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Just say you like cats if you want to fuck her. Or be honest and tell her cat people are weirdos and dogs are the superior companion.
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:17 PM
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I hate bumble bro. It’s all set up so that girls make the first move. The girls then just message you “hey” or an emoji every single time. God damn that’s so annoying. Or you get a match and don’t respond in time and it disappears forever.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:02 PM
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Pretty unoriginal but if it works it works I guess
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:13 PM
3

Get ur bros to go to the gym with you. 2 birds one stone
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:49 PM
3

Better to learn to fish than buy some fish though. You’ll probably always want fish for the rest of you life. That’s a lot of money ya know
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:55 AM
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It happens bro. I couldn’t stay hard when I lost my virginity. Literally thought I might be gay or something for a minute. Second time with the same girl everything worked properly. Many girls and years later and I have never really had a boner problem since. You were just nervous as fuck. Need a positive reference experience and more experience in general imo. I bet it’s not even that uncommon it’s just something people would rather not admit
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:21 AM
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This is one of the reasons I don’t have social media. If you’re going to do it you need to go all the way. You need to look cool and sophisticated and everything else. No half measures with it at all. I also feel like it’s inherently beta, like “yes mam here are my credentials, do I qualify for pussy?” But that’s just my own personal thing.
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:12 AM
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Lol it is kind of a mom car but it doesn’t matter. Make it something you joke about and don’t give a fuck. That’s one of those things where if it doesn’t bother you it won’t bother them.
/r/seduction28/09/22 02:05 AM
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Yeah when there is nothing to lose ofc I see the logic in putting your cards on the table at that point. It’s not clear to me that OP is in such position yet. We really can’t be sure from our limited information though. Either way I’ll give it 95% odds he isn’t gonna fuck this girl lol
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:54 PM
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Sorry lol It was funny to me. But yeah I don’t think you can do that. You lose the frame and admit defeat when you say out loud something that equates to “I want to talk to you more than you want to talk to me, please start behaving how I want you to”. It’s defeat. You just have to hope that by you not initiating conversation she misses talking to you enough to initiate herself. In that situation you are the victorious one, you hold the frame. I know it could sound petty but this is the language…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:32 PM
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oh you sweet summer child. Communicating openly and sharing how you feel with women lol you’ll learn why that not an option one day.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:24 PM
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Don’t talk to her for a week or something if she doesn’t reach out then that’s the end of that
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:22 PM
1

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush lol Have you used tinder? Do you realize that the tinder guy has to do a bunch of things right just to get the girl in front of them in person. Basically getting to where you already are is a big effort. I think your main error is in thinking that they think like us. Women respond to how you make them feel. It’s hard to make them feel anything at all through a dating app. They are not that logical, they aren’t trying to get the optimal man. They are tr…
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:19 PM
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All the normal things. Work on your game, maximize your looks, get more comfortable with approaching, fake it till you make it. You can’t go from being a nervous wreck around pretty girls to 100 percent not giving a fuck about rejection. There is no secret potion unfortunately, it’s something you have to work up to.
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:13 PM
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They are so complicated that they don’t even understand themselves at all lol But yeah you can waste a lot of time trying to apply logic to the illogical instead of just being like “she’s either felling u or she isn’t”.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:29 PM
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Because those things don’t work. You’re essentially trying to brain wash yourself lol An abundance of options. However many you need. For example some people will not worry about money if they have a million dollars some might need 10 million to feel the same about money. Kind of a personal thing. No platonic friends don’t really count unless you know you could fuck them when you want or whatever.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:43 PM
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It is obtainable. You aren’t changing yourself at your core. You just have abundance and don’t perceive scarcity with women. So if one of them doesn’t like you, oh well, there a million others, why should you care. It’s the natural way of thinking when you have an abundance of anything. I would dissuade you from trying to achieve this through meditation, therapy, books, mindfulness, affirmations, journaling, hypnosis, etc.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:00 PM
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Ahhhh I can’t get a girl cause they all have Facebook. How am I supposed to compete with billion people. I am literally losing my mind!!!
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah that works
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:31 PM
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I’m just saying there are lots of examples of people being players in societies 10x more conservative than anything on earth today. It’s actually probably easier. Girls get hit on less it’s more novel for them
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:25 PM
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Early in I’ll say I’m from x town just here visiting, staying at a friends place or whatever. After that they kind of know I don’t have a place to bring them to. There is no combination of words you need to find. They will usually offer up their own living situation after you tell them yours. Go from there
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:20 PM
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Where ever you live it’s definitely not more conservative than where Casanova lived. He did just fine
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:51 PM
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Yeah. 90% of the time I think married guys are being dominated by their wives
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:30 PM
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I guess that’s the point. Status isn’t driving a Lambo. Being the manager and coolest guy who works at applebees is “status” in hoes eyes. Even if you’re objectively not successful at all.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:43 PM
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More or less yeah
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:38 PM
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Hahahaha you don’t know? Indians all text eachother good morning every day. It almost brought the infrastructure of the Internet to its knees. 😂😂😂 https://nypost.com/2018/01/25/good-morning-messages-in-india-are-clogging-up-the-internet/amp/
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:27 PM
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I’ve never had problems going to girls place. I actually think it might be better like they feel more comfortable and therefore less LMR. But then again I’m a nutcase who will use the “burn the boats” strategy so that either I get to stay with a girl or I’ll sleep in my car. It’s not so hard to ask when faced with that motivation lol
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:22 PM
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My theory is that they exist but female domination is different from male domination. Instead of smacking your ass she is assigning you little tasks to do around the house lol
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:14 PM
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The game by Neil Strauss. You can probably find it online. It’s a cool book, made to look like a bible with the gold leaf on the pages and everything I recommend getting it physical copy if you can.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:34 AM
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Read the literature. Start with The Game, while not instructional it should be motivating.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:13 AM
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Fake it till you make it
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:06 AM
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Lying is the shortest path.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:17 AM
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Only you can say if the juice is worth the squeeze. If you haven’t fucked any hot girls or had any good relationships then do what you gotta do. Evaluate when you have perspective. There are better reasons to be resentful than they won’t fuck you without some effort lol
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:29 AM
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Idk bro a 10/10 could have the mental faculties of an orangutan and I’d be like man it’s so cute how she eats with her hands
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:00 AM
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It takes two to tango. Just putting personality and humor into your texting is good. I’m sure you’re fine but it’s going to be dry if she is. It can’t be helped
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:47 AM
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Yeah pretty much. Some don’t know they are doing it they just don’t have a personality besides Instagram. There are a lot of girls like that. Some guys are willing to plough ahead with zero positive feedback until they get what they want. I guess I am too but only for like a girl so hot that I’ll cherish the memory, not some 7 with a stick up her ass.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:38 AM
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Unless she’s an actual 10/10 she can fuck off if she doesn’t act right.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:27 AM
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It does happen. Like an anime character I had some shit like this when I was that age. A friends older sister asking me if her boobs look big and daring me to touch. These are not actual moves though. They are having fun flaunting themselves. Because they perceive you as no sexual threat at all.
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:39 PM
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This. Making the focus amusing and entertaining yourself rather than trying to project coolness or value was a big game changer for me. I find that you can only really keep a hand full of bullet points in your mind and apply them when you go out and meet girls. This is one of those bullet points for me always. Revolutionary
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:17 PM
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Cool post I never really thought about it like that but it’s so true. Many guys probably strike paydirt with one thread that is funny or interesting to the girl then just beat the dead horse for an hour lol
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:14 PM
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It’s no different. The same principles apply to all different backgrounds. I would say avoid the elephant in the room though. Avoid talking about the age gap and dismis it as soon as you can if she brings it up. Cut her off before she picks up a head of steam.
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:09 PM
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Coke is different lol
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:11 PM
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Lol idk about that. Married and divorced women fall the same things all the time
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:10 PM
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People with very low neuroticism and anxiety tend to have shittier lives but also naturally much better game. They meet girls, are aggressive, pass every shit test with flying colors cause they really don’t give a fuck, etc it’s a personality type
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:09 PM
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Don’t cut friends out of your life imo. Just let them do what they want to do it doesn’t mean you need to excommunicate them imo. Real friends are hard to come by
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:52 PM
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You be real lol you think any hot girls are gonna let you bang them for free weed
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:50 PM
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No lol weed is everywhere nobody thinks a weed dealer is bad ass
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:55 PM
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Status is the least important of the three imo. I’ve known guys who couch surf and sell weed for a meager existence that absolutely slay pussy.
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:15 PM
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I don’t believe it.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:51 PM
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swipe left by default This is actually interesting. You should make a profile and ONLY swipe left for a month. It could be that after this month is up, the algorithm has decided that you are an absolute gigachad and will show you to every single new sign up in your area first. This would be one of the only online field reports that wouldn’t ridicule lol
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:40 PM
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It’s called an example smh
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:35 PM
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If you are using politics to get girls you must be the lowest of the low. The male feminist is truely a bottom feeder. Respected by no one he grovels on the floor all day. Hoping that we will been thrown a crumb of pussy out of compassion. Compassion is therefore the trait he holds most dear.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:31 PM
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It is though. Conservative men are rated as being more attractive and masculine in every instance. Girls will explicitly say they don’t want to know someone who voted for trump but that’s exactly who they fuck every time
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:25 PM
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The vacuum. You make them talk by being more comfortable with silence than they are. Eventually ask them a lot of qualifying questions. Really get them jumping through hoops for you. Not my style at all but it’s cool
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:21 PM
1

No you desperately want approval from everyone and to be normal. While you were making posts on Facebook about supporting the thing of the month, I studied the blade.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:15 PM
1

Of course. I would say that a cult leader is the highest example of dark game. They not only take married women. Women will literally die for them.
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:29 AM
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I think you’re just going to be disappointed. Yes you can get girls by being a human golden retriever but it’s not optimal. The dark side of the game holds many powers that some would consider... unnatural
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:46 AM
1

Hehe send me a bitcoin to India and I’ll be at your house right away. I’m a horny milf btw
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:00 PM
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Come on. We weren’t dressing like mystery for 20 years and doing the cube. You’re really short changing a lot of people and giving Manson way too much credit. My interpretation of him is someone who made a more purple pilled and normie friendly book which takes inspiration from other PUAs. His shit is not necessarily the latest and greatest technology just because it’s newer. I would still advise people to study the real social dynamics shit if you can get your hands on it.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:12 PM
4

Just move your hand closer and closer to her pussy or put her hand on your dick. It’s not a rubrics cube
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:00 PM
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Sounds like motivation is your issue maybe. Stop watching porn or something
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:58 PM
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That’s a shit test. Don’t react or agree
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:13 PM
0

Everyone just look so fucking ugly on FaceTime it’s always so close and the worst angle unless you’re posing for it
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:42 AM
1

I can’t imagine being more comfortable with FaceTime than texting lol that’s crazy
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:58 AM
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If
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:02 AM
9

Mystery is better than proof that you aren’t that cool
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:50 AM
1

Stop thinking about her
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:28 AM
6

Not at all. It will probably help you
/r/seduction24/09/22 04:26 AM
2

28. Even for zoomers at least 90% want a relationship. You can still fuck them but they aren’t actively seeking a guy to fuck them they want a boyfriend
/r/seduction24/09/22 02:47 AM
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Game equals intent plus freedom from outcome
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:58 AM
0

Amuse yourself
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:56 AM
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Yeah conversely I can walk outside and meet a girl that wants to get to know me. Women are easy. How do you not see what I’m saying lol
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:57 PM
2

Just confusing to refer to no strings attached sex as “the real deal” lol You don’t have to lie you’re just making it 10x harder for no reason
/r/seduction23/09/22 09:55 PM
13

Lol “men this is not okay”. Women have no moral superiority. Using emotions to get sex and using sex to get emotions are the same thing. You lost the game suck it up
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:29 PM
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What lol isn’t your thread about not wanting to be perceived as a guy for long term relationships. I’m confused
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:26 PM
0

I think you are probably over estimating your appearance as a factor. Almost all girls want a LTR if they get their way. You have to make them settle for getting taken to pound town instead of a relationship if that’s what you want. This is game and you can’t be honest with them.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:27 PM
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You know the word hookup always meant like kissing and stuff. The fact people say it to mean sex now blows my mind
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:12 PM
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My guess is aroma therapy. Only through the smelling of many scented candles could a man become so bold.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:58 PM
1

Another interesting point related to that. Human females are the only animal that outwardly shows no signs of ovulation. Their bodies obfuscate it. Any theories as to why that might be? Lol
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:08 PM
0

Nobody gives a fuck if a man is ugly if he’s the shit.
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:55 PM
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Field report: I stayed in my room. Sent a message over Instagram.
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:53 PM
6

Bars are way better and easier than night clubs or being out on the street. Maybe go to a different bar
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:52 PM
0

Another fun fact, they instinctively moan during sex in order to attract other men to the scene. I don’t blame you for being blue pilled. Nature is fucked.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:27 AM
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Shit tests are extremely real and common don’t listen to the retard above. However, her just essentially telling you to fuck off is not a shit test.
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:06 AM
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Over sixty percent of women have rape fantasies according to this study. So I highly doubt this theory that their arousal from seeing some brutal scene is magically different from the arousal they get in any other context. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19085605/
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:57 AM
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Because you’re not a girl. Looking pretty isn’t enough
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:46 AM
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Friends first is so beta
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:45 AM
6

The textbook advice in this situation is get abundance. If this girl is way hotter than the others you need abundance of girls on her level I suppose.
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:43 AM
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I hate the use of celebrities like they will make anything look dope. What looks good on Chris helmsworth is not neccisssrly going to work for some chubby 5’10 redditor. This is even more extreme if we talk about haircuts lol Not that I disagree with anything you said that’s just my observation. I always wear black and red when I’m going to pick up. I believe there is some study on this, it’s inherently attractive, visually striking or whatever. I think most of it is about making your body look …
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:13 PM
2

Yes that is literally better
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:06 PM
3

“Preying” stfu. That’s such manipulative language. Also your advice sucks.
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:06 PM
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Idk. I won’t schedule anything farther away than “this weekend”. She’s going to have to figure something out if she wants to hang out with me
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:01 PM
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I think there is great value in making her have romantic fantasies. Talking about some trip you’re going to take in the future or whatever. You just can’t let yourself get caught up in it too much.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:34 PM
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Started getting into the bar scene? Lol why do you talk like this reddit.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:29 PM
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Literally just talk to a girl sitting near you in every class. Whether you like her or not it improves your social skills. That’s what I did in high school it worked.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:27 PM
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You’ll get your ass kicked around here for doin somethin like that
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:24 PM
7

You need to prioritize your stuff over her. Write your book. Make something of your startup. If you’re so in love that you literally can’t stop thinking about her and feel anxious when you work on your book then you’re in a really bad position. I would honestly say your best course is to just break up with her but you won’t. Obsessive love like that is so bad. It destroys men. You’re fucked bro gotta stop the bleeding
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:46 AM
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For sure. They seem uncomfortable with talking about principles and totally not curious about getting to the heart of matters. It seems like they especially are not interested in thinking through hypotheticals either. I think the male mind seeks to organize things and they don’t really have as much of a drive for this. They want witty banter and conversation that is not dry. The subject of this conversation should be shallow and fun though. If you want deep conversation get male friends for that…
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:27 AM
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About 97 lol ohhh well everyone should defer to what you say huh. Does your dad also work for Nintendo?
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:30 PM
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Guys want sex more than girls do. It’s an indisputable fact of nature. Guys want to fuck so bad that they will pay money to do it. They will send girls unsolicited dick pics. You ever get an unsolicited vagina pic? Lmao Saying guys want sex more does not imply that women don’t want sex. I wouldn’t ever say that
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:23 PM
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I have plenty of experience lol I worded that the way I did because I know even if they do want sex they would never say it to you. Just making the point that a survey is pointless
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:18 PM
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If you have any brains at all you can spot patterns. But go ahead and do the survey today if you want. Ask 10 tinder girls if they want a relationship or just sex. I would bet you all my money you don’t find 2 of 10 who tell you they just want sex
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:13 PM
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And what do you think the ratio is? Girls who want a relationship vs girls who want to meet guys just for sex? It’s like 90/10. Most girls who just want sex are fucking their ex or whatever they aren’t going around looking for it, they already got it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:08 PM
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Sounds smart to me
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:03 PM
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No I make no such assumption
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:02 PM
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Semantics. I’m not saying women don’t get horny lol
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:01 PM
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Your experience really doesn’t mean that much. It’s a very wrong and skewed view of the situation.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:00 PM
1

You probably want to be as polarizing as possible. I’m not a big online daters though
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:15 PM
1

Yup. Women don’t understand muscle building. They also think they can’t lift heavy weights or they themselves will turn into Arnold
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:13 PM
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No they don’t lol. Do you see a lot of guys making girls wait for sex? Honestly do you just repeat things you’ve read without thinking for one second?
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:10 PM
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Look I’ll give it to you straight. Good game is pretty much not accessible to people with autism. So what you need to do is play the numbers. Maximize your looks and approach like crazy. Your success rate will be very low so you harden yourself up and become immune to the rejection. Eventually you’ll find yes girls or girls that think the way you are is cute or whatever. God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers. It’s a question of how strong you can be.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:47 PM
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Therapy isn’t going to make hot girls like you lmao Max out your looks and work on your game. The same advice applies to pretty much everyone. In this case, if your friends are chads you need to be approaching without them. Women at bars pretty much make their value judgments relative to who is there. You might be a 6/10 but if you find yourself being the most attractive guy in a bar, you’re gonna have a good fucking night.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:41 PM
2

Yes Stick to nicknames nothing like sweetums Never Try it
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:29 PM
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I don’t agree. The reason I think most of us don’t want to wait is because it puts the woman in a position of power. And if she isn’t a virgin it usually means that she has fucked chad on the first date but YOU have to woo her. So it’s insulting to the pride.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:16 PM
1

I’m sure pattern recognition is very dangerous to your world view.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:02 AM
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Yeah so like 2 out of 5 comments I’ve seen. It does look like a pattern
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:52 AM
0

In another thread maybe two you made similar comments. Seems like an intimidation tactic. Make some 16 year old feel like he will go to jail if he doesn’t respect women and act like a complete beta loser like you probably do.
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:33 AM
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Why you so obsessed with crime and people going to jail? Lol we can all tell you’re a good boy and a cuck. You don’t need to be so worried about it you’re safe.
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:24 AM
1

What’s the thing to read now though in your opinion?
/r/seduction18/09/22 03:55 AM
1

Bruh how dare you. The mystery method is the foundation of everything. Absolute heresy What do you recommend he read instead?
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:37 AM
2

You will never be a real woman
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:30 AM
2

Join a frat lol.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:29 AM
4

Yes. Escalating too fast is 10x better than escalating too slow. You have potential
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:28 AM
0

Sounds like a good match. Neither of your brains being fully formed
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:26 AM
1

No it’s not different enough that you should change anything. What works in Pennsylvania will work in South Carolina
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:25 AM
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You got to crash the car to find out how fast you can drive. This is way better than most things I read on here with guys being too timid. Be happy
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:23 AM
0

Seethe
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:20 AM
1

Now you can text her. You’re in a more exclusive group of people who have her number. All good
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:03 AM
2

Are you sure you aren’t only swiping right on guys that look like models? Lol basically guys that have lots of options don’t want to get tied down with one girl. So you’re going to have to meet a guy with fewer options that means being less picky over looks most likely
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:50 PM
6

Go out early. Talk to the people who work at the bar and give them tips. They will be there all night and they have to be nice to you. Once you are on friendly terms you won’t even feel like you’re out alone.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:43 PM
5

Being a virgin makes you more desirable. At 21 you aren’t in danger of getting old any time soon. I’m sure it will all work out. If you are indeed cute and have tinder you’ve options galore. Idk why you seem so stressed.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:41 PM
2

This dude you are talking to overdosed on blue pills lmao
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:38 PM
4

It’s so mad 😂
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:33 PM
4

I didn’t say “all girls are the same”. Read the words more carefully next time
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:31 PM
3

U mad? Lmao
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:29 PM
6

The difference between any two girls is wildly over estimated
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:04 PM
1

So true bruh. Self acceptance also gets taken way too far. It’s not supposed to mean you can’t improve yourself.
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:02 PM
1

Yeah that would do it
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:00 PM
1

Sending notes to tell girls you like them cause it’s too hard to say anything is something to do in the 5th grade.
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:00 PM
1

Get her phone number
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:51 PM
1

Bruh
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:50 PM
1

I always use some Hail Mary on girls like this. Basically start negging and being dominating as fuck, see if she fantasizes about being treated like that or something. It’s like a 10% chance she responds positively or opens up at all. But it makes sense, might as well go for something before you give up.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:38 PM
1

Is a personality even a real fucking thing? Lmao you have a different personality when interacting with your friends than your family and a different one around your boss etc. so make a good personality for having fun. All this integrity shit is a lie.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:34 PM
1

Stop being like that it’s not your personality you’re just viewing the world through a lame and depressing lense. Become enlightened. Life is short and stupid. If you aren’t having fun you are wasting your time.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:32 PM
1

We would take turns ofc lol
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:05 PM
1

You can improve your value but not your game
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:59 AM
-14

That’s called tough love. He needs to hear it.
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:11 AM
8

Managed to muster up the courage to ask someone out over Instagram 😂
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:19 PM
32

Yeah I’ve often thought about going out with the boys and having one of them hold like a big news camera and pretend we are shooting some footage or whatever and taking interviews. You would get a big flock of girls wanting to be on camera and stuff. I feel like this would work really well but also seems like a hassle and my friends are too gay and “chill” to want to do some shit like this with me.
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:08 PM
1

Start basing your confidence off of anime girls
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:20 AM
2

It’s definitely not too late if you get to work
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:32 PM
1

I like your hair Thanks :) Why is it so shiny? I don’t know lol You probably use conditioner huh? I just use x shampoo Well your stylist knows what she’s doing I just go to super cuts No wayyyy you’re lying! Etc etc etc Idk like you really just have to practice flirting it’s more art than science What’s up with reddit not letting me put line breaks in lol good luck reading that
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:13 PM
0

Bye object
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:02 PM
-1

No. I don’t believe in these 50/50 relationships. She can be submissive or go away.
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:52 PM
2

Good thing girls don’t read nonfiction
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:35 PM
1

Yeah I think you should probably hold tight, like its not a big deal to you
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:34 PM
11

Just compliment them. Compliment them on something physical. Hair/eyes/height/muscles/smile whatever. Go on and on about it. Be really impressed. Exactly what doesn’t work on women, works perfectly on us.
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:32 PM
5

Of course they like it lol. Give me all your attention, don’t argue with me, do spontaneous things for me, let me do whatever I want etc. It’s not good advice for a guy and it won’t lead to a good relationship if you don’t enjoy having a boss/master of a girlfriend.
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:27 PM
3

No hard rules for it. What I do is kind of strike while the iron is hot. So like just after meeting or matching I’ll be very eager and text with a lot of personality. Once that trails off in a day or two I’ll just text them either to respond to their texts or when something I actually want to say come to mind.
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:24 PM
2

Social interaction and solicitation are not the same thing as I talked about previously. I’m not going to argue with you. If talking to people for the purpose of fun and improving your social skills gives you a guilty conscience we are just built very differently. Good day zoomie
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:31 PM
12

Definitely written by a woman lol disregard it completely, Kings.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:25 PM
3

Going outside is consenting to social interaction. Sounds like you should try it some time.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:23 PM
1

Never really been friend zoned or liked women who couldn’t tell that I like them. I won’t deny that you def don’t want to come across as effeminate. I just think people go too far with trying to be masculine ya know. It’s perhaps not the most useful lens to view your interactions through.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:18 PM
6

Lol I would say then just stick to tinder but idk. Writing your little bio and uploading your carefully chosen pictures... that’s pretty needy too.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:11 PM
2

If I made some cashier smile, brought her out of her boring routine. I don’t think she is going to feel like she’s been used and my conscience is clear.
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:02 PM
69

Play the hand you are dealt. A good rule for life in general. There is nothing to be gained by wishing you had pocket aces. A good poker player never spends a second thinking like that.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:51 PM
3

Well yeah the problem is coming at pickup like a salesman. That’s chasing, that is needy. The way you are supposed to do it is to talk to everyone, not just pretty girls. Fat guys, old ladies, etc. Try to talk to all different people, be playful try to make them laugh or have some kind of interaction that makes both of your days better. Do the same with hot girls but add in a more flirtatious sexual component if it feels right or you get IOIs. So you’re treating her, for the most part, how you t…
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:43 PM
3

Talking to other people is not neediness. Lol zoomers
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:15 PM
6

Hmm there are a million answers. I think one of the things that is taught probably too much is to “be masculine” imo. Guys take that to mean scowling, clenching their jaw, being overly direct, never participating in the silliness of women etc etc. Acting like this is maybe required if your appearance is not very masculine. But if you’re physically normal or above average in terms of looking masculine then it’s definitely overkill. I feel like one of my secret weapons is that I can talk to a girl…
/r/seduction15/09/22 06:53 PM
4

That’s the game bro. They want emotional connection/attention/validation without sex. You want sex without giving a bunch of time, attention, love etc. If you are just straight up telling them this then you aren’t playing the game very well at all. Like a poker players that tells everyone their hand. You aren’t going to find very many girls at all that just want to fuck, especially online. You gotta learn to ignore it when they shit like this. Women don’t know what they want.
/r/seduction15/09/22 02:34 AM
10

Nothing is wrong with your brain. This pretty normal to have anxiety about talking to girls. We were all like that when we were 13 as well. I remover looking back at text conversations with some girl I liked around that age and I was so incredibly cringey and weird. That’s just part of growing up as a guy we don’t usually develop social skills as fast as they do lol You got to figure out how to overcome the anxiety. Medication is not the best way to do that. I wouldn’t even consider it to be an …
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:50 PM
2

No it doesn’t really change anything. She has kind of tipped her hand that she’s dtf but you probably shouldn’t change your course of action
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:28 AM
2

I think you’ve found the problem. Exchanging numbers doesn’t go far unless you have built a good amount of attraction first. You’re probably getting their number too soon
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:23 AM
3

It’s hard as fuck. Lots of the old real social dynamics stuff (which I think has been purged from YouTube unfortunately) was good for this. “Getting into state” as they call it. Tyler durden doesn’t drink so I can imagine he put a lot of effort into figuring this out. What works for me is working out and doing cardio right before I go out. Call it Endorphins I guess but it makes me a little less anxious. Listen to some good music. Constantly remind myself that the point of this is to have fun. T…
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:17 AM
2

Lol why did that suck that’s awesome. The girl saying you’re indefensible prob wants you more now. You shouldn’t have lied though.
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:14 AM
1

Learn your alcohol math. I drink beer and beer is more precise than cocktails so I’ll use that. .08= 2 beers Your liver can filter out 1 beer per hour If you stay there for an hour and have 2 beers you are good to drive.
/r/seduction13/09/22 06:16 PM
3

Testosterone can’t be ingested through a pill you have to inject it. Who knows what hormones he is taking, hopefully it’s just some fake sugar pills.
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:34 AM
6

Testosterone tablets? Lol bro Honestly just try to get a nice a girl. Pretty ones aren’t worth it, from what I’m hearing you’ll have to sell your soul for one.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:50 AM
1

Luck honestly plays a huge part in it. They get more attention than they could ever handle. So if you happen to message her when she feels like talking to someone and your message happens to hit her the right way then you’re in. And now you have to be entertaining and interesting as fuck. And even then you might lose her attention. This is why dating apps are so fucked
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:33 AM
2

Odds are that you should be more focused on breaking rapport than building it. Breaking rapport is attractive and makes you interesting and different from every other chump who has taken her on a date, asking her what her favorite color is and other boring shit.
/r/seduction13/09/22 12:21 AM
10

Facepalm lol I would give the exact opposite advice to this
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:21 PM
5

Imagine talking to women about literature and philosophy lmao
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:07 PM
78

Almost no girls are looking for a friend with benefits. Stop thinking they think like we do ya goof
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:15 AM
4

Never take an Instagram. Phone numbers are the only way
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:55 PM
0

Don’t approach at the gym
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:43 AM
4

Not true lol do you know any guys that have fucked a huge number of girls? Most of them are not successful in my experience. While you were studying, investing, working, going to the gym, reading self help books they were out there smashing hoes.
/r/seduction03/09/22 08:38 PM
2

Straight to jail
/r/seduction03/09/22 08:35 PM
0

It’s a hundred percent not needed. Many of the best players out there don’t think highly of themselves
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:32 AM
2

You should lol you already paid for the date. Gotta do everything for your queen now that’s how its been framed
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:50 PM
2

One with darts or pool 👌
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:54 PM
3

Remove attention if they aren’t acting right don’t reward it
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:28 AM
1

It’s a great comparison. Do you know any witty librarians
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:05 AM
0

Lol it doesn’t have to be And I’m saying it’s better to ask her to do something in hour than a week. Lots of people like having their schedule clear
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:04 AM
0

Making plans sucks. It’s not fun. Are you her dentist or are you trying to fuck her
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:11 AM
1

If you wanted to get good at a sport would you go read a book about it? You have to leave your room to get better conversation skills
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:08 AM
2

Yeah pretty sure mystery wrote about it
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:05 AM
3

I’m more inclined to believe it’s nature than nurture. You can point out a high anxiety or low anxiety kid basically before they can even talk. It’s there from the very start. Either way it’s pointless and it’s not science. If you told me hanging upside down for 30 minutes a day cured you of a disease I would say you’re a quack. If you said doing the same cured your approach anxiety then you have found a legitimate treatment for yourself. The point being, with a physical disease it’s important t…
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:14 PM
6

Places that would be better for picking up girls than the gym: A funeral. AA. Your therapists office. A strip club. Fast food drive throughs. A library. Chuck E. Cheese. The only worse places I can think of are at your job or family reunion
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:43 PM
-1

7 hours is the average time spent together for a girl to comfortable letting you fuck her. You can do a lot of things to bring that number down. It’s good to use as an indicator of when to give up though. If youve spent 7 hours together and she isn’t ready to put out then cut your losses.
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:53 PM
10

Yep observational for me too. It doesn’t have to be funny. It makes the opener more warm when you are talking about something in common. Bad music, weird bar tender, sticky floors, cool mugs. I like to start with something common like that and then go into more playful teasing cocky/funny stuff.
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:03 AM
11

I imagine any party for singles will be full of guys lol might be a time to try peacocking or something
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:14 PM
0

Getting offended like that over some texts and not really forgiving you when you said sorry. Sounds like she sucks yeah move on. The girl you want will laugh with you and make fun of you for not being able to handle your liquor or whatever.
/r/seduction31/08/22 05:49 AM
2

It doesn’t help much. Maybe doctors still get some prestige but def not for most of those
/r/seduction30/08/22 04:10 PM
1

It’s asked so often that “body count” has become a common term, people know what it means. Idk maybe it is age thing I usually date girls in their early 20s
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:12 AM
3

I don’t mean relationship like girlfriend lol
/r/seduction29/08/22 05:22 PM
2

I simply don’t believe you. I’ve been asked by at least 10 girls myself lol and I’m not a centurion 😂
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:24 PM
307

I’d rather take the 5 best ones out of the 56 and spend a couple months having more of a relationship with each of them. I get the appeal of wanting to fuck a lot of girls but that sounds like a full time job. You must really be spinning plates
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:51 PM
-1

It’s an inappropriate question? Lmao you realize we are talking about literally putting our dicks inside of their body. They are kind of entitled to have some questions 😂 Idk I guess I go for more “pure” kinds of girls where it’s common to be asked. I realize that bitches you met at the bar and bring home don’t ask as much.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:44 PM
-2

That’s not normal lol
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:34 PM
1

Take not of obesity rate disparities between men and women too lol
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:43 PM
10

A very large percentage do ask. Enough that I’d say statistically you’ve been asked 20 times by the time you go through 50 girls. Something in that ballpark.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:39 PM
116

Lmao this. Someone who has fucked 50 girls wouldn’t have their mind blown by being asked their body count
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:02 AM
22

Reminder that you can you can still use Netflix and chill just don’t say those words verbatim. The ASD system in most girls brain is really really stupid. It is funny how that phrase just emerged organically and everyone gets the joke.
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:23 AM
7

Disregard it entirely. I have fucked girls within hours of them saying shit about how they dont want anything casual they want a BOYFRIEND yadda yadda
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:10 AM
1

I hate voice notes. You’d be better off just calling imo
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:07 AM
4

Nobody gets bullied in college lol
/r/seduction25/08/22 10:32 PM
8

Lol naw opposite problem for me. Any beast with some cleavage looks good. Then you see them in person and it’s a different sorry.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:50 AM
-8

Has anyone gone full psycho and photoshop yourself into hanging out with celebrities and being on private jets and shit? If you’re going to be an instafag you might as well go all out with it
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:42 AM
1

I don’t think it’s quite so clear. Online dating tends to suck pretty bad for the same guys that don’t do well in bars. At least in bars you have mankinds greatest elixir of social lubrication working in your favor.
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:52 PM
1

Day game is brutal and inefficient. You’re kind of smashing your head against a wall. But if you want to meet the kind of girls who don’t go to bars, don’t use dating apps, possibly like virgins and stuff it is kind of the way to do it. There are girls like that.
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:46 PM
4

Girlfriends have always been way more time consuming to me than when I don’t have one. Idk bruh
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:38 PM
-1

Just wearing red and black, a copper chain around my wrist, and a necklace with a cross on it to imply I have morals. That seems to work as a more subtle peacocking for me. I just can’t be congruent dressed too crazy it will throw off my game I’ve tried it.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:51 PM
6

Fuck the inner game shit. If you think you can raise your self esteem by reading books, repeating positive phrases in front of your mirror etc go for it. But if you aren’t a simpleton that won’t work. Just go after top tier girls and disregard the fatties you’ve been banging
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:45 PM
0

Lie about everything, fuck, and disappear. These women deserve nothing less.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:41 PM
1

If you are a good looking guy and are being rejected for the number close on 6/8 then you must be doing something wrong. Unless you’re approaching only super hot girls or something which isn’t bad. We can’t really know what’s is but you’re probably either too visibly nervous or coming off too aggressive/direct
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:38 PM
3

Just be sure before you fuck. You can’t know before approaching. Who gives a fuck what people think. Fuck society. Only laws are of concern not what people think.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:32 PM
1

Fuck you janitors. Let people disagree
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:40 PM
1

They just can’t help themselves lol biology is stronger than the shit they got brain washed with at college.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:25 PM
0

Don’t be an orbiter. She won’t ever really respect you even if you manage to bang her when she’s drunk at some point
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:57 AM
1

Have her check yes or no then she can pass the note Suzie in English class who can then give it to you at recess. Or just be a man and throw your phone at her and tell her to put her number in it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:48 AM
-2

Lol you’re their target demographic. Beta males who can be shamed and bullied into behaving the way that want (like women).
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:33 AM
32

Just get naked
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:41 PM
1

They don’t have a reasonable definition of harassment these are crazy feminists we are talking about lol
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:13 PM
1

Drinking just removes the anxiety and allows you to be yourself. It doesn’t really “translate” but reveals the personality you already have. So yes you could have the same game sober if you could overcome the anxiety. Easier said than done though, pretty much every tool in dealing with anxiety like exercise, meditation, exposure therapy, etc etc are like slingshots in slaying the dragon that is anxiety. Alcohol is like a bazooka.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:03 PM
1

😏
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:08 AM
3

It’s all in your head. How does cracking a joke or asking a question of people around you at a bar feel needy? People would just be home drinking alone if they didn’t want to talk to anyone. The main thing, I think, is to try to get into a mindset of collaboration, not competition. We aren’t at a bar to see who is the coolest. We are are trying to have a good time. Maybe you should just drink more lol after a certain number of beers you will get less self conscious.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:51 AM
1

It’s part of life bro you’ll always want to fuck other girls. I would say not to let this cloud your judgment. However you talked about wanting to “be single to work on yourself”. This might be a sign that your relationship is actually fucked. You should be able to work on yourself with a girlfriend. A good girlfriend should make it easier to improve yourself not harder. A girl that takes up all your time and energy is not a good girlfriend imo. No matter how sweet she may be she is a fucking va…
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:05 AM
2

https://youtu.be/nBLhYziLMOI
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:00 AM
3

It just helps to be taller. I can’t really quantify it but I’d say that being “not a short guy” is more important than being tall. I’ve known some absolute gigachads that were short though. You can call it compensating but it doesn’t matter. Plenty of short guys fuck
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:16 AM
10

No but let me say it’s pretty hard lol everyone is trying to get to class or whatever. And something about a college campus gives me the “spotlight effect” like no other place. You’ll have a lot more luck hanging out at whatever “college bar” is close to campus in my opinion.
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:24 PM
14

Why would you assume anyone knows what a satisfyer is
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:10 PM
8

I don’t like clubs for this reason. It’s just too loud. Your best bet is to start smoking and meet girls outside who also smoke lol
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:49 PM
12

Honestly though. “I’m too shy to approach women irl” is a bullshit limiting belief. You can’t let yourself think like that
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:47 AM
4

Stop being a pussy
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:34 AM
0

I am going to do X on Thursday would you like to join?
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:40 PM
2

It’s Dave and busters bruh you don’t really need a plan. Put some drinks into her and yourself and you’ll have fun
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:39 PM
3

Interesting numbers. I feel like my phone number rate on cold approaches is like well over 50% but lay rate is no higher than yours. Could just be different areas or you follow up better.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:36 PM
2

I’ve never been to the domain but someone was telling me it’s a lot of perfect logistics situations, you can get a room right above a bar or whatever. I wish I lived in Austin
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:52 PM
5

No but I’ve had a lot of fun there. I worked out a deal with the bar tender at a bar on sixth street, they would give me free drinks for every group of girls I brought into the bar. I got wasted for free just approaching on the street lol I wasn’t even short on money I just liked how it felt like pimping lol
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:44 PM
20

I have girls lay in bed and look into my eyes and I play with their nipples. Trying to make the most of oxytocin. I’ll also start making faces and tell them to copy my expression, something Charles Manson used to do to his girls. It’s all trying to build up compliance and love, best to do after sex.
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:14 PM
46

You’re gay now
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:51 AM
5

A genuine person is going to be somewhat polarizing. Funny how reddit doesn’t like this because it’s an over moderated echo chamber where everyone must have a vaguely agreeable and positive tone to everything they say to avoid being down voted
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:40 AM
2

Engineer, it checks out
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:30 AM
43

Treat em mean keep em keen
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:07 AM
3

I would go up to my bro and pretend not to know him and ask for selfies or autographs with him when girls are around. Make them think he’s some kind of mini celebrity or something.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:53 PM
1

Emts is more impressive I think. Some percentage of women are too stupid to know what an emt even is though and it would probably shock you how high it is.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:24 AM
1

Some people can’t lie with congruence. They are ngmi as top tier seducers, comedians, poker players, salesmen etc but that’s okay.
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:45 PM
2

Man I know I read the opposite about looking at the camera. Some other study saying men who aren’t looking at the camera get more likes lol either way I can tell you out a lot into the post good job
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:18 PM
1

Yeah the advice sounds very boilerplate However there is no such thing as “cheating”. That’s player hating right there. All is fair in love and war. Going to some other country where you are valued more highly is just smart if your goal in life is fucking a lot of girls.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:13 PM
4

She’s a man
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:10 PM
9

Be careful. It’s over powered and will literally make women fall in love instantly. Only use it for the ones you really like
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:06 PM
5

Always hold the frame bro. If she gives one word answers do not respond to it. Responding is signaling that she has the power and can treat you how she wants. buuut if I don’t respond she will move on Probably. But that’s good. Better to have a 5/10 obsessed with you than a 7/10 who disrespects you with one word text messages. Also unironically using the word “whilst” Lol you’re a dork I would one word text you too
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:03 PM
5

It’s not too forward just too lame. “Are you a archeologist?” “Cause I have a large bone for you to examine” works every time
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:59 PM
2

I don’t think that’s abnormal or there is anything wrong with you. Fucking is a lot harder than kissing. My my number of kisses in incalculable. But body county is very calculable. But yeah if I could point to something it could be that you get validation and base your self esteem on feedback from women. So that kissing is satisfying enough positive feedback that you are just satisfied with it. I’m kind of the same way. Knowing I could fuck a girl if I wanted to is almost as good as fucking her.…
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:34 PM
1

Probably free
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:49 AM
1

Yeah that’s not needy at all. I text girls way more than that. I’ve been called an alcoholic, sociopath, and piece of shit but never needy.
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:45 AM
7

I wouldn’t try to evoke any emotion in them. I would try to entertain myself, make myself laugh, satisfy my own curiosity and see if I can get anything interesting out of the other person. Major key
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:41 AM
1

Confirmed for not understanding anything about evolution
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:30 AM
2

Evolution is sexist and game is about exploiting evolutionary principles. Your feelings don’t play into it
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:21 PM
3

I feel like being 6’1 in Korea you’re set. Just don’t fuck up somehow and it will all work out
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:19 PM
1

Hike ur skirt up
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:10 AM
1

https://youtu.be/KU-gVXXnrok
/r/seduction02/08/22 11:46 PM
1

Ears
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:31 PM
2

That doesn’t make any sense to me lol
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:13 PM
3

The goal is to have enough abundance that you aren’t worried about her fickleness. Like you should try to not be in a position where you are speculating and trying to understand what’s impossible to know
/r/seduction02/08/22 05:26 PM
2

Uber mah boi
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:35 AM
1

Buying a girl a flower. Pretty fucked up i day we put him in prison
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:21 PM
1

Oh no he might lose his job at a grocery store!
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:16 PM
4

Buy a pack of magnums and pay with a hundred dollar bills. Works every time (sometimes)
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:14 PM
-4

Go away, object
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:26 PM
4

They will be more comfortable since they aren’t alone. You don’t have to talk as much. Etc
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:25 PM
1

What’s the point of even being a player if you’re gonna eat pussy lol fuck that
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:33 PM
-3

Do you think fake nails, high heels, fake eyelashes, hair extensions, push up bras, makeup, beauty filters etc aren’t a form of deception? If integrity doesn’t serve you then why have it.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:00 AM
53

Approaching two girls often easier than one. Also I recommend going out to bars early. Seems like more single or small groups than when it gets later.
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:54 AM
3

I agree. 1-10 isn’t accurate enough, we as a community need to start going with a 1-100 scale to capture more nuance.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:14 PM
-7

No women are worth pursuing
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:57 AM
26

Idk. A lot of girls idea of advances is making eye contact for one thousandth of a microsecond longer than normal. Could be that he has no idea, I have no way of knowing since I wasn’t there
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:55 PM
2

When Cortez landed in America he and his men burned their boats. Because there could be no retreating. Leaving yourself no options but success is a good way to see what you’re capable of
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:47 AM
0

Yes I am the ambassador of all men. You would know that if you went to the meetings
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:41 AM
23

Nope. I’ve had more success doing this than anything else. Better than apps or social circle type things. You can fuck it up though lol just focus on having fun don’t think of it like going to the gym and pushing yourself as much as you can.
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:26 PM
2

Start having sex with her then just stop and say you aren’t feeling it. This will devastate her and then you can call her any time later and she will be dtf.
/r/seduction29/07/22 11:23 PM
23

If a girl won’t kiss me on the first date then there won’t be a second date. One of the biggest and most consistent differences between men and women is that men don’t really want you to want us for our personality. So to us, knowing someone well and making out aren’t such connected things.
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:11 PM
1

Fuck that. She needs to handle her own baggage it’s not your job to be anything but yourself. If she’s not ready to date or whatever you can’t change that by being extra careful. It’s just not within your control.
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:06 PM
2

Lol this is some bitch shit but I’m sure the winning tactic is to hold sway over her friends opinions who in turn can influence her very easily.
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:01 PM
1

It’s a natural nature indeed
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:36 PM
2

The apps lol okay bro good luck with that
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:35 PM
1

Good. Keep doing it
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:56 PM
8

Not caring about the outcome of an interaction with a girl is the essence of game
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:55 PM
5

It’s the only way. The standards come in when you reject the ones you don’t like. Nature pretty much dictates that women choose not men.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:50 PM
3

This isn’t how it works. We don’t show up at the lake and decide which fish we want to try to catch. We catch as many fish as possible and throw the ones we don’t like back in the water.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:24 PM
1

I can think of at least 8 times this has happened for me it’s got to be even more than that. I don’t walk up to random people and ask for a ride home. This is after spending many hours at bars connecting with people
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:59 PM
1

Try going out with no phone, no exit strategy, just the shirt on your back and some balls. You’ll get a girl to take you to your place at worst, her place at best.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:22 AM
1

I always steer the conversation to give them opportunity but I let them pull the trigger on the sex talk. An art that isn’t easy to teach lol
/r/seduction28/07/22 09:12 PM
-3

Try to make it more of a playful teasing thing. Stick to your guns bro
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:23 PM
8

Funeral game makes more sense to me than gym game
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:26 AM
2

Not really. It’s pretty low level, just putting yourself in others shoes. A hot girl gets compliments on her appearance all day long. They like compliments on other things.
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:10 AM
1

Numbers? Lmao bro that’s a personal problem. I used to number close well over 50% of the time. I’m struggling to even remember times where girls wouldn’t give me their number. I don’t really have the patience for text game anymore though so I’m always just trying for same day stuff.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:53 PM
1

The line should be drawn at performing. If you’re funny and it’s obviously entertaining you that’s good. If you’re funny and it feels like you’re doing it to entertain others that bad
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:41 PM
9

Complimenting is frowned upon unless she is ugly
/r/seduction22/07/22 09:09 PM
-1

Seems like that would be super inefficient. You need a copy/paste message to spam them with I guess
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:39 AM
1

Talk to other girls at the venue and the friend. Mostly ignore your date
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:04 AM
3

Bars are definitely the most efficient imo
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:23 PM
3

Go out with two girls. Take them to a place with lots of other girls. Use the social proof to your advantage. Roll off your main girl because fuck her that’s disrespectful of her to invite a friend in the first place. She will probably be more inclined to hook up with you anyway if you don’t give her attention.
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:21 PM
1

Eye contact is the most over rated thing on this forum. It’s so low on the list of things to be worrying about imo.
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:37 AM
5

I hooked up with a Korean exchange student once. She understood very little English and spoke even less. It was shockingly easy just going off body language. Korea def has hoes just like any other country
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:59 AM
1

I’ve tried it. It’s no good
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:33 AM
2

I’ve met great wings at bars but I never really notice the day gamers. I assume it’s happening but I don’t pay attention
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:47 AM
2

No I don’t think so. Many time girls will comment on them but that doesn’t mean they like you because of some tattoos.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:44 AM
2

Just get a fat/ugly/drunk girl. It’s more relevant experience and you can at least get some kind of confidence from it. Getting a hooker might only damage your confidence more imo
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:34 PM
36

“Only fans actress” 😂
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:29 PM
1

Not necessarily but probably. If you are perceived as effeminate because you are weak or whatever. But being a player has always been something that is not hyper masculine imo. At least to the extent that it is rebelling against societies expectations of men. A man is supposed to work at the steel mill and have a wife and children at age 22, a pickup artist says fuck that. The guys trying to be over the top masculine usually aren’t very good. If you’re naturally hyper masculine then that’s diffe…
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:46 AM
49

If you think it’s sad then it’s sad. If you think it’s cool then it’s cool. James Bond never seems to have a problem going to some cocktail lounge by himself in pretty much every bond movie
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:30 PM
59

Online dating has like zero stigma now so guys with no game just do that instead of learning. Path of least resistance
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:30 AM
4

cheating on a girl that does threesomes with you Lmao bro you are fucking up big time
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:48 AM
23

26??? What were the dinosaurs like?
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:50 AM
5

Yup drinking gives me super powers. It’s definitely revealing what’s already there but buried under anxiety
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:30 PM
5

I just ask how old she is if there is any doubt. It’s a good way of showing intent in itself without being too direct. No need to be sneaky on this one imo
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:11 PM
1

There is some truth to that but also you’ll never get anywhere by trying to get some collective action from men. NEVER. If you want to stop drugs you take out the drug dealers not the users, there are an endless supply of users. If you want to stop prostitution you’ll never make any progress arresting johns, you have to go after the girls. The only solution is to do a better job of shaming women. This doesn’t require collective action from all men, it only requires like 10% of us be vocal and ag…
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:51 PM
3

My advice is take nothing but phone cash and an ID if you think you might be carded. It’s all shit to lose or break when you get drunk lol
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:31 PM
0

Jack dagnels
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:55 PM
1

Not him and I think the guy is right IF doing those things makes you an 8 plus. For most guys being an 8 or higher just isn’t in the cards no matter what they do. If you’re less attractive then night game works. If you’re not attractive enough for night game. You’re like a 5 or below then yeah day game is a good option. That’s how I look at it. The uglier you are the more you need to avoid paths of least resistance.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:11 PM
1

Baffling. Double digit body count with that job and you aren’t able to close the deal. I’m not sure what advice you need really. Sounds like you’re just never escalating if I had to guess.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:06 PM
2

Yeah it’s not really gonna go away. It will soften though
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:22 AM
6

I can’t believe hitting on girls at the gym is so common. It’s kind of ridiculous
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:04 AM
8

“You make me uncomfortable” “Where you at though” Lmao
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:39 PM
10

“Snapchat closes” 😂
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:58 PM
3

Lol I feel like you have to be kind of meek or viewed as not being a sexual threat to get in this situation. Maybe I’m just coping cause 6 single girls never invited me out with them before :(
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:11 AM
1

Yeah it’s about having low anxiety. Exposure helps, so does exercise and a healthy lifestyle, so does alcohol. Go with all three for best results lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:07 AM
1

Not really lost frame you have all the options
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:04 AM
1

Virginity and purity are only virtues for women. No reason to hesitate as a guy.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:57 AM
25

Do not let them see if you read lmao even if it’s just one girl
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:48 PM
142

Dick pic. High value men don’t waste time
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:18 AM
2

I disagree with the psychologists lol it could be nature or nurture and we would have no way of knowing. And of course even if we did know we couldn’t actually do anything about it. You can’t change your past or your nature. Go to the gym. Get really fucking good at something. Understand that looks aren’t that important for a man. Ugly bastards are railing beautiful girls every day. And as for game, you don’t actually have to think highly of yourself to be good. Many of the best players I’ve kno…
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:15 AM
11

Do the opposite. Build up status in the places. Get to know the people who work around. Have some rapport with everyone, stay in a cocky/funny mode or whatever your style is. Game them, even the guys, no homo. This is what real social status is. The girl is not going to care what your job is or what car you drive. If she sees that everyone around likes you and knows you that’s powerful shit.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:00 AM
1

Idk what you mean specifically. But yeah you just give and withdraw attention. It’s quite literally the same as how they train police dogs. Women are a lot harder to manage though, many of them are trying to do the same thing to you lol
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:43 AM
0

I will have many and never go down on a girl myself. There is no justice :)
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:40 AM
2

Lol ooohhh No! The sex strike! It’s over guys, no more fun for us!
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:39 PM
1

Talk to her mom
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:23 PM
0

Yeah the false iois in that situation can really fuck with you. It doesn’t hurt to flirt with them or whatever but manage expectations.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:01 PM
-4

Disregard the female orgasm as a concept lol. I’ve had girl say stupid shit like “I had 17 orgasms last night” 100% lying. To girls I’m pretty sure did cum saying they didn’t. Best thing to do is not give a fuck.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:54 PM
2

Lol you shot your shot player. Sometimes ya miss but I respect the attempt
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:37 PM
1

No not really. I’m saying what I heard from dan Harris too. Idk if it’s true or not but I know it’s not going to make any difference for me today or tomorrow.
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:58 AM
1

Hahaha another gym love story. I can’t believe this shit. All y’all doing this are so unoriginal
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:10 AM
27

Free will doesn’t exist. You make decisions before you consciously even consider the options. Moreover every part of your brain works according to cause and effect principles there is no scientific explanation for a soul or anything. You’re just an organic robot. Just you know, thought I would drop that while we are talking about things that don’t fucking matter
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:02 AM
393

Be gay
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:10 PM
9

Show don’t tell. I’ve never been friend zoned and I can’t think of the reason why really. Maybe because of low self esteem I never dated a girl too significantly more attractive than me. Maybe I’m just more escalating and aggressive than average. Maybe I’m too much of an asshole for them to want to be my friend. But yeah I wish I could pinpoint the secret to it lol
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:09 AM
0

I’m not saying fuck a lot of fat girls but take a different perspective. These homely women can offer you abundance. And they all probably have a hot friend or two. You’re not in a bad position
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:05 AM
9

Put your hand up and have her compare hers. Now you have some nice physical contact. This is the one move that I used in middle school and I still use today. Ole reliable
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:42 PM
1

Hymen check
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:35 AM
1

Your mentality sounds so adversarial. It’s not good. Actual top tier people don’t think like that. They would spend one second accepting a friend request from someone from high school and not make a blog post about it
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:32 AM
1

You wouldn’t believe how many girls I fucked when I rode a bicycle while my license was suspended for my second DUI
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:18 AM
-4

The bitterness probably good. I believe that being anti-social on some level is at the core of being a good seducer. By antisocial I don’t mean shut in. I mean someone who says fuck society. And says fuck you to all the people who will try to shame you for not being a good little rule following woman respecter.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:13 PM
1

They are trying to seize the frame. In a way guys are way more oblivious because we aren’t thinking about power dynamics and shit on a first date usually.
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:17 PM
2

I think your attitudes about eye contact are prob why you might come off as intimidating. Tone it down. Realize that maintaining eye contact too long makes people uncomfortable. I personally try to use eye contact in a way that is more dramatic or expressive. It’s not constant
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:15 PM
5

You know when Harry Potter drinks the luck potion and he is just being guided around by the vibes and everything works out. It’s like that except I’m drinking beer and I’m just trying to bring home the girl with the highest tits to waist ratio.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:14 PM
4

Socially
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:20 AM
2

I met this girl who once who was so perfect. She was at this bar in a ski town with her 2 friends. We hit it off so well, like I can’t recall ever hitting it off so well with anyone. Nobody ever totally “gets me” and my sense of humor instantly like this girl did. We hung out and talked all night. She was hot, she matched me with flirting and made me feel like a million bucks. Anyway at the end there she told me she’s married. It was a girls trip to catch up with old friends. She was also 4 or 5…
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:47 PM
0

Of course it’s not true. They wouldn’t have made a tinder profile if they just want to talk to someone. At the very least they want to sext or something lol
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:17 AM
2

Yeah fairly true. It’s common for guys to “date up” and in doing so they are pretty much selling their soul to some girl who drags them around like this. Better to hustle than be hustled
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:10 AM
3

When you say women you mean your class mates in high school right? Lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:05 PM
2

Never going to be comfortable but it can become normal. Like getting your hair cut or something. Always uncomfortable but you’re used to it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:47 AM
30

Hell no. Don’t even fuck them if you can help it, it’s dangerous.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:34 AM
1

Accountabilibuddy
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:36 PM
1

Tbh I could get top 20 percent in a wheelchair
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:13 AM
1

If they give consent then it’s consensual. No matter how drunk. Deal with it
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:35 AM
13

Yeah there is. They all follow like the same arc. Powerful man meets girl in chance encounter... Girl makes some kind of impression on him... In another chance encounter they meet again... Man remembers girl asks her on romantic date... These repeat with some build up... They have sex and he is 100% committed because her special magical pussy is the best he’s ever had
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:49 PM
0

Calling someone a rapist isn’t a little detail lol idgaf about your sources. Drunk sex that’s consensual is not rape. Men don’t have to carry around breathalyzers before sex.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:58 PM
0

Lol you just can’t help yourself. I hope you get forcibly raped so you can know what the word really means and not use it describe consensual sex.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:40 PM
1

The way you treat language is literally crazy I wish you could see that. Using the word “abuse” for non-physical emotional manipulation is crazy. Almost as crazy as using the word “rape” for consensual sex with someone who has been drinking. There is no discussion to be had with someone using language as a weapon like that.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:31 PM
1

“Emotional force” Is this a joke? Like verbal violence? Lmao learn to think clearly or something. You’re fucked
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:53 PM
2

It is socially inept. Saying lines is really outdated like we have figured out better ways.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:15 PM
1

Having sex with drunk girls is not rape. I’m not telling him to find ones that have passed out or something jfc
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:12 PM
1

It’s not rape to have sex with drunk girls. No amount of mental gymnastics from you can change that. You’re talking about coercion and shit which is not mentioned or implied by me.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:10 PM
2

Lol so when I get drunk and go driving i actually didn’t consent to breaking the law so the cops gotta let me go
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:40 AM
-21

This. There are no shortage of drunk girls OP. Go get one you’ll save money and have less shame.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:34 AM
0

Lol.... lmao even
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:54 PM
1

Man I feel like some of this has got to be purely in your head. Do you not drink? Drinking is the real magical reason why night game is way more effective and efficient. Going to a place where you and the girls are drinking an anti-anxiety drug is pretty fucking ideal when you think about it.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:04 PM
0

Question why you would let anonymous idiots from the internet bother you. If we can “tear you apart” it’s no wonder that girls are terrifying.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:43 AM
9

Shut up object
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:41 AM
0

Reminds me exactly if a girl I used to date. Started off cute. Down the line you’ll be living in fear that she might find another girls hair in your apartment
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:40 AM
2

I beat mine by jerking off on Omegle for several weeks in a row. I now make unblinking eye contact for as long as possible with every woman I see
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:37 AM
-1

Bro I’m not even going to tell you. Stay away from this girl. It’s cute at first but this is an actual crazy bitch I know from experience.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:30 AM
1

I’m very skeptical. I think it’s possible that you think it works better because you are more likely to get a yes. Like how can it be easier to build a connection when you are 1 of 1000 dudes who have her Instagram compared to being one of 10 people she texts. Like it’s inconceivable to me that would actually be more effective.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:10 AM
1

It’s like telling you their name lol ofc they give it to you. I’ve seen bitches out their Instagram handle on their cars lol.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:04 AM
2

Do you really? Like are you fucking girls who give you their Instagram? Seems like such a waste of time. It’s zero investment from them.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:01 AM
122

I don’t kiss and tell...
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:49 PM
7

I mean a number really isn’t shit either but it’s a lot more significant than an instagram handle in the scheme of things. Lots of things to do differently but for me bouncing is a key. Pretty much as soon as it feels possible I am bouncing the girl to the next bar over. You accomplish a lot in doing this. You are leading, she is following you, she is more invested, possibly isolated from friends, being in more than one place together makes you more like someone she knows than the guy from bar x…
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:12 PM
6

Lmao some might be reluctant to let me fuck them too. The idea of game is that we are using psychology to maximize our chances of overcoming this reluctance. Trust me and start getting phone numbers if you want less flakes and time wasters. Instagram kind of an all or nothing proposition. Either you have a bad ass social media presence or you don’t. If you don’t then you’re better off having no presence at all. At least that’s mysterious.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:15 PM
31

Instagram is not a phone number. It’s like going out and “getting names”. Every girl will tell you her name lol
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:02 PM
1

I don’t have anything to work on the hate is on purpose and well thought out. People like you are hypocrites. You don’t see a lot of guys trying to get into makeup or whatever girl shit. I’m not asking for them to cast less handsome male doctors for greys anatomy.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:02 AM
1

Of course you do. Again, fuck you
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:29 AM
1

Playing them is fine but they make games shittier to appeal to women. Like I’m thinking about Laura Croft and Tifa getting their sexiness turned down so that it’s not off-putting for female players. Just one small example.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:12 PM
0

Yeah there is. Indirect approaching where you demonstrate intent with body language/vibe/vocal tonality/ etc etc etc. it’s the best way to approach. It’s direct because she immediately knows you are hitting on her. It’s indirect because you aren’t saying “you look pretty” or whatever. Other people’s definitions may vary
/r/seduction10/06/22 07:26 AM
1

They def aren’t better but you got the right answer. I’ll even do lots of cardio before going out for this effect.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:27 PM
17

Don’t ask verbally. If you look at her lips and lean in slowly she will know what’s happening and be able to reject it if she wants to
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:52 PM
2

I don’t worry about it too much. I come in pretty high energy. Some girls just like “chill” guys. Fuck em
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:48 PM
16

Ehhh I think I preach the truth. Too many people think “build it and they will come”. It’s just not the case. Changing how you act and present yourself is the shortest path from getting no pussy to having success. Building up your value is good but it’s something you should do for YOU not for girls.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:43 PM
1

Nervousness helps your anxiety 🧐
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:16 PM
8

It doesnt have yo be that way this can be reversed. She has makeup, waxes her vag, fixes her fair, puts on carefully selected clothes, carefully manages her social media etc and I meet her at a bar unshaven in some t shirt and a baseball cap and end up fucking her lol
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:27 PM
74

Self esteem, not afraid to lead, low anxiety, etc. It’s good that you see these guys and realize you don’t need a Lamborghini and 500 pound bench press to get lots of girls.
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:11 PM
1

Imagine being so triggered you post this shit every day
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:30 PM
1

You’ll be fine. Tell them Arnold is your cousin. Girls are pretty much the same everywhere.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:25 AM
2

Yeah bro you’re 26 you have plenty of time to do whatever you want. Don’t buy the marketing. Having a girlfriend is not that great. They suck up a ton of your time and attention. Most are just a waste. You didn’t miss out like you think you did.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:21 AM
3

Linked in is nothing wait till you learn about care.com i got baddies from the community college “baby sitting” my cat whenever I want them. Cheap too
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:12 AM
3

I see the social media thing as a niche kind of like being a good musician or something. You can get tons of girls with it but it’s not really worth the effort if you’re not about it. Yeah jealousy/demonstrating that you have options is a powerful tool. Just calling another girl in front of her is a bit on the nose though lol
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:08 AM
1

Yup that’s about how it is. Key is to never lose the frame in the first place. At the start of any relationship the woman is going to think you are awesome. They often die by a thousand cuts and shit tests.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:36 AM
3

I’ve heard it said that once you lose the frame you can’t get it back. This must be hyperbole though. Anything possible, it’s just exceptionally hard. I think you are past the point of being able to game your wife. She knows you too well, for instance she knows immediately if you are faking confidence about a situation or whatever. IMO the way to seize the initiative is through actually bettering yourself. Get fit, learn something cool etc. You have to really, with great subtlety, build up the i…
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:40 PM
22

Jesus christ. Delete social media
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:57 PM
0

Nah you just walked around. Drive some liquor into her next date
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:36 PM
7

You can get a hot girl to marry you. It will cost you everything though, and she won’t remain hot. It’s basically a Faustian bargain.
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:18 PM
6

Haha “look how much bigger my hands are than yours” was something a lot of guys developed independently in middle school and it really never stops being money.
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:57 PM
0

Yeah it’s pretty cringe bro
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:54 PM
-14

Go fuck yourself
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:27 PM
3

Just go to a bar and fuck a fat chick it’s not hard for a good looking guy in a situation with alcohol even if you’re weird. Sex is never out of reach Also 28 is a fine age. You’re pretty much golden until the 50s if you take care of yourself. This is one of our biggest advantages over women. They typically hit a wall around age 30 and we generally don’t.
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:10 PM
-15

I’ll coach you for a price
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:01 PM
2

Never heard of this law. You don’t really have the leverage in a pickup situation to go far with this imo. Once you’ve already hit it off a simple pavlovian style admission and withdrawing of attention can be useful in keeping the frame you want. A lot of girls especially hot ones are naturally good at this though and will be doing the same thing to you, purposefully or not.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:55 PM
73

Agreed but it’s better to show than tell. So as soon as she starts telling you a long story about “that girl from work that she hates” just cut her off with a “that’s crazy... anyway”. This is the kind of thing where being an asshole is rewarding. It’s not mean spirited it’s just signaling hey I’m not your emotional support teddy bear, fun vibes only with me.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:43 PM
2

Lmao damn did one of the frat guys roofie you? I’ve never been so wasted as to not remember 5 girls whose numbers I got Just always text them after getting the number. Just a text with your name so they have your number too. Then you have the history of the text with date and time
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:22 PM
2

Some girls don’t have likeable personalities nothing wrong with not wanting to talk to one.
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:04 PM
0

She has the frame bro it’s over
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:09 PM
27

Yeah most of them never had to develop any kind of a personality. It’s way worse with zoomer generation girls though they all got any spark of individuality beaten out of them vis social media in their formative years I think. It’s to the point where I can predict how a 22 year old girl will respond to anything I say to her at a very high % accuracy.
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:50 AM
0

love doesnt have a good definition. In this context im talking about attention, affection, gifts, acts of service, etc etc
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:38 AM
1

Lol it’s very possible and common.
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:28 AM
19

You’ve got to have the social skills to recognize when you’re bothering someone. At the same time embrace being inappropriate. Fuck society
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:33 AM
-7

So it’s morally wrong to use love to get sex but not morally wrong to use sex to get love? Why? Why is the female prerogative acceptable but the males is unacceptable?
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:25 AM
3

If you have like a cool personality and you're decent looking but just anxiety is holding you back then yeah have like 5 beers and you'll feel bulletproof. Unfortunately I don't think the confidence is transferrable. I had a ton of success getting girls drinking then trying to do sober daygame and shit its like being at square one.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:44 AM
3

Aint nobody got time for it. Honestly most girls by themselves take up way too much time and energy.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:39 AM
4

Exactly. Not sure why they are downvoting me. Straight up telling a girl you just want to fuck NSA is legitimately a terrible idea and bad game. Even a lot of sluts who want a FWB arent going to agree to that because its way too direct. There is no tension, no possibilities, no mystery. Its also why you ask a girl over to "watch a movie" even when you both know 100% youre asking her to come have sex.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:36 AM
-47

Idk about that bro. Deception is a big part of the game. They want to use sex to get love from you. You want to use love to get sex from them. I feel like statistically you are eliminating such a huge number of possible girls if you just straight up say you only want sex. It’s always better to lie. Even if the lie is something about how you’re moving in a month or whatever so that they know it can’t be serious. That way they can still deceive themselves and it’s not all on the table that they ar…
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:35 PM
1

I’ve never been just friends with a girl tbh. Either they like me or I like them or they are dating one of my friends so we don’t acknowledge eachother in that way.
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:25 PM
6

Based whaler
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:29 PM
3

Man I like tall girls. There are gorgeous ones that still manage to have low self esteem. Have fun
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:26 PM
7

Ignore it. I don’t want to go into the psychology behind saying this but it’s safe to assume they don’t know what the fuck they want in general. This applies to “I only like tall guys” “I only like older guys” etc etc.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:18 PM
1

Yeah every approach is different for me. “Hey who are you” or something like that is the only line I use if I can’t think of anything to break the ice. Getting into a state of low to no anxiety is definitely key.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:58 AM
2

Why do you want a girlfriend? It’s really a massive waste of your time. Your time is valuable at your age.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:54 AM
0

Go stand in a bar and memorize the word “yes”
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:38 AM
1

Don’t be a delicate flower, you probably need more approach volume. Give yourself more practice and a chance to meet a yes girl for once and get more confidence. If you just can’t stomach that then make your approaches better. Def stop having the interaction be about you getting a phone number. When I approach I’m just trying to be entertained. That’s the frame of mind that works for me and it makes sense, that’s how someone with abundance feels when approaching. Getting the number is more of an…
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:32 AM
3

Agreed. Me? I would have brought her a DVD with all the pictures from her Facebook profile scrolling to anime music. These guys don’t know how to treat a lady
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:16 AM
1

I just stand in the corner and think, enlightened by my own intellect and knowledge of the blade.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:10 AM
1

It’s a lot easier when you’re better looking. This hypothetical is a waste of time though. Even the good looking guy will be unhappy if he has this mindset
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:14 AM
17

Lol the whole point of having game is getting hotter girls than you should. If this is your mentality just make a tinder and stand around in bars with your friends. Youll get your 5/10
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:03 PM
20

Lol I’m sure it’s probably got to do with agents I don’t believe celebrity relationships are real for the most part
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:06 PM
4

Not a good idea to say that so explicitly. You communicate it by how you act. She can tell if you’re absolutely not a provider.
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:24 PM
1

Go where nobody knows you.
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:08 PM
0

Don’t fall for the “dad bod” stuff. It’s sour grapes and coping. I think the ideal body for women is something like a hunter gatherer would have. Like pretty ripped but lean. However don’t lift or change your weight just for girls. Do what you want, do it for you. And if being buff makes you more confident that will make the biggest difference. Also personally I got less attention when I got too skinny. For a lot of my most glorious pickup days I was around 190 pounds at 6’1.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:48 PM
-5

It’s not that easy for them. There are snakes in the grass like me out there that will just fuck then and string them along never actually committing like they want lol
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:18 PM
2

Oh for sure. I agree bars are better than clubs.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:14 PM
3

It’s not. I’ve been out by myself probably hundreds of times. This shit is all in your head I can’t a remember a single time anyone gave a single fuck. People never notice and if they do they assume you have a reason such as your friends are coming later or you are traveling.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:57 PM
3

Ehhh idk bout that bro. It’s definitely more efficient if wasting time is what you’re worried about. People just open up more quickly when drinking and not busy with their day to day. Not saying going out in the daytime doesn’t have its pluses but the nighttime is definitely more efficient and less boring for me
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:44 AM
9

Meeting girls in person is how you bypass this.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:31 AM
3

They really shouldn’t be letting underage kids use an app designed to send nudes and cheat on your pattern with no repercussions. But they do so don’t mess with random adds of unknowns imo
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:29 PM
1

What your uncle said. And you’re just more interesting as a world traveller
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:38 PM
7

No sounds about right.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:17 PM
3

Whatever works for you. I couldn’t pull it off without sounding like a soap opera actor or con man personally. It could easily sound very “white knight” and uncalibrated which will dry them up right away. Philosophically though I think maybe you’re on to something. Not coming from ego can be way of reframing things that reduces anxiety for guys. For me instead of coming from the heart vs mind it’s just more about coming from the spirit of collaboration and not competition. I think maybe we mean …
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:37 AM
3

Based
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:20 PM
7

You just got funneled into her follower count and potentially her cache of “just in case maybe guys”. She is setting the frame completely. Best practice imo is treat tinder like a supplementary thing. Invest very little but have it as an additional avenue of meeting girls not the main way. Sometimes you get lucky with it but it’s ultimately unreliable and suboptimal if your goal is to get hot girls.
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:19 PM
3

Fr? I’m finna level up. Perm out my hair and shave the sides so it be bussin like a broccoli sprout
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:19 PM
11

Still can’t believe y’all say no cap unironically
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:18 PM
2

Statistics say the opposite. Men rate women an average of 5. They rate us like and average 3 or something lol
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:30 PM
9

Golf analogy. Money is like having better clubs and gear. Being ripped is like being ripped. Yeah you can swing the club harder. Still exercising is a less efficient way of getting good at golf than playing golf. See John Daly Also god damn stop wanting to date Instagram models. Like I understand want to fuck them but I’d rather have a fat girlfriend for my own happiness than one of these succubi
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:18 PM
1

This is very true but I also really despise this about women. Think for yourself ffs.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:39 PM
2

hell no. They invited you
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:37 PM
1

Yeah if you just take the attitude of “I am here to have fun and amuse myself” it covers so many things. So much of what game is, is really just how you’ll act naturally with that frame of mind and in a state of low anxiety
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:35 PM
5

Your strategy should be to have fun lol if you can’t make it fun leave. If you’re having fun everyone will prob like you
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:18 PM
1

Women have invaded and destroyed every male activity. Men can’t have a SINGLE thing. Some snowflake women will throw a fit to get in every single time. No Boy Scouts, no golf courses for men, no gentleman’s clubs, video games etc etc etc. We live in a feminized word where men cannot even be permitted to have their own spaces at all. So fuck you
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:58 PM
2

Yeah its very much an all or nothing kind of thing though. I dont have any disrespect for someone that wants to max their social media and use it as an easy indicator of social proof. But people that have mediocre social media that screams "I am a boring average joe" are sheepish and I think "beta" for lack of a better word.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:25 PM
4

No it’s not a problem. It’s really an asset, you can be mysterious instead of easy for them to figure out. Giving out of Instagram instead of phone number is almost always a form of soft rejection anyway.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:15 PM
2

It do be crazy how the nastiest bitches still manage to look pretty hot on their tinder profiles
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:10 AM
4

They won’t
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:20 PM
3

2 hour workouts every day is a lot. Try changing it up make Wednesday a rest day or whatever. I’m a weekend warrior personally even when I was in college I was like this. I just want to be home chilling after work
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:53 AM
0

Yup the world we live in is basically built for women. Yet they still complain constantly, I guess the complaining is part of the reason why everything is so set up for them. But what are you going to do about it? Play the cards you are dealt as best you can and don’t complain like a woman.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:26 AM
6

Texting is always best. Insist on phone numbers if you can. You don’t want to be doing what’s popular you want to be in the exclusive club of people who text her
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:27 PM
1

Penis envy: the novel
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:23 PM
1

You sound like a dick lol “leveling up” and leaving your high school friends behind on purpose. You’ll regret doing that unless they really are terrible people or something
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:02 PM
3

Pretty much anywhere else is better imo. Unless you’re just visiting the gym and it isn’t where you always go.
/r/seduction16/05/22 08:32 PM
1

Give yourself more time to move on. 8 years is a long ass time. Getting over the past for me is all about keeping a reasonable view, not letting the rose colored glasses of hindsight fuck with you. And breaking routines/literally not allowing yourself to think about her for like at least a year.
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:14 PM
28

It’s like golf I think. Having the money to buy better clubs and gear can help like a little bit. But not nearly as much as just practicing your swing
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:39 PM
25

Social norms are despicable though. People who just do what’s normal are fucked
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:36 AM
0

I always walk up behind girls in the bar and cover their eyes then say “guess who”. Then I say your night in shining armor.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:26 AM
1

I dont know what youre on about. They are useful terms that play out in reality all around us. Just because some people take it too far or try to make it a form of science doesnt mean they are not useful terms. Stereotyping in general is a useful tool. Otherwise we would have a much harder time communicating. You would need to describe lots of things about a person, or give long windend examples of how they are, when a simple label gets the job done in a word.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:40 AM
1

Guys who just want to be normal and get their dating advice from hollywood are absolutely defenseless and get hen pecked and manipulated by women. We have all seen it.
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:14 AM
4

Most of these guys are beta providers who do whatever their girl says. Their fate is way worse than being single and frustrated imo
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:55 PM
1

Very small percentage of guys have the looks and the “natural game” both. Like you may have the looks to get girls all the time but those girls are going to hold the frame and be gaming you really. I don’t think there are that many guys who get it effortlessly. We can’t really perceive their internal struggles you know.
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:50 PM
1

Social status is relative. You can be a loser in every aspect of your life but say you’re in a band. Even an unsuccessful band. When your band is playing at some bar you have huge social status there. Even if you sleep on other people’s couches and drive a 98 honda. Conversely you can be making 30k per month and be in a room where nobody knows you and nobody cares and they think you’re bragging/lying and a loser for telling them how much money you make.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:49 PM
5

If you break down confidence into situational confidence and core confidence that’s more useful. You can gain situational confidence by just having experience and exposure. So build up the confidence to talk to girls and stuff that is very doable Core confidence however has a nature/nurture component to it and most of the time when people are telling you how to boost your core confidence it’s BS and a waste of time. Get situational confidence in every area that matters to you and hopefully that …
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:52 PM
0

It does. Because only a woman would be naive enough to think that saying “I’m here for sex” is going to get you sex lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:55 PM
0

Even in my most AFC form I never got friend zoned lol I’m not really sure why I think I at least would try to flirt enough that I wasn’t friend material. I remember being fuck zoned when I wanted to be the boyfriend though. Kind of the opposite problems of most I guess.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:41 PM
0

You guys are stupid. Game is game like Bundy could have a great system. Just because the guy was a psycho serial killer doesn’t mean his game was bad.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:25 PM
0

Is that an answer
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:11 PM
0

Are you literally a woman or something lmao wtf
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:03 PM
-1

Yeah... deception is part of the game. Just saying straight up “I’m here to fuck” is not seductive and not going to work unless you meet a weird freaky girl.
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:38 AM
-2

Is lying really that difficult for people lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 02:08 AM
3

Simply have them sign a sex contract prior to meeting
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:47 PM
2

Impressive, very nice
/r/seduction11/05/22 08:24 PM
4

Do you have something to say or are you just checking in because you’re needy? Multi day double texting is not necessarily a problem
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:04 PM
1

Big time alpha move
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:13 PM
7

You go out before everyone else and hopefully by the time girls get there you have been able to make some friends with other people there. I mean go to the bar at like 4, that gives you hours and hours to mingle. The staff at the bar can also be your friends, talk to them and tip them if you want. They will be your buddies for money a hundred percent if all else fails lol
/r/seduction11/05/22 05:01 PM
49

I start talking like a politician if asked that.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:51 PM
3

You prefer it? Lol it very much puts you in a lower tier with much more guys also messaging her on Instagram. Also it just seems like the worst route if you aren’t really good looking. It’s a like short guy choosing to play basketball. Why compete directly against tall guys when you can just play a different sport.
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:05 AM
1

I mean the guy definitely has terrible social anxiety and alcohol will fix it. For a hard case like that I think it’s not that stupid. He isn’t going to fix the social anxiety by going to therapy or taking baby steps for the next 10 years in all likelihood. Alcohol is actually safer and less addictive than the xanax a doctor would give him.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:25 AM
1

Having fun is the key. Stop taking it so seriously. If you’re having fun she will too and you’ll get better results.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:21 AM
6

You’re better off not having it. And they are giving you instagram because it’s pumps their follower count and it’s zero investment. It’s the easiest way not to give you their phone number.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:19 AM
-7

What is else is he gonna do.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:12 AM
2

Most girls can hide their crazyness until they get you into a relationship. This one cant even manage that. Steer clear and head for open waters.
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:57 AM
-19

I know its like terrible advice but life is also short. Start hitting the liquor hard buddy.
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:51 AM
3

this guy gets it
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:14 AM
7

Im more of a bar guy but I think this subtle "grounded" thing is really really hard for most guys because it means you have to really be in a state of very low to no anxiety. If you arent then you are very incongruent "tryhard nonchalant" as some girl I was talking to put it. For me, higher energy cocky/funny is just more natural and congruent. Obviously that does not entail being a clown or performer and you can push that too far but its just what seems to work for me. Solo daygame really is ha…
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:45 PM
4

Alcohol
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:35 PM
3

No I agree with him. Especially on the time between meeting and texting. Girls are watching tik tok and shit they will 100% forget about you quickly if you aren’t communicating. As for the time between texts that’s fine too. I don’t think it’s needy to text back fast. For me if I put my phone down to brainstorm a good response there is a good chance I get distracted and forget to respond.
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:03 PM
1

“Tryhard nonchalant” lol ironic but I do know what you mean. I don’t like that either when I detect it
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:22 AM
3

I do care hence the invitation. I just don’t base my life around girls. Which is something that hot girls who get invited on dates all the time like.
/r/seduction10/05/22 05:13 AM
2

Nobody likes rejection. I dont see how you think that is "running around what I really mean". Its better than going back and fourth are you free thursday? Are you free friday? It actually is a waste of time and makes the experience less exciting because its planned and it becomes an appointment instead of just a spontaneous kind of thing.
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:46 AM
3

You think thats hard. Wait till you move on to finding the "clit" if such a thing exists.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:22 AM
89

>I'm started to develop feelings lol get the fuck out of there simple friend
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:20 AM
9

Hot girls have guys everywhere showing a special interest in them. When you are showered with this kind of attention all the time im sure its more annoying than flattering. But a guy that talks to you like you're just a regular person and doesnt bend over backwards for you is going to stand out and be attractive. Changing around your schedule for her and stuff signals low self esteem in the early stage before there is any commitment between the two people.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:18 AM
10

Wait so you cant tell an obvious joke when you see one and are using the word "problematic"? cringe.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:11 AM
3

Its not even close. All indications are that women are less horny on average lol Maybe they think one way and act another but we cant know what all the women are thinking. Nobody knows.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:43 PM
2

In this context managing and suppressing are the same thing to me. Its semantics. I said "Suppressing outward manifestations" not just suppressing your emotions to be extra clear.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:03 PM
6

focus on your grades
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:37 PM
1

tomato tamato
/r/seduction09/05/22 10:31 PM
5

Nah he’s right it is reality. It’s at least 2 to 1 wouldn’t be surprised if it was 3 or 4 to 1.
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:33 PM
2

Play pool
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:30 PM
7

Put on some music that makes you feel bad ass, do 100 pushups then chug a beer. Youll be approaching everything that moves.
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:32 PM
-2

ehh idk bro. Suppressing outward manifestations of emotions is also a normal part of being an adult. We dont yell every time something makes us mad and probably shouldnt cry every time something is sad. Nobody would want to be around you. You can allow yourself to feel something without being outward with it.
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:15 PM
2

It depends on your personality type. Im pretty much incapable of approaching with low energy. I dont have the "chill guy" gene in me at all. So id come in standing and then maybe move to sitting with them if that feels welcome and we have something interesting to talk about.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:41 PM
1

haha classic. Teach her about the science. I dont blame you though unexpected flirting is a lot harder than when youre ready for it. Remember that being witty doesnt fucking matter, dont even try to be witty. Its more about being playful/socially liberated and having a positive interaction than having the perfect one liner. Plenty of dumb guys slay.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:37 PM
4

Just reassure her unless she is actually annoying.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:33 PM
3

Its a bit on the nose. I rarely publicize my role as the CEO of eating pussy because I dont want to look like im trying too hard.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:22 PM
5

The advice you get isnt even clear. Im from the oldschool and believe that you should be a stoic invulnerable rock. Apparently newer guys are teaching to be more authentic about it, and "own" your vulnerability or whatever. IMO the science is not settled here. You just have to experiment for yourself and report back.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:18 PM
1

Apparently some people actually do meet girls with some of these ridiculous hookup things like adult friend finder. I find it hard to believe myself though. It’s got to be hookers or something
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:53 PM
5

Idk. Do the criticism sandwich. Compliment, criticism, compliment. That way they get it but come out feeling like you were nice to them
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:43 PM
2

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/r/seduction09/05/22 04:39 PM
48

I dont do dinner dates. No woman would ever sleep with me if they watched me devour my food. Its horrible
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:08 PM
17

she should know you’re high value based on your career, lifestyle It’s just not how it works bro. Women largely aren’t impressed by how much money you make. Especially young hot ones. Trying to tell them about it is cringe. They need to be shown not told.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:27 PM
74

Yeah I do. Granted I probably won’t actually do that stuff alone but she doesn’t know that
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:41 AM
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I am going to do x would you like to join? This is high value. I’m having fun and doing shit whether you are coming or not. I’m not changing my schedule to fit yours. Etc
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:36 AM
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Based
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:34 AM
5

No lol thats not how it works
/r/seduction09/05/22 08:17 AM
14

Value is relative. It’s not that hard to be the most attractive guy in a room. It’s very hard to be the most attractive guy in a city.
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:34 AM
1

Just use some discretion and don’t approach in a dark alley or something. You don’t need a rule of thumb or anything
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:03 AM
2

With all do respect you sound like such a pussy A girl the other day was telling me some shit about “aggressive squirrels” and how these squirrels were scary to her.... some people are just uncomfortable and scared of everything it’s not our job to cater to these people.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:51 AM
7

I probably wouldnt. Ghosting is one thing but blocking is another. It feels like more of a low blow to me to block someone. I dont even block people I hate lol
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:24 AM
10

Guys help. There is this baby with some really great candy. But the thing is I dont know how to get it from him. Any ideas on how I can take candy from this baby?
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:28 AM
2

>sapiosexuals lol the sigma males of sexuality (im a sigma male btw)
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:20 AM
6

When I was at my most jacked it was 100% only dudes coming up to me mirin asking about lifting. It still helps with girls but not that much. It’s mostly about not looking like shit tbh. Min maxing your lifting and fitness is a fine life pursuit but it’s a poor way of getting girls.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:04 PM
0

Im sorry that happened to you or congratulations im proud of you.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:42 PM
5

They dont care about betting on the fastest horse. They will just wait around at the finish line and try for the horse that has already won. In the mean time while the race is going on they just want the fun horse.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:41 PM
10

Yeah we should have addressed this at our last monthly worldwide meeting of men.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:38 PM
18

Complaining about the natural world is pointless. Its like yelling at a cloud to stop raining on you. Childish. But at the same time I get it. Sometimes it just rains on the worst days at the worst times. It is fucking unfair that a man needs to become a CEO with a six pack and chiseled jaw line to have the same sexual power as a 22 year old girl who just isnt fat. But there are other factors that go in our favor too. Namely ageing, we have so much more time than them to be attractive, to be fer…
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:34 PM
11

Damn she started with the kissey emoji too lol First obvious mistake is double texting. Your phone bill joke is fine but “whatever lol” is kind of unpleasant. Once she says she is relaxing today the mistake is to ask another question instead of using the opportunity to say what you’re doing today. Make it something interesting. It’s not THAT bad though I get the feeling she is texting a lot of guys so if it’s not immediately entertaining she just ghosts. This is why dating apps suck
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:02 PM
1

Lol damn if alcohol makes you more anxious that’s just really unfortunate. It makes anxiety disappear like magic for me. I was giving examples of bad things to say lol but the confidence and body language and smile on your face can make even negative statements to strangers work as a conversation starter.
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:22 AM
4

Yeah I mean there you go that’s why models are good looking. I find this effect really strong with haircuts. Like if you’re really good looking you can cut your hair with a fork and people think it’s a cool haircut
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:05 AM
68

If you want unconditional love get a dog. You wont get it from women who arent your mother.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:52 AM
2

Or how many expect sex within 3 dates? But you did say its perfectly fine to form boundaries. He is forming a boundary on his time/money being wasted. Isnt it really the exact same thing.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:43 AM
3

haha I wonder how many guys even read your bio, let alone care that you say that. But regardless its not an unreasonable thing to put out there and I dont blame you for it if you find dating frustrating or whatever.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:39 AM
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Also, its not actually a boundary in many cases. Women will say this and then want to have sex hours later. Its actually the woman signaling that she isnt a slut in most cases.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:33 AM
2

Yeah a normal person doesnt establish boundaries when the situation doesnt merit it. I dont specifically tell a person that I dont want to do drugs when I meet them unless they start talking about drugs. There is a "guilty until proven innocent" thing going on that indicates a jaded or mentally unwell person.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:29 AM
2

Quantity has a quality all its own. I agree with a lot of your sentiment here. However just the vibe I am getting from you is that you pull too hard and if its bad enough, youll spend more time trying to compensate it with quantity. As with most things there is a balance to be struck. Good game, sets that last long enough to make a positive memorable impression and no longer, with lots of approaches. Thats the winning formula.
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:08 AM
1

>best/most efficient/most effective/easiest way for a guy to increase his status lying. ez
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:38 AM
2

One thing women don’t understand is that we are opposite of you in that we actually want girls to like us for physical attributes not the quality of our character or whatever. Telling a guy you like him because he is funny is way worse than saying you like him because he is strong or whatever. Generally speaking
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:08 AM
2

What I'm interested in is what men are receptive to and if there's any tips for how to approach men in the wild Maximize your looks first thing. We are much more visual than women. Then you have to learn how to walk a contradictory tight rope so that you are sexy and sexual yet pure and innocent lol Other than that just generally being enthusiastic when talking to a guy and having a personality and sense of humor will get you far. Make the guy feel like a bad ass, be impressed with him. Women al…
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:15 PM
2

>tell me about yourself ugh thats the worst. Ill just say some off the wall shit because who can be bothered to answer that honestly.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:09 PM
2

Go even deeper. Pretend to be having a phone conversation and talk about your biggest insecurities in a public place. These are so brutal I hope it works for people.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:06 PM
8

Necessity is the mother of invention and I dont think women have ever had a need. Thats not to say women dont have game, many have insane mind blowing game but they didnt need to figure it out from reading a book. Women spar with eachother since middle school, their world is socially cut throat and competitive in a way most men cant comprehend. Women tend to treat their friendships like romantic relationships. Complete with power struggles, conflict resolution, manipulation, betrayal and so on. …
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:58 PM
1

Really? I feel very opposite about that. Bars are like semi warm approach because of the atmosphere and social lubrication. Daytime approaches are frigidly cold by comparison imo. I wouldnt recommend anyone approach in the day unless they are quite unattractive or cerebral so as to have lower relative value in a bar. Or you simply dont want to meet the type of girl who goes to bars and drinks a lot.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:30 PM
18

I set my coffee maker up in my closet so that my clothes always smell like coffee.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:10 PM
3

We face the dragon head on and strike its heart. As mystery would say. Exercise and have a healthy lifestyle, that lowers general anxiety. But at the end of the day you have to just slay the dragon. Even once you do that anxiety comes back but you are also stronger and stronger each time.
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:00 PM
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Yeah. Even before reading about game the "drink 8 beers and start talking to girls" method worked for me. It works because drinking that much puts you in a state of pretty much no anxiety. A state I want to be able to get into sober. When you step up to a 3 set confidently that alone puts you way above most guys. And the odds that one of them likes you is fairly good if you're ok looking. Even if you talk to them about how the music is too loud and your feet hurt.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:53 PM
1

Bro I do this to everyone. I can’t multitask well enough to text people and do other things.
/r/seduction07/05/22 07:12 PM
1

There is no replacement for displacement
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:48 PM
0

Hahaha yes like half the people here are falling in love with gym girls
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:54 AM
2

Hooking up used to not mean sex. Then people turned it into sex. Then they started using it so often that they are now abbreviating it. It looks so ridiculous from my point of view, hard to describe.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:50 AM
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>hu god damn zoomers. Youre not a likable generation.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:34 AM
8

Of course they are fair game. Sheesh high school really did a number on some of you guys.
/r/seduction07/05/22 03:59 AM
7

Inversely proportional to how hot she is
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:23 AM
48

nope. Anti slut defense wont allow it. Even the most thinly veiled shit like come cuddle with me can work though. women lol
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:34 AM
3

I tried the bumble looking for friends option and would specifically message guys about looking for a wing. No success, tons of them were gay, non were very similar to me in terms of age/goals/being single.
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:11 AM
3

Its not about high status in the city. Its about high status in the room.
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:02 AM
7

Seems like such a small thing to be asking us about bro idk. You could joke and say that’s just your natural smell or tell the truth or say it’s some super expensive shit. Whatever fits you and your personality really. The much bigger question here is this: Anyone here bold enough to go out wearing women’s perfume? And does this work as some kind jealousy or pre-selection move, a subtle implication that you have a girlfriend? I have thought about this but it felt too weird to try, even for me.
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:30 PM
1

There you go! Do enough research so that you know more than 99% of the population about these subjects (which should take you just a hand full of hours) and then youre all set!
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:23 PM
1

Just lie. Think of the most interesting story you know about another person and then just make that you. Exercise some restraint with this but yeah. Nobody else will tell you this but its the shortest path from A to B. Fake it until you are actually interesting.
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:18 PM
3

Bars. Also get some kind of a social life. Everyone needs at least one good friend imo.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:59 PM
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I think its weird how many guys want to approach at the gym. Like you never get questions about wanting to approach at the starbucks, or where you get your oil changed, or grocery stores. Its always gyms, surely because of how the girls are dressed there. Its the house of pain. How dare you try to use it for pleasure. Zeus is looking down at you sneering when you do this.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:41 PM
2

Youre better off just like flicking them or poking them i guess. I have never tried the roundhouse opener though.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:37 PM
9

Not unless they have done a weird amount of research. And usually the ones who even know about it think its just about peacocking and negging.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:02 PM
1

Point at them and say who are you?
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:19 PM
1

Good stuff
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:14 PM
1

Based
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:33 PM
3

It is. The way they run toward competition instead of away from it won’t ever really make sense to me.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:28 PM
1

Lol happiness surveys. Data so bad it’s literally not useful at all. I’d rather take one guys word for it than do that
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:21 PM
11

I wouldn’t lie to her. And I lie plenty but that’s too much. She doesn’t deserve to be lied to you know.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:07 AM
2

5 stars
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:01 AM
237

You should be able to talk about things around you, herself and yourself. But if you just can’t, put that autism to work and learn everything there is to know about women’s shoes, astrology, and greys anatomy.
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:58 AM
3

“Uhh achsully he didn’t personally ask every man so it’s FALSE”
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:19 AM
13

Let me know when you figure out how to turn this on and off. Id do anything to get my barber to stop talking to me. FOCUS ON THE HAIR GERALD
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:17 AM
1

Give some examples of these communities. Every time I try to start a cult nobody seems interested in joining :(
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:53 AM
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I would take them to a bar and then youre the cool guy who walks in the door with two girls. Youll probably get more girls looking your way and you have the option to roll off both of them if you want and use that social proof. Or just come back later on or the next day. Just an idea.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:34 AM
4

hahahaa over 40 with an unspecified number of cats. It all checks out
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:28 AM
18

Take a break. You wont ever actually go back to square one. Just be playful with people you interact with day to do and keep your skills up that way.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:17 AM
19

Most men lead lives of quiet desperation
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:16 AM
9

lmao go away. Guys have it hard enough already they dont need idiots like you shaming them for trying to figure out how to get girls.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:11 AM
9

You got to change your frame of mind. You are looking like this as a job application where the girl is your boss. Instead look at yourself like hustler, lion on the savanna, used car salesman, analogy of your choosing.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:28 PM
3

Yes you have to go out and get women in that sense you are chasing but with regards to the interaction you want to make her chase you They are just different things. Your body is part of your SMV and your game is how you leverage your SMV You can be motivated by whatever you want but if you only lift for girls you will probably stop lifting when you figure out you can still pull when your body isnt great or you get a hot gf so you are no longer motivated Money is way less relevant than anything …
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:21 PM
2

Hard to say without seeing you. Maybe you do the thing where your voice goes higher at the end of a sentence when asking a question. Maybe you say things that are a bit too considerate. Maybe you just need to go to the gym. Maybe it’s all micro expressions and the problem is in your mentality. I don’t think we can tell you
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:27 PM
1

Haha damn. You’re probably right
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:37 AM
1

Whyyy lol
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:36 AM
1

>what do YOu want? This.
/r/seduction05/05/22 01:38 AM
1

Lmaooo apparently not since you need help juicing up that insta! Good luck
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:57 PM
1

lol you have a verifiable history of your life that girls can look through. Meanwhile I can just straight up lie about my life. Its so unfair for you isn't it.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:47 PM
4

I think its terrible advice. This whole "field of dreams" idea, you know build it and they will come, is nonsnese. If you want to get good at basketball you dont take a year to work on your fitness, shooting, studying the history of basketball, lifting weights, etc. The fastest way to get good at basketball is to play basketball. Even if youre fat or whatever.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:45 PM
1

3 date rule has to go out the window. Ive never even heard of that
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:21 PM
3

Because when you were in middle school you liked some girl and the guys found out and made fun of you and in your childish mind you thought you were going to die. And you carry that with you so now youre afraid of anyone knowing you like a girl. Sound about right?
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:16 PM
0

Chump mentality. Delete your instagram.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:14 PM
69

how about talking to her. Next time approach right away. The more time you have to think the more anxiety about the situation you will build up.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:11 PM
3

Bars are the best im afraid. I would love to hear about some creative ideas though. Personally I would join a wicca church/cult or whatever the fuck that is. Those girls gotta be the good kind of crazy. And youll probably be one of the only dudes.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:06 PM
1

She wants you to choke her
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:04 PM
0

>So I’m 30 and I have a boss that’s 45. She’s very attractive but she’s married. stopped reading lmao. Dont be stupid bro
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:03 PM
27

LMAO the white knight saves the day again. Fuck that dude. Try to take great pleasure in pulling right in front of him. Maybe have some ideas for what to say if he tries to interject again.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:01 PM
1

>instagram I would just talk to her in person again. The truth of the matter is that in instagram you are one of probably at least a thousand guys and in the gym you are one of like 50. Your relative SMV is much higher in the gym. Maybe try for a phone number next time. Although personally I have a rule against approaching at the gym unless im getting overwhelming iois
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:58 PM
0

Yeah. Thats what I said. Its not even terribly uncommon for a college age girl to fuck a guy in his 40s tbh. Im sure it happens every day.
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:48 PM
0

You’re never too old but results may vary.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:50 PM
6

She doesnt literally mean what she is saying in most cases. She means to communicate "i am not a slut, I am a good girl". You just kiss her and escalate slowly dont grab her by the pussy or something.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:32 PM
1

Its both. If you have terrible anxiety and are a hard case you probably just want to stick to some kind of a script as training wheels. If you arent so bad then you dont need any of that its more about internalizing a few key principles. For me that was mostly "freedom from outcome" and "self amusement". But there are also a few really good lines and responses for shit tests you should naturally start to accumulate. I still pretty much copy a beckster routine for disqualifying, escalating, initi…
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:26 PM
3

lol they all say that. I have had sex with girls within an hour of hearing that. You just dont worry about it. Actions speak louder than words you know.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:20 PM
2

Lol you probably use feminist jargon like “toxic masculinity” on a daily basis. So stfu
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:33 AM
2

Id probably tell the truth here
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:02 AM
16

They actually are testing you often times. I dont think its a fully conscious thing but its also not just having a bit of fun.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:59 AM
1

I dont even notice makeup very much really for me I just instantly can tell if a girl is pretty or not. I guess I like a "classic" look like barbie or something is good. Like golden skin and red lips. Your best bet is to ask a gay guy.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:13 AM
8

TLDR However someone treated you in the past is no excuse for dishonorable behavior. Staying friends with exes is usually a bad idea. At least give yourself a year or two of radio silence from the person then choose to be friends when everything is in the past.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:06 AM
6

Dont bang your coworkers. Bang your coworkers friends.
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:06 AM
2

I dont know bro that sounds kind of hard. Your female coworkers are very likely to be bitches about it and snitch on you lol. (even though they would get a pat on the back for literally humping the male patrons). The amount of subtlety will depend on how much you care about your job. No rule against making a lot of eye contact and being friendly though.
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:02 AM
18

Yup. Just ignore it or give a silly answer. "Thats weird, you give off virgin vibes".
/r/seduction04/05/22 01:51 AM
1

Just forget about her. You have to at least act like a guy with tons of options. Maybe she will contact you, maybe she won’t. Dwelling on it is a waste of time. Easier said than done I know.
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:36 AM
1

Bro you are over thinking this lol just ask. If they look borderline ask to see ID before you bang
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:59 AM
3

I do but its never like "what are you up to". I will only start texting if I have something to say or something funny has come to me ya know.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:28 PM
14

alright fine ill read this mark manson shit. Where I come from crying in a bar will not get you pussy and showing vulnerability of any kind is a mistake. Im super skeptical but you guys talk about this all the time so might as well read it.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:10 PM
1

Nah because you want to be righteous when you break up with her. She will probably be able to make you feel guilty and shit if you actually are guilty. Women are good at this.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:07 PM
5

>I don't drink and game. Curious as to why? I totally understand not drinking. But if you do drink why would you not leverage the social lubrication, courage boosting, and charisma increasing properties of the sauce?
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:22 AM
136

The girl asked you for your number? lol sounds like it went pretty good
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:17 AM
5

One key is that the staff of bars are your friends. They pretty much have to be friendly anyway. If you can get good conversations going with them and tip them then you wont feel alone or like an outcast. Id say leaning on that makes it a lot easier. I also think you want to go out early to give yourself time to spin up this instant group of friends. Then when the girls come out you're hopefully in a good state and have at least some kind of status by the nature of other people there talking to …
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:03 AM
0

Be extra submissive and do things in bed other girls won’t.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:53 PM
4

hahaha bro are you gaming a bot?
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:26 AM
3

Id be interested to hear what old school RSD guys think about models.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:40 AM
7

"just be yourself"
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:22 AM
0

lol
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:38 AM
0

In this case it means bad faith, trying to win instead of arrive at some truth together or whatever
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:19 PM
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I mean it’s a workout not really an achievement we are talking about doing a percentage of your max. Yeah I just have a different philosophy about lifting I think you always need to be hitting failure on your last set at least. Otherwise you took too much recovery time between sets or you weren’t lifting heavy enough. You can see things differently that’s fine bro there are different ways to get results I guess.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:14 PM
1

Damn kiddo I do 385 for my 2rm. One day you’ll get on my level though. Just stick with it buddy!
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:21 PM
1

😂 yeah see you were planning to move the goalposts again even if I did answer you. For a bunch of power lifters you really do legitimately argue like girls
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:17 PM
1

You’re avoiding bro I asked you what you bench? How many pounds? Id probably STILL be stronger than you even if I made no progress in the last 10 years
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:15 PM
1

😂 lol even though I refuse to take your bait you’re just going right for the checkmate based on nothing huh?
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:09 PM
1

How much do you bench?
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:07 PM
1

Its not an achievement lol you’re wasting your own time recovering when you could lower your weight and get your lifts done. You’ll get to failure the same way and get the same results either way.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:07 PM
1

Lmao you realize we can all lie about how much we lift? Why would you even ask an anonymous internet person? I definitely don’t care about any claims you may make.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:01 PM
0

Lol patronizingly linking the Wikipedia for scientific method and constantly appealing to authority. Scientific method is the method for doing science. Science necessitates OBJECTIVITY. Otherwise it’s mysticism. Mysticism can be very logical and profound. As many psychologists are. But they aren’t scientists.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:56 PM
1

Depends how strong you are lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:53 PM
1

Being able to repeat and independently verify experiments is absolutely a condition of science. This is religious thinking imo.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:36 PM
1

Your hobbies are fine. Defining yourself by them is lame though. Also have you ever thought about being the opposite of "down to earth" someone who is lighter than air is more exciting imo.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:28 PM
1

The fact that they do experiments and repeat them is precicely what makes it a science. That is the scientific method in action. They are not always repeatable, which is why its not science. Scientology was also defined as a science until they changed it for the tax exemption lol. Of course the psychologist has a vested interest in legitimizing themselves. Its all bullshit though, in all the years of the study of psychology they have discovered nothing. Its just theorizing
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:26 PM
1

>being yourself ngmi
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:16 PM
2

>down to earth outdoorsy guy
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:10 PM
1

6-7 sets of 5-6 reps for heavy ass squats 90% of my max Yeah that is way too ambitious IMO. You shouldnt be able to do 7 sets at 90% of your max. Either way its okay that we have different philosophies. Lifting is all about keeping track of your progress and doing what works for you. Some people can get results with high intensity and super low volume and some people do 8 hour arm days like rich piana lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:07 PM
1

Psychology is not science. Most "experiments" in psychology are not repeatable. You don't have to google when you are actually capable of thinking.
/r/seduction30/04/22 05:59 PM
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>warm up andd cool down So we basically lift for pretty close to the same amount of time because I dont do any warm up or cool down. Increasing the amount of time between sets will allow you to get more reps in, but I consider that "cheating" in terms of my progress. I got more reps artificially through spending more time recovering. I want every workout to be apples-to-apples so I know what is real progress you know what I mean.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:59 PM
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Its not bothering me, you can do what you want. Its the level of certainty with which people are telling me I am wrong that is irksome.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:46 PM
1

I gave an example somewhere itt
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:45 PM
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lol I already talked about time between sets in detail. Its okay if you want to spend hours and hours in the gym. In my opinion youre probably doing too much volume or spending too long between sets. Its your life though lift how you want.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:44 PM
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lol nice girl argument. I bet you spend 3 hours in the gym flirting
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:36 PM
1

Yeah get off your phone at the gym lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:30 PM
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I have been lifting for over 10 years and I am strong. Here is an example of a workout: 2 compound lift 4x6 3 iso lifts 3x10 So 17 sets. Lets say you take 2 min per set thats 34 min. If you take 5 min per set then youre in the gym for about an hour and a half. If youre doing a similar level of volume, the 5 min per set is just way too long. When your breath and heart rate normalize you need to go into your next set to get the best workout imo.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:29 PM
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I think its the total opposite. If you arent blown the fuck out in 90 minutes you arent training hard enough and probably on your phone wasting too much time between sets.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:16 PM
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Yeah thats woman logic. Youre probably the only person who tells her the truth lol As a guy though, you want to have an abundance of options before you get into a relationship. All the terrible relationships are born out of scarcity. Women just naturally have the power in a relationship if they have options and you dont. You have to take the steps so that youre the one with the power if you want a happy relationship. If she is in the drivers seat youre heading straight to pain town.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:10 PM
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Psychology is not science. Like not even remotely.
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:45 PM
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Eh they also don’t work out alone. The nature of having other people there and spotting eachother or whatever aught to increase the time a lot. Also an elite strength athlete might just need a lot more volume than a normie to grow idk.
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:44 PM
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You literally don’t know what science is. Science isn’t subjective. Divorce data is at least objective and so it would be better data than a fucking happiness survey 😂
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:29 AM
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I know exactly what I’m talking about. When you catch you breath and your heart rate comes down you start your next set. I see guys in the gym watching tik tok and taking way too long between sets all the time. If someone says they do an hour and a half in the gym I assume you’re one of them
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:27 AM
1

Yes I am completely against the idea that a “rate your happiness” survey is passed off as science, or even important data by idiots.
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:25 AM
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Not even a study lol I can’t even imagine how someone spends more than 45 minuets lifting. You have to be taking way longer between sets than you should or going for an amount of volume that is counter productive
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:23 AM
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Have fun in your feminist relationship then. That’s your choice. I think it goes against nature and the results have been disastrous with broken homes everywhere. But you can have whatever worldview you want I can’t argue with that. As long as we are clear that you can’t quantify happiness and it’s entirely possible that women in India could be happier than those in America. I actually bet that they are but I can’t prove that either.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:36 AM
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Lol so your grandparents generation who typically married for life had it all wrong and the way things work now is better? The divorce rate is higher in countries with more equality than those with less, and within societies divorce rates have increased in lock step with feminism have they not? It’s okay to disagree with me but don’t cloak your opinion in science. Very little of this can even be quantified, I’m sure I could ask you for sources and point out all kinds of issues with whatever stud…
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:44 AM
2

lol 100k in cash can yield you like 4k dollars a year safely. So like 300 dollars a month. Stacking cash and investing is just too slow.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:38 AM
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I became friends with a "natural" in high school because we happened to be in all the same classes. He basically taught me a lot of game concepts before game was even a well known thing at all. It wasnt mystery method or anything basically cocky/funny, dont be a pussy, and the power of the numbers game. I didnt slay pussy in high school but I went from a world of warcraft player to like having a phone full of a lot of girls numbers and I did get laid a few times with girls I would have thought w…
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:35 AM
1

I have noticed ill lose wood if its too dark in the room, I need to see whats going on. Never attempted sex with a girl so unattractive that she was the problem though lol
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:26 AM
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>90 minute sessions Way too much. But I suppose you should still have gotten results from that.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:22 AM
1

hes right though. Waiting for an hour on a girl and then feeling like YOU fucked it up is the most "beta male" shit ever.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:05 AM
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Depends on how old you are. I would say nobody should do it when youre young. There is a point where it starts to make sense around 40 years old imo. Also keep in mind you can accelerate balding with the juice.
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:03 AM
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lol, lmao even
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:58 AM
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Idk if I fucked it up at this point or if she just feels bad or neutral Bruh. This attitude is so beta. She fucked it up not you. Come on man
/r/seduction30/04/22 12:02 AM
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The female hormone gets thrown around like its candy. The male hormone is a schedule 3 controlled substance lol hmm wonder why
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:44 PM
1

She hasnt even apologized? lol do not talk to her
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:42 PM
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so I have to make an effort to strive for equality in any relationship NOOOOO. You dont actually want equality in a relationship. That is a trap and it doesnt make anyone happy.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:30 PM
1

a bit on the nose but I like it lol
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:25 PM
23

Yup. Fishing with one hook is for suckers. You want to go fishing with a big ass net. Then you pick the fish you want out of your net, not the entire ocean.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:23 PM
1

Thats just a no girl. Move on, a shit test only comes after she hooks.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:21 PM
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Probably to preselect for guys who are okay with her "male bestie" being in the picture. Swipe left.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:19 PM
3

Its not that important. I wear a hat all the time despite having all my hair I just like how I look with my red hat on. If I were bald I would have the same results so I can say its not a big deal. Might be different in europe or places where wearing a hat indoors isnt normal.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:12 PM
2

Hulu and screwlu Amazon and get it on Peacock and seecock Stream and ream HBO and make-her-O Now delete this stupid thread
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:15 AM
3

It works even better with vaginas actually
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:59 AM
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Grab her hand and put it on your erect dick inside of your pants
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:55 AM
3

Hold the frame and be unflappable. She better be hot though I never bother with girls like that
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:54 AM
5

Most guys actually outsource most of their opinions too. There isn’t enough time in the day to have a rigorous analysis of wrangler vs Levi etc. You just identify someone you think has good judgment or is cool and you copy them. Women are just more extreme with this. They can be convinced to buy more over priced things by this method and they also apply this logic to potential romantic partners which is baffling to men.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:18 AM
1

Stack of 100 dollar bills and magnum condoms in your pic
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:09 PM
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Basically imagine the average redditor >wants to be respected by all >wants approval >wants to be part of a group >takes care not to offend anyone >is humble and not egotistical >highly anxious and neurotic A chad is the opposite of that. Self interested, doesnt give a fuck about what anyone thinks, confident because they feel competent to handle any situation. LOW ANXIETY.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:05 PM
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Thats wild bro I have heard about this. Youre probably going to have to buy a burner phone lmao sounds like the only way. Or you know actually talk to girls irl. If thats not too scary for you.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:01 PM
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I always say it’s a bad idea. I don’t want some girl who has rejected me in my gym.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:24 PM
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If you get your confidence from success with women you will be forever emotionally vulnerable to them hurting your feelings and shit. Its will actually make your game worse. That being said I think some positive reference experiences with girls can make a huge difference for guys. But you want the majority of your confidence to come from other things.
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:52 PM
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They never think for themselves unless they have to. Almost all of their opinions are outsourced
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:15 PM
2

Pool and darts are the best for me. Loys of talking, always can talk about the game if you don’t know what to say
/r/seduction28/04/22 06:34 AM
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Lol multiple girls have come up to you and asked? Idk bro you seem to be manifesting it or something. In reality it always has to come down to having a girl who wants to do it and then both or either of you find a unicorn. I’d think few guys have ever double pulled in a night unless the girls are just insanely drunk.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:00 AM
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Gambling and hard drugs lol
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:25 PM
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I once had a crush on the girl at the front desk of my gym. Then one day she said "have a nice workout" and I said "you too". Never went back in that gym again.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:59 AM
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Id like to know too. I just saw a girl asking about her periods, this doesnt seem like the right place for me.
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:23 AM
1

Ive been thinking about this more. I think this interview with Keith Raniere and allison mack is some good material to study. Hopefully you know the story of the cult and everything. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PTG0CB_biM&t=1470s Its kind of interesting that in terms of eye contact hers are GLUED to his. And he tends to break eye contact often and speak with his hands or make facial expressions but then he always returns back to eye contact at the end of whatever nonsensical point he is mak…
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:01 AM
3

tell her how you feel. maybe write her a poem
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:38 AM
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>social Media has a big impact in terms of seduction Nah not really. It can be a status symbol, which is helpful but still not that important. Do you think you would be pulling a lot of 10/10s if you drove a lambo? I think driving a supercar and having millions of social media followers are pretty close to equivalent. If you are weird, shy, not confident etc these things wont save you. Most people probably devote way too much time and effort to it. Not having social media opens a lot of doors as…
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:25 AM
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You have to question why people would follow a complete douche like this. They probably arent a group of people you want to associate with. Im personally not willing to go passive aggressive and act like a middle school girl trying to win some political power struggle. Ill either leave or confront the guy. Its just not in my nature to do anything else.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:13 AM
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clean it up janitors
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:08 AM
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The night time is much much easier where approaching is more of a normal thing to do and there is alcohol involved. The difficulty is just a lot lower. It’s not a big decision though. Do both
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:46 PM
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No that’s not normal. Although i have done it I wouldn’t have told anyone about it
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:19 PM
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I have tried a lot of things to kill it. Drinking works like magic but that cure can be worse than the disease if you develop a problem. Otherwise treat yourself like a dog who has anxiety. You run the shit out of the dog. People are not any different.
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:51 PM
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It’s weird because I feel like finding and transacting with a prostitute would be harder than just meeting an unattractive girl at a bar but it’s your life bro don’t worry about what anonymous people think
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:00 AM
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Yes you will actually go to jail for talking to girls and trying to fuck them. That’s sexual harassment Lol more for me
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:02 AM
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In my experience you make up for the language barrier by being more physical and aggressive. Just dont get carried away lol
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:19 AM
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The problem with trying to change up your personality with meeting people, let alone girls, is that over time you're reinforcing these traits you feign, things you say, etc. that don't really reflect you. You start to lose some of your authentic traits, quirks, mannerisms, etc. that are pretty important in terms of attraction and staying true to yourself overall, which you should no matter if you're trying to meet women. There is no YOU. The you when you are with your parents is different from t…
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:16 AM
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There is no distinction to be made between "faked" social skills and "real" social skills. If you come across as cool or whatever then you ARE cool. This self development stuff is just procrastination 9 time out of 10.
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:12 AM
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Fake it till you make it. But within reason like if you are a shut in virgin its just going to be comical if you act like james bond.
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:10 AM
1

Dont go on dates that cost you money
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:07 AM
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No those are usually the girls I wind up getting into a relationship with.
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:00 AM
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Only in a poor country I imagine.
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:58 AM
1

Thanks for that! ill try it out
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:55 AM
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nah you did the right thing. Its more likely to come off needy if you persist than anything else
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:31 AM
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agree&amplify "yeah no way youll ever get me in there sounds like a prison cell" or whatever.
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:26 AM
2

good point. I think its because yoga sucks and men are generally much worse suited for it physically so probably embarrassing for guys since the girls are all better at it lol
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:48 PM
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You can’t escape approaching. Joining a club with lots of hot girls would be great, as soon as guys found out about this club it would become mostly guys in the club though lol
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:13 PM
3

Being low doesn’t make you depressed being depressed makes you low
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:10 PM
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Harassment is when someone asks you to stop and you keep going. Me too cunts have tried to change that recently but fuck them. You can’t harass someone on accident.
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:21 PM
17

Biology isn’t mythology. The Disney movies your worldview comes from are though
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:42 AM
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Op is blue pilled af
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:43 AM
1

She probably legitimately did not understand your esl
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:40 AM
0

If you have game you have everything. How you gonna be homeless when you have women who will let you stay with them
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:14 AM
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Lol you just need more experience with women I guess. For instance, most girls would lie about their body count if they literally had a gun to their head. They would lie directly to Jesus if he asked them. Being truthful is just less important to them. They generally don’t understand or place any importance on honor as a concept.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:13 AM
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Don’t waste it you can have hobbies when you’re old lol
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:35 AM
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Give more details on eye contact. Its not something I think about much. I need a solid rule of thumb because I feel its really easy to over do eye contact and make her uncomfortable. I dont have natural instincts about it really. I think I look at her when she is talking but I look away when i am talking unless I say something that might be worthy of seeing her reaction if that makes sense.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:02 AM
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Slayers lol It takes me like a year or more of being with a girl before the excitement of sex with her fades. Going out and getting more girls is more about the ego boost than casual sex being so great. Especially because of condoms, its just not that great.
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:58 PM
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I feel entitled to tell some lies. Women are liars to their core so it’s just evening the odds if you allow yourself.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:42 PM
2

A high titties to waist ratio is really what it is. She can be kind of fat if the tits are huge but those are more rare.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:45 AM
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Big titties and not fat
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:40 AM
3

Honestly find a different job that’s the real answer. Otherwise you have to fight fire with fire. Get a relationship with your bosses boss. Go up the chain, especially since your immediate boss is weak he’s not going to do shit about you going over his head.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:39 AM
4

>may I buy you a beer/coffee beta >im going to starbucks/bar, want to come? alpha
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:55 AM
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because i have a bone for u to examine
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:50 AM
36

Are you an archaeologist?
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:46 AM
2

lean in and do the triangle eyes where you look at her left eye then her right eye then her lips. Then slowly lean in more and kiss her.
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:15 AM
2

lol lmao
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:13 AM
0

Ironically much of feminism does amount to getting mad at the universe but women can get away with acting childish so it does make sense.
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:11 AM
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Women dont even have to learn skills they just say yes. Getting mad at the universe is completely childish though dont you think. In life you just play the hand you are dealt to the best of your ability. Its a waste of time to do anything else.
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:09 AM
1

yeah. Pretty sure its just binding to receptors in your brain and all over your body.
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:07 AM
1

Good. Shoot for 100 in the next few months
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:53 PM
10

Imagine upvoting an attractive woman for getting laid lol what a non-accomplishment.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:32 PM
1

Fun fact: Women moan during sex to alert other men to her sexual activity. Evolutionarily speaking. let that sink in lol
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:28 PM
1

Its not really frowned upon unless you get too excessive with it because it some point it is feminine. Follow the 80/20 rule imo. 20 percent of the shit gets you 80 percent of the results.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:00 PM
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They are. Fat chicks have the self esteem of pre-social media hot girls. Hot girls have the self esteem of pre social media celebrities
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:13 PM
1

Ignore her completely except when you’re drunk or really bored. Sure she might stab you but if she doesn’t you have a fallback forever. Nice
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:59 PM
5

Wait two days and text her “u up?” At 2 A.M. I thought everyone knew this
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:57 PM
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Lol no. Being a virgin makes you more attractive if anything. Experience is only attractive to women, we don’t care.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:55 PM
1

I wish drinking wasn’t bad. If I could live my life slightly buzzed I would have a harem like Hugh Hefner
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:52 PM
1

The problem is you could get publicly embarrassed/blown out at the gym and then you might not want to go back in there. If you have any difficulty making yourself go consistently then imo don’t risk it, it’s not worth it.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:51 PM
3

It’s Tom Torrero for me. Rest In Peace sweet prince To be fair they are all teaching modernized and expounded mystery method. Mystery is the foundation for everyone.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:46 PM
1

It’s more about heuristics not science.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:41 PM
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Next time hit her with “so have you always been into annoying guys?”
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:37 PM
1

Read the game by Neil Strauss and then go down the rabbit hole Also, I don’t recommend hitting on girls at the gym personally.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:35 PM
2

I haven’t experienced this. Might depend on your area if the white girls are all vegans and shit then I can see it maybe.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:33 PM
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Shopping lists and things to do on the weekend. She will talk shit about other girls she works with, or tell you what her friends are up to. You will talk about niche interests like crypto, weight training, history. Neither of you really interested in what the other is saying. Yeah if sucks after a few years in my experience
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:19 PM
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Game = intent + freedom from outcome
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:16 PM
2

Me every time https://youtu.be/sQDggdQ-eUo
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:06 PM
7

JUST BE YOURSELF lmao why are you here. OP could have just asked his mom for this advice.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:59 AM
1

There are yes girls and no girls and maybe girls. Seduction is for the maybe girls.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:57 AM
8

Dont ever ask for consent lol that will dry her up instantly. You just start doing things and if she says no then stop. WTF is wrong with the advice in this thread lmao You realize getting verbal consent means absolutely nothing, its her word against yours either way. If you go to take off her pants and she doesnt say to stop then you have fucking consent. Stop being a dweeb.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:54 AM
3

Because if youre willing to take care of her you are lower value than her. She doesnt want a guy that is lower value than her she wants to date up.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:47 AM
9

Who says that? There is almost no difference between hot girls and average girls. Just dont compliment hot girls on their appearance because they get that all day. Thats really the only distinction imo.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:44 AM
1

tyler is an absolute douche bag but I think its still some of the best information out there.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:40 AM
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Read better material. Go back to RSD tylers blueprint if that can even be found.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:03 AM
1

You dont need to be a big texter. With the way my brain works I just cannot multitask and I ignore texts even from girls that I would like to talk to. It probably works to my favor lol Next time youre with her just explain that you arent a texter. You can spin it however you want. Youre too busy, mature, etc.
/r/seduction23/04/22 12:21 AM
1

I once banged a korean exchange student without either of us speaking the same language really at all. This was before google translate on your phone was a thing. Fuck yeah its possible. Actually one of the easiest and quickest lays I have ever had. I think I just overwhelmed her with being physical and assertive. It was probably on a level she had never seen before. She just never pushed me away or anything, I took her hand and brought her to my dorm. Probably took like 5 minutes of giving her …
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:15 PM
5

I have done it but that was with years in between the rejection. It was a high school crush that happened to transfer into the same college as me. Its not best practices but man it did feel good.
/r/seduction22/04/22 11:05 PM
1

Treat em mean keep em keen
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:23 PM
4

Tell them you’re a Scientologist recruiting members. That’s polarizing
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:32 PM
1

Lol I wish. I’ve been successful many times. Approach anxiety never went away. You get a bit better at dealing with it but idk if it can be killed. Temporarily it can be drowned out with whiskey though lol
/r/seduction22/04/22 05:59 PM
6

15/100 sexual encounters with condom end up in pregnancy lmao aint no way bruh. aint no fuckin way
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:54 AM
2

Get over your oneitis. congrats im happy for you or sorry that happened.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:49 AM
5

Stop talking to her. See if she changes tone or not. You know this is the answer.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:48 AM
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One of my best friends from high school was like extremely good looking and would have girls crushing on him all over the place and he was laughably bad at leveraging it. Dude had those really dark blue eyes and an idealized Jesus look. I always wished I could trade places. He ended up marrying a literal purple haired 3/10 lmao
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:35 AM
1

Oneitis. You have to cure yourself of it.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:30 AM
1

idk how you can have a contradictory mindset like that when youre aware of the contradictions lol. Seems like you let yourself get away with telling yourself too much BS.
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:28 AM
1

Your worldview is problematic if you think feminism is about gender equality in the year 2022. It’s not the 1970s
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:54 PM
3

What I would do is just try to have a good time and not interact with her or whatever
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:43 PM
1

not try and change her and just never take her seriously I couldn’t have said it better myself. Remember you always have the option to separate entirely. If a girl is making you feel bad then that’s the solution
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:36 PM
1

On balance, and all things considered feminism is bad for society and the people in it. I’m not saying a person is automatically bad if they believe in it. If I were a woman I’m sure I would find it compelling too.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:34 PM
3

Go out and have fun. Meet people in the process. Those people already like to go out and have fun so it’s pretty easy to get them to go out with you next time. Going out by yourself is pretty easy if you are drinking. It’s a lot easier than cold approach sober and in the day. You can do it if you want to
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:32 PM
1

Don’t use your real name or even give anyone a chance to know who you are 👍
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:26 PM
1

Nah it’s not. Feminism is about advancing the agenda of a certain portion of women. Women had their rights a long time ago. The shit that is going on now is just anti-man and evil hence the other thread going right now where is a guy talking about being scared to go around and talk to girls because feminists will try to ruin your life for that lmao
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:24 PM
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Fuck em. It’s not wrong to go out and meet girls. If people have a problem they can cry about it.
/r/seduction21/04/22 08:08 PM
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She wants to fuck
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:14 PM
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It all depends. Being witty is a great asset but it won’t help if you come across as scared/weak of whatever. Some guys rely on being funny too much and at that point you’re kind of a clown, performing for her. That’s going to be seen as low value.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:13 PM
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Exposure therapy
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:08 PM
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Take sex from them lmao that is pretty alpha it might work sometimes 😂
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:07 PM
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Playing pool or darts is always my go to because it checks all the boxes. Alcohol available, it’s one on one, you have a built in thing to talk about if conversation goes too dry, I am good at pool and darts.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:05 PM
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I think the power of lying is really under explored and appreciated in pickup. I guess a lot of people think it crosses some ethical line but idk isn’t makeup basically a form of lying/misrepresentation at this point. You can literally be anyone you want. You can be the most interesting man in the world. This is only available if you’re intelligent enough to spin stories that are believable on the fly and lying doesn’t make you incongruent but still. It could be massively powerful for some guys.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:01 PM
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Lmao I can see her flinching as you go to fist bump that is hilarious. Definitely don’t do that one again. If you’re good it could still be something you laugh about one day but it was def a terrible start lol
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:52 PM
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Yup. That’s why so many guys struggle you get fed the worse advice and role models possible
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:50 PM
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Just make it how you want it and don’t do it for girls. Every apartment I’ve ever had was totally undecorated and strictly functional. Never stopped me from banging, they think it’s cute like I’m a caveman or something lol
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:48 PM
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I do this instinctually on some level but I don’t think it works that well 😂 people don’t really have as much of a reliable Pavlovian response as dogs do. Or perhaps I’m just not consistent enough For me it’s just a lot easier and more practical to be verbal. “This is how it’s going to be and if you aren’t up for that no problem we can still be friends”. Stating things explicitly often isn’t the right move but there is def a place for it. I’m just not okay with living with conflict in a relation…
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:43 PM
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I can see how this makes sense. More masculine features are correlated with more masculine personality and looking “tough”. Girls will fantasize about a Justin Bieber type but actually fuck dude with hairy ass knuckles cause he knows how to lead and has low anxiety and other traits that help with women.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:45 AM
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7 hours a decent number for an average. I don’t think it’s way off. Maybe I’m dogmatic but I don’t want to disregard mystery like that. Some decent percentage of girls just will not fuck on the first date as a rule even if they want to. And let’s be real most super quick sub hour lays rely on alcohol.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:27 AM
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Lol it’s a good sign. Might just be how she is It might be some kind of mini shit test. I remember one girl would literally call me a faggot when we were joking around. I’m completely sure that was a test which I passed by not reacting to it all and continuing on with the convo. Banged her later on
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:20 AM
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Lol sounds like a very cliquey college I never had any of that when I was in school. No frat boys were hating on me for going to parties or meeting girls. But yeah just say fuck em and make fun of them for buying friends or whatever
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:10 AM
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There is an average and a 30 minute pull doesn’t negate that lol But of course you should not run around with a stop watch waiting to hit 7 hours before you try something. I’m speaking in generalities. There are many ways to bring that number down. Building comfort and familiarity quickly, doing things like bouncing to many locations quickly to force the perspective of you having spent a lot of time together etc.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:07 AM
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Testing your partner is always toxic imo. You are turning the relationship adversarial and killing any trust there is. I’m not really qualified to give advice to females though, I still don’t fully understand how y’all think. Why would you do a thing and then try to understand why you did it. I always know why I do a thing prior to doing it 😂
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:03 AM
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It’s hard to say without seeing what you do or how you act lol You’re probably just pulling too hard. You gotta push sometimes. I think they say 7 hours is the average amount of time a girl needs to know you before she’s comfortable enough for sex.
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:52 AM
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You sound like a girl lol yes I’m pretty sure you’re in the friend zone. She’s just pushing boundaries and having fun with it from the sound of it. Probably just wants some drama with you because that’s entertaining and exciting. I would stop being friends with her it’s clearly not good for you.
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:48 AM
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You don’t need permission to do what you want. Plenty of guys got a lot of girls without being in a frat lol Building yourself up is good but don’t let that become procrastinating on living your life.
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:40 AM
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When I was in high school I was lucky enough to become friends with a “natural”. Dude just sat next to a different girl in every class and would talk to her every day and just be playful. Taught me a lot about game despite him never having read anything on the subject or whatever. Basically just do that. You don’t have to be a bad ass or anything just talk to girls constantly and escalate if or when that feels appropriate. It’s always a numbers game. Getting one crush and trying to pull her is w…
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:26 AM
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No it’s like the worst lol and it’s pretty explicitly feminist imo
/r/seduction21/04/22 03:33 AM
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lol lmao
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:34 AM
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Dont dip your pen in company ink anyway lol youre probably lucky nothing came of it working with your ex would suck.
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:58 AM
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Zoomers can’t just call eachother lol you might as well barge into her house!
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:47 AM
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Just start small. Joke around with a clerk or something. Build up from there.
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:28 AM
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You can always emulate high school by being in some club or whatever. Just make sure its not a male dominated thing (most niche interests are tbh). You have to do a certain amount of approaching to even get enough feedback to figure out what/if you're doing wrong. imo try approaching more and consider using alcohol as a crutch if the anxiety is too strong.
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:27 AM
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I’ve actually been surprised with how well tinder goes for me. I still prefer not to use it thought it’s a crutch that makes you weaker and nothing good is going to come from it.
/r/seduction21/04/22 01:13 AM
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Im not a body language expert or whatever but I have notice the thing where if they cross their legs and point them at you its really high chance they are interested.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:54 PM
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no limit except the law but it does get more difficult under 25 or so. I think most of the difficulty isnt actually the age difference, its that generation z is from a different planet, they dont understand your jokes or pop culture references, they use words you probably dont know etc.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:50 PM
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You cant just turn it on and off you have to become a fun and playful person first. Flirting is just playfulness with sexual energy. Practice being playful with everyone you meet and then you can be flirtatious with girls you like.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:46 PM
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Pretty solid. I like it. "I don’t think we’d be a good fit, you look like trouble" works on so many levels. Im really against trying to throw in memorized lines but that one is such a keeper. You are achieving the "we" frame and also naturally forcing her to qualify herself and showing value through disinterest and playfully accusing her. It checks like 4 boxes with one sentence.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:35 PM
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I get what youre saying and that must have been a huge factor but the Tom I know talked a lot about how little money you need and how all the best things in life dont cost money etc. Of course nobody knows exactly what he was thinking, but I wish I did. I guess im asking for answers nobody really has.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:26 PM
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Yeah it helps a lot. As to the question of what percentage of that is just your own confidence and self perception and how much of it is from the girl, I dont have a good answer. Probably more to do with your confidence but definitely a mix of both.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:42 PM
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Most women would lie about this with a gun to their head. Don’t dwell on it at all cause you’ll never get the truth anyway. And it’s just not really productive
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:43 PM
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I wonder about the context of you meeting her. Sounds like some kind of friend zone situation. Literally take your dick out next time.
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:00 PM
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I never approach at the gym. I feel like if I were to get blown out at the gym that would be something in the back of my mind trying to make me not to go to the gym to see the girl that rejected me. I also never really think about IoIs until after an approach. Too easy to misinterpret shit and many girls would never give you and IoI even if they like you. As for the one sided conversations a lot of it is about the flow. Ask questions and you get answers. So don't ask questions, make statements. …
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:57 PM
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The problem is if you are thinking about eye contact it will come off as creepy and not congruent. I believe its all about "getting into state" that is to say relaxed, having fun, no anxiety. At that point you shouldn't have to think about eye contact. I do an intentional "tiger eyes" sometimes like as a nonverbal spike or when I want to kiss a girl but yeah if you are focusing on it too much its very easy to over do it and you will have the opposite of the desired effect.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:49 PM
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You cant learn to be smooth in a foreign language without a ton of practice I dont see any shortcuts. Get off the apps
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:40 PM
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Personally I would. There is no reason why it should ruin things if you arent like lying to them or something. But then again I have never had a female friend who I wasn't trying to smash or wasn't just one of my real friends gfs.
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:06 PM
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I agree you shouldnt get butt hurt about people doing the same shit you are doing, only more successfully. However i will say for me getting my body count up isnt much of a motivator. And sometimes knowing you could have had sex with someone is a good enough ego boost, dont have to actually go through with it. But I realize there is also a problem with linking your self esteem to your game success. I just cant fully sever that tie personally.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:52 PM
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wHen aM I gOInG tO sEe u aGain??? lol just never say something like that again. I would say something like "ill be busy for the next x days but i might hit you up xday". She should then say if she is free x day or what her plans are. But the rule of thumb for shit tests that I believe in whole heartedly is to either ignore or "agree and amplify". In this case she isnt really making a solid statement you can riff off of so just ignore it.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:47 PM
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