| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 156 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more... | CoriVanilla | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:21 AM | |
| 78 | "I love my boyfriend, even tho he has done the bare minimum of recognizing me as a person, has sexist friends and refuses to stand up for himself or me" 🙄 | NAH, SIS | CoriVanilla | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Imagine outing yourself as pornsick to the whole internet. His poor GF. | CoriVanilla | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:11 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Should I still go out with this man tomorrow?No lol if you wanted to plan a date for yourself you could have done that already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 21 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?Trust that gut feeling girl, start recording and reporting what you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Lingerie is NOT a giftSame with ✨toys✨ because it's not really a gift for you, it's for the man's pleasure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:27 AM |
| 97 | “Hey” “Random thing made me think about you today” “Long time huh” “Thought it would be fun to hear how each other are doing” “Miss you”She said "you wanna be inside me so bad? I'll eat you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 7 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...Or, an excuse to have a homoerotic moment with his best friend without it being "gay" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:49 PM |
| 31 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!I personally have done a lot of reclaiming of the word 'bitch'. Usually I find it's kind of a last resort, catch all 'insult', but what you've actually told me is that I have successfully stood up for myself and you have nothing left on me except the hope that I've been brainwashed enough by that word to back down. For me, it's like the little mushroom Mario eats that makes him grow bigger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:15 PM |
| 60 | First time poster--I need some advice, and hopefully asking here is ok? It's about male behavior and how to deal with it because I'm feeling lost.No, they need to be humiliated because their behavior is humiliating. Do not coddle the emotions of these men who are disrespecting you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 2 | First time poster--I need some advice, and hopefully asking here is ok? It's about male behavior and how to deal with it because I'm feeling lost.Don't respond to the messages that aren't directly related to your job and make a complaint to your managers every single time you receive a message like that. Tell them you do not feel safe. Maybe ask to have your name changed on the server to something more gender neutral | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heightOmfg. If the shoe fits, buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 10 | Oh no, men’s porn addiction is our fault apparentlyGosh I wonder what men did before the internet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:53 AM |
| 20 | No questions. Blocked 🙅🏻♀️🚫"call you out, for what?" That's it right there. For what? You think "calling him out" is gonna snap him into a perfect man? He's gonna go " Oh man, she figured it out! Wow! I wasn't doing it on purpose, oh no, I was just being foolish the woman of my dreams is before me!! My love!" For what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 11 | Held off on sex, it was horribleHe's porn sick, and you should tell him that's why you're calling it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:29 AM |
| 9 | Her scrote husband strung her along by future faking about adopting a child. Men will lie about absolutely anything to tie a woman downSister gave the correct advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 11 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.Yiiiiiiiiiiiiiikeeees | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Anyone grew up with families whose parents treated their male siblings better?Once when I was 17, my family sent me to California for a couple weeks in the summer to spend time with my cousins. My brother (14 at the time) stayed at home with my parents. While I was in California, my cousins and I decided to dye my hair a mix of purple and dark red. I was thinking it would wash out, but of course it didn't, and I knew my mom would be pissed because I had senior photos to take once I got home. Well, while I was in California, my brother and his friends decided it would be a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 41 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPJust reading this makes me want to shower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 20 | Sisters, reminder to be extremely careful about whomever you're exposing your vulnerabilities to. This leaves me speechless.The FUCK does consensual murder mean?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 10 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???I'll never date a man addicted to video games ever again. If a man even owns more than three, I'm out. I cannot watch another moment of a guy playing video games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 8 | Dude is embarrassed because his wife carried his child 🙄I honestly didn't read past "engaged for 11 years", what the sweet fuq. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 150 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.Cuz they don't want to have to admit out loud that they pressure women into having sex without condoms. They're afraid they might actually be positive for something and, lord forbid, there might be some consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:31 PM |
| 25 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?Yes! I told a guy once I wouldn't be his sugar baby and then he asked if we could just hook up. I'm like.... If I wasn't gonna have sex with you for money what makes you think doing it for free is a yes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.This definitely opened my eyes to some behavior in my past that I have regretted because it made me look like the abusive or crazy one, and nobody ever believes that you've been pushed to act that way. This revelation has allowed me to look back on those actions and understand that, while they were still my own, I was pushed to react that way and can control my situations better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | TW: incest/child abuse FaNtAsY. Pedos are everywhere. I’ve only been on reddit for like 5 minutes this morning and this is already the third thing I’ve seen about a pedo being open about their depravity. I’m sick of it. Can I just have off this planet already, please?Why not take your sons out to a rock to be left for the white walkers to claim, eh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 363 | Male shouldn't be the *standard* of successful careers.I do something similar; instead of saying "he, or she" with that extra patronizing tone placed on "or she!", I flip it around and give that condescending sound to the "or he," bit. People's faces as they make the connection to how demeaning it sounds, I truly enjoy it. "when the doctor comes in, she - or he! - will help answer your questions" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 13 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasOh because they know that if we started holding them to even a fraction of the ridiculous double standards they hold us to, none of them would survive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 34 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasI always fondly (/s) remember an old high school boyfriend who asked me to shave my arms (not my arm PITS, my arms) and when I said I would if he shaved his legs, he dropped that argument right away. Fuck those boys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you find it pedophilic when men want their partner to be shaved everywhere ?YES and the second you point it out to them they get all defensive and it's a huuuuge red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 48 | DAE think that the ratio of attractive women to attractive men is truly insane?It's because men aren't brainwashed into believing that their looks are the only things that matter. Women are socialized to have good hygiene and skin care, while men have been socialized to think that any kind of effort put into your looks makes you gay. This isn't just about genetics either. Some women don't even smile authentically because they're worried about the wrinkles they'll have later, and men can't even drink water without bitching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | If you haven't checked out the show "The Great", you should. Catherine was such a badass woman.I loved this show, she had such sassy responses and she was such a strong character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 19 | No words.Ugh the emotional drain from just reading that ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m quitting birth control.I took birth control from 17 to 25, I almost died from a blood clot in my leg from hip to ankle they believe to have been at least partially caused by my taking the same birth control for so long. It's been almost two years without it now and I'm still learning about how my body naturally functions. I experienced ovulation cramps for the first time last month, and l am still trying to track and learn about my emotional and mental fluctuations around my period as well. It's been a process, and I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 48 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?One day I was thinking about what I saw my future to be like and as I was picturing it, something stood out to me. There was not a man in any of my plans or dreams. Never once did it cross my mind like oh it would be so nice to have a man for this or that. In fact, when I try to picture a man with me, my dreams are not as bright. I truly do not believe it is worth the time, effort or stress. Maybe one day a man will prove me wrong but I doubt it and I won't be holding my breath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 23 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?Not a movie, but if a guy has watched Breaking Bad and he says he doesn't like Skyler White (the wife), I'm stuffing breadsticks in my purse and thinking of an excuse to leave. That show was so huge for a while it was really the easiest way to tell if a dude was misogynistic right off the bat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:21 PM |
| -6 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.I just think your answer is in there 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:04 PM |
| -6 | Tell me it will do no good to hit "send". More info in comments.Read the Handbook sweetie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why Gamers are LVMThanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Why Gamers are LVMWow. I've dated a whole slew of guys who are absolutely addicted to video games and of course I could never put my finger on it exactly and why it annoyed me so much.. I always thought it was because I wasn't raised on video games that I just didn't understand the appeal, other than not knowing how to play. I thought I just didn't get into it young enough, but it's clear now that those who did get into it young have just had a longer time to be addicted. I've definitely been that pickmesha that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 2 | I got desperate during covid and ignored the FDS rules, and now I'm seeing the loser in him and want to break up with him but don't know how to do it nicelyNicely? Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | What is my ex trying to tell me here?It's like.... When you decide to watch your favorite childhood movie when you get really sick and have to stay on the couch all day. It's comforting and familiar and you know how it'll end. Same here. He's stuck at home, alone, can't be bothered to put in the effort to start something new so he's going back to what's comfy and familiar. Don't let him. Don't even respond, just block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Do we block and move on? Something about the word “dominant” gives me the chills, and not the good kind.Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Males will deny sexism exists..until they have their own problems and then they come crying to feminists asking us how we will solve their issuesThis exactly!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Are there any older women here who are happily single?What the question really is, is are you willing to put yourself in a box, cut yourself down, make yourself smaller and quieter forever, for a man who has never even considered what changing himself might be like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Another woman (and everyone who agrees with her) gets torched for being a big ole meanie to her shitty ex-husbandGee, it's almost like there isn't a McDonald's at every mile marker in this country, and it seems like he almost killed himself out of a petty, spiteful tantrum. Gosh, what a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 10 | I'm too petty to receive dick pics.Yeeeeeassssssssssssssss let's do this to any man who sends unsolicited dick pics. Not something you would send your mom? Gee, should have thought of that before you sent it to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 28 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏My real awakening was when I was 17 I went to California to stay with some family friends. While I was there, my friends dyed my blonde hair purple and red, just mere weeks before senior photos. Back home, my brother (14 att) and his friends all got shit faced in the basement of our home. They were all blackout, upwards of 10 shots each of vodka and tequila EACH, one boy had alcohol poisoning and had to be taken away in an ambulance. My father was prepping himself to spend a night in jail becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:35 PM |
| 128 | Sexonlyzoned thanks to LVM scrotes!!!Fuckzoned! I've been complaining about this since high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:12 AM |
| 33 | 💯 truthI shoulda just dumped my bucket on their head 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 85 | 💯 truthI was catcalled once, dragging my ass into the ER in sweats with a bucket full of vomit clutched in my arms. I knew then, that it wasn't about what I looked like, only that I was a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:27 AM |
| 27 | "She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink" - Women are fed up from having to "nag" men to do the bare minimum. She shouldn't have to tell you something needs to be done. You're an adult - Just do it!This whole story is actually kind of uplifting because it's about a man who married a woman, had kids with her and she leveled up and left his ass when she realized she was speaking to a brick wall . He was depressed he was useless and then he gets hit with the reality. It's sad, of course, because he's only one dude when there are millions who could use to see the light the way this man did, but he comes to the correct conclusion. It's also sad because, like, it's such an obvious logical conclu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Male manager trying to neg me?Neg him back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 28 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...Maybe he's just paranoid, he needs to stop thinking about it so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:15 AM |
| 7 | Can't afford glasses but can afford a new carHow do you even rationalize having this argument? Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:14 AM |
| 36 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...He should just accept that guys will never see him as anything but short! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 115 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...He shouldn't go to bars if he doesn't want the bigger guys to mess with him, he's totally asking for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:31 AM |
| 10 | To all the pickmes browsing this subDuring my pickmeisha days, I just wanted to feel loved, deeply unconditionally loved. I spent all my time and energy trying to give unconditional love hoping I might eventually get some back. Even specifically looking for guys who already loved someone like me, hoping that they would just like... Fall into it easily. It wasn't until after several failed, dead end relationships, a million of what seemed to be the same argument, and continually giving away love I never got back, I finally realized… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 20 | What do you think about the two women in this situation?I feel like the wife is the only one to be pitied here, she clearly doesn't have enough self respect to leave a man who obviously doesn't care about her. She's also still trying to influence this man and make him feel bad about something he probably does all the time, and she will never ever win this argument. Men do what they do and it's disgusting and you either have to take advantage of their idiocy or ignore them. This poor woman is still trying to convince herself that she can change this m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 19 | Does anyone else have immense frustration towards how rotten this generation is?I really think it's because women of this generation were the first to kind of be taught "Girl Power" when we were young, but the boys have been raised exactly like their fathers and grandfather's before them. There's a huge dissonance between the sexes and what they have been raised to expect from the other, and men think they can bully us back into those older mindsets instead of, idk, embracing change and bettering themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 03:39 PM |
| 11 | Couple I’ve known since HS. Together 11 yrs and SHE had to propose, after yrs of bringing up marriage. She’s also in a PhD program at an Ivy League — she can do way betterGive her a few years, she'll be leaving him behind eating her dust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:55 PM |
| 13 | Ever notice the reasons men have as to why they hate women, are because of other men?They're stubbornly stupid, they've never been taught critical thinking or empathy. Until we turn the tables they will never understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:22 PM |
| 18 | Just desserts 🧁🍨🍮This asshole used to stand in front of the admin building at the University of Arizona and yell obscenities and things at people walking past. I once threatened him myself for yelling I deserved to be raped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:58 PM |
| 5 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄It's so frustrating when people think this shit is funny or cute. At best, this boy is a total dipshit, at worst, it's planned helplessness so that he's not asked to do things like this again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 11:57 PM |
| 6 | ROOOOTFLMAO. 🤣 Sure men can Sis, but they won’t, because, ya know, they don’t give a fuck how it effects women and the status quo benefits them too much. LibFems really think men act out of ignorance instead of deliberate self interest. 🤡 Don’t Stop Believin’ Sis, it’s Cute 💅I think most feminists are afraid to say they hate men because they ultimately still want to be with a man, an idealized man who doesn't exist, sure. I think feminists need to start saying we hate men, we need to admit that in order for men to change they need some pressure, really, from other men. We have to say they all suck we have to say we hate how they are in order for them to do anything. Feminists are afraid to admit that men aren't going to change because women have started putting thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:52 PM |
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