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| 5 | [Q4m] men in your 30’s how has dating changed for you?Did you pull this right from my brain? In the exact same boat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/18 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Would anybody be interested in RPChristians Handbook?Definitely | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl that's always lateSolid. How do you typically coordinate distributing the tickets? Especially in larger groups. I.e. you get tickets for a Broadway show for 6 people and need to pick them up at a will call booth? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Three Lessons from an Investment Banking Career for your Professional and Personal LivesMBA. No finance background | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Three Lessons from an Investment Banking Career for your Professional and Personal LivesSolid post. Any advice for first year IB associates? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you short guys (~5' 6") gain the confidence to talk to girls when there's so many taller and more qualified guys? I feel SO discouragedHey no worries! It was just such a different perspective than most people have and what we expect to see here. Feel free to read whatever you want! The best ideas can stand the scrutiny of light. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Do I tell him the truth, lie, or ignore?Absolutely agree | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 10:45 PM |
| 7 | How do you short guys (~5' 6") gain the confidence to talk to girls when there's so many taller and more qualified guys? I feel SO discouragedWhy are you on a pickup subreddit if you're a married woman? Honest question (not trying to be mean) | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 10:43 PM |
| 4 | My friend's soon to be wife invites me out to drink with herShe's just fishing for info about her fiancé. Nothing too suspicious | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Girls do not give a fuck about their orbitersTitle is true, but this guy is a stalker not an orbiter. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I am a wealthy man who got divorced. I managed to avoid divorce rape. This is my story.Awesome. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 08/06/17 01:05 PM |
| 3 | I am a wealthy man who got divorced. I managed to avoid divorce rape. This is my story.Can you talk about your experience with the spendthrift trust a little. I haven't heard of it. The wiki makes it sound like alimony and child support can pierce the veil. [(https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spendthrift_trust)] | /r/askTRP | 08/06/17 12:47 PM |
| 2 | How does life change after college?Your parents bought houses in undesirable places. 30 years later they became desirable. You can't afford where you're from. Buy from somewhere nearby that's cheap and has good prospects. Also, F that noise. I wish I could have lived with my parents for 5 years, heck even ten more. If I spend 2k on rent, that's $240,000 I could have saved and used to invest. That's why 30s are your Peak | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 08:54 PM |
| 3 | How does life change after college?23 is a fantastic age. My advice is focus on rules 1 and 2, approach/ask out 3 girls every day, accumulate wealth (and develop passive income). Whatever tech job you got is great. Try to leverage that and join a consulting firm (MBB, google it) as those help propel your career faster (resulting in more money). | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 03:58 PM |
| 26 | How does life change after college?1)What life is like - social circles are now created and sustained by you. Regardless of you're hanging out with people from HS and Uni, you should be actively making new friends and expanding your social circle. You can no longer rely on school to "give" you friends by placing you in proximity. Edit - just realized you're 18ish. I'm assuming you're going to college. 1) join a frat, 2) use house parties as your night game 3) continue using school to form social circles but go out and make your o… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 02:51 PM |
| 10 | It's Time to Admit the Truth about Dating AppsEverything about dating is magnified. Including the awesome parts. Use it as a supplement to your overall dating strategy, practice sticking points, and improve. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 02:36 PM |
| 9 | Corollary to the Abundance Mentality: Stop trying to be friends with everyoneAs someone climbing up the pyramid, this is how I view Mach as well. Side note: my FU money is $25 mil. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Instagram = Hypergagram - No Country For Red MenInstagram is heavily dependent on user preferences. It shows degenerates because you re clicking on degenerates and it thinks you really really like them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/17 12:27 PM |
| 2 | I notice a guy that seems alhpa and I aspire to be like him. Do I try to copy him or just try to be the REAL NATURAL me that will eventually be alpha in its own way?He's the best version of himself. PEOPLE see through a fake eventually. You can be fake and have short relationships, or real and longer ones. Imitate him if you want to practice. Understand yourself if you want to win long term. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend on Tinder, brings up idea of a MMF threesome, and I'm meant to be moving in with her soon.She's your first date ever? You lack abundance. End it. You'll have more. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceAnyone know of free salsa lessons in manhattan? | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 06:28 PM |
| 15 | 70% of Tinder Losers (users) have never met ANYONE in real life.They direct lonely men to cam sites. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 09:17 PM |
| 3 | What do you do if you dont like hookup culture/clubs/bars?One thing I really like taking advantage of is forced interaction. Someone replied that their second girlfriend was a group partner. Great But wait, you say, that's just dumb luck! It is... until it isn't. When you see that pretty girl intentionally sit next to her. Now you're ready for those dumb jokes mid class. Group project? Invite her and a couple other people immediately and be the leader of the group. Pre lunch class? Talk with her, oh it's lunch time? What are you doing for lunch, want t… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 06:12 AM |
| 3 | I was a "lesser alpha" 5-10 years ago. How do I get back on my horse?Monk mode. Tell yourself you're sacrificing one year of life. No social life. No sex life. Buy a calendar and mark the date one year from now. Work hard. Earn as much cash as possible. Save every single cent. Cut out all superfluous costs. Be extreme. Workout. Use SS or SL 5x5. Clean your diet and get shredded. Get a used guitar and learn to play. Abandon all social media. Facebook. Instagram. Reddit. Snapchat. Twitter. Never look at these for one year. No more TV. No more movies. No more fictio… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 03:29 PM |
| -1 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?I don't know about autistic guys. I can't provide anything fron that point of view. | /r/seduction | 20/03/17 06:01 AM |
| 10 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?Preach | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 11:51 PM |
| 19 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?Agreed. Climbing is an incredible place to find fit women too. You can't do too much climbing carrying around a lot of extra weight. | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 11:25 PM |
| 6 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?I get where you're coming from. It is true. The ratios are worse. However. I have met incredibly attractive women at sports clubs. I get to demonstrate my advanced skills (often outpacing hers) and we have things to talk about. We can plan events, and after parties based on already established club meetings. Logistics get easier. There's often high turnover in hobbies. People start and stop a couple months later. If you stay in a few cycles you'll become the resident expert. Think about that. Th… | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 11:24 PM |
| 212 | Older guys, how did you actually find opportunities to meet women as you got older? How do older guys create a target rich environment for themselves?Activities. Join a rock climbing gym, hot yoga, running club, scuba, sailing, yachting Some hipster areas have board game clubs with cute women. Bars are good. I still like clubs if you have money for tables and a couple male friends. Travel Learn a new Language clubs, cooking classes, dessert baking classes, public speaking clubs, small business owners groups Give back to the community. Volunteer. Pick one that's rewarding to you. Also, there are certain volunteer activities that are more popul… | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 09:21 PM |
| 0 | How can i be a doctor and a man that women truly want?I get what you're saying, but (I'm trying to be nice) it's just an excuse. Discipline is motivation that doesn't stop. Good luck fellas. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 12:04 AM |
| 3 | How can i be a doctor and a man that women truly want?I know several doctors that have done it well. Two surgeons in high profile regions, and several specialists. There are people who did life right, studied tremendously hard, yet had fun and managed to have social lives. Maybe these are outliers, but they are real data points nonetheless. Their common trait was they are all very disciplined and regimented in setting aside time for work, study, and gym. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | The SMV and age paradox?Aren't you just putting yourself in the beta zone? Not necessarily so. Yes you are an ideal candidate for that. But it is your choice. Therefore your SMV value goes up because more people want you. With that increased demand, and the contentedness of a secured lifestyle an older man generally becomes more confident. They don't have to pretend and prove themselves to anyone. They're free to bee themselves. This confidence is the true aphrodisiac. The SMV peaks because the man has achieved and sec… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 03:08 AM |
| 3 | Science Confirms - Always Leave Her Wanting MoreI agree. Solid set of recent posts. Keep it up! | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!Any STEM can be profitable, not just TE. If you're a math whiz, financial institutions will snatch you up. Science if you can jump on bio pharm/tech/etc. Its not just getting the degree, its hustling and networking while earning that degree so you have the right job when you graduate. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | my mom said i was creepy for asking a girl out. She has destroyed my confidence.Unfortunately, your mother does not provide good dating advice. 1A. Read the sidebar, and listen to the guys here Maybe the approach was creepy. But we all have to start somewhere. If you have focused practice where you approach a girl, then take a few minutes to think about what went well and didnt, you will improve. Make sure you then try again and again. It sounds like you're young. I didnt get into PUA and TRP until I was late 20s. Follow the advice and you'll see miracles in a few years. Tr… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Regularly foreplay with a chick who has a boyfriend, but won't commit to sex. Says "it would be cheating"Bring other women around that you're plating, it'll spike your SMV with her especially when you're not doing the fun "naughty" stuff with her when the other girls are around. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm getting rhinoplasty...I second this advice. Own it. It'll bring your thoughts and actions into congruency which will make you a happier person. If you hide it or lie about it your actions indicate shameful behavior. You'll always feel terrible because of it. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | It is happening: Virtual Assistant/Girlfriend Sold to men living aloneseriously. when I hear people can't cook, I wonder how they're not able to follow simple directions from proven recipes. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.It's frustrating to have this talk because you're so deep in oneitis and depression. First. You need to take care of both of these. Read the sidebar for oneitis. See a therapist for depression. Come back when you're in a better place. Secondly, this is a place where we help teach each other HOW to fish. We do not give you the fish. This place is not designed to help you get that one special rainbow fish named Jennifer who's been cheating on her boyfriend with you. If you came here for that you w… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.Unfortunately that's something that needs to happen more naturally. To get the ball rolling you need to discover what it is in life that you want. Money. Fame. Fitness. Prestige. Power. Network. Skills. Hobbies. Religion/spirituality. Think of each arena and be true with yourself. Imagine you're on your deathbed as a 115 year old man. You're looking back over your life. What have you done in each arena that gives an old man (you) happiness. Did you sleep with 10,000 women? Or did you have relati… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.It's shit because you aren't making use of it. The hardest part about depression is that you're in a pit of despair. No one can pull you out. You have to want to come out. People can help you find that motivation but they cannot free you from it. You're depressed. Go see a therapist. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.It sounds like you need a mentor. Find someone older than you that you respect who lives the life you want to live. Talk with them. A lot. Ask them a million questions. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.Think of game as a skill like soccer. You didn't get to be the peak of your career by "winging it". Rather it involved thousands of hours of blood and sweat that no one sees or hears about. They just see "captain of the soccer team" TRP is more of a healthy sexual strategy than just PUA. PUA will teach you the tactics. TRP will teach you high level strategy. You need to understand the dynamics of this "sport" and get some repetitions in. You didn't just read about soccer one time and dribble tha… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.That must be daunting. Thinking you've peaked. You're going to be okay. I was a nerd throughout graduate school. But I learned game a couple years ago and I've had success with some of the best. Imagine one of your really nerdy classmates with a stutter hooking up with her. Blows your mind, right? That's me. If I can do it, surely you can. You'll be okay. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Banging HB9 with boyfriend, wanted to break up with him & date me, now no more it seems.It's not that you need to purposely ignore her. Rather, your life should be so fulfilling and busy that you honestly can't talk with her. When we say "ignore her", that's a PUA tactic. It's a very surface level idea meant to IMITATE and SIMULATE Valuable men behavior. The healthy response is to have a life so vibrant she begs to enter your sphere and be by your side. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/16 06:59 AM |
| 1 | The League VIP ticket?Just moved to NYC and a couple friends mentioned they liked it | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Hairstyles and clothes have little impact on attractiveness as long as you meet the minimum requirements, which 90%+ of people do.This is the formula for basic human attractiveness. But it should also add muscles and body fat where the fatter someone gets the worse they are no matter the other factors. Human Attractiveness = height * facial symmetry * proper body ratios * HairstyleAndClothes*(ideal muscle/fat ratio) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/16 02:18 PM |
| 5 | What if your girlfriend is richer than you ?Seconded | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 01:51 AM |
| 1 | I will be traveling to my parents' homeland for vacation, does being born in America grant a temporary bonus to my SMV while over there?It's very country specific. Some places it works. Others it wont | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | RSD, what to take and not take from itI've personally seen fat, ugly, and gross dudes pickup women at clubs, on the streets. There was this old routine to not take a shower for a couple days, get as gross as you possibly can. Then go out and hit on chicks. Yea you'll be rejected a lot. But you'll also see success. This exercise helped break me out of the habit of always being put together when going out. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who used to be basement dwellers and are now out all the time, what do you do to have fun?Start hanging out with dudes. Get that camaraderie. Go out and do cool things. Then game on chicks around you | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Am I in the wrong for letting ex give me head?Gatekeeper to sex Gatekeeper to relationship She's the one to decide the former You're the one to decide if it goes further. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/16 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Its not even about how buff you are...Attractive face let's them look at you. Attractive body keeps their interest and let's their fantasy wild. Confidence fuels the desire Success keeps them around Personality keeps them happy | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 12:07 AM |
| 8 | An Alpha Gentleman's guide to bar etiquetteOk, as an Asian we never do the cheek kiss. But as a transplant to Miami, I learned really quick how to do it. Doing it so often it becomes second nature. There's this lean-in with your arms arc'd as if ready to pull them into a hug. But now, you also go cheek to cheek and make the kiss sound (your lips never touch anything). Its not as awkward as it seems from the outside. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 11:08 PM |
| 4 | The Journey is the Shortcut: Why success with women comes naturally when a man is already $uccessfulThe quote explains exactly the opposite. That power and money are not the same. Saying Money leads to power is repeatedly refuted | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Men if you got a woman pregnant before marriage, what would you do?Broken link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Why beginners and guys new to game should stay away from bars, clubs, and night game venues in general.I agree with every single rebuttal. More so Night game is important because you can't talk as easily. Most incels are bad at game cause their body language sucks. Night game is a great place to improve body language. Tl;dr improving yourself can be hard. Doesn't mean it's not worth doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls on tinder do this?I hear what you're saying... How about if I reframe it... Everyone you ever meet is at a different point in their life. Sometimes on a lonely monday night, some girl is looking for a booty call and wants to use the "hookup app" to get some. She will be receptive to game. Conversely that same girl may not be looking for anything for the next month. That same girl will be HARD to game. So, now, as a man trying to online game, where is your best ROI? is it in the girl who is going to take a month t… | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls on tinder do this?When the attraction is high, you can literally say anything... even for HB9s. Stick to your ideas/routine. Move fast. The ones that are slow are not worth the effort. Not all girls will be receptive. It's a numbers game. (Pun intended) You can always use the "Brad Pitt Test". Basically ask yourself, how would a girl react to Brad Pitt/desirable famous actor? Would he spend inordinate amount of time trying to get her number? The truth is the guy would ask and the girl would immediately give it. H… | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 12:08 PM |
| 4 | The Myth of Rich Successful Married MenAWALT is a saying used for safety in the same way "handle every gun as if it is loaded" is used as safety in that not every gun will accidentally go off, but you handle it because it's safer to treat it as such. Or another safety saying is in the medical field to "always wear protective barriers (gloves)" as if every patient has blood borne diseases that could kill you." Obviously it's not true, but you need to protect yourself. So "never get married" is a maxim because statistically you try to … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/16 03:15 AM |
| 2 | how many guys aged 30 do you think had a double digit partners count?Not a useful debate with no stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/16 02:29 PM |
| 9 | I'm on a deletion rampage. Got something stupid to post? Don't waste your time.Can you throw this in an edit to your OP? I wouldn't have realized if I missed this comment | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 10:43 PM |
| 12 | I'm on a deletion rampage. Got something stupid to post? Don't waste your time.I did this to my first girlfriend right when things were heating up. She laughed mercilessly at me. "Like, seriously?" I never made that mistake again | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/16 10:41 PM |
| 10 | How to properly handle the "how old are you?" questionAsian dude checking in. Can confirm this is an amazingly fun game. Plus it helps me calibrate quickly if they want a mature older guy or a fun and exciting young guy. | /r/seduction | 03/07/16 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I deal with GF's ex visiting from another country?Do not ever bring up her ex. If he is brought up in convo: Do not suggest hanging out with him; and end his topic immediately. Ask her if she thinks it's cool that her ex lover is sleeping at her house. Ask her if one of your exes stayed at your house how would she feel. He is bad news to your relationship and it is only a matter of days until they cheat, if it hasn't happened already. Also, don't forgot about emotional cheating same bad news. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Tucker Max, The Mating Grounds and his new book "Mate - Become the man women want"Haven't read it. I don't have time for more of his nonsense. I would say read the sidebars books first. Once you've exhausted the most widely acclaimed TRP books then read whatever you want | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 11:55 AM |
| 2 | So you got the number... Time for the first dateMission complete. Do your thing. This is written more for people struggling with lame first dates | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/16 04:35 PM |
| -7 | Nightclub bouncer gets asked what good pick ups look like (from RSD Nation)It's definitely doable. I used to think it was impossible but eventually it clicked for me | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Forum for Christian Red Pill Advice?Thanks! Checked it out and it has a ton of useful info! | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Forum for Christian Red Pill Advice?I see what you're saying about forced... not what I'm trying to say. Rather, there are christian guys out there who are trying to reconcile many of the ideas of TRP with their religion... there are clear conflicts that christians need to discuss IRT modern relationships through a RP lens. just trying to find resources out there. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Forum for Christian Red Pill Advice?There are though... its sexual strategy. Not a religion. This is an important topic for Christian men, and understanding how TRP and religion mesh together. I'm not trying to preach or convert anyone, but to discuss with people who come from a similar worldview without having their posts down voted into oblivion while discussion and debate are squashed. edit: changed wording to better convey idea... removed "forced" | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 03:22 AM |
| -1 | Forum for Christian Red Pill Advice?That's the question... how to make sense of TRP and religion. Its an important discussion for those of us who are christian. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Hey I get it. I hit a slump. Every now and then we all need help, even on the simplest of things. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Good perspective thanks | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Solid motivation to get back out there | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Thanks. Just needed quick sanity check | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Great advice | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Tips for How to get over "The One"???Thanks for this kick. Good reminder | /r/askTRP | 19/06/16 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Look at men’s bodies, notice how disgusting most of them are.Is there a routine to improve posture? A subreddit? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/16 12:52 PM |
| 3 | A woman is a perfect reflection of her manI'm a straightforward guy. I tell her my expectations. How else is she supposed to know? Talking is important. But so is holding to your frame. So I'll tell her my expectations and what I will and won't tolerate. If she breaches it I'll remind her. I'll use actions at this point instead of just words i.e. Reduce talking, use upset body language, reduce time and affection, etc. What I won't do is freak out about something I never communicated. Because that is an insecure person. I'll deal with th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/16 07:27 PM |
| 1 | LTR asked "Would you mind if I go to a | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How to Be More Chill & Less Needy with Higher Value Girl1) create value in the relationship: Organize events, find exciting things to do, find interesting people 2) have true abundance. Keep meeting girls. If she blows you off no biggie. You've got others These two things will help your game indirectly with this specific girl | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 10:54 PM |
| 5 | How are you supposed to get enough sleep but still have time to lift, go out, spin plates, meet new ones, etc?OP you need sleep for muscle recovery. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 11:31 AM |
| 2 | How are you supposed to get enough sleep but still have time to lift, go out, spin plates, meet new ones, etc?I've got a similar schedule but I nap. 6 am prep for work 7-11 work 11-1 errands or day game 1-6 work 6-7 workout 8-11 nap 11p-1a game 1-6 sleep This gives me 8 hours, split into a 3 Hr nap and a 5 Hr sleep Allows me to take a three hour nap (naps are great in 45 min increments) SS Workout with 8 hrs recovery Still have a normal life I just transitioned from a 1 on/1 off schedule (50%) to 2 on/1off (67%) workout. So my off day I can play a sport, yoga, swim | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How should I react to potential LTR's secret?I'm with ^ Why jump to conclusions? Just ask. If you legitimately enjoyed her you probably have some experience reading her reactions. Also, read the cheaters guide in TRP. especially when you're gauging her response to your direct question. If she says it is her BF - tell her you're not cool with that. If she immediately says she won't go, then you can keep her. If she hems and haws and reluctantly says she won't go, plate her. Sure you're not in a LTR, but if she doesn't want you now, she neve… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when it weighs too much?Seconded | /r/askTRP | 07/06/16 11:18 PM |
| 25 | Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5?Do you have back problems? Do yoga. It's also a nice side benefit that the scenery is nice | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 12:48 AM |
| 6 | "I'm worried we won't have the type of sex that I deserve when I'm young." How should an older guy respond to this?That's a 16 year gap. People will notice and bring it up. A lot. She is fearing that stigma. Ultimately I don't see this as a terrible red flag, although I know many others do. This is manageable, although she is definitely not someone I would LTR because your frame has to be unshakeable, which it ultimately isn't. Expect her to stray. But, if you want to work it out here's some things I'd propose to you: This is multiple things. 1) shit test - she's trying to tear your frame... handle according… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Tinder conversationsLooks matter a lot for tinder | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 12:22 AM |
| 3 | I've stopped shedding tears about my ex, and as such my former self. Reading all this stuff makes me want to cry again.for your life Don't change for her. Or for any person. Change for yourself. Lift. Do it because it's good for you. It makes you healthier. It makes you stronger. It improves your life. It makes you feel good. It makes you happy. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/16 01:07 AM |
| 11 | GF going to Vegas?Seconded | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 08:57 PM |
| 5 | On dates, how to deal with girl checking phone etc.If you're boring she might be looking at it. That's something you can work and improve. Don't be boring. If you're genuinely moving the convo along and she's genuinely being rude and dumb I use twotactics 1) joke about it. I like outlandish questions that amplify whatever app she's using. Eg. Are you that basic/bored? Are you tweeting our convo? Didn't you already take a picture of our food? (If she's absorbed) I'll text her, hey what up bae? 2) if she's really rude or absorbed I'll stop talking… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 12:08 AM |
| 1 | LTR used racial slur. Hard nexted. What ways can I improve my frame for future relationships to prevent from happening again?I don't like racial slurs or jokes. If a LTR says something I'll be clear and establish the line. Sometimes they just don't know and think it's okay or funny. They grew up without reprucussions and thinking it was ok. Just train them to stop with basic conditioning. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | everyone is always talking about SMV, but what about SOCIAL market value? How do I build that?Seconded. Just decide on things you want to do. Then invite people and have them invite people. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/16 11:23 AM |
| 11 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleYou only need 15 MINUTES in the sun to get your vitamin d levels. You can also get vitamin d supplements through a regular multi vitamin | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | She's a filthy whore, and you both know it.Wish I knew all this tossing around stuff. Which books are good for improving bedroom skills? I didn't realize girls were into these things. Sex God method is the only one I've seen in this thread, I'll get it after work! More where I could learn? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | She's a filthy whore, and you both know it.Cool. Thanks! Yea almost there too. The joint pain is slowly creeping up. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | She's a filthy whore, and you both know it.Fitness question: I just started seriously lifting four months ago (starting strength). What numbers should I be putting up to increase the bedroom fun assuming a girl weighs <=120? My lifts this week are Bench 160x3x5 Squat 185x3x5 Deadlift 205x1x5 Press 65x3x5 (torn rotator cuff surgery still painful) Clean 135x3x5 (working on form still) Should I focus on different lifts? My goals are as follows before I switch to another program Bench 225x3x5 Squat 285x3x5 Deadlift 315x1x5 Press 95x3x5 Clean… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 04:19 PM |
| 3 | If You Own A Business, You can Never Get MarriedSaving this for later. It's a good argument. "I won't make this investment that will increase our income unless you sign." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 02:39 AM |
| 11 | Seduction in One Picture.Dang. I didn't understand it until you rephrased. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 02:17 AM |
| -10 | Why Young Men Struggle: A Deep Dive into a Pathological System and Blue Pill BrainwashingHow is this related to sexual strategy? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/16 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Instagram AnalysisWork style writing. Force of habit. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:01 PM |
| -1 | Instagram AnalysisOh also i think a growth model tied to his posts would be awesome. Like how was his follower list growing with each post. And demographics of that growth. Alas, time is better spent elsewhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:00 PM |
| -4 | Instagram AnalysisYea it is! Anymore ideas on who else to look at? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Instagram AnalysisI totally agree! Super small sample size to make general statements. But it passes the common sense test, matches the general idea repeatedly stated, and warrants more analysis. I just havent had time to sample others. Took me about an hour to figure criteria and do 150 posts. Bro, I gotta get a workout in. That six pack is more important than my data. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Need wingmen in Miami?Perfect. Thanks | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Need wingmen in Miami?Every time I go out, I open everyone, guy, girl, old, young, ugly, hot. I need to get in the mood. I don't "save" my openers for anyone in particular. It helps me get my mouth going and ready for when I do find the more attractive ones. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Need wingmen in Miami?toll! I'm not into pea cocking. I'm a normal dude (I think). yea i'm down. | /r/seduction | 08/02/16 04:49 PM |
| 2 | How to Stop Being an AFCWhen you double book and the first is better than you thought, how do you cancel on the second one? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Haha. Ok. Just trying to help. GL | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.But really just go try it a bunch | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Trying to give detailed explanation. The fact is it is choreography. You're dancing with her. Girls love spins. | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 09:38 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Friday night club pull.Using a right hand shake. Grab her hand in a manly hand shake. Pull it back towards your right shoulder while slipping to grab her four fingers between your thing and index finger. But at 1/4 way, change vector and pull upwards into the pull. From her perspective this will pull her into a counter clockwise spin. Take your left hand and move it into a preparation position to catch the small of her back as she finishes her turn. When she's at her "2 o clock" position and almost to her starting poi… | /r/seduction | 27/01/16 05:31 PM |
| 3 | CorporateLand: Restaurant Lockdown for Sales GuysYour corporate land series is incredible. Thanks for writing these out as it's highly informative. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | A woman moved into my building Saturday. We talked, things went well and I got her number. I want to take her out this weekend but I do not know where. Also I'm not sure if I should keep it casual or show interest. And not sure when i should text and ask. Any advice?Text game is a whole other problem set that depends on how good your interactions have been. General consensus is to text only as necessary. Enough to get her interest, setup the date, and do follow up right before the date. Don't want to use all your good convo pieces up with a lame text. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 10:48 PM |
| 3 | A woman moved into my building Saturday. We talked, things went well and I got her number. I want to take her out this weekend but I do not know where. Also I'm not sure if I should keep it casual or show interest. And not sure when i should text and ask. Any advice?My museum/gallery game is the following: 1) when inviting her don't be self deprecating and talking like museums and galleries suck. Instead you get passionate about that stuff. Get energized. Get hyped. This is an exciting thing to see. 2) after she says yes and you go through your text game to start the date and she shows up, go through all the dumb check in stuff to buy your tix until you get to the first exhibit/room/whatever. In this room is where you explain the rules to the game. Plus you… | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 08:23 PM |
| 3 | A woman moved into my building Saturday. We talked, things went well and I got her number. I want to take her out this weekend but I do not know where. Also I'm not sure if I should keep it casual or show interest. And not sure when i should text and ask. Any advice?I'm not sure you read the /s above. Anyways.... Do something you like to do. What do you like to do at the park? Do you even like parks? Find something that you can excel at and teach her, you both can talk about, or you both can experience. | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 07:11 PM |
| 9 | Go Full PatriarchOmg... I'm totally trying this out. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 04:59 PM |
| 2 | [Theory] It doesn't matter how Cool you are if you don't create new Memories in her Mind.I like to plan the first event as an agreed on thing starting around 4. My first event will always be coffee or a drink. This let's me spend minimal money. Also if she's not a good match I can eject much easier (I'm not DT and can't walk off in the middle of something). From the coffee I'll do a soft close and say I'm hungry. 4 is just the right time to start getting hungry. Even if she's not hungry she can rationalize eating earlier since she'll have to anyways. Or I can plan another event like… | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 11:27 AM |
| 2 | What are some emotional healthy standards to develop when it comes to sex and exclusivity?If those are things you seek, then have your conversation much sooner. Some people will be freaked out about that talk so soon (you sound like you want to do it around dates 3-5) and will stop communications with you. But eventually you'll find someone who is happy to have that talk. You can't hold someone accountable to YOUR set of standards if you never communicate them. Furthermore, you definitely cannot hold them accountable if they don't want and agree to the same things These are called "v… | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What are some emotional healthy standards to develop when it comes to sex and exclusivity?Always consider your relationships as open until both of you have the explicit conversation that you are closed and both specifically agree. IOW open is the default, exclusivity is gained by having a frank conversation | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 02:00 AM |
| 2 | An uncomfortable truth about "meeting" good looking women, especially as you get older.I have to disagree. Do hobbies because you enjoy them. Talk with people. Anyone. Everyone. See a pretty girl on the street? See her in your hobby event/class/meeting? Talk with her just like everyone else. Ask her out. If she says no, move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Extreme Results Require Extreme Dedication (+ Kobe Bryant "All Day" Process)This is a great inspirational post for me. If you want to live a comfortable life, simply trying gets you out of the desperation of BB. If you want to be a top 20% man, having a generalized plan will get you there. If you want to be a legend with the pick of life, you have to be zealous, focused, obsessed, and live with a strict plan that you have the discipline and dedication to follow, by sacrificing things that don't contribute to your vision. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/15 08:22 PM |
| 0 | What to do after eye contact?A couple examples - on a beach make eye contact wait a minute, made contact again and I walked right up sat down "hey I noticed you looking over there. Were you staring at me or something else?" Made light convo and winged for a friend. (One of my best assists) Edit* Me hey I noticed you looking over there. Were you staring at me or something else?" Her: no I was just looking at that couple M oh I see. Insert joke. Gauged interest H laugh M see laugh and gauge reaction. Move onto basic "are you … | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Ridiculous pickups?Hahaha. I was actually going to use one like that but didn't want to post it here. But since you brought it up Walk around and point at a girl with her looking "hey! Want to be my girlfriend? I'm doing XYZ tomorrow and need a date." | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Ridiculous pickups?I haven't done any yet. Just getting bored with normal routine. Me: hey excuse me Her: yes? M: something interesting related to her or the current situation H: laugh M: continue conversation or move to another interesting thing and engage conversation M: "we should hang out sometime" verbatim H: get her to talk about something on her own and continue conversation M: respond something witty. "Hey let's grab coffee or a drink. What is your phone number?" Verbatim H: gives number. M: continue conve… | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The AWALT MisconceptionThey also compared it to health care workers who treat every patient as if they're infected and wear gloves to protect themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Two reminders for newbies: 1) money won't get you the sex you want. 2) Identify your buffers and slay them."Money's not everything. Not having it, is" - the Great Ye | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 05:32 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend?This is so true, but two years ago I wouldn't have believed it. Then back to back LTR girlfriends (HB 6 and HB 8) this happened to me. She's not yours, it's just your turn. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 07:16 PM |
| 5 | On Russian WomenSo which is higher? Who gets shunned? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Jerry Seinfeld's wife is a perfect example of AWALTYou've just helped me recalibrate. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/15 08:51 PM |
| 4 | HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your BitchesI totally agree that we should be passing shit tests and correcting when we've failed. What I would emphasize (the part I agree with OP) is that some people are not worth your time. Some people are bad people. If your aim is to enter a LTR then you're trying to sift through the chaff and waste. His system helps you identify valuable people and if they have a SERIOUS character flaw you don't waste more of your precious time (sunk cost trap) because you now know they have a major un-fixable proble… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 02:58 AM |
| 6 | HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your BitchesHSP makes it explicit that there are some things that are not trainable, like if your SO is rotten. However there are direct rewards in the system. Your time and relationship is the reward. In response to her behavior she receives more of your time and affection. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 06:32 PM |
| 3 | So now the MRM wants to sell itself as TRP?What does AFVM and DE stand for? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 12:18 PM |
| 1 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women.Awesome. This is exactly what I was wondering. So there is a viable method for babies after a V. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 05:07 PM |
| 2 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women.The parent comment says there are ways to have kids if you have a vasectomy. My comment asks what those ways are. How does that not make sense? I'm not having a V because some anon says so. I'm asking a question. geez. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 11:56 AM |
| 2 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women.If you have a vasectomy and want to have kids how do you do it? How much does it cost? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 08:13 AM |
| 16 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women.How do you pick up girls at the gym? Serious question. I don't like to be interrupted and I don't want to make anyone self conscious when they're working out. Got to respect those gains! But seriously how do you do it? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 08:12 AM |
| 0 | Told a girl I haven't had sex in 10 months. Im 22. Is there any way to still be seductive after pulling the ripcord too soon?Today's Wednesday, right? Grab a pint of ice cream and just eat. And turn on Netflix. Turn off the lights so you're not reminded how alone you are. And just numb your mind with cold lard and dumb tv. Then when it's time to sleep you can watch a little porn and masturbate because you're alone anyways, right? Then sleep, and go to work the next day. Do the same thing tomorrow. And keep doing it through the weekend. Drink beer and get drunk watching football. Do it until you're old. And fat. This w… | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 12:18 AM |
| 28 | 29 year old woman wants her fiancee to understand she has too much self respect to perform certain sex acts AFTER he finds pictures of her doing these sex acts with her college boyfriend.Sometimes I keep photos me doing deeply humiliating things that I'm completely ashamed of. I don't want others to see these photos. Every time I see them I'm reminded of how much suffering I went through. But I keep them because I never, ever, ever EVER want to see them and be reminded of all these terrible things. Why don't you guys understand this? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks if guys would look past her 60+ partners by age 23 and accept her for a long term relationship, or is she should lie about her body count.We naturally want what we can't have due to scarcity. You desire the thing that isn't easy. When it's economically down turned you find thinner people. When a place is prosperous the people get fatter. Thus. When you are in a depressed area you want bigger women. They're seen as healthy because they have access to food. It's therefore easier to be skinny because no food :( so a fat woman is desirable as its a status symbol that she can do a very hard thing (eat so much to get fat) When you're in… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 04:49 PM |
| 47 | Online Dating Photo RetouchingDirections unclear. Nudes already sent. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Commitment is Way More Valuable than Sex—Why You Truly Are the Prizehow do you alpha widow screen? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 10:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU?This does and doesn't work. Improving your smv is important to getting attraction. But just improving attraction does nothing if that's where it ends. You should improve yourself and ALSO work on your game. Improving yourself helps build confidence. Confidence helps you walk away from a low value person. You're confident you can find another. This confidence that you are worth a high value is what people are drawn to. Men and women. When using seduction with high confidence (not a showy fake con… | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Entrepreneurs, how do you find time to date or even meet women?I'm going to make the leap next year and start my own business. I've been worried about this as well. I'm thinking we have two restrictions. Time. And money. For time, day game is undoubtedly the route. Forget night game. For money, dating is going to have to be centered around me and the things I'm already doing. I enjoy some hobbies so I'll just invite girls to those. Or to hang out at my house. Or cheap and free dates. Tldr forget night game while you're a struggling entrepreneur. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What Makes LTR MaterialI'm looking for the same things. You better not steal my unicorn!! lol All kidding aside I think you're spot on in where to look. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 10:54 AM |
| 4 | What Makes LTR MaterialAnother post mentioned that the friends are very important. If her friends are getting married and entering LTR Then she's likely to go with the group. If her friends relationships are falling apart they are likely to pressure her to continue doing things with her now single friends that put her in precarious situations. See her friends as a barometer to check the social pressures she's facing | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 10:35 AM |
| 2 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?You just got out of a relationship. Find hobbies that make you happy. Find a workout that makes you happy. A sport. A competition. Whatever. If you're dedicated to excellence in it you'll get fit. When you're doing the things you're passionate about, that passion will give you confidence. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.That is one very persuasive article. I don't agree with everything but I I'll agree with the overall message. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.But yes. It would be awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.If they denied my request I would use the offer as a last gambit. "Oh no raise? I have an offer for 8k and a promo. Can you match?" If they don't want you they won't match. If you're that important they'll try or counter. I wouldn't just immediately walk away. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 10:14 PM |
| 83 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.Start looking now. Knowing your worth before you go into salary raise negotiation will give you abundance mentality and give you more confidence helping you win more at he table. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | After using her boyfriend to get YouTube famous, Girl breaks up with him to have time to "find herself" and "grow independently". In less than a month, she has a new boyfriend. AWALT.Haha. I've never thought about this. I wonder... | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm a mute girl, how would you guys go about seducing me and how can I cooperate?Don't forget to wink. Winking makes it much more clear and unambiguous | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 12:40 PM |
| 8 | Why do girls bail/back out on the final moments of a planned date?The goal of a date should be to make her feel good. Think of it from her perspective. You're an incredibly desirable woman. Lots of guys want you. It's Monday night. You don't have plans for Friday night. Somebody invites you to starbucks for a date. You agree. It's your first offer. Tuesday comes around and someone else invites you to go mini golf. That's better than starbucks so you accept golf and maybe notify starbucks guy it's off. Of course you give Starbucks guy another chance because it … | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | A friend of mine found out I do pickup and laughed at me. Why do I feel so ashamed? How do I stop being so anxious about stuff like this?You're trying to improve yourself and some people don't like that because it shows that they too could improve but are not motivated enough to go through withy it. By shaming you they stop you from improving and thereby prevent themselves from feeling shame for not improving themselves. Same reason if you suddenly find success in business and your now poorer friends make fun of you for being rich. They're jealous and afraid at their self perceived shortcomings. Keep doing you. Keep improving. So… | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 12:21 AM |
| 3 | How to remind a girl?I'd say "heading to the gym at 7. Come with. Don't let the laziness get to you." | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Casting Call: "Ugly People" - Situational SMVWow, very self-aware and introspective. Interesting. We commend you for trying to better yourself. How did you learn about TRP if I might ask? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 02:09 PM |
| 20 | Casting Call: "Ugly People" - Situational SMVSmart. Very Sun Tzu. Understand the competing strategy to help sharpen your own strategy in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Self Improvement begins by establishing your goalsGood on you for trying to improve yourself. I advocate defining the "what" you want to do with your life first. Others advocate the "why" first. Either way. Establish both and start to work smart. Good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")I've got the miracle cure for this!!! Open everybody you ever see Seriously. Anytime you see a human, open and start a conversation. Old lady? Talk about how stylish her purse is. Gym bro? Talk about that protein shake and ask what he finds best Mom with a baby? Talk about how cute their baby is. Then, talk with the baby. Don't bother memorizing opening lines. The same lines you develop here can be used with normal girls. Don't worry about what to say. Most importantly. You're going to say the s… | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Fucking with girls on dating sites: a pseudo-science study of absurdityI did an experiment similar to yours in Japan. I used absurd questions (my friend "discovered" it and showed me). My best absurd line got equal responses to "hey what's up". Mind you, this was Japan. That being said.... I dated a hb8-9 out there. And She showed me her profile messages... My goodness. She literally had 3000 messages in a month. Not a lot? That's 100 per day. She used it as an ego boost that all these guys wanted to "talk" with her. And the thing was, most messages were "hi how ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/15 11:06 PM |
| 2 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Haha. I totally have before pics. my progress is so slow, but it helps remind me of how far I've come. Its good motivation for me. But for other people... they'd probably see it and be like, "why'd you take two photos on the same day and change your pants? weirdo". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:43 AM |
| 1 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Totally. I just didn't want to confuse the ideas. Its very important that individuals know which aspect motivates them in that situation. But, the fact remains, that other people don't care about your future plans. Other people want to see results. Or maybe a better way of saying it is, they care about your future, but they care more about what you've done. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:41 AM |
| 3 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Haha, until that iceberg wrecks their hull! just kidding. Seriously though. People don't have time for in depth analysis. We see so many things all day long, we HAVE to take the face value of a majority of it. We simply don't have the time to investigate and care about everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.ah, yea, another way of putting it. Mine is phrased in the past. Yours is present. Hmm... interesting. I haven't thought about phrasing it like that. Its interesting because a lot of women love it more when i'm interesting in the moment. My dates are always exponentially better when its activity based. I guess all three tenses are important. people need to see that you've ALREADY demonstrated whatever characteristic you're shooting for. people want you to be ACTIVELY showing it, RIGHT NOW, in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Totally. I didn't want to confuse the basic idea. I've found that when i'm at work I all the time need to tell people my plans (for work). Its setting up expectations for them to hold me accountable against. In my personal life I find it hard to work on bettering myself, while simultaneously pulling long hours at work. My body is all the time just wanting to sit in front of the TV and veg out. But I know when i can strike out on my own, in the industries I'm passionate about, work won't be a cho… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:29 AM |
| 3 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Yep, Thats the idea! Also someone mentioned elsewhere that there is another affect that some people have.... basically, talking about it puts them under pressure since others can hold them accountable. So maybe you find your groove and which one drives you further. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:26 AM |
| 1 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.awesome. How long did you go before you really felt like it was your home? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:24 AM |
| 5 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Haha. Yea. I guess there's nothing new under the sun. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 07:54 PM |
| 8 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.Yea I read about this effect in r/fitness. I forget the name or study. I think it's called the substitution effect or something. Anyways. It's good stuff to know so you don't get trapped by it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 07:53 PM |
| 3 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.I haven't done it yet. I'm trying though. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 07:52 PM |
| 5 | No one cares what you're going to do. They only care about what you've already done.awesome. Never heard that maxim, but I'm definitely incorporating it into my life. "Show, Don't Tell" Awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Going to sound weird.. How to make friends. Seduce yourself into a social crowd.Hey I'm out in Miami too. Brickell. Hit me up | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Pro Tip for getting girls to come back to your placeDo you explicitly say the hookah is at your place? Or do you drop it as a surprise. Like surprise the hookah is at my home! | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 10:08 AM |
| 3 | On the cold approach and day gameThis is exactly the post I needed to read at this point in life. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/15 06:24 PM |
| 12 | "Can I kiss you? How about here? You ok with this?" When reality feels like satire.No joke, true story: I did this to a girl the first time she came over to my house. I asked [everything is verbatim], "can I kiss you now?" She laughed-- she literally belly laughed. She knew I was inexperienced and said, "you can't say that. Why did you ask that? You can't ask that, it ruins everything!" as she was laughing at me. I've never felt so terrible as when a girl was belly laughing at my attempts to kiss. It hurt me in ways I didn't know existed. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Gaming in college without a social circle.This is the best advice if you don't want or care about building a social net | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 12:56 PM |
| 1 | TRP success: Drunk GF gets dread game.Wow. What an amazing idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women are like PokemonNot being flippant. Start a convo with her and in the middle of a high point ask her if she wants to grab coffee. At coffee ask her out on a date to dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 09:37 AM |
| 1 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...I needed a nice way to phrase pua to people who have negative stereotypes. This fits. Thanks | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 09:09 PM |
| 1 | So a guy used pick up techniques on me last night...I think reasonable people are looking at your posts with thanks. To outright dismiss another viewpoint is folly. I'm encouraging you to keep posting. Like someone said, learning these things helps us grease the wheels of social interaction and make life more comfortable and fun for everyone. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Visiting Honolulu Hawaii. Clubs or bars?Cool, I'm going to wander down waikiki beach road. | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 04:01 AM |
| 105 | [FR] I just picked up the hottest girl in my college"My AA is a selfish punk bitch that is no longer going to get his way" Great motivation! | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Traveling is awesome for your game and your life in general. You should do it. Here's how.I use different sites for different regions. there's big ones you've never heard of that asia uses that are worth it to jump on. I make enough money that I can sign up for a month here, a month at a different site, etc. sign up for a month if possible, not longer. Ideally you chat no more than three weeks out from when you get there. My theory is since some girls wont use the dating site more than once a month. That gives them time to use the site, then for you to chat with them, mention youre v… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Traveling is awesome for your game and your life in general. You should do it. Here's how.I google search for what are the big sites/apps in that region. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Traveling is awesome for your game and your life in general. You should do it. Here's how.My advice on what to say: Practice with a bunch of stuff to see what works. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Traveling is awesome for your game and your life in general. You should do it. Here's how.I say the most outrageous things. I only hit a 5% rate too, I think that's pretty standard from what I've heard others say. Then my convos with that 5% only yield one or two actual dates that get set up. But not bad considering: 1) I spend 20 minutes spamming random messages, 2) spend 40 minutes practicing text game with people I don't know, so I can say whatever I feell like (usually I'm practicing/testingn out an off the wall theory: e.g. quick escalation, sexy pics, segues, conversational ban… | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 04:54 PM |
| 16 | Traveling is awesome for your game and your life in general. You should do it. Here's how.Hey, I'll second this and add tips of my own: Sign up for international dating websites. I spend an hour blasting out emails. This gives me a guaranteed date when I arrive in a new city (to travel). Having that single setup date gives me a huge mental boost knowing i'm at least meeting someone in a country. Plus it gives me social proof when I mention it to others, "I'm meeting up with a friend downtown at 1500". CS is a also great to save cash and meet people Plan to spend money doing activitie… | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Things I wish I knew years agoGreat addition | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Things I wish I knew years agoAmazing. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 08:15 AM |
| 2 | How I get 3 to 5 girls numbers every dayOr as warren buffet might say, "put all your eggs in one basket and watch that basket very closely" | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 01:21 PM |
| 6 | How I get 3 to 5 girls numbers every dayThis mentality was my biggest takeaway from this post | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 01:12 PM |
| 1 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]So to see if I understand what worked for you... the very act of being aware that you would easily forget this name you just heard so you need to be cognizant of remembering it, made you remember it more? sounds interesting. I'll let you know if it works later | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 05:43 AM |
| 1 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Ah. Thats probably where I'm going wrong. I try to force it into the conversation for my own remembrance, which I guess isnt the proper way to use it. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 08:03 PM |
| 1 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]That's Unique. I'll try imagining that next time! Thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 08:02 PM |
| 1 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Oh, cool. I've never tried this one. My first response would be that I would confuse them with the person I already know. But that doesnt make any sense. The second problem I have is that I'm in Japan and the names are not typical English names. Any tips for that? | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 08:01 PM |
| 21 | An easy way to impress just about anybody. [Field Tested]Does anyone have good advice on remembering people's names? I'm genuinely terrible at remembering, oftentimes I forget a few minutes after hearing it. I tried the repeat their name after they say it, but that still doesnt work for me. Any other pointers/books? | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 12:16 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]THis is an interesting take on the reward system. I just read another post about someone who would make a girl laugh then touch them so they associate his touch with joy. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 07:02 AM |
| 2 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]That's crazy motivating. Shrug it off and move to the next one. They're the ones missing out by not dancing with you And good advice too! Just alternate between hanging out with your friends and dancing with girls. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 03:02 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]I was out with some friends so it worked well. But I actually found I did better when our group got split up. I say it's more coincidence than anything else though. But man, getting rejected 18 times in a night is downright awful. I want to improve my skill to up the good numbers and lower the rejections. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:59 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]This is perfect for future reference. I'll add it to my growing list of youtube videos to check out. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:57 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]I just started taking Salsa classes. Although I'm not really sure how Salsa can factor into club dancing. Advice/Ideas? | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:45 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]Great! I actually am unsure what exactly worked those two times. I think I reached out and touched her shoulder very early on. And the other I reached out and touched her hand very soon after locking eyes. Although, I tried similar things with other women and it didn't go well. There must be other subtle details that affected it. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:42 PM |
| 5 | First time clubbing--semi [FR]This is what I'm trying to achieve. I'm there to have fun and not expressly pick up on women because I read so often that this follows I seem to have women approaching me, looking to play edit: Formatting | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:40 PM |
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