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Nope. Just the one.
/r/seduction10/03/21 10:32 PM
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We went out for about a week and a half before deciding to be exclusive and now it’s been about two weeks since then and we decided last night we’re in a relationship.
/r/seduction10/03/21 10:32 PM
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I gotcha. I see where you’re coming from. What would you define as “the struggle”? If you mean self improvement I definitely agree if you stop bettering yourself you lose. I think it is best that we find happiness in ourselves and in silence, but we also are social creatures so there’s a certain joy of walking with someone that you don’t find by walking by yourself. Not to say we shouldn’t walk by ourselves and enjoy our own company, but as Thomas Merton put it “the goal of solidarity is not to …
/r/seduction10/03/21 07:39 PM
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I was going out with girls, but then I met one that I really liked and stopped talking to the others.
/r/seduction10/03/21 07:33 PM
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I appreciate you giving me a warning. Honestly I got invested because it was the first in a year I had the desire to date a person vs just casually have fun with them. I agree it was a bit of a quick turn, but I just became uninterested in the other people I was talking to. I have some needy tendencies especially from having less social life during the pandemic, but I more just enjoy hanging out or going hiking with her, not hoping for her think I’m amazing. I definitely agree that over needines…
/r/seduction10/03/21 04:43 PM
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That’s honestly the most helpful thing I’ve learned on this sub. Flirting is just framing something relationally. I love that.
/r/seduction15/02/21 07:21 PM
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Thank you, that’s great advice. I was on a date last night and did a little of that. When she mentioned she was 6 months older than me I said “oh damn, you cougar.” She seemed engaged the whole time and wants to go out again, but she kept her hands in her lap the whole time and didn’t make much eye contact. So it may have been she just wasn’t feeling very flirty, but I definitely was not effective in getting her to loosen up through flirting.
/r/seduction15/02/21 03:03 PM
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Bruh, if someone has feelings for you and you use those and lie only to get laid you’re a certified bad guy.
/r/seduction07/01/21 05:06 AM
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What if you always drop your monster condom for your magnum dong?
/r/seduction19/12/20 04:23 PM
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Just don’t think about it. In your head decide that this is how she texts everyone. Go and hang with her with that belief in your head. If things continue afterwards and she only texts like that you can make a joke to tell her that you want to text more. Whether it’s a game or not, it doesn’t matter there’s nothing you can do except not worry.
/r/seduction01/12/20 07:08 PM
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You guys ever tried crying in front of a woman who loves you? That shit feels amazing.
/r/seduction21/11/20 07:07 PM
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Probably a longer term relationship where you’re more focused on intimacy than experiencing new people.
/r/seduction11/11/20 01:27 AM
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This is a sign you’re going on to the next stage of life.
/r/seduction11/11/20 12:50 AM
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I was you at 14. It’s the worst feeling. The horniness is insane to deal with. Learn to talk to girls by just seeing what you guys have in common. If you have nothing in common, but you’re still attracted than focus on other things. It’s just pointless to try and figure out how to get a girl at this point in life. The more you learn to control and enjoy yourself the more you will enjoy your teenage years. I waisted mine lining over girls, being a teenager isn’t fair, but you can enjoy it if you …
/r/seduction06/11/20 12:04 AM
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Haven’t you watched Wedding crashers? Always pick up a girl at a funeral.
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:58 PM
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I agree. I think on this sub we can forget that sex for the sake of sex is so mediocre compared to intimacy with someone you have a real connection with.
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:25 AM
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I think it’s fine to notice when it’s good to slow down with someone even on day 2. If you want to date than it can be good to wait on sex so it doesn’t become the functioning point of your relationship. Nice job, man.
/r/seduction05/11/20 03:04 AM
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I’ve got strong ADD as well. I’ve found what helps is to just focus on the moment. Usually when I get over stimulated I turn into a rush of talking and being loud, sometimes I’m just being myself and it is what it is. Other times I realize I need to just relax and focus on the other person. I’m never collected, but I can be calm if I just know everything is going to be alright, even when I’m excited.
/r/seduction30/10/20 10:10 PM
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👌👌 truth.
/r/seduction16/10/20 02:33 PM
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Living at home cause of pandemic.
/r/seduction16/10/20 02:33 PM
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That’s truly broad.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:04 PM
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Great comment. I think there’s is a lack of creativity in not going too deep because I’ve had these conversations before. To answer your question about over extending yourself. For me at least I always approach a conversation as something to enjoy. So if I notice that my enjoyment of a conversation is coming from the hope that something more will happen I try to reassess if this conversations is enjoyable just for the momentary sake of having it. I just try to live without expecting any promises…
/r/seduction14/10/20 06:35 PM
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What are your favorite broad topics?
/r/seduction14/10/20 02:38 PM
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