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Is that shallow or deep? Is that basic or complex? Are depth and complexity even reasonable terms to describe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:53 PM
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“Low sex drive and/or none at all” sounds like an accurate descriptor. Is that shallow or deep? Is that basic or complex? Are depth and complexity even reasonable terms to describe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:50 PM
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Well spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:44 PM
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Spark: the feeling you get when you’re with a future/present friend. Spark 2.0: the feeling you get when you’re with your future/present ultimate friend (aka significant other).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:57 AM
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Akira Takarada Laurence Olivier Jeff Goldblum Sidney Poitier Randall Batinkoff Maximilian Schell Logan Lerman Gregory Peck Zach Galligan Tom Ellis Richard Pryor Josh Duhamel David Tennant Donald Sutherland
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:18 AM
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Doctor Who!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:40 AM
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Yep!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:12 AM
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I remember Yu-Gi-Oh! I think I was more into Bakugan though. Some of my classmates liked Beyblade. I love trolling for Coho and Spring (some fishing lingo here).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:24 PM
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Yep, it’s not worth it to get in a physical fight (unless ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY). Prevention and deescalation are good skills to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:20 PM
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My grandma and grandpa have hunted and fished since they were toddlers (my grandpa grew up on a farm so he loved gardening too). They probably bonded over that as well as many other things. My parents love hunting, fishing, gardening, and foraging (my mom also grew up on a hobby farm). They probably bonded over those shared interests as well as many other things. I was a baby the first time I went fishing with my parents and I’ve been fishing ever since. I also like gardening and foraging. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:17 PM
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Cheers from Canada 🇨🇦 🍻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:13 AM
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What kind of power are we talking about here? 50W? 300W? 1000W? 40hp Mercury Outboard?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:20 AM
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Cool. I’ll take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:11 AM
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What do you think of virgin women who don’t read erotic fiction and don’t watch porn? In fact, let’s add that they also hate romance books and movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:55 AM
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Apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:18 PM
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I’m pretty sure codependence is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:19 PM
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Lol, lol, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:13 PM
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I think there is a one, true love for select people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:48 PM
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Neither. Here’s what I’d have: A man that I’m highly attracted to who is highly attracted to me. A guy who is irreplaceable for me and thinks I’m irreplaceable. The ultimate best friend. The ultimate partner. Otherwise, I’ll stay single and adopt a kid. Plus, I have the love of my family and friendship of friends. Life is swell. I think I’m beautiful, smart, multitalented, and have a great personality. Ya, I’m a pretty proud person. I’m not arrogant though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:47 PM
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Sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:06 PM
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It’s fine to be a square. I wouldn’t be attracted to a square though. Perhaps a parallelepiped would work. Or a tesseract. Or a five-dimensional hypercube.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:54 PM
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I’ve cancelled an aunt and two uncles from my life. They’re mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:42 PM
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“To me the good kind could be someone who is just rude to others, extremely proud without any basis for it, but doesn't necessarily do anything evil like abuse his girl.” That sounds right. “At worst probably just have sex and be emotionally unavailable, maybe be a player.” I think that falls into the actual bad category. But that’s just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:30 AM
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“Good question. In this case I mean one that is harmful to her life and mental health.” Eww, gross. That kind. Yuck. My eldest sister is 41 and is potentially trying to hold onto a relationship with one of those (yes, my sister is 21 years older than me…). “What's the good kind for you? He's a dick to other guys but good to her?” I think there are many kinds to list. Perhaps one kind is the proud and haughty guy that’s really good on the inside, but needs to be humbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:25 AM
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What type of bad boy? The good kind or the actual bad kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:10 AM
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Why did African Americans flee to Canada when slavery had ended in the British Empire, but still took place in the US? Isn’t freedom from slavery a human right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:07 AM
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Prior to WWII many countries were openly racist. I think rights and freedoms existed on the basis of legal and moral equality before WWII.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:48 AM
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I think rights and freedoms existed on the basis of legal and moral equality before WWII.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:40 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong, but it seems to me that rights and freedoms existed before WWII.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:35 AM
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I’m still waiting for his reply to this comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:24 AM
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What’s the modern understanding of a right? What’s the modern understanding of a freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:23 AM
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So freedoms and rights didn’t exist before WWII? I’m not taking about the terms. I’m talking about actual freedoms and rights. I don’t care if they were called pillyjops or not referred to as anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:21 AM
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What country lead just before 1945?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:17 AM
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So anytime after 1945?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:17 AM
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How about the 50’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:16 AM
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What about the 60’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:14 AM
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What makes a country the leader of the free world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:13 AM
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From the 70’s? 80’s? 90’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:09 AM
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When was the US considered the leader of the free world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:07 AM
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Lol. I’m confused by what he is saying. That’s why I’m asking so many questions. I have no clue if he’s thinking up Gilead from the novel “The Handmaid’s Tale” or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:59 AM
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​ The primacy of men, the submission of women. Honor culture. Purity. Corresponding laws and sociocultural norms and standards. Primacy of men and submission of women sounds like a terrible idea. In my opinion, some cultural traditions are good while others are bad. For example, I think a culture of pinching pennies (saving money) is good, whereas a culture of outrageous (not within one's means) expenditures on fancy toys is bad. What do you mean by "purity"? Does purity mean monogamy? Does it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:27 AM
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How do you define "the patriarchy"? If "the patriarchy" existed/exists, when and where did/does it exist? Do you think we should live in a "patriarchal" society? If so, why? What would that look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:54 AM
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No problemo. My dad says FUBAR all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:49 AM
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Fucked Up Beyond All Repair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:38 PM
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What you said or what I said? I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:20 AM
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I’m a woman. Most of my friends are men. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:11 AM
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Your post seems like common sense to me. Idk why the other commenter spent so much time claiming I was you instead of quickly comparing my comment history with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:48 AM
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“The Beauty Tax” movie summary: https://youtu.be/f6qzWXDS1Wg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:19 AM
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Yo, I have green eyes!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:15 AM
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Hey, watch this summary of the movie “The Beauty Tax”: https://youtu.be/f6qzWXDS1Wg I know it veers off topic, but it’s interesting nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:12 AM
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Lol, true that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:52 AM
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Cool, I’m a Coho and Spring kind of gal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:19 PM
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Lots of people are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:26 PM
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I think it’s best to accidentally stumble upon a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:19 PM
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The ultimate friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:12 PM
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I just want to you to clarify what you’ve written here. You wrote with a general understanding of individuals, right? I know this discussion wants to divide people by gender, but I think there is more division between individuals than division between men and women. Also, I don’t think most people automatically assume that other people see the world the same way that we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 02:04 PM
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True that. When I catch my first fish of the day, I’ll gut it and cut open the stomach to see what it’s been eating. If it looks like it’s been eating krill, I put on a Hot Spot Apex Kokanee lure. If it looks like it’s been eating herring/anchovies, I put an anchovy on (if I have fresh bait) or a Cop Car Coyote Spoon (or a Kitchen Sink Coyote Spoon or a No Bananas Skinny G). If a fisherman has caught a nice great big Spring, I’ll ask him what he used. Sometimes it works for me too. Sometimes I u…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:37 PM
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I don’t use this forum for relationship advice. I use this forum for personal entertainment. I also enjoy sharing my ideas with others. Maybe I’ll say something that helps someone. Why does the fisherman want a fish? For a partner (ultimate best friend)? For social validation? For sex? For money? What kind of fish does the fisherman want? Who are the good fishermen? What are the good fish? It’s common sense that Coho, Spring, and Sockeye salmon are better than Pink salmon. Pink salmon are better…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:09 PM
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Temporary (the kind that wash off) glow in the dark dolphin tattoos!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:07 PM
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It seems like the OP wants to say something like: women rely on men to build houses (because the majority of construction workers are men). But then, who does the builder rely on? Men and women. The builder relies on an engineer to approve the plans/work. The builder relies on Cathy O’Donnell to teach his daughter geometry while he works. Cathy O’Donnell relies on her eye specialist Jeremy Grey to monitor her eye health under current medicine dosages. Jeremy Grey relies on his wife Linda to pack…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:58 PM
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Honestly, I could have used picking tea leaves from some other country as an example. It doesn’t matter. It’s all so interconnected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:48 PM
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It seems to me that everything is so interconnected. We pin point something to a man, but then we can pin point that man to things pin pointed to men and women. And so on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:45 PM
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Ya, my mom didn’t get child support for my half sisters. For context, I’m 20 years old and my mom and dad got married a year before I was born. My sisters are 40 and 41 years old. So, my mom raised my sisters as a single mom for most of their childhood. For my mom, child support wasn’t worth the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:36 PM
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Well. If we want to get real detailed, we depend on people from Mexico for avocados.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:08 PM
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Well, their minds are FUBAR’ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:48 PM
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Wtf. I’m so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:44 PM
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Well, I am going for a swim today. It would probably be wise for me to delete Reddit. A lot of people on this sub don’t even know what love is. I find their views to be so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:22 PM
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Delete Reddit and go for a swim. Love is alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:11 PM
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My grandma (born in 1927) completed grade 13. My grandpa (born in 1920) had to drop out of school in grade 6 to work on the family farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:55 AM
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“Of course it's fine. But you're still lacking in experience that others have. You need to play catch-up.” I don’t really like how you’ve used the word “play” here. I guess I’m more geared towards forming a relationship in the “old timey bookish way” where experience doesn’t matter. I suppose I’ve been naturally good at most things all my life. “I went to an all-boys high school. I had to spend a couple of years catching up before I could be even remotely normal around women.” Interesting. I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:42 AM
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“Nothing wrong with a bit of delayed gratification.” Of course. “But the people who compartmentalise their lives into monomaniacally focussing on study, or work or whatever before they decide "now is the time to find a relationship" inevitably have a hard time.” School is only five years. It’s worth it to focus for five years in my opinion. It’s not all study though. I think people should enjoy their work and limit their hours. I don’t think people should actively seek out relationships. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:54 AM
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I’m perplexed by your reasoning. I took this post much differently than others. I thought the post was stating the obvious: high quality people have trouble finding other high quality people. When I think of engineers, I think of people like my dad (retired chemical engineer). Particularly, I think of people who look out for their future selves (short term pain for long term gain). After all, many of these people have made up their minds as to what really matters in life. These people make sacri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:26 AM
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That sounds quite poetic. I’ll take it (to an extent).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:26 PM
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“I'm just gently trolling you right now.” Idk what you’re doing. “I'm still convinced that you're OP,” You’re wrong. “but at this point it doesn't matter,” Of course it doesn’t matter. Reddit doesn’t matter. “because I've successfully trolled you” Whatever that means. “whether you're an entitled asshole sub humanoid masquerading as a hvm with thinly masked aspy traits, or you're an attractive woman with thinly masked aspy traits.” I don’t know what “aspy traits” are. I’m a woman. The joke’s on y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:14 PM
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I’m just gently trying to show you that your assumption is wrong. My grandma used to say “tight lines and rod tips up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:52 PM
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And… if you’re still not satisfied, interview me on Zoom or Discord voice chat to see where my views compare to post/comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:36 PM
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Look at my post/comment history. Look at the OP’s post/comment history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:32 PM
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Again, I’m not the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:27 PM
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From the OP’s post alone, I don’t think he has NPD. I’m not sure if his post is fake, but it’s easy enough for me to believe because I think I have similar values as the OP’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:18 PM
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What does NPD stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:08 PM
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I’m not the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:08 PM
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Lol. I get that. I’m just reluctant to say that everyone on the planet is of high quality in at least one other person’s eyes. I could be mistaken though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:07 PM
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I’m also not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:04 PM
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I’m not an engineer sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:59 PM
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Do you think it’s probable for everyone in the world to be considered high quality in at least one other person’s eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:58 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:43 PM
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It’s possible, but improbable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:36 PM
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YES, INITIATE!!!! ASK TO MEET UP!!! ASK FOR A NUMBER!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:31 PM
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But isn’t delayed gratification about sacrifice of youth for a better later life? To me it’s about working smarter, not harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:30 PM
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Whatever do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:28 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re trying to say about “delayed gratification”. Why do you think it’s lame?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:37 AM
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I don’t think the guy has a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:17 AM
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High quality means something different for different types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:15 AM
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I don’t think the guy is fucking up. I don’t think the guy is griping about bullshit. I think he’s stating the obvious. Are you more interested in society than individuals who operate outside of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:11 AM
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Children? Your analogy seems odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:59 AM
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Well… you get to a certain stage where it’s difficult to find someone as good as you. What do you think it means to be successful? What do you think it means to be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:06 AM
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Nah. I think this guy seems smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:04 AM
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The post sounds exactly like something an engineer would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:00 AM
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Yes!!!!! Long term success over short term gain. Make sacrifices when you’re young, for enjoyment when you’re older. Live below your means. Save your money. Don’t buy all the fancy toys everyone else is suckered into buying. Pinch your pennies. A dollar saved is worth more than a dollar earned. Time is worth more than money. Invest your money - make money from money. Invest in your health. Have hobbies. Have fun in life - fun for you without looking for the approval of others. Enjoy the little t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:59 AM
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I’ve never been rejected, but I have rejected people. I get all awkward and distant after I reject someone because I want them to not like me in a more than a friends way. I feel bad when I do that. I should really correct this behaviour of mine. Ya… I definitely need to reject people nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:51 AM
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Okay, I’m actually freaked out to be asked for the time/directions unless other people are also around. Too many scary stories on the news…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:45 AM
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Men I don’t know well (or men who are strangers) have approached me to become acquaintances or friends. It usual goes something like “Hi, [insert situational thing here]. Do you have social media? Really, no social media?” It’s only friends who have approached me for potential romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 02:41 AM
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Interesting. I would be mortified if my dad couldn’t empathize with my mom’s dire predicament when she was pregnant with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:45 PM
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Anyway, that’s why I think men (women) can empathize with female (male) experiences related to sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:10 PM
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This may sound strange, but I normally feel an instant “zing” of connection when I meet a future friend. Do you ever get this feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:38 PM
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Ya, go swimming. I shall go swimming today, too! Anyway, work on bettering your inner self and the activities you pursue. Your outer self will improve as a result. Be full of charisma, adventure, and wonder. It’s fun and people gravitate towards the fun that for many is a distant childhood memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:26 PM
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“Nope, I don't really have friends.” :( “I get along with people quite well” Are you a friendly, introspective person who has trouble crossing the threshold from acquaintance to friend? “and I used to have close friends, but they're kind of gone now.” I can relate to losing friends from moving away. “Group meetings - there's like literally a website where random people suggest doing random activities together.” Oh gosh. That does sound dreadful. “I haven't gotten to it yet, but maybe someday.” H…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:17 PM
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The “cross out”, lol! I don’t really know what you mean by “group meeting”. You have friends, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:01 PM
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Weird… This is random, but my mom and dad always used to tell me that if a guy has an earring on one ear, it means he’s straight, but if he has the earring on the other ear, it means he’s gay. Have you heard of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:35 PM
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“That "way of life" you describe resonates with mine.” Interesting. Honestly, I didn’t expect that. “But in order to view life that way I believe you have to be somewhat balanced to begin with.” I’m not so sure what you mean by that. I’m fortunate that I have a great family and an attractive personality I guess? “Have some sort of a balance between richness of outer and inner life.” I’m not sure what you mean by outer and inner life. Do you mean, your inner thinking vs. your relationships with f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:31 PM
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Perhaps I should replace “dumbass” with: dumb, mentally challenged, emotionally stunted, lacking in empathy/understanding, lacking in critical thinking, unimaginative, disrespectful, irrational, naïve, and ignorant. I’m probably missing some relevant descriptors, but I thought I’d try to better refine my thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:15 PM
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To each their own. I grew up in a family that swears a lot. In fact, at three years old, my niece said, “Come here you assholes,” to her brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:06 PM
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Interesting. I’ve thought about things more. I’m going to give a weird response to you asking how to deal with the pain because I’m weird. It may or may not provide a solution. Nonetheless, it will be revealing of my character. I do not seek out friends, but I always stumble into friendships. I’m content when I’m alone, but I’m great with people. I am happy to adventure on my own, but I like to take my friends with me on adventures. In fact, I enjoy getting friends to rediscover the magic of lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:03 PM
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“It absolutely does hurt to try, as in it may induce actual physical pain.” Dang. I guess it depends on the situation. For example, rejection from a long-time best friend would hurt much more than rejection from an acquaintance. I get that it can hurt, but would the pain of not knowing be worse? “But the question is is there a way to deal with that pain?” I really think it’s situation dependent. “Because being passive often just makes it worse in the long run.” What do you mean by passive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:42 PM
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I love jewelry. Gemstones look so magical. I think women look good with jewelry. I don’t think jewelry looks good on a man, unless it is a wedding ring. That’s my opinion. I don’t mind “tasteful tattoos”. Now, what is a tasteful tattoo? I’d have to see the tattoo in order to share if I think it’s tasteful or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:36 PM
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I think it doesn’t hurt to try. Just so you know… Pride and Prejudice type romances are a thing too… this muddles the waters even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:59 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:50 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:20 AM
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“When I say a normal man I'm talking about his libido levels.” Oh, got it. Let me rephrase what I said earlier: if a guy is normal, I would be willing to compromise in marriage. “A man with high libido is not going to marry someone without having sex with her first as he will want to make sure of sexual compatibility.” Never say never. The world is weird and there are exceptions to so many things. I get your point though, as correlated to personality, values, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:13 AM
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I definitely don’t want a normal man (because who the hell would want a normal man). Like I said, if the guy has a high libido, I would be willing to compromise within marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:04 AM
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I’d be willing to compromise in marriage. I’m not sure if that’s what you’re hinting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:55 AM
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Sexual compatibility is a thing. I don’t think it’s that important, especially to the kind of guy I’d be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:46 AM
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I disagree with the jewelry and tattoos. That being said, I think there are some tasteful tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:23 AM
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I’m veering off topic, but… In some ways I would consider being called “autistic” or “toxically masculine” a compliment rather than a general descriptor. And I’m a girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:45 AM
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Yes. That word is also thrown around too much. Well, at least that is my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:37 AM
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I wouldn’t rush to say autism. Sometimes I think the term autism is thrown around too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:34 AM
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Isn’t stoicism good in men and women? (I don’t mean complete and utter emotionlessness.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:17 AM
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??? I’m confused. What the what???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:14 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:12 AM
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Everything you listed sounds fun to me except the motorcycle racing. Continue doing what you want to do and you’ll have a happy life, regardless of your relationship status!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:01 AM
4

I don’t like the terms “emotional intelligence” and “emotional maturity”. These terms sound too hokey poky in my opinion. I prefer to use the terms “intelligence” and “maturity”. It may be useful to use these terms: “empathy”, “understanding”, “approachability”, and “street smarts”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:51 AM
2

I’d be happy with that! I’m a virgin and have no sexual desire so it’s all good!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:42 AM
4

Oh, I also see that you’re “[focused] on making money and doing what [you] want.” What is it that you want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:34 AM
7

I’m glad you’ve got your dream job! I’d probably like a job like that, too! Well, maybe the “lonelies” can join together to try to venture out and meet more people. Idk what you’re like as a person, but I wish you luck 🍀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:27 AM
7

Aerospace engineering sounds so fricken cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:20 AM
0

I think men can understand women. I’ve never heard the terms “girl dads” and “boy moms”. I’ve heard of “daddy’s girls” and “mama’s boys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:17 AM
0

I think men can empathize with female experiences related to sexuality. After all, I don’t think most men are dumbasses. I also think that women can empathize with male experiences related to sexuality. After all, I don’t think most women are dumbasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:15 AM
4

What STEM field do you work in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:08 AM
3

No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:05 AM
5

I’m a virgin. I’m content to stay a virgin. I’m 20. I’m a woman. My dream is to retire by age 55 and spend my golden years fishing for salmon, swimming, gardening, foraging for mushrooms, and exploring the great outdoors (aquatic and terrestrial). I would be game to have a fishing buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:32 AM
2

Fair enough. To clarify, I’m not sure if I’ll ever be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:23 AM
1

“If you are asexual (sounds like it if you would prefer to talk over sex) then make sure any man you get with knows this.” Of course. I think I make that abundantly clear through the sense of innocence and wonder in my speech. I’d directly tell the guy if I had to spell it out. “Should you not be asexual” I’m pretty sure “asexual” describes me well. I just don’t like the label. “and you wait to get married before having sex” That’s the plan. “know that as you are non religious you will struggle …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:20 AM
1

Pillow talk can be done on a night without sex. Pillow talk can be done before sex. Pillow talk can be done after sex. I already provided the Merriam Webster Dictionary’s definition of pillow talk: intimate conversation between lovers in bed. When I was little, my family used a different definition of pillow talk than the Merriam Webster Dictionary. Our definition of pillow talk: conservation between two people laying in bed together. So, when I was a kid, I’d have pillow talk with friends durin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:08 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:31 AM
1

Never say never
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:30 AM
3

I figured so. I’m just surprised by some of the replies I’ve received. I for one still believe in fairytale romances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:52 PM
1

I guess I don’t know what I’m missing in that department and I don’t care to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:51 PM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:46 PM
0

K
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:45 PM
2

True that!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:44 PM
-1

How has that worked out for you? Do you have a long-time partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:18 PM
2

My uncle has a shoe lift because one of his legs is ever so slightly shorter than the other (motorcycle accident).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:09 PM
1

By the roll of dice, some people are born ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:06 PM
1

Well, since I don't know the difference, there's no way for me to judge or compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:56 PM
1

I don't like using the label "asexual", but I presume it describes me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:51 PM
6

I think I’m correct. I think you’re incorrect. You think you’re correct. You think I’m incorrect. So be it. DILLIGAF
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:31 AM
2

“In bed” literally means “in bed”. It refers to two people laying in bed next to one another while chatting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:24 AM
4

I guess sex is at the bottom of the totem pole of preferences for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:19 AM
5

I’d be happy to stay single all my life. I won’t actively seek out a lover, but I may stumble upon one someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:17 AM
2

Definition of pillow talk : intimate conversation between lovers in bed https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/pillow%20talk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:14 AM
5

I don’t value sex over intelligence, personality, charisma, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:10 AM
4

I don’t think I’d fancy sex over a simple night of pillow talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:00 AM
6

I’m in university, I’m a woman, I’m left leaning, and I’m non-religious. I plan to stay a virgin until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:49 AM
2

I think that a high proportion of asian people (Indian, Chinese, etc.) become engineers. I tend to like the personality of engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:46 AM
3

Same, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:34 AM
2

I'm not afraid of relationships going bad. My grandparents were great together (both sides of the family), my parents are great together, and my second oldest sister and brother-in-law are great together. My eldest sister has had a series of bad relationships, but I could see the red flags immediately. I'm not looking for a relationship, but I might just stumble into one. My actual fear (in regards to relationships) is that a guy who I don't love will fall in love with me. It's already happened …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:22 PM
2

I don't consider personality traits, interests, jobs, etc. as being gendered. That has worked out pretty well for me so far. You'd have to interview me to see where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:07 PM
2

Hours worked (if working at all), interests, and scheduling/timing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:02 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:58 PM
1

I’d have to look some up. Honestly, my friend looks better than a lot of male celebrities (in my opinion).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 06:07 AM
5

An excerpt from "The Highwayman" by Alfred Noyes: Back, he spurred like a madman, shouting a curse to the sky, With the white road smoking behind him and his rapier brandished high. Blood-red were his spurs in the golden noon; wine-red was his velvet coat; When they shot him down on the highway. Down like a dog on the highway, And he lay in his blood on the highway, with the bunch of lace at his throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:55 AM
6

Chris Hemsworth's face doesn't look right and Timothee Chalamet's face looks too much like Natalia Dyer's. I think a young Laurence Olivier looks better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:42 AM
2

I've set the bar really high for a potential boyfriend. I'm a kid at heart. I'm adventurous, imaginative, creative, and full of wonder. I'm also really, REALLY stubborn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 05:30 AM
4

I say go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:51 AM
1

“Gender roles” are bullshit. It’s like someone from HR telling us (with a condescending tone) to not hurt peoples’ feelings because apparently we didn’t learn to be nice in kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:47 AM
1

My mom was a trail blazer in breastfeeding. Breastfeeding was discouraged and looked down upon when my sisters were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:38 AM
1

Again, it’s situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:02 AM
1

A lot of men and women act like children when it comes to common sense. Actually, that’s an insult to children! Most children have more common sense than those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:00 AM
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I’m actually inclined to half agree with you and half agree with the other commenter. I know someone who completely defies logic in regards to abusive relationships. I think it’s so ingrained in them that it’s just part of their personality. The person craves chaos and stress. Undue stress that the person brings upon their self.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:33 PM
1

I guess. Either he took skim reading to heart and went full tilt on the skimming, or he has poor reading comprehension, or he was in such disbelief that a woman could write what I wrote, or he thinks I’m an honorary man, or he has really poor memory, or… I don’t know. It’s just really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:15 PM
5

It’s terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:27 PM
2

Yep! It’s weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:25 PM
3

Did themalcman’s comment get reported?!?! Really?!??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:08 PM
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I’m glad you mentioned isolation from family. My uncle’s abusive ex wife made my uncle cut off his family for over 20 years. However, he’d show up at my grandma’s house once in awhile with a bloody nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:00 PM
2

I’m glad you bolded usually. I’m tired of absolutes lumping good people with dumbasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:56 PM
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Yo, want to see a dumbass post I’m correcting? Here’s the link. I made the incredibly long comment. It’s impossible to miss. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/us9gvt/cmv_women_get_exactly_what_they_want_from_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:40 PM
2

Why thank you. Thank you very much. Now I’m laughing like crazy because the dude guessed I was a man. LOL! I’m dying of laughter!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:36 PM
2

A lot of people who would be perfect on Judge Judy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:26 PM
2

Cool. I’m glad you kind of understand what I was getting at. I also corrected and clarified several assertions you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:23 PM
1

Honestly, if someone wants to stay with an asshole who’d try to pull something like that, I’m gobsmacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:20 PM
1

Who’s “he”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:17 PM
2

Basically, it’s a weird situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:15 PM
1

I’m having a discussion with you and the people who want to chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:09 PM
1

Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:08 PM
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“The fact that you brought children in this conversation proves my main point.” How? What does it prove? What does a person staying in an abusive relationship to make sure he/she is able to see his/her children have to do with proving your point? “Women are NOT children.” Duh. Men and women are NOT children. “And therefore are adults who are responsible for there own actions.” Duh. “If women want to be seen as lesser then men, then they can give up there rights.” No. Women who want to be seen as…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:06 PM
1

He’s gotten out. His children won’t talk to him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:01 PM
2

That was my uncle. He stayed in the abusive relationship because of the children. Edit: plus, his ex would hit herself and such… but I will stop myself from rambling on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:54 AM
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”Women get exactly what they want from the options they have.” Too vague. ”Men always make the mistake that women think and act like men do.” There exists people who think and act the same regardless of gender. I’m a girl. I’m like my dad. ”When women complain about something, it is not because they want a solution. They just want someone to listen to them.” I look for solutions. I love solving problems. Collaboration on solving problems can be good too. ”So men tend to get confused and frustrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:28 AM
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It reminds me of how my grandma passed away (age 90) less than six months after my grandpa passed away (age 96). I suppose they were always meant to go through life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:45 AM
2

That counter argument has spiked my interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:23 AM
1

Ya, I really have no clue. Here there are maternity wards, but the babies typically stay with the parents (unless they have to be put in an incubator, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:59 AM
1

Third: I wouldn’t dare say the quoted phrase out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:57 AM
1

By the way, do you live in the US? On medical dramas, I always see these “newborn wards” filled with newborn babies in cribs. It just seems so weird and foreign to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:13 AM
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“I honestly don't think so” I disagree. “I mean they might think it to be true, but the countless examples of people saving their loved ones have been of men more often than not dieing in the process” I don’t follow the pack. “I don't think i have ever read an example of a woman sheilding her husband from danger.” I have. “They may be out there but in far less frequency” Maybe. I don’t know. “When i consider it ... I can't help but be nauseated by men's role in society.” Okay, I’m weird because …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:08 AM
3

Have you read the book “Where the Red Fern Grows”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:52 PM
2

I know of people who were never the right fit (my maternal grandma was previously married to some other guy before my maternal grandpa, my maternal grandpa was married to some other woman before my maternal grandma, my mom was married to some other guy before my dad). I don’t think one can fall out of true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:50 PM
2

I’ve seen shallow “love”. It’s not true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:15 PM
6

Of course women love men back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:14 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:01 PM
1

“You’re fine with aborting a nine month old fetus?” No. I wouldn’t do that myself. After all, I think I’ll remain a virgin all my life. I’m fine with other people doing that. “Even the day before the approximated due date?” I’m fine with other people doing that. “You look at a ward of new borns and say “I would have been fine with aborting these babies yesterday”?” No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:26 PM
1

Well, idk at what stage a heart is developed. Honestly, we’re all made up of clumps of cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:39 PM
0

I think (1) sounds a little bit hokey poky. I don’t like thinking of it as a “process”. I think (2) sounds more concrete. It sounds like you are focused on the issue of financing children. I think that a non-parent who is completely out of the picture isn’t obligated to financially support their biological child. Then there are guys like my mom’s ex (my sisters’ biological dad). My mom divorced that guy when my sisters were kids. My sisters would visit him every so often, but lived with my mom. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:35 PM
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I’m pro-choice. An unborn human is a human as soon as it is a zygote. It has human DNA after all. I’m fine with abortion at any point before birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:34 PM
2

Ya… figuringMylife sounds sexist…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:02 PM
1

How are you viewing consent here: Consent from sex to parenting is kind of like a process that can be revoked at any time. Consent to sex is not consent to birth a child. Consent to sex is not consent to parent a child. If a biological parent doesn’t want to be an actual parent, then he/she shouldn’t be forced to provide for the child financially. Something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:41 PM
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The OP is purposely saying something ridiculous. I don’t quite understand what he/she’s getting at though. I don’t understand where he/she’s headed with consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:22 PM
1

How are you relating abortion/pro-choice with consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:58 PM
1

I am in shape. I’m 20 years old. I swim 1.5 hours almost every day. I workout and perform stretches when I watch TV (about an hour everyday). Besides that, my other activities are random: fishing, crabbing, clamming, mushrooming, walking, hiking, snorkelling, etc.. Unfortunately, I don’t have a kayak or paddle board, otherwise I’d be doing that too. I’m only taking two courses this summer. I’m also auditing a course (attending class without credit/grading/exams). I’m also self studying thermodyn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:45 AM
1

My recommendation: dump him gently and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 01:24 AM
1

My sisters had great childhoods because my mom was and is a great mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:55 PM
1

Well, at least my sisters were born. They wouldn’t have been alive otherwise. That also means my three nephews and my niece wouldn’t be alive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:54 PM
1

Why was it bad overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:51 PM
1

Personal accountability? Really? We’re going there?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:46 PM
2

I don’t think it matters what’s right or wrong here. For my situation, my mom can visit my aunt if she’d like to. My dad and I will just go fishing or conveniently be busy doing something else during the visit.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 02:05 AM
6

Go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:58 AM
1

Now it looks like someone with a different username replied to me saying that he/she can see your replies to me (according to my phone notifications), but when I click the notification, nothing shows up here. I restarted the app, but still… nothing is showing up. Something is wrong with Reddit on my end I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:46 PM
1

Again, I’m getting a reply notification, but nothing’s showing up. I think you may have been banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:40 PM
1

I think you replied to me, but then your comment was deleted. I got a notification, but nothing’s showing up now. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:34 PM
2

Men are not superior to women. Men are not superior to women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:28 PM
3

I’m glad to hear he’s doing better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:22 PM
1

I think people should live well within their means. To me, this means moving to somewhere less desirable if you can’t afford to live in one place. It means having one car rather than two (as long as that works). It means saving money to invest and for rainy days. You can work hard or you can work smart. A dollar saved is worth far more than a dollar earned because the true currency in life is time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:16 PM
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Reading this, I actually agree with you over him. My cousin, who I never met, cut herself from the entire family (changed her name, moved away, built a family of her own, etc.) just to be rid of her mom and step dad. Her mom and step dad are my aunt and uncle. They’re really awful people and don’t feel like family to me. I think my mom is kind of like your boyfriend. My mom still clings to the fact that my aunt is her sister even though she has always been really mean to my mom. In fact, my mom …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 11:02 PM
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What is a “High Value Man” (HVM)? From the acronym alone, I think my dad is a HVM. When my dad met my mom, my mom was a single mother of two.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:39 PM
1

I’ll take that because I do think the answer is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:33 PM
2

Here’s some more nuance. If the person who raised you is a compete meanie, it may be in your best interest to completely dissociate from him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:27 PM
3

I think the person who raised you is your parent. There’s nuance though such as death.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:26 PM
-1

Oh gosh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:41 PM
1

My mom married dummy at age 16. My mom had my sisters at age 18 and then 19. My mom divorced dummy. At age 38, my mom married my dad. I was born when my mom was 39.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:37 PM
1

What does “feek” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:35 PM
1

If the family doesn’t have enough assets to invest, that family is BAD with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:54 PM
2

I’m a 20 year old and I have enough assets from work alone to invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:48 PM
2

I’m just saying that that’s the best way to earn money. Forget about work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:44 PM
1

My mom’s ex was abusive. I don’t know how you’d confuse my mom’s ex with my mom’s father.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:43 PM
1

Even as a 20 year old I’ve been investing the money I previously made in grades 11 and 12 with the help of a financial advisor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:40 PM
2

Why are you questioning that? That’s what we’re all supposed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:32 PM
2

Also, you’re supposed to invest your money to make more money from your money. So that’s also a job, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:30 PM
7

My dad is retired now so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:26 PM
5

False
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:20 PM
3

Not a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:20 PM
3

It’s worked for my family because our family is built from love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:19 PM
1

My paternal grandpa died at age 96. My paternal grandma died at age 89 or 90.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:17 PM
1

Idk why you’d laugh about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:16 PM
3

My sister doesn’t even have a high paying job. She works at Shopper’s Drug Mart to support her, her husband, and their 3 kids. My other sister is single and a geologist so that’s cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:16 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:15 PM
6

My dad paid for all of the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:14 PM
4

Well, I don’t see why people should strive to be just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:12 PM
2

My mom was married at 16. Then she had kids at age 18 and then 19. When my sisters were young, she divorced the man. Then she married my dad at age 38. Then I was born when she was 39.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:10 PM
2

The love would last forever. My mom would work. She had already worked as a single mother of two (my sisters who are 20 and 21 years older than me) with no child support for most of my sisters’ childhoods. My mom knew what it was like to save money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:05 PM
5

Then the man could quit his job and let the woman take over. That’s what my brother in law did. My sister is the sole breadwinner for her family now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:03 PM
5

What’s a fake hobby? My mom, dad, and I all fish, hunt, garden, and forage. Are those fake hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:01 PM
4

Well, my parents have been married for 21 years so far. My grandparents were together until death. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:59 PM
3

Ya, and that’s why my mom also was president of our town’s art club.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:58 PM
6

For true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:56 PM
8

Or, the woman could cut back on her work hours and handle more chores. Or the woman could not work at all handle pretty much all the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:47 PM
5

He is compensated for that by early retirement. Alternatively, the couple could hire a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:45 PM
3

That’s how my parents decided that my mom would be a stay-at-home-mom. Money was saved that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:42 PM
5

Sacrifice early in life for rewards later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:41 PM
20

Hours. Time is worth more than anything else in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:36 PM
3

I completely agree that biological parenthood isn’t everything. In fact, I think it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:29 PM
10

It makes sense if the kids are adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:26 PM
0

I think that’s an unfair judgement of a woman who had kids with a trashy man. That’s my mom you’re talking about. Bad rep just for that? I don’t buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:21 PM
1

True that!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:34 AM
1

???? My maternal grandpa was never abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:04 AM
1

Oh, got it. My mom is still alive. However, her dad died long before I was born. Since he died on Christmas Day, my mom says he’s an angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:02 AM
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Their inheritance won’t be low, but it will be low compared to mine. Also, their biological father isn’t going to give them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:55 AM
1

My mom is an angel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:50 AM
1

Lol, I’m 20
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:49 AM
1

Not really because of the age gap and the fact that my dad is not my sisters’ biological dad and he didn’t raise them. Refer to my reply to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:47 AM
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No. The house and most of the money is going to me because I am the youngest and am not yet established in life. I also get all the items in the house because most are from my dad’s side of the family. I am the sole executor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:37 AM
1

Cool. My mom has never abused anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:32 AM
1

I agreed that single moms are single for a reason. I gave an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:25 AM
2

Ya, that’s why my sisters are 20 and 21 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:18 AM
1

Well, duh. My mom divorced her ex because he was abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:15 AM
1

Genetics and healthy lifestyle can make a 30 year old look 20
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:11 AM
2

Lol, my mom was a single mom with adult kids when she met my dad. I will admit, my mom was very attractive - beauty and personality. My parents got married when my mom was 38 and my dad was 39
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:04 AM
1

“Money is such a beautiful word. It soars in my mind like a beautiful bird…” Tom and Jerry: The Movie (1992). https://youtu.be/1ih2i9NNr_o
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:27 AM
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They’re all soooo yummy! My mom and dad are excellent at cooking so I was fortunate to be exposed to a variety of great dishes growing up. My dad always cooks family classics, festive dishes, barbecue foods, seafood, and blackberry crumble. My mom makes deserts (except blackberry crumble) and all the foods my dad doesn’t make.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 12:43 AM
1

Let’s look at two scenarios. Let’s assume for both scenarios that I have a boyfriend of several years. SCENARIO #1: Boyfriend: I’d like to have your permission to marry your daughter. (Idk how it’s worded; correct me if I worded it weirdly.) Dad: The f*ck if I know. Ask her. Mom: Ya, ask her. SCENARIO #2: Boyfriend: I’m going to ask your daughter to marry me. Dad: K. Mom: She wants an engagement necklace, not a ring.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 12:25 AM
3

Maybe you could say that if a guy wants to get a hold of you, he should call you by phone. Just say texting isn’t your thing. It might be wise to just flat out say: “I’m a straight shooter.” Just be honest and don’t dance around subjects. You should be able to say “I’m busy with work” with it literally meaning you’re busy with work.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 11:53 PM
1

I guess I’ll count my blessings. I’m nowhere near 6’4, but at least I’m not insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:08 PM
1

I can see that. My dad is 6’3 and he always had to adjust the seat in our car.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:06 PM
2

I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:01 AM
1

-Homemade ricotta/squash raviolo with an egg yoke stuffed inside. Served with a brown butter, crispy sage sauce. -Spanakopita and Greek salad -Butter chicken, palak paneer, and naan -Chicken cordon bleu -Panko coated halibut served with tartar sauce or a mango salsa on top -Roast beef and Yorkshires -Cheese and broccoli soup -Beer battered fish and chips (Rock cod or Ling cod is good) with tartar sauce and coleslaw -Ham steak and scalloped potatoes
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 10:12 AM
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I’m a good looking virgin who may be asexual. I don’t like using the term asexual because it seems unnecessary, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:04 AM
2

Cool. I’m a swimmer so I like any activity involving water: swimming at the pool, fishing, snorkelling, crabbing, clamming, beach walking/wading, paddle boarding, kayaking, etc.. Now that you mentioned it, a public pool really is a nice, safe place if you don’t know the person very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:52 AM
2

I agree! I’d prefer to go swimming honestly!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:37 AM
4

I wish I were 6’5! I’m a girl though so 6’5 would be a stretch XD. Still, I imagine what it would be like to reach the tippy top shelves with ease!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:13 AM
1

I haven’t dated anyone. If I dated a guy, I would expect that I’d pay for my food at a restaurant or half the bill if we share. It would be a fun surprise if he paid for everything himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:07 AM
1

It really is dependent on the woman. I don’t see a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:56 AM
1

Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:03 AM
2

Oh. For me it it would depend on what you mean by strange. It also depends on what you mean by looks because I’m one of a few people who initially judges a book by its cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:02 AM
1

Are you open to making new friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:55 PM
2

Oh my.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:45 PM
1

I’m above average and like being approached for friendship. So long as the approacher isn’t a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:38 PM
1

What about approach for friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:36 PM
8

I’m a virgin. I like friends. I would never want a “friend with benefits”. Not my cup of tea. Plenty of people will disagree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:07 PM
1

Here’s an insult for men who sleep around: cad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:04 PM
0

Desperation isn’t good. I live my life thinking that I’m doing great on my own. If some incredible guy swoops by, then maybe I’ll give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:02 PM
11

I think being friend-zoned is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:59 PM
2

Men care about the same things women care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:51 PM
1

Anyway, I don’t think children should be a motivation for dating. Plenty of people will disagree with me. Adopt, get a surrogate mother, or get a sperm donor I guess if you feel like you’re running out of time and have bad genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:43 PM
1

That is the only factor I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:34 PM
1

Yep! My dad has acne as an adult (poor soul) and man it got bad when he covered it up with a little something-something for an outing. He has to restrict his chocolate intake too because apparently chocolate aggravates his acne. Poor man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:12 PM
1

Idk. Did you do it 3 times?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:09 PM
2

No. Her ex husband was just abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:07 PM
1

Depends on the person. I had a much better childhood than my half sisters (same mom). I’m 20 years old. My sisters are 40 and 41 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:02 PM
1

Most college/university students are in their late teens and early twenties from my experiences. I thought that age bracket was encompassed by the word “youth”. Just replace “youth” with “late teens and early twenties” and maybe that will clarify things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:00 PM
1

Yep! Honestly, I’m looking out for future me too. All those chemicals on a makeup-wearing person… long term exposure too… yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:55 AM
1

Yep. My opinion: I look worse with makeup on than I do without makeup. I wouldn’t intentionally make myself uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:49 AM
1

I know. My sister (age 41) is one of those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:46 AM
1

Cool. I’m 20. I’ve only ever worn makeup for musical theatre, Halloween, and blindfolded makeovers (iCarly reference there).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:33 AM
1

I don’t wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:27 AM
1

Great! I don’t wear makeup :) Take a guy out on a swimming/snorkelling date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:25 AM
1

It’s still respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:24 AM
1

I think introversion is great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:21 AM
1

Dude… I see a cause for you “feeling [your] age”. You spent your youth “drinking until 5 in the morning and turning up for classes at 9”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:15 AM
6

Dang, my parents had me at ages 39 and 40. My parents are more active, lively, and healthy than the parents of people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:12 AM
2

Dang, my parents had me at ages 39 and 40. My parents are more active, lively, and healthy than the parents of people my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:10 AM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:28 AM
2

My sympathies. I was fortunate to grow up without alcoholism around me. I’m 20 years old and have never been drunk (legal drinking age is 19 where I live; 18 if I take a road trip). My parents let me drink since I was 16 (even though I was allowed sips before then). I don’t think I’ve ever had more than a glass of something. I know that I’ve never finished an entire can of apple cider. I like rum and coke, rum and eggnog, ginger beer, apple cider, and sweet drinks like a Victoria Sunrise or Marg…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:54 PM
3

That doesn’t seem correct. I think that most pro-choice people would be in favour of vaccine passports where no one is forced to get the Covid-19 vaccine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:15 PM
1

No alcohol?!?! I guess I’ll have to ask my dad for some instructions to make blackberry wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:13 PM
0

Dude, a zygote is a human. Humanness boils down to DNA alone. The argument is about unborn humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:00 PM
6

Best wishes from Canada 🍁 🇨🇦
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:56 PM
2

Tall, lanky nerd Vs. dumb jock stereotypes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:53 PM
1

I loved that duo! They were fantastic!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:48 PM
1

Cool 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:47 PM
1

Cool! It probably means that I like your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:41 PM
1

I think this website will give a general rundown of the Sigma personality: https://designepiclife.com/sigma-male/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:42 PM
1

Oh, the horror. Thanks for adding to my mental scarring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:37 PM
2

I have no clue what that means, but cheers anyway, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:31 PM
0

Red pill - seems weird Blue pill - seems weird Black pill - seems weird A bunch of pillers like to put Alphas on a pedestal. I think Alphas pale in comparison to Sigmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 12:26 PM
1

Smart guys are great. I’d like to meet an eccentric engineer like The Doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:59 AM
1

My nephew (in grade 12) is two years younger than me and has a steady girlfriend. I haven’t dated anyone. He definitely has more game than me. Anyway, him and his girlfriend are happy. My cousin who is about seven years older than me also has a steady girlfriend. They also seem happy. I don’t usually ask about my male friends’ dating life. Most are single. A few have girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:38 AM
1

Maybe. I’m really attractive, but I’m rather quiet around people I’ve just met or strangers (unless close friends are also with me). When I’m around close family and friends I turn into a comedian. I also become really fun when I’m doing anything water related (swimming, snorkelling, etc.). Oh, and I also become really fun when I go on adventures.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:34 AM
1

Getting old is nice, because it means you’re closer to living out your golden years pursuing your hobbies because you’re retired. That’s why I’m making sacrifices early in life!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:28 AM
1

Nerds are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:18 AM
1

Yay, Doctor Who!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:16 AM
1

I’ll provide you with a character from a TV show instead of an actor. The Doctor from Doctor Who.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:15 AM
1

I like being approached for friendships. Friends are fun. I didn’t like being approached by a jerk of a guy that I knew bullied people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:10 AM
1

I think I understand men. I also think men can understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:06 AM
1

Yes, it would be useful. I would know to avoid that person on the basis that he/she gave me a referral/reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:00 AM
3

I wouldn’t date a bisexual man. It’s just not my cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:57 AM
1

I’m not hurt by that. Maybe other women are hurt by that. I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:56 AM
2

I’m weird. I have zero sexual attraction. I am attracted to people in the friendship kind of way. Usually when I meet a friend, I feel an instant “zing” of connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:37 AM
1

I don’t know. Love is strange and unpredictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:34 AM
1

Maybe look for someone studying STEM and not “systems of oppression”. Engineers are cool. There’s a reason why I loved watching Dr. Who as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:30 AM
3

Well, it depends on the degree you get, who you are, connections, luck, and more. An engineer, for example, could potentially work the same kind of a job for all his/her life with a comfortable salary starting at $70 000 per year and ending at $110 000 per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:25 AM
1

This is random, but my grandma’s family owned a plumbing business.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:22 AM
0

Umm. Just give up and go fishing maybe? I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:17 AM
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