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| -1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Men want to be in relationships with women who'll have sex with them. So much women use this excuse to justify not having sex with their beta-bux boyfriends on why they happily did anal and blowjobs with their previous bf's but not them. If you aren't attracted to your partner don't be in a relationship with them. So much women have denied doing sex acts to partners they aren't attracted to and used the same excuses you have here. And that trapped them in terrible sexless relationships. If I had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:01 PM |
| -1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Except I and many men would want a Partner who'd do sex acts with me they don't usually like to please us or out of fear of losing us. Its irrelevant on how its immortal or unfair ,anything that is Consensual is fair game and many men barely get any sex anyways so any sex is good. If a woman does a sex act with her ex but not with me its clearly because she doesn't value me enough or fear losing me to do it. She doesn't want me as much as the previous guy and I won't accept that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:19 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".While you do see women do that ,its not nearly as prevalent nor as damaging. A woman who pretends to be nice and act like a friend in order to get a romantic relationship with a guy can be annoying ,but you usually deal with them by telling them to bluntly explain what they want. Those kinds of women aren't the same as "Nice Girls" who pretend to like sex with a man for months ,even years only to then withdraw once they've got what they want whether its the relationship benefits or a Marriage. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:39 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".1.Ah yes so society simultaneously hates women for wanting sex. While also encouraging women to... have sex and sexualize themselves. If these women truly didn't want sex ,maybe they could just stop having a Boyfriend or Husband? And be asexual. And who are these specific people shaming women? Why do you care what strangers think about your sex life? 2.Again. If society hates women having sex oh so much ,perhaps women (or women who think that way) could just not have sex? Or be in relationships … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:28 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Historicity literally doesn't matter when it comes to sexual discussions and entitlement. Is a black man entitled to sex with a white woman who's ancestors enslaved his? Is it ok for a Man to sexually harass a woman because in his Culture it was seen as something that's harmless to do? Is it bigotry if a women doesn't want to have sex with a short man because Height has historically been seen as a Positive trait and Short men were stigmatized? Again even if women were "Taught" that sex is their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:19 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".So your saying most women have enjoyable sex in relationships and NEVER complain about faking orgasm or having to have sex with men as a chore? Because if they don't have enjoyable sex why are they in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:37 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".1.Very funny how this excuse exists considering the fact that men would feel better if their girlfriends and wives told them how to pleasure them ,instead of assuming the man can read their minds and know exactly how to pleasure them. And its weird how this never happens in reverse ,plenty of women would look down on a man if he can't finish during sex. Yet you rarely see men faking their orgasm's in sex considering almost all of them enjoy it. 2.Society assumes that women who do stuff like this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 0 | What is the average female sexual experience like?So fundamentally you pick chads who dont bother going down on women since they have plenty of other options? I find it baffling that you somehow meet men who don't want to eat you out considering how horny the average guy is. Most guys I know would happily go down on a woman if she had sex with them. This is the issue with some women ,they pick the most attractive and high-value men and then complain about their traits. As if most men would be assholes or never go down on a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 04:33 PM |
| 13 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?I don't think everyone is sexist ,but clearly its some men who are hypocrites who whine about not getting sex yet also view sex as degrading and evil. Their mindset around sex is exactly why they aren't getting any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Why would the men who are having sex with women degrade them for it? They are the usually getting laid and have no reason to be sex-negative. Its usually the men who can't get sex who talk this and view sex that way ,hence why they can't get laid. Chads aren't the ones throwing hissy fits and calling women whores when they are the ones enjoying the sex. its usually the incels and low-tier men who complain and moan because they can't get any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 12:31 PM |
| 11 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?this is not just locker room talk. It's literally a major aspect of how males view sex. It's why men look down on women having sex with them too quickly and call them "Easy". It's why men make fun of their Ex's by saying they "still hit though". It's why men use these violent terms for sex like smash ,bang ,pound and crack as they view it as something they "do" to women. It's why Fathers endlessly police their daughters with the whole overprotective father trope but never do it to their sons. Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?what exactly do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 12:22 PM |
| 0 | The constant characterization of male sexuality as something 'dirty' needs to stop....Uhm you are aware that women aren't forced to wear revealing clothing? I mean your seriously now saying that women are forced to wear mini-skirts and crop tops? In 2026? How infantilizing are you of women to assume this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 12:41 AM |
| 4 | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all.But it's clear there is a sense that women having sex with any man except themselves is a terrible thing according to some men. It's why they obsess over body count or shame women for their sexual past. You don't see women slut-shaming men or claiming they'd never marry a guy who's slept with more than 3 women like a few men do here. So i'm asking that if you don't like it maybe don't be surprised women aren't having sex period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 12:54 PM |
| 2 | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all."I don't know what you're talking about, or what the point of those semantics is" - My point is that women aren't "used" by Men when they have sex with them. Anymore than a Man is "used" by an attractive Women for sex. That is clearly the mindset you have. That Men take while women give. That Men fuck women while women get fucked by men. It's proving my point above that you clearly view sex in terms of Dominating or being Dominated. What I mean by "You can be an absolutely terrible person but st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 09:25 AM |
| 1 | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all.Sure a man who can have lots of sex with plenty of women is likely attractive ,but I don't think his value "increases". You can be an absolutely terrible person but still find people who'd sleep with you purely on your looks. So finding sex has little with who you are as a person besides your looks ,which applies to men and women. And these men don't "conquer" or "dominate" these women by having sex with them as they had sex consensually. So i don't understand the language of saying stuff like "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:56 AM |
| 5 | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all.Whether its rare or common is irrelevant. It's sex. It's not a resource like gold or bread that has a finite amount and must be hoarded. And even if that's the case why do you actively care about what other folk do with their bodies? And sure its shitty that women like men who are more sexually active and shame men who are virgins ,but it's not like they actively despise virgins like men here seem to hate sluts. Women don't hate virgins as much as men hate sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:45 AM |
| 2 | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all.But this isn't the economy ,its sex. If you liked to play Basketball with your friend ,would you be angry if you found out that they played Basketball with other people? Again its ridiculous to compare stuff like Gold or Resources to sex because sex isn't a resource. And why would men be so hateful and angry at sluts? Even if a woman likes to have sex with lots of men ,why does it make men actively angry at that? Why does what someone chooses to do with their body enrage some men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:39 AM |
| 22 | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all.That's not really my point. My point is that if you feel that sex degrades women then you should be perfectly ok with them never having sex period. Again if a women's value decreases the more sex she has then the best thing she can do is not have sex ,ok? Or do you oppose this idea or not? Because you can't eat your cake and have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Why would a woman want to get married even though men overwhelmingly reap the benefits at the expense of women?women choose to do it at the end of the day ,no-one is forced to be married today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 10:01 PM |
| – | At this point, I feel like misandry is just the natural norm for women.love how you blame men for all the negative actions that men are responsible for like murder and rape. yet men have built society ,been the most inventors ,most explorers ,most philosophers ,most leaders ,most scientists ,created almost every civilization on earth and protect society by being police officers and firefighters. If every man is held accountable and is bad for what Ted Bundy or Jefferey Epstein did then they are also held accountable and take credit for Einstein ,Gandhi ,Churchill ,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women.Agreed that people should work their problems or part ways. But its clearly a problem otherwise you wouldn't see the constant Memes about men trying to convince their Girlfriend to have sex with them or the whole "my wife only gives me starfish sex" thing or women complaining about their BF's or Husbands pressuring them into sex they don't want. I think its a cultural problem due to people not actually being compatible with each other. And women are not getting into relationships with partners t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:07 AM |
| -3 | You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women.Never said only Lusts matters. Just said that Sex is a Huge Part of a Relationship just like Love and Compatibility. Plenty of men both love and feel desire to their partner so why can't women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Are men remotely offended by the idea that sex with them ruins and devalues a person?I am kinda offended but I think its more like "A Woman having Sex with Terrible Men is way worse than a Man having Sex with Terrible Women". That's because a Man can potentially get a woman Pregnant ,cause her internal Bleeding if he's rough ,give her STD's and some men aren't exactly the hygienic Type. Terrible Women are bad as well but not as much of a threat to men than vice versa. I think a lot of ideas of women being tainted by fucking men is more of an idea of "she is less concerned for he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazinggodforbid a woman likes her partner and wants to help him any ways she can. how exactly is this pickme behavior? Is a guy a Simp if he says he brought his Girlfriend a wedding ring because he wants to marry her? Ya'll don't know what pickme means just like how you don't know what incel is. It means a women who will hurt and damage other women purely for a man's attention. Or a women who'll be with a man and tolerate his bullshit despite it hurting her for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.Its pretty simple actually. 1.For some men sex is meaningless in that they don't really care about the act if its with someone they don't love. But if your in a relationship with someone sex can be another way to be more closer to them since your intimate with them. And a relationship can fail if there isn't enough sex since. 2.Men don't want women with a high body count usually because they might have diseases ,will feel less satisfied with him ,compare him to other sex partners ,might be a nym… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadWow. so your mindset is essentially this amoralist "you aren't entitled to any good treatment and if other men get unfair advantages and far more care you should simply accept that because they are better than you.". You are aware this leads to a shitty and utterly terrible dating market like we have now? Imagine if we had that same mindset towards crime. "A Rich Man or Attractive Man can commit as much crime as he wants simply because he is better than you and you should accept that." Then peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 07:01 AM |
| 0 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesPeople have the right to choose who they want to date and have sex with ,that is because we as human beings have Autonomy over our Bodies and the Freedom to pick our own Choices. You can't force people to date others or have sex with others in the name of Equality or Fairness. Its simply ridiculous to try and make people date those they don't like all to appease the few assholes who can't get a partner. If people don't get sex they are perfectly fine ,while if people can't get work they might lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 02:31 AM |
| 1 | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersit is blatantly clear that the people who are against sexual "objectification" don't give two damns if the women consents. They are against objectifying women in adverts even though the women consented to being in them. They consider it objectifying to make sexy female characters in video games even if the characters there are fictional and thus cannot consent anyways. They are also against men buying or consuming sexual content like Onlyfans or Porn even if the women in those situations consent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 11:37 AM |
| – | Some women don't use the " it's two different women" argument when it comes to other women generalizing women.really? you seriously assume that a women's worst threat is the men in her life that love her? your really saying that women should fear their husbands or fathers more than literal strangers. this is literally misandry and if you don't like men that much maybe you should avoid them entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:27 AM |
| – | Some women don't use the " it's two different women" argument when it comes to other women generalizing women.The problem with this idea is that for the last 100 years we have an ideology that says men and women aren't different and are equal to each other. You can't be shocked that people who were raised on the ideology that men and women are exactly alike don't understand the idea that women are entirely different in how they view the world. This is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todaywhich is perfectly ok because there is nothing wrong with sexualization of women ,literally none. There is nothing wrong with video games with sexy women or women depicted sexually in Films. It does not violate anyone's consent and I thought that feminism was about freedom of choice and protecting women from harm. And no women was ever being hurt in these depictions nor were forced to do it. And you thinking there is something wrong with it proves my point ,because we never assume this way when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | There is a War against Male Sexuality today"male sexualization good female sexualization bad!!" take. The classical anything men do is bad while anything women do is good. There is literally no difference between female smut novels and sexy women in video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:58 PM |
| -3 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayHoly lord you guys are amazing at Manipulation. WHEN have I ever said I wanted to have sex with teenage girls?? How are any of my points saying that? And the Online Safety Act is literally an attempt to destroy Internet Anonymity and make the Government have more power in tracking people. Simply putting on a Safe Filter or Safe Search onto Children's Devices would easily protect them from NSFW Content. The Parents should have clearly been putting these on their kid's devices and monitoring their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:35 PM |
| -5 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayWho cares if you "objectify" someone? its perfectly ok to "objectify" someone in a sense of seeing them purely in sexual terms or only viewing them as an object for your desire. Its only when you act on your desire and try to violate that person in one way or another that it becomes bad. STOP trying to police peoples thoughts ,people have a right to think how they please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:05 PM |
| 8 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayMost men can. And its funny how you have such a problem with male sexual urges that harm no-one like Video Games and Hentai proving my point exactly. No-one is attacking female smut novels or games that have sexy men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 07:00 AM |
| -2 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayReally? You seriously believe that every form of sexual expression for men is evil and horrible? Even video games and adverts that show sexy women? Stuff like this proves my point exactly ,people like you wish to destroy every aspect of male sexual expression because you despise it. The idea that all of these are evil and yet every form of female sexual expression is perfectly good is exactly the reason why modern feminism sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 06:59 AM |
| -3 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayI care about fictional portrays of women and in video games because feminists for over a decade have removed every aspect of sexiness and attractiveness in female characters purely because its "Sexist". That and combined with all the points above is about my argument which is that young men have very few sexual outlets. And many men would find it difficult to get a girlfriend and have a woman who's willing to have sex with them. You might think cartoon boobs are irrelevant but 4th wave feminists… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayExactly. It is almost impossible to have sex with a woman the "right" way if you are an average young man considering you need to jump through so many huddles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:20 AM |
| 5 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayOh sure do what you had to do. 20-30 Years ago approaching a women on the streets to flirt with and ask out for a date wasn't shamed and seen as creepy. Women were also far more willing to sleep with men since it wasn't seen as "objectifying" and "lowering your standards" to have sex with an average guy. The Media like the Films ,Tv shows and Video games actually had sexy women in it and not androgynous women. It actually appealed to the "male gaze" and didn't shame men for their sexuality. and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 02:59 AM |
| 5 | There is a War against Male Sexuality todayThis only occurs for the Top 10% of men ,you are aware of that right? Women today are only willing to have sex with a guy and risk it if the guy is a Chad or Rich af. Unless your an 8/10 or above it is very difficult to have casual sex especially given women today are far more picky and misandrist then they were in the past. Porn use exists BECAUSE of men not being able to get laid. Not the other way around. I am not. It's feminists who are and claim that its "misogynist" and "objectifying" of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 02:54 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The next generation of women will have an even harder time datingThis stuff occurs because males have literally no incentive to be Nice or Respectful in this Day and Age. I am not justifying or condoning this behaviour. The point is there is no reason not to have High Standards since your likely not getting women anyway so you have to ask yourself should be "Nice" and still be Lonely or be an Asshole and have High Standards and you'd still be lonely anyways. Remember you have not reason to be a nice guy since men are supposedly "Trash" anyways. Not only are m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desireexactly it shows how women utterly despise male sexuality to the point where they don't even want them to be attracted to fictional women in video games. it would've been ridiculous if men were angry at depictions of men as attractive ,tall and rich in romance novels and wanted the men to be "realistic". yet its because people don't realize that some feminists despise male sexuality and that influences everything about what they say about men. Even more it refutes this idea that feminism is abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Love and sex is not a rightexcept some people might view it as coercion or "pressuring someone" which is proof of sexism or other nonsense. If sex or love really wasn't important then you wouldn't see people complaining about leaving someone for not giving them sex anymore than leaving someone for not wanting to play golf with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:10 PM |
| – | How far does your opposition to objectification / male gaze go?pretty sure terrible men can't really get relationships or it would be very difficult since having basic respect for someone is required to get a relationship these days. Unless the women has very low and shitty standards. This is the classical "women date bad boys" nonsense except in a feminist way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Love and sex is not a rightOK then ,if love is not a right then it is something that someone can withhold from someone if they wish. And if love is not a right then a man can say to a woman like his Girlfriend "Have sex with me or I will not love you anymore" and it would not be rape or coercion right? Since love is not a right like life ,food ,shelter ,job or the like. So therefore a Man can perfectly say he won't love a woman unless she has sex with him and that is perfectly valid and legal. And second of all even if it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?Not really going off just not buying your points. And you claim the "Statistics" show that women are worse off in every metric in relationships. Which is ridiculous since if that's the case why do most women even get into relationships? And men are not rotten apples that are in barrels ,again men are not objects that can easily be judged as "rotten". Most men in relationships are nice ,most men in relationships do put effort in and most men in relationships are a benefit to their partners. If th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 09:37 PM |
| 0 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?First of all if your getting into shitty or crappy relationships it is YOUR fault ,the bar is not in hell its just people choosing shitty people and then blaming society for their crappy choices. Its just like incels who whine about how women won't fuck them or date them. Incels complaining about not getting sex and women complaining about dating crappy men are 2 sides of the same coin. People who realize that YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO ANYTHING IN DATING AND THAT THE ONUS OF RESPONSIBILITY IS ON Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 08:21 PM |
| 4 | How Can Women Complain When They're So Privileged By Default?wow your view of Men in general is really misandrist and terrible. You are aware that most women and men are in relationships with each other? If men were so trash and couldn't pull their weight behind then most women would be single and lonely. Yes there are dangers that women face but to say women experience little pleasure in sex or dating is just puritan nonsense. If that's the case again why aren't most women just choosing to be celibate and single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The majority of people aren't as bitter and awful as people here like to make them out to beWhile its somewhat true that most people are not intentionally Evil ,you can't just say that Societal factors and forces don't influence people into having negative beliefs. Most people aren't "evil" in a sense but they do have crappy qualities ,in large part because of society. Like many men don't cry or show affection to their friends because it is perceived as homosexual ,and many men uphold this toxic masculine values because society tells them to. Some women don't like Male sexuality or int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 02:56 PM |
| – | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsI mean it doesn’t really work but at the same time what do you want people to do? Force women to leave these relationships? Force women to only date good guys? Most men don’t care about women getting into those relationships not out of a sense of “she should have picked me instead!” But out of a sense of “you have the choice to pick who you want and we’re not sticking our necks out to help someone who can made thier own decisions”. A women has the right to date who she wants and if she picked po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:your pretty late to the conversion dude. and your right people shouldn't be forced to do things they don't want to do. hence my point that people can have any standard they want regardless of how offensive it is since its their right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?Misogynist men are likely more successful than non-misogynist men. Your claim that most of the men here are misogynists is likely not true since these men don't hate women but are simply wondering why they do nonsense like ask for equality yet demand men pay on the first dates or why they date shitty men. These men are unsuccessful usually because of their personality or looks ,not misogyny. First of all a Misogynist is more likely to constantly approach a LOT of women increasing his chances of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?men like that usually tend to pursue women who are trashy and have low self-esteem who probably enjoy being treated like trash. Meanwhile nice guys tend to want to date high-value women who have fairly high standards and thus are less likely to want to date them. Also those misogynist guys tend to approach A LOT of women not giving a damn if they look creepy or shitty ,while nice guys tend to be wary of approaching women in fear of looking like a creep. also the misogynist tends to know how to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 12:03 AM |
| 2 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayYeah but what if you were with someone for years and they were amazing and unique and then they suddenly left you? You would then have to find a new person and start all over again to love them and replace that love you had for the other person. Relationships aren't just these products that can easily be replaced you know ,they involve real people. Sometimes you lose someone who is really unique and its difficult to get past them and find someone new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Shaming women for doing the very thing you want them to doThe whole problem with sluts is that as soon as you get into a relationship with one or marry one you don't just get a lot of sex. The anger men have with sluts is that those women only choose to have lots of sex with Chads and a certain group of men ,because that's how female sexuality goes. Women bare higher risks when having sex so they'll likely have sex with high-value men rather than low-value men. Encouraging women to have lots of sex won't mean they'll have sex with a lot of men ,they'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 10:34 AM |
| 4 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.Not only that but women will date Chads and Bullies then complain about the fact they date chads and bullies who treat them like shit. With nonsense about how "the bar is in hell for men" or how men in relationships slack off or other nonsense. Again its simultaneously "It never happens but also it does happen and you should accept it but also its so terrible that it happens and its your fault". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.You see plenty of feminist women saying nonsense like "oh the bar is super easy for men all you have to do is take a shower and not be misogynist!" or "oh the bar is in hell for men they can do all these things and get away with it but not women!" and other nonsense. No-one believed that you just need to be good and kind in order to get women and that looks played no part. However some believed that if you were an asshole and a terrible person you were much less likely to get a relationship or k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 12:41 PM |
| 2 | A genuine question for women who believe most men are misogynistic or harmfulSo apparently its ok to be hateful towards a group of people now? In 2025? Are you aware that all bigotry is bad right? Regardless if you've dealt with bad experiences with Men or Women you don't blame an entire group for the crimes of individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 05:57 PM |
| 16 | Women here give wildly contradictory answers depending on who they want to defeat in a argumentTo challenge your point I think that while women like older men its around a 3-5 Age Gap. The examples that creep people out are 10-20 year Age Gaps between barely adult women and very older men. I feel like women do like older men but not absurdly older men who are like 20 years older than them. Yet I agree with your take on a lot of things. If a Nice guy says "women only date Bad boys not nice guys like me" and women say "No actually women do date good guys you just aren't really a good guy". … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hell1.I agree that this phenomenon occurs ,but this also occurs with women as well. It's not a gender problem it's a people problem. Women also let themselves go and stop bothering to maintain themselves. But no-one says that the "bar is in hell" when it comes to women or how evil all women are for doing that. 2.There is a difference between how people treat women and men in those scenarios. If a man marries a women who later stops having sex with him he is told that it's his fault for picking a wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellNo-one can force you to get into relationships ,pretty poor excuse to be honest. And it's still their fault for choosing to be with those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:25 PM |
| – | Women lie about their "low" standards and the bar in hellIkr. There is this truly hilarious idea that women's standards are low and that the bar is in hell for women. If that's the case then why are most men sexless? Why is it that most men would be perfectly ok with having sex with an average looking women while most women wouldn't even want an average man looking at them? Why is it that so much women refuse to date a guy because he's too short or too poor or not masculine enough? If men have standards that are too low than it's their fault for being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:15 PM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.Well ok women have the right to any opinion they want ,if women don't want to date a man that is perfectly ok. I mean my point is that both genders can have any standards they want no matter how unfair and if the other complains then too bad. Dating is Amoral as I've said before and your standards are yours to have although you aren't entitled to anyone conforming to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:16 PM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.Doesn't matter ,men have a right to have any damn standard they want. If women don't like it or men's opinions then maybe stop associating with them? I mean women's standards can be as harsh as they want and often times judge men for stuff they cannot control like height ,face and often times wealth. I won't accept any gender complaining about "unfair" standards period considering that people have a right to any standard they want because its their choice on who they date. And if a few women hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 08:14 PM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.I am ok. And have you read what I said? I said that most men don't give a damn about women not conforming to their standards. And that men's standards are shamed for more than women's due to being "Sexist" or other nonsense. I am just saying that both genders can have any standard they want and if you don't like it then don't interact with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 12:04 PM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.Most men do not think women have to all collectively agree with their own unique individual standards ,don't know why you said that .While a few men try and prove their standards are based on logic ,a few women try and assume that them trying to tell everyone how to act is based on feminism and morality. Somehow if a man wants a pretty or a clean-shaven woman that's apparently sexist and evil which is not true. And on the media one ,men can have the right to complain if the media doesn't suit th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:44 AM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.Because if you aren't aware ,I see feminists complaining all the time about how men don't want women with high body counts or who don't appeal to male standards. Yet when women have their own standards it is perfectly ok ,if that's the case why aren't male standards perfectly ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:18 AM |
| – | Women don't mind men being starved for intimacy. Women do mind if men find a fix for it that does not involve them or if they walk away or worse if men decide to deny intimacy to them.Ok then. Just like how women can refuse to be with men who watch porn ,men can refuse to be with a woman who has a high-body count. Now we can all have our high harsh standards that means no-one has to compromise on anything that makes them feel uncomfortable ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 11:00 AM |
| – | If dating dynamics were changed, women would not use the same argumentsExactly and you see this Dynamic a lot like when it comes to men complaining about a lack of sex vs the orgasm gap. When men complain about getting no sex they are often told that they are not entitled to a women having sex with them and that a women can choose to not have sex with a man for ANY reason. That it's not society's responsibility to get their pee-pee's wet and that if they can't get sex from a woman than simply find a woman who will give sex. Yet when the reverse occurs and women com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.So according to you men have been these evil oppressors who only degrade and sexualize women for thousands of years? Then WHY do you want to be in relationships with men then? If they are so evil and terrible? And men have absolutely no obligations to women in 2025 just because their forefathers were mean to them. Men don't owe women anything and likewise the same for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Women and girls need to be taught to be nice to their male partners, just like men and boys are taught to be with their female ones. The failure to do this is really tearing the social fabric and killing romance.Exactly! The funny idea that somehow women settle for terrible behaviour is absolutely ridiculous when you realize that most women have far more options than men and can easily leave a man and find another if he isn't satisfying her. The only exception is when a man is high-value and attractive ,and mind you its her fault for putting up with it. Just like the men who tolerate bad behavior from attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 02:04 PM |
| 6 | How are women who enjoy casual sex “being used?”If a women is more willing to have sex with random men ,most men view her as lesser because of the risks that having Sex in general brings for women. Women risk getting pregnant if they have sex and have to carry a fetus for 9 months in their body and likely support a child for 18 years. Women are less likely to orgasm during sex than men and less likely to have sexual pleasure in a sexual encounter. Women risk Potential Violence or Crime at the hands of a random man they are having sex with. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic?I do have critical thinking ,I simply refuse to care about a group of people who don't give a damn about me. Especially a group of people who literally claim that I am oppressing them ,if men are these evil oppressors then why the hell would women help them? Its exactly why they don't give a shit about the male loneliness epidemic ,because they feel its justified retribution to men for all the abuse they put them through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Are there any feminist or blue pill solutions to the male loneliness epidemic?Thanks for admitting that feminists and by extension women don't care about men's problems. Likewise thanks for admitting that you view men as being privileged as well. Since you have said that ,we can also that men also do not have to give a damn about women's problems or struggles. We don't have to care about women's pains in society ,we don't have to care about sexism and we don't need to bother dismantling a "patriarchy" to serve a group that don't even care about us. Men should forge friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceAnd its their fault for dating those men lol. Women are not entitled to commitment and men are not entitled to sex. They need to understand that and its not men's fault but there own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.If you want people to care about you either extend the same curtesy or don't be surprised when they don't give a damn about your woes. And its sad that women are losing their rights in some parts of the country but what does that have to do with men? Why should men care at all about that ,considering women don't care at all about men's societal issues like the loneliness epidemic? Men get told all the time they are not entitled to anything ,so why shouldn't women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.I wouldn't say exactly so. There are a few men who could be a threat to women due to men's physical strength advantage. There are a few men who are either too selfish or unwilling to make a women orgasm during sex which a man can easily. There are men who are assholes and won't bother doing any housework or maintenance around the house. However my point is that one should simply not date men who are like this and that if they do its THEIR fault for putting up with their Bullshit rather than leav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 01:03 AM |
| 13 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.Yes. If a person you like doesn't like you back or isn't going to change themselves to fit you ,then you should simply leave said person and find someone who's more willing to accept you. And if the alternative is to be alone in many instances so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.I'd accept it if it was done for both genders ,as in both men and women had to fix their collective problems. But the way I see it goes something like this. Man:I feel like women don't like to date short guys like me because of how I look and I am lonely. Society:Shut up incel! You are not entitled to sex or relationships from women! They don't have to change anything about themselves to suit you! Maybe change your standards and stop going after attractive women! Women:I hate how the bar is in h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.But what is the solution in your eyes? FORCING women to date men they find unattractive? Forcing men to make women orgasm or forcing them to date women they don't like? Again the Dating Market has Large-Scale Trends which are unfair ,that is my point. Yes on average women have Higher Standards then Men. Yes on average women don't orgasm in sex as much as men do. My Point is that accept that and either conform to those standards or simply find someone who is different and appeals to you, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:41 AM |
| 7 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.I don't believe Dating is at all comparable to getting a Job or getting a House. First of all getting a Job or House is a matter between Life or Death so people are entitled to get these to an extent. Secondly you can't just force women to lower their standards and date men who they don't find attractive or force men to date women they clearly don't like. Dating someone or having Sex is not a Human Right nor something one needs to survive. This is exactly why people complaining about anything in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.I agree that women lying about their standards and society telling men that kindness and softness is more important. But I feel like its some men who are more angry at women's standards in and of itself rather than the deceiving from society. And again if women want to date men who embody trad gender norms then its perfectly ok if men also want to date women who embody trad gender norms. And as for the orgasm gap or labour gap "society" as in a Male collective does not exist ,men are not a monol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.I say this because there are men who say stuff like "Oh we have to have 6 Figures and be Tall Chads in order to date women" as a way to complain about the dating situation and how oppressive it is to men. And I'm like "First of all that's not true and even if it was true ,its perfectly within a woman's right to have these standards? You are not forced to conform to these standards ,so why are you complaining? simply don't date women who are like that." And I also see Feminists complaining about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Dear women, he is not “emotionally unavailable” you are just his side pieceYour right but even then ,your not entitled to anything from anyone including people you are attracted to. And that means your not entitled to someone's time and energy. Doesn't matter how attracted you are to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women should stop having sex for freeIf this made actual sense the vast majority of women would just be prostitutes. If sex was so terrible and bad for women you wouldn't see women wanting to have it with men or getting into relationships. So debunked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Friend zoned men and women who choose to stay in bad relationships are 2 sides of the same coin and are both responsible for their Painful Situation.Exactly ,yeah there are men in shitty relationships but society doesn't say that its women fault for them choosing to stay in crappy relationships. Although I won't say its "internalized misogyny" as these women have autonomy and choose to stay in these relationships ,the fact that they blame misogyny for their own crappy choices proves my Point exactly that they cannot take responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Men live life on easy modeI am aware that its easier for men to orgasm than women due to biology. I wasn't talking about that ,I am talking about women who fake their orgasm and then blame the men for not mind-reading them. And then continuing to have sex with those men. And maybe stop with the name-callings and actually provide an argument? And I am not complaining about the male loneliness epidemic ,I literally say no-one is entitled to anything including relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Men live life on easy modeFunny how your comparing not being able to orgasm to not being able to buy a House. You really have a victim mindset ,do you? You are aware you can pick and choose which relationships you get into ,and that no-one is entitled to anything in dating right? Including an orgasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Men live life on easy modeCan't orgasm? Its your fault ,choose men who will want to make you cum which I can guarantee there is a lot considering there are men who will even lick women's feet. It's funny and downright hilarious that many women admit to choosing to have bad sex and not being able to cum. Like if a guy can't make you cum maybe try and ask him rather than faking your orgasm? And if he doesn't then choose better instead of whining. Plenty of men get no sex at all ,yet are they entitled to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:16 AM |
| 5 | Men live life on easy modeYou really want men to be lonely huh? Those men aren't bums or trash who are unconditionally loved by their Gfs or moms anymore than women are worshipped by simps. You just hate men so much that even when some women like them you cannot fathom that so you assume they are brainwashed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Men live life on easy modeIts funny how you say male abuse victims can just "pack up and leave" and that no-one is forcing them to stay in abusive relationships. Not only are you making fun of abuse victims ,but why don't we use your own logic against you then? Women aren't forced to wear makeup or do the household chores or stay young or conform to societal expectations. They won't be arrested or assaulted if they don't do these things ,so according to you there is no real signs of oppression right? You claim that men c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 07:02 AM |
| 15 | Men live life on easy mode1.Ok that is a benefit that men have ,not having to deal with periods 2.Yeah dealing with pregnancy sucks but your not forced to be pregnant so its not exactly a disadvantage. 3.Ok 4.What do you mean all of the benefits?? In Divorces women are far more likely than men to have parental control over the child. 5.Ok Post-Partum sucks so I'll say that men have a benefit. 6.And? Even if men had the top-paying jobs which they don't ,how is that a privilege? They most likely worked hard to get those jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Friend zoned men and women who choose to stay in bad relationships are 2 sides of the same coin and are both responsible for their Painful Situation.Usually because I see women complaining more about men about how the "bar is in hell" and how they have to do the housework or pick up on chores in relationship. And when men complain about being in shitty relationships they are usually told its their fault for putting up with it rather than being told its society's fault for making shitty men ,like women are told. Its why I said friend zoned men ,not friend zoned women since I see less women complaining about the friend zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 05:05 AM |
| 10 | When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys.Sure there are scumbag men who hide their terrible side until their victim has become too trusting towards them. But far more likely there are just women who tolerate crappy behaviour from men and have low standards when they can just leave. A lot of women complain about how the "bar is in hell" when it comes to men like men not making women orgasm or men not doing housework. Yet the bar is only where you tolerate it. You can easily leave men if they don't satisfy you or don't bother doing house… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthWomen complaining about not orgasming is funny because first of all if a man can't make you cum simply find a man who will ,there are plenty of men who would love to make a women orgasm. And second most men don't get sex at all ,so its funny seeing women complain about not being able to orgasm. You are not entitled to sex and You are not entitled to an Orgasm. If someone won't give you either than find someone who will. And all those things that women do? They choose to do. Its not men's fault n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Sexuality is More “Selfish” Because Men’s Perspectives Are Baked Into Our Brains From BirthNo-one is forcing you to be passive or to be an object of desire. No-one is forcing you to be submissive or view yourself through men's lens. And even if you were it is not men's responsibility nor do they need to somehow help you fix how you view yourself. Stop blaming a mystical force or "patriarchy" for how women view themselves ,they are individuals who are free to act and perceive themselves in any way they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Orgasmfirst of all why are you having sex with men who you are literally fearing will kill you? Literally choose better men. And second men do communicate to women and ask them whether they enjoy ,its just that women don't bother communicating and if anything lie and fake their orgasms. Then wonder why men don't make them orgasm. Maybe the women should communicate if they wish to orgasm more? And if the man isn't making you cum or is unwilling then find a man who will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 06:05 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”I feel like a problem isn't just society saying that if your a good guy then you'll get a GF while if your an asshole misogynist then you won't get a GF. Its women complaining about how Bad or Lazy Men are while also dating said men and then blaming ALL men for those men's trashy behavior. No one is saying if you are Nice then you will get a Girlfriend as Dating also requires other things like Attraction ,Personality and Desire. They are saying that Niceness is the bare minimum and that if you h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/25 07:33 AM |
| – | How entire groups and subcultures are fetishized and stereotyped to fit the male gaze, and how some online SWers are complicitlets get this straight ,there is absolutely nothing wrong with sexualizing goths or sex workers or whatever. There is nothing wrong with the "male gaze" and there is nothing wrong with sexualizing in general. As long as you don't act on these desires to violate or harass someone it is perfectly ok to sexualize a person. Stop trying to control people's minds and villainize male sexuality. Its ok to sexualize women and its ok to sexualize men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are finding out what happens when they bring nothing to the tableso according to you for 99% of history women were just forced to marry men who they hated and that all marriages before 1960 was loveless abuse? That men would just force women to marry them and just abuse them for no reason? not only is that horrifically misandrist its also historically untrue. Arranged marriages were common but for most people they could choose who they could marry. And fundamentally if you believe in this idea than why would women even date or get into relationships with men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.At the extreme end of feminism its women falsely accusing men of rape ,petitioning to not make rape a crime that can be committed to men ,women aborting their male fetuses ,saying they want to kill all men and not caring about male abuse victims .Its not as bad as incels murdering women ,but this misandry is far more tolerated than any incel misogny. No-one is saying that incels are justified in hating women or that all women are responsible for men committing suicide. And mind you this misandry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Feminists and Redpillers are two sides of the same sexist coin.You do realize these are the extreme cases right? The vast majority of men and red pillers DON'T want to take away women's rights or refer to them as toilets or want to rape women. Again there is an extreme Minority in the red pill community that are extremist or misogynist but they genuinely are not accepted and their ideas are not seen as mainstream. Meanwhile there are plenty of feminists who blatantly hate men who are accepted or are seen as justified for hating half the human race. When a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 01:17 PM |
| 3 | How offended do you feel when you see sexualized images of men?I am not offended at all. I am not offended when I see pictures of Buff ,Shirtless men. I am not offended when I see Male Sexualization or Thirst traps of men or Attractive Men being sexualized. I won't care about it and if I see stuff like this I'll simply glance away but I wouldn't be actively offended and angry at depictions of sexualized men. It is pretty alien to me that I would somehow be so offended by something that not only has nothing to do with me ,but also is harming literally no-one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 01:07 AM |
| 2 | How offended do you feel when you see sexualized images of men?so women view men how straight men view gay men? because if so then no women would want to have sex with a man at all since they clearly wouldn't be attracted to them. I mean I don't want to have sex with gay men so i assume that would be the case. This analogy is ridiculous because not a single straight man wants to be sexualized by gay men yet plenty of women love being sexualized by men like Onlyfans or Instagram models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/25 12:28 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Inter-sex Resentment Is Caused (at least in part) By How Both Sexes Have Irrational/Contradictory Desires For The OtherA crucial difference is that when men do this shit like wanting chaste women who simultaneously fuck like whores ,everyone hates on these men and laugh at them for their dumb contradictions. Yet when women do stupid nonsense like intentionally choosing terrible asshole men while also complaining about terrible asshole men and saying they want good guys ,everyone validates their stupidity or at least tries defending why women do this crap. When I tell women to stop dating asshole men if they don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Todays world is perfect for menAre you saying the vast majority of women who do blowjobs or do anal are being forced or pressured into doing it? Of course not ,there are cases but the vast majority of women do these sex acts because they want to. Its astonishing some of you on this subreddit can't understand the idea that women are adults who can choose to do things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 05:29 AM |
| – | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchySo what ,should people be prohibited from having preferences or prohibited from saying they like hairless women? This is a slippery slope to then say than men should be forced to date fat women because they're being oppressed due to society's beauty ideals promoting thinness. Again your not forced to wear makeup or shave your body ,and because of that no-one is being oppressed. People have a right to have an ideal ,people have a right to prefer women with makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 05:27 AM |
| 7 | Todays world is perfect for menWomen choose to do these sex acts ,no-one is forcing them to suck dick or do anal. stop assuming that women being sluts is somehow men's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Todays world is perfect for menYeah this is great..... But for only a minority of men. Like while its Great for the Chads and other Top-tier men who can now bang as much chicks as they want and never commit at all ,this doesn't work for most men. Because most men can't even get a women to date them ,much less have sex with them. And mind you a lot of this applies to women as well ,they also have access to lots and lots of men including hot men while never having to marry or settle down. Again so what if there are more Hotter … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyAgain "social grooming" is irrelevant. No-one says that women should be forced to date short men in order to help those poor incels. Stop demanding others change for you just because your insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyAgain it doesn't matter what society says ,YOU have the choice to shave or not. People have a right to make media that depicts clean-shaven women ,people have a right to say they don't like body hair on women and you have the right to simply not do it if you don't like it. It annoys me when feminists try and claim they're oppressed when they're "Forced" to shave their legs when no you are not. Men have the right to prefer clean-shaven women and you have the right to not shave. When women say the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Part of the growing divide between men and women comes from the idea that men should silently accept misandry as justified payback for patriarchyWhile stuff like foot binding ,rape ,femicide and women being prevented from having property is absolutely Misogynist. Women shaving their legs and wearing makeup is NOT sexist because you are not forced to do these things. You aren't forced to shave your legs and you could just as easily not do it so its not a sign of oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:14 PM |
| – | Men’s sexual desire has been socially castratedIts not just that ,but the entirety of male sexuality has been demonized. There is basically nowhere that can cater to male sexuality without feminists screeching and calling it "Sexist" and "objectification" and its because they despise male sexuality. They hate Pornography because it appeals to men. They hate Video Games or Adverts that have sexy women in it even though mind you no women is actually being harmed. They hate anything that caters to men due to being under the "male gaze". Some fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughNobody is saying that women should be forced to date ugly men. Nobody is saying that women should have a gun to their head and be told to date men they find unattractive. Stop creating this strawman of "oh you want government mandated gfs!!" that you constantly make in response to any critiques of dating. We are simply asking women to evaluate their choices and figure out why they want to date certain men. And that if women want to date certain men ,they shouldn't be surprised that they have cra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughFeminism as an ideology points to an absurdly simplistic view of the world. Does Sexism exist? Yes. Does some Misogynistic values and expectations exist in society? Of course. But the idea that for ALL of History ALL men have been conspiring to oppress women out of some evil desire to gain power and that men around the world are exactly the same in hating women is just nonsensical and bat-shit crazy. The truth is always more complex. There are Misogynist things and Misandrist things. There are s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksMen marrying a Madonna yet resenting her for not being a whore for him is just as Inconsistent as Women fucking and dating Chads yet being angry at him for being a Jerk even though thats exactly how a Man who has lots of options would be like. Just like how you cant complain that a women who has never had sex doesn't want to have sex with you ,you also cannot complain that an Attractive guy that gains plenty of girls doesn't bother valuing them. The solution to both problems is just date someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 03:08 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025I don't think I'm oppressed. And the fact you Feminists think men have been evil and horrid to women for thousands of years is interesting. Don't you think men had Wives ,Daughters ,Sisters and other Women in their lives why would they actively oppress them and hate them? Why would men have any incentive to oppress their Loved ones? Unless of course you think men are these evil demons which proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:46 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025The classic Ad hominem attacks. I am not saying women should solve men's problems i am saying neither side should care about each other since its clear women don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:43 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Yeah when men are sexist like sexualizing women or slut-shaming them or judging them for their weight it is clearly their fault. Yet when women do things like sexualize themselves or virgin-shame men or judge men for their height its of course never they're fault its the Patriarchy!!! Those poor women are just oppressed little snowflakes its never their fault. Literally EVERYTHING is the fault of men even when women do it. Women slut-shaming isn't because of toxic femininity ,but because of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:42 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Yes. Women already have equal rights in 2025 and anything that is "sexist" is purely because of people's independent choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:28 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Yeah but women aren't going to chop the heads off men who don't agree with their ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:27 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025never said anything about rewarding men with sex. And thanks for proving my point! You feminists love to villainize men and assume we are these evil monsters who hate women and only want sex. If this was a Gender-Reversed post about what do incentive women have to help men none of you would say this. Because your misandrists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:25 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Even if men oppressed women for millennia (which they didn't) your not being oppressed today. Most men weren't alive during those times so don't try and blame men for something they're ancestors did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:16 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025"currently trying to take away women's rights" proving my point. Most men don't hate or actively want to take away their rights. Yet you assume literally most men are these evil monsters who want to oppress women. If feminists think of us like that ,why should we care about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:14 PM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Not really since I'm not a nice guy. It won't get me anything. I might as well be a Not Nice Guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:33 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Not really. I can be indifferent to a cause that won't affect me like other problems around the world. And feminists should have basic human empathy for men which they clearly don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:29 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Or you can just not. No women will fall at your feet and have sex with you just for having feminist values. Its not like you gain any benefits to feminist values so why bother? Your life won't be much different besides not having to care about women or not have to do equal housework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:28 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025What about men who don't? Why should they care? And to the men that do ,they don't need to be feminists. Again its not just lonely men who aren't feminists ,plenty of asshole men have Girlfriends yet aren't feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:24 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Hmm funny how you say that because according to feminists many men who are Misogynists also have great relationships with their female relatives. You can love your mother and still be a Misogynist according to them. Again why should men stick their necks out for women who don't care about them which is 99% of women? What do you say about the men who do have loving wives or care about their mothers ,while also not being feminists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:22 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Yes they do. When you claim that men oppress women in every aspect of society you clearly hate men since you assume they are these women-hating demons. Its not just them saying that men have privilege in society ,its them saying that men are Sexist EVERYWHERE whether its in the workplace or in the bedroom or in video games. If you seriously think a group of people hate you 24/7 all the time everywhere then yes you obviously hate them. And while I am asking you to change your views ,I am not dema… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:20 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Yeah. They ask men "be better!" and "don't objectify women!" and "treat women with more respect!" all while not giving a damn about these men or their existence. All while reminding them they see those men as a Threat to them. And they wonder why men don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:15 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Exactly. Especially a movement that villainizes me and actively wants to disadvantage me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:44 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Those lonely men don't actively hate you and view you as a privileged male. They won't demand you change your mindset to fit theirs and demand you treat them with privileges. Also helping those lonely men will probably benefit you since your both men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:43 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025This exact mindset is why less men support feminism. The fact you won't even try and think of any benefits a man would gain being a feminist yet expect us to be one is nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:35 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Sure people can extend empathy when stuff isn't entitled ,like many men were to women. However its not just gaining no benefits from being a feminist ,but realizing women were actively hostile to men that they asked themselves why they should support a group who actively dislike them. Its like I can donate to charity without expecting anything in return ,but if I realized the people i was giving money too actively disliked me then I would simply not donate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:34 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Why don't feminists care about the male loneliness epidemic? Its funny how ya'll are like "you aren't entitled to anything from women including love" yet as soon as men go "fine and we don't care about women either" suddenly you develop an idea of altruism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:30 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Sure empathy. But its clear from the whole "you are not entitled to anything from women" thing that feminists say ,that empathy wont be reciprocated. So why bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:28 AM |
| – | Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025Sure men won't do a violent uprising. But for most men they simply won't care at all about Feminism and will be indifferent to it simply because they see little benefits in being one. And you claim you care about women because of the women in your life ,what about the guys who don't have any women who they keep up with? And you do realize that even if their are men who have women they care about ,why should they care about women as a whole? Many men have wives and mothers they love ,while also b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 05:28 AM |
| -1 | Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode womenholy lord women are not oppressed anymore in america in 2025. Stop comparing the plight of women in the middle-east who are forced to be in arranged marriages to women who follow ridiculous standards and complain about it. And again why do women choose to follow these standards if they are oppressive? No-one is forcing them to follow these standards anymore than they are forced to wear makeup or shave their legs. Its just like men complaining they "have" to pay first during dates or "have" to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:42 AM |
| -1 | Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode womenbut this is about america not the middle east we obviously don't have that. Even if they're raised in these standards why bother even following these standards if they are contradictory? why do they bother caring about being sexual if it is stigmatized anyways? why do they want to be in romantic relationships with men if they fear them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode womenwhy do women even tolerate these contradictory ideas? why don't they just be with guys who won't do all this nonsense and who actually likes them for them? And the same for men ,you don't have to do all this you can just find someone who likes you for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:42 AM |
| 0 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.not really. just making an observation about female nature. and i don't think im entitled to other people unlike feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 06:28 PM |
| 3 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.First of all men are sexualized in media for example look at all the videogames with muscular and powerful male protagonists. Look at men in Video games with absurdly muscular bodies with ripped arms and showing their naked muscular chests. It's fiction so both genders will be made in a way to cater to our fantasies. And second you are proving my point. It doesn't matter if women are being sexualized in the media ,it doesn't matter if they are reduced to body parts and it doesn't matter if they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 01:19 AM |
| 3 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.yeah its clear that this feminist hatred is clearly influencing the culture. Games have less sexy female characters and any expression of male sexuality is now more taboo. If you look at the 2000s you saw plenty of Ads that contained sexy women ,plenty of movies that had Fanservice and almost every video game had hot female characters. Now almost none of that exists ,why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:27 AM |
| 2 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.read my post and what the comments are saying. Men might not want to have sex with fat women. But they aren't angry at fat women playing video games that have muscular ,sexy men. They aren't angry that unattractive women watch anime that contain muscular men with 6-packs. They aren't angry and demanding that muscular strong men be turned into weak average-looking men otherwise it will make unattractive women horny. It's not just women not wanting to fuck low tier men. Its the fact they actively … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/25 12:23 AM |
| 8 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.really? am i a drama queen? there is a clear active and explicit hatred of low tier men expressing any forms of sexuality. Women think low-tier men expressing even sexual attraction to fictional female characters is offensive and objectifying ,yet you think i'm overreacting? Why are feminists over-reacting by endlessly complaining about all the "sexualization" in the media? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:40 PM |
| 8 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.Exactly. So much examples of Feminists despising male sexuality again and again. Whether its railing against movies that contain sexy women. Or hating on anime that contains fanservice. Or despising it when unattractive men want sex ,seeing it as them being "entitled" and "viewing women as sex objects". All this goes far beyond simply avoiding unattractive men ,it is active and explicit hatred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:37 PM |
| 2 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.they do pretty much despise "low" tier men ,not just by denying them sex. But by endlessly hating them in the media and literally wanting them to be nothing but asexual serfs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 10:35 PM |
| 15 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.yeah ,2 genders with 2 entirely different rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenI feel like a major problem is that we understand there are a minority of crappy men who do shitty things yet we never believe that a minority of women can also do shitty things. People saying that "Bad boys always get girls" need to understand your point. And likewise Feminists also need to understand that there are just as much asshole women as there are asshole men. Yet somehow they believe in the women are wonderful idea that there are plenty of asshole men yet never asshole women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible womenAnd it is your fault if you put up with it. Funny how we are ok with telling men that yet when women tolerate crappy men its somehow society's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:36 PM |
| 7 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.yeah. Nothing wrong with a guy hitting on you sure you can reject them ,but this visceral disgust ya'll have with certain men proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:34 PM |
| 8 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.Sure people treat attractive people better. But Women seem to have this specific hatred of Low-tier men that permeates most Culture. Whether its their "icks" like a man crying or a man being anxious. Or them attacking any expressions of male sexuality online. Or finding men creepy for glancing at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:30 PM |
| 3 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.yea. If Men had the same standards as women literally 60-70% of women would not be in relationships due to either not being attractive enough ,not being rich enough or having no charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:28 PM |
| 10 | To Women ,High Tier Men and Low Tier Men are 2 entirely Different Genders with Different Rules.men do have selectivity we just don't think a portion of the population are sub-humans who shouldn't even have sexual thoughts. And some men do have very low standards but we generally blame them when they screw up and choose crappy women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 07:27 PM |
| -1 | Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men?Yes exactly. Why are all the Aggressive ,Violent-Appearing and Terrible men getting Girlfriends quicker than meek weak men. If male violence is so traumatic and terrifying to women? Again if men are like Bears ,why do women choose the most violent ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:16 PM |
| -1 | Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men?If men are so potentially bad and a threat to women ,why are they dating them? And more to that ,if they fear men's potential violence why is that the more Macho and Aggressive a man is the more likely he is to get a Girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:14 PM |
| -1 | Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men?Exactly. And I love how feminists are slowly starting to circle right back to traditionalism. If Men are crappy then that is EXACTLY why we want to be with women who have little relationship experience because they carry less negative experiences. That's also why we like to be with women with Low Body-Counts ,since they are less likely to experience crappy sexual experiences with men and become jaded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men?As humans we all have urges and impulses. We have an impulse towards being xenophobic due to our hunter-gatherer past where not trusting strangers was beneficial. Does that justify or excuse Racists or Bigots? Again just because you have a natural fear towards someone ,doesn't justify hating them or treating them differently. Your post is clearly suggesting all or most men are bad ,because your literally saying you have a deep-seated fear of them. Which is used to justify hating or mistrusting a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 06:02 PM |
| 21 | Do men understand how much women are influenced by the subconscious fear of men?We men are aware that women face potential physical threats from men. That's why we are utterly baffled at women wanting to be in relationships with "bad boys" who are obviously violent and terrible. That's why we are baffled when women get into relationships with clearly terrible men who are obviously terrible yet said women choose to stay with them. And if women are sooo terrified and fearful towards men ,why do the vast majority of them get into relationships with men? Why are most women (and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 05:48 PM |
| 5 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.If women don't want to associate with men because they don't like them ,that is their choice. Again I don't think anyone should be forced into a relationship with anyone. However those women should also be aware that they aren't entitled to anything from men. Don't ask us to help you or cry to us when you date an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:53 PM |
| 4 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.this is all women's fault mind you. They choose to form harems around highly attractive men and only fuck highly attractive men. If the genders were reversed and men only wanted to fuck High-value Women then you'd be saying its men's fault for having insanely high standards. Women aren't the victims here. They put up with this shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 04:51 PM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Great for you. I am perfectly ok with women admitting their advantages in the dating world ,just as long as they take responsibility and not blame men when things go sideways. You have the power to date any man you want ,don't cry and moan when you date a terrible man leave him. You have the power to filter out any man who isn't up to your standards ,don't cry when you are putting up with nonsense from a terrible man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 03:58 PM |
| – | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.I get plenty of women actually... And I find it funny how you can't formulate an argument against what i say besides calling me a Virgin. How old are you? 14? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 05:34 AM |
| – | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.boo hoo. based on the ammount of upvotes i have people clearly agree with me idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.its always "just stating their opinion" until they then decide to use legal and governmental forces to enforce their "opinions". Explain why Wokism has gotten so dominant and feminism is everywhere if they were just "Stating their opinion" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.we used to have games where women were hot until you feminists attacked us and demanded the women look less hot. YOU guys could not leave us alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:43 PM |
| – | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.AHAHHAHAHA. So men are evil while women are good little angels to you? Go screw yourself. If men were so terrible then why would women bother getting into relationships with them? if women were so nice and wholesome why don't yall become lesbians and leave men alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?then how do men get sex AT ALL if they degrade and look down on women who do it with them? The men who say shit like that are incels or sexless who can't get sex hence why they are angry. It is harder to get sex as a man so men who do get sex can't afford to have that mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Funny how half of these Feminists are saying "We don't care about your Video Games you incel!" and the other half are saying "We do care about your Video Games they sexualize and objectify women you misogynist!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Again ,its the media's right to portray women however they want. Don't like it don't consume it. It's clearly not appealing to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.EVEN IF women were sexualized in video games ,it literally does not matter because it is made by men FOR men. You don't like? Don't play it. No-one is forcing you to consume these media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Those men complaining are never coddled by society into believing their views are correct. They are also not being pushed by the cultural zeitgeist and haven't got the power to change anything. Literally every form of Male Media has been distorted to cater to feminist impulses whether its video games ,Movies ,Sports and Nerd Subculture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:22 AM |
| -2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.EXACTLY. Women endlessly invade male spaces and when we say they are not entitled to our Spaces then some Feminist always talks nonsense about equality and tolerance Yet GOD FORBID men feel entitled for anything from women. "Don't you dare feel entitled to relationships from women you misogynist!" Again. Either both sides are entitled or neither are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.why do you think having sex with someone is being "used"? I thought sex was reciprocal for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:14 AM |
| -1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.yeah. Also people are not attacking Women any time they sexualize men and accuse them of being evil misandrists. There is clearly a GOVERNMENTAL agenda to push feminist interests ,never male. That's why feminist complaints aren't just complaints they are actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.I am not saying they aren't sexualized. Actually they are very sexual and that's perfectly OK. Leave our games alone and stop trying to force your agenda everywhere. No women in real life is actually being hurt by this so any argument against it is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.really? so Feminists didn't attack videogames by posting articles like this https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103120303917 https://www.designweek.co.uk/issues/18-24-february-2019/are-video-games-inherently-sexist-designers-and-game-makers-share-their-views/ https://www.digitalamerica.org/the-male-domain-exclusion-of-women-in-video-games-kayleigh-connor/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:32 AM |
| -1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.why are feminists obsess with fictional women? I find it hilarious how one group of feminists say "we don't care about video games you lonely incels" and the other half say "we do care about videogames they literally oppress and hurt women you misogynists!" The entire of GamerGate was this with articles like this. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103120303917 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:30 AM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.no-one is being forced to do it ,like i said. get another acting career. And do you think male actors who have sexualized roles also are oppressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Exactly. Any time someone criticizes Feminist's hatred of men ,those same feminists will say "but men deserve to be hated for being evil misogynists!". This is the discourse surrounding stuff like man vs bear or male loneliness. And they wonder why men don't support feminism because what incentive do they have to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.so all the female privileges are because women are just so much better and smarter than men. but all the male "privileges" are clearly because of evil patriarchal oppression? And are you really saying that 97% of women are sexually assaulted or raped?? Are you then implying that 90-95% of Men are Sexual Assaulters or Rapists? And you call me a Misogynist while you literally view most men as Rapists. boo hoo if women are portrayed in the media. Don't consume the media if you don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?most men are just jealous that other men get far more sex than they do. That's why alot of men are irritated by a women's high n count or a woman having sex with other guys. They get pissed off because they are wondering why they aren't the one getting that kind of sex treatment from women. Women usually are far more kinky and sexually active to men who are Higher Valued (Alphas). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:19 PM |
| 6 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?most men who talk like this are men who are generally jealous they aren't getting sex. men who actually get lots of sex don't talk like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:16 PM |
| -5 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Yeah your right. When women are shallow and only want to date tall guys or rich guys it’s seen as their right and anyone saying otherwise is sexist. Yet when Men only want to date thin women or women with makeup it’s somehow oppressive? Nobody is entitled to people liking them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:46 PM |
| -4 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.So when games cater to women for profit ,it’s perfectly ok. Yet when games and media cater to men by appealing to their sexuality it’s somehow oppressive and evil? Either both are good or neither are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Boo hoo. People have a right to sexualise others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.I think you feminists have a right to complain about shit ,and we have the right to ignore you and continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:40 PM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:39 PM |
| -2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Exactly. They could have left men alone and only fight for equal rights but no. It was not enough for them to have equal rights. They had to try and influence culture at literally ever level and attack mens interests. Well now your seeing the backlash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Boo boo. You are not forced to do it. Find another job if you don’t want to be doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Let’s ignore the fact that women have higher life expectancy in the developed world ,fight in the military less than men ,are constantly coddled by society ,commit suicide less and make up less of the homeless population than men Like your medicine example ,why is it mens responsiblity to make seat belts and safety for women? Why can’t the women make it themselves??? And some of your examples I agree suck but like I said. Why do feminists complain about mansplaining or sexy women in video games … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Exactly. All this nonsense about women being oppressed completely hides the fact they are privileged in several ways today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Exactly. And supply and demand is not oppressive since people have a right to make any demand they want. You have a right to deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:19 AM |
| -1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Feminism is about privileges. I do not agree with you. And you agree on using force to remove sexualisation in media? Or to tell men how to think about women? Proves my above point exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.No I wouldn’t. And sexualisation is not exploitation. No one is being hurt and people choose to be sexualised in the media. Models are not forced to be sexy on adverts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Well ok we can agree on everything. Everyone has freedom of speech. You can say anything you like ,but I’m just making you aware that you can’t force anyone to believe or act the way you want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.No I would not. I don’t think lonely men who can’t get a girlfriend should blame society for their woes. I don’t object to anything if the person consented to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:06 AM |
| -6 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Those gamers only responded hatefully because their spaces had been invaded and hated by feminists. And yeah they should also stop consuming media they don’t like. While those lonely men who claim an apocalypse will start if they don’t gain GFs are wrong. Feminists claiming that literally everything is misogynist and must be forcefully changed to fit their agenda are also wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:03 AM |
| -6 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Easy. If you tell men “do not sexualise women” you are explicitly infringing on their rights by telling them how to think. Also how feminists endlessly attack media that caters to men whether it’s video games or tv shows as being “sexist” or “not inclusive enough”. You don’t have a right to force people to suit YOUR needs or to include your community. And no I am not a misogynist. I think women should have the same rights as men. Which Is what I am advocating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:57 AM |
| -5 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Regardless of literally any consequence there is ,people have a right to over sexualise. There are negative consequences to loneliness. Do you think lonely men have a right to have girlfriends and relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.No women don’t have it bad in many ways. ALL the examples you listed above 1.women being passive agents while men are active 2.women in magazines or tv shows passively experiencing and having a full body shot 3.female singers being critiqued more In all of these examples people choose to do these things and they have the right to do them. It is not a sign of oppression or sexism. People have the right to critique others and make magazines featuring women like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:50 AM |
| -4 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Not really. I am telling people that. If someone says “People should not drive cars” and I told them they have the right to say that but cannot enforce their beliefs onto others. Them saying “well I have right to say that” wouldn’t be a comeback. They are the ones demanding to infringe on peoples rights and I am telling them they can’t do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:39 AM |
| 0 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.Even if men were sexualised in the media ,it would be woman's right to sexualise them. If I did not like that then I would simply not consume said media. You can object to it ,that’s your right. Yes every group can fight negative portrayals of themselves, including men. But it is not a sign of oppression that these portrayals exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:36 AM |
| -9 | Modern Feminism today is about fighting for Privileges ,not Rights.What some straight folk think is irrelevant. I am arguing by saying that rights do not infringe on the rights of others. A lot of feminist discourse is about infringing on the rights of men in order to push their agenda. It doesn’t say “give me rights and then don’t infringe on them” it says “do this and that” and refuses to leave men alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"hmmm women have it harder ,yet far more men are lonely. how is that the case? I thought since dating is hard for women they would date far less than men since there is so much risk apparently. yet that isn't the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 07:45 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"its your fault if you can't orgasm from sex ,don't blame men or society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:06 AM |
| 8 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"if you view men in that light ,perhaps never get into relationships with them? again i feel like if you view men through this lens then maybe don't date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Its funny because no-one says men are too picky because we can understand not to date asshole women. You might say "oh the asshole men hide their evil intentions and pretend to be nice before hurting women!" but if that's the case where are all the evil women who pretend to be nice in order to abuse men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 02:08 AM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.your right. people tolerate it because they are pathetic or naive. Maybe if they had a backbone they would stand up for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Men make women miserable. When given the choice, women will always walk away from men and be happily single. Men should realize this and live their lives accordingly.OP ,by any chance to you hate men? And second its clear that women love men or at least some of them. Otherwise why would literally the majority of people get into relationships? your view is extremely misanthropic claiming that half the population hate or dislike men yet somehow are in relationships with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault."Studies show men tend to stay in unhappy relationships far longer than women" And we blame those men for putting up with those terrible relationships. yet we victimize women and claim its not their fault because "men are trash". Again you deserve what you tolerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Men can’t be feminists due to its inherent nature as advocacy for women’s rights for the sake of equality.A white person should be in support of Racial Equality in the same way a Man should be in support of Gender Equality. However the problem remains that Feminists think that disadvantaging men is necessary for the Feminist Movement. Some Feminists think that we should believe women no matter what even in spite of a man's possible innocence or that its perfectly ok to say "kill all men". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 10:16 PM |
| 4 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Exactly. And if your in a relationship with a guy who doesn't clean up after himself or wants you to cook or clean or wants you to be submissive then tell him to stop or leave. Don't blame society for their crappy behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 07:32 PM |
| 5 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.stop this whole "men are evil" bullshit. Again do you think that women are also capable of these toxic mindsets? Or do you believe in the "women are wonderful" effect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 07:30 PM |
| 6 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.this whole "Men are so terrible!" mindset is so bad. You love to criticize men but do you think that women also have this me me me mindset in relationships as well and that they lack emotional intelligence? or is this just misandry? Why doesn't the reverse happen where women will pretend to like a man just to abuse him later on? Again you have this "women are wonderful" mindset. Again if you are running into 10 terrible men ,then maybe its your fault. 90% of Men are perfectly Fine so stop thinki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 07:27 PM |
| 7 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Except most of the time this isn't the case. You just have scumbaggy men who are openly assholes who the women tolerates for some reason. They can easily leave but they choose to put up with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 07:23 PM |
| 6 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.by choose better they mean "choose men who don't treat you like shit". That is literally it. They are not saying to date more Attractive men or Taller men ,just men who don't treat you like crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 04:03 PM |
| 3 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 04:02 PM |
| 2 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Like I said ,no-one has told women to date Unattractive men. We're saying that maybe you should date men who don't treat you like shit? I mean its not very hard. Men don't get into shitty relationships with women because they dont date shitty women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 04:00 PM |
| 3 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.never said date ugly men. plus i love how u assume ugly men are somehow more moral and better. its date men who aren't assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 03:20 PM |
| 7 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Find them yourself. No-one is gonna hold your hand and help you date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:57 PM |
| 6 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Exactly. A lot of the time its "I'm only putting up with this nonsense because the guy is hot". They could easily leave a man for less but they choose not to. And of course these attractive men never change their behaviour because why should they? Their getting a relationship anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:42 PM |
| 11 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault.Yeah. If the bar truly is in hell ,then maybe don't date men at all? It's ok because at the end of the day you have the power to choose to stay with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:40 PM |
| 10 | "Choose better" doesn't mean you deserve Abuse for not picking better men ,it means that anything you tolerate in a relationship is your own Fault."Despite women seeking higher education, working and occasionally successfully outearning men, despite women owning homes and living independently, men continue to expect women to take care of them as though they are children" And the solution is to simply not tolerate being in relationships with these men at all. To stop being with these lazy men rather than blaming society. Again a women can choose to stay in any relationship she wants. If your dealing with lazy men like this ,simply leave and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:39 PM |
| 5 | The patriarchy isn't realExactly ,and this is why the whole patriarchy shit is nonsense. Women hate men having power ,and so they date men who have lots of power? It makes no sense. You cannot claim how evil and oppressive a system is ,and then date the very people who are making it terrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:29 PM |
| 6 | The patriarchy isn't realIn the West ,if a man is raped or sexually assaulted by a woman the Woman has basically 0% chance of being Convicted. Men commit suicide more ,are more homeless and are have Higher Sentences then women for the exact same crime. Yes there are countries which are terrible to women like Saudi Arabia. But in the West women have the same Legal Rights as men and in some cases have a Higher Advantage then men. The only way women have it bad in the West is Abortion Rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophiesGreat that women have high standards. Maybe they should know that every time they complain about a shitty boyfriend or how "the bar is in hell". Tell they chose to be in said relationship and that no-one is making them stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virginNot exactly ,at least for me. Sex is a powerful desire for me and a Pleasurable one ,but Masturbating usually curbs some of that desire. This idea that men "Need" Sex like food isn't really accurate ,it's more like craving of sugary food like Sweets or Chocolate. Something we can live without but would still be amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them.Yeah but the difference is 1. Men like Evil Hot women in spite of their Evilness. Meanwhile women like Evil Hot men BECAUSE of their Evilness. Men who are assholes always seem to do better than Men who aren't because women tolerate them more 2. Men don't blame the entirety of Women when it blows up in their Face. Meanwhile women will intentionally date shitty men and when those shitty men screw them over they blame Society not themselves for putting up with their shit. Oh a guy can't look after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virginI would pick Option B although obviously I wouldn't be happy with it. No way I'd deal with abuse ,being a gang member and going to prison just to have sex with women. However this proves a point that I've been talking about. That Sex and Relationships are not a need. They are things I want but they are certainly not things that I need or need beyond Happiness and comfort. Hence why women (or men) who continue to stay in shitty relationships baffle me. Why would you tolerate abuse and bullshit ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 11:26 PM |
| 3 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.No-one deserves to be abused. However if you choose to be with a guy who doesn't shower ,brush his teeth ,refuses to take care of the kids and cheats on you. It is your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 09:42 PM |
| 6 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Of course men don't have to be trash. But here's the thing: You can choose to stay in any relationship you want. If a guy is trash then simply leave him ,and sure women don't "have" to incentivise their behaviour but at the same time the men don't have to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.yeah but you are aware that the women in these relationships aren't forced to be in them? This is the problem with the sentiment "the bar is in hell" ,it fails to realize that women don't have to tolerate these shitty men ,because women can find far better men. The bar is only in hell if you tolerate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 09:39 PM |
| -1 | Sexualization isn’t inherently wrong - it’s all about the where, when and who.I am not saying male sexuality is this cave brained ,all consuming threat. I am saying it is simply a normal fact of human life that unless it becomes deadly should be considered perfectly ok. Women shouldn't fear us because we can control said sexuality so it doesn't become threatening. But there is absolutely nothing wrong with harmless sexualization in and of itself. no-one is complaining about females "Sexualizing" men because they assume the women won't rape them. But your the one who perce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 07:30 PM |
| -2 | Sexualization isn’t inherently wrong - it’s all about the where, when and who.no its not. But its perfectly ok to call a women hot or sexy because people have freedom of speech and saying sexual things are perfectly ok, stop demonizing sexuality as this horrific evil ,I'd be perfectly fine if the genders were reversed and it was women calling a guy hot. And you are not reducing someone to an object purely because you find them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 07:00 PM |
| -4 | Sexualization isn’t inherently wrong - it’s all about the where, when and who.sexualization is perfectly ok (excluding minors) and if you don't like it ignore the damn comments. stop complaining about men having sex drives and saying things to women. Unless it crosses the line into sexual harassment or assault then its perfectly fine. This is just the feminist hatred of male sexuality to the point where they don't even want men thinking sexual thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:if you agree with me then it clearly isn't immature or idiotic ,genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Sure we don't like it when men sexualized women. But we all still live in a society that encouraged men to sexualize women though.people have a right to sexualize anyone they want (unless they are underage of course). You perfectly have the right to sexualize a women and see her through a sexual lense because you are not violating anyone's rights by doing so. Unless you cross the line into sexual harassment or assault there is literally no reason to be against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:exactly man. why should anyone care about relationships if no-one is owed or entitled to anything in it. why bother sharing and investing with someone if you know you aren't entitled to anything from them. not surprising people have this self-centered "me me me" mindset considering that there is no reason not to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 01:18 PM |
| 5 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:boo hoo. Argue or piss off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:But at the end of the day ,you don't have to do the work. Your Employer literally cannot force you to work ,they can fire you but at the end of the day they are not Entitled to your labour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 03:15 PM |
| 11 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:This is a subreddit where we literally discuss about dating which involves sex genius. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 12:35 PM |
| 3 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Great ,you've proved my Point. Nobody is entitled to anything ,even your loved ones and significant others. I literally never said anything about Marital Rape you idiot. You literally said someone owes exclusivity and other benefits to someone? No-one owes anyone anything including exclusivity ,regardless if they've promised it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 11:46 AM |
| 4 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Stupid Insults don't mean shit ,actually debate or go away. Namaste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:10 AM |
| -6 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:If someone is not entitled to relationships ,they are also not entitled to respect and kindness. You cannot force people to be kind and respectful similar to how one cannot force people to be in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:52 AM |
| -8 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:I don't mean people should be Required by Law to stay in relationships. I'm saying people should be morally obligated to help their Partner and also be nice to Men who are struggling to find relationships rather than telling them they aren't entitled to shit .It's not Mandatory by Law to donate to Charity but people still feel Obligated to do it. It's not Illegal to be an Asshole but most people are not because its societally beneficial to not be. People can choose to do things even when there i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:50 AM |
| 6 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Great. And if you wanna set a parameter where you can cheat on your Partner and where your Partner must worship you ,then that's perfectly fine. You aren't entitled to it but you can set those Parameters and it would be morally fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:34 AM |
| -6 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:No I don't want them to have the same stigma. I want people to realize that the whole "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" thing will eventually lead to a Psychopathic ,Selfish Dating scene where people will only care to maximize their own Pleasure since there are no Guarantees or sense of Quid pro Quo. And also people who tell Young Men that ,will only lead to them not caring about anyone since no-one cares about them. While no-one is entitled to sex ,we should at least assume people are enti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:31 AM |
| 5 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:I believe that either "People are owed things in a Relationship ,including Respect and Loyalty" OR "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship ,including Respect and Loyalty." My issue are people who want to have their Cake and eat it. Who feel entitled to their Partners Loyalty and Respect while saying their Partner isn't entitled to Sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:28 AM |
| 10 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:The husband is not entitled to sex from his wife. He should try and find out why she isn't having sex with him but if she simply doesn't want to then its perfectly ok if he divorces and leaves her as a result. Neither side is entitled to anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:26 AM |
| -1 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Except that it is. Does a Woman's Husband have the right to have sex with her more than a Stranger? Is a Husband more entitled to sex from his wife than a Random Man is? If you say no then your saying that a relationship or exclusivity is irrelevant to Rights and Entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:25 AM |
| -2 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:22 AM |
| 5 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:And btw I don't advocate for this ,I see a lot of people in this subreddit say these 2 Points so i decided to push it to its logical endpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:15 AM |
| -3 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Your right. Feminists essentially want relationships to be Anarchic with no Actual Rules or Entitlements. If thats the case then the right to Monogamy ,Loyalty ,Kindness and Equality in relationships are not guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:14 AM |
| 2 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Your right the mindset is incredibly toxic ,and something I see endlessly on this subreddit. I am simply pushing the idea to its logical endpoint since if men aren't entitled to anything in relationships ,then is anyone really entitled to anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 08:13 AM |
| 3 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:I totally agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:06 AM |
| 7 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Exactly. Any time a man isn't sexually satisfied in a relationship he is always told its his fault and that he isn't entitled to any sex and he could leave. But if a women isn't sexually satisfied? Its always the husbands fault and society's and they should change not her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 06:02 AM |
| 0 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Great. That's what they and the Men deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:35 AM |
| 2 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Perfectly. Actions do have Consequences as well. You can judge someone for being an asshole for doing it but at the same time they'll continue to do it anyways since its their right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:30 AM |
| 2 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Except women say that men even in relationships are not entitled to sex. That even if your a BF or Husband you are not entitled to sex from your partner. So if its that the case and a relationship still doesn't guarantee anything than a Relationship does not guarrentee Loyalty or Monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:29 AM |
| 6 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Your right that no one is owed anything. Hence why all of the above examples are perfectly ok. Its perfectly fine to not date someone if you don't want to just like how its ok to leave someone if they aren't satisfying you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:25 AM |
| – | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:Yeah. That's why I advocate that if a women isn't going to fuck you ,simply leave her and don't debate. Attraction cannot be negotiated and you'll do better off finding a woman compatible with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:09 AM |
| 7 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:If those men want that and the women agrees there's nothing wrong with that. If nobody is owed anything in a relationship then that also means Monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:07 AM |
| 4 | If you believe in "Nobody is entitled to a Relationship" and "Nobody is owed anything in a Relationship" then you believe in the following:But that isn't what's meant. A lot of the time "Nobody is entitled to a relationship" means that even if a guy was kind ,attractive ,helpful and took her out on dates he still isn't entitled to a relationship with the woman. You see this is discourse about the Friendzone or men in Dating ,no matter how kind or great you are a woman does not have to date you because you are not entitled to a relationship no matter what. And I'm simply saying that if nobody is entitled to a relationship then the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Scenario: sex is off the tableImmediately leave. I am making it clear I am not entitled to sex but they are clearly not entitled to a Relationship. The reason or cause of why is irrelevant ,I am not required to stay in a relationship when I am clearly not getting what i desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 04:15 AM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.When they say choose better what they mean is 1.Don't stay with or tolerate men who do horrible things like insult you ,treat you lesser ,beat you ,cheat you or otherwise to horrible things to you. So many women continue to stay in shitty relationships where they are being mistreated instead of just leaving. 2.Pick men based on their Moral Character not just purely on their Looks. So much women pick handsome guys who are horrible but these women ignore these red flags because he's attractive. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?Great. As long as women aren't getting into shitty relationships with men and then complaining to men about it I'm perfectly ok with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 07:03 PM |
| 3 | The only women who go after obvious assholes are mentally ill, shallow, or assholes themselves.Yep I have no idea why. Maybe they think these women are innocent angels who'll date them instead because they're nice guys? Just accept these are shallow women who date these kinds of scumbag men only because they're attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 03:46 PM |
| 2 | The only women who go after obvious assholes are mentally ill, shallow, or assholes themselves.Yeah I agree with this. Trash attract Trash. A lot of men are jealous of these Asshole Men not realizing they are attracting women who are equally scumbags. I think a problem people have with this is that a lot of women who date scumbag men blame men in general for them dating shitty men rather than themselves and the shitty man. A lot of women love complaining about how "the bar is in hell" with men and how they have to put up with lots of bullshit from their Asshole BFs. If they think that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesFor me 1. a.If your not getting what you want in a relationship ,leave. It's perfectly fine to put yourself first in a relationship and leave if you feel your being disrespected or not getting things like time ,affection or sex. So much women and men don't understand this idea. If you put up with shit like disrespect or lack of sex it's your fault for not leaving. You should have extremely high standards in your relationship and if your not getting it then you should leave. b. Attraction and Cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 08:00 PM |
| – | Feminists are just mad at TRP men for gaming the system that Feminism createdI agree with you on some things. When you look at the Dating market as a man you can either choose to be a "Good" Guy and fail or be an Asshole and succeed. Women love complaining about Asshole men and how these scumbags abuse ,manipulate and treat them terribly. They love getting into relationships with asshole men all the while telling actually nice and decent men that they aren't entitled to being with a woman. I've seen plenty of kind ,decent ,average looking guys fail to get any GFs yet see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:20 AM |
| 25 | It’s not that goodness/niceness isnt appreciated. Just stop being a doormat.Nice Guys don't get sex because they're unattractive. Yet instead of being honest to them Feminists instead tell them it's because they aren't really nice and that true nice guys get women. So you have these group of men who be nice to a woman yet don't get sex from them. And instead of being told it's because they're unattractive and uncharismatic they are instead told that it's because they aren't nice enough. So they become even more "nice" and "kind" in order to get laid. Which eventually tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:10 AM |
| 1 | My father talked some sense to me and now I can accept that the gender war is unavoidableAgreed with what you said. I think a lot of men and women simply don't like the opposite sex and that whining and complaints will be inevitable. That's why I generally support gender Separation and that men should build up friendships with each other rather than endlessly pester women for relationships. I endlessly hate this whole discourse "reee women bad" "Reee but men bad too!". Men and Women simply aren't made to naturally co-exist with each other and that's ok. If people wanna get into rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men just hang out with each other more to solve the "male loneliness epidemic"?If you feel that way ,then simply don't date men. And what about all the women in happy relationships with men? Why are they in those relationships if they're unhappy? Again if you don't want to have relationships that's perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Because those Male Communities have been endlessly hated by Feminists who demand women also be accepted into those spaces and then exclude men for their "Misogyny". Literally look at Gamergate and the early 2010s were Feminists were hating on Gamers and Nerd Subcultures for being "Misogynist". Literally anywhere where men want to be on their own and hang out with each other whether Gyms ,Video Games or Forums always has women demanding they also be part of these spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men.While I do agree with you that a woman has the right to date who she pleases and those Guys who complain about women's high standards suck ,women also have to understand they have power to date whoever they desire. If they date shitty men then it's their fault for dating those trashy men ,not Men in general. Those Nice Guys need to understand that a woman doesn't have to date them. And woman need to understand they don't have to date Evil men. Both Guys who complain about how woman don't want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.This hatred of Male Spaces as "harbouring misogyny" needs to stop. Not every Male Space is teeming with misogyny and hatred ,this idea puts a catch-22 on men. They're told to make friends and not focus on women ,yet when they do make friends with other men they're told their spaces harbour misogyny. It's ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:21 PM |
| 13 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to men that you actually feel is valid ?That Male Sexuality is a problem. A lot of men hate it when women don't want to have sex with them ,however men are the exact reason why very few women want sex .Men constantly use negative terms to describe sex like "smash" ,"pound" and "bang" .Men slut-shame women for having sex with men calling them "hoes" ,"Thots" and obsessing over their "N-Count". They say things like "suck my dick" as an insult. They actively degrade any woman who has slept with them and view them with less value. They ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:11 PM |
| – | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsThere are more Double Standards I can think of. Like when men complain about not finding relationships with women they are told that they're not entitled to a women's attention and acceptance ,that they should be friends with each other instead. Yet when men form their own Communities and Spaces online they are always told to accommodate and accept women into it ,yet isn't it men's right to not accept women into their Communities? They are not entitled to Men's attention and acceptance. Men are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:01 PM |
| 5 | How are young men being disenfranchised?Plus the whole man vs bear rhetoric is ineffective. Even if the Feminists are correct ,the Evil Men will continue to harass and rape women as they don't give 2 fucks about some meme. The Men who actually care about women will feel bitter and disillusioned and stop caring about women in general. So it'll accomplish nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:50 PM |
| 7 | How are young men being disenfranchised?It gives them a solution. With the Red Pill at least you can follow their fucked up ideas and believe in the end you'll emerge as a Badass Alpha who has all the women. What does the Left have to offer besides endlessly guilting men and telling them how evil they are whilst doing nothing to help them? What does the right-wing do besides tell young men to quit whining and "pull themselves up by the bootstraps"? whats their end goals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:45 PM |
| 13 | How are young men being disenfranchised?Not only does the left tell men that women have it worse ,but it tells young men that its their fault women are suffering. This guilting of men and demonizing them isn't going to make Young men like Feminists or Left-Wingers at all. Especially how hypocritical it is. I mean Young men aren't entitled to anything from Women at all ,yet they should be kind towards women and fight on their behalf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:42 PM |
| 5 | How are young men being disenfranchised?It's not like Men are oppressed on a Systemic or Societal Level (although there might be Female Privilege in the Justice System). It's that Young Men feel like anything they do towards Women is Evil according to society. And they feel hated ,alone and unwanted. Men are simultaneously hated for being kind towards women (Simp) and being bitter towards them (Misogynist ,Incel ,Sexist). Young Men are hated if they don't want to be with women (see the hate Nerd Communities got for refusing to want wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Men should care about friendship for the sake of friendship on its own, but if that’s not compelling enough, they should care because friendship has benefits for potentially leading to romantic loveI hear a lot of the whole "Men can just be friends with each other rather than crave Romantic Relationships with women". However a lot of Male Spaces where men go and be Friends with each other have been slowly disappearing or are unappealing to men for a specific reason... Lonely Men used to have Communities where they'd go and be friends with other men with shared interests. They were Nerds and Videogame Communities. However then women demanded they have the right to enter these spaces and soo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Feminism and the Noble SavagePorn is obviously Bad for Kids. However that doesn't mean Porn is bad in and of itself. An analogy is Guns are bad for Kids but not bad in and of itself. Violent Video Games are bad for kids but not Bad in and of itself. And certainly not signs of "Systemic Misogyny" Source for average Conviction rate for Rapists in the USA. The average sentence for offenders convicted of Rape is 178 Months. Clearly not lenient towards rapists. https://www.ussc.gov/sites/default/files/pdf/research-and-publicatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Feminism and the Noble Savage1.Literally one case.99% of Rape Convictions lead to high sentencing ,the Brock Turner case was an anomaly . And even then the case caused Huge Outrage. If we lived in a rape culture most people would've been ok with it. Your right that kids can't process the difference between reality and fiction. And I don't support kids watching Porn. 3.You clearly are a Misandrist because you claim that Male Culture is inherently evil and will lead to rape. If i said that Black People commit crime due to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:13 PM |
| -4 | Feminism and the Noble SavageLet's talk about your Points. You claim that Rapists emerge from Societal Conditions like Porn ,men being let off due to "boys will be boys" and lenience towards male crimes. First crimes like Rape are never excused or given leniency in the justice system. Everyone ,including Judges, finds Rape to be a heinous crime so that point is moot. Second you claim Porn also can influence someone to have a rape mindset which is COMPLETELY absurd. Saying that porn causes men to rape is like saying that vio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:02 PM |
| -2 | Feminism and the Noble Savagecontinue to insult me without actually critiquing what I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 02:47 PM |
| -7 | Feminism and the Noble SavageYour blaming a vague "Socialization" on why people rape ,with the hint that those things are responsible for why people rape. Socialization is never an excuse or reason that people rape. And by blaming socialization it ties well into the whole "its Patriarchies fault for everything!!". So according to you since Porn and Men encouraging each other to have sex will lead to Rape should those things be Illegal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 02:46 PM |
| -1 | Feminism and the Noble SavageSo you essentially view all cultures as just being inherently Evil and built up to justify Evil? Wow and yet you wonder why Feminists are hated. The idea that Cultures are inherently evil and have been for 1000s of Years is a Nazi-like belief similar to how the Nazis viewed the Jews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 02:41 PM |
| -3 | Feminism and the Noble SavagePeople rape because they're terrible and evil. It's not like Rapists don't know that what they're doing is wrong. Rapists obviously know that rape is evil yet they do it anyways. Blame no-one but the rapist. Feminists love blaming a vague "Patriarchy" or "Socialization" for problems in order to justify hating Men. It's ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 02:37 PM |
| 9 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Yeah its the simultaneous "I will never date you" yet also "defend me against these terrible men i picked over you" that frustrate me. It's the equivalent of being unable to get a job after applying yet being told you need to find other suitable candidates for the job instead of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsYour not entitled to sex ,your not entitled to Enjoyable Sex. If your not enjoying sex you can simply leave. If you can't find a date as a man then the Onus is not placed on women but on you ,likewise if you choose a poor partner the Onus is not placed on Men but on you. You can leave the relationship if you want. These Scenario's aren't equivalent but all have women at the center of power. Whether it's about men not gaining Dates or picking a poor partner. When men complain about not getting re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in Relationships1.I agree when women complain about a red flag they're told to break up with him. However that's not my point. You see a lot of women complain about the "Orgasm Gap" and how it's MEN's fault and society's fault they can't orgasm in their relationships rather than their own. You literally never see men blame society for their inability to orgasm. 2.Agree. Any standard you have is a choice that you choose. 3.Agree. And the reason women get into terrible relationships with men is because they choos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Meaningless sex as an option is better than no options at allHence why women should have High Standards and not sleep with a man unless they're sure he's trustworthy enough. A women who tolerates bad sex is like a man who simps for a women who doesn't like him - both are idiots. I don't like how people say women can have lots of sex when most of that sex clearly sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 08:01 PM |
| 32 | There are lots of women who will counterintuitively RAISE their standards in the face of nonsuccess in datingYeah. It's honestly better and more honourable as a person if you have High Standards and be single than have low standards and get stepped on and humiliated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:53 PM |
| 11 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsYeah the endless female victimization of "it's patriarchy!!! It's men being trash!!!" but never their own fault strangely enough. Meanwhile men's problems are always their own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 07:21 PM |
| 3 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsWhy even be on this subreddit if you don't want anything to change? And if things don't change then no-one has any reason to bother Dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:58 PM |
| 4 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in Relationships1.OK I agree my wording might've made the women look more deceptive but my point still stands. If a man isn't getting satisfied in a relationship he gets told to put up with it or leave. But if a women isn't getting satisfied in a relationship rather than told to leave she instead gets to blame society and men for her problems. 2.Society generally tells men that their Low Standards are THEIR fault. If a man complains that his GF doesn't appeal to his standards he is generally told to just leave … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in Relationshipsthis whole hating on "pick me girl" is a case of feminism hating anything that appeals to men. It even goes against their whole "we want women to have the freedom to do x" since they clearly hate it when women choose to appeal to men. And locker room talk with men bragging about their sexual conquests is BECAUSE male sexuality is inherently negative that men who manage to get sex are celebrated since it's rare. You don't see women bragging about how much men they had sex with since it's fairly e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:40 PM |
| 0 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsYeah. And even women's disadvantages could easily be mitigated if women chose to not do it. Oh women have to wear makeup? Then stop wearing it. Oh women get into terrible relationships with men? Then stop getting into relationships with men. Oh women are sexualized in media and video games? Then stop playing or consuming said media. Meanwhile Men's problems like their loneliness or higher suicide rates or higher Conviction rates are societal problems that can't be fixed by simply working harder … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:25 PM |
| 4 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsExactly ,and by bother sides. The Right-wing tells men to toughen up and stop crying and "be a man". While the Left endlessly shames men for being "entitled" to women and calls them sexist and misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Why don't men just hang out with each other more to solve the "male loneliness epidemic"?I'm really glad that women can be happy and have deep friendships with each other without men. I feel like this is what men also need to do with each other instead of complaining that women don't want them. I feel like if both genders just separated from each other and stopped complaining life would be much better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 06:04 PM |
| 11 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Yeah. Women basically "simp" for the 10% of men ,putting up with their nonsense and flaws because they are attractive. Then when these guys get arrogant and cocky doing all sorts of bullshit ,they blame muh misogyny and muh bad men for them staying with these assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Why don't men just hang out with each other more to solve the "male loneliness epidemic"?I do agree with you on this. However it's like asking "Why don't women just hang out with each other if relationships with men are so terrible?" Romantic relationships generally make life much more better and are a very strong drive. Especially for men since our friendships tend to be lacking in intimacy and emotional connection due to men not sharing their feelings. Plus men have a higher sex drive. I do agree men should hang out with each other more and form stronger communities to decrease lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:42 PM |
| 4 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsI am not against Feminism. Where in my post have i written that I'm against Feminism? I'm just talking about the double standards in how any problems a man faces in relationships is his fault but any problems a woman faces is somehow society's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 22 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Absolutely. Women tell the 90% of men to basically fuck off. Then they chase the 10% of men who tell THEM to fuck off. And then they get salty and whine about how unfair it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:32 PM |
| 31 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...Women who say "the bar is in hell" are as immature as those guys who say "AWALT". If all men are shit then perhaps stop dating them and quit whining? When men can't get any relationships they are told to shut up and that they aren't entitled to one. Yet when women complain about gettin shit relationships they are pampered and coddled. I'm sick of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:29 PM |
| 3 | There are Double Standards towards Men's Complaints in Relationships vs Women's Complaints in RelationshipsPretty much. Any problem a women faces in Dating is society's fault or "Patriarchy's" fault or men's fault. If a women is in a shitty relationship with a guy where she tolerates any bullshit it's obviously society's fault for conditioning women to have low standards!!! /s Yet ANY problem men face in the dating market is always their fault or that they have to pull themselves up by the bootstraps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.Didn't say anything about men sabotaging each other. In fact my point is that men aren't responsible for what women choose. I'm not judging other men I'm judging the women picking terrible men and then complaining. And your insults towards me aren't working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.This isn't aimed at Abusive men. A lot of women claim they get with shitty men or know women with shitty men yet instead of blaming the women for staying they blame other men. If a man is shitty or assholish or cheats or says misogynist things then it's your responsibility to leave him. You hear about how "the bar is in hell" when it comes to men. Yet it's women's fault for dating and tolerating these shitty men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.Even if 1% of women liked this behaviour ,that still means these Attractive Psychopaths are guaranteed to get women if they try. It shows that if your Attractive than no matter what you do you'll find more women than if you were average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.Hey women have the freedom to be with whatever man they want. Just don't complain to us men when you pick a shitty man ,that's your choice. Sure we're single but at least we're not in shitty abusive relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Confident, smart women intimidate malesIt's perfectly ok for men to want to be with Submissive women. Stop making preferences out to be evil or negative. If a women liked to be with Tall men or Rich men that is perfectly fine. This hatred of Male Preferences as being "Creepy" and "Manipulative" needs to stop. She likely isn't getting anyone because she is conventionally unattractive. Her being "confident" isn't making it better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.Exactly. Women ,Don't date shitty men and then complain that it's society's fault. Every time a man screws up its his fault but when women have shitty standards its somehow society's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.yeah you should communicate with your partner about their problems. And if they refuse to solve them then leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 12:56 PM |
| 13 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.Perfectly ok for women to be selective when it comes to dating. However that comes with the responsibility that if you pick a guy and he does poorly then you can easily leave him. Women love complaining about how men in relationships treat them poorly yet they don't realize they can easily leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.If you have a problem finding relationships ,then your not entitled to getting a relationship. If you have problems in the relationship you can leave ,simple as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea.A women has the right to have sex any time she wants. Likewise a man also has the right to leave a relationship if he isn't getting the sex that he wants. If you don't like that a women will make you wait to have sex simply leave her. A man can make a rule saying he wants sex by the first date and that's perfectly ok. All this framing and reasoning to justify these rules aren't really relevant since you can choose to have or not sex with someone for any reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:20 AM |
| 5 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.I agree. I do think that telling women to not date these Assholes is crucial and necessary. A lot of women need to realize it's THEIR fault if they keep getting into terrible relationships with shitty men all the time. My main frustration is that women keep getting with shitty men ,get hurt and then blame all men for their woes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:14 AM |
| 8 | What's actually a normal dating progress most men feel comfortable with?Most men like to take it slow if they genuinely like the woman and the woman actually has something to offer other than their body. It's mostly Chads and low-value men who want sex immediately. Remember if a man wants sex on the first date it means either he is Low-Value or you are. However men don't want it too slow as that means the women isn't attracted to them or she is intentionally wasting his time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:10 AM |
| 12 | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.While those women are utter idiots for wanting to be in relationships with obviously terrible men ,I can't say that they deserve to be abused or raped. No-one deserves to be abused or raped for any reason. And a lot of Abusers start off nice but then gradually change to become utter monsters which isn't the women's fault. My frustration is towards women who complain about how their boyfriend's don't make them cum or expect them to have sex with them or don't clean up after themselves or who chea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Men need to get in touch with their inner asshole to acquire love.Agree. I think you need to have this ruthlessness in order to gain a relationship. Either a women want's to have sex with you or she doesn't and if she doesn't then don't waste your time thinking you can convince her otherwise and just leave. Agree on Ghosting her if she doesn't provide sex on the first date and that she should treat you exactly as she treated her other partners. However I disagree on a few things. I think that if the woman is truly special you shouldn't really have this ruthles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 10:56 AM |
| – | Telling men that they've no romantic option because it's self-imposed logic should be used for women too who say there are no good men, bar is in hell and they would rather be single.Exactly. Men who complain about not getting dates or GFs are always told it's their fault whether it's because of their appearance ,personality or whatever. The same logic should apply to women. Every male problem is always the man's fault but every female problem is society's fault which is absurd. Your boyfriend can't make you orgasm? Find a new Boyfriend who will. Don't blame muh society for the orgasm gap and not being able to cum. Your boyfriend doesn't want to do the chores? Find a new Boy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 10:44 AM |
| 3 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsThis is what men mean by "choose better men" and "have high standards". They are not saying to only date the top 1% of men or to exclude a man for having a weird walk or a poor looking car. They are saying that you shouldn't tolerate any negative or horrible behaviour from a man ,no matter what. Don't tolerate nonsense or bullshit from a man just because your emotionally invested or because you "love" him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 06:33 PM |
| 8 | The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any FlawsI get that women have far higher standards than men. Which is understandable considering that they have more options and that there are risks with being with a terrible man (like abuse). However those High Standards come with a responsibility. If you pick a man who gives you problems or has flaws than you easily have the ability to go and find a better one. Hence why I don't feel sympathy for women who complain about shitty things in their relationships (excluding abuse) while I do feel sympathy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.Abusers are absolutely despised and hated by society. Hence why the vast majority of people don't put up with cruel behavior. Hence why Abuse is literally Illegal and a crime. However you need to understand why men are so pissed off at the kinds of women who end up with abusers. It's because men are told that if they were only kinder and more better than women would like them. That if they stopped acting like "Incel's" and "Nice Guys" could women then actually want to be in relationships with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The big problem with telling survivors of abuse to “pick better”.A crucial thing you need to realize in Relationships and Dating is that people have the freedom to choose who they date. Many times here men are told that they aren't entitled to sex and that they can't force a women to be in a relationship with them. And that even if the man feel like they "deserve" love for whatever reasons (like them being nice) ,that at the end of the day a Women can still choose to not be with him because she has the Freedom to pick anyone she wants. However this also appli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 04:38 PM |
| – | There are enough single men that women never have to beg for orgasm.Pretty much. Most men are so horny they'd be perfectly content going down on a woman ,heck some men are so horny they'd lick a women's feet. And most men can easily be replaced by a woman if he doesn't satisfy her. A woman can find 5 Men who'd be willing to have sex with her ,so if she isn't satisfied with Man A she can easily find Man B. So how are women somehow in relationships with men who won't go down on them? And why are they staying in relationships with guys who are not willing to satisf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.> Then why do most men also laugh at the red pill? The Red Pill is clearly growing otherwise people wouldn't be worried about it. Also this subreddit wouldn't exist if the Red Pill was a joke. And what parts of the red pill do men laugh at? > Most guys weren't being nice to get sex. They‘re nice because living in a polite society is logical. You aren't entitled to Kindness or Niceness beyond Legal Rights. >Most men understand there is a balance. But where is the Balance? That balance can easily … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.A lot of people will say that women also go through similar oppression ,of being told that they are also evil and terrible for being a certain Gender. However the difference is that Female Pains are Sympathized with ,while Male Pains are disregarded or even hated. When a Man complains that women don't like him and see him as Unattractive he is essentially told to stop whining and that he isn't entitled to women. But when a Women complains that Men don't want her due to her High Body Count she is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Apparently, young men are becoming redpilled because they cant be cry bullies.Men are becoming Red-Pilled not just because they're critiqued and hated but because the Blue-Pill strategies and ideas just aren't working in Real life. And that no matter what they do they fail. If you try and be nice to a women in order to gain sex with her then your a "nice guy" sexist who is only trying to manipulate women. So the solution is to just ask women out for sex right and not try to be friends? However they realized that doing that also fails as most women don't just outright say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 11:48 AM |
| 2 | To LTR a guy who just wants sex is like paying for an ugly sugar baby.Because for most guys ,the only way they can get sex is through actually knowing a girl and developing something of a relationship with her. If most guys could get sex through easy hookups then they wouldn't be complaining on here. Most guys are taught to actually know a girl first as most women wouldn't sleep with a random man straight away. The problem is that when guys do develop a relationship with a girl ,she usually friend zones him and so he doesn't get any sex. That's the Fundemental pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.And you need to stop with the Ad Hominem Attacks. All I'm saying is for women to stop dating Men who are obviously Bad while complaining about it online when they have the power to simply not date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 08:27 PM |
| 1 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.Any time Men make mistakes it's never brushed off as "we're all human beings who are imperfect". Every time a Man screws up its always because he's an evil ,terrible misogynist according to feminists. For example if you look at how they treat "Nice Guys" most of them aren't evil Sexists who feel entitled to women's bodies. But good-hearted ,naive men who were taught that the way to gain a relationship with women was by being Kind and respectful ,yet failed to get any romantic attentions while se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.Yeah I know women are people ,thanks for reminding me. And I'm not trying to solve women like math ,I'm simply asking why they make shitty choices and then complain about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.OK ,so let's say those "good guys" are assholes. So how then do men who actually are Assholes manage to get into relationships then? The whole "women can tell your actually an asshole" thing is nonsense because if that were the case almost no woman would be in abusive relationships. Yet women are ,why is that? Because they are going out with Good men who aren't entitled to their Bodies ,or because they actually crave guys who are assholes but are attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.This is a fundamental problem with gender relations in general. If your a Good Guy who treats a woman kindly ,takes her out on Dates ,helps her out whenever she wants and become friendly with her not only are you not going to gain anything but people would feel offended if you even desire or want anything (muh Nice Guy). You might say "Your not entitled to a Woman's Time ,Energy or Body". Yet if your a "Bad" Guy on the dating scene and act Entitled ,Assholeish and Selfish then eventually you'll … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:31 PM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Then don't argue on here ,since your clearly wrong and most people agree with me on this. Continue to see anyone who doesn't agree with you as Misogynist Women-Haters ,exactly why no-one agrees with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:23 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.If a man can't respect your wishes then maybe you shouldn't be with him in the first place. You literally have the power to not be with these kinds of men yet rather than take responsibility you tolerate their bullshit. It's simple ,if they continue to ask then simply leave them. Stop acting like women are children that are incapable of any autonomy in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:30 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Continue to stay mad lol. Plenty of Ad Hominems from people who can't argue back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:23 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I'm tired of this nonsense. The reason those men in your life have access to women is because they are Chads. The only reason one approach is perfectly fine and the other utterly creepy is based on how attractive a Man is. And I never was willing to use physical harm is a reason why women shouldn't be alone with men. I'm saying if your so threatened by men then you should just stay away from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:13 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Cases like this is exactly why I am arguing against the whole Enthusiastic consent nonsense because it easily could lead to false accusations. The whole "Power difference" Argument could easily lead to a case where a women could have sex with a man ,claim she felt pressured and the man's life would be ruined. All while the Man thinking he did nothing wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 09:03 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.So according to you a Man should only ask for Sex once ,and if the women doesn't immediately jump on his dick then him going any further is Rape? Wow. If you don't like the Power Dynamics between Men and Women ,then you might as well never associate with the opposite sex. Because a Man in your life will always have an inherent physical advantage over you and if you always feel Coerced by it then you might as well not be with them. According to you a Man could do literally nothing and yet you'd s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:59 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Not saying they are. I'm comparing asking people for money with asking people for Sex. And I love how you keep distorting everything I say rather than actually debating my points. Show's how I'm right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:35 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Say if a Man asks a Women for sex and the women not only says Yes but enthusiastically says Yes and they start having sex. But then it's revealed that the women faked being Enthusiastic for Sex because she felt pressured to perform sex and never enjoyed it the whole time. Would you say then that the Man raped her? And the fact you find it such a horrible and terrible question is funny considering that it's not even that Controversial or Terrible in comparison to some of the posts on this Subredd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:33 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I agree with everything your saying. I don't understand why everyone is assuming horrible shit just because I worded it in a different way. I said that Consent can only be done if 1.The Person is legally able to 2.The Person is not on any Drugs or Alcohol 3. Aren't under any Pressure or Coercion (like Legal or Physical) and 4.The Person verbally consents. And that they can revoke consent at any time and don't consent to all activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:28 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.It's hilarious how No-one is assuming the opposite ,that there are times where Women have pressured men into having sex with them. Yet practically no-one considers these men victims ,why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:18 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.It's astonishing how controversial this viewpoint is ,considering this was a Mainstream belief a Decade Ago. Proves to me that Feminism just continues to get more Radical. Wouldn't be surprised if they viewed all Heterosexual ,Consensual Sex as Rape because of "muh power dynamics" and "muh internalized misogyny". Crazy how the Gender Wars have gotten so intense that Basic Consent Lessons are seen in such a negative way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:59 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.If you are so sensitive to this Post ,which by the way was A MAINSTREAM BELIEF A DECADE AGO, then maybe you should stay away from all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:51 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Exactly. By making it Ambiguous and down to "Non-Verbal cues" your not really helping women because your basically saying their words don't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:49 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I don't want Number 2. I am saying that Number 2 is not Morally the same as Rape. Idiots here endlessly say that I want Unenthusiastic sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:41 AM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about."alL mEn ArE pOrNSiCk" then don't date them ,ok? Then you won't have to deal with all those Pornsick men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:34 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.At what point did I ever say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:16 AM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.If they are pornsick then don't date them. If you have a prejudice towards a group then simply don't associate with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:10 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.She can easily withdraw consent at any time and he should accept that. And yeah you can know if your attention is unwanted if the person clearly states they don't want to be with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:09 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.That's my point. If a Women says No she means No and the man has no right to have sex with her. But if she's says Yes then that obviously means Yes and she consents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:57 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.It's crazy how you just want the Man to read the Woman's Mind because anything less leads to the potential of Rape. So if a Male wants more Sex in a relationship ,he should never ask at all because if he does then the Female might feel pressured to have sex with him? Maybe she doesn't want sex with him because he doesn't shower that often and so she'd be more attracted to him if he does. But the man would never know that if he doesn't ask why he isn't getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:54 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I of course do care if the woman is enjoying sex with me. I'm just saying that Sex with Verbal Consent is not Rape. That's as obvious as saying that asking for Money is not Theft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:49 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.What defines coercion? If I say "Have sex with me or I will leave the relationship" is that really Rape? It is your right to not be in relationships with people and they aren't entitled to be in a relationship with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:15 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Alright. Say a Police Officer walks up to a man's car to ask him for his ID at a Traffic Stop. He sees the Man has a Gun right next to his Seat. Do you think the Police Officer is justified in shooting the man because he believes he might be in danger of his life? The Man has not expressed he will use the weapon or touched the weapon (yet) but that threat is still there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:09 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented."I don't think asking people for Money is Theft." "Why do you want to take People's money when they don't want to? Only a Thief would want someone's money." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:06 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Exactly. And fundamentally it assumes that someone doesn't have the Right to ask for something ,because then it would fall under Coercion. We don't allow people to point Guns at people to ask for Money ,so why do we allow Men to ask for Sex? If they are both forms of Coercion then why is one Illegal but the other Legal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:04 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.If people can't interact as Equals ,then they should't be interacting at all. If you believe that Interpersonal dynamics muddy the water of Consent than that means that no Women can truly consent to any Sex then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:02 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.If Men are such a Physical Threat towards Women that they're incapable of articulating words than Men and Women shouldn't be interacting at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:58 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.What you fail to realize are that Social Interactions are a Two-Way Thing. Both people interacting must make their intentions and feelings clear throughout the interactions and not just assume the other person instantly knows everything. How is a Man supposed to know a Woman doesn't want Sex if she doesn't make her intentions clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:55 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.In cases where the person 1.Literally has a weapon in their hands and threatens to use it 2.Verbally says he will use a nearby object on the victim if they refuse 3.Threatens Physical Assault if the victim refuses. Then the Verbal "Yes" is irrelevant because said person is being threatened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:53 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.And if someone doesn't? Or Forgets? Then they're a rapist because they had sex with someone who presumably consented and said Yes ,but secretly didn't really consent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:50 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.It's still consent since you've said Yes ,its ridiculous that Women are viewed as Children that are incapable of saying No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:45 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Good Point. The whole "just read their Non-Verbal Cues" fails to take into account that some people might struggle to read people's intentions and desires. Do they deserve to be called Rapists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:43 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.This whole "A large part of sex is non-verbal" is the exact same excuses that Misogynists used to justify having sex with women who didn't say yes. They would say stuff like "oh but she was leading me on" or "her eyes said yes ,she wanted it". The reason we don't rely on non-verbal cues are because they are subjective. What might mean Flirting to one might mean Friendliness to another. Only Clear Yes's and No's can define Consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:41 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Exactly. If a woman invites you to her House ,says yes and then takes off her clothes then that literally means she consents. I don't know why men are expected to be mind readers who must infer the Women's true thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:38 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Is it Consent if I ask you whether you want Tea and you say "Yes" but you didn't really want to and only drank it just to please me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:34 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I'm not "fine" with getting off with someone who doesn't enjoy it. I'm saying that calling cases where you consensually had sex with someone who you later regretted "Rape" is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:31 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.I am not advocating for making anyone suffer or what your implying. I'm saying that if someone doesn't want to have Sex simply say No and then leave if said Person continues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:29 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.You seem to think that I'm advocating for Rape or Sexual Assault ,which I'm not. Stop trying to draw the most Terrible Assumptions about my Arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:25 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.But would you really call it Trespassing? By calling it Trespassing you would then be saying its justifiable to shoot at someone if they pester you at your Door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:24 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.By being in a relationship with someone your clearly comfortable with being said person and thus a simple "yes" is sufficient enough to have sex with them. I'm not saying that you have the right to rape your partner. It's like having to write a written form of consent every time you visit your Friends House. It's ridiculous because a simple yes is sufficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:22 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Consent is pretty simple. If I ask you to enter your House and you said Yes and allowed entrance ,that clearly means you have consented. I am not an Intruder or Invader. And resorting to name-calling is Immature and won't help you in this debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:18 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Your right consent is not difficult. If I ask you if you want to have a Cup of Tea and you say Yes then that means you have consented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:16 AM |
| – | The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented.Really? Your calling me a creep because I said that Yes means Yes and that sex is consensual when there is verbal consent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:14 AM |
| 20 | CMV: love is a weapon of the patriarchyThis ridiculous idea that literally everything is part of a Patriarchal conspiracy needs to end. Do women love their Husbands because the patriarchy has brainwashed them in order to enslave them to men? Of course not. To say that Love itself is a tool of the Patriarchy is to think that literally anything is part of the Patriarchy. Ranging from Nail Clippers to Religion to Spaceships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Men and women are not the same that is okay.Your right that Men and Women aren't the Same however the problem isn't that Idea ,but the idea of simultaneously wanting Men and Women to be together while also being different. It's either Men and Women are different and thus should be separate or Men and Women should be the same. I can't be in a romantic relationship with someone who is fundamentally different towards me. Either said Partner must change or they can remain different ,by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:18 AM |
| -1 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failThe Red Pill's strategy is short-term. It basically says "fuck as many women as possible and don't love them since they will inevitably cheat on you for Chad". Its very Zero-sum and says to Men that you can't keep a Women due to Hypergamy and so you might as well only work hard in order to gain as much Sex from Women. It's very Nihilistic and Shallow hence why I don't think there can really be MarriedRedPillers or RedPillers in Long-Term Relationships. However its very good at telling men how to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Some Straight men might feel bothered or even angry ,but at least then Gay Men and Straight Men know where they stand. There's no scenario where a Straight Guy would want to be cat-called by Gay Men yet there are plenty of Women who actively seek out Male Attention as long as its the "Good" Male Attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.The problem isn't Fantasies. The Problem is the idea that "The reason we don't like Men is because they are Creepy ,Misogynist ,Violent et cetera". If that's true then why do so many women have stories of having Abusive ,Controlling ,Violent Exes if Women don't like Terrible men? How do so many Terrible Men get Girlfriends and Spouses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Alright. My main issue is that even when a Man and a Woman are comfortable with each other ,like when they are friends, Women will still find it creepy and disgusting if the Man wants sex. Even if you interact and be friendly with a woman ,you still won't know if your part of the Creepy or Non-Creepy group. I've had inter-actions with Women where I've been friendly and respectful to them and they seemed to reciprocate ,yet later been told that I was Creepy and that she felt "Threatened". It feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Yeah it's the utter revulsion at Men unless they are Attractive that pisses me off. The utter Hatred and Disgust towards ALL Male sexuality in Feminism is repulsive. It's not just hating cat-calling but hating Porn ,Attractive women in videogames ,men's desire for sex and even Advertisement depicting sexy women. If your a Low-Value Male you pretty much have no right to even think about sex according to feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 02:15 AM |
| – | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Then DON'T date men like this. Women fail to realize that they can simply stop dating these entitled ,asshole men and can easily date men who'd be willing to pleasure her. This is like rich folk complaining about how buying clothes is soo expensive for them ,But that's only because they choose to intentionally go to stores that sell Expensive Clothes. They could easily go to 100 Stores that sell far cheaper clothes but nooo they for some strange reason CHOOSE to shop at expensive fashion brands … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Yeah it's often strange hearing Women complain about men who don't make them cum or who want them to do certain Sexual Acts because I'm like "You know you can easily leave that guy and find like 5 guys who'd be happy to lick your toes? Why are having sex with a Man who's absurdly sexually selfish and not with a guy who'd be happy to service you?". I'm just confused as to who these men are that can not only have sex with women but get Sex on their own terms. A Comparison would be like Men complai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.What do you mean? If a women complimented me either way I would be flattered and say Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:04 AM |
| -6 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.So you view all men like this? If that's so then that means you would want 0 male Attention. I don't want anything to do with that Beefy Bubba so I assume you want nothing to do with men? If men are such a danger to women then I assume both Genders shouldn't be near each other or associate at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:46 AM |
| 6 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Yeah. It's like the way women speak of Unattractive men and Attractive men is like night and day. If your an Unattractive man merely finding a woman attractive or wanting to have sex with them is this horrific crime and terrible sin. Yet when Attractive Men not just want sex but want it on their terms women just completely submit to their demands rather than being repulsed by it and pushing them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:43 AM |
| 0 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Your right. Women are so disgusted by Unattractive men that if they even hint at liking them as a friend its this horrible insult to them. I don't know why they're angry at friendzoned men merely wanting sex yet perfectly ok with putting up with the antics of abusive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:38 AM |
| 4 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Ahh I see. With Men's Desire its more of a spectrum where most women we find Attractive to some degree with only a few women we definitely don't want to have sex with. However with Women's Desire its more of a Binary where there are Men they want to fuck and Men they Definitely don't want to fuck with little middle ground. However my main issue is how do Men know which category they fall under? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.I'm not saying men are inherently a danger towards women. I am advocating AGAINST that idea because it will lead towards hating on All men. If you believe men are inherently a threat towards women than you will begin to assume that every interaction between them will always be one-sided in the male's favour due to the threat of violence he is capable off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.A Man being Intentionally sexually selfish is a red flag because he'd rather get his dick wet than simply make his partner happy. It's like a Partner refusing to shower or refusing to listen to your concerns. It's them saying they don't care about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.OK. But with Men's Inherent Physical Strength how can you be sure if a Women reciprocating a man's attention is because she is genuinely attracted to him or because she's terrified if she says no? The whole "its good if there's consent" doesn't take into account that consent can be a spectrum from a firm yes to a firm no with a muddy middle that can mean the difference between a Good sexual encounter and a terrifying one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:17 AM |
| 0 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Women claim the difference between Positive and Negative Male Attention is Consent. However Feminists claim that because of Men's Inherent Physical Strength ,that even a women saying yes might not mean consent because she might've felt threatened if she said No or didn't want to enrage him. This is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:13 AM |
| -1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Your right. Why is it that Feminists claim the reason Young Men are lonely and sexless is because they are misogynists who treat women terribly ,Yet ACTUAL misogynists who treat women terribly somehow have girlfriends and sex with women? Why is it that some women complain about being in relationships with terrible men if being a terrible man means you can't get a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:06 AM |
| -2 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Men have a Physical Advantage over women and can potentially harm them. Therefore Women should view ALL male sexual attention as potentially dangerous considering that ANY male she encounters could harm her ,even men she finds attractive. Yet this isn't the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Exactly. Men get 0 compliments essentially and are utterly starved of attention. Women will say how Negative that Attention is but men can't understand that because they get NO attention. It's so frustrating to men. It's like telling a Starving ,Homeless Man he should be grateful he never gets food because at least he won't get obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.I don't agree with this. First a Women can easily just not have sex with a man if they don't immediately pleasure her and put her needs first. This is because a women can easily find another man who's willing to have sex with her than vice-versa. Women complain about Bad-Sex but they CHOOSE to be with men who give them bad-sex. I guarantee this can end if women simply had sex with men on the condition that they pleasure her first. Plenty of Men would still accept that considering how thirsty men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about.Most men don't complain about Bad Sex since they're rarely getting sex anyways so they can't complain since all sex is good sex for men. There is a tendency to overemphasize Female needs since women get laid more while men can't. However the reason most Men are sexually selfish is because men rarely get sex. So when they get sex men usually focus on themselves since they've been sexually starved for so long. Women complaining about bad sex is ridiculous since they can easily leave the man giving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.I agree Cat-Calling is objectively terrible. But my problem is that women are selective over which cat-calling is OK. When its done by an Unattractive man its terrible but when its done by an Attractive man its considered ok? Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.None of you are getting towards my main question which isn't just about Cat-calling. WHY is it that Women feel threatened by All expressions of Male Sexuality yet also wish to Date Men? Cat-calling was just one example but there are many examples like women hating Men when they want sex ,when they want sex on the first date ,Video Games that depict Sexually Attractive Women ,Sexually attractive women in Movies and more. If you hate "muh Sexualization" and "muh Creepiness" in Men then why associa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Exactly. And even if you don't like Gay Men or their Attention ,you don't dress in a way to attract Gay Men or be OK with it if they're "Hot". It's either all Male sexuality is terrible including Attractive Men or it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:01 AM |
| 0 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.That's not my point ,I'm saying that if you view Male Sexuality as inherently threatening and Horrid then why even associate with Men? If you don't like Men then don't associate with them ,don't hate on Male Sexuality but still want to be in relationships with men. It's doesn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:00 AM |
| -5 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.I agree that having strangers saying sexual comments towards you endlessly is annoying, but if a Women said a compliment towards me I would be flattered or indifferent. Women act like any comment towards them by a Man is this existential threat and is horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.A lot of Women here view Male Sexuality as terrifying and inherently dangerous. If that's the case why not simply disassociate from Men altogether? Why not join the 4B Movement and completely separate from men? It's this idea of "Men are disgusting and Threatening but also we want to be with them and be in relationships with them." Its as terrible as saying "Black People are dangerous and threatening but I don't hate them and I have black friends!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 02:54 AM |
| -2 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Exactly. The whole problem is that Women find Unattractive Men's desires as utterly repulsive and Dangerous yet view Attractive Men's desires as Perfectly Fine. Both desires are harmless and completely ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 02:49 AM |
| 0 | Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison.Your correct. The Problem is that most Women split the Male Population between "Attractive Man that can do what he wants" and "Violent Terrifying Vermin that shouldn't even look at a women". That's what I find disgusting because Men don't have this mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 02:44 AM |
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