile aswell, dont skip any steps
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:08 AM
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i had this work with some of my friends who were not very attractive, some even lost virginity this way which is even more insane lmao
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:07 AM
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i tested out twister but it was way to sexual it had red flags up earlier and less conversions of girls agreeing to it
/r/seduction08/02/26 10:06 AM
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i never say come over, the key is to imply she’s going to come over without saying “come over” what i usually ask is “ i am in x area in the city, r u far from me” this implies she’s coming to u and she will let u know if she’s close, then next message after u say “okay cool do u need a ride” and if she says yes get her a uber if she says no most times they will want to drive them selves, assuming the close like this is non chalant and wont bring out red flags
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:32 AM
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i say “ msg me ( insert number here)” then when she texts me i set logistics and she comes over to play jenga in the next 1-3 days
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:29 AM
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just ask for what u want, if you want to fuck her tell her you want her to come over, doing after parties can get expensive u need to host multiple people with alcohol and food and your house will get dirty, not worth the headache its more for social circle game and the odds of u getting cock blocked will be high unless u have a really big place its hard to isolate the girl to fuck if all her friends are there
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:17 PM
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she was naked in my bed while on the phone w her bf and they were planning their movie date for the next night
/r/seduction06/02/26 10:40 PM
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what other choice do you have? if something is to much effort then u don’t want it bad enoug, discipline is about doing what u dislike no matter how u feel in order to get results. your loser mindset is already a reason why you are not winning
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:31 PM
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have no filter, and ask for what u want,
/r/seduction21/01/26 07:00 PM
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close ur mouth, you are 100% talking way to much you clearly are attractive so just stay silent the whole time and let her do the talking, practice converying what you want in the least amount of words possible
/r/seduction06/01/26 01:25 AM
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bro trynna get rid of his loyal gf to smash ran thru thots on hinge you are cooked
/r/seduction05/01/26 02:19 AM
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you should. word of mouth spreads fast and your reputation matters
/r/seduction06/12/25 02:24 AM
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do not do this AI Slop, this gonna get u left on read or sent to the group chat
/r/seduction05/12/25 05:40 AM
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sexting is for losers dont do that shit
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:57 AM
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i have the opposite problem, girls only want to fuck and hit me up on late nights nothing else
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:55 AM
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You can’t be logical at all, don’t ever try to impress her and be BOLD
/r/seduction06/03/24 04:54 PM
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