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| 4 | Do girls not like nice guys at all?nice guys are not nice. "Real" nice guys are called "golden retrievers". Rare in nature, and if cute, settled early. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How to approach the desire for a threesome without pressuring my girlfriend?General advice, you "experiment" with women you don't want to see long term. | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Need help- 45 year old in Zagreb, Croatia with limited options.Try self reflecting as a women. Some "creepy, old, sex pat", is hitting on you at a night club, and you are 20yr woman. It is a planet size "ick". What day game at 45? What type of successful 45yr would ever do day game or go to night clubs? They run successful businesses, they have not time for clownery, they are busy all the time, and they meet women through work / friends / social events. Old men don't chase women, it makes no sense. If you want long term relationship, you need to act as a me… | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 08:53 PM |
| 0 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?I'm already getting a reputation in my hometown Chill up, Stud. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Drink/alcohol of choice?Beer - smell plus bathroom trips. Wine - blue lips. Hard liquor you can get hammer quick. Cocktails, tricky, you can miss calculate amount of booze you consume. Personally, 2-3 drinks max, if you have to. Otherwise don't touch the liquid poison. P.S. Recovering alcoholic. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 02:33 PM |
| 19 | Do any of you guys use explicit sexual texts/convo with women you’re talking to? How does it work for you?Can you make women horny with text only? Yes, absolutely. Women in the past used to fall in love, via letters. Imagine waiting months for a single letter from your special person. Main audience of smut literature are women. It is porn for women. How to actually do it, is the hard part. To pull this off, you have to be well read. First, go read at least couple of smut books for women. 50 Shards of Grey, Twilight series, Fourth Wing, or new BookTok (I think it is a genre) stuff. It is not my cup o… | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Are girls finding me attractive? ( Read description )I feel you as I have been in your shoes, from invisible to visible. Next step for you is to learn to to "return the favor", and flirt back. Ah, you can devolve back to being invisible, so keep training and diet. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 10:02 AM |
| 7 | Are girls finding me attractive? ( Read description )Women can use deception to get something from you. "You are so interesting, strong, smart, now do this for me" Your instance sounds as just casual, flirty banter. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 09:43 AM |
| -1 | Is There Anyway Back From This or Am I Cooked?Oh yeah, he "acted as a turkey" and got "cooked". | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Need some helpHow to get what to work? You want something for nothing. The only way to do it is via deception or violence. Either exchange different services of the same value or scam the other person it for free. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How would *you* approach this?Toward the last few minutes of our conversation he slightly brushed my hair to the side when he noticed the necklace and asked about it. I was taken aback (he did it gently and it was in context) and he then showed me his wrist tattoo that had the same symbol as my necklace. Part of me thinks he just got excited that we shared the same sign and genuinely likes astrology. Not sure about "genuinely likes astrology". Just sounds like something I would lie about. But so far so good. You can all sort… | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | From the Natural to nobody. Can’t figure out what changed.Walking down the street girls used to glance at me, sometimes even with boyfriends and that gave me a huge ego boost. I was often spinning multiple plates, but for the past few years girls avoid eye contact with me. When walking down the street they often purposely look elsewhere, and even in social gatherings never seem to be interested in more than a few words. The only people that show interest right now are fat chicks and gay dudes(too often). Sounds like you are/were attractive and confiden… | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatchedMate, you were playing her game called "Dance for me to get sex". First rule of the Game, play games you control. In other words, you need to add more things to the game, to make it yours, or play your own game inside a game. She wants sex, good for her. But want do you want except sex, in return. So framing like "Empty stomach, empty heart (balls)". Now your framing could be "food for sex". Now relationship is like haggling. Point of dodging is to wait for opportunity to strike. She keeps her h… | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 10:46 AM |
| 1 | She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatchedI laughed and said oh that's why the fake pic, what's the catch? It was a bad call. She was playing with you, and you pull the rug under the table. If she is playing, play as well. Mirror. Better wording in my opinion would be "You know what you want, you are very confident woman" (empty flattery), or "I like a bit of mystery". | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Having a empty mindTips? Dating is a game, and you treat it like it is a corporate job. Think about it, it is a chess. You want to play with fun people, who don't take the game too seriously, they don't cheat, and they are "good sport". People who play couple of games at the same time, don't sweat about loosing. Think about the nature of a word "player". Right now, you sound like a nerdy guy who is trying to win at all costs, while other players want to just have fun. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Having a empty mindWhile talking to women I sound needy or creepy and I'm not just able to come up with topics to talk about or flirt around with. My mind goes blank trying to come up with something witty to say which wasn't the case earlier. Sounds like you are "tryharding". General attitude for seduction should be lighthearted, gentle and fun. You are not at a satirical show, or a comedy club. You do need to work on your self esteem. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Need some helpI think she's cute and would definitely hook up with her, but she doesn't seem interested in actually hooking up. You confuse your goals and hers. She might be interested in relationship, if I understand you correctly. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | What made your success transition in seduction ?You are too kind to me friend, I can't take credit for developing the frame, as it is natural. Apparently, I flirt with men as well, I told my mechanic recently that "I will be honest, I know little on the matter, You are expert, what advice can you give me? He gave me this look, like I choose some hidden dialogue option from the menu. And he answered "As an expert I recommend this". It felt as he was waiting to say this, for God knows how long. I would distill your advice to : "just focus". I l… | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 12:28 AM |
| 9 | I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to winBut the most important thing is to do the damn thing. There's plenty of resources on the sub and the internet (hell, I even built a game for you) but if you just consume it, nothing will change. You don't actually need to pass stress-test. Humans are not deterministic binary(engage or not engage), if there is two options, there probably is a third one as well. Changing the topic is one way to do it, you can also answer with your own question, or pretend you didn't hear it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating- people in our everyday lifeHey mate, start to chit chatting with a person, and check vibe and body language. The point of chit chat is a safe way to to dig a big deeper. I would start telling short stories, as hooks, or give "personal" comments about my experience / life / emotions. For example, "Oh, the coffee is very strong, my father would love this coffee". It is a hook, you tell a person you have a father and he likes strong coffee. If person take the hook, you have topic of conversation, if she doesn't you move on. … | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating- people in our everyday lifeI don't get the type of advice you are looking for? | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Will she lose attraction if I confess my feelings?You are overthinking it all. Just ask her on a romantic date, normally I would say be more subtle, but your window is tight. If no, than no. If yes than start proper seduction. Your angle should be "I started to feel something, and I want to explore it a bit more", or "Sometimes space apart can give perspective". Don't unload your massive crush on her. Be subtle. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 12:33 PM |
| 13 | Will she lose attraction if I confess my feelings?I came to her for advice on a girl l'm seeing as l've always done, and I could see she was quite upset by it. Overnight she turns cold and I try to ask her to hangout but begins to put up excuses. I've always wanted a relationship with her Confessing your feelings is always terrible move, obviously don't do it. You are not in romantic movie. You are on a timer, you have to be quick. Contact her and ask her to hangout (hidden date). And start seducing, just don't call her a "friend", it is being … | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 11:58 AM |
| 5 | How do you talk romantically?They are dating and have "serious conversations". It is a different game. She told him, be more "romantic". If he starts says "I love your ass", or "you give amazing bj", relationship is going to be over quick. Again, what you say don't matter as long as you share emotion. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 11:30 AM |
| 4 | How do you talk romantically?It is called flirting. "You lips are sweet as honey, you skin is soft as silk." It is not what you are saying, but emotion you add to it. So instead of "I love you", you can try "being with you feels like a warm summer morning, when I was a kid...(and a story from you childhood)". | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | What phrase did you utter just before making out with someone?Need to know the exact wordings you used to seduce someone It doesn't work like that. You are in the moment, and you have to follow current vibe. If you are doing everything right, what you are saying is irrelevant. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text?Defensive route is valid, or just say "continue...". To give some reasonable deniability. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 07:10 PM |
| 11 | How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text?She could be fishing attention, you have to check the temperature. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 07:07 PM |
| 77 | How does one respond to a girl saying “I am feeling horny” in text?"show me". If she does, you might get some media, if not, you are going to call her bluff. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Be yourself..be yourself It means be the best version of yourself. Same as always, you have to read between the lines. | /r/seduction | 14/03/25 09:52 AM |
| 4 | What made your success transition in seduction ?I call it focusing. Like meditation, but you have to actively concentrate on your eyes, instead of your breathing, on person in front of you. Very hard to remember actually doing it, it is like keeping your back straight. Try right now, look around your table. Check with your eyes every object. Glare, style, color, shadow. Check every. single. detail. Usually, I can't do it during active conversation, so other person must talk. Not really a problem as a guy, as you want the woman to fill 70% of … | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 07:15 PM |
| 5 | What made your success transition in seduction ?I am usually automatic, swimming in my own mind. Often I would be on a date, and by the end, I would be like what we were talking about for hours? Usually literally nothing. Imagine going on a date, and talking about nothing for hours. I am learning to be in the moment, which mean paying attention, listening with my ears, being present. | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 02:11 PM |
| 2 | What made your success transition in seduction ?Oh no, it was some bs, I was just frustrated that I had to do it in person. Most of my seduction happens accidentally. I can tell you so many stories. For example, was doing medical check, in January. Late twenties therapist (family doctor). We are doing check up, then something-something, we are talking about synthetic eyes. I joke they will be subscription based, pay 10$ to see, she jokes "No, they will have ads for sure". I tell her, "Oh yeah, unskipable porn ads, you will have to close pop-u… | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 01:54 PM |
| 23 | What made your success transition in seduction ?Maturing and self reflection. I learned how to be good at talking before puberty, as a way to defend myself against bullies. I would give sticky nicknames, point insecurities, mock and manipulate. Now, having a quick thought, I think I was different kind of bully. Then, after puberty, I didn't actually need any of it. Getting dates as tall, [redacted] guy that play sports is not hard, so I forgot about it. So anyway, it took me a decade to figure out that seduction is actually a skill. Then self… | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 11:12 AM |
| 7 | 36F - The Art of Teasing...jiggle, so she can hear all the spare change. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 08:46 PM |
| 38 | This is how to respond to the classic shit-test: What makes you special and why should someone date you”I would try parring instead of answering. For example "Dating? We just met!". Or "Someone? Don't degrade yourself like this, I think you are special" Correct answer is usually in the question / statement provided. Being funny won't get you laid, you need to be shrewd. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 08:36 PM |
| 22 | 36F - The Art of TeasingOpening the wallet. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:51 PM |
| 0 | “Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stopAggressive, watch out for systemic fatigue. Make sure to have at least some rest days. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 08:42 PM |
| 3 | “Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stopTrue but I mean "men" across the population. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 07:50 PM |
| 0 | “Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stopAfter I reach my goal I plan on working glutes You can lose weight and exercise. Increase in hunger is usually, related to doing cardio. Resistance exercise, should be fine. If you have caloric deficit, you will speed up the process. Not much, but -100 / -200 calc per session adds up quickly. Check also pelvic muscle exercises. Glute Bridge, Plank, Kegel, Squats. Increases blood circulation to genitalia, faster to reach orgasm, and general tightness (For women, effects for men are stamina, and b… | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 07:48 PM |
| 6 | “Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stopMy BMI is 22, trying to get between 20-21 Careful there pal. Men want women curvier than women think men do. Same as women want men less muscular then men think women do. We have our own misconceptions that we are projecting on each other. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How do answer this question: what would I get after we have amazing sex tonight?"my eternal adoration". (Some form of meaningless flattery) Don't delude everything to sex, keep seduction angle running. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Help a black man out in Europe!!If you need more info, feel free to ask. And be careful. It is a different kind of zoo, that you used to. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Help a black man out in Europe!!5'8", ~(176cm) black American man uncommon amount of women attention It is not 1990s, pal. Being American was awesome, now it is okay. Target France, Germany, Sweden / Norway. Dutch are very tall, Spain / Italy (racists). Eastern Europe / Central / Balkans (your funeral). | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 01:13 PM |
| – | Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other WomenWomen are passive. Women are active participants of the sexual marketplace, same as men. Yes, price for sex dropped from "sex = marriage", to single date. Men complain that they cant have sex for free, women complain that no one wants to marry 35yr+, unattractive women who is ready to settle. Everyone is trying to haggle each other for better value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Looking for resources to study body languageWatch dating shows. Books on body language are okay, but most experience would be from perception | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I mention interest with other girls as a tactic of seduction?Interest, absolutely no. Talking about female friends, sure, as long as you frame it as platonic and vague. Do it rarely, and where it make sense. Preselection works, but you need to be careful. | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 10:36 AM |
| 0 | To have is to oweThink about it like a market, sexual market. Individual sellers and buying interact in real time. Men buy sex and sell commitment (investment), women sell sex and buy commitment(investment). Commitment is current and future resources / time / energy expenditure of a particular man. Prices are dependent on sexual market value (SMV) of each individual. Good looking women can sell sex very high, and buy investment low. Same happens with good looking men. SMV is dynamic, women SMV drops with age, me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 11:16 PM |
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