I’ll make this as short as possible…so for starters I’m attracted to a guy in my company (we do NOT work in the same location, we have met via meetings/events/etc) and I believe it is mutual but I need some insight here 🤣
We’ve had several conversations over the past few weeks that made me think he might be into me.
Eg; always greets me before work or after, uses my name way too many times in conversation, he will occasionally randomly chat me up with “pointless things”. Eg; he’s wearing a watch but he’ll come over to ask me the time, etc.
During one of our non work conversations, he randomly asked how old I was. I replied with my age (we’re 5 years apart so not a huge gap) and he gave me his age and laughed how he was going to be “old”.
He will ask me if I need help with anything, he’ll stop what he is doing to help me first, etc.
One late night I was on the computer still and he leaned into my space to talk to me about non work stuff.
I have caught him quickly glancing at me and then looking away, etc.
Is there something there or am I delusional and he’s just being a friendly/helpful guy? I don’t mind making an escalation but I wanted input first lol.
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