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Please count your blessings. I love my kids but wow how much better life would be if we did our divorce before kids (or better yet didn’t get married at all) It sucks it hurts I wanted kids badly too but just think 50/50 co parenting it’s not really fair to the kids and that’s if it’s equal. You could be looking at every other weekend situation which would be way worse Count your blessings and do NOT have a kid with this person thinking it will make anything better.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 03:42 AM
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You made a friend today - man that was wholesome and positive brother. Going to use that and yea man genuinely mean it. Everybody going through something - man that made my day
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 05:44 AM
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the other person could have stayed to build you up too - but yea keep working on yourself that is the way
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 06:33 PM
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Yeah we have court ordered mediation and we will be back in front of the judge if we can’t agree there she wants a parenting log and everything
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 03:18 AM
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Yes a few tardies and a teacher sent a note saying the kid came in a little unkempt but she didn’t tell me until I saw it in evidence
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 02:42 AM
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Worst feeling man everything I did or said the judge was against me said I was gaslighting this and that
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 11:38 PM
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Freaking a now im an every other weekend dad … I’m gonna fight hard to get this back to 50/50 so help me
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 11:09 PM
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How did you not get more time with the kids?
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 01:17 AM
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Am in CA wish u luck - ex thought before our first court date she would get 90/10 even after calling the cops (bogus) emotional etc blah blah - it went 50/50 Now I’m keeping a coparent daily journal logging stuff as she says I put dirty clothes don’t feed them etc etc Good luck bro u can do it - I dunno though if you can expect full - we do 2-2-5 it’s ok. It’s stated we have to stay in same school district Do update this after! It really helps
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 07:55 PM
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What state
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 07:43 PM
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props for self awareness as a young man - it is respectful that you went through with it and didn’t take advantage but yeah I’m in the same boat now. be true to yourself, your kids will want to see their dad happy - at least is what I tell myself but I feel it too. They will get used to it Good luck brother -
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 05:55 AM
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I mean kids grow up fast so time with them goes fast…nah time itself doesn’t heal all, but do something positive with that time is the best we can do. Not saying just for you but for me and all of us from what I read in the forum. Stay strong 👑 what I realized is we are all in similar situations and not alone. Seek help whatever form that looks like to you
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 05:30 PM
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I like your mentality ice man … that is the way to do it
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 05:51 AM
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Stand your ground man, hate when they do this shit and then blame you for wanting to go out and have fun with your wife it’s like the most evil shit ever. When you have to beg for a date night fuck it - they gonna pour gas on you and light you on fire and then make you think everything is normal and that this shit is normal At 300 people giving up to a certain degree…good luck man
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/23 09:59 PM
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Great words. But so, so, so hard … needed to hear this…getting bitter and petty myself as we go through this. Need to be the bigger person . So hard
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 06:37 AM
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Yea but how many dms u think were sent … damn if this didn’t show u was the shark and who was the mark 😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 04:27 AM
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Bridge not destination I like that going through same stuff detoxed on everything as well lifting exercising and eventually yes it would be better to be off all meds right
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 11:35 PM
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nah, this is a good thing. it’s the mother of your children not really public enemy #1, this could be a good thing. going through same thing, but my siblings and dad specifically said they want to maintain a good relationship so that our toxicity would not prevent them from seeing the kids tough pill - but it could be a good thing
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 01:58 AM
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if that’s the case would living under the same roof, separate rooms with two younger kids under 9 be more or less healthy for the kids if it’s a high conflict situation? wrestling with that now -
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/22 04:19 PM
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man I appreciate you letting me know - yeah I coach the kids in all their sports, my work is flexible enough to allow for me to take the time. i do decently well financially but she does well also though I do make more. If we can’t agree or she won’t agree to stay and demands full time custody and I can’t move hours away because of job and stuff, how does the court make their decision on that? This is looking to be a high conflict divorce every time I try to be reasonable and amicable - she dema…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 07:38 PM
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yes yes and yes - this is a great school district. she said the judge would let her move wherever she wants. how can I make sure that it becomes final and official that they stay in this county / school district if we cannot agree? i think she is using this as leverage for me to have her stay in the family house which would financially ruin me and also not let me move on and save up for another place
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 04:01 PM
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yea man dealing with the same. exact. %#*t. need to file and will file…with her ignoring me when things were not perfect and me begging to communicate it just fell apart. amazing kids who don’t deserve this, I feel like I don’t deserve this but honestly when she withdrew so did I and everything slowly then suddenly went to the waste basket and here we are what’s going to sting is that if/when she moves on, she will be such a great next wife/partner to her next man and if she was like that here i…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 03:40 PM
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keep the faith man … hopefully courts and judges can see that this type of stuff is not so one sided anymore
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 07:10 AM
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yea not quite 10 years…this shit is painful and depressing but started looking into the attorneys - it’s like you back and forth from wanting to get closure to wanting to set the world that we built on fire neither of us have moved on yet but my younger son already asking if I will get a gf and if we can live in separate houses that is walking distance from each other and that stuff breaks my heart it’s like because these kids’ parents are so selfish, egotistical and prideful that they refuse to…
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/22 07:09 AM
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