| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Feeling down | ConsistentPromise156 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 01:09 PM | |
| 7 | Planning for the future | ConsistentPromise156 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/23 07:14 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Uncontested divorceWrong mindset. You should not really care what she says or does. Seems op has no children. Why would they want to spend half a day getting ready for court and going to court. Thats wasting your time for something/someone who you really should not care what they say or do. You dont need to prove her anything, not even that you are doing fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/24 06:38 AM |
| 4 | Ex is getting the gabb watch for my daughterThis. No need to come up with anything. Let her know that there will be no watches with GPS while daughter is with you. No ifs and buts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Just dropped my 4 year old son off. I thought this would get easierHad similar experience last week. Daughter was turning 2 yo. I have 80/20 custody. Ex usually has her 2 weekends a month, but wanted to have her for the birthday. Now she usually picks her up on kindergarden in friday, and brings her in kindergarden in monday, so not a lot of contact between us. But daughter had chickenpox and I was staying home with her, so I had to meet with ex in a public space. As soon as daughter saw her mother, daughter started crying and saying I want dad. She was not eve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 08:39 AM |
| 5 | Heavy assumption wife is cheating need help to prove it.do a facebook reset password, enter the number, if they have an account with that number, it will show the name. no need to send the password reset link | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m so down right now.Take your stories to private. No need to loose sleep over it. Ex was doing the same, I just blocked her completely, except whatsapp comms (written only) regarding to our daughter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Want divorce, wife breadwinner, what should I know?well its not his. its hers. he wants the divorce. if hypotetically she would go for half of whats his, does not mean that its the right thing to do to go after half of whats hers. 2 bad things dont make a good one. She earns it. She keeps it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 3 | I get how fathers abandon their childrenfuck, where can i find that post? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Feeling downShe was ready to give up her daughter that easily. I do not need her money. I can cover all the expenses comfortably. The amount she should have to pay would be low, as she has a low salary. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Feeling downThanks a lot man. Yeah, I am luckiest person. I have what mattere. A lot of you guys have to fight real ahrd just to get a little more time with your children, while I have her most of the time, and if she moves countries, I will have her all the time. Also thanks for the book suggestion. I will deffo check it. I just started reading books after a bery long time, as I am trying to improve myself in all aspects. I have come a long way since separation. Working full time + opened my own company. I… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Feeling downShe agreed on divorce request that the daughter should stay with me, so even if she wants something different now, it is almost impossible, even more since she will probably move to another country. I know there will be someone else, I just guess I am weak and the grieving process will last longer than it should. I want to get stronger from this, and I will. Professionally, I am advancing in rapid pace. My daughter is the primary focus, any additional woman in our life will be only if it improve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Feeling downI've done it in the past. Previous to ex-wife, I was in LTR (almost 7 years). Once she broke up with me, I was torn, but I made my mind up and never looked back. She came back begging for more then a year, but I stood firm. I would be able to do the same now, but once I see my daughter I feel pain. I blame myself why she can't have that family. But I am not the one to blame. I was gaslighted for years, she did not respect me as she should have. I put up with all the bullshit, she was finding rea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Feeling downThanks for those words man. I definitely am trying. Focus right now is my new business. As it looks right now, it can grow really fast. I already 4x my income, so I want to make sure that soon enough, I can feel financially stable, and travel with my daughter, just enjoy the life with her. I am the luckiest person, my mother is being amazing, she is helping me take care of my daughter. She is taking the role of the mother. I will never be able to pay her back what she is doing for me and my daug… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 03:30 PM |
| 3 | should i get a divorce?Man, this seems 100% me from 3 years back. Then we had a daughter. Her behaviour just became worse and worse. I tried saving the marrige. At the end, she left me and my daughter. Life does not go on like that. Try to talk to her, to reason with her. Maybe going in therapy, if you want to save your marriege. I cannot say do this or that. But maybe making a deciaion now it is easier than when you have a child. You will have more at stake. Wish you the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | I wonCongrats man. I have custody of my daughter, even though the divorce is not finalized yet. All day at work im looking forward for when I get back at home to be with my daughter. She gives me strength and motive. Glad for you and your kids. Have a wonderful life with them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | STBXW claims I ruined her life, career and any chance of us being friendsAs far as I understand, you have no kids. At the moment she cheated, you should have went for divorce right away, not do the same as she did. I dont understand how people can forgive cheating. Stalking/contacting her lovers wife/etc. all your mistakes. I am sorry for saying this, but if I would be in your position, no matter how much I would love her, this would be a closed chapter in my life. Work on your self and you will do much better. My advice: Even if she comes begging you, dont takeher b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/22 09:09 PM |
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