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Concealus/r/seduction12/07/12 02:03 AM
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Lol these friends sound super toxic mate. Find a lady that jives with your personality. Don’t change yourself to appease others.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:38 PM
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Decent! Depends on your style really, it seems that no matter how you 'said it', she feels how she feels. Atleast my own personal style is to say what I'm thinking with my actions, I would have visited her and escalated things emotionally. In my experience, women respond better to actions than words.
/r/seduction21/07/17 08:32 PM
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Dump her. Not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction30/10/15 07:02 PM
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I like your style ! The comedy club wasn‘t the best for a date, depending on the club. Some clubs you can order dinner in, and are really open and you are free to talk etc. As long as you have opportunities to initiate kino and socialise atleast a little, it‘s a fine place for a date ! You could tell at the date that she was very flattered, and clearly enjoyed her time, so good on ya. Nice work in general dude !
/r/seduction11/07/13 04:49 PM
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I know exactly how you feel man, and i‘ll let you know if i ever find a solution, atleast.
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:16 AM
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There's a huge guide in the sidebar which might help you ! But, invite her over to watch a 'movie'. That's always codeword for hookup. After she gets there, turn on a film, and escalate from there, let your hands wander, and don't be afraid to escalate. Do what YOU want! That shows sexual confidence, and girls really dig that.
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:27 PM
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Be different ! This girl clearly must have guys hanging off of her, offering to buy her drinks, offering her a ride, all these things. You have to be that guy who isn't hanging off of her, that one guy who, for some reason, won't spend the whole night with her. Introduce yourself, then go talk to some other girls ! Don't wait around for her, before you know it, she'll be waiting for you! She'll be surprised and intrigued by you, and it'll make her curious. Don't be a beta and follow her around, …
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:24 PM
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Feel free to share any seduction advantages you find in a Field Report, it's encouraged !
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:21 PM
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Be there for her ! Always make sure she feels safe with you, but what's key is to not become a beta ! Still escalate as you always would, you'll always be able to tell if she's uncomfortable, if she looks like she is, ask her, listen to her, let her open up to you and support her. That's a very traumatic event, and you need to be her security blanket ! Be yourself, and you'll always succeed.
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:21 PM
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Of course you should go out and get her, but texting's boring, be different than those other 10 guys trying to be her boyfriend. Call her, or god forbid hang out with her in real life ! Text should only be used to set up real-life dates ! Go get her.
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:14 PM
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Great work with asking her out ! Perfectly done, she realized that you sounded high class, and you were going out and having a good time, irregardless of whether or not she was there, way to be an alpha.
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:27 AM
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what the actual fuck
/r/seduction03/10/12 12:02 AM
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THIS. Half of those guys come in groups, believe me, there are thousands of hot chicks who go out with AFC guys, you could score by just making a friend with a male.
/r/seduction09/08/12 12:29 AM
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Rome wasn't built in a day my friend, keep improving and going out with women, and I promise, you will get much better at interacting at escalating ! You know what you did wrong, which is rare, so you can improve on those things. Godspeed!
/r/seduction09/08/12 12:25 AM
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Proud of you, it's the first step that's always the hardest ! When she says 'you can put your hand lower', it would've been my personal style to reach lower and give a teasing squeeze, whether or not this is right, it's seemed to work for me. but great work ! You should have gone for the # close.
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:42 AM
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the sex thing brings up red flags immediately and puts up their shields, it's very difficult to get to know women after this.
/r/seduction01/08/12 12:16 AM
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don't feel bad my friend. Guaranteed this girl was attracted to you, and the fact that she had to lie to her boyfriend showed his insecurity, and your maturity.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:43 PM
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For anybody new to this subreddit, always read the sidebar, it will help enormously.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:40 PM
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I sat her laughing my ass off, nice work.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:35 PM
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'Have you met Ted?'
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:28 PM
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Try to give us some details, like how you met the girl etc. It will help us gauge how to proceed.
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:24 AM
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THIS. Your right, 100%. IF you have some feeling that this girl is attracted to you, chances are she is. Never hesitate, and life'll go great for you.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:23 PM
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Being in a car makes kino difficult, I would've stepped out and sat down where initiating kino is much easier. Great fucking work with telling her to come outside. Now the next step is EXTREMELY important, DO NOT get hung up on, 'oh, where does this leave us'. It'll make you look weak and desperate. Be cool with it, if she doesn't ask, never bring it up. If she asks, 'where does this leave us etc.', be cool. Deal with it with a 'don't give a fuck attitude'. That kiss is driving her crazy right n…
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:17 PM
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I think tattoos make you look more mysterious, and it could be a conversation starter. But honestly, it's not a be all or end all, if you want a tattoo, get one.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:12 PM
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I see what's happening, you're slipping into the dreaded friend-zone. I still think your in the recovery zone however. If she talks about her man problems with you, talk about your women, but never brag, if you are excellent with other women, she'll know it. If she does ever have a new boyfriend, it's up to you how to proceed, personally, i abide by the gentlemen's code, and i'd leave her alone. Adding on to the dates, when she talks about her men, DO NOT become quiet, or sound jealous. It will …
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:09 PM
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The carrying etc. was a great opportunity at kino, I would've taken it more jokingly rather than serious, plus, most girls LOVE getting picked up, I don't know what it is. When it comes to the bar mishap, i'm not too sure, you may look douchey for going to that other bar and ditching them, depending on the way you handle it, but going to the other bar is completely out of the question, and will make you look like a beta.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:05 PM
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I'm in a really similar situation as you are, what i usually did is make it seem we would have more fun at her place. 'Hey, last time we hungout, i really loved that Y, it was awesome !', would suggest you to come over to her house. However, NEVER be direct with asking yourself over, it makes you seem weak. Slightly reference it,. and she'll oblige.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:00 PM
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A quote i found a little while ago describes this, 'A girl will forgive you for going too fast, but will never forgive you for going too slow.' Basically, you need to teach this guy that being alpha is okay, because he's one of the lucky few guys who have a girl who's willing to 'let him know'. So, escalate with him, and if he seems uncomfortable, then stop.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:57 PM
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he is completely right, she probably barely had a migraine, and was just shit testing you to see if you were willing to sacrifice something for her. There's a difference between being alpha, and being the bad guy.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:48 PM
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I'd take out the 'i'll call you later', just say no problem and end it. It makes you seem a million times more alpha, with the call you later line, it makes you seem desperate to hangout with her. Remember, she wants to hangout with you, not the other way around.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:46 PM
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always talk to the women who give you the eyes, they're obviously interested, and you never know, she might have been interesting, and a great close to your night. Don't be shy about dancing, trust me, all of us were, try looking up video's on dance, it's honestly not hard to pick up, and then you'll be the complete package. Don't talk over music, unfortunately, if this is a club with no quieter bar or anything, don't try, it's simply awkward. Remind yourself of being alpha. When you started to …
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:42 PM
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Every girl has some sort of dream, being vague with questions is definitely best. 'What's your dream', and questions like so are fantastic, as they open up so many potential conversations. Always try to generalize, and remember, girls love to talk about themselves.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:35 PM
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you did the right thing. Ask to talk to her, but text it in a way she knows its serious, and if she still doesn't have time, then doing this is the best way.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:32 PM
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Fantastic work with the boyfriend trying to intimidate you, you showed that you were mature, and made her boyfriend look like an enormous dick. Congrats, that's not an easy thing to do. I agree what you need to improve on, it seems the girls in the arcade were probably your best chance of some sort of close. Remember, if they're being receptive, try some kino, if they respond, always atleast # close, if they respond to kino, it's almost guaranteed they're enjoying your company and having fun. Ke…
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:21 AM
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Great work on the FR, good details, you'd be surprised how many include almost no details. Sounds like your really doing fine, something to improve would obviously to escalate, and try to close with any of these people. I personally think you could have gone quite a ways with this blonde girl, but sounds like your doing great. Good work !
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:15 AM
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THIS. Most people like to call this a shit test, I believe. No reason to be a dick to this shield, but make it clear that she is being negative, and blocking your chances. Plus, I bet this girl may have admired it, or even cut in as well. Be the man, woman love it !
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:09 AM
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Easy practice my friend ! Obviously, since your not really concerned with what these girls mean to you, there easy prey, go and have fun, get some practice. Not only that, if you happen to close one of these girls, it's going to be a huge confidence booster. Furthermore, don't hold back simply because they are 6s, most of those girls might have something quite special about them.
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:08 AM
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Your oneitis girl can sense that your just thinking about her. The reason why your friend got some more action is because he wasn't into it. He was obviously occupied with something or someone else, and he got her attention. However, you, were probably willing to drop everything to have a conversation with this girl. So, in my opinion, you should have kept on opening with other women, and perhaps continued with HB9, and before you know it, oneitis will see it, and she'll think 'Wow, MOCAMBO has …
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:00 AM
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aha, wonderful work, sounds like a night to remember.
/r/seduction29/07/12 05:49 AM
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If you're going to write a field report, make sure to include major details! But great work, sounds like you don't need any work, but your friend might.
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:32 AM
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I understand you were trying to tease, and most of them sound very good, but i'd be careful with the teasing at times, make sure the girl knows your just teasing her with a big grin on your face.
/r/seduction29/07/12 01:23 AM
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You can't pique our curiosity like that and not deliver, what happened at the club !? EDIT : spelling, thanks lingual.
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:46 AM
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This guy is a genius, the key is that you look needy, remember, it's a privilege for these rocket girls to be talking to you, you're not talking to them, they're talking to you.
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:41 AM
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Simply put, do what you want to do, and be yourself!
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:38 AM
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Alright, she obviously still has interest, it's apparent by the fact that she hangs out with you and talks to her. But change who you are, trust me, if you're going to change personas, there's nothing wrong with going fast, but stick with it. And the fact that she didn't expect it, i think actually made you more attractive in her eyes. Change yourself, get a new haircut, new style, start working out, go out with other girls. She'll notice you're getting into life and having fun with it, and you'…
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:37 AM
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You got it good, most girls make guys work for their attention and attraction, make a move fast my friend.
/r/seduction15/07/12 03:13 AM
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what probably happened is that she noticed that you were not interested in the woman so much as the pool game, and oh boy could they sense that. That's the reason why guys standing around having a guys night get the girl, and the horny guys hitting on girls don't get anything.
/r/seduction15/07/12 03:05 AM
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THIS. It's playful and fun, and sounds one thousand times better than a boring guy asking for her number in a boring way.
/r/seduction15/07/12 02:52 AM
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Honestly, once you get past that one confidence stage of talking up a girl, and having it go well for the first time, it's a huge leap. Start chatting up girls more frequently, and, I bet you'll find a girl 10 times better than this girlfriend who didn't deserve you, and find someone who does deserve you.
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:01 AM
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If this girl doesn't like you, she's not worth your time and effort to pursue. I guarantee it, there a million girls out there who are 100 times hotter than this girl. Go out, have some fun, have some sex. This girl will notice that you've become more mature, and she might even be more interested in you.
/r/seduction14/07/12 12:58 AM
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Going out and meeting other women is literally a win win situation, you meet other women, and chances are, she'll notice this, and you will become more attractive.
/r/seduction14/07/12 12:52 AM
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Ahah , I enjoyed the story, i'll have to use that sometime .
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:56 AM
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I thought it just seemed like too much of an average response, and I thought I might be able to make something from it, but thanks nonetheless !
/r/seduction12/07/12 02:36 AM
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Some solid advice, thanks !
/r/seduction12/07/12 02:35 AM
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You're a comic. I like you.
/r/seduction12/07/12 02:34 AM
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You sir, are a badass .
/r/seduction05/07/12 09:02 PM
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be a man. show that this doesn't bother her, and if anything, get more sexual with her, showing that you get what you want, and showing that you are an alpha male.
/r/seduction05/07/12 08:54 PM
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Always ask yourself - Is the pussy worth it ? If yes, change yourself, don't talk to her for 2 months, play sports, get fit, get a new style, find other women. by the time you had planned to talk to her again, you might have even forgotten about this girl all together .
/r/seduction05/07/12 08:27 PM
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Steve sounds like an alright guy .
/r/seduction07/06/12 08:34 PM
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Don't thank us , thank yourself for taking the changes and putting them to heart !
/r/seduction27/05/12 09:24 PM
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