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I had a quick read of some of your other posts, and my suggestion is just showing him what you like. Take initiative and start kissing and escalating, and just guide him, move his hand where you want it to be, tell him what to do, be overly enthusiastic about it, let him think he’s doing a great fucking job when you guide him. Then take it further the next time, and even further the time after that, and one of the times he won’t have ED because of his nervousness. This is so beyond sexting, but …
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:51 PM
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So, this goes way beyond just sexting, and I’m not a therapist in any way, but as I see it, there’s at least 2 obvious ways to go about this. You take control. The next time you’re on the couch watching a movie or when you’re in bed, go for it. If he declines your advances, just assure him that’s it’s fine, that you want him, and that you don’t care if he makes any mistakes. If he still declines, then I don’t know, at least don’t rape him, but go see a couples therapist or something. Challenge h…
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:37 PM
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Okay. Just letting you know, the first time, it shouldn’t be a performance, just do what comes naturally, and there will be some mistakes you can both laugh about later, just enjoy it. If he’s as insecure and nervous as I think he is, then go easy with the sexting. Set the general tone, even with something simple as saying that he looked hot wearing something or while doing something, and you don’t have to be specific about the sexual stuff, just let his imagination do the rest at the tempo he f…
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:13 PM
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He’s already your bf, so whatever you’ve done so far is great. If you want to spice things up a little, try to take inspiration from something that you enjoy, a book, a movie, a scene, a fantasy, your choice. As a man, if I get whatever text, even just slightly hinting at a fun time, I’m all for it. Difficult to give direct examples, when I don’t know your style, but anything general in the line of "Don’t make plans this evening, I got something special in mind", and if you want, add a spicy (as…
/r/seduction02/04/25 09:59 PM
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I’ve had basically the same thing happen to me at a night club, which is why I see it as a shit test. I came on strong, she told me "wow, aren’t you forward", and I doubled down and said “Well, I know what I want". Like why waste time, we’re both at a nightclub.
/r/seduction01/04/25 11:09 AM
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It’s a shit-test, which means she’s interested, unless you fail it. Learn to pass them. You can pass most by just being confident, just escalate the test further, have some fun with it, or if you can’t think of anything just laugh/smirk it off, worst thing you can do is starting to defend or explain yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/25 09:54 PM
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It can be misinterpreted as flirting, even though it’s not. Which is basically how most men feel like they’re being flirted with when a girl is being friendly. This is my opinion however.
/r/seduction20/03/25 07:53 PM
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Intention and emotion is the difference. Like, you can say that your bro looks sick af with his new haircut, but there’s no further sexual intention, so it’s not flirting. You can also talk to a woman with the intention of fucking her, but if you don’t make her feel any good emotions, then it’s not flirting.
/r/seduction20/03/25 07:02 PM
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Yes, coming from experience. I didn’t have that many truly great photos of me, so I bought a photoshoot like this and brought a bag full of clothes to change outfits. Game changer for me, but I can in no way guarantee that for everyone. The dude who did the photoshoot also had a “team” of women select which photos they liked the most. Just make sure you actually have a decent style, no like cartoon t-shirts or whatever unless that’s the niche type of girl you’re looking for.
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:45 AM
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Take a second to think about why you’re nervous. Is it because you’re outcome dependant? Well, stop caring about what she thinks, enjoy being you and the right girls will love you for you Is it because you don’t know what to say? Start living a more interesting life and start telling people some amazing stories AND start learning how to be interested in what people tell you, ask them questions Also, just get experience, talk to more girls, also the ones you’re not interested in, and learn to hav…
/r/seduction16/02/25 09:25 PM
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There’s often a huge difference between what someone thinks they want and what they actually want. Since she clearly stated that she thinks she wants you to be rough, then be dominant and take control, but start gentle with the actual penetration and escalate the roughness at her pace. Trust me, she will tell you. There’s so much more manhandling that can be done other than the penetration itself. Pin her down, lift her up, hold her wrists, move her around, grab her hair or even her throat if yo…
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:03 PM
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My take on it is to be confident and show interest, but if she doesn’t reciprocate then don’t chase. Showing interest goes way before asking her out, and asking her out should never be done before she has shown enough interest in you. Think of pursuing as two people moving towards each other, where the man is taking the initiative. And chasing is the man following her while she is moving away.
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:48 PM
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Nice, if it’s obvious and you’re already going to her place, then she’s really interested. Enjoy your date!
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:56 PM
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How to have fun and be playful?? Start by having fun yourself, then include her. You can also tease her, or even make fun of yourself. Just generally be playful without being overly childish. Like, show off and flip that pancake, spin that pizza-dough, karaoke with the music that’s playing, dance with her, honestly just do what you feel like is fun.
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:45 PM
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I would ask her to put on some music, then just have fun while cooking with her. Having fun while doing something together is such an easy way to start escalating. Then I would teach her a thing or two about cooking, add a little physical touch here and there and escalate slow and steady while having fun. Then it’s a normal date after that. You got some delicious food, and you’re already at her place. ..Just one thing though, have you established that this is a date? Like you’re coworkers, I don…
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:40 PM
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Honestly, if you’re that inexperienced, then you should go somewhere you feel comfortable to take the pressure off yourself. Any activity is great to start the date, then move it to somewhere more intimate. Like start with mini golf, escape room, arcade, or any other activity that’s within your price range, and then continue the date somewhere like a cozy bar or something. Do the activity to loosen up a bit and have some fun, if you’re inexperienced it’s going to be hard to escalate properly any…
/r/seduction22/01/25 07:01 PM
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All of these get clothes off when used throughout the day. It’s rarely about that one move, but more about how you make her feel from the moment you meet her. You escalate one step at a time.
/r/seduction06/01/25 07:12 AM
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If I’m at a fairly crowded place and I get eye contact with a cutie, I smile, and if she smiles back then I signal a "come her" with my hand. Whenever I have to open a door for her, I always place one hand on her lower back to guide her through. Whenever the subject of tattoos, scars, muscles, and other "on body" stuff comes up, I usually find a way to touch the place we’re talking about. Like hold her forearm while looking at one of her arm tattoos. Very standard, but always start a date with a…
/r/seduction05/01/25 10:28 PM
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I know right, but this one was actually legit. She had booked a flight. She keeps sending videos and facetiming me and asking me stuff to get to know me, but idk dude. My plan is just letting her be her, and living my life until she comes up with an actual time.
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:36 PM
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So you would not reply to her videos, or be less interested until she gives you a time?
/r/seduction20/12/24 02:55 PM
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If you think it’s terrifying to approach and say stuff, then start smaller. Start by simply just saying hello to a bunch of random people, one at a time, no conversation, just a simple hello while you walk past them, they’re not gonna remember anyways. Make sure you keep a positive vibe. Then move on to actual compliments, just give random compliments to people you notice, and DO NOT expect anything back, just compliment them and keep walking (of course unless they seem really interested). When …
/r/seduction13/12/24 11:24 PM
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I haven’t heard of mode 1 before now, but reading the other comments here I’m assuming you’re understanding it wrong. You should like you wrote "say what is on your mind", but for fucks sake adjust it to the situation. Like if you see a beautiful woman that you really want to get with, you don’t start with "let’s fuck”. Adjust your mind and what you say to the reason you want to fuck her. Like, is she beautiful? Did she have a great style? And so on.. start with the authentic emotions, not the g…
/r/seduction13/12/24 10:25 PM
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For a complete beginner, I would highly suggest doing an activity or go to a place you’re comfortable and can be a good version of yourself. Don’t choose a museum because you think that’s a typical place for a date, if that’s not the type of date you know that you like. And the date should last as long as you’re both having fun or til one of you got somewhere to be, just focus on your date and forget about trying to set the right amount of time. Also, don’t try to be someone you’re not, but be c…
/r/seduction19/11/24 09:35 PM
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I would just talk to her about some event that I’m looking forward to and just take it from there. Just check if she wants to join you. Then it’s all up to you to let her know it’s a date one way or another. Like either be blunt and confident about it if you can handle still working with her after a possible rejection, or be more smooth and gentle with it and let her have the option of an easier way out and then an easier way to just stay work-buddies.
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:04 PM
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Bro, if this isn’t bait, then bullying really fucked up your long term self esteem and your view on reality, and that really sucks. Do some basic neck and jaw exercises, and check out mewing, and WORK ON YOUR INNER GAME, there’s no reason you’re not getting laid if you work on your inner game they way you currently look. Also fuck you if this is a pick-me-bait-post.
/r/seduction20/12/23 06:19 PM
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An average looking guy doing this… you can basically just start wearing a fedora
/r/seduction08/09/23 02:29 PM
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How tall is a tree with advanced growing skills?
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:22 PM
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Is it okay for you if he sees other people? If so, then just keep it like it is, or maybe ask if he wants an open relationship If it bothers you that he sees other people, tell him and see if he values you more than random hookups.
/r/seduction03/10/22 06:06 PM
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Ya, I barely read any of his post, but his last sentence makes me think that he’s just fucking about
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:41 AM
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Pretty sure the point OP is trying to make is; Talk about a passion. And by that I mean talk with your emotions, doesn’t matter what you say as long as you’re confident and you find it interesting, and you want to talk about it.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:00 AM
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Bro…. Listen to me carefully. Next time, just let your guard down and expect less. Go to the party to enjoy yourself, when you do what YOU enjoy with confidence, you will be noticed. If you see an interesting girl, just talk to her, say anything casual about what you observe. Literally as simple as “Hey, can I join?” (If they’re playing beer pong). Once you’ve approached with anything as simple as that, try to enjoy yourself in her presence and just socialise. You’re game and social skills will …
/r/seduction01/10/22 12:31 PM
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I definitely got more confident after reading how bad half the people are struggling here! Jokes aside, some posts actually helped me, like the ones focusing on improving your inner game.
/r/seduction22/09/22 05:08 PM
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Get them to wingman you, or basically just talk about you and go out again. Also next time something like this happens, just grab your balls, and go for it. It’s way better to get denied than wondering what-if
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:30 PM
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She’s either afraid of being used, or a psycho. Proceed with caution. Also just be honest with her, if you’re open for the idea, but unsure about it, just let her know that you want to date her and get to know her more before being official. Just saying that if you see her just for a fun time, and you’re not open about that, it might backfire hard.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:32 AM
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Took a quick glance… you need a bigger dataset to teach your AI. Look for romantic books and similar, and do a few hours of supervised learning before you let it teach itself.
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:57 AM
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Depends on culture. I can do that with any of my friends and I usually do it when I’m flirting at a bar. It’s not like “I’m going to place my hand here, and move it sexy-like upwards”, but more of a “hey, I’m just gonna casually place my hand here while I show you this picture I took on my vacation to xyz” , it could also be over their shoulders or across their back or whatever, just somewhere to have it while I’m sitting close Go for it, it’s all how you say it.
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:35 AM
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Go for a hug right from the start when you see them next time. Just an easy and natural way to both greet someone and break the touch-barrier. If you want to be somewhat assertive, you can gently guide them by placing your hand on their lower back and lead them. If you want to be somewhat cute, you can move hair away from their face. If you want to be somewhat masculine, you can place your hand on their leg/knee/thigh when sitting and talking. There’s also a ton of “excuses”, like measuring hand…
/r/seduction29/08/22 06:23 AM
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If you’re in a rush, just get to the point of why you’re approaching her. Get her attention from a few meters distance, give her room, if she seems approachable, just go comfortably close and tell her what you want to tell her. No difference from any other day game approach. Get to the point, and tell her that you are in a hurry, but you’d love to go out later. If you’re having thoughts of her calling security and shit like that, you are in a totally wrong headspace, and you should probably star…
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:58 PM
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Unless you’re handsome af, it’s weird to text her if you haven’t even talked to her, how did u even get her number. So I’ll assume you have mutual friends or that you actually play soccer with her as well. Just take initiative after you’re done playing and invite them (vocally, not through text) to grab something to eat. Go normally from there, talk to her, give her compliments like “Where did you learn to dribble like that?” and when it feels natural, ask for her number/snap. THEN text her. If …
/r/seduction25/08/22 02:50 PM
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I know of 2 in my city, I think it has something to do with making it easier for women to get housing while studying, it’s the same prices as everything else so no economical benefits, just makes it easier for universities to fill the gender quota
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:32 AM
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Parks, Malls, Beaches, Lakes, Campuses, Cafés, Bars, Pubs, Clubs, Gyms, Hen Coops (buildings that officially only rent out to women), and my place
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:14 PM
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Just my preference, but I make sure the conversations are filled with emotions instead of sexual talk, and let the physical touch do the sexual escalation. If I however feel like steering it towards something sexual, I often either intentionally misinterpret or over exaggerate something she said, play games where sexual topics/themes come up, or joke around with something I’d do to her and see if she plays along.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:26 AM
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I’m not an expert on autism, but since you’re saying that you come off as insensitive, judgemental, and pointing out flaws; How about doing something to change the focus? Like bring a deck of cards to do magic tricks, walk your friends dogs to your daygame, basically anything that becomes a big focus for the interaction. Your goal is to focus on the interaction itself and not so much on the women after you have decided to approach. Keep showing a good and fun side of yourself, and end the intera…
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:05 PM
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For anyone doing this; Does this actually work or are you just seen as untrustworthy? Like I’ve literally never done this, I usually stay humble when talking about myself and my stuff, but let my actions/belongings speak for me later
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:01 PM
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It’s just overthinking, some are adamant about the man paying, some are adamant about splitting. There’s like a million reasons why for both. Do NOT judge your date based on who payed what, it’s just a small gesture imo.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:41 AM
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If it feels natural, but don’t overthink it and don’t overwhelm her. I prefer to just send random snaps of what I’m doing, without expecting any response. Like if I’m out climbing, I’ll take a photo, and send it to some friends and the date I’ve planned. If she answers with a question, then I assume she wants to get to know me better before the date, else I don’t overthink it and just treat her as any other person until the date.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:57 AM
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Grabbing dinner is too much, that’s 2nd date imo. If I’m travelling, I’m just telling them that I’m there for the weekend or w/e and if they wanna grab a drink. If they’re close to where I live, I ask why we haven’t met. Some observational stuff if there’s something that interests me, like if I’ve climbed the same mountain as they have. Basically asking to grab a drink if I’m short on time, checking familiarity if we live close by, or peeking interests from adventures. Last 20 chats: 17 responde…
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:48 AM
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What did u even send to those 20?
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:10 AM
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Well yes, and no. Flirting, if done correctly is fun and entertaining. Doesn’t matter who it is, if it’s your friend, fwb, or partner, as long as they enjoy it. However your expectations, intentions, and how you flirt, needs to be different based on who you flirt with.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:56 AM
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We see something we like, we kiss it
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:23 PM
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There are women that are into short kings. But a huge part of that is hygiene, confidence, style, and social skills. Work on those, and you will see success. If you have a fun and entertaining lifestyle as well as a good economy, you’re golden. Of course no one can get every women, some women like buff tall guys, some like goofy nerds, some like skinny rockstars. Just be the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:30 AM
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When you meet for the date, go for a hug to break the touch-barrier. After that just walk comfortably close to her to wherever you’re having the date, don’t force any touch here, but some might happen naturally. At the date location I usually do anything that involves natural touching, like checking out tattoos on her arm, giving compliments on her rings, allowing her to read my hand if she’s spiritual, and so on. When we’re already sitting close to each other and having fun, I can put my arm on…
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:19 AM
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Bro literally started saying he’s barely average looking, but his method works 50% of the time because he’s slightly above average looking Also… just do normal approaches, you’re way to invested in girls that don’t even know you exist with this method
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:08 AM
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All the steps leading up to touching their neck, thigh, and ass IS asking for consent.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:46 PM
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I give it one last push for an interesting narrative in case I’m misinterpreting shyness for boredom, like “What’s the craziest thing you’ve done this year?”, if she’s still boring, she’s just not interested
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:02 PM
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Just remember to not focus on the outcome of wether he wants or has time to join you, just go out and have fun, but give him the option to join if he’s still interested.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:27 AM
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He’s most likely still interested, but definitely not invested. The next time you’re going out, just text him and casually invite him to check if he wants to invest more. Could be a million reasons to why he hasn’t talked to you since then, only way to find out now is for you to casually invite him.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:10 AM
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At what stage of sexual escalation do you struggle? It’s not like one single step from meeting to fucking Do you keep eye contact? It’s the most simple way to escalate Do you touch them physically? Still pretty simple, just don’t linger unless they touch/flirt back Do you take risks after that, like making sexual innuendos, jokes, or even touching sexual areas like their neck, thigh or ass? Or is it after making out you struggle?
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:23 AM
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You do you man, some like it, some don’t. There’s no harm in testing limits, as long as you respect her reaction to it wether it’s positive or not.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:25 AM
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You missed half the point for women, they dream of that, and they think they can get that, but most of the time they get taken advantage of, because most men with thousands of matches on OLD treat them like shit after they get what they want
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:48 PM
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Most men struggle, because women have a lot easier access to high-value men through socials and OLD. Which again leads to the average guy feeling insecure because he can’t get most of these women, and he ends up in a negative loop. Women have it somewhat equally bad, they fantasise about the perfect guy and get in touch with him through socials or OLD, he takes advantage of the situation because he has thousands of women waiting, and she starts hating men until she finds the next high-value man …
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:18 PM
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If you want to be social, just throw yourself into it. Just go up to anyone there that you think look interesting, be confident, and just say anything like “hey, I don’t think I’ve had the chance to talk to you yet” and shake their hand and introduce yourself, works for everyone if they’re not a total ass/bitch. And just keep the chat going with like “what brought you here?” and fill your own answers with proper sentences and not just short-answers and just try to have a conversation that you yo…
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:59 PM
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Consider myself somewhere between 7.5 and 8. I’m nowhere near a 10, but I frequently get compliments on my looks and a decent Tinder profile to back it up. Casually browse this sub to get back into the dating game after a breakup.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:22 PM
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TIL I’m the 1%
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:19 AM
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What specifically do you want to learn? The apps are for profit, which means that they are made to make the majority of users want to spend money These apps real actual purpose, is to make meeting partners more efficiently. The more attractive you portray yourself, the more potential dates you will have, and this goes for outside of apps as well. Imagine a right swipe as just approaching anyone, if they don’t like you, you’ll notice. But there’s WAY less competition in real life, compared to dat…
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:39 AM
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Talk to people, have confidence, and add tension… hold eye contact, touch them, smile, adjust, have fun, escalate if everything looks good You don’t need to have the best game, everyone starts somewhere, just go out there and have fun, and start taking small risks like holding her lower back when you’re ordering drinks at the bar, and just take bigger risks throughout the night
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:06 AM
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I almost always bring these: A watch, any piece of simple/minimalistic jewellery, gum/mints, coins for any pay-2-play bar activities like pool, condoms For specific events it can vary, like bringing extras of those one-time-use heat pads that you can use inside your gloves if your going to ski-parties, it’s a nice opener when you see a girl that definitely dressed too light. Also, shades for daytime parties Since ur using a keychain, you could add a bottle opener to it
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:09 PM
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The mindset of self-worth/knowing it’s time to move on, comes from having abundance mindset. Why spend time on her, when you can spend time with other girls that are interested. Ironically, when they notice that you have options and don’t put them on a pedestal, that’s when they start chasing. So abundance breeds abundance. Just work on yourself and aim to be high-value, but always remember to have fun and don’t lose yourself to “game”.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:13 PM
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You know that feeling you get when you see a cop car in the mirror when you’re driving. Even though you haven’t done anything illegal, you still get that feeling.
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:41 AM
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I doubt that you should put all the blame on yourself, a lot of men just want sex, and if you don’t have sex early on, it’s not worth it for them. With that said, I’m NOT saying that you should become a slut to keep men interested. And there could be a million reasons to cut contact, if you get the chance, just ask any of the men that did it to you about why they dit it. But general dos and don’ts; Be interesting AND interested, have a lot going on in your life other than those people, don’t be …
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:14 PM
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As a male, I’m just going to write based on my own experience. The initial attraction is pretty simple; It’s based on looks, how you present yourself (dress / makeup / etc), and body language. Do I find you attractive? Do you seem approachable? If I’m looking for anything more than a ONS then comes the 2nd phase for the next days / dates. This phase will really set how our relationship is going to be. Are we sexually compatible or just friends? Do you have an interesting life that I want to be a…
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:38 AM
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Her body language will tell you; Is she pulling away? Leaning in? Just adjust based on how comfortable she looks IF she has to tell you vocally, you’ve gone way to far and there’s a very fine line to get back.
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:34 PM
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I believe you, but your story went a whole other way than I expected
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:29 PM
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They had us in the first half, I’m not gonna lie
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:21 PM
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Text back and entertain yourself with it, do it for your entertainment, not for hers. If she laughs and is into it, ask her out, otherwise just move on.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:59 PM
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“Hold on, you’re telling me I could be getting a monthly allowance if I find the right girl? Brb”
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:02 PM
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Texting is mostly for setting up dates Snap could be used to show value, take pictures and videos of all the amazing things you’re doing, and add them to your story or send them to girls (plural) Whoever reacts or responds in a positive way, ask them out; “I’ll be back at xx PM, you should meet me at -place-“
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:48 PM
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Bro, she’s literally busy, also literally telling you she is interested If you’re expecting a stranger who doesn’t know anything about you except how you look on pictures to drop studying for a college exam, you need to re-think how dating works She wants to get to know you AND have a future with a stable income
/r/seduction15/05/22 04:33 PM
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If your date is using their phone, just tell them like you did, if they keep using it after just teasingly ask them if they are nervous since they keep checking their phone. See what you can build from teasing and being playful, but persistent and in charge of the date. If your date STILL keep using their phone, then just tell them that you’re leaving, and see how they react, if they don’t basically beg you to stay then leave. Best case, they text you later saying that they’re sorry and want ano…
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:24 AM
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Respond with what you want. If you want to be the friend that buys her and her date drinks go for it, if you want more then say that you were interested in being more than friends and don’t want to continue being just friends and wish here the best and tell her goodbye.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:46 AM
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“It was amazing at x this weekend, im heading there again this Friday, you should join me” “Have you tried x place yet? I heard they got some really good food there” “Hey, I’m planning a trip to x this weekend, would be great to have a local showing me all the good spots” I just state what I wanna do, and tell them that I want them to join me, if they say yes for the date I’ll check what time suits them best when it’s getting closer to said date and to see if they are still down. Don’t have enou…
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:40 PM
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Compliment on specific things she can control, her humor, any of her skills, etc. If you just compliment her looks without establishing a good connection beforehand you will sound like a simp or a fuckboy, depending on your looks. Also, be fun, be teasing, say playful things with a smile on your face, but don’t be a douchebag and say anything mean. Specific to the photographer thing, I would just leave it as a photoshoot, say that the photos look great and then check if she would like to grab a …
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:03 AM
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Shoulder > Back > Knee > Arm > Hands > Thigh > Waist > Ass > Inner Thigh > Anywhere under her clothes > Anywhere naked Just think where your own limits are and add tits to it lol
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:26 AM
2

A good amount of places in my town already have board games for this exact purpose, but I don’t think bringing your own board game on a coffee date to be a good idea. So either find a place that already have board games, or wait for a date at either of your places or as a great way to introduce her to your friends. As for the board games themselves, it’s mostly easy-to-play card games like Exploding Kittens, chess, or trivia games, with an exception here and there.
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:44 AM
1

Hard to say, you know him better than any of us. But if I would’ve told a girl that my bday is coming up, then it’s definitely nice either getting a gift or celebrating with that girl. And if you feel like you know each other well, and since you are both space nerds it’s a cool gift. Again, it’s really hard to tell when we don’t know more about the both of you, BUT the gift sounds way better than just getting beer. Maybe escalate more with him before his bday if you feel like it’s too personal c…
/r/seduction07/05/22 12:16 PM
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HEFE - Hobbies, Entertainment, Food, Environment
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:19 AM
1

Cooking, Baking, Guitar, Piano, Gardening, Working out, Painting, Reading
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:55 PM
2

I’m definitely going to give that a try
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:22 AM
2

Day game, night game, cold approach almost anywhere. Concerts, Hobbies, Parties.
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:18 AM
3

You cold approached and THEY asked for your number lol, try to understand the difference between eagerly social and desperate. To me it sounds like it went really well, especially for your first cold approach
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:34 PM
3

You’re already done with the hard part which is getting her to want to go on a date with you, now it’s time to enjoy yourself, have some fun, show her the good, funny, confident you, and don’t try to be rich and show off if ur not, just be urself and enjoy the date, calibrate and escalate And so what if you fuck up, you already got a good looking rich date, you can get another one
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:44 PM
5

If you wanna go with your actual profession: “I’m an electrician, also pretty handy, so I can fix all the stuff you’re not allowed to and more” Otherwise just make something up, most of them (except gold diggers) don’t really care what your job is, they just want to talk with you, show them that you got humor
/r/seduction21/04/22 02:57 PM
1

The more stereotypical you are or niche something is, the less amount of people will enjoy talking to you about it. BUT on the bright side, your bond will be unbreakable when you finally meet that girl who absolutely loves Sci-Fi and Horizon Forbidden West. If you want to go on a lot of dates and get a lot of girls, you need to have more general interests and passions. Either way, being the best version of yourself will always help, no matter what your passion is.
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:43 PM
2

We’ve kissed already, but I’ll escalate further next time. Wasn’t expecting her to pull the “boyfriend is coming”-move last time.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:11 PM
1

I mean, I know she wants me, but how should I approach it. Like should I just be blunt with her, say that I’m not interested in anything serious with her, but I’m down to be more than friends. Like, I don’t think I could be in a serious relationship if I know that she could do similar things to me in the future.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:07 PM
1

Ye, that’s my thoughts as well, so I’m considering fwb, nothing too serious at least
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:03 PM
1

I’m 28 currently, and it seems easier now than ever to get dates. I don’t know if it’s because of COVID-rules being lifted, or just the fact that women like older men. Might be both. As other people have stated here, just have your shit together, as grown man it’s more visible if you have or haven’t got your shit together.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:15 PM
24

“I carefully removed stuff that I found girls are turned off by” Care to elaborate on that? I think a lot of the men in this sub would like to know what sort of stuff you found.
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:45 PM
2

I think a lot of the “rookies” here are trying to learn the advanced techniques before mastering the basics. Which does them more harm than anything. The success stories I’ve seen so far are mostly those that finally mastered the basics either after failing a couple of times or just doing their first real approach.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:52 PM
1

Firstly, if it seems like a nice conversation/vibe, end it when you run out of things to say or if you got to go somewhere, and end it by asking for her number/snap. There’s no such thing as bailing too early unless you didn’t even ask for her number…. some interactions are meant to be short because you’re in the middle of doing something or on your way to something. If you feel like a creep that overstayed, then you didn’t notice the social cues, like her looking at her friends instead of you w…
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:09 AM
15

I don’t know about you, but I’ve never approached a girl who’s in the middle of shooting a porn video
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:09 AM
2

Could go either way, she might be highly focused/driven with what she is doing, but she could also be highly manipulative. I would suggest not getting too attached before the date.
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:04 AM
2

Could mean a lot, I’d just give it a shot some days after, if they still don’t want a date and don’t have a good explanation, then I’d move on
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:55 AM
2

Looks good here, there’s (meant to be) 3 elements that have a star
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:41 AM
5

It’s a joke…, also the filter checks for compatibility, so it’s not “anything that’s legal”
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:36 AM
1

It works if your goal is to get as much as you can, but in my opinion and experience; It gets really soulless and draining. I’m a firm believer that it’s way better to actually have a good connection and have quality over quantity, but sure go fuck hundreds of women you couldn’t care a shit about and had no connection with.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:08 AM
3

For real tho, if there’s no connection, why bother, you don’t have a connection with everyone, and you shouldn’t either. The narrower your “filter” is, the better connections you have when you finally get a connection.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:40 AM
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std::set<std::string> mySet{ "Attractive", "Unattractive", "Compatible", "Not compatible", "*Underage"}; auto filtered = FilterEraseIfGen(mySet, [](auto& elem) { return !elem.starts_with('*'); });
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:37 AM
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You’re overthinking… you should be yourself, and you shouldn’t play mind games, of course you can compliment whoever you want on their looks, but if they hear that compliment 50 times every day, then they won’t care about it. You should be yourself, but the best version, and distinguishes yourself from everyone else by being you, and being unique. Be more creative with your compliments. “Wow, I really like they way you did your hair today” <- compliments her looks, but combined with something sh…
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:04 AM
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Ye, but she knows it. And she hears it from tons of other guys. It is a sincere compliment, but it’s not unique, but once ur dating or in a relationship she’s going to actually care about you saying that she’s gorgeous.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:51 AM
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There’s no way that works for all kind of women. You want to look interested, but NOT needy or desperate. Preferably show that you have options. Regarding giving compliments or not, it depends on the situation and the woman, but I suggest complimenting on other things than looks unless you’ve already dated for a while. Compliment other things you notice about her. They love compliments, but only sincere ones, and they get compliments on their looks from tons of desperate guys all the time.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:17 AM
5

Ask yourself what you got to offer, what do they gain from including you in their group or inviting you to their parties? They’re not just going to include you because you want to.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:48 AM
1

I would invite her to a hike/walk along a pretty cool river nearby, up to a place called The Heavenly Falls, and find a place to sit and talk for a bit. It’s like a 15min walk from midtown. Maybe bring some snacks or buy something to eat on the way. If everything goes smooth, I would try to schedule a second date sometime while we’re sitting and talking.
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:37 AM
2

“Hey, how are you?” “Hey, Nice tattoo” “Wow, you’re pretty good at that” “Hey, how do you know the host?” “Hey, wanna join a round of xyz?” “Hey, I don’t think we’ve met before, I am ___”
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:42 AM
1

??
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:31 AM
4

Good reactions would be mirroring, smiling, eye contact, getting physically closer, locking/holding your contact like putting their hand on-top or yours Bad reactions although mostly self-explanatory would be removing the contact, moving away, self-comforting behaviour like touching the back of her neck, holding her own arm, picking her nails, looking for escape-routes or reasons to get out, like looking around for friends or going on her phone Side note; wtf did you do to make a girl scream fro…
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:18 PM
2

I almost always use pictures, makes it more personal than just text on a screen. But that’s me. Doesn’t have to be selfies all the time. Snaps of me making some nice food, hiking, climbing, just generally me doing stuff. If she replies with text only, then I do the same, if she replies with some pic of her smiling/laughing because of my snap, then i instantly feel a more personal connection than just some text.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:47 AM
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Just to add onto that. I did actually get quite interested in a few of them based on their personality and how easy it was to talk to them, only two that ever turned into FWBs though. And they knew that it would never become more serious than that.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:41 AM
90

I don’t date women I’m not attracted to, but I have to admit that I do seduce/practice with women that aren’t my type. Sort of like blue-balling, but for women. It’s fun and lighthearted, and they can always get some other guy within 5 minutes. I don’t do it with seriously unattractive women, because I don’t want to be mean, I just do it with women that aren’t my type. However, I’m pretty honest with them. If I notice that things get too serious, or nearing dating territory, I say that I’m not i…
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:37 AM
1

If she is a pretty well known singer, then she most likely isn’t managing her own IG. They have people that do that for them.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:27 AM
1

It means she took her shirt off…. Context man It’s like a girl randomly putting her hair up, it needs more context, it’s not like a guaranteed blowjob
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:04 PM
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6?? If you’re not even kissing yet, make that top priority on date 7, you need to start making some moves Pretty sure she feels comfortable with you by now, so 7th date could be a dinner date at one of your places. If you have made out on previous dates, try to escalate further, she might have rules like “no sex before marriage”. Talk to her. Conversation is key. Tell her your concerns, hear hers, maybe she’s thinking “Why the fuck has this guy not ripped my clothes of already, am I that ugly??”
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:22 AM
1

I would just text/call her and ask where she’s taking me to make up for it. Just be somewhat playful and challenging about it, very far from angry or spiteful at least. She could honestly just have overslept her alarm after a night shift. I would give her benefit of the doubt one time, since you already had a first date.
/r/seduction17/01/22 11:37 PM
19

I wouldn’t do it, but It’s legal, so as long as neither of you feel weird about it, and you don’t have mutual friends that could spread rumours about you being a pedo, it’s up to you. Get some post-nut clarity and check
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:11 AM
1

Didn’t read your rant, but I read the title. You become a confident, strong, and successful man for yourself, you don’t do it for women. So change your mindset as soon as you can. If you build your whole life for someone else, women in this case, you won’t have a good life.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:11 AM
1

Invite them to something you’re doing there. “Hey, do you girls wanna join me and my buddy for a round of pool?”. Then start getting their names, what they’re doing in town, the normal stuff, and see who’s interested. You could even give them a challenge/task. “Hey, so me and my friend were discussing which one of us had .. something something”, and just see who you vibe with Never done a multi-set solo, so can’t help you out there.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:38 AM
21

You only asked for her number, nothing sexual, and you excused yourself afterwards, you’re good. Some people look older than they are, so don’t worry about it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:49 AM
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r/tifu
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:46 AM
1

Good looking women, or just people in general, will have a lot of options. If you don’t make a move, you won’t ever be an option. Her job is to give you signs, your job is to act on them. “Hey, I was just heading to class when I saw you, and I just had to come say hi and introduce myself” You WILL get denied a lot of times, don’t worry about it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:19 AM
104

Some don’t like it, some absolutely love it. The ones that love it usually just go for it when they have the chance.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:13 AM
11

Just sit next to him, place your hand on his thigh, just leave it there for a bit, see how he reacts, then move it up to his groin and touch his dick over his pants. And just kiss him while you’re doing this if you want a relationship, don’t kiss him if you just want a fwb. Then unzip and I’m pretty sure you can figure out the rest. IF he moves your hand away, or pulls away, then just talk to him about what ur feeling and you’ll figure out if he’s interested or if he just wants to be friends. Pr…
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:10 AM
2

If you’re not trolling; Go where there’s less competition. Anything niche really. If you’re a god at playing Magic The Gathering, or Climbing, or whatever, then go to any events that has that. And just build your social circle and social skills while doing something you like. And I’m not a doctor, so go see if any of them has tips regarding improving your social life with the disorder you have.
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:38 PM
21

Not me, but a guy who was a year older than me said this to a girl in the hallway at school. (Translated) “Do you want to go to my place and play vacuum-cleaner? You suck and I howl” She smiled and laughed, but he followed rule 1 and 2 by heart
/r/seduction14/01/22 10:05 AM
15

Homerun text, but ur timing might have been horribly wrong, unless you were drunk around mid-day.
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:14 PM
2

“Poke me again, I dare you”
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:56 PM
2

Work on yourself and start thinking better about yourself. Women aren’t some mythical creatures, some of the prettiest ones have even developed self-esteem issues because a lot of guys are too scared to approach, and a lot of the men that approach the best girls are fuck boys that treat them like shit. Of course, you’re not going to have a 100% success rate, but you miss all the shots you don’t take
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:27 AM
1

If ur not sure you’ve read her signals correctly, just state that you want to kiss her or ask. If they like you, they won’t care if you ask, if they care they’re just toxic anyways. Do what you’re comfortable with.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:23 AM
1

It depends on what kind of interaction you want. You could start basic and just send a gif, a dilemma, or a statement. “All pizzas have pineapple on top, or always having to end parties with tequila shots” Or go deeper and talk to your match about something in their profile, and relate to it, even better if you can add some humor. “That Snowboard picture looks great! <relate to it somehow>” It’s like a million ways to start, just don’t send anything long, and don’t compliment on their looks befo…
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:19 AM
1

You’re putting them on pedestals before even approaching them… But your issue might go deeper, people are attracted to what they believe that they deserve, you might believe that you don’t deserve them If none of these are correct, then just be a man and approach
/r/seduction11/01/22 12:55 AM
1

My best tip would be to have fun, instead of looking for fun. Bring a lot of confidence and be in a good mood, and just have fun.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:09 PM
1

Ye, some of them have boyfriends, some are married to friends of mine, some are colleagues, just a mix of females that I find cool and that I don’t necessarily want to fuck.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:42 PM
0

I make good impressions on whoever I meet, and then either I invite them or I get invited to stuff and meet new people there. You would be surprised by how many girls you meet just by having a few good female friends that invite you to stuff.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:17 PM
2

Stop trying to analyse and stop trying to see the logic behind it, because there might not be any logic, women are highly emotionally driven. Find something you wanna head out and do, and invite her to it. But if you’re fine being just a friend, then just keep what your doing.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:10 PM
50

If you can’t easily drive there and back in the same day, it’s too long for anything casual. An hour is completely fine, you’re pushing it at 3 hours imho. Edit: Just for sex, I’d half the time to pushing it at 1,5 hours, if you’re dating, then I’m sticking to what I originally said.
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:59 AM
7

I honestly just reply when I can. Sometimes it’s instantly, other times it might be hours because I’m doing something. Never days tho, everyone checks their phone at least once a day.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:11 PM
1

I’m NOT saying that this is fine, but I’m pretty sure it’s not illegal as long as you didn’t send or receive any sexually explicit pictures AND you believed her to be of legal age. I would however contact an attorney and pay up for an hour worth of legal time to be on the safe side.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:16 PM
1

For next time: Just say like “Too soon?” or anything, and don’t be mad, keep having a good time and act like it’s nothing
/r/seduction06/01/22 02:47 PM
3

Read their body language. Are they smiling? Laughing? Keeping eye contact? Touching back? Leaning towards you? Good, keep going Did they look away but brushed their hair? Did they flinch but kept on smiling? Still good, most likely either shy, unexpected, or just stating that they’re just friends, try again later Did they stop smiling? Did they move away? Do they have a closed body language? Doing self-comforting stuff like rubbing their arm or looking towards their friends? Then they most likel…
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:28 AM
13

Just notice how close friends or flirty people often/sometimes say offending stuff in a friendly or flirty way. If you are unsure or scared, just start with something obvious and jokingly escalate it. Like e.g. this girl I flirted with the other day pushed me while we were sitting next to each other, and I said “you’re so violent”. Obviously she isn’t, but she took it as a challenge, and bet she could beat me, easy way to get a lot of physical contact. HUGE reminder tho! Smile or laugh while you…
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:35 PM
51

Have your own opinions, and stick to them, don’t always agree with women, but don’t over-compensate and be a douchebag about it either. Challenge them in whatever way feels natural. Call them out on stuff they do, like saying “wtf was that” when they miss a beer pong shot, just something that feels natural to you without always being that guy that says “nice try”. But again, don’t over-compensate and become a dick, feel the room. Be more touchy, but don’t be the creep that can’t calibrate for sh…
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:16 PM
1

Study shows that the average time to completely get over a woman is about half the time you were in a serious relationship with her. Regarding just a crush, you’ll forget about her the moment you kiss another girl lol
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:29 PM
176

I see a few possibilities here. She has had a bad previous experience where she really liked a guy like you, but he left as soon as they had sex. Makes sense, since you say that you are financially set and can get a lot of girls, so she wants to see if you can stick around for not just sex and her looks. She wants to be able to control you with sex, because she is insecure about her self. Not her looks, but if she is good enough for you. Somewhat like 2, she is used to being able to get who she …
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:14 AM
2

Bring a jacket ;) I mean, the front seat in cars are not the best place to make out. But doable, just park somewhere, loosen ur seatbelt, get eye contact, touch her thigh and lean over. You know that move when you’re in reverse and you grab the backside of the passenger seat and look through the rear window, lean over sort of like that, but more lol
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:10 AM
3

This will blow your mind; You can actually park at a nice spot you like, get out of the car, enjoy the view and kiss
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:21 AM
0

Not sure how you can even think that you messed up, you both had a great night. There’s a million reasons for her not to fuck on the first date, she could on her period, she could want a more serious relationship, she has had bad experiences previously, you name it. She had a great time, she set her own boundaries, and you had a great time, and accepted her boundaries. Now stop overanalysing, and continue being you.
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:32 PM
5

There’s no “solution/game” for all women, but generalised and simplified, women want to feel like they earned the man, if you give too much too soon, they feel like they didn’t earn it, and therefore they should aim higher or for someone else, because you apparently have low-value. Try to find the balance. I don’t personally advice it, but if you want to look more into the game side of this, then look into push/pull techniques. Stuff like; “I don’t usually find red hairs attractive, but there’s …
/r/seduction01/01/22 06:00 PM
5

Sounds like you need to work on showing intent, and not just being friendly. ALSO the chance of a woman asking for your number or asking you out is insanely low, I’ve only had that happen twice in my life. As a man it’s up to you to lead, I can assure you that a lot of the women you talked to wanted you to ask them out, it’s not in their nature to ask you out or ask for your number. And no worries about sounding rude dude, I understand that you’re frustrated.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:41 PM
2

“Having fun, living your life, hobbies, etc.” - These are all great conversation topics. Talk about your life and your passions with the girls you talk to. That’s half the “chase” After you establish a good connection, you escalate and close.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:27 PM
14

Models by Mark Manson teaches you how to become a good man, it’s not about all that game stuff. And just have your life the way you want it, have interesting hobbies, just basically be happy with who you are, don’t look for happiness in other people. Women contribute to your already great lifestyle, they don’t build it. And just talk to women in general, you get better at it the more you do it. If the conversation is going well, be more touchy and flirty, if that goes well, escalate further, but…
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:14 PM
1

Just have fun, and she will have fun, it’s not a performance test for either of you lol, if you want to be more prepared just bring some lube, a towel, a condom, and clean your dick properly before and after, before for her sake, and after for your sake
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:59 PM
2

Next thing you know, OP is posting about asking to pee in women’s butts, if you know you know
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:31 PM
1

You have to create some sort of connection and get her to feel stuff. You don’t have to be intense, but you have to show intent. Also, you’ve probably heard this a million times, but read Models by Mark Manson. It focuses on you and your own mindset, not on games like “saying this and doing that”
/r/seduction24/12/21 11:12 PM
4

Seal the deal earlier. When her interest is high, and ur frequently texting, be bold and try to get what you want. Women will lose interest if nothing happens after a while. Also, if they really like you, they will make it easy for you. And don’t try to understand/analyse why they chat a certain way or the lack off chat for some time.
/r/seduction24/12/21 10:48 PM
1

If you absolutely need to watch a movie, do it towards the end of the date. You already have established intimacy and a connection with your date through other activities, and now you can chill with a movie, which most likely will end up in both of you not paying attention to it.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:32 PM
4

Tell her like it is, she’s a fuck buddy, and you’re not looking for more, but you think what you had/have was amazing, but if she’s looking for something more romantic or serious then she shouldn’t be with you.
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:49 AM
1

“Hey girls, do you know if there’s a good X nearby?” “Hey white-jeans, I see that you’re with your friends, but I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi” -> then involve her friends so that they accept you, just shake their hands, introduce yourself, be confident and non-threatening
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:43 PM
4

Don’t chase. If a girl wants you, she will make it easy. Chasing only makes you look low-value.
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:21 PM
1

Text whatever feels natural, and try to keep it short and fun or teasing. Texting is mostly (at least for me) to have fun and figuring out when you can see her again. Or just send her a snap of whatever cool thing you’re doing, if she has time, she will reply and the convo will probably flow naturally. Just avoid over-texting, be yourself, give her a call even if you really don’t like texting, and don’t make everything sexual, if she says she just showered, just leave it at that bro, there’s a h…
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:45 PM
3

Check if there’s an event YOU want to go to nearby, and invite her to it. If she says no, you still have a cool thing to do that day. If she says no, but follows up with a good reason like work or something, don’t push it, just be cool about it. If she follows up with saying she’s free on another day, then ask her out for that day. Go for a coffee, a walk, or something small, where you can get to know her.
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:48 PM
8

Good for you man, but that’s not going to work for a shy man who obviously wants to date her and not just “glaze her face with his cum”
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:42 PM
1

As a man, I can assure you that a lot of women will sleep with people that treat them like shit. But I personally enjoy being nice, and actually listening and caring for my fwb’s, I really like the feeling of having a strong bond with people, but there are a lot of women out there just looking for douchebags and just want to fuck without any feelings.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:18 PM
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I somewhat agree with you, but I gave two random examples. You would use something suited for your goal. If the goal is a relationship or similar, then be understanding and reasonable, but with your own boundaries. If it’s just a hook up, ons, fb or similar then I wouldn’t really care if I was patronising or not, talking about an ex in that setting is such a turn off. I’m there for the sex, not being the friend you can rant about ur ex to. Obviously calibrate what you say to the person and situa…
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:03 PM
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“I understand that your ex meant something for you, but I’d rather talk about X instead” “You’re cute, but I don’t want to talk about your ex” Mentioning an ex is fine, ranting is a red flag, continuing ranting after telling her is a deal breaker
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:46 AM
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It’s just a YouTube video lol, if it doesn’t have a really really strong emotional value to the both of you, then I wouldn’t even lift a finger, not sure I would even reply either way. If you just want to fuck, sure, then reply and make sure you don’t catch any feelings, not all men can/should do this and I’m not so sure about you since you say you still want her. I would suggest just deleting/ignoring the message and keep enjoying your life without her.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:02 PM
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Firstly, you don’t want to be/seem desperate, just go out there and have fun and have your life together, women want to have fun as well so they will hang out with other fun people. Stop taking everything so seriously, if a woman teases you or does a shit-test, just make something fun out of it. Practice! Socialise more, touch women more frequently (not lingering too long unless she touches back). 70% is being interested, listen to her and actually be interested in what she’s saying or doing, th…
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:04 AM
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Well done man, first step is always huge. Talk to her like you would normally talk to other women you know, and if you guys are having fun the next time, ask for her number. My tip to be more prepared would be just talking to someone you normally talk to before you talk to her, be chill, confident, and work a fun tease or two in there. Pro Tip: Don’t ask if she wants to hang out after, she will feel all sweaty and unprepared and so on, not the right mood
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:06 PM
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Nah, go fap, get some post-nut clarity, and then go eat some good food, and buy some nice clothes.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:06 AM
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That makes it harder. But just be confident in yourself, don’t be needy, and keep the chatting fun and teasing/challenging. Women notice if u doubt yourself, and they are way more emotionally driven than men.
/r/seduction08/10/21 07:34 AM
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Stop over-texting, get a date. Just don’t initiate any chatting for a little while, go do some cool stuff and post it on ur story if you feel like it. If she initiates contact, then ask her out, if not then wait a bit and try to get her emotions to spike again and ask her out. Also, women are weird like that, they could be really interested for a while and then take a u-turn without even them knowing why.
/r/seduction08/10/21 07:23 AM
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Reply when you have time. If she initiated the conversation now, she wants to know you better before the date. Better to text now and actually have a date, than to ignore her and then get stood up and ghosted.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:39 AM
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Focus on having fun, instead of reaching a goal you’ve set, like making her cum or lasting 3 rounds. If she says “don’t stop”, for the love of everything, keep going exactly as you were, don’t change ur pace or anything, and ye, they usually say this right when ur about to cramp up from some weird position Have a towel and some water available, you never know if you’re going to need/want it This might not be very related for your case, but make sure ur chargeable toys are charged Whenever you ch…
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:28 AM
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