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Field ReportComplete_Wave_9315/r/seduction10/05/25 11:31 PM
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Field ReportComplete_Wave_9315/r/seduction07/05/25 08:18 PM
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6

Absolutely bull shit😂😂
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:22 PM
26

Solid points. As a woman, I love when a guy actually spends the time on me. Point 2 is extremely solid.
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:06 PM
5

You’re welcome. No prob
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:43 AM
9

That’s fair! I prefer some common ground with men, it’s not required, but it definitely helps IMO.
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:42 AM
19

I can only speak for me, but when I say no spark it’s typically due to not being a good match for me. I’m no longer single, but for example when I was dating, I felt no spark with a guy after a date because I felt our hobbies really didn’t mesh well. He was cute and funny, but we really had no common ground if you will.
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:24 AM
1

Straight forward and direct is your best bet. Also, eye contact and smiling helps in my experience😉
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:50 PM
3

Well if OP is getting that far, clearly it works lol. As for them not returning, I have no idea.
/r/seduction14/07/25 02:54 AM
0

What would you rather us call you? Hot?
/r/seduction14/07/25 01:38 AM
1

You as well👍🏻
/r/seduction14/07/25 12:51 AM
1

Not saying it’s the best indicator or anything lol, but being told that IS usually a good sign. Speaking as a woman…when we tell guys that they’re soft or sweet, etc it’s a good thing😉
/r/seduction14/07/25 12:47 AM
2

Completely disagree but we can agree to disagree lol.
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:54 PM
21

When you get told that, that is actually a very good sign lol. They trust you.
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:16 PM
6

That’s why I was just trying to say that the original comment was a pretty good indicator of interest. This also applies to when I talk to other women (for friends) It’s unfortunate that guys think we’re just fucking with them because I wasn’t. All 6 of those dudes were cool and attractive (to me) so approaching wears us out too, but eventually it will work. I advanced first with the current guy I’m with (hell I made a post about it and everything haha) I wish you good luck with these women. I’m…
/r/seduction30/06/25 12:24 AM
6

Buddy dial it down a notch…you asked me what worked for me. Of course that isn’t solid “proof”. It’s just been my experience. Other women and men will have wildly different experiences and things that work/don’t work for them. I’ve cold approached dudes and flat out asked for their number. It does not work usually when you’re this forward haha. AGAIN just my experience. The most rememberable situation of doing this was with a guy I sort of knew but we weren’t friends, he just froze up and kind o…
/r/seduction30/06/25 12:11 AM
8

This is going to sound weird but his reaction is similar to seeing people when I’m out walking (for example) I might see someone pass me so I’ll greet them with a “good morning”. Someone that ignores me or just politely smiles isn’t someone that probably wants to chit chat. Person two also gets a “good morning”. This person wants to talk or their reaction is better, they probably smile and greet me back or ask how I’m doing (engagement) See what I mean? 😂 Now back to the original question, I wil…
/r/seduction29/06/25 11:52 PM
7

I mean yeah that’s my initial start; it’s a way to gauge his reaction.
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:26 PM
3

I believe you😄 Post reeks of narcissism.
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:24 PM
12

As a woman, why don’t you start some of these conversations? A simple “hey how’s it going?” can work wonders lol.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:24 PM
2

Nailed it
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:15 PM
3

IMO, if she didn’t like your looks there would’ve been no date. I personally wouldn’t go out with a guy I wasn’t attracted to. I think something else happened. Maybe you’re shy or a bit awkward? It could’ve been her too…shy/awkward and became “not interested” aka nervous if she liked you.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:09 PM
2

Maybe I’m the odd ball out, but I prefer guys my own age, plus or minus 3-5 years in either direction.
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:19 PM
6

If you have any doubt that she maybe lying, I would not.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:54 AM
20

Ehh up to you. IUDs are pretty effective, however they do not protect against STDs. Also, just FYI, you can still get pregnant via pull out method lol.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:48 AM
21

Why would you date someone that tells you this?
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:52 PM
2

That’s just 3 dudes though girlfriend👍🏻 Keep trying! Just the fact that you approach should increase your chances eventually.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:12 PM
2

If I get that, I’m gone. I like talking to people I’m interested in.
/r/seduction19/06/25 10:14 PM
11

What? 😂😂 AI shit??
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:56 PM
2

Understandable! Well I can’t really help with that part, but as a woman, a lot of us love teasing. Others, not so much.
/r/seduction28/05/25 06:20 PM
1

Teasing (appropriate teasing!) is NOT meant to be mean. It is playful and fun, not aggressive or back handed. Personally, I love when guys tease me and I dish it back to them. I recommend you talk to someone about that. Crappy parents shouldn’t be the norm :/
/r/seduction28/05/25 06:03 PM
2

Yes exactly. Some times personality wins over looks. IMO you really need both to be attractive to someone, but there are exceptions!
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:34 PM
9

Have I been initially not been attracted to a guy and then grew attracted to him? Yes. However, it isn’t common for me. If I were you, I would just move on. It can happen but it isn’t likely.
/r/seduction27/05/25 04:56 PM
1

Not a guru, I just happen to be a woman… Like others said, self love builds self awareness and confidence. Don’t be creepy and just be respectful. Are you already talking to her I assume? You can “build” off of those moments if so to show interest.
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:36 AM
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Yeah you might have RBF yourself. If a dude just stares at me with a cold look, I assume he doesn’t want contact! If he has that look in his eye or smiles, then I go over. Just some food for thought. Those are good signs.
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:08 AM
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I would not immediately write off RBF. LOTS of nice people have it lol. Heck unless I’m trying to look friendly, I probably have a case of it too. Do you ever smile at them? I’ve found some guys have RBF too lol. Some will look at you all mean but a smile usually softens them.
/r/seduction27/05/25 04:08 AM
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I’ve had both. If he’s cute, I’ll usually glance at him a lot or smile. It some times works lol. I’ve had both attractive and unattractive approach but it isn’t as common.
/r/seduction27/05/25 02:48 AM
9

As a woman, I agree with most of these. Especially the playful part. Teasing is fun, negging is not, and no, they’re not the same.
/r/seduction26/05/25 11:12 PM
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V neck tees are hot on the right man IMO. Nice pair of jeans to go with it. Basic? Yep. Hot? Also yep.
/r/seduction26/05/25 11:11 PM
1

I don’t think you messed up. She said she was working, but seems like she is up for another/into you?
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:13 PM
2

Are you all already talking? I would never if you’re not. If you are talking, you can just ask to keep in touch😃
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:08 PM
1

Wow so my oldest male friend is just waiting…interesting although I don’t think he is. Can you describe the “resources”? Some of the stuff you’re listing is what happens in same sex friendships, no? Eg keeping them around for fun/attention. Isn’t that why you keep a friend? I’m assuming you’re male, so you would say all your female friends are “fair game” so to speak? Like you always wanted more/sex? Just trying to understand your take here. This is very different from my experience/hearing from…
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:28 PM
1

Interesting take. So if men only want sex, does that mean they wait 20 years? How long does it take for women to use these resources? Must also be between 5-20 years? How do bisexual people have any friends at all if they’re attracted to both sexes? Sure some people are going to use/want you for XYZ reasons but not all folks.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:54 PM
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This is going to vary from girl to girl, but as a woman… If I’M attracted to a guy, pretty much anywhere is okay to approach. As long as you’re being respectful. Just my two cents. If I’m not attracted, again most places are okay as long as you’re being respectful. IMHO it boils down to how you do it, not so much where.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:35 PM
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No, absolutely not. I choose friends because we share similar interests and they’re a cool person, I don’t care if it is a female or a male. Some of these folks have a sad view of humanity.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:21 PM
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That’s fair! I don’t keep people as friends that have nothing in common with me; male or female. I’ve met females that I had nothing in common with, and same for males. But when I meet people that share similar interests, I try to befriend them. Brutally bantering with friends is normal. Hell I always thought it was fun. No one is serious, it’s just a bonding experience.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:16 PM
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Err respectfully I’m going to disagree that we can never be friends like some are making out to be here. I’ve just heard too many success stories to think they cannot ever. Of course not everyone can or wants to, but it definitely can happen🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:11 AM
39

You know you maybe onto something here. I’ve had a few guys ask me what looked best and it does get us talking😅
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:52 AM
3

Haha you’re good! Yes a complete write off is weird. I have mostly female friends, but several male ones too. Gender does not play a role in personality IMO
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:30 AM
-6

Oh this is so so wrong :/ Do some platonic relationships end up with one or the other wanting more? Sure. But absolutely not all. The added male “benefits” are the same “benefits” I get from my female friends….that isn’t based on what is between their legs. With this logic, how would bisexual people have ANY friends?
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:15 AM
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My take? The few times I’ve been approached in a group was preferred over being approached alone, IF you’re a stranger that is. If I already know you, please only approach when I’m alone. Lol
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:08 AM
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Oh I meant more so the people that say they will only have same sex friends and never the opposite. I think a general preference is okay and some times unavoidable, it’s just weird when you completely write off the opposite.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:00 AM
0

I agree with you there. Why limit yourself to friendship of only the same sex? It is very bizarre to me. The same goes for women that only have female friends. For me personally, I have both. 👍🏻
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:47 AM
2

Depends on the guy and tattoos IMO. I personally dislike sleeves, face, neck, feet/hands. Small ones elsewhere are usually okay.
/r/seduction25/05/25 08:28 PM
2

Oh and not to mention that it is difficult to get good guides on here for us as most people are expecting/assuming we do not/don’t want to initiate with men.
/r/seduction20/05/25 06:49 PM
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Well I can’t speak for all women of course, but for me some of the struggles have been… Guys either acting totally shocked/disinterested when you approach/initiate. Now I understand I’m not going to be everyone’s type (which is cool) but hearing the “guys want you to approach first!” seems to be wrong in my experience. Guys “pretending” interest just to sleep around. Guys acting interested and then going cold when you show interest… Finding D is usually easy for a woman lol. Finding a quality re…
/r/seduction20/05/25 06:48 PM
1

Wow lol
/r/seduction19/05/25 11:26 PM
2

Is it normally that simple? 😆
/r/seduction19/05/25 09:50 PM
3

I’ve just learned how very little advice is given for women here lmao. And, before anyone jumps on me with the classical “well women have dating easier!” I would agree…usually…however, it’s HOW TO GET THERE/THE SIGNS of male interest that is hardly talked about 😆 Otherwise. The sub is fine imo
/r/seduction19/05/25 06:46 PM
1

Did she ask first? If yes, that is interest. Or did you ask and she declined? If that, she was probably being nice by taking it…
/r/seduction16/05/25 04:31 PM
2

Thanks for the input!
/r/seduction12/05/25 01:09 PM
2

Thanks for your input! I’ve decided not to chicken out next time as the general opinion here is that they do like it.
/r/seduction12/05/25 01:08 PM
3

So I can’t go wrong with the arm or hand touch basically haha. Good to know
/r/seduction12/05/25 12:12 AM
1

Noted!
/r/seduction11/05/25 10:55 PM
0

That’s fair. So if I’m touching him gently and not a quick touch, he’ll understand?
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:01 PM
2

I should’ve not chickened out lmao. Next time I see him I will do that.
/r/seduction11/05/25 05:15 PM
0

Okay that is understandable. I don’t mind flat out saying it, but in my experience (dispute reading/being told men like direct) they still don’t “get it”. Either I have terrible delivery, or they’re still too dense to get that I’m attracted to them. Every time I go from 0 - 100 I get asked if I’m joking (I’m not) So subtle then escalation works way better in my experience so far. Maybe I’m the odd one out🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction11/05/25 01:34 PM
2

Either I have terrible delivery with the whole 0 - 100 thing, or guys never believe me when I say it lol. I try not to be so subtle as I hate the whole games thing women are suppose to do, but for some reason it works better to do subtle first then escalate in my experience 🤔
/r/seduction11/05/25 01:29 PM
2

Oh sorry I should’ve put that in the post haha. Yeah I get what you’re saying. I think mine is mutual based off of my previous post/how we’ve been interacting this past few weeks but maybe I’m wrong?
/r/seduction11/05/25 01:27 PM
2

I’m the exact same way so I’m surprised most people are saying he won’t get it/too subtle. Haha. I don’t touch women at all (I’m straight) and I only touch guys I’m into.
/r/seduction11/05/25 01:25 PM
3

Okay that makes sense. I’ll have to work up to the thigh touch
/r/seduction11/05/25 04:29 AM
3

I’ll keep that in mind lol. I don’t mind initiating, I just wasn’t sure what works the best.
/r/seduction11/05/25 03:34 AM
1

Okay I’ll keep that in mind.
/r/seduction11/05/25 03:32 AM
0

I try not to plan any games as it is genuine attraction on my end, but every time I went from 0 to 100 (asking if they want to go out) I’m hit with the “I thought you were joking”. 🤷‍♀️ I’m fine with initiating but the 2 times I tried they both thought I was joking. So I go subtle first (it’s working better)
/r/seduction11/05/25 03:16 AM
3

Fair enough! I’ve only skipped the touching a few times and went right to the date question. Both guys told me they thought I was joking (I wasn’t) Not sure if that was just a stroke of bad luck on my end or they weren’t interested, but I found subtle first gets your foot in the door. 🤔 Are guys generally okay with more intimate touching like that? I just don’t know how to escalate our (apparent to me anyway) flirting lol.
/r/seduction11/05/25 03:13 AM
2

That is strange but understandable. I don’t touch anyone unless we’re close or I’m attracted to them lol
/r/seduction11/05/25 03:07 AM
13

You can never assume then😂
/r/seduction11/05/25 02:17 AM
4

Great pointers. Thanks for your input! I guess I made a generalization. My logic is most strangers won’t touch each other/like it unless they’re attracted to each other. But you made a great point that a lot of people will touch regardless of attraction/familiarity lol.
/r/seduction11/05/25 12:38 AM
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That’s a fair point. I’ll do it and not chicken out this time.
/r/seduction11/05/25 12:34 AM
4

Of course we’re all individuals so it will vary but I just meant more so in general 😃
/r/seduction11/05/25 12:34 AM
2

Sorry I should’ve clarified in the post; we’re not really friends per se. I hardly know him hence why I wasn’t sure if it was mutual but I believe it is🤷‍♀️ Yeah I’m not expecting every dude to find me attractive lol. It’s fine if he isn’t attracted to me. I’ll back off if so. So skip the whole hints and just go for it?
/r/seduction11/05/25 12:32 AM
2

I thought I had the courage but I was wrong lol. Next time I’ll pull through though. Can you elaborate on the “leading too much” comment? So touch once and back off or..?
/r/seduction11/05/25 12:26 AM
2

That’s what I was thinking but I figured I’d ask haha
/r/seduction09/05/25 03:34 PM
1

Oh I’ll tread lightly but yeah I will. We already tease one another occasionally
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:23 AM
1

Yep hopefully that is true lol. I’m no home wrecker. I truly don’t mind initiating with guys, but I’m always clueless on this stage/the best way to do so. I think there is interest here hence the post, but I shall see.
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:03 AM
1

Definitely a thing to consider. I’ll hold off for now and wait to see. He is supposedly single. Some people lie about that of course, but it popped up when we were talking about one of our non work conversations. He said since he’s single he has a lot of free time for XYZ hobbies and asked what mine were.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:57 AM
2

Okay I didn’t think of that. I’ll hold off on offering mine until then. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable. I’m not SUPER close with the rest of my work, but I’ll try to do the group event idea and see if he’ll want to tag along. We’ve been a little flirty here and there already, nothing crazy, just some teasing here and there.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:48 AM
2

Thanks for the input! I normally had a rule that I wouldn’t get with anyone at work…but I don’t know this one felt different lol. I’m not sure of any possible official rules on it since I never had to ask, so that is a smart thing to bring up. I like that idea of a group event. I thought of offering my number, but I don’t know if that is too soon/personal.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:33 AM
0

I hope so. I had a feeling he was into me, but I suppose he could just be friendly. I don’t mind doing the pursuing, but any pointers on how to do so?
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:56 PM
2

That is what I was hoping haha
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:12 PM
1

I’ll try that!
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:12 PM
3

Normally I would agree, however we work in completely separate buildings
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:11 PM
13

That’s the spirit!
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:36 PM
71

Shy woman to shy woman here… Why not just go say hi or good morning/evening/etc? You say that to most people in a day and it is easy to say. I hate being shy too, but it does not have to be that way forever. Just go slow.
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:20 PM
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