UPDATE! I was banned. Last post was “stay safe” to a female who engaged in risky promiscuous sex.

UPDATE #2: Someone posted me to the red pill sub! Needless to say my inbox is comedy gold atm.

On a post on a subreddit about dating over a certain age, kink and other non-vanilla sex came up. I pointed out how risky some of these behaviors and sexual acts are, only to be met by comments by “pickme” women accusing me of kink shaming and not being sex positive. A mod even deleted a comment because I said, “a man expecting anal from a woman is emotionally damaging”. I also linked articles to how risky this type of sex is, only to be torn apart for using STD rather than STI as an acronym. Apparently it is “out of date”.

Now, I don’t want to blame these types of women for men’s horrendous treatment of women. However I feel these types of “feminists” make certain types of power dynamics sex acts, such as Dom/sub, Daddy/daughter, hardcore bondage and rough anal sex, hitting and slapping, something men are entirely entitled to and if a woman isn’t into that, he will push her boundaries, compare her to other women to pressure her, or dump her without explaining why — so she is left to feel she wasn’t good enough, without ever knowing it was a sick and exploitive behavior that she was strong enough to say no to.

It’s almost like women take pride in how much pain and humiliation they are willing to endure during sex. And much like pornstars once out of the business, only detoxing and expecting a healthy relationship emotionally and sexually will they realize how badly they’ve been treated.

I don’t even feel like trying to talk some sense into these women, they don’t view other women as sisters, comrades, together in the fight for equality and better treatment and respect. They view us as the enemy, the independent, high value female that doesn’t need a man, but wants a man, and not just any man. Is it because we make them feel the error of their entire dating history? Do they just automatically want to compete for male attention and accolades?

The toxicity of dating is going to require all of us women to step up and be accountable for our choices, and hold men to a standard. I just don’t see that happening unfortunately — which is why the strategies I’ve learned through you fabulous ladies I realize is exponentially important. Thank you 🙏 for being a healthy and safe environment for strong women who know their worth.