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ADVICEConscious-Air-9823/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 03:27 PM
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ADVICEConscious-Air-9823/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 03:34 PM
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ADVICEConscious-Air-9823/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 05:47 PM
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ADVICEConscious-Air-9823/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 07:16 PM
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Conscious-Air-9823/r/ExRedPill09/04/26 04:39 PM
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this is so hard for me. for example my partner gets like no PTO and doesn’t have the desire to travel. I have more PTO and my family wants to take a trip next year and he’s asking me not to go to save money (I’m not a spender and never have I been on an out of country trip). and I care about travel…it’s just hard.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/26 09:31 PM
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I feel a lot more feminine when I put on my cute apron and cook for some reason. It also makes me feel more connected to who I am. I’m half Ukrainian and recently made my first pirogies while also wearing a traditional braid. I rarely feel beautiful but did today. So I guess for me it’s a lot less how I look and more the energy I put out.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/26 12:43 AM
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I feel the same.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/26 06:19 PM
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hi genuine question why is it like traveling shallow? i’ve never been on the apps but what is wrong with this in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:27 AM
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thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 03:10 PM
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do you have a specific recommendation for the devine / dark feminine books?
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 03:21 AM
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i’m in therapy but it’s stagnant
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 03:21 AM
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thank you. I read a lot of red pill men content with negativity toward unmarried women and I think it really messed me up / made me lose perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/26 12:54 AM
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i’ve strangely been looking into this. i’ve heard of in office doctor treatments as well. did you find the impact to be long term?
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 08:04 PM
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I’m about to embark on the same path. Been putting off Europe for awhile waiting on my partner who doesn’t want to travel and finally decided i’m just going to do it!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 05:16 PM
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thank you I really needed this. I actually moved from NJ to the South and the thing about young marriages is true and it made me crash out a bit. All of the sudden everyone around me is married, but the divorce thing is true as well. This is inspirational!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 03:48 PM
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they use the “study” as a coverup. it’s really because they’re insecure in their bedroom on skills and worth they can’t compete with a past lover. they’re not bright enough to realize bedroom chemistry is that - chemistry - and can be improved but can’t be forced. everything is about manipulation and planning to them. they think they can force everything in life, but life doesn’t work that.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/26 04:05 AM
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you’re so wise! I was the eldest daughter and only had my sister so we both got bad advice. if I had a brother I could totally see my mom giving this advice, too. fortunately my mother never encouraged us to sleep around, actually the opposite - we were told to not date until we had a masters done, but that’s it. like all she cared about were our grades and careers, she never invested or taught us about friendships or relationships. and I find a career oriented life, vs balance, to be shallow. i…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 09:28 PM
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can I ask how come? sorry i’m being extra curious today
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 08:34 PM
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just so you know I wasn’t the one who downvoted this but i’m 28! it’s good you found someone while younger. I wasn’t raised that way and kept being told to hold off but I plan to raise my future daughters to prioritize marriage more :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 07:56 PM
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yea I get it. unfortunately a lot of modern women, and i’m not trying to sound pick me like, are really cringe especially on dating profiles after a toxic relationship. one of my relationships ended healthily and I never felt any negativity toward men. but I see some women bringing the I hate men attitude into dating and it makes the rest of us look bad…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 04:07 PM
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yes I am hoping you are my age lol :) congrats and good luck
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 04:05 PM
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for inspiration may I ask how old you were when you met him?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 03:34 PM
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what about the girls who got hurt but healed and still have a positive attitude? or is that another category
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/26 01:17 AM
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hi i’m so late to replying to this but the historical background on it was super interesting. I am one of those women who i’m fortunate enough to be in a healthy relationship with someone I met young, but had he not pursued me i’d probably be 28 and single. what’s interesting is I was raised religious but not super conservative. my mother took me to two talks for young women on only being with one man and your virginity being special. but I never was given any education on the leverage for women…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 11:50 PM
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Just want to point out I and my best friend (how we became friends) grew up in a traumatic two parent household. Neither were conservative or traditional though. My parents nor hers respected eachother. My parents never divorced but my mom caused severe severe damage to my self esteem that impacts us to this day, would leave randomly, etc… I don’t love this narrative because trauma happens pretty often in two parent households. But those are more than often lacking mutual respect between the par…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 10:06 PM
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I live in a city i’m not single but I get approached and there’s tons of men that I could if I wanted to strike a convo up with, you need to move somewhere with mostly people your age. not saying don’t date older or younger but I used to live in the suburbs and think dating was bleak because everyone was married.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 10:01 PM
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I didn’t do my hair or makeup until like 27. It’s so crazy. I was always pretty but wow if I did my hair!! I wonder why i didn’t lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 09:57 PM
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isn’t this date based on swipes on data apps which at the time of testing were mostly 20s anyways? not saying i don’t agree though
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 09:53 PM
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did you have prior relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 09:52 PM
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I agree! I am the one who stayed and I wish sometimes I experienced life more
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 02:29 PM
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also I think there’s still time to find someone you really love. now me i’m 28 so it’s different for me. but you’re 22 and i’m telling you I remember feeling old at 22, then at 23 and so on…but looking back 25/26 I looked amazing. that was my prime. you can 100% still land almost any guy you want at those ages IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 02:20 PM
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I do regret it sometimes yes. But I need to think on this more. I still get hit on and attraction from hotter men who are exactly my type and sometimes wish the opportunity was there, but who’s to say they are good people? idk. I also sometimes find older men attractive but I think we are socialized and sometimes kind of even told to? when truly I think most people men and women are in their prime physical attractiveness in their 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 02:14 PM
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may I ask your ages when you met?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/26 02:10 PM
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I needed this when I was younger. my mom told me I was being shallow for wanting a hot guy and I listened. idk why I was shamed for it!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 12:17 PM
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yes it is bizarre so I didn’t think that had to be said. using bullying here without asking for context is a real leap and just mean tbh. we have talked about this many times before but I let it go as I told him I wanted to settle in first
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 11:47 AM
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yes I want kids and realized only recently I wanted many but 1-2 even would make me happy
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/26 03:38 AM
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I have not shared a timeline with him. I think that’s all I can do :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 08:47 PM
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do I give him a timeline? I’d really like to be engaged before summer (we have many weddings)
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 08:45 PM
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thank you! I do want to marry him, of course there are things I could change about him but nothing big and I have my issues as well. and we have talked about it many times before so it’s not new. He said he was waiting until I said I was comfortable here. I didn’t want to get engaged until I knew I could live in this state somewhat happily and that we were good living together. I think i’ll start with what you said. I def have a habit of trying to twist words to benefit myself…I will listen clos…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 06:13 PM
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that’s so good! i never got to go on a first date as I met and committed very young but i love your attitude!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/26 05:55 PM
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I agree with this my partner’s younger sister is 23 years old and she met her first partner through intermural sports college and her second partner when she did this English teaching program abroad in both of these situations you met people naturally and she became friends with them first. OP I am warning you now that these situations where you naturally meet people besides bars will really dwindle the older and older you get sure there’s clubs and stuff but a lot of times that interest I have …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/26 04:07 PM
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I would suggest you leave. I deleted my post about this, but I’m 28 and I stayed in a relationship with someone that I did not find attractive and I really regret it. I got horrible advice for my mother who basically said that it’s fine to have crushes in a relationship and that you don’t really need chemistry but honestly, you deserve to have chemistry in relationship. You should want to jump the bones of the person you’re dating not force it. I also want to acknowledge your fear because I reme…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/26 04:03 PM
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thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/26 04:01 PM
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because i thought its youth > attractiveness
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/26 02:48 PM
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i will look into this thank you
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/26 02:47 PM
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so do a lot of people marry without maybe a true love but compatibility? that’s so sad to me :,(
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 11:42 PM
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Thank you so much for your message. I am honestly struggling so hard. I’ve been in therapy for three years in CBT to be exact and I feel so aware that my self-esteem is so low, but I struggle immensely with being able to fix it. I’ll answer your questions to start. Career: have a bachelors degree in economics and I work as a remote project manager at a pharmaceutical/life sciences company. I really struggle with being a project manager because I’m very shy and have low self-esteem so it’s hard f…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/26 08:57 PM
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that’s true lol. everyone’s single grandma or grandpa has a partner
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/26 05:39 PM
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this is so inspiring thank you
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/26 11:36 PM
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I will try to be my best self around him and see how things change. The thing with the attraction is I’m not sure if I ever really did. I came from a bad home and he was my exit route and I found him attractive enough so I could get there but we started dating so young I didn’t actively start dating him to get out of my situation. It was more subconsciously. I think I just wanted to feel loved. But still, he is decent.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/26 11:34 PM
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thank you. however won’t my long term relationship drive most men away? don’t most men want a “clean slate” (this is my only relationship and SP however)
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/26 11:31 PM
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I’m not sure what pill I am but I am in a long-term relationship in my late 20s so I am not one of these women, but I do feel like the phenomenon she’s talking about holds truth. While I think there’s good women and men truly in any age group (because you never know people‘s life circumstances), I have noticed that from my friend group and from my high school/college that a lot of the most stable and grounded people (mentally, career wise, and in general) who came from good families were locked …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 11:30 PM
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she’s saying the majority of the best ones meet guys their own age and settle down and it’s true. the prettiest and most stable women I know are with men close to their age. often they met in high school or college. i have been in one and i am not anti age gap, i’m my 20s, this is just something I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:18 PM
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I know someone personally who is treated this way and feel envious of them unfortunately. I will take your advice, but may I ask how this is on par with a RP relationship? I thought RP men were supposed to be more traditional with the man planning dates and being romantic? I am not saying I can’t get past this, but if I have to initiate everything how do I feel like he loves me? Does your husband not plan dates for you ever? We have plans to go ring shopping when he returns from his business tri…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/26 03:15 AM
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omg this is my partner and I reversed. except he’s only interested in domestic travel. I have to basically force him to want to see other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:27 PM
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thank you I am sharing this with my long term partner. he doesn’t see the value in travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:23 PM
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how can we improve on that? I make my partner bread and also made him socks. or do you mean taking him on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:21 PM
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are they funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:14 PM
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I agree with you. My women friends who are the most mentally stable and pretty and came from good families settled down in mid twenties with guys their age or very close. most women irl who I know who have a big age gap relationship are not stable in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:10 PM
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masculine men with long hair >>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:53 PM
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how old were you both when you met?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:41 PM
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you just described me. i am in the hopeless phase. i was never a party or career women though, one long relationship. it’s honestly very hard to “breathe” and feel good that I found this community when I feel like I found it too late. had I’d even known what SMV or red pill was way earlier on, and wasn’t raised so liberal, I could’ve had a life and partner so different :,( it’s hard to hold myself fully accountable for staying so long when I didn’t have a good foundation in life to begin with. s…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 10:31 PM
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thank you and also my reminder that even if I found this community sooner I might have still been looking
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 10:29 PM
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thank you I appreciate a man’s comment here. I don’t think I look 21, I usually get 25.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 10:28 PM
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A decent amount but mainly he’s extremely passive, and a growing lack of attraction that I don’t think was ever there. I know it sounds shallow but I wish I was attracted to him and really wanted him physically! Overall, I constantly feel like second priority to my partner. We have roommate syndrome and despite me bringing up the improvements I wanted to see - I asked for a planned date night every other month (because once a month he couldn’t do so I asked again and went down in frequency even …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 07:57 PM
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you’re so lucky to find this community at 19. I found it way too late IMO. rooting for you to find a wonderful man you really love.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/26 05:19 AM
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yea it doesn’t seem very organic to me but maybe she brought up sexual stuff first? She doesn’t seem like she would though but idk her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/26 03:59 PM
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his hand comment was weird and why is no one commenting about how weird him volunteering that he never gets himself off is? he poses that as a way to get you to see it as a challenge and do sexual stuff with him
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 04:55 PM
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did you have to be a second wife? if you don’t mind me asking. i’m having trouble coping with that thought.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/26 04:50 PM
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oh I did. I begged him to not take the job. He refused even when I begged. he said getting more money was how he’d support us later on. he also said he was going no matter what.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 10:04 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/gzjccw/24_to_30_is_the_golden_window_of_finding_a_hvm/
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 10:02 PM
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in one of the sidebar links it basically said if you didn’t get married in your twenties you can still get married but not to a HVM. so it feels over, but idk if I truly believe this. is this true?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 10:01 PM
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i’m not passive with how I care for people I love though
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 01:07 AM
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my view of men isn’t negative as in there’s probably many men I would date, but why would they want me over someone younger
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 12:19 AM
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because this sub is constantly saying men just want 20 something women and i’m getting close to my 20s ending
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/26 12:18 AM
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it’s hard to say because at 25 I thought I had endless time and that I didn’t need to get married
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 08:01 PM
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i’ve met some but only out and about because of course i’d never date while committed
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 08:01 PM
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A lot. I only recently learned about how I didn’t handle this relationship right and how I should’ve withheld a lot. I am a great cook, keep the house clean, do our laundry, try to lift him up, sex etc. I stay fit and take care of myself. He pays more of our bills so I felt comfortable doing this, he still will cook a lot but I do most of the household work. Honestly it was partly him and partly me. He wanted to get married right when we got to Texas but I was scared and asked to wait until we l…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 05:34 PM
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Fear. Lack of family (minus my sister who cannot emotionally support me either) and fear. Unfortunately it took me until 28 to become strong enough to even consider being alone.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 05:19 PM
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So is it best to try to find a way to be happy with him? I do feel like most men will not want to date me due to being in a 10 year relationship. He said he plans to propose but you know how that goes.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 05:18 PM
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not anymore. now we are in our own place but in a new state. however…I hear you lol
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 05:16 PM
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guys can have multiple kids but older sperm is linked to autism and other disabilities now
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 03:24 PM
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even if it’s like a 30 year old woman being pursued by a 40 year old man? won’t the age difference still be hot for them?
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/26 03:23 PM
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should I read this book if I am unsure about my partner? my biggest issue right now is I don’t want to have sex with my partner anymore. I’ve just lost all attraction to him. I don’t think I was ever attracted to him. I feel horrible because he’s a nice guy, but I don’t know how I can go on having to have sex with him
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:53 PM
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I know I’m late to this, but just echoing what other people say just because a woman is in corporate or nursing or whatever and seems really serious about her career. Doesn’t mean she is check out my last post in here. For example I work in corporate project management and I hate my job so I’d probably come off as serious about careers to you. Also, just know that you being able to transition into a chill more relaxed job is a privilege. Again, refer to my post but finding a job that allows you …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:41 PM
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just warning you if you want kids that data is showing that men over 35 that their sperm is more likely to result in children with autism. It’s not always a bad thing, but I’m trying to stick to guys in their early 30s to mid 30s max if I can.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:39 PM
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thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:30 PM
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I tried to break into program management when I first started now that I have two years under my belt do you have any advice on how I can break into this? I would much prefer to work in the education sector or for nonprofit I applied to a lot of colleges, but I had no luck before I started. I work in corporate Pharma and it’s just a lot for me. I am not saying your job is not stressful, but there’s no at least in my view meaningful outcome from my job.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:29 PM
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I don’t know if declining at my job is really an option, I can try but it might raise red flags.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:28 PM
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thank you! I have about 40k saved now and contribute to a 401k and roth. I’m not at a position where I can max them out but i’m trying to!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/26 07:27 PM
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you and your husband sound like have had a great relationship and it’s clear he wants you to be happy! this is encouraging :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 08:36 PM
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no but it seems like that’s almost all men though…as badly as I want to reframe my thoughts to think its not, I think I’m just in circles that think this way. unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 02:09 AM
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thank you. I guess I was thinking a helping field like BCBA because most men I made in real life seem to actually want their wife to work a little bit and with this I would be able to make good money but work part time. however, what would you advise my best course of action be? I can’t stop working full time due to unfortunately supporting myself. I have feminine hobbies so that’s checked off. I was considering pivoting to project management in a non profit field?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:55 AM
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I agree but I feel like I might just be accepting reality. Men around me seem intimidated by successful women and I want to be married so badly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:53 AM
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this man that I was dating, who I did not end up liking was always saying when new woman would come around to the house back in college that they should send me out to talk to them, and I never realized how much he probably liked this quality about me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:21 AM
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i’d love to hear about what you do!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:14 AM
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would you mind me asking do you work or does he support you? for my own research. I’d love to give more but just with keeping the house clean and making dinner while working full-time I’m so burnt out.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 01:13 AM
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Tbh I don’t think it’s always this. Some woman want to spend a lot of time with their SO, and a super busy man can’t do that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 11:02 PM
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can you explain in what ways they are picky?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 11:00 PM
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ages when you met if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/25 10:56 PM
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It’s possible. Or I’m unhappy and looking for an out. I can’t tell.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 06:38 PM
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I’m honestly not sure how to move past this
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 06:06 PM
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Please don’t blame yourself. I am in a similar place. I didn’t know I was submissive and wanted a traditional marriage and life until recently (27F), I absolutely hate working in corporate but I figure that out months into my corporate job. I have a friend who knows she hated working since right out of college and always only dated rich men. I judged her for being anti feminine. Now I’m looking back like ugh!!! How did I fall for these lies.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 03:48 PM
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This is true. But I think the bigger issue lies he doesn’t want to provide financially like a traditional man. He did say I could work part time once we have kids so that’s a compromise. I can be very very stubborn and I’m working on that but it’s hard for me also to find him traditional when he doesn’t support SAHM lifestyle
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 03:47 PM
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We have an extremely messy relationship unfortunately. Great some days bad others. Now he’s saying he does want to get engaged and wants to propose on one of our next two trips. But I know how dumb I sound lol. Just really hard to make a decision for me right now even though it shouldn’t be. I’m so used to men disappointing me it’s hard to imagine I can get better when he’s not all bad
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 03:45 PM
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Men not going to the gym and being physically disciplined makes me upset lol. And I am so I feel fine saying this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/25 03:43 PM
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Aw :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/25 08:25 PM
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Thank you :) just processing it all and trying to make a decision within a month on how to move forward
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/25 01:46 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/25 01:45 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 08:46 PM
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I was reading here that for a man to fall in love they need their protector role triggered, I’m not sure how true that is though. I fear that with a stable job I wouldn’t be “in need” of protecting. But I’m also small and relatively soft / quiet person overall, so I’m sure it’s more than that
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 08:46 PM
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You’re right. I still have time but I struggle with radical acceptance
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 08:45 PM
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How do you keep your hair consistently styled? Do you have a Dyson? I have long hair but it’s never styled and I feel gross.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 08:44 PM
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What does protector role mean / how can I tell if that is my man
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 07:19 PM
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How do you balance this and the fear that if you do this he won’t make you a wife because you’re doing wifey stuff anyways?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 07:09 PM
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This post honestly adds to my thoughts of ending my current relationship (we just got back together after a break). I am undecided now, but I used to want to leave my job and go back to school (minimal loans, and I already paid off my other loans) he said no because we need to save for a house. Until I saw your post I felt wrong for being sad he wouldn’t put my happiness first. I’d still be working, but making less.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 07:03 PM
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Cries in remote work
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 07:00 PM
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Thank you :) I needed to hear that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 06:40 PM
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Thank you. I needed this affirmation. I’ve met a lot of toxic men who do want a project / woman who needs to be saved and worry that that is a hive mind.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 06:38 PM
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That’s nice and all but what about us who want kids? It’s a genuine concern. You can have kids at 39 but I would not prefer to.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 06:34 PM
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Hi what is SMV? I’m new here
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 06:32 PM
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I like this idea! I do vent about my job a lot to family so I need to be careful that I don’t bring that into a relationship
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 04:04 PM
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27F. Yea but I think it was more because I have years of abuse and trauma. I’ve been “independent” since I was a kid, I was my mentally ill mothers caretaker, my sisters mother, my father’s therapist. I just want to be taken care of.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 03:31 PM
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Serious question for me and others: How can I / are you supposed to be feminine if you are simply surviving as needed? I’m so serious. For example, I would love to be a SAHM some day, and I hate working. But on the outside I come off as masculine, simply because my parents split up and live with their lovers, I now need to live on my own so I HAVE to work and pay my own bills. I’m also in a corporate analyst role which isn’t really masculine or feminine and I’d actually love a more feminine role…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 06:41 PM
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