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"just touching" sounds like something a rapist or molester would say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:11 AM
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So being upset is being manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:06 PM
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Happy Cake Day, and I agree with everything you said so eloquently. 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:31 PM
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First sentence is definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:30 AM
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Okay so how does this only apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:31 PM
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Shhhh they're fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:21 AM
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There's always that one comment that leaves me speechless 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:16 AM
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Do you include children in your body count -- I mean thev had to go through there giving birth right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:53 PM
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Tell me you’re a virgin without telling me ^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:04 AM
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Your reading comprehension sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:03 AM
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I feel gross after reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:49 AM
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Tell me you know nothing about women’s bodies without telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:14 PM
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The “games” you described are in actuality gaslighting and emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:11 PM
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You did it for me. Read the first sentence of this comment ^
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:42 PM
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Wow, pretty shitty sentiment towards your wife there …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:41 PM
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Not true. As you age you need to step up your exfoliation and moisturizer game. Sunscreen not formulated for your face specifically can clog your pores. Salicylic acid, Retinol, AHA, all proven to help with fine lines and firmness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:39 PM
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Best comment so far
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:36 PM
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Your wife just accepted that without batting an eye? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:34 PM
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They do it without knowing it. Women care about looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:31 PM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:30 PM
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Most women are average in looks. There’s so much wrong with this statement. 😂 I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:29 PM
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Read this comment while watching a Jurassic Park movie — oh the irony of your user flair. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:41 AM
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This sub has really become even more toxic, if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:33 PM
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Behaving? Wow. I’m rarely at a loss for words. I am currently at a loss for words. Good luck bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:01 AM
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I’m a great looking astronaut.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:17 AM
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I thought in a different thread not too long ago you were saying you broke it off? Did you reconcile or just full of 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:07 AM
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Well that got really dark really fast
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:48 AM
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r/writingprompts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:48 AM
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Relationships today are based on convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:47 AM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:45 AM
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How lucky for you then that here you are… not banned. I guess this is the only place men can vent on Reddit. Or the internet in general. No wonder so many men vent in this sub — it’s the only place you can!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:49 AM
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I thought you said she asked you to leave and you didn’t? Why does your story keep changing? Edited to add why is a gay man approaching women sexually? You are active in gay subs actively looking for male companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 AM
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So you expect women to elaborate on why they don’t want to date you, and subsequently give you a trial period for you to try to become something you’re not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:24 AM
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Imagine the privilege of your worst bar experience was someone asked you to leave them alone and you didn’t, and got a drink to the face. As opposed to say, sexual assault. Must be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:21 AM
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Who is preventing men from venting? There are many men venting — that’s most of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:17 AM
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For the sake of our souls, it might be best not to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 AM
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So it’s just life when you didn’t want a serious relationship, but if a woman doesn’t, it’s a conspiracy of feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:29 PM
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So why did you turn them down? I thought you said in another comment you’ve always sought a long term relationship? Something isn’t adding up my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:54 PM
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OP, please reread this post and pretend you’re a straight cis woman. Would “you” want to date and marry you? Also, it’s a really hypocritical thing to complain about people complaining. You’re going on about women being bratty and feeling entitled, while posting that you feel entitled to only the “best” and most “marriage material” of women. Ask yourself this — why aren’t women who are stable and want something long term interested in you? Are you looking in the wrong places, or are you expectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:23 PM
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This made me legit LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:24 PM
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I think these comments are less creepy when a woman says them, because men don’t live in fear of women raping them if they go out alone go the park, or in a dark parking lot, etc. so just an entirely different dynamic.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 09:22 PM
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Do you ever go outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:44 PM
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Boohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:42 PM
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Indeed. And it makes me incredibly sad for the world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:56 AM
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I… have no words
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:14 AM
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My former boyfriend passed away four years ago. I haven’t even come remotely close to loving anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:55 AM
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“Be with someone but not belong to them” … that’s a relationship dude lol. I feel like you’re going to come across as the kind of guy emotionally insecure women will want to “fix” or “maybe he has been treated badly and has trust issues”. I think you need to be more clear — or else you’re going to end up with a crazy stalker one of these days.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:18 PM
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Are you up front with women that you are looking for hookups and nothing more?
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:46 PM
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What a way to spend his New Years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:59 AM
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He’s sexist on nice guys too. He’s just careful to word things a certain way. Look at his karma — the 23 and me results are in and he’s 100% troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:56 AM
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His entire post history is on nice guys, for the most part. Nuff said. Don’t feed the nice little troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:47 AM
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There are hearings before restraining orders are granted.
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/21 10:18 AM
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Depends on the job. Certainly in some professions it wouldn’t be OK. I know plenty of people who met at work tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 12:06 PM
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Male/male sexual dynamics are not the same as opposite sex. I have many male friends who are gay. Women are smaller typically, not as strong, and are conditioned by society to be “nice” and not be a “bitch” or assume the worst about men. I swear gender studies should be required in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:38 PM
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I made it already. Scroll
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:37 PM
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That’s exactly what I said. They’re not consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:26 PM
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Yes I do. And none of the situations I laid out for you are consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:24 PM
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No. It’s just that sexual assault is so prevalent it doesn’t all happen the same way. Men can be raped too you know. Men can be tricked into getting someone pregnant. Women can be tricked into having a drink laced with a substance and black out. Men can be sexually harassed at work by a supervisor. Women can be forcefully groped and grabbed at and freeze and dissociate, lying under a sweating man like a sex doll. You really can’t empathize with anyone, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:21 PM
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Why are you not taking into account guys pressure girls into sex? And sometimes it’s coercion, which is not true consent. Edited to add, I find your comments generalizing all men as basically willing to have sex with anyone whenever completely wrong and misandrist. If you don’t have guy friends who don’t want casual sex it’s because they’re avoiding you. Birds of a feather.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:55 PM
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This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:08 AM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:38 PM
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Work can be a good place too depending on what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:36 PM
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Ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:34 PM
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and you think women don’t get friend zoned all the time? Yeahhhh… happens to us too bud
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:32 PM
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A man speaking for all women! Bless you kind sir
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:46 AM
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In it for the money lol… tons of millionaire porn stars out there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:45 AM
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I was really hoping this was written from the female perspective. But of course it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:44 AM
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Lmao so you admit you only know secondhand information from someone who was a psycho? Enough said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:04 PM
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Okay obviously you are willfully ignorant. Hopefully you educate yourself someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:29 PM
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You need to read the diagnosis criteria for BPD. And know it requires several of those criteria, not just one, in every setting to include family, romantic relationships, work, etc. what you’re describing isn’t BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:56 PM
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Uh, it doesn’t sound like you’ve been around anyone with diagnosed clinical depressed or bipolar disorder. Especially the later. Bipolar type I is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:18 PM
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Well he also said men aren’t generally liked by women either so at least he’s not being mysogynistic necessarily. I’d have to know what exactly he finds to be a turn off about women’s personalities which he hasn’t disclosed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:17 PM
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You could say the same about any mental illness. Depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia… the difference is mostly women are diagnosed with BPD, and there is even argument in psychology that it is over diagnosed, as it shares many criteria with ptsd, and bipolar disorder. If someone is truly mentally ill, as in diagnosed by a professional who has spend considerable time with them in therapy, let’s not perpetuate hating people who have mental health struggles. If someone is just a bitch, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:12 PM
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What do you mean by modern personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:08 PM
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Can’t be upset if she decides to burn it down for the insurance money then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:24 AM
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Unless it’s her door…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:09 AM
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Wow you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:01 AM
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Yep. Too hot, intimated. Especially if you make more money and or have a higher education than them. Men treat women they’re not attracted to like wallpaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:00 AM
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Personality is a vague term to you. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:58 AM
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Lets just lump everyone with a certain mental illness in the same category; that’s a mature and educated approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:56 AM
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Here we go again throwing around personality disorders. Stop being an armchair psychologist and mocking mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:54 AM
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Points?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:58 PM
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No worries, I’m remodeling my house and I rarely wear much makeup. ✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:34 AM
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So either my replies are too succinct or I’m too verbose? Make up your mind. No humble brag, but when most of your income goes towards something you use it. Have a good one internet stranger troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:26 AM
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Covid is very much a thing still where I live. So no, I’m not out potentially infecting myself at a bar full of horny drunk people. I have top shelf liquor at home and books/documentaries/door dash. After a crazy work week my ass is sitting in my house. When you have a mortgage you tend to want to actually be home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:22 AM
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I do that for a job, I’d rather not on my weekends. But Monday 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:13 AM
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Reply stupid get stupid replies. Analogous concepts are a struggle I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:07 AM
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Play stupid games win stupid prizes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:03 AM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:01 AM
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Wow, poor brain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:00 AM
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… a place where contouring is done correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:00 AM
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Go to Sephora and have them show you. Any video I post you’ll debunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:48 PM
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Lmao BB cream… sure thing hon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:48 PM
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Okay Petey Pete
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:13 PM
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If that’s what you take away from what I said, that’s on you bud. Those are your feelings. Nothing wrong with emotions but don’t let them control your discourse, then you’re just being a snowflake menstruating woman /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:53 PM
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Simply having a different opinion makes me offended? I’m so sick of people projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:44 PM
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I’m actually banned there, but nice try!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:43 PM
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The hero we don’t need or deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:31 PM
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Finally a man with some common sense on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:28 PM
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Winner winner chicken dinner 🐔 🍗
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:26 PM
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If I had gold to give I would!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:20 PM
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😂 they always tell on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:18 PM
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Cool let’s see you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:15 PM
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He wants to be the frost on her lips. Not MAC. He wants her to wear CUM.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:14 PM
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All of those women are beautiful before and just stunning after. Any man would be lucky to wake up next to them, and I’m going to assume none of them would want to wake up next to a man who thinks like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:13 PM
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I think it’s hot if a guy has nice arms. Lets not start this trend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:10 PM
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Oh wow you know a foreign language! You must, knowing a quip like that! Da?! You’re so educated!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:09 PM
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Wow this guy needs to star in What Women Want II: 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:07 PM
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He’s a nihilist. He just wants to bitch and sound deep and cool and misanthropic. You’re not supposed to ask questions!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:02 PM
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Am slightly overweight, BMI almost normal that’s what I mean by slightly, like two points over, I wear baggy tshirts all the time. I have huge boobs and I cut the collar out and wear them off shoulder. It’s a flattering look for us busty gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:00 PM
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That’s absolute bullshit. Contouring works for everyone if done correctly. You’ve obviously never seen it done correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:58 PM
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No. If they’re doing it for themselves then who cares? It’s not pathetic. If a woman wants to wear tons of makeup because she feels more confident or she just finds it fun, and if a guy wants to rent a cool car to have fun or because he’s a car enthusiast, who cares? Live and let live. It’s the intention behind the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:57 PM
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Lmao 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:36 AM
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Okay then. Good luck with everything ✌🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:06 AM
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Hopefully that first bit is sarcasm. And I’ll pass on the carbs, thanks though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:42 AM
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No words. Seriously, you are willfully ignorant at this point. Good luck in the real world with that chip on your shoulder and lack of common sense. LOL @ “honey”, always funny as hell when someone young enough to be your kid tries to be condescending with pet names. Goodnight sweetie, don’t let the feminists bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:41 AM
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Ah looks very legit, especially the part where it’s a personal blog that also refers to Donald Trump as “brother Trump” claiming he won the election — definitely a good and trustworthy source. 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:35 AM
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Ah yes, everyone who disagrees with you and happens to be female is a Karen. I bet that’s a convenient delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:33 AM
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I do. Can you say the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:20 AM
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I’m sure everyone appreciates you being the spokesperson for all of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:19 AM
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Well said. Mature partners should be able to discuss sexual preferences without getting upset, sometimes the way someone does a sex act could be painful or uncomfortable/annoying. If someone doesn’t care about your comfort during sex they don’t care about you period
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:52 AM
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Lol, I don’t think it’s possible for a stranger on the internet to sour my day, but thanks anyway? Facts over feelings is a good philosophy. When I read or see something I have a knee jerk reaction to, I always go and do my research with an open mind. You’d be surprised how many generally accepted societal notions are bullshit — like women being the more “emotional” gender. Men display their emotions outwardly, while women tend to be more inward. Of course there are always exceptions to the rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:35 AM
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You have multiple personalities or you speak for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:43 AM
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… you’ve got to be a troll. There’s no way someone could be that ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:25 AM
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Maybe do some reading and research from non biased sources before calling someone paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:24 AM
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Many other mental illnesses feature black and white thinking — namely, bipolar disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:23 AM
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Okay well not sure if you were arguing with me for shits and giggles or what — but I’m glad you were able to see what my point was and come to an understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:22 AM
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I said nothing about worth. I called attention to the fact that women are more at risk for sexual violence. I’d hope you would “stick your neck out” for anyone being attacked, man or woman, rape or someone being beaten. Even if it’s to call the cops once you’re in a safe place away from the risk of assault yourself. I’m choosing to ignore the entirety of your post because you’re turning it into a personal monologue, and as you pointed out before those personal details are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:43 PM
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Don’t worry, I don’t date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:07 PM
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As other users have pointed out — I work in clinical psychology and agree you need therapy. Your hatred of women is seriously scary. Hating women, even if you never rape us or harm us or date us, enables other men to do so. The fact you’re so young and already so indoctrinated into this anti-woman rhetoric and fantasies of male oppression gives me some hope you can change by becoming educated with factual evidence that is not slanted, learning empathy, and making real connections with women that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:30 PM
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Lol so now we can’t use the word sexual assault or rape because it’s manipulative language? Dude get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:19 PM
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🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:11 PM
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So we’re going to debate which is worse — rape or murder? Really going to great lengths to not acknowledge the impact of sexual violence against women. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 04:11 PM
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Divorce robbed lol… you mean the state split their assets 50/50 because that’s the LAW. Male or female, it doesn’t matter who has the most money, it gets divided in a divorce. Yes even women pay alimony. But we usually only hear about women paying alimony in regards to celebrities and other well to do people, because it’s that uncommon for independently financially secure women to exist outside of those niches. I’d have to ask your friend what battered women have been asked countless times — why…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:42 PM
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Ah yes so creepy for someone to look at your public profile and other posts to try to figure out wtf you’re on about. If you want anonymity maybe don’t post on Reddit, then pretend to be a victim when, gasp, someone looks at your post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:37 PM
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Eugenics isn’t natural selection. Maybe review high school level biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:35 PM
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Now we are comparing apples to oranges and rape to mugging. Lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:34 PM
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You realize eugenics played a role in the Holocaust? FFS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:13 AM
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Why are you referring to yourself in the third person? And how am I supposed to take anything you say seriously when your post history is you wanting to find a sugar momma/cub&cougar arrangement, and asking weird things on askwomen and askapriest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:12 AM
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I don’t want respect from hateful mysogynistic men. So thanks for the reassurance — I must be fighting the good fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:04 AM
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For everyone in the back, yes he did just ask why women think they have any reason to feel strongly that they shouldn’t be raped or murdered What makes women feel that they should be entitled to be exempted from being the target of a criminal who doesn't give a shit about the law? How do you plan to convince killers and rapists to pass you up and target the next guy instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:01 AM
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🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:45 AM
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You really have no understanding of BPD if you’re lumping it in with anti social personality disorder (there’s no DSM diagnosis for sociopath). You also have no understanding of how over diagnosed women are in regards to BPD because of gender bias, whereas men with similar symptoms presenting clinically will be diagnosed as bipolar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:40 AM
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Whatever hangs between your legs isn’t license to psychoanalyze women whenever it suits your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:36 AM
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You completely forgot about men who are kicked out or have restraining orders against them because their behavior was so violent and disturbing. But yes reasons!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:32 AM
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It’s a lot easier to be successful in education and business when you don’t have to worry about being drugged and raped at every social gathering that serves alcohol, or afraid of being raped or murdered every time you go anywhere alone. Or being sexually harassed by the people that are supposed to be helping you in your education and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:28 AM
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Lets not assume people are “low value” because they have depression or ptsd. You’re waxing eugenic there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:25 AM
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Correlation isn’t causation. Women are more likely to have certain mental health issues period. It doesn’t prove ptsd or depression is factoring into their dating philosophy, it only proves women are more likely to have depression and ptsd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:08 AM
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We’re doing things we enjoy. For some that’s going out, for others it’s recovering from a long work week and focusing on our health, family, pets, and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:27 AM
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Confirmation bias is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:20 AM
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You can literally google this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:11 AM
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I think every actor in this sketch is hot solely because they were willing to do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:37 AM
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My uncle pretends not to know how to find Lucifer on Netflix just so my aunt will spend time with him. She’s usually busy in the evening when he’s watching. Married for sixty plus years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:31 AM
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Is this really true? Someone needs to make this future into a Netflix series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:28 AM
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This starts in childhood when your mother figure doesn’t empower you as a young woman and stand up to a toxic father figure. Extreme example: women who “never had a clue” about sexual abuse. Remember pick me behavior is ingrained early — by our mothers, our peers, the media, church, etc. Going back and analyzing my childhood has made me realize just how much of a miracle it is I’m in this community, given the examples of relationships I saw, and the behavior of my mother. Frequently childhood ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:24 AM
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Then want to be treated like the hero for taking your money and driving to the nearest Walgreens for crutches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:16 AM
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To quote a HVM robot: “anger is more productive than sadness” The Terminator movies are actually pretty awesome when it comes to female empowerment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:14 AM
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This. ^ So many women go to professionals for help and come out with diagnoses like bipolar, borderline, depression. When in reality it’s PTSD and any behaviors that might align with those diagnostic criteria are only when being gaslighted and manipulated by the abuser! I would never recommend a white, straight male counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist to any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:12 AM
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He thinks dates are like job interviews. You should have asked how much the position pays and if the insurance covers birth control or breast reduction for back pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:09 AM
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Samantha was my idol when I was younger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:07 AM
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Maybe I’m biased but … I’d love to see this/do this kind of symbolic analysis with the show Mad Men 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:06 AM
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There is bad anxiety and good anxiety. This advice doesn’t differentiate between the two and that’s ignorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:05 AM
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Also: your checking account is withering away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:03 AM
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If you feel exhausted by the people you’re in touch with while dating you know they’re energy vampires!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:02 AM
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Love this. My priorities are finally me; all facets. My summer reading list, my professional certifications I’m going for, getting a better job in a non toxic workplace, remodeling my house, getting my finances in shape, working through my mental health roadblocks (ptsd sucks!). I have a man in my life who is more useful and caring than anyone I’ve ever dated — and that’s my 120lb cane corso dog. He’s an Italian mastiff, so very affectionate. the rumors about passionate Italian men might be true…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:00 AM
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I tried to post a very real story of the time I saved my friend from being abducted while jogging, and they said it wasn’t appropriate because it wasn’t dramatic enough or some such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:56 AM
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Well, sometimes Nice Girls do snap, but not like Gone Girl snap. Men melodramatically talk about women who dumped them and make them out to be psychotic when in reality they got a very small dose of their own medicine. The show Snapped often features women who were horrifically abused their entire lives, so I don’t think it’s fair for men to use those true crime cases as an example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:55 AM
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I tried to upvote the video only to realize I wasn’t on tik tok 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:46 AM
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I dated a guy who bought property and was building a tiny sustainable home he said he was going to then sell and build a bigger home. Provably a lie. Anyway, the tiny home was alright, but he actually had to order a mattress before I could stay over. He slept on the floor. There was no compostable toilet as he had implied. He literally told me when I pressed for answers that he shit in grocery bags or went to poop at the grocery store. On one of our dates I bought some nice cheeses and olives fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:44 AM
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Visual representation of Madonna whore complex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:17 AM
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So we want to get punched, burned with a cigarette, tell him to stop and not be heard (I’m assuming the warning ⚠️ sign symbolizes that?), roleplay he’s a serial killer with a chainsaw, and end up throwing a brick out the window to escape. Riiiiight. A man made this, I’d bet my checking account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:16 AM
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Oh god the dog thing triggered me. There was a case where I live years ago where an abusing boyfriend threw the girls dog out the window of the apartment. I think it survived and the community donated for its intensive care. Ugh. I’m not implying her murder wasn’t triggering but there’s just something about a man targeting animals, children, or the elderly that makes me want to cry and take up boxing as an outlet for my anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:10 AM
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I agree. Sometimes it’s easier to see your past mistakes and missed red flag behavior when reading someone else’s story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:03 AM
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I agree. When first reading on this sub you are in shock and so angry realizing how you’ve been being treated, once you take the patriarchal glasses off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:01 AM
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If any male does that dump him. Even hands on your head is controlling. You should be in control of oral sex, as the giver. But men cannot be vulnerable during oral sex in most cases. If any guy tried to do that shit to me I’d bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:40 AM
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Oral sex on a woman vs on a man are two totally different experiences and I hate how men feel like they’re entitled to one. You’re literally putting a body part down your throat. Although oral on a man does not have to involve penetration of the mouth. I have been told by older women, I worked at a geriatric facility and they are not shy!, that most men never expected or even wanted that type of oral. It was all about actual intercourse. That was the ultimate “manly man” thing. It’s interesting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:37 AM
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The funny thing is “men” say they would eat the starfish, but I guarantee you when presented the opportunity they chicken out like the cocks they are. I heard from a friend anyway 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:29 AM
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Same girl. I only feel spiritual sex when I take edibles and connect to a higher power. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:27 AM
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And humiliation. Oral sex is not a popular porn genre, but forced oral is. I do my research, as my degree is in psychology specifically abnormal psychology. Most blowjob porn involves the penis holder forcing the woman’s head down until she gags and or vomits. The vomit thing seems to be gaining traction. I read a tell all from a former pornstar about how she was told to swallow her vomit until the big “vomit scene”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:26 AM
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If only men knew the thoughts we think when they pound away. Nothing makes you seem more like a desperate teenager, or a rapist trying to get off quickly to jump back out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:23 AM
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Yes. To quote Lincoln, a very HVM, when passion fails in overturning oppression we must use “cold” strategic logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:21 AM
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I like the way you think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:20 AM
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ASMR and guided masturbation audio is so much better than most hook ups. Erotica or some romance novels (some are horrible) are better times on weekend nights than going out with some dude from OLD. If you miss human touch go get a massage. This is how you stay happy and single, waiting for the right one. And guess what? It might not happen. I might have to use a sperm donor because I refuse to have children with a toxic person. And I guarantee you my life will be better than if I had married ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:56 PM
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Wtf is it with men hating bold lipstick these days? Back in the 50s and 60, even roaring 20s, most women did! Is it because with bold lipstick they can’t randomly kiss you without being marked? Always wear bold lipstick on a formal date. If they compliment you, green flag. Kiss you on the cheek or show affection in some other way, green flag. If something comes out of their mouth like wish I could kiss you but your lipstick — OK BYE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:49 PM
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That’s hilarious. It’s proven men don’t have as intense of orgasms as women most of the time. Why? Because they can’t connect emotionally and use porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:47 PM
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They’ve had thousands of years making women live by rules based on what they don’t like. So women saying they don’t care what men think cannot be compared to men saying “I don’t like”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:45 PM
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When I went on vacation I didn’t wear a bikini. I’m too old for that — not because I don’t look decent or I’m super overweight, but because to me it’s somewhat silly. I want to wear a one piece and a classy lace coverup and a big floppy hat and sunglasses. No makeup, maybe red lipstick/stain. There were tons of women, even some old enough to be my mom or grandma, m I’m in my 30s btw, in skimpy bikinis, the kind that barely cover your ass. I thought it would detour unwanted male attention. But gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:42 PM
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Porn should be shameful for grown men. Instead of trying to find a relationship or even a both party consenting one night stand, they’re holding their phone in one hand and a dick in the other. Occasionally go through bouts of cycling through women OLD, but in the end their brains are so hardwired from viewing porn at an early age that their neurotransmitters are so dependent on porn, resulting in making new neural pathways through healthy adult sexual relationships unlikely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:48 PM
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You’re too kind! But yes it affects all women and girls. Not that I want to undermine the effect on the sex workers themselves, but hardcore pornography is a systemic disease. I’m not even going to say pornography addiction anymore because the porn itself is a disease. The men who expose themselves to it will eventually succumb and develop systems, mild to severe. The only solution is to vaccinate the youth against it so when they see it, they see it for what it truly is. Those already infected……
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:48 PM
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I recommend all women go to pornhub with images turned off on a desktop browser and look at “most viewed”. Not “top rated”, because most men will not rate a video, and also the most viewed will show you what they clicked on first. The kink community has normalized bdsm, violence, incest and therefore child sexual abuse, coercive sex, and many more deviant behaviors. Free porn is never free, and women and girls are paying the price for men to get off in a sock their partner or mother will then wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:33 PM
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I totally agree with your statement. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:19 PM
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being a woman is political Brilliant and succinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:02 AM
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My uncle had computers with internet access since 96-97 at my grandmothers house, and my cousins and I were definitely in the Wild West with no supervision. I remember being groomed on iRC and ICQ by pedophiles and not really understanding, thinking it was another kid probably. I’m sure it affected me in lots of ways. And I didn’t talk to friends about it because they didn’t have computers and couldn’t relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:41 AM
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Eugenics? Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:33 AM
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Jane Austen approves of this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:48 PM
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That is interesting on so many levels. Why would a man want to risk having that kind of sex even if the woman agreed? It could end badly in so many ways. They’re willing to go to jail for their fetish and hatred of women. If BDSM wasn’t about hating and abusing women, we would see an equal amount of women identifying as Doms. It would make more sense for women to take on that role as we’ve been repressed sexually for … ever? I don’t think women should be able to consent to being beaten or harmed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:47 PM
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The irony right?! I’m noticing a lot of these subs are moderated by men, unbeknownst to the women who feel like they’re safe spaces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:42 PM
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I might be biased, because of my love of Abe Lincoln (who was a firm believer that when people start finding ways to get around the law, and the law is not being upheld without prejudice, a nation and it’s people will suffer greatly. Passion to overthrow injustice is not enough and will be used against the liberators, “cold” intellect and planning must be employed) I really think a huge key to unlocking the doors of repression and finally letting women have an educated choice of how they want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:30 PM
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And women are made of sugar so can’t go without one. 😂 ☔️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:16 PM
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Brilliant! I’m sure the female drivers will definitely take it to heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:30 AM
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Was he too manly for umbrellas? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:28 AM
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I had a date who was late because he was “at the strip club for a business meeting”. Our date was at the park (I know, I know). I texted him our date was now a scavenger hunt and he had to find me. I texted him pathetically obvious clues and he couldn’t find me. I ended up finding him and saying goodnight. I saw him the other day working as a manager at a thrift store. I interview for a director of insert admin medical crap here with a married HVM physician who actually takes care of his family …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:27 AM
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This brings up an interesting legal question. If we replace rough play with murder, would the murderer still go to jail? Can you consent to being murdered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:18 AM
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I had no idea what aftercare was until some weirdo tried to sell me on bdsm. It’s like, okay so basically you’re going to treat a woman so badly she’s going to be in the fetal position crying while you pet her like a dog?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:17 AM
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No, it’s not beating if she had a toxic childhood and hasn’t dealt with it yet, and represses her rage by rewriting her narrative that she’s “kinky”. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:16 AM
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That’s disgusting. If you’re attracted to parts and not the entire person … yikes. Just go buy a fleshlight or a footlight or whatever and leave us alone 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:14 AM
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Yes! The burn! I had no idea it wasn’t supposed to be that way. My gynecologist finally set me straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:12 AM
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Yes girl yes! 😹 I feel so special, all this hate and insulting DMs. It really made my night — just ordered door dash to accompany my entertainment. That subreddit is so ridiculous I just can’t even conceive being that stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:46 AM
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Ugh yes I am still triggered by the smell of bleach. I’ve heard you can actually be allergic for lack of a better term, I guess irritated? by some men’s semen. I guess it all depends on your body chemistry. My first adult relationship that included intercourse was terrible for a myriad of reasons but that was one of the worst! He drank like half a case of soda a day. How the hell he wasn’t obese is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:39 AM
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Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:35 AM
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Yes! The men who consume junk and Mountain Dew definitely have a stench. Yet the female douche industry makes millions and millions every year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:33 AM
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Lots of swingers in the Bible Belt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:30 AM
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Maybe it was his wife! Open marriages are all the rage where I live. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:22 AM
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Aw thanks 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:08 AM
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Oh man I want to see! My DMs are open to you. I’ve received so much harassment today since that cringe conversation. Even dudes in my DMs pretending to be women that love anal, who want to hear about my “bad experiences with anal so I can see what could have been done better”. Like, who said I have any experiences? And even one claiming to be active on this sub with no post history, and a screen name that sounds like something a 50 something year old man would think a feminist would come up with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:03 AM
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Like women with Only Fans accounts totally discrediting the testimony from ex pornstars who were in the hardcore industry for years? I totally agree, way to throw your sister under the bus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:59 PM
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I love how these subreddits allow men with predatory posts and comments in other subs to participate, but ban radical feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:19 PM
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Also got banned from Fragile Male Redditors solely for being on this sub 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:18 PM
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Way to go sister! 👐🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:15 PM
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Or older divorced women who are just happy to be noticed, as their ex scrote only had sex with his hand. In my experience, these types are even more sick in the head. Often helping their “Dom” recruit young girls and vouching for him, competing to be the “best” abused and used one in his harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:14 PM
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I’m ordering this book asap after I hit reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:11 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes! Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results, and that’s literally what most women do when it comes to dating. Waiting for their beast to become a prince, or the sounds in the attic to be explained to them as their partners crazy ex (sorry couldn’t help it). Their identity is so wrapped up in the fairytale they’ve day dreamed about their entire lives, first as little girls to dissociate from abusive adults, and then as grown wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:08 PM
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Is it just me, or have sizes become smaller? Like a size 10 ten years ago is now a 14. I have old clothes and I’ve compared, it’s crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:01 PM
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No dick is worth losing 75k in salary. Police officers have a very high probability of being domestic abusers. I’m scared for this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:59 PM
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Lib fems will die from exhaustion arguing that being friends with an ex is a sign he’s a good person 😂 what crap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:55 PM
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In a field 😅 OP I wish we lived in a world where you were being melodramatic, but a friend of mine had a first date on a football field once. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:52 PM
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Me too. My depression meds and sleep meds knocked me out, I had severe insomnia from work stress. Woke up a few times really confused. We’re now divorced. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:49 PM
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Someone needs to write and direct a horror movie that’s from the perspective of a mother and her children, about how traumatizing and horrific family life is for most women these days. Lots of gross scenes scrubbing vomit off the carpet, washing shit stained underwear (not the kiddos), finding waded up washcloths smelling of bleach (wasn’t bleach), include graphic birth scenes, Pap smears, cat callers, late night grocery store run alone because husband is a lazy ass, and your kid is sick and nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:44 PM
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Right?! “Honey I read about this on Goop, I bought us each an enema kit and some healing crystals” 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:40 PM
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I had a close friend who was a pickme totally break my heart when she friend dumped me. She became a raging bitch once she saw me turning down LVMs and dudes I just wasn’t attracted to. Last I heard this 30 something ex friend moved to Montana to work at a bar, to be sexually liberated and have all the kinky cowboys in her bed, despite having a masters degree and some actual talent. Shout out to J in Montana! Hope you get tested regularly, don’t adopt so many cats your clothes get peed on, and n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:37 PM
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I like that he didn’t even ask first if you would be comfortable with a male roommate. I was looking for a roommate or two to continue renting a large home after I dumped my ex, and I posted online. The amount of men just assuming I would be interested in a 40 something roomie in my mid twenties was astounding. There are also those “you can live with me for free, but you have to provide things a girlfriend would” creeps. I swear, women can’t not be creeped on or harassed anywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:31 PM
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Health insurance pays for guys to get their dicks hard, but not for a myriad of women’s procedures. Total BS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:25 PM
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No cancer dicks, no let’s go Dutch dinner pricks, no think a birthday gift of a candle from Walmart with a shitty wick is slick, no second date should be a couch and a Netflix. I don’t want no scrubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:24 PM
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Exactly! Divorced is one thing, never married… big yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:21 PM
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“Work hard — at my shitty paying job (not really, I coast by while my female co workers ask to be paid the same as me) — play harder (like the cheapest IPA at the neighborhood bar named after someone’s deceased dad/uncle/son, etc., maybe go to the park and sit with a book and pretend to read while I’m looking at girls I don’t know the legality of having sex with” Sorry. Apparently I’m ranty today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:20 PM
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And if they are, it has to be Lena Dunham/insert other “edgy” not like other girls kink embracing chick whose comedy revolves around sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:16 PM
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“I’ve been hurt before, I need time to trust again. “ You realize this is your friends ex who cheated on her and got dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:15 PM
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By the time most are ready, they’ve been dumped so many times you’re already friends with a few exes lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:11 PM
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But old men get manipulated all the time for their 401ks and pensions! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:09 PM
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And it’s considered rude and taboo to ask a woman this you don’t know, so they’re testing the waters to see how much rudeness you’ll tolerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:08 PM
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Too old to care enough to correct any guess is my go to. Really throws people off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:07 PM
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Wouldn’t be surprised. Men love their hgh and Botox, and hair implants. But it’s not talked about out in the open because that’s man shaming! 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:06 PM
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Haha how did that goodbye go? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:05 PM
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I’m sure the toxicity of being a sex worker feels very familiar since so many come from abusive homes. They aren’t willing to acknowledge the cycle, though. I dated a guy whose mom was a pornstar, fairly well known, and it just about robbed him of a childhood and any chance of finding a suitable male role model as no high value man would date a woman doing very hardcore porn. I feel for the guy. But he’s toxic too, no surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:02 PM
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Lmao there is no such thing in the DSM as “psychopath”. The closest would be anti social personality disorder, or narcissistic personality disorder. And people say this sub is “snowflakey”. They need to make up their mind — are we “mean girls”, or too fragile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:59 PM
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When you look up most viewed videos on pornhub it’s truly shocking. Incest is being normalized. Survivors of childhood sexual abuse are basically being told their past shouldn’t have an effect on their feelings about this type of roleplay, yet we know sex workers are disproportionately victims of sexual abuse. So what men are watching is a woman with a history of sexual abuse roleplay the exact or similar scenario that caused her so much grief. I don’t know how consumers of this type of porn sle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:41 PM
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Or how upset “Dom” men and “submissive” pickmes get if a woman identifies as a Dom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:37 PM
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Banned for saying “stay safe” no less!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:20 PM
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Absolutely. What consenting adults do together is their own business, but when there are power dynamics at play like age gaps, no safe words (not that I’m convinced safe words make anything “safe”, that’s like saying driving 120mph is safe if your breaks work), pressure to be involved in the lifestyle to stop your partner from cheating or breaking up with you, I really question how many of these bdsm relationships are healthy. I feel like it’s horribly disrespectful as a woman, to want to rolepl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:18 PM
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The scary thing is many lack symptoms in women, until damage is done. I brought that up but no one acknowledged it. I was officially just banned though, so no worries! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:11 PM
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Infection sounds worse in my opinion. I imagine puss and all kinds of gross things 😅 good grief, what a dumb thing to waste time debating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:07 PM
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Amazing post. You are absolutely hitting the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:56 PM
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That’s the reason?! OMG ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:51 PM
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It doesn’t seem like age gaps or children outside of marriage ever result in happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:00 PM
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The documentary Hot Girls Wanted was so difficult to watch but so important! They totally do this to girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:58 PM
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Yet men proudly say “I love porn”. If you love it so much, why not pay for content that isn’t made by trafficking human beings and rape? Oh, I forgot. Because to you that’s the best kind of porn. Dudes get off knowing this, I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:57 PM
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They don’t want committed sex when they’re so embarrassed about their encore performance they can’t face you ever again 😅 porn sick dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:36 AM
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I’m so sick of the culture of extreme individuality that started about five years ago hardcore. “Not like other girls”, “not like other guys”. We’re all human. We all want to be happy. We’re only special in the eyes of those that love us. The real us, not the mask. (That last line was for men)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:35 AM
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It’s a double edged sword because the “one who got away” for me passed away. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:02 PM
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I’ll never get the 2k back I spent flying a LVX to and from LA. He was going to pay me back by selling a really expensive vintage car he had. Never owned it. Ended up being friends with the girlfriend and roommate he was cheating on, with ME. I was horrified. His X and I became friends and now send each other Christmas cards now and at almost 40 he works at a frat house cleaning up puke and dirty laundry and whatever else cause she kicked him out lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:01 PM
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He was! A handsome older man but wow was he handsome in his younger days! Very liberal for his time too but still old fashioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:59 PM
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This is why I loved working with geriatrics. There was only one truly creepy old man out of the hundreds. And guess what? He watched porn on the computer. I remember one gentleman I particularly liked told me, “condom ad don draper, you’re intelligent, kind, and beautiful. What is wrong with these fellas you’ve dated?” His wife was great, too. Bless his heart, he took care of her to the point his family had to intervene and get help because she had advanced Alzheimer’s. He was a psychologist and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:38 PM
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Doing well for themselves, by what standard? Making money stripping, working on onlyfans, working in a customer service job that pays shit and involves sexual harassment regularly? Successful women want successful men. And no successful women I know would go 50/50 on rent or a mortgage if their partner makes more than them — it’s basic math. you are spending more on a necessity for no reason other than “it’s empowering”. What would be empowering is if you paid the same percentage of income and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:31 AM
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Good luck to him finding a woman who has never been harassed, assaulted, or groomed. We all have trauma as women, and I’d guess many women in denial pickme types have ptsd on some level but deal with it by developing some hybrid version of Stockholm syndrome. You’re actually working on your mental health. He isn’t. He’s the lazy loser, not you. He’s immature and narcissistic. I think you should tell him you want to take a longer break. That way you’re not totally overwhelmed with the loss of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:00 PM
6

Child support for three kids will at least be something. Depending on the state, assets 50/50 as well and possible spousal support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:41 PM
6

She should have negotiated her rates, then realized even her husband couldn’t afford them and left. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:40 PM
4

New to posting here, but I’m sorry this has been happening to you. I’m looking forward to joining the discord and subscribing to the podcast when I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:22 PM
1

Like I said it’s personal choice. No woman should tell another what is right or wrong for them. Just sharing my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:31 PM
26

I know what she should say. Get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:48 PM
9

Omg I got a bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:47 PM
1

What about couples who have children who don’t want their kids in daycare? What if daycare is so expensive the parent going back to work would have to spend most if not all of their income? Also, what if you become sick or disabled and are no longer able to earn as much income as your spouse? Does that mean you should separate and you should find someone who is disabled as well, or makes less money than your first partner so that there is less “potential of abuse”?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:22 PM
1

So if a woman is a provider she’s manipulative as well? What if someone is a stay at home parent and their spouse works? Your theory doesn’t hold up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:09 PM
1

That’s hypothetical. Your family could easily manipulate you if you’re relying on them financially or letting them pay. And some men want to pay for the same reason you say you find sweet, which some men also want to do to show that they care and are providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:53 PM
1

You could argue any relationship comes with strings and has the potential for power dynamics. If your partner doesn’t control your money, and you have access to it, then what’s the issue? That’s why I said a family account and separate accounts both parties have access to. If you can’t trust your partner not to manipulate you, then they need to hit the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:51 PM
1

And that’s your choice. I just feel bad for women who don’t have or want a man who wants to be a provider. If your partner doesn’t have a successful career, and you don’t care about that, then yes paying your own way is going to be a reality. As a feminist you should know about the wage gap. How much easier it is for men to become managers and directors and CEOs. Men are more likely to get small business loans. So if a successful, financially secure man doesn’t pick up the check, knowing he make…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:20 PM
4

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:05 PM
8

I agree except for extreme liberal feminists who are actually all about “paying their way”, meaning going Dutch on everything and never sharing a bank account (which I’m all for having a family amount and a personal account, but couples should do what they wanna do), sleeping with men with no commitment (which is just dangerous as far as physical safety and stds. Not like sleeping with a friend you know but sleeping with men from online dating that they haven’t vetted), and judging stay at home …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:00 PM
1

Societal pressure to conform to gender norms is definitely as prevalent as it is for women. Except the consequences can be more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:54 PM
11

I wouldn’t want to date a bisexual man, because in my experience bisexual men are even more promiscuous than straight men, and seem to only develop emotional attachments to one gender over the other. I’m not homophobic. You’re not a bad person just because you’re bisexual. I just don’t want to date a bisexual man. After years of dating men who were into perverse sex acts, and feeling pressure to conform to their porn ideals, I am only interested in passionate vanilla, heterosexually anatomically…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:18 PM
7

Losers with stds *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:57 PM
1

Leave the dude out of it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:05 AM
1

And you didn’t google.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 11:04 AM
2

Because seven feet isn’t easily accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:08 AM
1

You fucked at the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:07 AM
0

I like how you speak for all men and all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:03 AM
1

Generally, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:56 AM
0

Actually, it’s science that it does. Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:55 AM
-1

If you live “there”, why isn’t “there” “here” instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:47 AM
-2

Or that college age men prefer porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:46 AM
1

My needs don’t involve emotionless sex in which I treat my partner like an object. Lets see the link to your study. Is it peer reviewed? Is it fifty years old? Context, munchkin. If my preference for attractive, respectful, and gentlemanly confident men makes me a queen I’ll wear that crown. Your insults are all worn out, get some new ones. ETA: should someone active in the “dead bedrooms” sub be giving out dating advice and claiming they’re experts on women’s sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:42 AM
1

As a woman, with a high sex drive, who doesn’t sleep with anyone I’m not seeing exclusively, who misses sexual connection like hell, I’m going to call bull. Madonna whore complex much? I appreciate a handsome, tall, sexually and sensually blessed man as much as you appreciate, or maybe in this case, miss, t&a.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:42 AM
1

You get off on men’s orgasms. We get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:39 AM
1

Don’t be so logical. You’ll never find a man that way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:37 AM
4

Real love is a quirky indie movie with Kirsten Wig. And I’m okay with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:46 PM
6

Not trying to be argumentative, but most men hate women so much, if it wasn’t a gun it would be a knife or a ligature or cut break lines. I live alone and I was attacked on a walking trail. I live in an urban area. Even though I have a cane corso dog, Italian mastiff, I’ll probably always have something for home protection besides mace and a ring system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:41 PM
1

I dated a guy briefly just out of the marines. He was young and still getting his life together. I broke up with him on good terms, knowing he needed to do some personal growth and find out what he wanted, and what kind of life he wanted. Well, apparently I was the one who got away, although he didn’t say that, he did say he realized why I broke it off, and now that he has found himself away from other people’s expectations and cutting people out of his life who were toxic. And he said he never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:59 PM
2

Haha thanks. Wish they would have gotten a condom company account on the show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:44 PM
9

Maintaining a home is a full time job. Between grocery shopping, cleaning, laundry, meal planning, paying bills, preparing for important dates like buying a birthday gift or planning a vacation or weekend trip. Then add kids into the mix and that’s even more work. Pets, more work. Keeping everything super organized and tidy, more work. If a man expects a perfect home then he should expect to either have a stay at home wife or money for a maid or two, maybe a personal assistant as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:35 PM
6

I’ll have to check out that video. Little do they know the worst acting in porn is actually women’s orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:20 PM
24

And unattractive men, unattractive to the woman they’re pursuing anyway, beauty in the eye of the beholder and all of that, think that it shouldn’t matter what they look like and you should force yourself to be attracted just because they’re “nice”, have money, etc. meanwhile they wouldn’t ever date a woman that wasn’t attractive to them. They’re little league trying to pitch in MLB, screaming about how unfair the score is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:54 AM
7

I think domestic/child abuse factors in. Men blame their mothers for not leaving. Then grow to sympathize with their father or male figure later in life in denial. Or if their fathers weren’t abusive, but abused by their mothers, they have decided that’s not going to happen to them. They might resent their mothers for a myriad of reasons. They might have brothers or other family who were bad role models. It seems like men with sisters get it slightly more than those with only brothers or who are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:36 AM
2

Wasn’t his looks but his vibe. Very cold. I just saw a few episodes tho. I just didn’t find him charming. Right now really crushing on Kyle Gallner in Outsiders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:13 AM
10

I couldn’t date now if even if I wanted to. Between my demanding occupation, remodeling my house, taking care of aging parent, cleaning the house, taking care of pets, remembering to pay the bills, getting hair cuts and nails done to look “professional”, keeping up with landscaping... My cup is so empty. Ten minutes of nap time feels heavenly. And I don’t have kids or a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:35 AM
4

You could probably get a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:56 PM
2

My most successful relationship, people thought we were siblings because we were both tall and slender, and dressed in a similar way. Kinda creepy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:51 PM
1

HPV sucks. And should be talked about more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:46 PM
3

Yes! This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:44 PM
3

Micro abrasions! hpv warts have entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:40 PM
3

I’ve rarely had sex with a man who knew what he was doing. I’ve only had one good kisser. The guy I was with who was the best in bed couldn’t have sex often because of a surgery that went wrong. Not relevant really, but he passed away after we broke up. Really sad because he was a great person even though we weren’t really romantically compatible. Once you Date a man who doesn’t hate women, it’s really hard seeing it everywhere and experiencing it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:35 PM
7

Play stupid games win stupid prizes! This is my new line for scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:30 PM
2

He must really like ingrown hairs and yeast infections! No cotton undies either! Must be a stretchy thong flossing your ass all day, making you sweat and eventually turning into a UTI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:29 PM
11

The female developmental version of male porn consumption and behavior is watching titanic at 13 and then kissing your hand Jack and humping your pillow. Most men are emotionally and sexually stunted. I really don’t know why, though I have theories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:25 PM
4

Lets face it, most dudes are more drama than Danielle and make Teresa look super classy. Sorry, love NJ housewives. I love to hate watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:23 PM
5

Exactly. Unless it’s someone they never got intimate with, but in that case why aren’t you all collectively friends? Talking or hanging out alone... sketchy as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:19 PM
9

Supposed to share your life with someone trust them to move in together get married raise kids, be buried next to each other ... but GOD fOrbId YOu lOok aT hIs phOnE OmG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:40 PM
3

Haven’t watched outlander but the dude in discovery of witches makes me gag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:35 PM
17

Sorting through the trash trying to find a Gucci bag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:31 PM
17

An ex told me he swiped right on everyone on bumble, when I asked what about my profile he liked. Dumped him shortly after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:29 PM
56

He doesn’t hit her? Isn’t that the standard now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:25 PM
9

No I really don’t think men get a say if the woman they willingly impregnated gets an abortion. If God had wanted it any different... /s Not against religion, but when Christians use “everything happens for a reason” in regards to things like rape, illness, etc etc I rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:24 PM
32

People want to go to extremes and out 50 shades of grey their female friends, or brag to other dudes a gf or wife agreed to a threesome. Now you are a total prude if you don’t want aggressive sex, anal sex, or gagging in a myriad of ways. They try to defend it by saying “people have always done stuff like this” — but it’s not true. It’s the result of extreme hardcore torture porn being mainstreamed and compulsively viewed. Back in the day before the Internet a young boy might steal a playboy or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:18 PM
14

Okay does anyone besides her know her mom is dead? Like otherwise these people are sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:07 PM
3

😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:08 PM
3

It was all the rage in the past centuries.You know, when men weren’t addicted to teenagers in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:25 AM
2

Why am I not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:24 AM
15

Sometimes I wish I was a man just to be able to turn other dudes’ world upside down. And also beat them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:07 PM
10

I’ll be honest some men are ... creepy with their dogs. That’s all I have to say about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:57 PM
1

My cane corso is gonna grow up to be a huge asshole deterrent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:54 PM
3

Agreed. Watching Kyle Gallner on Outsiders is pretty much my version of sex these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:52 PM
12

Wtf ever happened to making a friend with someone before all the sexual innuendos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:51 PM
2

I’m pretty sure if Jesus was with Mary Mag he was a good lover. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m not Christian but if I was I’d think he was hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:50 PM
5

Not gonna edit that typo. Male ducks are jerks so they probably watch duck porn. 🦆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:23 PM
5

Ugh. I’m so sorry. I’ve had success with a product from Amazon and immune boosting foods and supplements. My doc said it was super common but most women don’t even notice because the bumps are so small. She told me not to shave until it resolved except bikini line. Since I stopped shaving OCD-like my health in that area is so much better. Just wash condition and trim ladies. I’m not a hypocrite because I’m not attracted to shaved pubes on a dude. Not a good look. Also ingrown hairs. There is a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:22 PM
18

Genital warts come from some job strains, and are horrid. They usually go away but still. And guess what? Shaving all your pubes makes you more at risk because — surprise surprise, we women have hair to protect us from germs. And the micro tears from shaving or waxing invite germs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:05 AM
2

Thank you sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:04 AM
9

Is it on Amazon!? I really want to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:05 PM
110

I’m pretty sure Jesus would not approve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:05 PM
19

I would have talked him into doing a makeover full drag style then walked away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:15 PM
27

What Lies Beneath. Great movie btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:14 PM
26

We’re brainwashed by our parents, society, Hollywood, medical professionals at times, yes even mental health professionals, marketing, our education ... it’s a miracle any of us ever woke up to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:11 PM
14

But god forbid anyone finds out how they treat you — gay man, female friend, family, male co worker — they will sext away with an ex or some random, but if you tell anyone what happens behind closed doors you’re the “emotional cheater” or the “attention whore”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:09 PM
8

I’ve honestly told someone when I was rock bottom abused emotionally that I’d rather be hit than gaslighted and made to feel worthless as a human. Then I was called even more pathetic because of what I said. I still stand by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:07 PM
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Not all men, but my biological father from the age of ? until I was eleven. I don’t even know when the abuse started because I was preverbal. Possibly from birth? Not all men but my bio fathers “friends” Not all men but my junior high vice principal who wouldn’t help girls getting bullied unless you came alone to his office so he could talk about his male stripper career in college Not all men, but the one who groomed me online on ICQ when I was 12 Not all men, but my first relationship in which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:01 PM
99

Ew. Ew. Slutty men are the worst. Absolutely disgusting. We need to be slut shaming these men who cheat and spread disease, not women who are raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:50 PM
83

That’s what happened to me. HPV is no joke and isn’t tested for on STD panels. Thankfully it clears up on its own for most women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:48 PM
6

It’s an awesome feeling!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:47 PM
13

That’s 100 potential abortions. Seems like the pro life people would address this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:27 AM
7

Just got an interview proposal for an executive position with a company that seems like a great fit for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:08 AM
118

I’m convinced a lot of them are repressing homosexual tendencies. Which is why they hate women. So maybe they’re not thinking about us at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:05 PM
46

Yep. Like eating a meal that was halfway decent at best and finding out the chef spit in it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:03 PM
11

I’ve been getting back into spice girls, haha. Loved them as a kid. Also, dresses, makeup, and taking care of my skin and hair. Not for men. For me. I no longer care if anyone thinks I’m high maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:03 PM
8

Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:45 PM
45

How can you be an adult or even teenager and not know how to cook, or grill?! I was helping my mom who worked full time cooking four courses by the age of 15, so she could relax and sit down to a proper meal. Honestly, not that hard. Steam some veggies, make a salad, throw some bread and an easy casserole in the oven. Bam. Younger men don’t even want to be “grill masters” anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:15 PM
57

Funny thing is it wasn’t even his turf. 😅 found out later he was sleeping on a friend’s couch, the friend who was “renting” the fancy house from you guessed it — mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:56 PM
14

Sorry, my mascara is Dior and I don’t waste money. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:51 PM
4

If he puts the lid down does he get boyfriend of the year?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:42 PM
52

Yep. This is how the “men” of our generation think they’re going to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:36 PM
10

“Making kids ugly”... This penis owner should not be working or volunteering with children ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:27 PM
200

“Cooking you dinner”... in other words, sex. He’s at least going to try for it, if it’s a first, second, or third date. Once had a guy cook me noodles with ragu and a salad that consisted of spinach from his garden and off brand dressing. 😕 Before my awakening I thought this was sweet. Now? Cringe. And yes he expected sex afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:05 PM
6

Besides looks, what is your motive?
/r/ExRedPill27/05/21 04:00 AM
3

If I ever have sex with a man again, he will go with me to get tested and pay for birth control. No exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:35 AM
5

This is Golden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:08 AM
121

God I hate being called cute. I’m 31. I look good. I have the body of Joan from madmen. Big boobs suck btw. My poor back. I’m a grown woman not a school girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:04 AM
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