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Just be yourself. You can want to be more confident and carry certain qualities that will improve yourself. People who act "alpha" usually come off on the arrogant side of things. Be comfortable as yourself and your confidence will shine through. I also know some people though who are waaay to comfortable being themselves and its ugly.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:17 PM
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Sounds like you are in the same situation as me. Girls find me attractive but I don't know why. I'm average looking I guess but my personality is fucking awesome so I make a girl FEEL good which in turn makes me more attractive. My advice would be to just be yourself. I've always had a strong personality and I just "go for the things I want" and it works for me 90% of the time. I'm currently talking to a HB9 (I guess? I don't like this lingo) and she's really into me. I just simply went after he…
/r/seduction29/06/13 03:44 PM
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I agree. There's quite a bit of things people say to do on this site that I would never do.
/r/seduction28/06/13 02:09 AM
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"Go To The Type Of Places That Attract The Women You Want. * If you want to find the right woman for you, think about what kind of places she would go. * If you like ‘party girls’, start frequenting bars and nightclubs. * If you want to meet a classy, ‘business-like’ babe that likes to have fun, check out the trendy happy-hour spots in your town. * If you’re looking for the more ‘down to earth’ type, try taking some yoga classes. * If you do a bit of thinking, you’ll have no problem finding the …
/r/seduction27/06/13 03:53 AM
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Well that kinda thinking won't get you very far. Girls like guys who smile and look like they are enjoying themselves. NOT smiling and looking at them is creepier than to flash a quick smile with eye contact and for all you know it could make there day so why not? Plus you'll never know if you don't try!
/r/seduction26/06/13 08:34 PM
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I'd just talk to them as a friend. If you try for more chances are they will just get bored because you aren't acting on anything. If you keep them as a friend you have the chance later on of trying to make more happen or just having them as friends and social networking. I'd text maybe once a week.
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:39 AM
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That's a little unsettling. Haha. Weird thing was that it was my ex girlfriends midol she left when we moved out...it was unopened and everything so it kinda worked out.
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:33 AM
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You know what I found out a few days ago? Midol. I had a girl over and was told she can't do anything because of her monthly visitor and she had really bad cramps. Bam. She asked me why I had midol..."because I take care of my ladies" Her eyes lit up and it was ON.
/r/seduction26/06/13 03:12 AM
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It's simple. "Here’s my take on this whole subject: Women are playing out a role that hasn’t changed for thousands (or millions?) of years. These days the language and clothing are different. But it’s the same that it’s always been. There are many parts of human brains that create drives and desires for different things. Often, these drives conflict with each other. For instance, a woman might want a strong man in her life, but she might also want a feeling of independence. She might want to hav…
/r/seduction26/06/13 03:07 AM
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What are you wanting? A friendship or relationship?
/r/seduction26/06/13 03:02 AM
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Uh why?
/r/seduction26/06/13 03:00 AM
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Women love attention and they also love competition.
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:04 PM
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Non verbal communication. Dancing, body language, eye contact, and then grab her hand and lead her somewhere not so loud.
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:57 PM
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I Dono man. It's hard to say just off of words and not seeing how you act but your responses come off as way needy. You may not think you are projecting these emotions out there but remember how important body language is. You can be lonely and long for a woman but you still have to be a confident man. It's hard to explain without coming off as a dick. What materials have you been studying and how long have you been studying?
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:50 PM
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If someone wants you they will make time for you. This is a dramatic and over the top response but I feel it has a good message (especially the last line). http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1gthu5/reddit_what_does_your_all_time_most_upvoted/canryt8
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:42 PM
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You're getting invested way to early and they are bored. It sounds like you went from being a fun confident dude to a guy who wants a relationship in 3 dates. That's like going 100 mph and hitting a brick wall in a woman's eyes. What are your hobbies? What makes you fun? Never ever stop dating a girl even if you've been married for 45 years because at some point someone is going to get complacent and lose interest. It also sounds like you are jumping steps and not building yourself up. You can g…
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:25 AM
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My brother is 20 and dating a 27 year old. If you can't close then they are doing you the favor of not wasting your time. How old are you? Old enough to teach you a thing or two.
/r/seduction24/06/13 10:34 PM
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That's the risk you take with dating multiples. If you aren't seeing one exclusively then there isn't much they can do, but you take the risk of losing them all.
/r/seduction24/06/13 10:31 PM
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People also need to tailor certain things to themselves. It's not a one size fits all kinda deal.
/r/seduction24/06/13 06:54 PM
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Better than how I would have handled it. I would have just walked away.
/r/seduction24/06/13 06:50 PM
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David Deangelo. Very nice!
/r/seduction24/06/13 03:10 PM
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Are you following up after you get the numbers and if so how does it go? If you aren't following up then why not?
/r/seduction24/06/13 03:07 PM
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If you are continuously giving up things you enjoy for someone then you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction24/06/13 03:02 PM
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I don't like the whole idea of rapid escalation/kino right off the bat. If I'm getting a good vibe from the person then yeah I'll take a chance but I definitely won't just start touching someone for no reason but that's just me. It also sounds like you singled her out on the touching. Kino is supposed to be done on everyone.
/r/seduction24/06/13 02:41 PM
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I become their friend. It's a win-win. I either get a cool friend, if she's into me and I feel she is truly over her ex I may get a kickass girlfriend, or I get a friend who will introduce me to her friends. Social networking.
/r/seduction24/06/13 02:35 PM
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Maybe try somewhere with less pressure because to me you just came off nervous as fuck. Remember to slow down. If you have social anxiety that badly try talking to people in places like stores. You don't always have to be trying to pick up a girl.
/r/seduction24/06/13 02:32 PM
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I agree. You aren't creating attraction. You are creating jealousy and once they have your attention what is there to be jealous of?
/r/seduction24/06/13 02:23 PM
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Just keep doing some reading on here and pick and choose some concepts to tailor to yourself. I like the book "double your dating" by David Angelo. I've seen some posts on here about what to read up on and even though I don't agree with quite a few concepts on here it's all about what makes you ultimately feel the most comfortable and confident. If you're looking for advice I would wait a few days (3-4) to text her and use that time to study up on the area and find fun things to do. Just text we…
/r/seduction24/06/13 02:06 PM
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Sounds like you were pretty uptight about all of it and I'm sure that sent her the wrong vibe. It's a snowball effect. If it were me in that situation I would have got my order to go and changed locations. Walking away would have been able to get you closer to her and ease up some of the tension. Just my opinion though.
/r/seduction24/06/13 12:37 PM
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Walk away. If she thinks you're chump for that then she just did you a big favor by giving you a reason to walk away from her as well.
/r/seduction24/06/13 12:31 PM
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How is your body language and posture?
/r/seduction24/06/13 12:28 PM
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Avoid close ended questions or things that can be answered with a simple yes or no. You want things you can elaborate on. Like AR2thro said you want to make statements. A good piece of advice I read was that "it shouldn't be an interrogation"
/r/seduction24/06/13 12:24 PM
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In my experience you would be correct. "Not yet. You aren't ready yet" it's great at building sexual tension as you continue to send mismatched signals.
/r/seduction24/06/13 12:17 PM
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You cockblocked her. Nice!
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:22 AM
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YouTube Ted talks and you'll find quite a few good ones in there!
/r/seduction21/06/13 12:21 PM
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