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| 3 | THE DOMINO EFFECT: Or how an encounter with a single girl can lead to much more.Thank you man. I was nervous at first to even try it, especially with the government cracking down on parties and giving out thousand dollar fines. Worth it because we’ve long since stopped and managed to not get caught. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | LTR randomly tells me "I wish you would yell at me sometimes".So the fact that I kept my cool at her bullshit is what led her to say that, huh | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 3 | LTR randomly tells me "I wish you would yell at me sometimes".Yeah it did seem self deprecating. I don’t raise my voice because I find it a weak way to assert myself. Instead I just say what I have to, and she’s never not complied so far. I’m gonna wait a little while before being more dominant, I don’t want to change my behaviour so quickly after she makes a statement. But it’s worth a shot | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | LTR randomly tells me "I wish you would yell at me sometimes".For sure. It’s the first time she hit me with a "I want to talk", so I let her come over. After she got on her knees I made a joke saying that it was punishment for wasting my time etc. After she vented I did feel a bit of that emotional tampon vibe, so I turned the situation sexual again. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.It would’ve been me or someone else either way, all women have options lol. She definitely was just looking to get off, so was I. I’m glad I didn’t have to game her, I wanted to get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/21 08:40 AM |
| 35 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.If she smokes, has piercings or tattoos, she pokes haha | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 31 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.Hadn’t gotten laid in a while, didn’t expect it to happen in the foreseeable future haha | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 35 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.Close, but Sénégal. I’m good looking but I’m 5"10 haha so height isn’t really on my side. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 10:09 PM |
| 76 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.Doubt it, very religious and conservative society, a lot of girls don’t fuck because if they get found out, they’ll get shunned hard. Back home me and my friends would go after foreign girls that lived there, they were way less likely to care. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 75 | [FR] Needed a mask to get into a store, unexpected conversation leads to hookup.Yeah when she mentioned not getting laid, I realized all I had to do was not fuck it up. She was straight to the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 28 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Haha best analogy I’ve seen in a while. In reality, it’s not that hard to get a woman attached to you and acting reasonably well behaved. Reward her with attention when she acts right(good sex, cooked meals, respectful behaviour). And take away attention when she fucks up(nagging, stand-offishness, disrespect). If you’re above her in SMV, keep your body in shape, and respect yourself, that cat will know better than to misbehave. And if it does, you’re already a cut above and will find a replacem… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Fair enough, can’t argue with that | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 17 | Date women your self esteem can handle.Yup. Understanding their nature is the only way to being unfazed. 80% of all women are just average, maybe 15% are hot, and 5% are actually beautiful. Their beauty is their only resource to get what they want, and seeing through the mask, seeing it for what it is, is how you rise above. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 14 | Date women your self esteem can handle.It’s a truth not many want to admit, but LTR’s and plates are a lot easier to manage when you outclass them in SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Date women your self esteem can handle.You got the broader point I was trying to make man. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 99 | [Question] How would you define a Low Value FemaleLike someone else said, looks. 95% of women’s value is determined solely on how they look. Take a woman who does drugs, has a low IQ, failed her education, is lazy and lives with her parents. If she’s even average looking, then most men don’t give a single fuck about all those things, they’d still fuck her, and some would even marry her. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?It’s the first time she pulls something like this, but I suspect you’re right. I think she’s purposely not texting me as well, just to make my head spin. If it does turn out to be some insignificant shit I’ll probably demote her to plate without her even knowing, and game other girls. I fucking hate games | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 12:27 PM |
| 1 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?Yeah I can definitely do that | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?Golden advice, I’m saving that comment | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?Very true, it’s all speculation until I hear it. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?I agree it’s a bad move, but I got the call after we arranged to meet. But it’s a great out for me, she won’t get to talk for very long | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?Honestly man, if she does have some other guy in the picture, it makes things easier. It proves this isn’t worth salvaging, and I can walk away with no regrets | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 3 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?I agree, the problem is my city just went back into lockdown, there’s cops in the streets, most places are closed, and it’s cold asf outside. Luckily, I have a job interview Friday, two hours after she’s supposed to come over. So I’m walking out regardless, she can figure the rest out herself | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?That’s golden advice. She’s coming to my place, I intend to just let her talk, and then I’ll know everything I have to. I’m almost certain it’s just a manipulation tactic to make me go soft, but I’m ready for anything. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 5 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?Right. Initially I panicked a bit(to myself, she didn’t see it), but now I’m just being patient. She hasn’t contacted me since then, I won’t either. I feel like she’s trying to pull me into her frame(let’s be real, it’s working a bit), and make me break. Fuck that. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 7 | LDR says she needs to have a serious conversation. Should I bother or just walk away?I agree, I fully intend to do so if that’s what this is about. I’m not going to act tough and pretend it won’t suck, it will, but it is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 05:07 PM |
| 43 | Closure is BullshitLol what timing, my LTR wants to talk about “something important” next time I see her. “Okay” is probably the most perfect answer | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 4 | The death of the Modern ManAgree with you 100%, although there are levels to this. I’d say fresh of the boat Asian girls idolize white men to a WAY higher degree than any other demographic I’ve seen, just my experience. But even black and Hispanic girls need the guy to have some type of value beyond just his race, whereas I’ve seen Asian girls date the weakest minded, badly groomed white dudes just so they can have a white boyfriend. If you’re a high value white man, you’ll have 0 trouble picking up girls of any race anyw… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | The death of the Modern ManLots of dudes worry way too much about how big they are down there tbh, I’m barely above average myself but don’t think about it too hard. Just tell yourself that most dudes won’t be in a position to even get to use their dicks lol, at least you’re getting laid | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 7 | The death of the Modern ManWell I guess yeah, but you’d be surprised how many black dudes are actually pussies. We have an advantage because no one ever thinks of us as virgin losers, and even a black guy with no game will still be assumed to at least get laid every now and then. Whereas if you’re an Asian dude, you’re almost immediately lumped into the nerd or introvert category, no one looks at Asian dudes and assumes they get pussy. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 9 | The death of the Modern ManThis is definitely the case amongst other races. I think with black dudes it’s less obvious because white women also fetishize us in a way, so it’s a two way street. But some black guys I know ONLY date white women, which to me seems like a pedestal. Agreed on latinas haha, them and black women are my main preference | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 43 | The death of the Modern ManHey man, more power to you, if you’re not being insecure about your origins then no wonder you’re confused about those who are | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 34 | The death of the Modern ManSee I don’t mean to be an asshole, but a lot of the time they mean they can’t get white women. The Indian guys I’ve met here in Canada are only interested in fucking white girls, and put them on a pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 138 | The death of the Modern ManDon’t ask me, ask the Indian dudes who complain about being brown, or say that girls aren’t attracted to them. I’m black and don’t believe that being nonwhite will hurt your chances with women much. After all, there’s plenty of high value men of different races and ethnicities. It’s about value in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 318 | The death of the Modern ManHit. The. Fucking. Gym. Having a nice physique alone, on top of not being a retard will push you into the top 20% of men. When you walk down the street, how many dudes are either skinny as fuck, have bad posture, or are obese? It’s pretty much ALL of them. “Boo hoo I’m not 6 foot” “Boo hoo I’m Indian” “Boo hoo my dick isn’t 15 inches” Well guess what? You can’t control those things, you can’t do shit about your race or dick size or height. But you CAN work hard and get a body that other men want… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 10:57 AM |
| 28 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)At the end of the day, women seek VALUE. Most men, regardless of colour, are bottom 80%. I won’t argue that being nonwhite may give you a disadvantage. But are you going to be a little bitch and not even try? I’m the darkest black dude you’ll ever see. My features are pretty much anti Caucasian. Yet I don’t see it as a problem, because the majority of men aren’t red pill aware, aren’t trying to increase their value, and aren’t competition. Would a white dude with exactly the same height, money a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/20 09:58 AM |
| 6 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social MediaI don’t really count, but I’d say between 12 and 16, excluding times where we just messed around. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 07:16 PM |
| 121 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social MediaGreat write-up. Let me add that guys, getting rejected is not the end of the world, I’ve met up with girls, they rejected my advances, and I didn’t react negatively and just went home about my day. Sometimes they hit me up again later and we fuck, sometimes they don’t, it’s a numbers game. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 09:11 AM |
| 3 | There is no "The One". Or: how oneitis can be traced back to the relationship between a man and his motherOneitis stems from a lack of abundance, that’s it | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 01:51 PM |
| 16 | They Have Neither Interest, Nor InputThat’s very true. It’s better to start fresh with a new woman than fix what happened with an old one anyway, women never forget. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 69 | They Have Neither Interest, Nor InputThis is wisdom that’s lost on a lot of guys nowadays. If SHE decided that you two are in an LTR now, you’re her bitch. If SHE decides how often you have sex, you’re her bitch. If SHE makes plans for the two of you, and you just go along, you’re her bitch. A woman is a leaf, carried by the winds of her emotions, she doesn’t care where the wind takes her, she just cares about how intense it is. A man is a rock. No matter how hard those winds blow against you, you do NOT let yourself get carried, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Polyamory and The Real Truth about DesireUntil the newest hottest guy shows up and gives her the tingles. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?Appreciate the detailed response. Honestly she did earn it. Compared to other plates, she always made the most effort to see me, shit test were kept low, shit she baked me cookies on my birthday and drove 4 hours to bring them. We also get along well. TRP sort of made my plate game amazing, but fucked up how I approach relationships, I realize I’m still treating her like a plate even though she’s my girl now. That’s a fault on my part, not TRP. Lol yeah what the fuck, can’t explain that either. … | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 12 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?“Come over tomorrow, wear something nice”. She said yes, I’m gonna take charge | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?In real life we do a lot of exciting things, I took her out for wine at the park then we fucked in the woods, we went clubbing together etc. But as soon as it’s online then yeah I’m exactly how you described. I have to work on that and my OI, thank you. | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?Yeah I’ve been using TRP logic for an LTR, and it isn’t really paying off, just making me think more. I do spend a lot of time with my friends, family, and I lift, but I also do think too much about who texts first and other nonsense. I’m gonna just focus on increasing my value, and on talking to her whenever I feel like it, rather than for arbitrary reasons. | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?She didn’t post about us directly, but more so a video about relationships in general. But watching it I could tell it was definitely about our relationship, she was being very indirect and immature about it. It’s the first time she acts like this, so I’ll watch her behaviour to see if this continues. If it does then it’ll be a demotion. | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?You’re right, I just texted her and told her to come over tomorrow. I want to see her and don’t want to think deeply about who texts first and whatnot. The past 4 times I’ve seen her, it’s been her asking if I’m free, or what I’m doing the weekend, I haven’t directly initiated a meet up in a while, so I’m changing that this time. | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?Well this week she only initiated conversation with me Monday, and it was just a meme. I texted her twice this week just to chat shortly. Right now I want to invite her over, but I feel like I’m being needy, because she’s texted me less than I have. Maybe I’m just being neurotic, talk some sense into me | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend acting inconsistent, good sex but weird shit otherwise, do I just STFU?Well I didn’t ignore her, we just weren’t texting. She’s very submissive in real life, but online she doesn’t initiate conversations very often, or she just sends me random memes or videos. | /r/askMRP | 25/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 16 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?Like a soldier. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:11 AM |
| 4 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?I hadn’t thought about it that way, so her giving me a blowjob after acting like that is me rewarding her bad behaviour? I didn’t expect her to do it, she just undid my pants and I let it happen, although I get your point. Maybe next time I’ll stop her and show that she can’t fix problems through sex. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:09 AM |
| 3 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?She asked me how many girls I’ve been with I said « enough » | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 11:01 PM |
| 10 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?I could tell no man ever talked to her like that, especially because of how baffled she seemed. I admit that in my head I wondered if I overplayed my hand, but then I was like fuck it I’m not backing down now. Ever since discovering TRP I’m a bit on edge about AWALT, but I’m ready for my girl to act up or to cheat, so I try to stay detached just in case. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 09:17 PM |
| 26 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?Makes sense. When she finished blowing me, she still seemed upset. I looked her in the eye, told her she’s a huge baby, and kissed her forehead. She melted after that, funny how that works | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 06:25 PM |
| 26 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?Honestly, I would’ve texted my bros, tell them to meet me at the bar, then tell her I’m going out, and that she has to go. It was a Saturday, I used my weekend time off work to see her, no chance I waste it with her acting like a bitch, there’s better ways to spend the weekend. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 06:22 PM |
| 32 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?I see bullshit everywhere now. I see guys who constantly check in with their girl, mate guard her and obey. While the girl disrespects them and gives other men IOI’s. I’ll admit the red pill lens makes it a bit worrying to have an LTR, but I noticed that as long as you pass her tests, don’t lose frame, and fuck her well, you’ll be fine. If she cheats, whatever, onto the next, her loss. I read that a while back, but shit, it’s worth going back over now that I’ve been experiencing it firsthand. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 55 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?I’ve read some of your posts, especially the ones on tying girls up, cool to get a response from Uncle Vasiliy himself. But you’re right, every time she gets an attitude and I blow her off, she puts in a lot more effort to please me. I guess I’ll stick to caveman logic for this one. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 49 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?She was acting like a child, which is weird because she’s usually really mature. Funny to see how women act when you don’t put the pussy on a pedestal | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 77 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?I understand, it sucks that even a woman you’re dating will test you for no apparent reason, but at least I’m aware. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 04:15 PM |
| 150 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?So if I had begged her to stay or chased after her, she would’ve seen me as a pussy? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 04:00 PM |
| 103 | AITA delivers again: SIMP doesn't know he's dating a sugar baby.We all subconsciously know when shit isn’t adding up. We aren’t as emotionally attuned as women, but we do get that « gut feeling », probably something that’s saved our ancestors from breeding with the wrong mate. Trust your gut. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 08:21 AM |
| 146 | Disgusting. Men like this have no business with women. Blue Pill on front page.The less options a man has, the more afraid he is of his current partner leaving him, And the more of her bullshit he will tolerate. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 18 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.Hide it better, or have a higher threshold. Some will leave as soon as there’s a hint of weakness, some will stick around a bit longer(depending on your value), but the end result is the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 333 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.True facts. I had a strong, sexually charged relationship with a girl, and one day I opened up about my broken relationship with my dad(I didn’t even go into much detail). Suddenly she doesn’t want to fuck anymore, suddenly she isn’t coming over much, and suddenly she thinks « we should go our separate ways ». Suffer, whine and bitch in private, don’t let a woman see that side of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Plate sent love letter in the mail, I received it after I nexted her.That’s some tough love right there, but you’re right. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Plate sent love letter in the mail, I received it after I nexted her.Sure, is it on subscription ? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Plate sent love letter in the mail, I received it after I nexted her.I don’t mind her company, she doesn’t annoy me much, and a good fuck. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:39 PM |
| -2 | Plate sent love letter in the mail, I received it after I nexted her.Sound advice, appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Plate sent love letter in the mail, I received it after I nexted her.According to her, she thought I ignored her letter, and that’s why she wasn’t as into it. I know I know, watch what they do and not what they say. Ah well | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:10 PM |
| 67 | You’ll never understand women until you reach abundance.Remember, if she’s not getting dick from you, it’s somewhere else. Don’t give your attention for free without getting what YOU want. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/20 02:23 AM |
| 12 | You’ll never understand women until you reach abundance.Exhausting? I’ve always found it fun to be honest, but I guess to each their own It shouldn’t be tiring | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/20 01:32 AM |
| 9 | You’ll never understand women until you reach abundance.That wasn’t my point, my point was to never invest your full being into a woman to the point of obsession. A lot of men are monogamous because they enjoy it, but a lot of them actually just don’t have any other options or feel like they can’t do better. Be monogamous, that’s fine, but don’t pine after a single woman who doesn’t reciprocate | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Plate still has sex with me constantly, but acts weird, need advice.Haha you mean date, not marry, we’re both relatively young. She’s been posting shit online about how « this generation focuses too much on sex and not personality etc » Last month she asked about my exes, what type of girls I like etc. If she wants commitment then why say she doesn’t want a label? I never outright refused it. But anyway yeah, plates break | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Plate still has sex with me constantly, but acts weird, need advice.I never outright refused commitment though, she just told me that she’s hesitant to label us because we don’t have an « emotional connection ». It’s probably because I only ever see her for sex. I don’t know her friends, nothing about her life etc. She stills says she always thinks of me, wants to see me etc, but I suspect it won’t last much longer. Ah well, spin more plates | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Plate still has sex with me constantly, but acts weird, need advice.I have 2 other plates, can’t see them until quarantine is over but they’re in my back pocket | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Plate still has sex with me constantly, but acts weird, need advice.As soon as she started acting weird I pulled back. Took hours to answer her, she even said “you’ve seemed busy lately 😕”. I’m not completely red pilled yet, but I know when a girl figures you out, the tingles are gone. The door’s wide open if she wants to go. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Plate still has sex with me constantly, but acts weird, need advice.Sounds about right. She’s only ever came over. No dates. No gifts. Just straight to my house every time. I assume she wants more from me, or she’ll get that somewhere else | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Plate still has sex with me constantly, but acts weird, need advice.I wouldn’t say she’s stopped pushing, but she’s saying that she doesn’t know anything about me, wants me to open up etc etc. I’ve ignored all that, but most likely some guy is offering commitment and she’s hedging her bets | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?I’ve seen it mentioned here and there, I always saw people saying it was misogynistic and sexist, so I got curious as to why people hated it so much. I hated what I read because it made so much sense. Especially as to why women seem to fuck “assholes” instead of “nice guys”. I applied some of the principles and I saw some results, so here I am. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?I did fuck some of them yeah, but the sex stopped when I started being beta with them. I guess this is their last ditch attempt to shame me back into my old ways, but I refuse. Good point, I’d rather be unpredictable than boring | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 10 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?Fuck does the red pill taste bitter, but I’d take it again 1000 times sooner than going back to my old ways | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 7 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?Blue pilled me thought nudes were a sure sign of sex being on the table. But ironically, the plates that are the most into me don’t send nudes. They text to know how I’m doing and ask when we can see each other. Then they pull up and there’s no fuss, they make it easy, it’s weird how that works | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?Makes sense, I’m to trying to change their opinion though, I try to talk to as many new girls as possible. If I don’t validate them it’s because I’m not getting sex from them, therefore I feel like it’s a waste of my time. They try to entice me by sending the occasional cleavage shot, but I do my best to not react. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?Lol I like the way you think, you have a point | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 9 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?I thought as much. Too bad I’m keeping him in my basement | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 8 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?I hope, they seem to be trying to guilt trip me | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Girls I used to validate now tell me that I’m mean or that I hate them? Tf?I just don’t want their shit talk to stain my reputation, especially amongst other, new girls at my uni. They still chase after my validation, but get pissed and write long paragraphs whining when they don’t get it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | « I don’t like muscles »Seeing as how muscles are literally a secondary sexual characteristic amongst men, I don’t see why it would be bullshit. Height is also one, and every man knows how important it is to women, so why would muscles suddenly be out of the question. Tits and ass are secondary sexual characteristics as well, and I’ve never seen a straight male say that he absolutely dislikes either. What YOU want to hear though, is that muscles don’t matter, that it’s narcissism etc, so keep living in that delusion | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | « I don’t like muscles »Growing up as the only black kid in school forces you to grow up fast. You have to build tough skin, you have to stand your ground, and can’t let the jabs and insecurities get in your head. Same goes for any minority, hell, any MAN, you can’t hate the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | « I don’t like muscles »Yup. Chicken, ground beef, fish etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/20 02:19 PM |
| 2 | « I don’t like muscles »There’s nothing to be jealous of, you could accomplish this if you tried. She can enjoy it, but muscle will make her enjoy it more. That’s it. I like big tits. If a girl has small tits it can be fun, but bigger tits would be better | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | « I don’t like muscles »I agree. I’ve heard too many guys adopt that loser mentality and let it get in the way of proper training and diet. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/20 02:05 PM |
| 29 | « I don’t like muscles »Just like how I’ve heard « I don’t fuck black guys » from women, within hours of bending them over? Listening to a woman’s words is suicide, you’ve got a lot to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 20 | « I don’t like muscles »You’re living the life the right way brother. Most tall guys make the mistake of not working out, and just relying on their height. Height + muscles is a crazy combo. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:48 PM |
| 20 | « I don’t like muscles »Exactly. I’ve seen so many guys post their « workout » online, only to stop working out soon after. They just wanted the boost of validation that social media has gotten us used to. People have no appreciation for how long it takes to actually look like you lift. Let the results speak for themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 10 | « I don’t like muscles »As minority guys I’m sure we’ve all been there at some point, you’re your own greatest enemy. A girls preconceived notions of minority dudes kind of just got out the window once you’re jacked and know how to talk. Her desire to fuck you has to be stronger than whatever prejudice she’s got. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 9 | « I don’t like muscles »Trust me man, there will be no better day than the one where you look at yourself in the mirror and go, « damn, I’m getting bigger ». Relentless self improvement, that’s the only way. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:19 PM |
| 21 | « I don’t like muscles »Oh I know man, I’m black and a lot of other black guys think it’s a disadvantage, but honestly it’s a strength for me. I just hate seeing brown guys use their ethnicity as a reason for them not getting pussy. I’m glad that isn’t the case for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:17 PM |
| 5 | « I don’t like muscles »I’ll tell you something man. I’m 5’9, I’m black as fuck, and the hardest wake up call was to realize that I NEEDED to improve if I wanted anything out of my life, there are no free meals. Be angry. Use that anger as fuel. Use that fuel for the engine that is your body. Your body is the only thing that you will ever own 100%. I was angry at first, when the girls that ignored me suddenly wanted to fuck. When the girls that friendzoned me wanted to « go out for drinks ». Anger can be a dangerous em… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:16 PM |
| 76 | « I don’t like muscles »Excellent points all around. No matter your height, your race, or your income, having a strong, lean body is the ultimate cheat code. It speaks to something primal in the female brain, something they might not even realize. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 36 | « I don’t like muscles »I’ve seen a lot of guys in this sub and online say that they can’t get girls because they’re Indian. Apparently being brown is a disadvantage or something | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 06:03 PM |
| 8 | « I don’t like muscles »In their mind it isn’t « lying » per se, it’s just that there’s things they can’t admit to themselves for fear of seeming shallow. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:28 PM |
| 42 | « I don’t like muscles »You need to eat more damn food. And give your body appropriate rest. Gains always slow down at some point, your body will resist your attempts to gain muscle, so you need to push to the next level by eating more and lifting heavier. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:24 PM |
| 4 | « I don’t like muscles »The human brain doesn’t like change. It wants things to stay the same, it’ll trick you into staying where you are. I haven’t been motivated in so long, but I still get my ass to the gym. Why? Because I look good naked and want to look even better naked. My plates love it. And I love it. No excuses bro. You’ll respect yourself more in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:22 PM |
| 8 | « I don’t like muscles »I can help. Look up Stronglifts, it’s a beginner program. If you want to make your own program that’s fine as well. First step, go to the gym today. If today really is impossible, then tomorrow. Don’t put it off longer than that. All machines have a guide on how to use them and which body part they target. Dumbbell curls are for biceps for example. Eat 1 gram of protein per pound of body weight, buy protein powder, the brand doesn’t really matter, it’s all the same. Creatine helps, but isn’t a r… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 14 | « I don’t like muscles »Let me put it this way. Your body is a machine that adapts to stress. When you lift, you put your muscles under stress, and your body uses that as a sign to make them grow stronger than before. I lift, I also do kickboxing and yoga, so flexibility is only an issue if you let it be. Also somatotypes(like being an ectomorph) are a myth, just lift and eat correctly. Do martial arts if you want, but as a complement to lifting. It’ll change your life, trust me. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 74 | « I don’t like muscles »Got crazy respect for you bro, you’re owning that physique 100%. Getting felt up by women feels like crack cocaine. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 119 | « I don’t like muscles »This guy gets it. If you can’t commit to your own body, how the fuck can you commit to anything else? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:07 PM |
| 65 | « I don’t like muscles »You haven’t lived until you’ve seen what your body is capable of. I’m 21 years old, and started lifting almost two years ago, I never want to stop. I urge you to do it, no one’s ever regretted being jacked. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:03 PM |
| 419 | « I don’t like muscles »Betas will resent you for it. Alphas will respect you for it. And women will absolutely go nuts for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 04:56 PM |
| 84 | « I don’t like muscles »If you still have it in you, go. If not, hit the gym even harder tomorrow. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Don’t ever let white knights or incels guilt trip you.Oh I don’t doubt it, but they need to hear this the most! | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Don’t ever let white knights or incels guilt trip you.When a woman is uncomfortable, you’ll notice her body language becomes closed, she’s suddenly much more rigid, and she’s either smiling out of awkwardness, or looking around for help. When everyone is having a good time, and the girls stay around, laugh, and stick tight to the guy’s body, I fail to see the issue. All that being said, you are right that the issue is oversimplified, and people definitely should go for the friendly route first. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Don’t ever let white knights or incels guilt trip you.You hit the nail on the fucking head, these guys are absolute cancer. These guys have convinced themselves that male sexuality is a bad thing, they can’t show any interest in women beyond “nice guy” crap. Good on you for moving past that phase in your life and becoming better for it. I’m currently 21 and a lot of guys my age haven’t figured out that showing desire is what you should be doing. It’s college, girls aren’t looking to make buddies and do their nails, they’re looking for fun, and that… | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 06:02 AM |
| 9 | Don’t ever let white knights or incels guilt trip you.They do, and he could have been confused. But in this case, it was in the middle of the dance room, with people laughing, jumping around and having fun, the girls were getting rowdy and filming the dances as well. I’m not ruling out that it could’ve been a misunderstanding though, just a bit doubtful considering the way he came at me. | /r/seduction | 03/11/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Back and forth with this girl is getting annoying.That’s strange, because we were drunk as fuck when we smashed, I barely remember it but we both had a lot of fun according to her. But that’s the thing, I don’t give her that much attention. She ALWAYS comes over to mine, I don’t buy her anything, she invites herself often, she brings me weed etc etc. Anyway that’s besides the point. All I want to know now, is if there’s any way I can turn this around and smash again. If it’s dead in the water, I’d rather hit the brakes and stop talking to her a… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 05:17 PM |
| – | Back and forth with this girl is getting annoying.We had sex once, and since then have only made out | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Back and forth with this girl is getting annoying.Yeah I can see that, thankfully I’m not chasing after her, she’s the one that invited herself over. Shortly after kissing her, I told her I had to go out, but she did her best to stick around. My door was literally open but she just wanted to play fight and tease. She left a little while ago, I’m just gonna go silent on her and talk to other girls, let’s see if she comes back, not waiting on it though. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Reducing interest ALWAYS works if she was interested beforehand, they DO come around.Fair enough | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 09:57 PM |
| – | Reducing interest ALWAYS works if she was interested beforehand, they DO come around.I see what you mean, do you think she’s just playing or something? | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 09:35 PM |
| – | Made a post about not striking when the iron is hot. Corrected my mistake, little victory.I want to strike a balance between desiring her and not being too needy. I’ll text her at some point for her to come over, but I’m not sure how to proceed | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Didn’t strike when the iron was hot. A lesson on what not to do.I could’ve, but I fucked up 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Didn’t strike when the iron was hot. A lesson on what not to do.Her birthday is Sunday. But she works two jobs + an internship, so she’s usually busy I could figure something out though, I’ll wait on her to text me, don’t want to seem needy | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:45 PM |
| – | Didn’t strike when the iron was hot. A lesson on what not to do.She’s having a little outdoor cookout for her birthday. I’m planning on passing by real quick(I have plans that day), so I’ll see her that day. Not to mention my own birthday is 3 days after hers. I know she’s planning on seeing me on my birthday, so I’m anticipating that a bit. | /r/seduction | 19/09/19 05:35 PM |
| – | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.Back when I first met her, she used to come over every week for a smoke, then that stopped after she made it clear she wanted the sex to stop. She also stopped texting me first. Anyway I don’t want to keep tiptoeing around the subject, I think there’s a good chance for something to happen. I’ll kino, tease her and gauge her reactions, then go in for the kill if she seems receptive. | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 09:01 PM |
| – | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.We haven’t had sex in a long time, but just talked and hung out, with some flirting. My issue is just figuring out if she’s down to hook up again, I don’t want to try and then look like a fool | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 08:50 PM |
| – | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.I actually don’t think so. She told me that « dick makes everything complicated », and that she wants to define boundaries, as in us keeping things friendly. That was a month ago, it’s only now that she’s texted me to hang out, which is why I’m asking if I should even bother | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.I haven’t hung out with her for almost a month now, it’s not something that happens often | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.Alright then, I’ll make a move | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 04:24 PM |
| – | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.I’m gonna make a move, but keep in mind that she hasn’t shown much interest outside of that one text, I feel like I might catch her off guard | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 04:09 PM |
| – | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.So I should ignore all that shit about her not wanting to continue banging? | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Met girl months ago. Fucked her. Got a bit too invested, hung out too much, opened up a bit, then she pulled back. Now she wants to come over and smoke a joint at my place.She’s bringing the weed herself, she’s not getting anything out of this I don’t want anything serious, I don’t mind a hookup | /r/seduction | 15/09/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | « I could only see us ending up as dating, or as great friends. I’m hung up on my ex and just want no strings attached, and don’t want to get you involved in this »You’re right | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 02:41 PM |
| – | « I could only see us ending up as dating, or as great friends. I’m hung up on my ex and just want no strings attached, and don’t want to get you involved in this »It’s more of a crush than deep feelings at least, I’ll get over it soon. Thank you dude | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 02:11 PM |
| – | « I could only see us ending up as dating, or as great friends. I’m hung up on my ex and just want no strings attached, and don’t want to get you involved in this »She told me she’s more of a relationship person than a « fucking around » person, but right now she’s emotionally unavailable, and she thinks that having sex with me would attach her in some way. We already had a pretty long(5 hour) talk, and she made it pretty clear that for the moment things are gonna stay platonic, despite whatever we may be feeling. Right now I’ll leave her alone, if she reaches out we’ll see what happens | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 01:54 PM |
| – | « I could only see us ending up as dating, or as great friends. I’m hung up on my ex and just want no strings attached, and don’t want to get you involved in this »I do feel some type of way about her, not gonna lie, but thankfully I haven’t « confessed » or done anything of the sort. She’s told me things she’s never said to anyone, and she’s said that she trusts me, but yeah, her ex is in her life, she knows his family, it’s complicated etc. It hurt my ego a bit that she’s sleeping around and that I’m not an option in that regard(because feelings), but I don’t own her, so I just respect that. I do want to smash her, or date her, but according to her, « di… | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 01:32 PM |
| – | She let me play with her ass, tits, she grinded on my dick, but didn’t let me kiss her because her ex is in her life.Honestly I just want to hook up with her, not date her. I saw her actions as wasting my time so now I’m creating distance, next time she comes over either something happens or I’m just gonna next her | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 02:49 PM |
| – | She let me play with her ass, tits, she grinded on my dick, but didn’t let me kiss her because her ex is in her life.First off, thanks for the detailed answer. She explained to me that her ex is depressed and “needs” her, won’t let her go, is insecure etc etc, and that she doesn’t want to hurt him. We were all over each other, play fighting, touching etc, but making out was where she set the line apparently. But I could see that she was super okay with me touching her, although I might have let my dick get in the way of my thinking. Right now I’m pulling back, I’m not gonna flirt with her or give her much atte… | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 01:55 AM |
| 2 | « Date » with a girl who didn’t seem interested a few months backAlright, sound advice, thank you | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 07:03 PM |
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