Should have specified more so "existential threats" more so than general hardship You know wild animals, being outdoors all the time, living in huts? We all live in an infrastructural grid, and even Africa and Latin America, at this point, get to enjoy some of the global infrastructural network, lol Now that's not to say problems aren't still a huge part of modern society
Perhaps though one could argue when human life was about survival and problem-solving relationships focused solely on procreation and family forming moreso than modern day concepts like romance, lust, erotica or thrill-seeking So there is some merit to the claim, but I feel like is also used as a means of demonizing people from having autonomy in their dating endeavors
There is a difference between someone being nice because it is in their mannerisms and someone being nice for emotional manipulation reasons, though, wouldn't we all agree?
He means basically in an exaggerated sense that the modern-day dating market is over capitalistic and too constant changing for the average person to get a hold of.
I never insiniuated. I don't want people to know I have a girlfriend, I just don't want people being nosey over it And yeah, it is mostly a Gen Z thing. Teens these days are oversharing and then peer pressuring you into that pitfall like mad crazy, thru Discord and even Reddit.
First and foremost why the defensive undertones? But alright, are you Gen Z? If not, it may explain the difficulty of understanding this Ok, when you get into a relationship these days, there's almost always this pressure to be sunshines and rainbows about it, kinda like have others said curate an image of it and then people as usual micromanaging you(not in an covert fashion, but like you always get that one bugger asking "how's the relationship going") However, I am not acting like this is som…
Did you not read the last point? I never said that it didn't used to be a thing, I said that a relationship did not used to start glowing back then until major milestones hit like getting married or having kids.
In other words, some guys use relationships as motives to get better depending on their work morale and their careee goals A lawyer could be an example of a highly demanding job where getting into a relationship may feel like a bonus rather than a dead end. Lawyers are highly in demand and one of the most lucrative careers out there
Yes, but that man is more than likely using their female companion as leverage, something that men with top tier problem solving knowledge know how to do
It goes back to that one cliche talking point of women being into social affairs and men being into their pursuits, this is why men feel more insecure about their performance in things rather than their overall attractiveness they give off to people
As for the misogynistic autistic trope QZ was touching on this back in 2017 https://qz.com/1053590/the-new-netflix-series-atypical-portrays-autistic-men-as-sexist-jerks
Exactly, self establishment is also key. It takes way longer than what it used to, thanks to America's arrested development and infantilization of young men.
First and foremost this is just plain harassment, being Mexican is not my main hurdle. I have ASD, ADHD, I am left handed and grew up homeless literally until the age of 10 2nd, just because I didn't report it does not mean she isn't being held accountable for her own, one of the group's coordinators overheard the whole thing and looks like she might be getting her club privileges revoked, hopefully, but I do not expect much considering feminists are the establishment nonetheless 3rd, even then …
Well I live in the US Just about any college space is supposedly a "safe space" these days Womens marches as usual are building up around the country Ours was no different The main theme of the get-to-together was that feminist activism needs to improve worldwide, especially in 3rd world countries(which is a shocker to even hear considering that feminism is the plague of the 1st world that keeps on giving) So I ask them a nice challenging question "Why are we leaving men out of the question?'' A…
Yes, but I think we can agree relationships today are based more on love than they are on survival and reproduction because we have created an environment where we really don't need eachother as a species for everyday survival, of course you still have society where its due.
I don't even have anything against opposite sex friendships, but you gotta admit for society the only friendships that are bolstered into the public image seem to be either opposite sex friendships or female ones. Male bonding is literally mocked all the time, what makes mainstream society afraid of male bonding? Men are work-oriented, we don't just bullshit and blabber all the time.
Nah I disagree, otherwise opposite sex friendships wouldn't really be controversial, but since everything nowadays has to be lustified and sexualized I don't expect anything better out of society.