No words.

2020-09-05T14:02:15+00:00

Shit like this scares the bajeesus out of me. I'm so socially clueless and have so many deeply ingrained pickme tendencies (that I am working to destroy). I am so afraid I will wake up in this situation.

I hope she gets out and that man goes to hell.

seraphinelysion · 2020-09-05T14:11:07+00:00

Why do all of these stories end with "I don't know what to do." Girl, you know exactly what you have to do. He has shown you who he really is, and it is tearing you down bit by bit. Is that what you want? Is this all you're going to let your life be? Constantly struggling with trying to get him to understand your feelings? It isn't going to happen. There are no magic words you can say or any secret combination of actions you can perform that will get him to listen and/or understand you. You can't convince someone who is already committed to misunderstanding you. You have to make the hard decision: Is this what YOU want? Yes or no. Simple as that.

CoriVanilla · 2020-09-05T14:45:58+00:00

Ugh the emotional drain from just reading that ugh

2020-09-05T14:52:38+00:00

He is abusing her. I feel terrible for her. It’s better to be in a shelter than to live like that

2020-09-05T14:59:02+00:00

Don't get married

need-to-irl-level-up · 2020-09-05T17:10:26+00:00

THROW THE WHOLE MAN AWAY SIS

OrchidLion · 2020-09-05T18:54:02+00:00

How exhausted is she waiting to get before she leaves him?

I swear to god im so sick of how women have been taught to tolerate and tolerate and tolerate. They will only leave a man when he has crossed the final line and theres no recovering from the damage. That's how women learn that they shouldve left earlier, and thats when their boundaries go up.

Women go through so much abuse before learning their worth (unless taught well by their parents), meanwhile males are taught self entitlement and self preservation from the start. Males would walk at the first SIGN of disrespect.

TerryTerrorCO · 2020-09-06T00:58:00+00:00

Fucken hell, this all reminds me of the time I broke my arm one time and it was in a cast for many months. I struggled to do a lot of things with only one arm, and even shortly after that I had another accident and I was in crutches for a few weeks... lest to say my dad still expected me to do shit around the house. Fucking unbelievable.

chatrebelle · 2020-09-05T14:36:46+00:00

I don't know what to do?? Leave him jesus christ sometimes I have zero patience for pick me like this.

myousername · 2020-09-06T15:04:47+00:00

She has correctly identified that he enjoys hurting her. Sis, leave!!

Title	No words.
Author	RedRetrograde
Upvotes	76
Comments	21
Date	September 5, 2020 1:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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