| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 43 | Is he a player or just not that interested? | Cool-Assignment-1096 | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:17 PM |
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| 9 | What are some good ways to tease (by touch, or “make her melt”) a girl when you’re in a bar/pub/in general?If you’re in a crowded bar/loud setting and trying to talk, I love a lean in and hand on the lower back (not butt). It reassures me that the guy is into me/interested in what I’m saying and makes me feel more comfortable :) | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Dating App PhotosI like when guys have pictures of them out doing things they enjoy or with friends! Gives me more of a sense of the type of person they are :) | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIt would honestly depend on the setting, if I was in social setting like a bar probably not, but if I was alone on the street or in a store or something I would probably think it was a bit weird and wouldn’t be into it | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Any Tips on LA?I’m a girl and I live in la :) feel free to message me for fun places to go! | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:04 AM |
| 12 | Ladies of seduction, what does handsome mean to you?I usually say handsome when a guy has a really good face or is dressed really well. I usually say hot when I’m focusing on his body and overall energy more than his face. You probably are attractive & present as put together which is why you’re being called handsome :) | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:02 AM |
| – | Stats on 40 Cold Approaches4 days ago I was waiting for my juice to be made & the guy behind me asked me if I think one type of smoothie or the other was better because he didn’t know which to order. It started a convo (I honestly didn’t even know he was hitting on me, I thought he just wanted my opinion), then before I left he asked for my IG & messaged me. He was cute, so I messaged back & now he’s trying to set up a date. I personally think an approach like that is wayyyy more casual and comfortable than a random man c… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop over complicating messaging in online dating?This is accurate | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:03 PM |
| – | How can I stop over complicating messaging in online dating?Just message her about something she has on her profile. I’m more likely to respond to a guy who comments on one of my prompts rather than just a “hey how was your weekend?”. Doesn’t have to be anything too complicated, just something to start a convo | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Should I text someone that left me on read?I think she just isn’t taking you seriously because you’re not making an much of an effort to set up a date that she clearly wants, so she’s trying to show you that if you’re not taking her seriously then she’s going to reciprocate it. I would say text her, not Snapchat message her, that you would really like to plan something and show genuine interest. If she doesn’t respond then maybe she’s lost interest. Playing hard to get when you haven’t even gone on a real date just makes a girl think you… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Best parting message for a flaky girlThis is a text I sent last month to a guy, verbatim about 2 hours before our second date: “(insert guys name)! can we rain check to tomorrow night? Today is my brothers bday & I thought he was spending it with his gf, but she just texted my other brother & I & asked if we wanna get dinner with them tonight 😩.” He said yeah no problem let’s do tomorrow. If he said tomorrow didn’t work, I would have expected him to suggest another day and if he didn’t, I would have. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Is he a player or just not that interested?I get what you’re saying. If there’s a mutual spark and everything is reciprocated by eachother it’s not a red flag :) I am just saying if you’re showing someone you’re not quite there at all with them yet and they’re applying too much pressure too quickly to get you there it can become overwhelming or red flag-ish imo. Everyone obviously is different though! | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 8 | Is he a player or just not that interested?If you meet someone and you’re both super into eachother & chatting a ton & the energy is being reciprocated on both ends then obviously that’s amazing :) | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Is he a player or just not that interested?No no no, Not at all. I just mean like if you go on a few dates with someone and they’re blowing up your phone constantly or saying they have feelings for you when they’re quite literally just beginning to get to know you. Sounds crazy but it happens | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is he a player or just not that interested?I don’t really talk or date around with a lot of guys at the same time, but maybe he thinks I do? When we were at the bar after dinner, I put my phone down unlocked and he looked at it and saw the number of notifications in the corner of the dating app we met on and called me out on it. This app gives you a notification if someone likes you on it, not just if you match with someone or if messages you. Obviously women get a lot of likes on apps so the number was pretty high. He seemed completely … | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 31 | Is he a player or just not that interested?I don’t know what he’s doing but it must be working if I’m writing a fckkng Reddit post about him lmfao | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Is he a player or just not that interested?I’m new ish to Reddit how do I delete a weird comment | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:30 PM |
| – | What lines do you use for cold approach that have actually worked?I don’t know if your question is setting specific but one thing that usually works on me at a bar or club is if a guy is cute & comes up and says something funny about the environment we’re in. Like makes a joke about his drink or about the song that’s playing or whatever. Just something light and simple. I was at a bar last month & a guy came up to me & pointed to his half unbuttoned shirt saying “do you think if I unbuttoned it a little more they’ll give me a free drink? How are my boobs? Look… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Feeling lost and defeatedHi :) I agree with your brother. Confidence & being comfortable with yourself is extremely attractive to me + most of my girlfriends. Also someone who can make me laugh. Just be you & have fun on dates. Try not to overthink too much or question if how you’re acting/things you’re saying are weird or might turn her off or whatever. If you both are eachothers vibe, things will naturally progress and will probably eventually get intimate. If not then on to the next one! | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:10 AM |
| – | Best parting message for a flaky girlI think it depends on how many times it’s happened. I’ve flaked on guys super last minute that I’ve genuinely wanted to go out with because of reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with them (too tired, got my period that day & not in the mood for a date, stuck at work late, forgot about prior obligation, etc). If it only happens once or twice, she could definitely still be interested. If it’s becoming a habit (ESPECIALLY if you’ve already gone out on a few dates together) she’s probably no… | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:36 AM |
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