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Fundamentals Connorrr5/r/seduction01/06/25 03:51 PM
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brother u rly need to correct this thinking. if a woman says no, and you keep persisting and trying to press harder for it.... that is pressuring into sex.... which is wrong. this isnt part of "game" which i think ur seeing it too much as. but pressing harder will make u seem unsafe then they wont wanna be around u anyway
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:00 PM
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i don't think u understood what i said lol. i see ur kinda confused w some other ppls comments too. when you say should you have, "pressed a little harder for sex" that is literally pressuring for sex lol. your own words. so yes, its good you didnt do that
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:56 PM
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I mean, she said no. So your only options of getting sex with her that night were to rape her or pressure her 😂 so no. You definitely made rhe right call. I rly wouldn't overthink it. Youll never know the reason why she didn't wanna have sex or why she blew u off. Could easilyyy be an external factor, just wasnt the one init
/r/seduction23/07/25 04:13 PM
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Yhh don't get too attached to these girls, just have fun
/r/seduction23/07/25 02:49 PM
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i think u replied to the wrong comment brother hahah
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:08 PM
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if ydk what that word means imma assume you speak a diff language, probably easier for u to google translate it. im struggling to think of how to describe it
/r/seduction19/07/25 09:35 PM
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Keep the interviewing to an absolute minimal, it's boring. "hows your day" "what u been upto" etc. Keep it light and fun. You're better off bein different n a lil quirky than normal and boring
/r/seduction10/07/25 09:39 PM
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ohhh ur talkin about texting. i was mainly talkin about in person tbh, texting is roughh
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:35 AM
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i just take the piss n try n have a laugh most of the time tbh. if shes laughin ur winnin
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:26 PM
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It just depends on u as a person rly. I just love havin a laugh, takin the piss n just being abit of a child rly and i do it out of nothin v often. Only time it slows down alot is if im on abit of a low. So its just whatever ur style is rly, it might be different than mine but u gotta keep that connection goin somehow. Doin hobbies together, talkin about shared interests, whatever it is for you. But those small talky type questions just arent enough imo edit: by hobbies i dont mind big ones u go…
/r/seduction06/07/25 06:34 PM
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i think its even simpler than that tbh. Actually flirt... don't just chat to her like you're tryna get to know her. Imo atleast half the time you talk to a girl you're interested it should be fun, teasing, sorta just havin a laugh n that. "hows your day" "what you upto" "goodmorning" and stuff like that spams are just ez ways to be boring and end up friendzoned
/r/seduction06/07/25 10:02 AM
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Na, don't over think it. If it ended as chill as u say and she didn't feel any spite bcoz she was emotionally attached or somethin, then ur all good. Most girls wont want u to explain anythin unless theyre emotionally attached. If it was super casual, its likely she started seein someone too within that 6 months anyway, ur all good man
/r/seduction05/07/25 07:13 PM
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ive been skint p much all my life n never struggled much w girls... i think moneys less important than ppl make out. its just like any other quality, it helps but it isnt the be all end all
/r/seduction05/07/25 08:48 AM
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i usually just ask what do they mainly use. gives them a chance to give you what theyre comfortable with then init, win win
/r/seduction17/06/25 11:08 PM
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for me flirting has always been more about how i look at someone and my tone of voice etc. that way anything can sound flirty rly. throw in a compliment or abit of teasing and your intent should be obvious to her then
/r/seduction17/06/25 11:06 PM
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its gunna be up to you to escalate. do it in small steps, but with confidence
/r/seduction14/06/25 05:31 PM
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yeh thats fair. i wouldve slept with alot more women if i also lied about it hahah
/r/seduction12/06/25 06:38 PM
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i mean i think the most important thing is to just have the intention talk early on. if youre set on no casual sex and you only want a relationship, you gotta say that. bcoz i cant speak for most men, but ive never lied about my intentions and just that would be enough to weed me out, just a simple conversation
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:48 PM
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yhh i kinda thought this, but in practise it always just ends up being toxic. its better to nip it in the bud as soon as one person wants more and the other person doesnt. bcoz that dynamic is just a breading ground for toxicity
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:41 PM
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yhh thats where i messed up with the last one i think... it lasted 8 months lol. wayyy too long for a situationship
/r/seduction12/06/25 04:11 PM
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yh i mean they did but that wasnt the reason i didnt wanna commit. all for diff reasons i just knew they wasnt my forever person, so i didnt wanna lie to any of them and give false promises
/r/seduction12/06/25 01:34 PM
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you dont, it just kinda happens. once you sleep with someone once, the door is wideee open to sleep with them again, especially if it was good. fwb rarely rly ends well tho, someone usually gets attached then it turns into a situationship
/r/seduction12/06/25 12:35 PM
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yes and no. each were slightly different, but i never lied to any of them or made any false promises. The brutal truth is that i liked them enough to see them and i enjoyed spending time with them, but i never saw them as a potential wife, so didnt want to commit. even tho i was honest with them about not wanting a relationship, it still is a shitty situation to put someone in. i learned my lesson with the last one tho since that got pretty bad, so gunna do my best to avoid these situations now …
/r/seduction12/06/25 12:32 PM
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Starts off casual, usually sleeping together. One person wants a real committed relationship, other one doesn't wanna commit but wants to keep seeing them I've been in about 4 of them lol
/r/seduction12/06/25 12:05 PM
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nahh what can't tell if this is satire hahah
/r/seduction07/06/25 01:28 PM
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"she's not good enough" sounds like projection imo. I think it's more ur lack of confidence and fear of rejection
/r/seduction06/06/25 11:56 AM
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looks like i'm one of the 1% then, whatre the odds
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:28 PM
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Mate im from a rough town in Northern England, we dont have random BBQs and picnics lmao, rly not apart of the culture. Parties yeh, went to alot for years, but not many in the last year or two since ive calmed down alot. Plus i only got out of a relationship literally like 1 week ago, girls do seem to like me whenever i get to know them. It's just being in a new town not knowin anyone, cold approach doesn't seem like a bad thing to give a crack. Saying there's something wrong with someones pers…
/r/seduction05/06/25 05:19 PM
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Newquay in Cornwall. I'm from up North tho so girls always seem to like my accent which i think should help me out abit. Yhh my main thing rn is just tryna get out there more and talk to ppl when there's the opportunity to. Bcoz usually idc for talking to strangers but i gotta get the reps in and see where it goes
/r/seduction05/06/25 10:42 AM
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hmmm yeh, u gotta switch the strat up man it doesnt sound very efficient hahah
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:44 PM
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damn fair, whats ur success rate like w this?
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:41 PM
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thats a crazy strat hahah. how do u even know what they look like? or is it friend of friend typa thing?
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:38 PM
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thats the issue tho. alot of guys don't meet women in their everyday life, if they are no longer in education and dont meet any at work. apps are terrible for most guys too. cold approach becomes a strong option then. I do understand what ur saying tho and im not some incel holding a grudge towards women, youve defo gotta be on ur guard when random men approach so thats fair play
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:35 PM
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sounds like it does, from what ppl have said. whats ur experience w it?
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:32 AM
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Ok good. So having the balls to start is the hardest part ig
/r/seduction01/06/25 09:56 PM
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Why would i need that lol
/r/seduction01/06/25 09:56 PM
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Arghh yh some woman are pretty brutal w that. Tbh tho, i think in practise it matters alot less than ppl claim. My ex was 5'4 and the two bf's she had before me were both around her height. I got some short mates who've been w more girls than i have and i'm 6'1. So honestly, i think if u improve the speaking thatll do more for you than magically growing 8 inches
/r/seduction01/06/25 09:55 PM
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Ohh nice. How much success have you had with it so far? Have your results improved over time with experiance?
/r/seduction01/06/25 09:01 PM
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thats fair enough mate hahah, why whats ur height and whats up w ur communication skills?
/r/seduction01/06/25 08:59 PM
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yhh, seems quite character building too... I've been quite lucky, had alot of girls kinda just fall onto my lap from luck and just being ok at talking, but ive always been too much of a pussy to actually just walk upto a girl i like n go for it. So finally gunna look to change that
/r/seduction01/06/25 08:11 PM
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yhh thats not a bad shout man
/r/seduction01/06/25 08:07 PM
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just walkin upto a girl you don't know in public and tryna get her number rly
/r/seduction01/06/25 08:07 PM
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Yh that sounds like the most normal way to do it tbf, i like the sound of that, cheers. What's your experience with it been like mate, how long u been doin it too?
/r/seduction01/06/25 08:06 PM
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Yh you're probably onto something tbf there. How would you normally start a convo like this?
/r/seduction01/06/25 06:09 PM
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Cant get a dog unfortunately haha
/r/seduction01/06/25 05:59 PM
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Funny how you say Aldi and Lidl actually bcoz my local is an Aldi and i thought about doing it there but worried it would be weird haha. Yhh gettin a smile first is probs a good idea. Last thing i want is to be seen as a weirdo in my local supermarket lol
/r/seduction01/06/25 05:57 PM
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Yeh you're probably right, just seems like one of those things u just gotta go for ig
/r/seduction01/06/25 05:54 PM
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Got it, i'm defo overthinking it with location then
/r/seduction01/06/25 04:20 PM
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Ooof yeh i imagine Brighton is a mint spot for it tbh mate. Ngl, i was gunna do abit of a version of what you said not to do hahah. Yeh you make a good point about having a proper convo so it leads to real dates, instead of tryna get quick pick ups. I'm not very confident in my abilities with that tbh, but yeh that's defo the way to go so i'll see what i can do. Why's the easiest path never the most rewarding hahah
/r/seduction01/06/25 04:19 PM
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Yeh mate i've read some posts about UK cold approaching in this subreddit already tbf and seen some mixed opinions. Everyone seems to agree London is the toughest place to do it in and as someone who's spent abit of time in London, i can fully see why lmao. But yeh i would agree that it's more normalised in America. Ngl i've never reallyyy done a cold approach. All my ex's and girls i've slept with have been friends of friends or tinder
/r/seduction01/06/25 04:03 PM
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