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| 56 | NYT Journalist Nicholas Kristof, whose article exposed Pornhub and instigated the unverified video Purge, has set his sights on Reddit. Reddit ALSO hosts underage rape videos, involuntary porn, pedophilic content, and extreme sexualized violence with zero verification.God forbid sex be consensual and between adults. Edit: not shaming girls who, for whatever reason (usually peer pressure, though), had underage sex. But the fact we have to have someone policing the existence of underage imagery online this day and age is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m feeling lonely and decided to meet some old friends! But that also entails being in the presence of my useless ex. How do I best proceed?I guess “don’t give a shit about him” says it all. Thank you! | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 01:11 AM |
| 13 | Yep... Pigtails mean you are a slut and how dare she wear her hair like that outside the house...Funny how you rarely see 30 year olds wearing pigtails…shouldn’t it be the norm, if it was a sexualized hairstyle? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 16 | Ghosts returningHe ghosted you, and is trying to deflect blame. Don’t entertain this guy any further. | /r/askFDS | 14/11/20 10:42 AM |
| 48 | No more playing their mommy, therapist or bangmaid. Drop that manchild!He won’t change for the person he loves the most (himself), let alone for someone he doesn’t care that much for, like a woman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:11 PM |
| 13 | Men using women on Tinder for emotional therapy. Comments are from another man doing the same thing. Women are not service animals, go and seek help!Why doesn’t he go find a random male to throw his problems at? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 210 | I felt this in my soul.Because women don’t need men, but men are nothing without female companionship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if this belongs here. This is so disgusting!I’d say “they’re all yours,” except Asian women don’t deserve their unwashed asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Please don't shrink yourself to make (men) comfortable.Amen, sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:23 AM |
| 28 | Check on a Pick Me Friend TodayWomen are plenty attractive far older than 30+. Men insist on going for women up to 25 for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 16 | FDS turned me gayDamn, I am so envious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:01 PM |
| 15 | Kill the patriarchyI need to learn how to smile less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:00 PM |
| 2 | This is straight up misogyny disguised as "music" 🤮🤦🏻♀️ it's sad that girls and women are using this sound on TikTokIf anything, being in a video like that would make her value go down… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:58 AM |
| 16 | Yikes...Did you misspell 21? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:38 AM |
| 10 | No.Barb the builder never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:40 AM |
| 379 | I Tried Femdom And It Was Nowhere Near As "Empowering" As The BDSM Community Would Have You BelieveFemale domination is extremely emotionally laborious and men still get pushy/coercive if you aren’t in the mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 20 | If one were to enter a LVM's brain this is what they would find (alongside porn):Women hate men for the things they do. Men hate women for the things we don’t do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 14 | "The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don't have any."Reminds me of the scrote who DMed me to tell me men don’t hit the wall because the wall for men is about preserving resources. Last I know this ain’t 75 000 bC… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 15 | Maturely handling accusations of "not being able to find a man."That’s not to mention our sisters of color who have to deal with losers who make them think they’re “lucky” to have a guy fall in “love” with them 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:08 AM |
| 12 | experience with grooming from a male therapistSome people should lose their license for existing. Dear lord. | /r/askFDS | 19/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 8 | Objectified As WomanGirl get into therapy. CBT is great! As for the nosy asshole, ignore him. | /r/askFDS | 19/10/20 10:04 AM |
| 141 | Never settle for less than you’re worth.Because she spent time, money, and space on something that only makes her happy. And her happiness isn’t enough of a prize for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Don't EVER move abroad for a man.Fair enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 21 | Maturely handling accusations of "not being able to find a man."I hate using these terms, but the lower you are or believe you are on the dating totem pole, the harder you have to vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Don't EVER move abroad for a man.What if it’s a big upgrade for me? I’m not dying to move out of my country, just asking. Edit: in asking this question, I’ve realized I’ve learned to love my country so much I’m not crazy about moving out. It might be a poor country, but it’s my country! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 09:44 AM |
| 30 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄Notice the careful use of passive voice: the violence is committed against men. Because if he used active voice, he’d have to admit it’s other men doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 135 | What pickmes and LVM don't get...Exactly. There are arguments about health, but even those are actually about fuckability. Since saying “I don’t find fat woman fuckable” makes you sound like an asshole, guys pretend it’s about health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 33 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡As if any 25 year old wants them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 143 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡Decades of favoring male children and aborting female children means the ratio of men:women is skewed towards men. This isn’t all that fun to said men, who’d have guessed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Setting you up to prove yourselfI am the one who knocks table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Reminder to pay attention to wordsWhen an HVM is into a woman, he’d do anything for her with love and passion, and isn’t afraid of saying so! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:19 PM |
| 9 | "You get what you tolerate" - Evy Poumpouras, Former Secret Service Agent on Standing up for YourselfI’ve been doing my best to stand up more for those I believe are being wronged, but there’s only so much I can do…standing up for yourself is still the most efficient way to put most abuse to a halt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:14 PM |
| 43 | There's this new Tiktok trend of singing this song to your girlfriend 'Why Beer is better than Women' and watching her reaction, and it's not just the kids doing it. Disgusting, once you hear the lyrics..Seriously. Thank y’all sisters for teaching me not to help these kinda guys get laid using my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:00 PM |
| 61 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..There’s being thrifty and there’s being cheap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 60 | No, thanks 😒How about no rounds at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:55 AM |
| 210 | I called a girl friend stupid b*tch and we are no longer friendsCan’t help she who doesn’t want to be helped. Having a vagina doesn’t automatically get you into the sisterhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Someone got butthurt after going through my posting historyHis poor GF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 44 | NVM always think that you bring single is somehow a sign of your “lack” of worthHow awful you are for being the parent who stayed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 37 | NVM always think that you bring single is somehow a sign of your “lack” of worthI’m single because I love myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:51 AM |
| 6 | I haven’t used OLD in forever, and this was literally my first experience. “I’m an empath so I feel things more than you” is a massive red flag. What I hear is “I can be as insensitive to you as I please, but don’t you DARE have feelings around me because only my feefees are important”.Amen sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:29 AM |
| 6 | I've been objectifying myself my whole lifeBut he’ll still obsess over you, because men be ze logical gender. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:48 AM |
| 41 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+304 subscribers today; 140% trend score)Women are getting sick of men BS :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:30 AM |
| 10 | Was anyone else here raised by a Pickmeisha mother? (Trigger warning)You go sis! I’m also getting a degree, at 31! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t like to be held accountable for their actions. And then when they are called out for it, they try and separate themselves as “men” and “boys”. It needs to stop.The same society that thinks humiliating women in the name of muh sex positivity also thinks it’s okay to feed that crap to fucking children who aren’t even old enough to be in school yet. It’s a fucked up society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:41 PM |
| 32 | We should be wooed and we’re not made to woo-ShakespeareYounger guys? No. Much younger? Yes. It’s predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t like to be held accountable for their actions. And then when they are called out for it, they try and separate themselves as “men” and “boys”. It needs to stop.Trust me, I used to volunteer with addicts. I know exactly how manipulative and shitty they can be. Yes men are usually worse (I’ve never been punched by a dopesick woman). Also, you don’t treat an addict by giving them love and chances, you treat an addict by allowing them to hit the rock bottom. That often means making the hardest decision a loved one has to make: leaving. Trust me, my empathy is well guarded. Still, there’s something very wrong with a society that provides porn to a 6 year ol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Don't be afraid to use your voice.Seriously, if you try to play two notes on the same volume, one higher in pitcher and one lower, the human ear will hear the higher pitched one much more clearly. Women have higher pitched voices than men. You can do the math. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, don’t let this be you. If your name is not on the deed of a property, you have very few, if any, rights to it if things go wrong. The woman in the comment is unknowingly sinking money into a house that her boyfriend owns.That’s why I say everyone should take a few classes in contract law. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 24 | Concerned about my boyfriend lack of social media presence.I don’t think lack of social media presence is a red flag in and of itself. I don’t like social media either. If he was on social media and refused to show you it would be something to be alarmed by, but he might just have his reasons not to like social media. | /r/askFDS | 17/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 48 | I made a mistakeYou weren’t expecting the depravity! Sometimes our brains just don’t work right! Like, I wanted to hear a store employee and instead of taking off my phones I took off my mask. I don’t know why I did that. Brain just stopped working! Anyway, it’s not your fault. I’m sorry you went through that, that was horrible of him! | /r/askFDS | 17/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 19 | Just stumbled across this sub while looking for anti porn subs. It legit made me cry. Why is this legal. I geniuenly hate men and those pickmeshas who agree to film this.Explain to me again how porn is about sex positivity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.I live in a tropical place anyway, I’m warm enough already! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 69 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Men want mutually contradictory things. They want you to make money to split bills 50/50, but also not make money so they don’t feel intimidated; They want you to ask them out, but they also think less of women who chase men; They want you to want to have sex with them, but they want you to remain pure and virginal; They want you to cOmMuNiCaTe but saying what you want breaks the mood; And so on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Been wondering for some time; how many neurodivergent women are here?I’m on the autism spectrum. I struggle reading body language and find it hard to pick up some obvious red flags sometimes :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 5 | ladies, it's our job to teach these men because they can't be bothered to you know, learn about our bodies or ask us what we like. do the work like always or don't complain!!Maybe stop trying to reenact porn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:19 AM |
| 28 | Saw this Q on relationship advice, and this was some of the "advice"Let girls be girls. Let us vet brutally. Let us find the best among all partners. Girls will be girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:16 AM |
| 63 | They’re Allllllmost There. Almost.As a former kinkmeisha (FDS showed me that men who are into kink are shit), why did I ever put up with that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:55 AM |
| 97 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Why is it up always to us to communicate, why can’t we expect some common sense every once in a while? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:52 AM |
| 255 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Men are shit in bed because they watch too much porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:51 AM |
| 6 | LVM with degree is upset than his girlfriend makes more than him as a WaitressMake more money so life is comfortable, but also make less money so his feefees aren’t hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:39 AM |
| 13 | Thanks for the inspiration 🥳Good job sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:31 AM |
| 26 | Don't be afraid to use your voice.Acute sounds prevail over deeper ones. They don’t want to register. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:00 AM |
| 3 | LVM really be going out of their way to neg women just posting about their new hairThere’s 7 billion people in the world and not one of them asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:59 AM |
| 29 | Men don’t like to be held accountable for their actions. And then when they are called out for it, they try and separate themselves as “men” and “boys”. It needs to stop.You’re right. I was reading /r/pornfree and I nearly started crying because some of the users were addicted since they were 6. This is child abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:51 AM |
| 24 | This gem straight from Pickme hellIt’s almost like everyone who’s 30+ has been 20 one day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:09 AM |
| 5 | This is why I don’t like male teachers ...Hear that? That’s the sound of a thousand knees slamming shut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Discussing feminism with men who don't want to understand is a total waste of timeSou! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:21 PM |
| 24 | Discussing feminism with men who don't want to understand is a total waste of timeDiscussing with men is a waste of time. Discuss things with other women so they are less likely to fall prey to said men. Of course, not all women are going to be open to advice either. But the ones who do will be far more appreciative than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:18 PM |
| 10 | It's all rooted in not respecting women and misogyny. And I've started calling men out for it like it isDon’t waste your energy on men, spend your energy helping your fellow sisters not falling prey to said men ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Exactly. If he wanted to he would’ve is the biggest take from FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 27 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I want female friends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 68 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020Why did the scrote cross the road? He thought it was a boundary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 133 | Men don’t like to be held accountable for their actions. And then when they are called out for it, they try and separate themselves as “men” and “boys”. It needs to stop.Boys (children and teens) aren’t the ones fucking up, men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:31 PM |
| 9 | He hurt me but can't seem to detach myselfNC. Block and delete him. Never talk to him again. | /r/askFDS | 16/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 79 | Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life.FDS/FLS pushed me to get a degree! You girls are the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:00 PM |
| 9 | I'm sure most of the LVM didn't understand the heavy sarcasm. WoMEn ArEn'T fUnNy. I absolutely adore her 😍.Yeah, she’s not my favorite comedian, but the hate she gets definitely comes from a place of misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 42 | My seemingly HVM boyfriend used prostitutes before he met me.Sex workers are often trafficked, coerced, or at least traumatized women who go into that area because they are in debt or they have unresolved trauma they’re dealing with in an unhealthy way. There are no excuses for Johns. | /r/askFDS | 16/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 154 | ‼️🚩 If a guy says “Don't post pics of us online. I don't like PDA” dump him immediately. 🚩‼️I want a guy who is proud to be seen with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 49 | ‼️🚩 If a guy says “Don't post pics of us online. I don't like PDA” dump him immediately. 🚩‼️Exactly my thoughts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 718 | Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie.The right men will act right to all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 88 | Recovered Pickmeishas! What was the one thing you did that helped you convert to a HVW?Not a quote but slowly realizing that being giving isn’t a good social trait. It makes people treat you with contempt. People respect more those who aren’t giving. | /r/askFDS | 16/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 10 | Am I the only one who despises this absolute nutcase?!Also people who have no drama going on in their lives don’t really have to say they hate drama, because they aren’t thinking about drama all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:59 AM |
| 29 | I'm sure most of the LVM didn't understand the heavy sarcasm. WoMEn ArEn'T fUnNy. I absolutely adore her 😍.Women are plenty funny, we just don’t make jokes about our poops. Or rape jokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 40 | r/GayBrosGoneMild is a reminder that straight men could be doing better physically but they choose not to. I mean look at all these guys who look like they drink water and moisturize.I don’t know what defines sexuality, but if I could flip a switch, I’d definitely go for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:51 AM |
| 132 | Never emotionally drain yourself for the other person in a relationship!Get emotional support off your friends, like we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:46 AM |
| 65 | When they complain about being expected to provideI really really wanted a family. I was getting exasperated because I reached ze old age of 30 without a prospective partner in sight. I’ve made peace with the fact I might not have my “perfect” family. Having a child with the average guy is borderline child abuse. I have to vet vet vet. If it comes to it and I’m unable to have children by the time I find a good partner, I’ll foster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:33 AM |
| 4 | Every time some incel sends us a message "wAhMeN r ObSoLeTe bCuZ pOrN aNd sEx DoLLz" I think about this picture and laugh. Remember ladies, YOU are the beautiful landscape! Image courtesy of r/nofapIncels think sex dolls are better than actual women? Oh no. Anyway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:12 AM |
| 14 | I'm so sick of the mediaWhy not talk to a male friend? Or a male stranger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:41 PM |
| 7 | "You should trust me."Maybe a form of gaslighting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Don't forget!Amen, sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:23 PM |
| 5 | I will never prepare a man for his forever home that isn't with me.Ouch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:14 PM |
| 23 | Reading this made me so sad and angry. Guard your womb like your life and that of your future children’s lives depend on it. Because it does.Nope nope nope A baby won’t fix a broken relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:22 PM |
| 22 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?I’m currently dating a guy who’s head over heels for me and I’m very grateful for all the positivity he brings to my life AND I make sure to let him know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:20 PM |
| 6 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?I won’t date any man who wouldn’t buy me a gift with a smile on his face. He has nothing to worry about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:19 PM |
| 39 | What’s an appropriate age gap when following FDS?My absolute maximum is ± 5 years, but I’m more comfortable with ± 3 years. The guys I’ve dated since knowing FDS have all been ± 1 year with the exception of one. I’m only dating one guy right now and he’s 2 months older than me. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 28 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.I love sex. Intimate, passionate sex with someone I love. Porn is the antithesis of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 31 | Yeah, how dumb of you to give up the privilege of having no choice other than to bear children and be maid, who can easily be discarded for a "newer model". It is mind-blowing how men think of the position women were once in. They literally see no problem with and think we had a easy job.Probably thinks SAHMs don’t work. To the garbage he goes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:36 PM |
| 82 | "Man" Thinks Women Need Male Attention 24/7. Pass the Bleach, Ladies.Projection. Men need female company, so they assume women must need male company as much as they do. Nope, sorry bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:32 PM |
| 64 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?Yeah, most men shouldn’t mate. At all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 79 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?“Maybe if you weren’t a shithead you’d be the person to talk about these things” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 84 | Why you should never be alone with a man until you’ve vetted“You’re now alone with a murderer” fuck, that gave me shivers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Anyone see that Finland is criminalizing unsolicited nudes?Should fall under sexual harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:38 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, I need advice on how to deal with a nuisance NVM that I have to interact with.He likes you because you don’t give him the time of the day. Of course, we aren’t gonna recommend that you give him any attention. Is there anyone you can escalate this to? | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Why are we ALLOWED to sleep with anyone we want? How dare we have requirements when we invest in a partner?LVM logic. He was probably projecting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 23 | I found my boyfriend on Tinder 3 months ago Idk what to do :(A backup in case you ever leave him? Really? He wanted to cheat. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 12:11 PM |
| 12 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!Yeap. You don’t need to be enamored to be courteous. This guy is shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:42 AM |
| 83 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.I dislike porn because I’m sex positive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:28 AM |
| 6 | Can you achieve true love while still having low self esteem about one’s appearance?I don’t like everything about my appearance either. I have, however, accepted that it’s who I am. I think this sense of acceptance comes from self love. | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 11:19 AM |
| 25 | Religions?I have a Saudi friend…the stuff she puts up with with a smile breaks my heart :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are we ALLOWED to sleep with anyone we want? How dare we have requirements when we invest in a partner?You’re allowed to date, sweetie, I’m just not required to be attracted to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:53 AM |
| 45 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingTbh, I’ve seen people (usually scrotes, but sometimes pick mes too) try to argue that sex workers are lazy. They aren’t lazy, they’re victims of a vile industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:37 AM |
| 7 | Man Devotes Rest of Life to Misogyny After Being Broken Up With OnceAt least this one got broken up with! The other one dedicated his life to misogyny after being rejected! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Literally! They only say it so they don’t have to put in effort- this is coming from someone who used to think men saying this was a compliment !God, my ex used that all the time. One thing we agree with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!Bet he still enjoyed making her play his mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:59 AM |
| 24 | Mashable decides to celebrate International Female Orgasm Day by dedicating a whole week to porn. Because what better way to celebrate female orgasms than focusing on an industry KNOWN for women faking it.They can’t be serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:58 AM |
| 7 | How to deal with this guy I turned down at the gym?1: he’ll definitely play the Schrödinger’s douchebag (it’s both a joke and not a joke, you only know upon reaction), stay firm on your boundaries! | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 09:48 AM |
| 22 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.You sisters have been keeping me company this lonely pandemic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:46 AM |
| 4 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsNope! I asked my mom for name ideas and she could only come with guys names! Just because it’s mildly phallic doesn’t mean it’s a guy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:24 AM |
| 6 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsIsso aí irmã ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 9 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsYeap, Portuguese! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:39 AM |
| 31 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsI’ve already broken up with my ex! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:21 AM |
| 11 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsI’ve just joined the gym too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 5 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsThis one is at least rewarding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 11 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsDefinitely true 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 15 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsMore girth than my ex 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 22 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my efforts“Tão linda, forte e corajosa” “So beautiful, strong, and courageous” 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 15 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsI don’t know, it would probably be a little bit painful hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 57 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsOne who doesn’t appreciate me, for one who does! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 08:30 PM |
| 18 | Remember that the right relationship should operate within your boundaries and the right partner will understand and respect your boundaries.Remember: give too much, you earn contempt. Make them earn what you give, you earn respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:06 PM |
| 6 | Don’t respondAmen sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:04 PM |
| 4 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Totally saving this, thanks for teaching me a thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:07 PM |
| 41 | LVM hate to be treated the same way they treat women.Except I’m no rabbit, I’ve been the wolf all this time ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:58 AM |
| 9 | "I won't treat you the way your abusive ex treated you, infact I'll treat you worse!".I’m not like the other girls…because each girl is unique. We are, however, a sisterhood, and I’m not gonna put my sisters down. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:29 PM |
| 24 | Everyone ages like wine, but sometimes, wine becomes vinegar.I’ve hit the wall. It doesn’t mean I’m ugly, on the contrary, I have more men interested in me than I know what to do with. I’ve hit the emotional wall in that I put my needs first. I’m in control of my emotions. I value my boundaries. That’s the wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 25 | A (male) professor admitted he never had any intention of learning his wife's first tongueI even started to learn Irish because of my ex and it was clear he had no intention of ever learning my language. Full on barb the builder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:25 PM |
| 24 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Also you can’t just flip a switch and stop liking what you like. Trust me, if I could, I’d opt out of men at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 28 | I love how she remains unbotheredI don’t like the idea of public proposals, period. Makes it seem like he’s trying to peer pressure me into agreeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Men arent2 logical.You articulated this so well I saved this comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:35 PM |
| 33 | If they didn't do it for themselves, they're not going to do it for you.Yeap, I’ve taken on a fixer upper too. Most of us have. That’s why we are here. Welcome to the team! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | I really hope every female on this planet discover this community soon. I wish my aunt found this community ..I don’t know if you’re religious, but I’m praying for her. Hopefully all is well. Sending all the good energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:15 PM |
| 11 | I'm so tired of being aloneYou don’t need men not to be lonely. You need yourself and the company of your (chosen) sisters. Men are kind of a plus, if you can find a decent one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:02 PM |
| 20 | More neuroscience: What porn and video gaming do to the brainYeah…I like gaming, but it’s a hobby among several. Men make it their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 3 | I love you all💖This sub can be almost overwhelmingly supportive sometimes. I’m not used to getting this much support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 37 | Pickmeshas be likeI’ve been there. FDS made me see that men who are into kink are shit. But that shit…stems from somewhere. I wonder what caused it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:33 AM |
| 15 | Who told old men young women want them?I believe there’s 1% of the men with good genetics and who take good care who get better as they age. Not the case for most, definitely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 70 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.Exactly. They want the girl of their dreams to ask them out. But this is paradoxal, because she stops being the girl of their dreams the moment she asks them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 13 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)I wouldn’t take him back in a million years! 3 months without having to deal with his emotional issues and I’ve been able to do more than I have for the past 2 years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 11 | Was just forced to deal with a LVM for all of 5 minutes and it was 5 minutes too manyThat makes sense. LVM will LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:33 AM |
| 97 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!I don’t care that it’s unfair. My pleasure matters. That’s all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:18 AM |
| 138 | If he’s still blaming women for his behavior, he is NOT a HVM. A HVM is not “the right man for the right one”, he’s the right man 100% of the time and does not exploit Pickmeishas just because he can.If he’s a sweetheart to you and an asshole to others, he’s not an HVM, he’s the good ol’ “nice guy” we all know and hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:18 AM |
| 14 | 🚨 🚨 HVM meet to become more HV (only in Ireland, for now. Hope this idea spreads!) 🚨 🚨My ex is Irish. Don’t think he’d have the cojones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:15 AM |
| 125 | Men lose a HVW and spend their whole life trying to replace her, while remaining the same LVM.Men want something impossible. They want a woman to chase them, but they lose respect as soon as the woman chases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:49 AM |
| 22 | Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!)My ex hasn’t fully gotten over his ex who died. It was a truly tragic story. But doesn’t change the fact I saved him from going deeper into a spiral of depression and he still ditched me when I was depressed myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 110 | Was just forced to deal with a LVM for all of 5 minutes and it was 5 minutes too manyHe’s angry because you took a man with you. You, a woman, should have gone alone so he could have bullied you into buying it. That’s how their minds work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Let me tell you something, we don’t care.FDS: women actually going their own ways. Men freaking out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Let me tell you something, we don’t care.That’s why I always say the decline button is your biggest friend. They want attention, they don’t care if good or bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 7 | The truth of the crazy ex girlfriend trope. Funny how the crazy ex boyfriend trope just never gets popular. (And I should know this because I did have a crazy ex boyfriend.)Hey, here’s a ghost hug. You can’t physically feel it, but it’s there ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:02 PM |
| 8 | The truth of the crazy ex girlfriend trope. Funny how the crazy ex boyfriend trope just never gets popular. (And I should know this because I did have a crazy ex boyfriend.)Damn women, if your man said he’ll fix the gate, he’ll fix the gate, no need to remind him every six months! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 36 | Sounds like someone I used to love 🤔I made a post a few days ago of a guy who hated porn because it put him in the position of craving a woman but watching another guy fucking her and how “degrading” it is for him. He said he doesn’t care how degrading sex work is for women. Not liking porn means nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 21 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treeYou see…a prank is something both parties should be laughing at at the end. How did he expect you to laugh at this again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Why do men always try to turn the conversation into something sexual? I(28F) got matched with this guy(35M) on Bumble yesterday and this happened.I dated a 31 year old as a 19 year old too 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:53 PM |
| 7 | How dare women enjoy thingsYou’re the opposite of the monkey’s paw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 5 | NGL some of yalls really don’t support womenWe realize we can’t help she who doesn’t want to be helped. Trust me, my dream would be to help all women. Works about as well as when I tried to help all the men. I can empathize with them but they are not beyond criticism, and most of the time out of reach for our help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 8 | What do you look for in a girl? "Personality" 🙄He’s into your looks, but doesn’t want to seem “shallow.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:31 PM |
| 18 | How dare women enjoy thingsCan I go back and undate all of my exes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do men always try to turn the conversation into something sexual? I(28F) got matched with this guy(35M) on Bumble yesterday and this happened.I’m 31 as well and willing to go ± 5 years as the absolute maximum, but I feel much more comfortable ± 3 years. All my dates this year have been within 1 year (except one) of my age which I prefer. I had never valued age closeness as much before, but I definitely do now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:50 PM |
| 3 | You aren't being 'loved' in secret, you're just being used. Don't let something intangible destroy you.Congratulations for learning the FDS way at such a young age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 7 | He looks like this and has the audacity to even go near a woman. 🤢🤮🤮He’s gross inside and out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Another reason to ditch OLD: Tinder refuses to remove literal rapists from their app, high percentage of female users sexually assaultedMen: surprised pikachu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:13 PM |
| 4 | Another reason to ditch OLD: Tinder refuses to remove literal rapists from their app, high percentage of female users sexually assaultedThe only place I actually feel safe is here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:12 PM |
| 163 | Stop Talking To Men Who Flirt With YouThis goes to male DMs too, the only argument they understand is the decline button. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:10 PM |
| 20 | "Why men don't want a high maintenance Women"... Pickmeisha want you to Lower your standards as much as possible to be "Marriage material"...Sis you could do betterThey don’t want high maintenance women, they just date and marry them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 88 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.Cubic zirconias tend to get cloudy with daily use. They’re a bad alternative to diamonds. I don’t like diamonds for mostly moral reasons, specially after dating an African man, but cubic zirconias are bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 31 | For those of you using social media to document your lives and have it set for public view, please be aware of the dangers you are opening yourselves up to. Ask yourself if it’s worth the risk and question your motives for sharing your life so openly at the risk of your own safety.I don’t really use any social media other than Reddit, which is mostly anonymous. And it’s not women I’m afraid of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:17 PM |
| 21 | I used to think I was petty, overreactive, and jealous...until I realized it was the anxiety LVM caused me.Exactly. They care while it’s easy, they ditch when it starts to take effort. Meanwhile I was there playing Barb the builder 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 28 | I used to think I was petty, overreactive, and jealous...until I realized it was the anxiety LVM caused me.I just knew he left you because of the depression. Even my seemingly very sweet ex did it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 29 | Translation: You are Extremely Smart, but you are So Lacking in Common Sense! 🤡🥴It’s like “shallow.” Literally meaningless as an insult, all it means is that you have high standards for looks/finances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:25 PM |
| 31 | I used to think I was petty, overreactive, and jealous...until I realized it was the anxiety LVM caused me.Nice of him to end things with you right when you’re going through depression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 35 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toAccording to themselves, men are so inferior to women they can’t even act for themselves. They’re the real misandrists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 75 | I used to think I was petty, overreactive, and jealous...until I realized it was the anxiety LVM caused me.My ex broke up with me because I was too unmotivated. Not even 3 months later I’ve got my life lined up. I guess dealing with his ass was demotivating enough. I have a natural tendency towards anxiety, but he certainly made it much worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 40 | “Isn’t a date all about communication” —> proceeds to take you to a field 🤡The legacy he doesn’t have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:17 PM |
| 18 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?You can’t reeeeee someone into liking you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:11 PM |
| 23 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toI live in a tropical place, I be trying to cool myself at night hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 19 | Thank god this girl realizes he wants a new mommy. Stay strong girl or you’ll be participating in #kickhimout2020My parents taught me nothing chores wise. Trial and error. It’s not hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 12 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toThey think we are these bitter hags, rather than the smart, funny, and interesting women we are. There are many men interested in us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 17 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toI feel more alive than ever, and it’s right in the middle of a global pandemic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:43 PM |
| 12 | Dipped into the DOT sub...Been a while, it is still hilarious. Guy friend rightly concerned that his female friend is talking to a taken dude since his FB showed 'in a relationahip with'...but nah, OP is a stalker and WHaT iF He Is PolY or FOrgOT to UpDaTE hIS staTUs!I’d probably end up outing myself on day one lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 62 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toFDS pushed me to pursue a degree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)That was satisfying to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 55 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toExactly, I’m against manipulation of all kinds. I encourage my sisters to be as high maintenance as they wish. Want exotic vacations and gold jewelry every weekend? Great sis! But be upfront about it. Manipulation is LVM/LVW behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 9 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toLove the username hahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:38 PM |
| 64 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toLikewise, I want to get married and have kids. If a man doesn’t, he’s not for me. I don’t think not wanting marriage and kids is a character flaw, it’s just not for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 24 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toBut these uninterested men still benefit from being with a woman, that’s why we are the devil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 22 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toOh no. Anyway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 39 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toSometimes the things they want are mutually incompatible. They want you to have a good career so money isn’t an issue, but they don’t want you to have a good career so it won’t hurt his feefees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:17 PM |
| 29 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toPutting-back artistry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:14 PM |
| 57 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toI always read it as peepee debate and giggle to myself. I’m the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:55 PM |
| 21 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toYeap. The truth is that no one really wants a pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 12 | Does anyone notice this happens to them a lot?Ugly men are rejected much more often. They’re angry at women as a whole for it. They take this aggressive stance as a way to punish you for what other women have done to him, because in his mind he is entitled to your affection. Attractive men also feel this entitlement, but are less bitter towards women because they experience less rejection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 5 | I felt my brain cells vanish after reading thisBritney’s situation breaks my heart. I’ll never get over how much I myself laughed at her having a breakdown back in the late aughts. Everyone was shitty at her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:40 PM |
| 18 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toPick up artist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:32 PM |
| 10 | Dipped into the DOT sub...Been a while, it is still hilarious. Guy friend rightly concerned that his female friend is talking to a taken dude since his FB showed 'in a relationahip with'...but nah, OP is a stalker and WHaT iF He Is PolY or FOrgOT to UpDaTE hIS staTUs!Amen sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:29 PM |
| 109 | Dipped into the DOT sub...Been a while, it is still hilarious. Guy friend rightly concerned that his female friend is talking to a taken dude since his FB showed 'in a relationahip with'...but nah, OP is a stalker and WHaT iF He Is PolY or FOrgOT to UpDaTE hIS staTUs!I’m amazed at the amount of BS these people are willing to put up with. You’re 30+. You should know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:14 PM |
| 5 | A coffee date is ________n’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 12 | Guys asking to come over for cuddles?Methinks they wants the sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:04 PM |
| 3 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡This is an incel who, by chance, got to have a family. He’s still an incel at heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:01 PM |
| 4 | "A garbage collector? Give him a bar of Irish Spring and marry him."If I have to work to love someone, this someone will better be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:00 AM |
| 50 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :D…I have a box, it’s just round and divided in 4. You’ve inspired my week! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 10 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?I read preparatory as predatory. Not that it makes any difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Great article on the problem with men today... emotionally distant fathers who are not teaching their sons how to be men:/ That’s the kind of story that fills me with jadedness for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 15 | LVM husband reacts to wife's rape story with anger and physical abuse. She leaves quickly and notifies him about divorce. LVM cries crocodile tears but this QUEEN is not having it!Fuck. Thank god my interactions with the police have been good so far :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 15 | Boy, Bye.I don’t mean to exclude my white sisters either! We’re all allies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Boy, Bye.Definitely not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 56 | LVM husband reacts to wife's rape story with anger and physical abuse. She leaves quickly and notifies him about divorce. LVM cries crocodile tears but this QUEEN is not having it!I’m not gonna read the post because it’s likely to upset me. Did she call the police on him, like he deserves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 16 | The Coffee Date SidestepI’m an unemployed starving artist and I wouldn’t go on a coffee date. It’s literally the laziest thing out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 47 | Boy, Bye.Being mean to an average guy 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 124 | Boy, Bye.I love how these cartoons are almost always ethnic women. We’re often told we’re only good for sex. It’s good to see us taking our place back ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 44 | Great article on the problem with men today... emotionally distant fathers who are not teaching their sons how to be menBasically why I stopped giving too much. All it got me was contempt back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 7 | Are we getting the message through?My school uniform had baggy pants for both boys and girls. Tbh I can see them pornifying that too… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:09 PM |
| 183 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)I’ve realized this before FDS, but still took me a while. If you give too much, people start having more contempt for you. If you give little, they will do anything to have whatever you give. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Have I gone too far?In a condescending PUA tone, of course. He’s no Mr Nice Guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 49 | Short Kings or Scrotes?If they were visual creatures they’d at least mop the house once a day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 12 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outIt’s paradoxical even. The moment she chases men out, she stops being Rihanna level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:56 AM |
| 2 | [Morgan Freeman voice]: But it was not, because men literally swipe right on everyoneDick is plentiful. There’s nothing special about male attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:47 AM |
| 15 | Two-Faced Losers.They don’t seem to get that most people are outwardly nice just like them. They seem to think they’re the only nice people in the world. And they suck at even that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:46 AM |
| 7 | Never leave the table on a first date!Fuck…I’m speechless. Wish I could give you a hug. Here’s a ghost hug. You can’t physically feel it, but it’s there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:39 AM |
| 40 | She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.The happy ending is, sometimes some of these women become allies. Many of us have been like her in the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:37 AM |
| 17 | I recently realized that, when assessing mental illness patterns in women, 9 times out of 10 the root cause is some shit a man did to them (molestation, rape, abuse, etc) or some shit a man failed to do FOR them (be a father, be a good husband, etc).Amen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:17 AM |
| 31 | Being called a gold diggerExactly. She doesn’t want you. You (allegedly) don’t want her. What’s the problem here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Oop!Don’t try to understand why. The only why is why are you still with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:16 AM |
| 20 | Lets pour one out for our sisters who start interactions with men by saying they have a boyfriendWhen I was younger and socially clueless, I’d try to follow on conversations with guys I wasn’t interested by making up this inexistent crush. Cue them trying to convince me this nonexistent guy was actually shit and only wanted to get in my pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:10 AM |
| 26 | *internal screaming, forever*It’s not even about being depressed or something. Depression makes doing any task a chore. They can do the things they want very well. And cleaning up isn’t one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 100 | *internal screaming, forever*Using soap is their putting on effort to impress a lady. The bar is on the rock hard core of the earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:04 PM |
| 39 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outHaven’t we all made this mistake before? All it does is boost their confidence so they can ask their dream girl out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 62 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Age of consent is the minimum age it’s not automatically rape. “Not rape” is a VERY low bar. The bar is at the rock hard core of the Earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Having high standards makes you a nice girl. Thoughts? I think it's bullshitThere are plenty of women with zero or close to zero standards. If you want one date one. No one wants a woman with no standards though. That’s why they’re angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Men insist they're not sexist for hating this upcoming movie that they haven't actually seen. In reality, if this were a similar trailer with a white male cast, they would keep their comments to themselves instead of spewing about it *pandering to diversity*.This looks so rad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 24 | 🙄🙄Why do women strive to marry? I’ll save this post and show the next pick me I find. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 9 | Thank you FDS for teaching the importance of listening to your gut feeling!Good job sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Happy Thursday date-night babes! I almost forgot, but if I can whip together an amazing meal & pick a cute movie last minute for myself, so can literally any man (not that they should). KNOW YOUR WORTH.As long as you do it, it’s what matters ❤️ I do my self dates Wednesday afternoons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:56 AM |
| 6 | Woman who doesn't realize that she's in a potentially emotionally abusive situation receives the advice that it's not okay to ghost. Why do we always have to be courteous to men, even when they blatantly violate clearly set boundaries? GHOST HIM.I’m glad we are growing out of “respect your elders.” Respect is earned regardless of when you were pushed out of a vagina. It should be earned regardless of what’s in between your legs too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:55 AM |
| 20 | It all makes sense now...Guys have terrible skin because they don’t put any effort on anything women might find nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:52 AM |
| 14 | 1. Get your own PS5 2. Never talk to meI’ll get a ps5 for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I know longer care and I finally feel free 👑Oh no. Anyway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | "hitting the wall" is real. And it does usually happen around age 25-30. But it has nothing to do with looks. It's the age at which you stop seeking validation from men. And once you hit it your desirability (to LVM) will tank. It's a beautiful thing.Feels good to leave all the scrotes in the past…poor 20 year olds though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with my sociopathic boyfriendNah, he wanted to punish me for something I forgot already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Book recs for someone who just got out of a relationship with a sociopathic LVM and who’s scared of missing him?Not a book rec, but chatting with fellow FDSers is great for LVM withdrawal! | /r/askFDS | 08/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Oh really? Then why 90% of profiles on OLD looks horrible.I advise them actually trying to date them men on dating apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Standards? Whats that?That, but the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 9 | How on earth do you let it get this farShe’s suffering from pickmitis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 10 | I don't know why our culture lets this soft pedo shit fly like it's not problematic AF. Why do so many of LibFem sexual fantasies center around abuse of power? They'll juxtapose bullshit like this next to a 10,000 word essay wondering why rape culture continues to exist.Can’t they at least pretend to be in college? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Pre-order your copy!If only they’d put half this creativity on dates… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:19 AM |
| 56 | "hitting the wall" is real. And it does usually happen around age 25-30. But it has nothing to do with looks. It's the age at which you stop seeking validation from men. And once you hit it your desirability (to LVM) will tank. It's a beautiful thing.I’ve hit the wall. Now men who want me will have to literally worship the ground I walk on. And there’s no lack of suitors. And I’ve noticed that my suitors have been getting younger. When I was 20-25 I was approached by 30-40 dusty scrotes. Now I’m approached by 27 year olds. I’m 31 by the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 60 | Can't walk my dog in peace.Best reply is no reply. Second best is “idk I don’t work here.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 53 | More than that for most of us, but still rings true!Any woman who pays less than that isn’t either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 8 | Another gem from IncelwithouthateEthnic girl here. White losers can fuck right off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:22 PM |
| 9 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:A poor man who abuses you out of frustration for being poor, because men don’t pent in their frustrations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:09 PM |
| 14 | What surprised when I had mainly male colleagues was how much they knew exactly what they were doing in dating (WAY more than me. Actually, back then I could not put into words what I was doing, it just felt or didn’t feel right). Look like this dude was one of my male colleagues 🙃If I’m ever with a guy again, he better worship the ground I walk on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Some woman must have thought at some point that this guy is safe to reproduce with. I’m equally revolted with him and saddened for his kids. If I had her contact, she’d be getting this screenshot just in case she had any doubts about moving away.The word you want is complement 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:52 PM |
| 897 | Never let them get comfortable!I would never marry a guy who isn’t as eager to marry me as I am to marry him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 31 | Please quit if you are about to start/ on this course... don’t waste years of your life.I have a defined plan. I want to get married and have kids. Any relationship at this point is just to test compatibility. I don’t want to “see where things go.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 28 | Mariah Carey on being called high maintenanceI am high maintenance and I don’t care if you think it sounds arrogant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:01 PM |
| 25 | I’ve often wondered why our detractors care about what we think so much, but this tweet sums it up nicely.If you want a pick me, date a pick me. The matter of fact is, no one wants a pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:00 PM |
| 9 | The bar is so low 🙃They put effort on anything but their relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:58 PM |
| 8 | I will NEVER get over the fact that Mariah Carey got a $70mil payout from ex-fiancé James Packer for “wasting her time” and did not have SEX with him even ONCE! And he apologized to *HER* for it! 😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌Freddy is irreplaceable, but there’s something on the way she sings that reminds me a lot of him. Probably how they sing straight from the soul. I’d love to see her fronting Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 84 | The bar is so low 🙃A Planck length (ℓP) is the smallest distance (1.616255×10 −35 m) at which our current understanding of physics makes sense. It’s also how low the bar is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | "Going with the flow" is bsI’m too old to “just see how things go.” I have specific plans and I’m seeing if you’re an adequate candidate for my plans. If not, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:18 AM |
| 9 | Broke up with my sociopathic boyfriendI had an experience with a sociopath who wanted to date another girl but expected me to still be his girlfriend and date no one else :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 59 | I hope this hasn’t already been posted😂They know that, unless they artificially make it so, most men are absolutely and utterly undesirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 14 | LVM tries to justify his disgusting insecurityIt’s always about their feelings in the end. Just admit you don’t really care about her, just about your ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 51 | I will NEVER get over the fact that Mariah Carey got a $70mil payout from ex-fiancé James Packer for “wasting her time” and did not have SEX with him even ONCE! And he apologized to *HER* for it! 😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌Reddit once insulted me for suggesting she should front Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 13 | LolIf you think my lips are naturally Coca Cola red, that’s on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:39 PM |
| 19 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexCar sex is uncomfortable. Beds exist for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:08 PM |
| 7 | Ditch the husband sisI have some assets I will work out how to make sure stay with me no matter what! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:12 PM |
| 9 | Psychologist speculates on whether the man who singlehandedly killed his pregnant wife and children was actually manipulated by his mistress because she was out of his league 🤮men will really find a way to blame women for EVERYTHINGThe mere sight of a miniskirt turns them into rapist, according to themselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Psychologist speculates on whether the man who singlehandedly killed his pregnant wife and children was actually manipulated by his mistress because she was out of his league 🤮men will really find a way to blame women for EVERYTHINGI love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:38 AM |
| 18 | Dump A Porn Scote Today/r/LoveAfterPorn breaks my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Always listen to your body.It’s the biology LVM loves to spout. Women’s bodies are designed to vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:34 AM |
| 18 | Ditch the husband sisI wanna be a SAHM one day, but you can make sure I’m making an escape plan! Fuck that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:25 AM |
| 65 | Demi Lovato broke up with her narc fiancé and is living her absolute best life while he’s ‘crying’ on Instagram🧚🏼♀️Narcs gonna narc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:23 AM |
| 23 | Every single time one of these baby videos is posted, this happens. Please protect your babies and respect their privacy.I thought it was the “don’t put your dick in that” one…still in bad taste but Reddit sucks. But that? THAT? Im feeling physically sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 4 | I don’t think Taylor really cares what you think, Stefan.Of course she looks young at 30, she is young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:56 AM |
| 39 | STDs, pregnancy, stealthing, the joys of hookupsHe knows, he doesn’t care. It’s not his body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 8 | Just another reminder that many Disney films are a breeding ground for teaching harmful stereotypes to our young women. Prince Charming is a LIE.I’ve always had an obsession with China (its culture, not the atrocious government) and I love Mulan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:52 AM |
| 3 | The Worst Disorder of Them All 🙏I wish I had done CBT before. I definitely recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Mama said.....DO NOT MARRY JUST TO GET MARRIED. Marry because you think he’s the man you want to spend your life with. Best thing my mom ever said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:15 PM |
| 50 | Ladies, if you think the average scrote is drowning in women, just remember not even the pickmes want them half the time.Dick is abundant, pussy is scarce. Keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 23 | Insulting other women is not the way to my heartI’m amazing exactly like most other girls ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 13 | Insulting other women is not the way to my heartI love the clothes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 54 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...I was trying to make a joke. They’re “almost” men levels of bad. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 45 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...There are some women out there so bad they’re almost as bad as men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Join The Real Female Dating Strategy on Wix. Existing Members Only!Excuse the question, but what is wix? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 9 | The first time a guy chooses gaming over you, RUNEven if you like gaming, don’t date a gamer. Women can do gaming in moderation, men can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Next time they talk about women "hItTiNg ThE WaLl" direct them to exhibit A: Gerard "Ridden Hard and Put Away Wet" Butler. Like an old ass Billy ChristensonOne time a scrote DMed me to explain main don’t hit the wall because the wall for men was about preservation of resources. I don’t give men the time of the day, but if I did, I’d ask him to look at the calendar and see what year this is. It doesn’t look like 75 000 bC to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 27 | 🔥 Men will drop you like it’s hot 🔥 so don’t go soft for themI was dating a younger guy who seemed like the sweetest thing. He was depressed and needed a lot of help getting on with life. I was honestly dating down, I could do much better than him and he knew it. He didn’t hesitate to ditch me as soon as I got depressed myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever think back on a past relationship in disbelief at the things you went through?Honestly? Only the relationship I was in after getting to know FDS. I had no excuse to take on a fixer upper after knowing how much of a bad idea it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:29 PM |
| 15 | They're so quick to joke about Daddy Issues, but forget about their Mommy Issues - what else do you call it when you want to have sex with a woman who feeds you, cleans up after you and comforts you?Don’t forget how angry they get at the term manbaby. There’s an easy way not to be called a manbaby: not being one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 11 | when men expect us to bear the brunt of domestic dutiesI’m 31 years old. It’s physically impossible for me to be a mom to a 26-36 year old sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:52 PM |
| 37 | While you’re waiting around for them to ‘come to their senses’ and treat you the way you deserve to be treated :6 months? Try 6 years… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:51 PM |
| 5 | How to level up your emotional health after years of abuse and internalizing painful social experiences?It’s not your fault. That’s the key here. You’re going through something the psychology world calls personalization. It’s the opposite of projection. You’re taking external effects and assuming yourself to blame. So it’s now time to accept. It’s not your fault. It’s not something your head is gonna understand right away, you might even need therapy. But it was not your fault. | /r/askFDS | 05/10/20 12:49 PM |
| 5 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"I’m so proud of you OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)Sometimes what it takes is putting it in writing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How to cut a LVM friend from my life when we have many common friends?I do think he cares about me, as shitty as he is. Thing is, as much as he is shitty, I also care about him :/ | /r/askFDS | 05/10/20 12:16 AM |
| 13 | How to cut a LVM friend from my life when we have many common friends?I used to do this to my relatives when they got too up my ass, I just didn’t know it had a name…hah! | /r/askFDS | 04/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 28 | How to cut a LVM friend from my life when we have many common friends?I think I’ll do this. Become so uninteresting they unfriend themselves and save me the work. | /r/askFDS | 04/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Why you should never date gamersYeah…I have impulse control issues alright, but for a woman. For a men’s standards I’d say I’m actually very restrained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 45 | Why you should never date gamersGood god, female gamers can do it with moderation. Male gamers make it their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:29 PM |
| 11 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)I’m dealing with someone who’s moving too fast for my comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:14 PM |
| 114 | Why you should never date gamersBecause she was raised to feel she needs a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:55 PM |
| 17 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)Something in my guts tells me I might be dealing with a love bomber. I am autistic and I struggle with social cues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)Seems like I’m definitely dealing with a love bomber right now. I’m autistic and sometimes I struggle with social clues. Thanks sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:54 AM |
| 22 | Watch Out For Love Bombing!!! (Idealize/Devalue/Discard cycle)How can someone who’s otherwise socially clueless tell a love bomber and someone giving me the love I deserve apart? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:45 AM |
| 20 | Some of them got nailed by Segmund FruiedThere’s nothing cute about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:42 AM |
| 14 | Need help translatingHe’ll purposely halfass the chores and expect you to scold him. I was a domme in my pick me days and it’s very emotionally demanding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | let him rise to meet your standards sisUsername kinda checks out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:45 AM |
| 98 | RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN 🏃🏼♀️She’s so crazy to want him to put an effort for his female kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:44 AM |
| 32 | PSA: if you wouldn’t tell your hypothetical daughter to marry someone just like her father, you do not need to be having children with that man.I know my “bio clock is ticking,” but having children in my later 30s is far less “selfish,” as they put it, as having children with 80%+ of the men out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:29 AM |
| 5 | "Trust me, you have all the equipment... you just need to read the manual"Thankfully that’s something even my pick me self realized. The only bad kind of attention is no attention. The only winning move in their game is not to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 07:25 PM |
| 9 | let him rise to meet your standards sisI’m kinda afraid to ask but what’s the 3 for? Shampoo, conditioner, and…? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 80 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatWeird, when I was depressed, doing anything at all was fucking difficult. Imagine being so depressed you have an affair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 168 | Think this fits in hereI have double standards. I don’t see a man and a woman who say they drink the same way. The woman is probably gonna get giggly and say a few embarrassing things. The guy will get violent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 75 | Always trying to hide shit.But try to cOmMuNiCaTe once… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:15 PM |
| 46 | Can we just take a minute to appreciate this man.Also puppies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | We thrive when we aren’t being dragged downI’m about to move back alone to Rio de Janeiro once covid is over, and I’m gonna get myself a pup too, for safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:39 PM |
| 5 | We thrive when we aren’t being dragged downHaving a puppy is a guaranteed way to have a HVM/HVW in your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:28 PM |
| 85 | The jig is up!Unfortunately there are plenty of pick mes out there. Can’t help everyone. They won’t work on me. That’s for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 10 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!I don’t care that it’s unfair. I don’t want short guys. That’s all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 5 | This is how I see it...I don’t hate men for being men or pick mes for being pick mes. I think men are emotionally stunted and pick mes have been socially brainwashed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:42 AM |
| 2 | But god forbid you don’t take care of a LVM when he has his “man cold”When I have an anxiety attack, my friends want to scramble to make the world stop. They don’t quite know what to do, but they know it’s serious. Their effort alone means a lot to me. This is how I want to be treated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:30 AM |
| 15 | Stupid scrotes in life hacksShe knows. Either she’ll leave his useless ass over being an useless ass or she’ll be a pick me and stay, but no woman is being fooled by this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:26 AM |
| 13 | I genuinely feel angry for the sake of young women.I was looking at jewelry in a store window and a few of it were chains with a BDSM style lock 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Men can communicate very clearly when they want toHonestly, it’s that he doesn’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:54 AM |
| 116 | Being (rightfully) cautious around men is enough for women to be called misandrist. But even men don’t trust other men.My mom was the only female student in her engineering class of 90 students in Latin America in the 60s. Just imagine what she faced. Then in the job market in 70s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:47 AM |
| 18 | They hate us cause they can't have us.If you want a pick me, date a pick me. There’s no shortage of them. But they don’t want the pick mes. They want us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Colorist comments = LVMI’m latina, I used to think these were compliments 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Men can communicate very clearly when they want toSaved this post, will read whenever I feel the need to cOmMuNiCaTe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Every one needs to unsub from r/feminism right now. Read below.Liberal feminism made me think I wasn’t a feminist for most of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:10 PM |
| 11 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡Financially stable but not boisterous; Strong/muscular, a bit of chub is acceptable; Healthy sex drive; Smart, polite, educated; Probably more, but that’s what I can think for now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:59 AM |
| 85 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡Y’all being too mean, he only cheated on her 3 times this week! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.I just read that post! I like to show them the banana slicer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Wrestling anime guy took half a year of psychology in high school and thinks he knows everything. Goes on 25 minute sexist, homophobic, and victim blaming rant that basically translates too... “I can’t get laid!” 😂😂They hit the wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:08 PM |
| 10 | Reminder: not even animals are safe from male depravity and porn sickness. How a man treats vulnerable animals/ others is a signifier of how he’ll treat you.My reply to the “it’s biology!” bs is that, biologically, most men aren’t meant to mate, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Wrestling anime guy took half a year of psychology in high school and thinks he knows everything. Goes on 25 minute sexist, homophobic, and victim blaming rant that basically translates too... “I can’t get laid!” 😂😂Has he taken a look at western men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:13 PM |
| 15 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.You know, I thought after reading what the guy said on my post I could never be shocked again. I was wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.What if it makes you hug your pet and say “I’ll never do that to you don’t you worry”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:17 PM |
| 19 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.Quoi la fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 24 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.Few months. But that’s not the worst part. My mother introduced us. Imagine me telling her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.Glad I’m getting some good rep! I wish this didn’t happen, trust me 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 15 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.My thoughts exactly. Too much porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 26 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.Don’t worry, not blaming myself. Only thing I’m wondering is if I missed some red flag in the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 117 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.I made a ruthless strategist say WTF. My life is complete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:23 PM |
| 117 | Everything was going well…then it turns out he’s into beastiality.I didn’t want to entertain him any further but does he know how rough a cat tongue is?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Irrefutable proof that sexuality is not a choice 👭💅I’ve said that regarding preferences in general. If I could change preferences I wouldn’t stop liking tall guys, I’d stop liking guys at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:10 PM |
| 3 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?Yeah, I want a true friend, not to be someone’s “rich friend.” We’re gonna have coffee and donuts this Friday! | /r/askFDS | 01/10/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?I love FDS because of this: no words minced. You don’t hate poor people, you acknowledge there might be problems between different social class’s relationships. That’s what I want to hear. I could totally afford a nice weekend out for the two of us but I won’t because I don’t want to be seen as a walking ATM. And the resentment thing, I’ve noticed this as well. Our date will be affordable things are first. Coffee and donuts, with a trip to the beach (we live in a beach town). | /r/askFDS | 30/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?Thanks, that’s very reasonable! | /r/askFDS | 30/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 6 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?Thanks for your point. I won’t outright dismiss someone just because they’re poorer, but I will definitely keep those things in mind! There are great people who are just down on their luck, but I don’t wanna be a walking ATM. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 16 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?Ya know, that’s what I love about FDS. Ye don’t mince words. There’s nothing wrong about being from a lower social class per se, but I don’t wanna end up being the “rich friend.” I’ll keep this on my mind. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 6 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?There are no romantic undertones, just two girls having coffee and donuts and having fun. I’ll edit my OP. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 3 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?Hey, I should have been more specific. We’re both straight girls wanting to have fun. I suggested to something, she suggested coffee and a donut. My dilemma is that I can afford that with ease, whereas I know it’ll be a bit difficult for her. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 12 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?She invited me. Edit: I was the one who came up with the idea we might do something together, she said we should go on a “girl date.” Edit 2: I’m autistic so I miss social cues a lot, but she seemed very excited to go out with me (as friends). | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 9 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?I come from a wealthy family, she mentioned she doesn’t have money, she works on a job that doesn’t usually pay well. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 6 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?In the context of a girl date, yes. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 19 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?Thanks! I don’t mind paying, I care about her company, but I know that it might be awkward for her. The bit about letting her pay for a cheaper next option next time isn’t good one! | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 34 | Men only bringing the audacity, yet again, to the table!Because how dare a bigger woman not want to be insulted! Edit: BIGGER! WITH A B! I swear whoever put the B and N so close is a troll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 5 | I've never been so mad at a facebook postTaking away a girl’s youth should be a crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 17 | It’s like these idiots just don’t even care 🙄 the point of a dating app is to get to know people KyleHear that? That’s the sound of s thousand knees slamming shut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 4 | How to respond to a ‘drinks’ dateI told a guy I had already drank with that if we are going on a DATE, no drinks. He needs to put on his little male head that dates are fucking important. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 6 | One day, I decided to show my "ex" (online BF) how horrible the pornographic industry is. I read several women talking about their experience being abused, addicted to alcohol and drugs, etc. A while later he told me: "I wanna watch porn..."They know, but it gets their pp hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Instant swipe-left triggers for OLDThere’s always the Schrodinger’s joker: he’s both serious and joking, you’ll only know after you express a reaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 44 | When the trash takes itself outI love stargazing, night even take my telescope. Not first date material, but a few dates in, I’m down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Ok buddyIf you have to say it, you aren’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?There’s a bit of a cultural aspect. I’m 158 cm tall (5ft2in) and my ex was a 187 cm tall European rugby player (6ft2in). When I brought him over to my city I naturally dodged people (expected of me for my smaller size) and he tried to copy me (awkward due to his large size). I told him to just walk ahead, he’s the biggest guy around, he wins the hierarchy, but he felt uncomfortable. Now I see it’s kinda fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:29 PM |
| 7 | “LOVE HAS NO AGE” IS AN IDEA PERPETUATED BY PATRIARCHYI can believe love has no age if it’s like my mom, who’s 70 dating a man in his 80s who pampers her. 40 year old gross dusty predators please stay away from 18 year olds (or younger 🤢). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | A year after the breakupTwo months after the breakup and I’m already back in college! I don’t have much money but I treat myself weekly! Things are looking great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 19 | When the trash takes itself outFuck that PUA TRP bs, you’re at the prime of your life. You’re beautiful, you have energy, autonomy, money, know how to set boundaries, and speak up. What’s not to like? Oh yeah, you’re not gonna let yourself be used and discarded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 76 | When the trash takes itself outYou’re right. Nothing wrong with being an expensive girl, but I’m not particularly expensive myself. I still like effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 3 | If you really feel the need to fix damaged menWith love and support alone you’re gonna end up rewarding all his bad behaviors. You’ll become an enabler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 6 | Yeah, just think about that 🙈With how much Barb the builder I played, hope she’s having a better time than I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 23 | I don’t want a guy who isn’t overjoyed about being with me as well.Pretty much. Said men have to be on the lookout for women like us. My dude, the only thing we want from 80% (or more) of men is distance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 57 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️Don’t worry men, my 31 year old ass wants you even less than you want me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 75 | I don’t want a guy who isn’t overjoyed about being with me as well.They’re manipulative fucks and assume we are the same. We’re not gonna waste our time and energy manipulating them into being in a relationship with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?Fair enough. I’ve just seen too many people who completely dismiss any health concerns. The health concerns are real. Body positivity should be about showing women of all shapes are human and worthy of respect and self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Sailor Moon FDS momentsSailor mood! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Dating as a HVW when you’re not at your ideal weightAs someone who spent 30 years being skinny, suddenly finding myself obese was a shock! But, after a while, and some adaptations, I learned how to dress for my new body, and let me tell you…it wasn’t so bad. I still had health concerns. As well, as heel pain, but it’s possible to gain weight and have self esteem! | /r/askFDS | 28/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?I’m not too big into the body posi movement for health concerns, HOWEVER 1) a woman is allowed to be unhealthy or unconcerned about her health, it’s not up to me or anyone else to force her not to; 2) who cares if a bigger woman thinks she’s pretty? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 16 | Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked!It’s not about the money, but the effort. You can be poor and still find a ring that shows you consider her the love of your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Do NOT let a LVM leech ruin your lifeI’d find a man who has depression, for example, and seeks treatment and therapy to be a step up guys who don’t. Shows willingness to get in touch with their emotional side, which shows emotional maturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 7 | If he negs other women...Either that or he’s the crazy one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 18 | Dating as a HVW when you’re not at your ideal weightI gained 30 kg in 10 months. It was rough. Most of those are gone thankfully, but here’s a tip: find comfortable clothes that flatter your fuller body. You’ll probably have to adapt your style a bit find something that suits you! | /r/askFDS | 27/09/20 06:52 PM |
| 12 | Dating as a HVW when you’re not at your ideal weightId say 6 months is when you can say he has HVM potential. Some people take years to show their true colors. | /r/askFDS | 27/09/20 06:50 PM |
| 112 | Now we know who to blame... 😂I’ve actually answered one of these “you aren’t thanking your dad because we all know how useless he was.” Then I turned off my notifications. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | It has taken years of deprogramming to understand what LVM mean by the term "bad women."Because you don’t need men the way men need you. It shows and it hurts (them). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:57 AM |
| 6 | The news should have reported this as: "Lucky lady gets low value meal, effort and proposal all in one!" CoNgRaTs tO tHe hApPy cOuPLe tHoUgH 🥴Why did the pick me walk into the bar? Just kidding, the bar is gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 6 | The news should have reported this as: "Lucky lady gets low value meal, effort and proposal all in one!" CoNgRaTs tO tHe hApPy cOuPLe tHoUgH 🥴I’ve dated a guy like that 🤢 I’m totally adding “loves sea food as much as I do” to my list of standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:53 AM |
| 16 | Wall? What wall?!Some scrote PMed me one day saying men don’t hit the wall because preservation of resources or some shit like this. …because women totally can’t do that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 4 | The only appropriate response to an LVM“Oh no. Anyway…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Who says romance is dead?I bet she paid for their first date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 8 | Men who are disgusted by body hair on women usually look like gorillasI made a post on r/mildlyinteresting about an unusual shaped bruise on my arm. People took more interest on a woman with dark hair on her arm than the flag shaped bruise, it seemed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 10 | I "hurt his feelings and mistreated" him by asking if I could finish my sentenceIt’s like that bullshit on how women talk too much. Not only men talk more than women, they overestimate how much women speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 15 | Divorcing my porn sick husbandMi español no es muy bueno pero fuck him ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 4 | If you feel the need to start playing games to get his attention, it’s time to cut him off.Leave manipulation and other games for PUAs, TRP, MGTOW, and their like. You’re better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:20 PM |
| 106 | I'm grateful to my (male) friend who got me to stop being a pickme!The only reason i am on FDS is that people were making fun of it in a chatroom I participated, when this 17 year old boy reads it a bit and says “I actually agree with many things there.” They are rare, but there is hope for men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 18 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"Yeah. Normal people will use humbler terms like “I tend to be…” or “I avoid being…” “I am” or “I’m not” sound extremely manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 15 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"It means he knows he’s undesirable and can’t get anything else even if he wanted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 38 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsAsians vet brutally, as we all should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 35 | All good until the last one... Why is it so difficult for women to realize that porn and sex work is not liberating and exists solely for male pleasure?To be fair, I am pro sex worker, anti sex work. I see sex workers as victims of a vile industry and complacent society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 13 | 'THIS IS PARIS' Paris Hilton documentary on YouTube...shows how she was manipulated and pressured into filming sex by an older man at 18Exactly. She was pretty much a legal child. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Reframing of the Pickme PhenomenonThank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 101 | 😒 Damn, I hope you get pickedI think a $650 PlayStation is fair enough to spend on my lonesome self :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 44 | Incels get the wall“Women don’t like me because my jaw is the wrong shape :(“ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 5 | His friends are right though.You act like this is uncommon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 19 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾Thanks, FDS, for teaching me, not how to date, but how to improve my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 29 | For those of you still on OLD, set up a fake profile along with your real one to weed out scammers, etc.Clever girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 11 | men in relationships.Thanks, I needed to hear this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 9 | No. ❤️Oh yeah totally a relationship to strive for! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 10 | This Buzzfeed article shows older celebrities now and when they were 30 years old. This makes me happy as I was so afraid for my twenties to end and for the mythical "Wall" to hit - I see these cherub cheeks on lovely women at 30 and feel good about my future.If you take good care of yourself, physically and mentally, there’s no wall. Definitely not at only 30 years of age. Scrotes say that because they know they peak (barely) at 21 and only go downhill from there. This does not apply to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 35 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮100% he lied on his profile because 24 year olds don’t go for men twice their age like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.I can only hope my ex isn’t a shitbag to his next girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 14 | My theory about the men who always complain about women being boring...This is how #NotLikeOtherGirls start…it’s so self serving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 10 | One of my all time favs.Sends chills down my spine. In the bad way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:05 PM |
| 7 | I got called high maintenance the other day.“Oh no.” “Anyway…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 4 | I Don’t Want To Date An American GuyMy last ex was European and I’m just so done with first world men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 21 | LVM and "watching porn together"Sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 35 | So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!!I’m so grossed out 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Can't help but to share after being on twitter😂😂Once COVID is dealt with, I’m gonna make a road trip in Ireland, preferably with female friends 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 29 | Reddit Promotes Misogyny! WoMEn DeStOy NuCLeAr FamIly bY dIvOrciNg ShiTTy HusbAnDS WhY CaNT wOmeN STiCK WItH AnYthINg STUpId WOmEn!!!The fact men can’t maintain a modicum of hygiene, decency, stay away from porn, or wash a dish is ruining nuclear families. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 81 | Was watching a show about a couple who had quintuplets, decided to scroll to the comments and found this 🙄So quirky, he’s on the sofa while his wife does everything! He’s so exhausted! Poor men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:59 PM |
| 34 | And this is exactly why I don’t date. He NEEDS to objectify women before during and after work???? lol to ‘he said it’s like I’m calling him a perv’ UHHH CAUSE HE IS ONEHis dopamine receptors must have fried away long ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Can't help but to share after being on twitter😂😂Fuck, girl. I’m still trying to undo the association of the amazing and culturally rich country of Ireland from my weak ass Irish ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 14 | Inside the LVM brainWhy is it women can play videogames moderately but men make it their fucking identities? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 14 | Overheard a conversation in the yoga room that was just sadSometimes you have to break your heart to learn it. That’s why older dusty gross men target women in their 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 13 | Oh and let's not forget the wife is a scary blood thirsty vampire who will throw her husband in the hell fire if he does anything wrong and there's no way to save him so he's scared and everyone should sympathize because he's the victim here🙄The wife who won’t get to live as long as she otherwise would because she married his sorry ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Yeah, it’s a no💖 from me. I’m not a rebound. No exceptions.Ya know what, thank you ex for making me see the light. No idea why he would want to be friends with me, not like I’m ever gonna give him a pity fuck or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:18 PM |
| 37 | Have any other women noticed that some men are obsessed with being accepted as they are, but want the women who work out, study, and pay careful attention to their sense of style?Because it’s work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 18 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?If I didn’t want kids I’d be there too. It just doesn’t seem worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 23 | Why are men like this?Because you woman. Woman makes pp hard. Must talk woman. Pp hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 6 | To some people surveillance means less freedom, to me it means moreAll girls should have a big burly gay friend. Keeps all perverts at bay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 57 | Can't help but to share after being on twitter😂😂If anything, I’m gonna get a ps5 for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 71 | Romance novels vs. Pornography... hmm 🤔As a former #NotLikeTheOtherGirls who used to be proud of hating romance novels and movies…I guess I’ll be taking a trip to the nearest bookstore tomorrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Absolutely notI don’t really speak German, just sometimes English isn’t enough to express how absolutely dumbfounded I am 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 18 | NOW THAT'S WHY WE SHOULD VET THEMThat’s why women should be encouraged to do what women naturally do best: vet brutally. If she was properly vetting, she’d quickly realize this guy is no alpha male and is only good for alfafa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 19 | Absolutely notWas zum fuck?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 29 | What low value men post on their social media.By “terrorizing men” they mean “asking to be left alone.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 62 | The Power of SilenceThere’s no such thing as bad attention to a LVM. All attention is good attention. The only way to win this game is not to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 14 | Women don't get more emotional support than menThe word “hysterical” comes from the Greek word for uterus. That’s all there needs to be said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 25 | Is the myth that “men who are attractive will women badly”,spread by unattractive men who are just trying to manipulate attractive women into giving them a shot?Just take a look at incels. They loathe women. Why? Rejection. Real and perceived. Men feel entitled to a woman’s affection. When they don’t get what they want, they start treating women badly. Ugly men experience more rejection, so they treat women worse than their more attractive counterparts. Of course, a real HVM will treat you well because he sees you as a human, not because he gets pussy often. But the idea that an ugly man will treat you better is a myth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 23 | Don’t go on a date with a man with thinks paying for you is gold digging!3 says it all for me. I want to date a guy who has enough money paying for a dinner date isn’t s big deal for him. And one who isn’t stingy enough to think a dinner date isn’t worth it. That’s all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:43 AM |
| 14 | LVM and HVM revealed in gaming. The last line says it all.They act out because they got nothing to offer. If it doesn’t seem to make sense to you, it’s because it doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 19 | Not sure if this belongs here but, Why cant men let women have a win? The woman in the video SAVED A HANDICAPPED MAN FROM GETTING RAN OVER BY A TRAIN. And they STILL shit on her and claim "mEn aRe BeTtEr"A few years ago a train conductor (female) in my country managed to stop a train just millimeters from killing a drunk man on the tracks. People (men who probably don’t know how operating a train works) still criticized her for not stopping far before. 🙄 Edit: oh yeah, she needed to take a break for a day to recompose herself after nearly killing someone, of course she was called weak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 22 | Ladies can I have some input please? Why do you think we go for NVM/LVM? Utter useless scrotes , narcissists, cheap, porn sick, cheaters, ghosters? What do I need to work on for myself until I can get therapy?The trash bag was full of candy wrappers and seemed very sweet, but it was just superficial sweetness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on my fb feed this morning. Had a good laugh and thought I’d share.Pick mes contradict each other all the time anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:24 PM |
| 11 | TRP TACTICS: "Destroy Her Ego." Watch out for these 🚩s! 🗣️FDS tactics don’t tell you to “destroy his self esteem,” yet we are seen as comparable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Dad watches porn while mum and baby are being treated in hospitalFuck girl. I’m so sorry :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 14 | The Myth of the Modern HousewifeFascinating read. Thanks for this post. Saved and favorited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 4 | The State of the Subreddit: Flair EditionThanks, apologies for missing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | SELF-CARE SATURDAY. No one will love you like you. Did sunset picnic w/ a girl friend. Remember to take care of yourselves ladies 🥰❤️I’d love to take myself to a coffee date right now, shame most coffee places aren’t opening on weekends where I am due to COVID! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 33 | I needed FDS ten years agoWe all needed FDS from birth sis. But better late than never :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:51 PM |
| 3 | The State of the Subreddit: Flair EditionOne thing I wanted to ask, what’s the rank of FDS newbie, disciple, apprentice, etc. and how does one earn it? I’m not complaining, I feel very much a newbie, I just want to know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:48 PM |
| 2 | What are some songs you used to find cute and romantic and you find unbearable nowadays?Gross 🤢 I’m so sorry sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 38 | Quarantine beards are a tragedy .. from Ryan Gosling lookalike to Ryan the Hobo. Why do they all do this??I can appreciate a beard…a neat, well trimmed beard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 12 | What are some songs you used to find cute and romantic and you find unbearable nowadays?Oh yeah, there’s an AC/DC song that goes like “Don't you struggle/ Don't you fight/ Don't you worry/ 'Cause it's your turn tonight/ Let me put my love into you, babe” They used to be my favorite band… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 65 | In contrast to RBG’s husband, Justice Sotomayor ended up divorcing her husband because he feared he wouldn’t be as successful as her and that she didn’t need him.“He was right I didn’t” I love this ending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 111 | An LVM date wet dreamNot that bad for a 237th date for a long term couple, but I’d be hard pressed to call it a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:40 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020My therapist also said he’s learned a lot with me! Feels great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 26 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020I’ve decided coffee dates are my thing. … Great way to catch up with my friends or even read s book by myself. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:50 PM |
| 24 | Invited me over while he is in a two week quarantine. Double whammy.Ah the Schrodinger’s joke. It’s both a joke and not a joke, you’ll only know which after you see the reaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 51 | Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters.That’s because he knows most men are like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 5 | The pride they take in talking on themselves like that is just embarrasing at this point...but it's us women who are 'unloyal hoes' and 'gold-diggers' 🙄🙄Imma getting a ps5 for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Awkward dating stories? Or: Guys watching too much porn during quarantine has made OLD worse than ever!I haven’t been dating, so I’ll add one tale as old as time: “I’m married, but my wife is awful, and my marriage is on its last legs!!” might come with an “I’m only staying for the kids!” My beloved sisters, I urge you, don’t ever date married men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | What's the best part about being a woman?I’ve had people surprised to find out I’m a feminist because I’m “not angry” and “I actually seem very empathetic.” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Imagine Expecting a Period and Getting a Kid Like This Instead.I bet he has an unwashed ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 8 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.Proud cat lady here 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:41 PM |
| 8 | the secret to perfect skin 😌You’re on the right way though sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 13 | Hates porn because…muh penis!Morality isn’t subjective, he knows it’s wrong, but it gets his pp hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:50 PM |
| 7 | To the men who would like to take all the main decisions in the relationshipIdk, I’m used to men who take no initiative and make me make ALL of the decisions 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Kicking off the weekend with flowers for myself. This is a reminder for you to do something you love this weekend 💛I just had a coffee date…with myself. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Taking ourselves on dates 2020!Every week I go on a restaurant, alone, and treat myself to a nice meal. Before I’d be too embarrassed for it. Thanks FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Men are to Women what Police are to Black PeopleI’m not American. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are to Women what Police are to Black PeopleSeems to be catching their delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Men are to Women what Police are to Black PeopleWhat’s it with the delusional British? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Muffinsongs’ most recent ex starter packPsychedelics can cause it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | I definitely wanted to get in on this "reasons my ex was LV" collage thingI want to make one, but I haven’t quite figured out how to express complete lack of effort in a collage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Why are most men so unattractive?80/20, but the truth is that the top 20% of men are as attractive as 80% of the women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 9 | Why did the LVM walk into the bar?He didn’t walk into the bar, he tripped on it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 2 | How a friend of mine deals with scrotes on her DMs 😂His word choice is weird for English though…god understands men because I don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:03 PM |
| 38 | Is this a pick me mentality?Women are not competition, women are allies! This should be a mantra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 9 | Dear Black Ladies and other WOC, please don’t take this LBlack and WoC have to vet twice as hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Seeing memes like this makes me feel hopeless. Who fucking makes these miserable text memes? Do you want what you're writing to be true? If you are like me and get sad when you see this kind of fear inducing trash meme quote, what do you do when you are feeling hopeless after seeing shit like this?I ask myself the same sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:25 PM |
| 13 | Seeing memes like this makes me feel hopeless. Who fucking makes these miserable text memes? Do you want what you're writing to be true? If you are like me and get sad when you see this kind of fear inducing trash meme quote, what do you do when you are feeling hopeless after seeing shit like this?That’s why they must know you’re ready to walk away at any minute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 22 | My ex-collage! It’s been two years but I wanted in on the fun anyway. It’s good to remind ourselves so we don’t get into similar situations again 😅I was gonna ask, ngl I kinda dig the goth aesthetic 😂😂 no manbaby tantrums please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:05 PM |
| 9 | Just found this. WTF???Having sex with one men doesn’t mean you want to have sex with all men. Now repeat with me boys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 25 | This amazing woman is creating a series of comics based on shit men said to women on dates.HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH aren’t men so funny 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 22 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.Yeah, whatever societal inclinations this guy had to be a LVM, mommy turned tenfold! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:38 PM |
| 14 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Oh well, congratulations on the high value male on your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 30 | Why do men neg women, when they don't look great themselves?They neg because they aren’t great. They’re trying to get us as low as they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 40 | I read the handbook, I didn't listen, and got the same results.Oh, I too fell for the lure of who I thought was a sweet and innocent guy after knowing of FDS. I deserve all of the facepalms 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:06 PM |
| 148 | Saw this post on twitter earlier. It’s so true. LVM would rather convince women they don’t deserve their high standards than aim to meet them or alternatively date women with lower standards.Yeah. If you want a pick me, date a pick me. There’s plenty of them. But no one likes them. They actually do want us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 21 | They're insulting themselves at this pointBecause men can’t stand being alone or other men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 51 | They're insulting themselves at this pointSomething about not choosing the right men? Seems like we are doing the right thing here though! Thanks MRAs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 50 | They're insulting themselves at this pointExactly what I came here to comment. Dick is plentiful. It’s good dick what we’re after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 9 | People who say "not ALL men are like that" are lowkey agreeing with us because even they acknowledge that at least SOME men actually are like that.It would be so much easier to just give up on men entirely. But we still try and go through the work to find the ones who are not like the others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 18 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Is it my impression or is he so smol? ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 25 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I don’t think I could get along with a guy who doesn’t like cats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | OLD can work, but you have to stick to the bookBasically, the more things are against you, the more you should vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 6 | The bar is so low it’s literally in hell. Tired of LVM online.Yes. I’m too good for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂That’s why I always say, don’t reply to male trolls/LVM in general. It gets to them more than anything else you can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:02 PM |
| 16 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂For the world’s tiniest microdick energy 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:01 PM |
| 37 | "But what do you bring to the table?"Exactly. They don’t understand that it’s a buyer’s market. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 30 | Maybe the porn culture we are forced to inhale will ease, but not without consequences for damage already done to the male brain primarily. This is part of why the bar is so low. Read on...The only kind of women receiving oral there is in porn is lesbian porn, and it still sucks because it’s not meant to arouse lesbians, just straight guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 16 | How do deal with severe pickmeisha relatives?Honestly, it varies wildly. Generally be open to offer support but you can’t really help someone who doesn’t want to be helped. | /r/askFDS | 14/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 4 | What do you girls do when you're feeling insecure?FDS chat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 59 | Should I Reach Out?Men do the chasing. He only stopped chasing because you were firm with your boundaries. You don’t want this guy chasing you. | /r/askFDS | 14/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 358 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...The average redditor is a 20 year old LVM. This is not surprising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Red/Green Flag Opinions in Liked MediaI love Yen, she’s outspoken, does her thing, and isn’t afraid of sounding mean. She doesn’t put up with Geralt’s shit, which caused a whole sub to call her abusive. I only love her more for it. I’m not gonna link to it because I don’t wanna risk accusations of brigading, but it’s not hard to find the Witcher 3 sub. It’s rife with hate for Yen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 80 | Maybe the porn culture we are forced to inhale will ease, but not without consequences for damage already done to the male brain primarily. This is part of why the bar is so low. Read on...The content of porn is escalating as well. Vanilla porn doesn’t do it anymore, porn needs to be more violent, taboo, and depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 8 | Red/Green Flag Opinions in Liked MediaPeople from the Witcher 3 sub have an absolute hate boner towards Yennefer and straight up call her “abusive” towards Geralt. That’s all I need to know about them. (I have only played the games, I’m yet to watch the show or read the books, so my opinion of Yen is based on the games alone) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 155 | Men trying to get with you when they know you're in a relationship isn't flattery, it's an insult.Usually men respect a “I’m taken” better than a “I don’t want you” because they respect other men better than they respect women. Guys like this respect no one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Any other ladies who had LV fathers who affected how they looked at men and what kind of spouse they potentially want?What I remember from my father, he was very high value. He died when I was young though :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 12 | Ladies don’t ever support a man through med school/law school, etc. Came across this Reel and you should see all the pickmes in the comments. I wonder if she will be making these same reels in 10 years when he leaves her for a younger woman ☹️At least I only wasted 2 years playing barb the builder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Cancel MeExactly, if all men were trash there would be no point in this sub. This sub is about how to find a man who isn’t trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 8 | When a male lurker dms you their unwanted opinion.My face when I hit the decline button: 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 35 | Why do men generalise women based on nationality?As a Brazilian, all I have to say is: 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 16 | Any FDS attorneys? Please chime in! FDS references website for men?? Feasible?I think there used to be a website like this a few years ago, at least in my country. I don’t know why it ended but we all can imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 84 | You can never please them all. So focus on your own happiness 👑Why not both? I can work and and be a gold digger :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 97 | I keep seeing scrotes calling dates they pay for "glorified prostitution", because they expect sex for money. So to negate these erroneous beliefs I say, follow FDS standards and make them wait months and months on end.This says more about them than it says about us. Dating should be an opportunity to know a potential partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 153 | Posted on Entitled Bitch .... I just see a HVM trying to do something special for his lady.I barely have mental energy to waste on the rest of Reddit anymore. It’s such shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a man who likes game of thrones?There’s more to the show than the tits, ass, rape, etc. so I don’t think it’s a red flag in and of itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:38 PM |
| 18 | When men say they wish women would ask them out...Women hitting on them is a confidence boost, they can use it to ask out the high maintenance woman they actually want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:26 PM |
| 74 | What to expect from a LVM who promise you a ringShows he doesn’t care to get to know her interests, or worse, doesn’t care about her interests at all. This could have been sweet to a woman who’s into wrestling, which isn’t the case here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 344 | Don’t do it sis.No cohabitating without a ring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 30 | One of the creepy messages I got on my old account. Reading this shocked me since I never heard any man say such weird and disgusting things to me.No to the power of hell fucking no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 14 | Scrotes entitlement:r/neckbeardnests | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Political corruptionYeah. It’s been a few years. I was in the height of my pick me phase, but getting confirmation that he was involved in corruption was too much even then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 21 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.I mean, some have definitely gotten on my nerves by trying to convince me their fixer-upper is special y’all, but I try to be patient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 41 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.Some members don’t like it, but I don’t mind when girls come here to vent. Better do it in a safe women’s space where we can provide proper guidance, than doing it to a partner who will likely use it to hurt her further. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Political corruptionOh, this was several years ago. Finding out he was involved in corruption was too much even for my pick me self. I kinda just wanted to bring up LV behaviors that aren’t directly related to the relationship itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Attraction levels in dating... Is allowing a man to "punch out of his league" beneficial?Uglier men are not: nicer, kinder, richer, or do anything necessarily better. They’re just uglier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:52 PM |
| 4 | If you suspect a man got a vasectomy but is lying that he didn't, what are phrases or ways he will lie about it/divert the topic to hide it? Suspect that someone I know is in this position.One more thing to be scared about. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | If you suspect a man got a vasectomy but is lying that he didn't, what are phrases or ways he will lie about it/divert the topic to hide it? Suspect that someone I know is in this position.Yeah. I don’t wanna live with the stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:47 PM |
| 11 | What’s been your personal experience with making the first moves?They want the confidence boost so they can chase the high maintenance women they actually want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Pickme’s are dangerousI feel any men worth their salt would be appalled by this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Sponsored by FDSI snorted diet Red Bull from my nose 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 3 | I have a chronic illness too, and I cant tell you how many times i heard that it is all in my head🤡thousands of women suffer from malpractice only because they are WOMENI was called stupid for thinking there might be a physiological cause for my weight gain of 37 kg in 10 months (49 to 86, nearly underweight to obesity). There was a physiological problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:19 PM |
| 13 | Reminder, it's never your fault when a man hurts you.Oof sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 126 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.Yeah. Men overestimate their looks. If he says he looks bad, you can be sure he looks absolutely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 12 | Men are real quick to use the "sexual compatibility" card but get upset when women do the same lolHear that? This is the sound of a thousand knees slamming shut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 26 | What the fuck did I just read? “iT sOuNdS AwFuL bUt i LoVe HiM”Não | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 6 | "Am I am asshole for wanting a big beautiful ring, being promised it, expecting it and being disappointed when he backs out on it?" when he backs outSaying one thing then doing/expecting another to happen is manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 31 | What the fuck did I just read? “iT sOuNdS AwFuL bUt i LoVe HiM”Nyet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:59 PM |
| 19 | 🤣The kind of men who gets sex dolls isn’t the kind we want to have sex with anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:40 PM |
| 43 | Men do get the hints if they are smart enough, but they choose to ignore it, because they don't like it when women hunt on them. Men want to hunt on women to feel powerful...Girls should take the “hint” that guys tell on themselves all the time and we should believe it instead of ignoring our guts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 102 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!If he calls himself an alpha, he isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 11 | Can men who have certain mental illnesses be HVM? What is your vetting process?Bipolar here and I concur. It’s difficult to manage but it’s possible! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Any success stories from women 35+ who found a HVM? Any tips for us single ladies?My mom is 70; she’s with a man in his 80s who pampers her and treats her like a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 17 | Why do men online always have such a negative reaction/hangups over dinner dates?? Yet they want to meet you ASAPAnd a commitment is exactly what I’m looking for! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 29 | Can we start a petition to update the DSM5 because these scrotes will use any excuse to normalise sexualising literal children.Only pedophiles really care about the difference anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 24 | He didn’t lie. That’s what the original tweeter was saying.Don’t worry, “bro,” your girlfriend will find a real man someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:18 PM |
| 54 | Im fed up of my mom asking me to wear a bra at home!!The mom’s attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 30 | Im fed up of my mom asking me to wear a bra at home!!Do you want LVM? Because that’s how you get LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 416 | Who would've thought... 🙃I like to say that, if guys are so inferior they can’t control themselves at the sight of a miniskirt, they shouldn’t be allowed outside without a minder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 23 | Don't send nudesAnd men WILL get emotional. Rational sex my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 34 | To answer your question, "Does FDS hate men?"I don’t hate men. I dislike emotionally stunted people, and that includes men and women. The fact is, society puts no emphasis on male emotional growth. This is not my fault or problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 17 | No thanks.Men’s sense self worth is tied to their sense of sexual value. They don’t give a shit what other men say because it doesn’t change their own view on their perceived sexual value. That’s why some men hire prostitutes just to talk to, instead of, say, talking to their male friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 23 | No thanks.More often than not they don’t have low enough self esteem with how entitled they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 13 | Another broke man afraid of "golddiggers!"50/50: I want a mommy to take care of everything and I won’t even be a provider. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 56 | Do not date "newly single" or "recently separated" men. You are not an emotional support animal.I still find myself ruminating over things that happened in my last relationship and having mood swings over it. It gets better by the day though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 447 | Reddit in a NutshellAnd don’t you dare say tall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 40 | Article: Are Dating Apps a Breeding Ground for Dark Personalities? New research suggests that the answer is likely yes.This is actually good news. There are decent men out there, even if OLD makes it seem like the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 67 | These companies owned by scrotes, Telling us to “fix” ourselves by paying them money. The message to “fix” our “broken” and “not good enough” selves is EVERYWHERE in advertising and media with objectified images of women used to sell us things. Vet culture and companies too not just menWant a shiny glowing skin? Dump the scrote that’s stressing you out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:08 PM |
| 108 | Do not date "newly single" or "recently separated" men. You are not an emotional support animal.I’m not dating right now exactly because I’m still emotional over my ex. I don’t think it would be fair for the other part even if I have no intention of taking my ex back, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:55 PM |
| 14 | Some men are seriously looking for a free therapist . A HVM correctes him tho. There is hopeYeah, I should start charging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 27 | Never underestimate someone’s ability to hurt you.He simply put zero effort. He had an obsession with being the “strong man,” but that only took place when it came to appreciating what I did for him. Being strong for me? Nope, as soon as I needed support I got dumped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 63 | Never underestimate someone’s ability to hurt you.I did get hurt by who I assumed was a very sweet guy 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:37 PM |
| 112 | Bare minimum King 👑They’re willing to do work when it can get them back pats. No talk about emotional labor or invisible/“managerial” labor though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 3 | A precautionary tale, of flags, boundaries and what lies deep under the 'cover'...Yeah, one, okay, two, perhaps, but three? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 37 | Why does it bother men so much when a woman refuses to sleep with them that they have to label her as prude?It’s not our fault that a woman’s social standing goes down after we have sex. If we are gonna have social consequences, then it must be worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:08 PM |
| 73 | Men are Casually Comparing Themselves to Predators and Thinking It’s Solid Logic.So they’re admitting they’re predators? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:06 PM |
| 11 | Yes we know "not all men." But when men don't speak out against the patriarchy that benefits the few men who are "those men" we have no choice but to assume "all men"Yeah, not all men. This sub is exactly teaching women how to identify the men who belong to the “not all men” category. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 28 | A scrote complaining about how women in more developed countries won't love him and his limp dick. The replies are spot onMen in western countries complain about western women but damn, have they seen how shitty western men are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 193 | Because marriage it's a torture, of course. Way to ruin happy marriage photosI’d never marry someone who isn’t as eager to marry me as I am to marry them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 92 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollIf a girl did that to him in real life, she’d be his girlfriend for 10 years and then he’d leave her for the girl he’s been cheating on her with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 12 | And THIS is why Online Dating Is To Be Mostly if not COMPLETELY AVOIDED. Via PP Debate-Question Was: Has Having Sex On The First Date Become The Norm?Oh, that’s what PP means. I thought of it like, peepee debate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 37 | Another reason to delete OLD: His dating options are “short or long walk” 😂What a weird thing to emphasize. Not like a girl would ever be expected to do her drinks at his house right? …right??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 38 | Hating on your own gender to make men like you...Her emotional growth is stunted because of excess interactions with men. Source: former “not like the other girls.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 17 | Hating on your own gender to make men like you...Pick me senpai! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 26 | That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen itIf you’re not willing to commit to your wife, stay single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 99 | Women aren’t sad that you don’t view us as sex dollsI’d love it if more men got sex dolls, it’s the trash taking itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 71 | Y’all rock!This community is almost overwhelmingly supportive, for someone who’s not used to getting support like me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 170 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenNo one says “I know this is random” and asks if I prefer potatoes or tulips. Be truly random guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 9 | The story and my reply... Why are people so oblivious. A man having a middle life crisis is ready to abondon everything and let his gf do everything and people don't see this as an issue?Starving artist here, I’m currently pursuing education in a different path because there’s nothing cool or romantic about it. It sucks and is a big set back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 15 | I just want to say, I've had male friends pay for me multiple times for my meals/entertainment, because they wanted to. Whether it was gay male friends or straight men who were true gentlemen. They happily wanted to pay, and I didn't even expect them to do this.Yeah, I’ve had male friends treat me without no expectations in return. If some guy does have expectations, then he better up his game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 8 | "I will kill us both"The best way to know people is exactly when they’re “stressed” or “having a hard time.” That’s when the mask falls and they show their true selves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 10 | I wish my friends and family would stop pressuring me to settle.Also the completely false notion that other women are competition. Other women are your allies. If you feel lonely and in need of support, you’re better off seeking your ladies than chasing a disappointing dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 36 | The "key and lock" theoryThey don’t realize that dicks aren’t keys and vaginas aren’t locks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 27 | Written by a man.I do have to try…try to put more effort on myself, because I’m still getting over my pick me tendencies. And we know that men have no respect for pick mes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Is is just me or have all of you been noticing more online radicalization of men?“Not all men” is a given anyway. If it were all men, dating at all would be a pointless waste of time. We’re just telling each other how to find a good man. They hate it though, because they are not part of the “not all men” group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:10 PM |
| 122 | Saw this literally just this morning in r/AskWomenOver30“Biologically,” most men weren’t meant to mate, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Guy (43m) says I (37f) talk too much. Played it off like he was teasing me and I was being sensitive by getting insulted. Is this a neg or playful teasing or a flat-out insult? What does he possibly hope to gain by being so rude?I doubt you talk to much. You probably just don’t let him talk as much as he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 4 | Some pickmeishas are too far gone... Speechless.How did this guy manage to get a girlfriend oh god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Woman posted about liking guys for their personality amongst other non materialistic attributes- Men found that enraging and obscene tooYeah. Not like there’s a lack of pick mes around. If you want one, date one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:33 PM |
| 10 | Why are men do pedophiles 🤢. I am literally 17They don’t understand that we have other men propositioning sex all fucking time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 8 | Why are men do pedophiles 🤢. I am literally 17And I thought turning 30 would keep the old scrotes away. It doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 6 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!Right? Dogs are great and reliable. She can’t rely on her husband to pee in the fucking toilet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:47 PM |
| 1 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!I don’t know if this is better or worse really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | No woman should have to clean up her husbands pee from the living room. I’d kick him the fuck out not treat him like another child!I swear to god laying with this guy should count as pedophilia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 22 | All the indicators...As if being harsh is a bad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:28 PM |
| 16 | Deleted all my dating apps after this. This guy sent me a picture of a plate of pasta that he cooked and had some weird purple lights in the background. I asked him why I told him I had some like that but for my plants. He had to steer the conversation and make it sexual 😖My first thought is that his plants are of the r/trees variety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:24 PM |
| 17 | We not doing this anymore ❌Women are nicer and smell better. If I could flip a switch and go lesbian, I would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 16 | When you look back at your past self and remember how much you cried for a LVMI have a drawer full of romantic drawings and a half finished romantic scrapbook. FML Today has just been a specially emotional day for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:01 AM |
| 38 | When you look back at your past self and remember how much you cried for a LVMI’m crying right at this moment over how used I feel. FDS always has a post that feels aimed straight at me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 35 | I hope she gets pickedMen really love when women initiate! Gives them the confidence boost they need to ask out their high maintenance dream girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 4 | “What are you looking for on Bumble?”..... oh...... a therapist .... I see....Why does he end his sentences like this- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 31 | New here, had an enlightening conversation with a male coworker the other dayBasically the idea is that women lose social standing by having sex while men gains it…since most sex is disappointing unless the man puts an effort, that’s why FDS preaches no sex until there’s commitment from the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 56 | Give LessIt’s hard to be aroused when being the caregiver for 3 babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 32 | If you can’t afford a ring, please say so and MOVE ON 👏🏽Don’t forget fuckdoll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 23 | If you can’t afford a ring, please say so and MOVE ON 👏🏽What a great provider he’s shown himself to be. His next girlfriend will be thrilled! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 13 | Give LessYeah, I came across “our” playlist and was enough of an idiot to listen. It’s just random music but the flood of memories is intense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 19 | What will it be, ladies? Equality or oppression?Don’t ask a question you won’t like the answer to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:18 PM |
| 29 | Please do not ask out men. EverIf he doesn’t have the cojones to ask you out, someone else will. Not even pick mes ask men out most of the time, because why would they? Dick is plentiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:16 PM |
| 55 | Give LessThat’s exactly what I’m feeling right now. Resentful and used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 185 | Ah yes, let’s continue to applaud fathers for their mere physical PRESENCE in their children’s lives.Imagine if a mom decided to do nothing but exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 30 | Going their own way? I wish they would.I wish. These men go any way but their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 25 | Don’t fall for pick-mes pressuring you. Misery loves company, so keep your standards high to avoid the drama.Honestly, I do want kids, but I wanna do my hypothetical future kids a favor and not reproduce with most men I know 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 76 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?Look at incels. Men think they’re entitled to women, so being refused what they believe they’re entitled to makes them even nastier towards us. Ugly men are rejected much more often and turn their frustrations outwards. They’re basically punishing you for all women who turned them down in the past, as if you are responsible for what other women did. Makes sense to them since we aren’t individuals, just a hivemind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 23 | Don't take nude photos of yourself!Fuck sis, I’m so sorry :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 8 | This is something to bear in mind. The devil doesn’t always come with horns and a pointy tail. Sometimes, he can come in the form of everything you’ve ever wanted.Yeah. I’m not a child anymore, I wouldn’t have let my ex get away with so much if he wasn’t outwardly sweet and I didn’t truly believe it. It probably shook me more than anything else because I never expected malice out of him. And maybe he wasn’t malicious, but he was still emotionally stunted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 77 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.Couple’s therapy is basically a professional telling the wife to be complicit with the husband’s bs because even they know men won’t change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 15 | Remember, if an ex won't leave you alone, it's not because he truly loves you.Time means 10 years in my case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 11 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?I’ve had my fair share of those things, including a brief struggle with an amphetamine addiction in my 20s. Now I avoid anything addictive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:27 PM |
| 44 | How much would you bet these are mansplaining incel types? Reddit is a breeding ground for filth, and askmen I'd the tip of the icebergAs if most guys aren’t just nice to you because they wanna get in your pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 10 | What to do about Orbiters?Would m’lady spare a crumb of pussy? 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:39 PM |
| 215 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Broke men are not nicer, not kinder, not more attractive, or necessarily do anything better than non broke men. They’re just broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 10 | FDS is making me realize I need to surround myself with HVW too!I want an FDS bestie 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 5 | 50/50?!Sure, the day men do 50% of the emotional labor and 50% of the invisible labor. But they only want to do work that will get them back pats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:32 PM |
| 6 | I made a comment on here earlier about how I feel uncomfortable wearing leggings to school & this is what a scrote had to say 🥱One thing my (male) friend said: if she doesn’t have her name written on her butt, she’s not dressing sexy for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:30 PM |
| 66 | Some of the depressing advice for women to attract men: 1. Self-deprecate, 2. Be helpless, 3. Offer free emotional labour, 4. Give him trophies for basic adult skills, 5. Act like you’re an adolescent at the mercy of her emotions. The saddest advice that this is usually advice from other women.How to get men to fall in love with you: Exist Be a woman Dick is plentiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Men are so ungrateful and have the biggest egos. They really only care about themselves and making women slaves.SAHMs work far more than 50 hours per week. In fact, his work has an end, hers don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 13 | Men are so ungrateful and have the biggest egos. They really only care about themselves and making women slaves.They don’t respect the labor women do. Simple as that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 71 | The state of Reddit.I swear getting laid with a guy like that should count as pedophilia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:19 PM |
| 8 | Welcome to legislation budThey have little social skills, so they assume that, since they love nudes, women would want to see his disappointment of a dick too. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:14 PM |
| 47 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingLikewise, that’s why guys take it so personally when rejected by girls. It means they’re shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 83 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingUgly men are not nicer, kinder, richer, or anything. They’re just uglier. Same for broke men: they’re not nicer, kinder, more attractive, or anything. They’re just broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 8 | All the pickmes in the comments 💀I’ve seen guys saying to each other to “just ignore the ring” ‘cause “girls wear fake rings all the time.” Yes, they wear those rings exactly so scrotes will keep away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 13 | Meanwhile on Reddit...What a waste of amazing handwriting skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 22 | How to make friends with women?Due to my “not like the other girls” past, I only have male friends. Not gonna diss on them, they’ve supported me a lot, but I wish I had more female friends so I could focus on my emotional growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 25 | Why do people post questions/ask for advice on relationships that are clearly red flags?Basically, they’re rewarding bad behavior :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 87 | Couldn’t be me 🤷🏼♀️There are so many pick mes around and scrotes are still butthurt women in this sub won’t date them 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 8 | If they’re not a yes and yes they’re a HELL NO!Watching a puppy for a weekend, perhaps, but not training and nurturing a nice, well behaved dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 189 | 48M Seeking 28-34F“Carrying on my legacy,” says the scrote with absolutely no legacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 194 | Peak Pickmeism 🤪🤪And men being neither. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 248 | Peak Pickmeism 🤪🤪Having a woman do these things for him is gonna be a great confidence boost for when he goes pursue his high maintenance dream girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 61 | All the pickmes in the comments 💀Look, I’m thrifty as fuck and proud of it, but no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 104 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERThe whole “misunderstanding” thing is almost triggering…one of my ex would chalk up everything that upset me as me not “understanding” what he meant, as if I’m dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 162 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERAll I have to say is… The audacity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:13 PM |
| 281 | The audacity these men have. Haven’t even gone out with him and already pulling the attitude card. Fair to say I will be canceling“Chill it was just a joke” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 5 | How to still be friends with women who don't follow FDS?Give him a chance, he’s only got on the sex offender registry twice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 31 | lost me by even mentioning "spontaneous" but made a comebackYou can’t REEEE someone into liking you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 15 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?Some men definitely do, but I don’t think it’s all of them. Most are simply too emotionally stunted to have a proper relationship with a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 23 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?It doesn’t even need to be real. He’s angry at perceived slights too. In his mind, you only chose to date guy X instead of him because you hate him and wishes to punish him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:06 PM |
| 23 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?Then we make a forum where we tell each other how to choose better men, they still REEEEEEEE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 7 | I have no words for thisBut don’t forget that women are the ones with the impossibly high standards! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:48 PM |
| 76 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don't“Nervously smiling, wanting this to be over soon” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 55 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don'tHow dare she! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:21 PM |
| 25 | This is my favourite quote!If he expects sex in return, it wasn’t kindness anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:13 PM |
| 14 | FDS infiltrates WordscapesI love word games and anagrams! 6 letter words I found: Corset, sector, escort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 67 | The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to OrganizeNot jumping on their limp microdicks is hate speech, didn’t you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 38 | The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to OrganizeBrigading is against reddit rules for one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 114 | I thought Tinder and Bumble were dating apps? Sorry I don’t want to be your free call girl.If they were straightforward about it, whatever for me. The problem is, they aren’t. They try to manipulate/guilt you into going to bed with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 6 | The silent treatmentWhat does he add to your life? Is this really worth it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 15 | The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to Organizehttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/erjdsp/want_to_block_pesky_lvms_from_pming_you_on_reddit/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 29 | The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to OrganizeMy eyes rolled so hard they’re back in the front of my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 21 | The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to OrganizeDid they really? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 17 | Why do men become more interested after you stop initiating all the timeBecause no one likes a pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 35 | “Playing hard to get only makes you hard to want”🤡🤡🤡Men want women to approach them because it gives a self esteem boost, then with their new found confidence, they can go and approach the woman they actually want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating Red Flags 🚨3: they wanna seem desirable/make sure you know you have competition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 8 | No words.Seriously, the leeching is so strong they’re leeching my energy and I’m not even participating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 117 | Beware of Trojan HorsesI’ve told a scrote that, if I could just flip a switch and change my preferences, I’d be dating women instead. They are nicer and smell better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I found a HVMBest way to have a reliable male (or female) in your life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 12 | Is this a long term relationship with a love bomber?“I love you” is a very special phrase and throwing it around all willy nilly does nothing but trivializing it. Don’t feel pressured to say it if you don’t feel comfortable to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 29 | The mental loadExecuting the labor is far less mentally draining than planning for it. It’s called invisible labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 23 | About apps and social media, do they really benefit us? I think not.If someone wants in on my life, they’ll have to get to know me! I’m not gonna serve it on a platter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 12 | About apps and social media, do they really benefit us? I think not.Who else could it have been?! LVM and pick mes, of course! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 61 | About apps and social media, do they really benefit us? I think not.I was specifically told that not using any social media (other than anonymous ones, like Reddit) is a red flag because it means “I have something to hide.” I just don’t want my life to be gawked at like I’m some freak show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 55 | Can we talk about Karen?I don’t wanna defend the “Karens” because I despise people who are rude to retail workers. I just don’t get why are people singling out rude women. Men do the same shit and more, because they also sexually harass the workers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 82 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women...Women are useful to society just for being women. The vast majority of men are only good for cannon fodder and, as society evolves, have been losing the only thing they are good for, which is to be another cog at the machine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 21 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women...They pushed monogamy, we want to benefit from it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 8 | The photo and the caption 🤡Yummy, certainly better than my diet Red Bull. I need some better habits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:12 PM |
| 14 | Notice the Way His Dog BehavesI’ve always had a thing for guys who like cats. Something about understanding that an affectionate relationship isn’t always transactional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | 🤢🤢🤮🤮There are sites for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:05 AM |
| 73 | When did you have your FDS epiphany?Basically when it dawned on me that men complain so much about high maintenance women because those are the women they date and marry. If they wanted low maintenance, they’d date low maintenance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:50 AM |
| 16 | His lossSometimes we miss people who we’re better off without. I surely do miss my ex sometimes. Then I tell myself to remove the rose colored glasses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 61 | I need advice.Nothing to say but that you should work on your escape plan girl. And please, no more cohabitating without a ring on the finger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 37 | TLC's No Scrubs and men's need to cry about itSame thing as to why they get so hung up over the “men pays for the first date” rule, even though it’s a minor part of FDS. It’s pretty much the only thing they can try to turn against us. Else it’s just a bunch of women telling each other to stay away from manipulative and unhygienic men. The fact they’re so fiercely against it tells more about them than about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 7 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYCan’t say I blame you 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 10 | 🤢🤢🤮🤮I used to draw hentai for extra cash (nothing that even resembled underaged characters though). This sub and r/pornfree convinced me to stop. The money was good, but it’s fucking porn. Make no mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 119 | Try the “so what” method if someone tries to make you feel about having standards and expectations.Either they drop the conversation or they accuse you of not being “all that.” If I’m truly not “all that,” then I’ll spend my effort and money on becoming all that, instead of welcoming every butthurt scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 31 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYReminds me of my gay male friend complaining that every hairy fat guy describes himself as a “bear.” Bears need to have well developed muscles! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 64 | Research on pedophilia is increasingly showing us that exposure to porn and pedophilia have strong connections. This is part of why there are so many more male pedophiles, as men are socialized to use pornIt’s been show that repeated exposure to porn causes desensitization, which leads to the user seeking more and more depraved porn to get the same thrill. Can’t get much more depraved than sex with goddamn children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 28 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYIf they at least had some muscle it wouldn’t look so bad, I don’t even mind the fat so much as the lack of muscle and sloppy stance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 27 | Hearing ‘ILYBINILWY’ speechI used to say “I love you” all the time and get with people who did the same. Now I see that it’s too special a phrase to throw around all willy nilly like I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 32 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.I get a sense of schadenfreude every time a guy pushes to open up a relationship and there’s a line of guys willing to fuck his wife, whereas he and his penis get nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 141 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYI wonder if they have some sort of reverse body dysmorphia. Like, they look at the mirror and instead of seeing a fat, smelly, balding goblin, they see Henry Cavill staring back or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 74 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportSingle moms are dragged down for being the parents who stayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 21 | Dumped him because he didn't get me a b-day giftIt’s not about the price tag, it’s about the thoughtfulness and effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 17 | 🤡 every scrote DMing us 🤡C’mon now, don’t insult dogs like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 8 | 🤡 every scrote DMing us 🤡I just hit that decline button 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 92 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!Dating is an exclusionary activity by nature. It’s not my job to be a charity. It’s my job to choose the best possible option, for me and my future children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Had to block and delete a NVM for sending me LITERAL ANIMAL PORNExcuse moi, quoi la fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 28 | This is some true clown energy 🤡If you’re loyal when it’s unofficial, you get to be his pretend girlfriend for the next 10 years then watch him get engaged within 6 months to someone else! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 70 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.And i want a billion dollars. Funny how we don’t get what we want, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:26 PM |
| 12 | If only I was single... That's the sign sisNow that I’m single I can invest my mental energy on myself, not on someone who’s constantly negative and doesn’t appreciate my efforts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:26 PM |
| 4 | I'm very insecure/jealous/compare myself to every woman. Feels like other women are competition. With regard to my bf, I view women thru a lens of "is she a better choice for him than I am?"/ "she would be better for him" /"this is the type of girl he will leave me for"We are not competition, we are friends and want to see you succeed :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:10 PM |
| 29 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?“Continue my legacy,” says the scrote with nothing to his name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 110 | CW: kidnapping. Violence against young women/girls is so normal that men are out here bragging that they too would have kidnapped a young women in response to her loved ones desperate search. Horrific.And if/when he gets called out…”chill it’s just a joke!” 🙄 Hope they find the girl :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 12 | So many scrotes are so dirty and unhygienic that they have come up with their own term for why their nether regions smell like shit sometimes. dear scrotes... if you shower regularly, you shouldn’t stink so bad after a sweaty day (explication in the comments)No depression or anything? I did “relax” my hygiene habits during the worst my my depression. I also had the decency of not dating while I was too depressed to shower, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 7 | And todays catch of the day ladies! Red flag central with a generous serving of emotional baggageMopey men? Run! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 22 | Julius Fucking Caesar.Yeap, this dude doesn’t care for creating a family. The thought of impregnating a woman makes his pp hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 76 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!That fat women should never be allowed to date, but it’s okay for men to be fat and it doesn’t affect their sexual market value. Dude who said it was one of those fat guys who are huge on top with tiny legs that could barely handle his weight, so he walked with knock knees. A true alpha male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:06 PM |
| 48 | What’s your favourite FDS principle?I’ve noticed that many LVM I know have doting moms who tried too hard to change their sons with love and ended up with a manchild. Often these same moms aren’t so doting to their daughters :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 134 | What’s your favourite FDS principle?Don’t reward him for shitty behavior. If he’s being a lazy sod, giving him more love/sex/whatever won’t fix it, it’ll reinforce the bad behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 50 | Am I right, ladies?Also works with “women trying to have a space to discuss women’s issues” and “butthurt low value straight men.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Can a man be both HV and an abuser?One thing precludes the other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 47 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?And how disgusting guys fetishize pregnancy 🤢 they don’t want a family they want their pp hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 84 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?Carrying a child means carrying a piece of said man, and most men are disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 47 | "Open Minded" is code for sex dollI’ve thought of trying OLD simply because I don’t know how to find people otherwise, but I guess I should be working on socializing more first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:24 PM |
| 317 | "Open Minded" is code for sex dollOne day I got a PM on my main account saying he’d be in my country and if I do anal. I should have ignored and blocked, but I answered “sure! I love fucking boys in the ass!” Got no reply! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 20 | "Open Monded" is code for sex dollOne day I got a PM on my main account saying he’d be in my country and if I do anal. I should have ignored and blocked, but I answered “sure! I love fucking boys in the ass!” Got no reply! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 118 | TRIGGER WARNING: Just Some Casual Rape and Sexual Assualt Apologising, And They Wonder Why We Think They Have No Empathy?!?! From Men, Going Their Own Way 2.0 (AKA Men FORCED To Go Their Own Way )-VOMITWomen go their own way out of their own choice. Men go their own way out of the women’s choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Harry potter and the Audacity of this Scrote. Not only could he not use his big brain to figure out why I'm talking to him but he thinks he's hot stuff.Don’t take me bad, but this is the opposite of what FDS stands for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 8 | This waiting to wed sub is so depressing :(This is the kind of guy who wastes your time for 10 years as you get all his needs catered, then dumps you and is engaged with a new woman 6 months later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:00 PM |
| 48 | My LVM ex-boyfriend’s girlfriend called me! What the hellI get wanting to help a fellow woman, and I’m open to all fellow ladies who actually want help, but there’s no helping someone who doesn’t want to be helped, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 7 | Found this comment on a video about dating chinese women... Geez, the audacity of these neckbeardsI’d like to reply to this with his profile picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 13 | Scrolling through Amazon reviews for women clothesThis could have been sweet, but he had to ruin it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 12 | Posted on the “90 Day Fiancé” tv show sub. 😂💀South American woman here, white gringo losers love coming here thinking women will jump to their limp microdicks. Spoilers: we don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 4 | Priding myself on being low maintenance as a pickmeIf men wanted low maintenance women, they’d date and marry low maintenance women. The reason they complain so much about high maintenance women is because they are the ones they date/marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 7 | What wall?!There’s like 1% of the guys who take care of themselves and have good genetics who look better at 50 than at 30. The average guy, though, hits the wall in college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 145 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ man“You aren’t all that,” okay, how about instead of broadening my scope to include scrotes, I invest my time and energy on myself so I do become “all that”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:04 AM |
| 8 | I need to end things with my LVMDon’t feel tempted to get or give closure. End it then work on healing yourself. He’ll get over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 14 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverIt’s by choice in their case too, but the other part’s choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 31 | Alright I’ve lost enough brain cells todayI’ll concede that men are physically more powerful than women. That gives them double the responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 47 | Found on Facebook. I hope he picks you, sis 🤮Then after being his girlfriend for 8 years, you get to wonder why he left you for your “unattractive” and “fat” friend who doesn’t do anything for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Why do women romanticize being in a toxic relationship???And would probably attract a better man to boot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 13 | Share your stories of men and how they deal with our periods! HVM, LVM, NVM, advice and anything!!!One day in high school I dropped a pad off my backpack and a few boys started to make fun of me. I get it’s high school and high school boys are supposed to be dumb, but c’mon now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 11 | It’s been a week since I blocked my ex. How do I keep this going without breaking down?It’s okay to breakdown. You’re not weak for missing him. You can always come to us for support :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 98 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverMen can’t thrive on their own and delude themselves into believing women are the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 407 | I—????????????He’s good to go, Indian women aren’t interested in him either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 17 | FDS, I need tips how to stay safe when I break up with my stbx boyfriendFuck girl. This is rough. First thing is to make sure you’re never alone for a good few months. Do you have any close by friends or relatives who you can open to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 30 | When the only way you can cope with having married a LVM is by deluding yourself into thinking all men are LV... imagine marrying a man who insults your genitals to his friendsThat’s one situation I’d endorse a “not all men.” As in “not all men have to be scrotes.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 54 | Boyfriend mad she did things to her rapists she “hasn’t done with him”That’s what I concluded too. He’s mad he didn’t get to actually rape her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Ladies I finally did it 👑😍 clown' s madThink this guy PMed me too. I just blocked. He’s not worth my attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 132 | Boyfriend mad she did things to her rapists she “hasn’t done with him”After posting this I got not just one, but two male scrotes PMing me “what about this is rape?” Some people are beyond redemption. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 16 | Congrats sir you’ve reached the bare minimum of what it takes to be a man, next please.Unless you don’t give what he wants, then he’ll show all signs of being a sociopath. And blame you for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:12 PM |
| 30 | Men are 7x more likely to leave their sick wives/girlfriends than women are to leave their sick boyfriends/husbands - confirmed by multiple studiesWomen have standards at all, that’s the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 25 | Rule 7 🙄Bet they’re okay with shaming women for being “shallow” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:29 PM |
| 39 | "Why do you hate men?"I don’t hate men. I just believe men are emotionally stunted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 64 | Men are 7x more likely to leave their sick wives/girlfriends than women are to leave their sick boyfriends/husbands - confirmed by multiple studiesAnd if he doesn’t dump, he’ll cheat or emotionally close up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 48 | From a thread where a man said that they need explicit instructions for them to do something for their SOs. Imagine being the wife of this man, how sad is this :(And he’ll probably post to r/deadbedrooms wondering what is wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Help sis's, how to get over a (sort of?) HVMThere’s no “sorta HVM.” Either he’s a HVM or he’s a LVM who manipulated you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 211 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.There’s no shortage of pick mes around. If you want one, date one. The reason men complain so much about paying for the dates, though, is that they don’t want the pick mes. They want the “bitch” who knows her own worth. And those are too unaffordable for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Correct me if I’m wrong....You don’t really know someone until you’ve seen them when things aren’t going their way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Typical blame-shift pattern perpetrators use when confrontedWhen you have the emotional maturity of a 4 year old, communicating is attacking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:31 PM |
| 6 | I can’t even think of a reason a HVM is worth going through all the dating LV bs I’ve been through anymoreThat’s the sad truth. Dick is so plentiful it’s literally worthless. Good dick though, is extremely rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:26 PM |
| 4 | I can’t even think of a reason a HVM is worth going through all the dating LV bs I’ve been through anymoreI still want a family with children, but at this point I’m more looking for a provider than someone to get romantically attached to. I’d rather put this energy towards my future children than waste on an unappreciative man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion has always been a place to trash talk women, but this insulting garbage takes the cake. We're constantly threatened by a subreddit that is able to say whatever they like because it's 'just their opinion' and calls us prostitutes.If you want a pick me, date a pick me. There’s no shortage of them. Problem is, they don’t want pick mes. They want the woman who demands to be catered to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 19 | "going their own way"- manipulation, lies and deflection. Sounds like the woman in question has a restraining order against him & he is a crazy stalker. They claim to "go their own way", then harass a woman they claim to not even want a relationship with, while also blaming her & calling her names.Probably think less attractive women “should be thankful” that he’s offering her his limp microdick, and she has the gall to turn him down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:58 PM |
| 28 | The social stress of being unwed is the real woman killer 🙄Damn women, if your men tell you he’s gonna fix the gate, he’s gonna fix the gate! No need to remind him every 6 months! What a nag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:44 PM |
| 22 | Never say a man is a HVM until you vet him properly.Yeah, I fell for a guy who seemed very sweet and caring. Turns out he never bothered with the emotional labor and dumped me as soon as I needed support. Now I’m jaded and afraid to be romantically attached again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:42 PM |
| 25 | When the woman is about to break and wake tf up Reddit be like... “but why you look at his phone tho”Sometimes issuing consequences for an action is how you communicate. Else it’s just words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 18 | Send this to a friend who needs to hear this! 💕You deserve a man who makes time for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 187 | I liked you better when you were miserableNothing to wonder there, that’s exactly it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 16 | If he wants you to have an OnlyFans or is okay with you having an OnlyFans = LV?Back in my days, jokes were meant to be funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 116 | Learned this the hard way.Also, if he can control his temperament when talking to his boss at work but not to you, it means he can control himself if he’s talking to someone he respects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:04 PM |
| 66 | I know FDS is true because ... (a message for those not-yet-sold and those who deny FDS altogether...)Also, we are the ones dating men, so we are more apt to give a summary of how most men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 178 | I know FDS is true because ... (a message for those not-yet-sold and those who deny FDS altogether...)And when they come here to say “not all men are like this!” Exactly the point of this sub, helping you find the one in a million man who isn’t like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 40 | Insecure about my ageLVM look for young women because they’re easy to manipulate. HVM want a woman to match his level of maturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 9 | OLD Fuckboi can’t make up his mindHe probably means “daddy issues” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 28 | “Pick me, pick me, pick me!”Men truly need women more than women need men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:18 PM |
| 64 | Proof that whatever a woman was wearing at the time she was assaulted/harassed/abused/stalked/catcalled/raped had NOTHING to do with it.I’ve told a few scrotes that if they admit to being so inferior they can’t see a miniskirt without sexually assaulting the woman, they shouldn’t be allowed outside without a minder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:17 PM |
| 19 | Saw a post about men who get insecure about pretty boys/hvm who actually care about their appearances. Thought I'd post a cherry on top 😂 (there are 2 images here)I can feel the jealousy from here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 80 | This. This is what I am working on with myself at the moment. Trying to get to the bottom of why I accepted what I did. Ladies it’s very useful to look inwards and see what is going on internally! Why are we allowing subpar shitty behaviour or traits?Honestly? Loneliness. The kind I should have supplied with friends (preferably female). Alas, I chose the first guy who seemed sweet to me. And this was after knowing FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 16 | Gosh! No thank you, I'm intolerant this bsMen work when kept on their toes. He has to know I’m not afraid of breaking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 34 | Some men love calling women gold diggers, yet here I am (politely) turning down a “rich” guy after 1‼️ date. Imagine feeling so entitled and simultaneously so insufferable that even your $$$ can’t keep a woman interested since that’s all he thinks I’m after, I have to laugh 😘He does seem the kind to think that he can buy a woman’s love. Then complain about gold diggers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 61 | Some men love calling women gold diggers, yet here I am (politely) turning down a “rich” guy after 1‼️ date. Imagine feeling so entitled and simultaneously so insufferable that even your $$$ can’t keep a woman interested since that’s all he thinks I’m after, I have to laugh 😘Saying something expecting something else to happen is manipulation 🙄 good on you for not falling for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 94 | Peak LVM right hereThe vaginismus bit gave me nausea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 10 | We decline these kinds of datesPlus my diet is very restricted and I don’t like talking about it to people I don’t know well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???The only situation in which “what do I do” is reasonable is if she doesn’t know the best way to contact the authorities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 6 | ‘What should I do?’ Really???He’s testing the mother’s reaction so he can tell when it’s safe to escalate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 20 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?That’s why I pride myself on being thrifty. Money doesn’t impress me, effort does. A guy flying over to come see me would probably count positively in my radar. Throwing me money and expecting me to do the effort, not much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Do NOT reply to male PMsExactly, they are always playing a game and the only winning move is not to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.I had a doctor tell me I’m “stupid” to think there might be a physiological cause for me to go from 49 kg to 86 kg in 10 months and that I’m “making excuses” and “I need a psychiatrist.” There was a physiological problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.I get extremely horny and ready to go a week before my period. During my period I’m more sensitive, but not in a very good way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 30 | The oversexualisation of female bodies is ridiculous. A model going out in a coat in a New York WINTER is "covering up" her famous figure...what on earth?“Woman with long legs exists, more news at 11” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Awwww, look at the cute thing I found! So dedicated to his education too, it’s nice to see that. Let this be a part of your education, hun.. 🖕and, to any other male lurkers, the only reason you hate us is because your 50/50 gf would dump you if she ever got a whiff of how she should be treated.Don’t reward him with your attention. Just decline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 10 | I think the sad and disgusting truth is that the only reason there are so many LVMs is because there are so many pickmes. TWAnd pick mes stem from an artificially inflated sense of how important male attention is, which in turn comes from male centric socialization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:10 PM |
| 10 | Awwww, look at the cute thing I found! So dedicated to his education too, it’s nice to see that. Let this be a part of your education, hun.. 🖕and, to any other male lurkers, the only reason you hate us is because your 50/50 gf would dump you if she ever got a whiff of how she should be treated.Got the same one. Hope you hit that decline button and blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:07 PM |
| 10 | Don’t wait for closure- especially from an LVM, he isn’t worth it. The best way to move on however... just leave and never, ever look back. Show him he ain’t shit!👋Amen sister. Your time and attention are too valuable to waste on LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 2 | I think I was taken advantage of.Yeah, I was gonna delete my comment yesterday but then the sub became private. I realize it sounds really bad. I actually meant to say that, even if we take the men’s logic as true, it’s still their responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Do NOT reply to male PMsDefinitely! They don’t deserve your attention, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:34 PM |
| 2 | I think I was taken advantage of.So, my wording was really poor. I was trying to say that even if we go for the men’s logic, he’s still a participant, so he’d be just as responsible as. I’m sorry if anyone got bad vibes from my comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 183 | The oversexualisation of female bodies is ridiculous. A model going out in a coat in a New York WINTER is "covering up" her famous figure...what on earth?Like male authors who write boobs as if they have personalities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:26 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Oh, didn’t mean to imply that you were a pick me, just that these men are looking for easy pick mes, then settle for a high maintenance queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Men don’t want to settle down with a pick me. Act like a queen and they’ll definitely want to settle down with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | What do you tell guys if they ask if you’re still dating other people?Those are great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:06 PM |
| 28 | Do NOT reply to male PMsLong story short, the sub was set to private for scheduled maintenance. Scrotes at r/nicegirls, r/TRP and similar scrote shitholes were celebrating thinking we got banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:05 PM |
| 3 | How can I be/look as high maintenance as possible? What screams “pick me energy”?I’m particularly on the thrifty side, and I’m at peace with that. Nothing wrong with being high maintenance financially, that’s just not me. I’m high maintenance emotionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 17 | Do NOT reply to male PMsI don’t wanna block some of the amazing women who come for advice sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 40 | Do NOT reply to male PMsYou just know they’re really mad we didn’t get banned hahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:46 PM |
| 68 | A Man Seriously Compared Not Being Able to Comment on FDS to Nazi Germany.A real ‘alpha’ shouldn’t be scared of a woman who knows her worth anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:20 PM |
| 8 | Women helping women. 💜 Do any of you lovely ladies have similar stories? I would love to read them.This whole sub 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:34 PM |
| 78 | Right...Men should carry the babies so they would be useful for something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:33 PM |
| 12 | Potential boyfriend has LVM friendsWould he be willing to stand up for you against his friends? Because my ex would never even consider that a possibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 9 | "Men are oblivious"Try staring at other men in the street and see how oblivious they really are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Do some of our mothers want to see us fail romantically?Nah, my mom is a strong independent woman and never got married :) …she also shits on other single moms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 15 | Hey ladies, I need advice about dating on OLD.It’s his job to make you excited about the prospect of a date, and he already failed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 16 | Because apparently I need his permissionI think he wants an open relationship. The “sometimes” part is because he knows if he allows it all the time you get all the fun and he gets nothing. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 14 | How do you guys feel about the term "Bitch."It’s part of my main account’s username. It’s one of these words that are meant to be insulting by shaming you for putting yourself first. If that means to be a bitch, then yeah I am one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 5 | I think I was taken advantage of.She should have been aware of how much she drank and he should have been aware that drunk people can’t consent. Why can’t men realize that it takes two to tango? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Sorry I just had to post this. WTF is wrong with these sick assholes?I wish other types of cancer could be removed with a simple text saying “you’re sick and we’re done” and a block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 32 | Self-proclaimed ‘liberal, family man, loving boyfriend and solid man, artistic soul’ sour grapes scrote in the wild. This is how a man who ‘emphasizes respecting women’ (according to his self image) talks.And one of her sugar daddies is a very desirable (if a bit saggy nowadays) class A actor. She’s eons ahead of the average pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Just block all your friends and familyI’m never blocking my straight male best friend. If a guy can’t understand that a platonic relationship between a man and a woman is possible, he probably doesn’t see women in a good way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Just what? This only a few months before they tried to sell "Daddy's Little Slut" shirts for little girls.Excuse moi, quoi la fuck?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 27 | Stumbled across this exchange.. typical LVM reacting to a rejection 😂Here’s a guy thinking that tossing some change at a woman entitles him to pussy. He definitely deserves to be left without pocket change and pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 22 | Stumbled across this exchange.. typical LVM reacting to a rejection 😂Yeah, my time and attention are too valuable. I’m not giving it to them for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:34 PM |
| 76 | Stumbled across this exchange.. typical LVM reacting to a rejection 😂Yeah, even a sex worker wouldn’t do it for $10. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.My brokenness comes from wasting too much time and effort trying to make it into the arts world. Stereotypical starving artist. I’m gonna get back to school now trying for a more stable career. Shame I wasted so much time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Am I just jealous?How much is he paying you for the therapy sessions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:50 PM |
| 18 | Sexist Men Might Be Less Likely to Wear Face MasksIf they were only putting themselves at risk, I wouldn’t give a shit, let Darwin do his thing. But these guys are going around all haphazardly then go back home to their elderly parents for example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 15 | How do y'all deal with thinking about the stupid mistakes made in the past?I still made the mistake of taking on a project…after I’ve known about FDS. All because he seemed really sweet and caring, even if he was struggling a bit with depression. The pick me mindset is a hard one to ditch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 25 | Ladies- block and delete- use these functions liberally.I’d add “do not reward bad behavior.” If he’s acting up because you haven’t sucked his dick, and you suck his dick, all you’re teaching him is “if I want my dick sucked, I have to act up.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 19 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.Yeah, I’ve recently broken with a fixer-upper project I took. He seemed so sweet and naive. Then I had health problems and stopped being fun, so he dumped me. Right when I needed him the most. Then I was left to sigh over all the romantic drawings and the half finished romantic scrapbook I was making. Never felt so pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 65 | 💯🙌And then his microdick won’t be able to get up because your ass isn’t as perky as a pornstar’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 34 | The Mental Load. Why I refuse to go 50/50. Until men acknowledge all that we do & pick up their share of the burden, they can pay my bills for taking so much on for them.And if he doesn’t like it, stop complaining to women and complain about the men who make it a necessity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Stupid sarcastic pickme shames a woman for wanting gifts from her boyfriend, implies shes a prostitute, and tells her “he shouldn’t need to spend money on you, his love should be enough to make you happy”I care more about the effort behind the gift than the monetary value. Of course I like pretty jewelry, but I’ll also like a romantic scrapbook made with love. Not like he can just throw money at me and buy my love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 18 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.Most men are outwardly nice and sweet. It’s why they say you can be with a LVM/NVM for years and not know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 35 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.Because that’s women for you, trained to be loyal to men even though he literally tried to cut her arm and force a baby in her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 18 | Gross old guy feels entitled to using a variety of young women’s bodies for sex and reacts violently when ask why any woman would ever enjoy this.Since women his age know how to set boundaries, he looks for younger women to try his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 47 | Men can't provide for families, can't pick up after themselves, can't pay for a whole date, and now they're demanding that they don't ask women out on dates at all but they still want access to us. Don't ask men out, leave these losers to die alone.Don’t worry sis, I meant it ironically 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:05 AM |
| 156 | Men can't provide for families, can't pick up after themselves, can't pay for a whole date, and now they're demanding that they don't ask women out on dates at all but they still want access to us. Don't ask men out, leave these losers to die alone.I’m so picky I want the kind of man who has the cojones to ask me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:01 AM |
| 7 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.I feel like I lost 6 years off my 20s to depression :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 12 | As requested, the Lasagna of Male DepravityThis lasagna looks too good, needs something out of r/shittyfoodporn or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:40 AM |
| 16 | As requested, the Lasagna of Male DepravityWhat’s MoMA? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:36 AM |
| 123 | Women need to start being as shallow to men as they are to usShallow is a completely meaningless insult anyway. It was made up by undesirable people to shame those who have high standards. Whether my standards are too high or just high enough is a problem that only pertains to me. I’m not a charity, I don’t have to be inclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 10 | Yes, LVM who try to argue with you. Don’t fall for it!Yeah, I never reward them with my attention. Don’t waste precious minutes of your time on them ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Please tell me your personality goes beyond weed, anime, and horrorHis eyes are open wide, which should be an indication of a strong emotion like fear, anger, or surprise. However, the rest of his features are neutral, which wouldn’t happen to someone expressing a strong emotion. This mismatch of expressions makes the brain go WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Please tell me your personality goes beyond weed, anime, and horrorYeah, how about you write about what you like rather than what you hate? Men are so basic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 41 | Got it twisted when I called him out on his overly sexual flirting with me. Then I get this at 5am. Now he's going to have to wait longer now bc that's his "making it up to me"If you had given what he wanted, he’d get bored of you. You told him to sod off and now he’s desperate after you. How could I ever believe that a guy just needed a little more love and he’d be perfect? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | What pop culture character is your inspiration?Granted, I haven’t been able to read the books yet. My opinion is mostly based on the games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 10 | This is what happens when pickmeishas become mothersGod, I don’t think that even on the worst of my “not like the other girls” phase I’d have done shit like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Hypocrisy of menTRPs/incels are angry we are telling women to stay away from men like them. We are angry TRPs/incels want to perpetrate/normalize violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Accept that you cannot control others. There is no magical combination of words that will transform a LVM into a HVM. The only person whose actions you can control, is yourself.I recommend r/loveafterporn for the women’s perspective on having a porn addicted partner. r/pornfree for the men’s side. It’s also a very sad place, some of these guys started as young as 9. Porn is anything but harmless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 6 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.I’m broke and why would I be with someone who’s broke too? It’s bad enough to deal with my own money woes, don’t need someone else’s too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 9 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.You shouldn’t take shit from no one, but at least the handsome guy is bringing something to the table, even if it’s just the social clout of being with someone attractive. Ugly, poor, smelly, small dicked men will also treat you like shit, but you get nothing out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 32 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.Wasting a girl’s 20s should be a crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:30 PM |
| 26 | I got accused of sexual abuse and 'being high maintenance' by a loser scrote.Being high maintenance is a goal to strive for anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 56 | Can older guys even fuck?I find that porn consumption correlates more with bad sex performance than age. Of course, a 40 year old guy seeking an 18 year old girlfriend is going to be shit a sex, hence the fact he’s looking for an inexperienced girl who doesn’t know how to set boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 27 | DustThe armchair psychologist in me thinks he wanted you to see how he’s a “brutally honest” bad boy who don’t give a shit what people think. Women dig those, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 25 | Almost had to call the cops on a No Value Male!Evidence that it’s not about sex, it’s about power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 96 | DustYa know, I wish more guys did this. Dumped all their red flags at the start instead of making me have to go on a Easter egg hunt for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:17 PM |
| 96 | What happens when I'm both?The guy who makes this is probably the kind who goes to Japan/China/Thailand/Korea expecting women to be jumping to his microdick because he’s white, not realizing that “submissive” Asian women are even choosier than western women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 10 | When he's so pornsick he can't leave his computer but still needs to somehow make money...Is…is that a thing that happens?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 25 | Someone is mad, goodSomeone is mad 30 year old women don’t let themselves be manipulated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:14 PM |
| 26 | Men show their true colours30 year old women are hard to manipulate. That’s all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you just sit still and listen during the date ?Yeah. Saying no and blocking is just as easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:04 PM |
| 200 | Remember ladies, we’re no Barbara the Builder. We’re not here to build these men up from the ground.Build him up, and, if you succeed, you get to watch him dump you because now he believes he can do better! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 30 | Accept that you cannot control others. There is no magical combination of words that will transform a LVM into a HVM. The only person whose actions you can control, is yourself.Don’t reward bad behavior. “If I love him a bit more maybe he’ll realize I’m worth it!” What he hears is: “I can be as much of a shithead as I want and she’ll still love me!” Bad behavior should be met with a cold shoulder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 207 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.But we are more ‘shallow’ for not wanting to date their broke ass 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 41 | Queen Andrea Dworkin sums up why HAVING YOUR OWN MONEY AS A WOMAN IS SO IMPORTANT and why men hate women being more independent in our current eraMen need women. Unless you force it by artificially restricting our options, women don’t need men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 11 | “Let’s See Where Things Go”I’m younger than you (31) but I feel like, at my age, “where things go” should be marriage. If he’s not interested in getting married and having kids then pass. I actually turned down a decent guy because he said he’s unsure about marrying. Something about how his parents multiple marriages ruined the concept for him. I empathize, but that is still a big no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:49 PM |
| 12 | Covid hit hard? Like are you trying to get with me because this ain’t the way.It can work on emotionally immature women, when done subtly. Subtly being the keyword here. Scrotes have the sensibility of a raging hippo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 55 | Nerd culture and adults who refuse to grow upNothing wrong with games and other forms of media, I consume them too. However, I do expect my SO to have at least one productive hobby. If his only hobby is consuming things other people created, it’s a hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 13 | For Those Women Who Feel They Cannot Leave LVMs Due to Financial Abuse and Lack of Income... My experiences and AdviceYeah, I want to be a SAHM for at least a few years and I see I should have an escape plan ready. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 27 | It’s okay to mourn the loss of a connection/relationship, even if it was not right for youI still miss my ex, even though I see how much of an asshole he was to me. I wouldn’t ever take him back, but the relationship was still meaningful to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 42 | ☣️ Men as nuclear waste ☣️LVM wear you out emotionally because you have to do all the emotional labor in the relationship. This will inevitably cause you to become more depressed, anxious, irritable. Then he’ll thank you for your time by ditching you, cheating, or mentally checking out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 55 | This subreddit is one of the only places I feel safe as a womanBeing a woman is awesome. We don’t need men to be fulfilled, but men can’t live without women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 99 | Tips for landing a HVMHonestly, the person who made me come to FDS was a guy. People in a chat room were discussing how vile this subreddit was and how it’s “incel for women,” when he chimed in saying “actually, I agree with most of it.” He’s a bit too young for me, but they do exist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 13 | Mindset shift for women who find themselves doing more of the houseworkBecause, if he let you clean, you’d have something you could use as a leverage to ask something from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Mindset shift for women who find themselves doing more of the houseworkOkay I’ve been depressed enough to go two weeks without showering (granted, I barely left my bed at all), but not being bothered by literal pee is too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Mindset shift for women who find themselves doing more of the houseworkEven if you were difficult, surely they can understand that something is better than nothing at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 10 | I can’t believe how many women that I’ve seen in my life who have done this because they’re afraid to be alone. One and done people!! Find your happiness though yourself and there will be no other person that you need.I’ve got a rule: change first, then I decide if I wanna give you a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 13 | The Real Reason He Should Pay for DatesFor me this is on the level of high standard shaming. Why is it a bad thing at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 8 | When you witness the birth of the newest FDS memberAs someone who basically drinks diet Red Bull, I’ll hide right here in this corner and hope no one sees me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:06 PM |
| 5 | FDS has ruined music for me. The music video for the misogynistic song "Beauty & Essex" by Daniel Caesar and the Free Nationals has 9.3 million views on YouTube.God, there’s this popular Brazilian song from the 40s about a guy complaining that his current girlfriend is too high maintenance and how his former partner, Amelia, is a “real woman” because she has no “vanity,” and “would starve by his side and think it’s beautiful not to have what to eat.” I’ve always hated this song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:41 PM |
| 6 | This sub helped me see the truthBecause resentfulness, heartbreak, and regret are real and valid feelings that have to be addressed, not ignored. Rehashing is part of the healing process for some, and that’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:35 PM |
| 5 | I keep this to periodically laugh at. Of course you haven’t, I wasn’t the problem. 🤣Best reply to this is no reply. Second best and funniest one, though, would be “excuse me, who are you again?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:33 PM |
| 5 | I don't care if I trigger people by my high standards. I'm not here to make you comfortable sweetheart. I'm here to shake the ground. I'm not regurgitating what didn't benefit me. Im done caring about how people are going to react, to me honoring my self? What am I even afraid of?You’re not a charity, you don’t have to be “inclusive” when it comes to dating. You have to go for the best you can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 46 | Last year I thought that a man telling me I'm "not like other girls" was a compliment. A year on, I've realized what it really meantI had a “not like other girls” mindset for most of my life (31 yo) and I feel being drawn towards men and their mindset and away from other women stunted my emotional growth. Because most men are emotionally stunted. I really want to make some female friends now, but I’ve never really learned how to form emotional connections with other women and I sorely regret it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 63 | The notion that attractive women only go for 'chads' in their 20's and settle for ambitious 'beta's' when they hit the wall is a lie. It puts the blame of bad male behavior on women and also doubles as a narrative where single women are punished for not choosing LVM (the narrators) in the 1st place.They never get as much V as they want though 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:38 PM |
| 11 | This sub growing so much just proves how many women are unsatisfied with men todayThey’ll still PM from time to time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:46 PM |
| 58 | This sub growing so much just proves how many women are unsatisfied with men todayYeah, I just saw someone calling out pick mes in a forum I participate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Here’s Britain’s ITV news promoting and joking about rape by deception. They playfully refer to it as “wokefishing” and the “latest trend”. HORRIFICWhat’s it with scrotes and their hate boner for makeup? Dude literally compared wearing makeup to a character flaw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:26 AM |
| 8 | A classic example of female indoctrination. Ladies, no matter what the internet or others tell us, it is NOT OUR JOB to cure his intimacy issues. There are psychologists for this kind of stuff!Yeah, I’d say that a guy who suffers from, for example, depression, and seeks professional treatment and works on it is a huge positive. Shows willingness to get in touch with their emotional side, rather than suppressing it like emotionally stunted men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 31 | Has the view of your own parents relationship changed since being on this sub? Is your father someone who is high value?I’m jealous of my mother. She’s 70 and found a boyfriend on his 80s who likes to pamper her like a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 18 | A classic example of female indoctrination. Ladies, no matter what the internet or others tell us, it is NOT OUR JOB to cure his intimacy issues. There are psychologists for this kind of stuff!I do have some problems opening up…that’s why I pay a therapist. Guys will seek a free therapist on Tinder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:13 AM |
| 13 | This snaggle toothed little bitchYa know, I can appreciate this. Just throw all the red flags at me at the first glance so I know to run to the hills. The problem is when they’re outwardly nice and save the red flags for later on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 13 | No.. just noI really hope whoever dates my ex right now really has a better time than I did, because I don’t want any woman to have to go through what I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Why do LVM shame promiscuous women, but at the same time expect every woman to sleep with them???🤔Unresolved Madonna-whore complexMadonna-whore complex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 23 | Listen up: A few dates, or mere texting is not enough to determine if a man is HVM!I guess the smart thing to do is to always have an exit plan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:55 AM |
| 13 | Listen up: A few dates, or mere texting is not enough to determine if a man is HVM!I’d say you don’t really know someone until you see how they behave when things are not going their way. It’s very easy to seem nice and caring when everything is favorable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 32 | Seriously 😂thats why we don’t listen to what guys say we pay attention to their actions😴🥱Basically, invest time, money, and effort on yourself, not on men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 121 | Trust your instincts ladies!I used to be very active on this sub. I decided to stop reading because it was giving me “anxiety.” Turns out my “anxiety” was me being in denial about the guy I had started to date. I really wanted to believe I had made a good choice. I didn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 15 | Doing nice things for a man won’t make him love you. On the contrary: the more he does for you, the more invested he feels, and the more in control you feel in the dynamic. You’re better off investing your effort into yourself to maximize your value & confidence.I took on a ‘project’ because he seemed to be sweet. He ditched me as soon as I stopped being fun and needed some emotional support myself. “Sweet” men are still men. Don’t be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 7 | LVM drowning in expectations.Not like having high standards is a bad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 13 | LVM drowning in expectations.I’ve lost the count of how many times I’ve been told I should just get married “then change him!” How about no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.Well, you do you, but keep in mind that men don’t really take something seriously unless they had to earn it. Why be proactive if he has you to hold his hand? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:45 AM |
| 14 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.I’m scared of going back to the dating scene because almost every man is superficially nice. You have to analyze behavior and social clues to determine whether he’s an asshole. I’m autistic and I suck at picking up on those. Just thinking about the kind of men I ended up dating in the past gives me nightmares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 12 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.Is he trying to work on whatever emotional/attachment issues that are preventing him from being a good partner? Because what you said is exactly what I’d have said about my ex a year ago. He genuinely wanted to be a good partner for me, but didn’t know how and didn’t put in any effort to learn either. Once I began to require actual support, he ditched me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 9 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.For me it’s not only the weight, I feel like a huge fog has been lifted off my brain. I can actually do stuff now that I previously only managed on strong ADHD meds. I wonder if I had a low level infection for a long time and it only got more severe recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 18 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.I was diagnosed by a gastroenterologist. My first try was with an endocrinologist who straight up called me stupid right to my face. I decided to keep pursuing and found a good professional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 52 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.As a rule, men won’t be there for sick/struggling women. Unless he specifically shows otherwise, I’d assume they’re part of the rule. Chances are, you’ll spend all your emotional energy helping him go through bad times and when he’s in a good situation, instead of returning the favor, he’ll start to believe he can do better and dump you or cheat. Even if he doesn’t, it’s not because he’s appreciative of your efforts, it’s because he’s taking you for granted and its convenient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 33 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.Definitely. He was an energy vampire. I had to spend all my mental energy trying to help him with his problems that he refused to deal with and ended up neglecting my own needs. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:19 PM |
| 84 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.My ex wanted to be seen as the caring boyfriend who’d do anything for his girl, but wasn’t willing to put on the effort. When I got an infected cyst on my back, he’d do things like put warm compresses on me and remind me to take my antibiotics. He liked how it felt and it was little effort. When supporting me started to take actual effort, he bailed out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 31 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.Not gonna lie, even though I was a reader of FDS, for the first month or so, if he said he wanted me back, I would. I was already dealing with a lot of shit, and heartbreak on top of that was too much. I did fool myself into believing he was a nice, caring, and sensitive guy. Time allowed me to put the pieces together and see him for the asshole he is. Probably wouldn’t have done it without FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:21 PM |
| 34 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.I was given antifungals and told to eat probiotics. I’m also on a diet in which I eat minimal sugars and starches, as well as cutting off all grain. It’s similar to keto, but I still eat fruit on occasion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:17 PM |
| 40 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.Bit of a rant, but I basically had to be diagnosed by the internet. My doctors tunnel visioned into their specialties and couldn’t see outside of it. My psychiatrist gave me antidepressants and stimulants, my endocrinologist gave me diet pills, my dermatologist gave me a bunch things for my skin, and so on. The only one who considered that my ailments might be linked was my psychologist, but he isn’t a doctor. A redditor was the one who pointed out that my symptoms could be bowel related and I s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 44 | Left me because I was sick, wants back now that I’m not sick anymore.I was feeling like shit all the time and I still found a way to share a little positiveness. I say that because he would be extremely negative all the time. I had to deal with my conditions and, on top of that, tip toe around his feelings. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 57 | No need to lower standards when there would be absolutely none required to give this scrote the time of day.I swear they’re trying to neg themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 08:58 PM |
| 63 | Men only care about sex being degrading when It’s their turn to pleasure their partner, how fragile is men’s masculinity?Yeah, I’d never date a guy who doesn’t love to eat pussy. Not even one that does it to please me, he has to actually enjoy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 8 | Told me I don’t know how to “take care of a man”“I want a man who takes care of himself” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 08:47 PM |
| 26 | Hypergamy hysteria debunkedWomen are shamed for having standards at all :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 25 | Hypergamy hysteria debunkedIt would make no biological sense to cut off reproductive viability right as the frontal cortex gets fully developed (around 25). The real reason these men want women younger than that is because they’re more susceptible to emotional manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 7 | When men ask for your InstagramI can understand Snapchat to avoid catfishes…other social media can wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:44 AM |
| 28 | Short pickmeishas who shame taller women who want taller menI’ve been shamed for having a tall boyfriend in the past when I’m pretty short. I was told I was “hogging all the tall men from women who need them more.” Can’t we just accept people like what they like and move on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 8 | And he can't even make his own bed?! Hard Pass.It’s not like his cat decided to do something cute and he doesn’t have time to put the covers on before taking the picture! (Story of my life) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 18 | Does men have the wall and if they do when?Most men? Somewhere around 21. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 11:08 AM |
| 13 | Do you think men who grew up with lots of female relatives (sisters, aunts, etc.) tend to be less sexist?I think it depends a lot on how the dynamics work. I’ve met families in which the female members were expected to cater to the male ones. It resulted in a bunch of sexist socially stunted manbabies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 02:35 AM |
| 6 | When Rejecting A Man Do You Ghost Him without explanation or Tell Him Why?I know, it’s more a me thing. I’ve been in this sub for about a month. I’ve been told that it was my burden to care for a guy’s feelings for 30 years. I’m still coming to terms with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 6 | When Rejecting A Man Do You Ghost Him without explanation or Tell Him Why?I’m still too nice. Afraid of hurting people. Old habits die hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 11:46 PM |
| 27 | the subject is dogs, not your illterate coomer fantasiesBut it’s our fault for wearing clothes 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 3 | what do you think of female friends?My best friend is a straight guy, and whoever I date has to be okay with that, so I’d give the same benefit. Of course, there are boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 10 | What are the mistakes you still make even if you mainly follow FDS philosophy?I literally live in Latin America, can’t say I share your experience hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 24 | What are the mistakes you still make even if you mainly follow FDS philosophy?I’ve no idea how to ask a man to pay. My socialization taught me that this is “shallow” and “entitled.” After a few decades of it, it’s hard to leave that mindset about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:42 PM |
| 13 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?I’m all for learning some 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 7 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?[cries in starving artist] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menIt’s so simple, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 27 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menYeah, they fetishize women who have alleged “daddy issues,” because they tend to be less secure and people pleasers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:42 PM |
| 16 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menAka “daddy issues” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:56 PM |
| 94 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Sales people. They know how to manipulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:35 PM |
| 36 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menMaybe 1% of the men get more attractive with age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:37 AM |
| 314 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --men30 year olds are difficult to manipulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:03 AM |
| 20 | Men always call their women crazy when she wouldn't put up with his shitMaybe if you cook and clean for your dog he’ll empathize with your pain and stop shitting on the floor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:39 AM |
| 29 | Men always call their women crazy when she wouldn't put up with his shitI try to keep in mind that words don’t teach anything, specially not to men. Actions do. Good behavior equals rewards (love, affection, emotional support, intimacy). Bad behavior equals punishment (emotionally withdrawing). Giving him love when he’s not treating you well is basically rewarding a bad behavior. Relying on his empathy alone will not work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:04 AM |
| 41 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?They don’t have a relationship for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:09 AM |
| 70 | When a guy says "you're lucky you're cute"That’s what I told my cat when she flipped the food bowl. But I’m not a pet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 57 | Men always call their women crazy when she wouldn't put up with his shitExactly. They do this so women start to question their own sanity, memories and values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:54 AM |
| 34 | Older men who pursue girls in their late teens and early 20s are predatoryIn a way, I am attracted to men on their 40s, maybe 50s. In another way, I’m on my early 30s and have enough maturity and life experience not to fall for a guy who just wants to use me. 18 year olds are teens. They are adults by law, but “not statutory rape” is a very low bar to set. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:50 AM |
| 71 | Great men hold other men accountableGood men don’t try to circumvent consent. Even if you do consent, they want to make sure you’re consenting because you really really want to, rather than something you’re feeling pressured to. They require more than consent, they want enthusiastic consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 12 | Dating pretty boysUgly guys take you giving them a chance as a sign that they aren’t as bad as they thought they were. This increased self confidence isn’t a good thing because they didn’t earn it, so it makes them cocky and disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:37 PM |
| 9 | Dating pretty boysI never had female friends because I was raised to believe girls would be judgmental. Meanwhile, guys do the same while only seeing you as a sex object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Make Women Great Again - A Convention for Women by Red Pill Men.Among the several reasons to hate Alex Jones, he targets schizophrenic/paranoid people who are more susceptible to falling prey of his delusional discourse :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 17 | Make Women Great Again - A Convention for Women by Red Pill Men.The kind of guy who joins an MRA community is even lower than the average guy. The average guy might prefer a partner who had few sexual partners and mostly serious relationships. MRAs want a naive 15 year old virgin to date their 35 year old ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 9 | "Forever GF" has never heard "I love you" from boyfriend who wasted 6 years of her life. He says these words "ruin relationships"When they inevitably break up, he’ll be saying “I love you” to his next girl within a week. That’s gonna really hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:15 PM |
| 31 | Pickmeisha Rehabilitation: First stepsLast is the most important and the one that took me the longest to understand. Women will look out to other women. And women are actually appreciative of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Wise words.I guess we all have :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:47 PM |
| 26 | How to let a man know he isn't the only one competing for me?I really need less free time urgently 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:07 PM |
| 27 | Her BF is addicted to porn and now he has erectile dysfunction. Girl, please dump his ass.Porn is about as addictive as cocaine. To hell with the idea that it’s harmless. Here’s a link explaining how porn addiction works for those who want to know more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 09:01 PM |
| 44 | Wise words.Also, one thing they don’t teach when teaching about consent, is how to determine whether you want sex, or you want what you believe sex will get you. Young girls tend to believe that having sex will make men like them better, so they agree to the mediocre to bad sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 20 | Saw this on r/MGTOW. Yikes.Pick me daddy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 26 | In your opinion, who’s the worst pickmeisha among pop culture characters?These are not mutually exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 05:47 PM |
| 136 | LEAVE THESE MEN IN 2019If he ain’t calling you girlfriend in public, you’re single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Your opinion on men with female friendsI’m female and pretty much all of my friends my whole life have been male, due to my mindset that girls were stuck up and judgmental and guys were cooler. Of course most wanted to get into my pants, but eventually I did meet some that do see me as more than a sex object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:15 AM |
| 9 | LVM won’t even SHOWER when his gf begs him to. Can we send some self esteem for this poor girl?Yeah, I’ve done that during my depression. I’ve also done everyone a favor and didn’t try to date when I could barely care for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 12:21 AM |
| 15 | Husband not attracted to wife anymore b/c she got a haircut!I have mild face blindness. I can still recognize faces, unlike people with full on face blindness, but radical changes in appearance give me a sense of discomfort until I get used to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:37 PM |
| 22 | Husband not attracted to wife anymore b/c she got a haircut!Can confirm, have long curly hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 13 | Trad man "logic"Holy cognitive dissonance Batman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Pack your gym shit right now.I love this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 08:18 PM |
| 4 | If he's not interested, will he act like a LVM? Opinions?My best friend is a straight male. We thought of dating a few years ago but we decided against it because our friendship is strong and we don’t want to jeopardize it. It’s possible because he doesn’t see me as a sex object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:38 PM |
| 7 | my last PickMeisha meme before I discovered this sub. I rarely ever made memes or even posted them that I didn't make. so fortunately I never had whole accounts dedicated to this kind of PickMeisha memes. but still YIKES. so enjoy!Let’s all cringe our past away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:27 PM |
| 30 | When he says "you deserve better than me", believe him, and RUN.It’s manipulative. He’s trying to make sure you feel guilty to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | This sub explains EVERYTHINGFor me, being able to deal gracefully with frustration is a dating requirement I’m not willing to give up, Being angry is no excuse for being a jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:43 AM |
| 35 | Your mom? A real man doesn’t need another mommy because he’s a man, not a child.A real man doesn’t need another mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:27 AM |
| 4 | It is scary how angry men getIf we strictly follow biology, most men aren’t meant to reproduce. They’re just there for cannon fodder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Why do I keep getting hurtHere sweetie, it’s normal to be hurt. Nobody is expecting you to be an emotionless wall. Your feelings are perfectly valid. About the men, they acted how they did because of who they are, not because of you. As for advice, let men do the chasing. If they don’t chase, move to the other man. You’re young and will go through plenty of men yet, don’t let a guy put you down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 22 | this sub really taught me not to fear the wallI’m 30 and I spent the last 4 years battling a massive depression. When my birthday came, I had a real breakdown. I wasted half of my 20s working shitty low paying jobs with no room for growth and barely any social interaction, then suddenly I’m not on my 20s anymore. I think it’s one of the reasons I’m here. I need to change my outlook in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:29 AM |
| 12 | Yet another look at what marriage to a LVM looks like. And the pickmeisha that is chained to it.Also she definitely shouldn’t help passing this asshole’s genes ahead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:16 AM |
| 24 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...One thing our critics don’t get is that we don’t expect HVM to be perfect. They just have to have some traits that the woman finds attractive (can vary depending on the woman, but height is usually one of them), and be a provider type who likes to pursue their woman without forcing or being creepy. It’s okay if he has issues, as long as he can deal with it maturely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:45 AM |
| 101 | Do HVM even exist or are we all collectively just lying to ourselves? In this essay...Dick is plentiful, good dick is rarer than a unicorn. No wonder women cling to men who showed a sliver of potential once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:31 AM |
| 3 | ( repost bc i forgot to block out username ) he sent me pictures of his penis almost daily and he thinks i’m the annoying one for implying he has no friends for a reasonYes, I am difficult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 01:03 AM |
| 15 | It’s not “shallow” to have a type or prefer for your partner to have a specific trait. Don’t let men gaslight youShallow is a meaningless insult. Liking a physical trait doesn’t preclude liking any other trait, such as intelligence. When they call women shallow they actually mean that she’s taking her desires before the men’s convenience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:44 AM |
| 41 | Yet another look at what marriage to a LVM looks like. And the pickmeisha that is chained to it.I love that they all have to start with “I actually love my partner very much,” because they know that logically, they shouldn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:42 AM |
| 41 | LVM who cannot afford a $30 first date is worried about gold-diggers. You cannot make this stuff up. 😂😂😂😂Why are they so worried about gold diggers if they find them so vacuous, anyway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 169 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!When someone says “no drama,” I can’t help but wonder why their lives have so much drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 11:11 PM |
| 17 | Hanging out with LV brothers.You don’t convince a LVM to change by giving them what they want. They won’t stop seeing women as objects just because you are there with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 58 | Woman dates boyfriend for SEVEN yrs, no ring in sight, boyfriend is "house husband", she is proud that she shares her bank account with him, she's helping to pay his degree, no plans for children, although she wants them and has PCOS, and she does the house work as well.Of course he likes his current situation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:34 PM |
| 21 | Please for the love of God don’t make excuses about fucking your toxic ex over $7 TV accounts 🙄Is that really a thing that happens?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 31 | Boyfriend doesn’t introduce me to anyoneHe may not be seeing anyone, but he wants to keep his options open for whatever reason. Either he announces you to everyone or he can go pound sand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 44 | Oh no... he gets anxious if he has to put in longer than 30 mins of effort. Red flags galore.OP, he’s trying to manipulate you into being insecure about whether or not you’re being rude, so you’re more likely to do what he wants. Red flags unlimited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:55 PM |
| 32 | Oh no... he gets anxious if he has to put in longer than 30 mins of effort. Red flags galore.That’s manipulation. He says his other date was rude without specifying what he found rude. He expects OP to wonder what she can do not to come off as rude. That would make her more likely to try and cater to him. This waves more red flags than a cultural revolution parade in China. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 23 | Something I noticed when I moved hereI feel like the game of dating only exists because it’s socially unacceptable to be open about your preferences, requirements, and expectations. Everyone has those, but people who don’t fit them take it personally if you mention that. That means we have to find a way to weed out those who aren’t within our parameters, and that is the dating game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 12 | When the top advice is to support an unemployed 30 year old man in debt, and not to freaking RUNI hate that we’re socially pressured to “give them a chance,” while they are not pressured to earn that chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:27 PM |
| 31 | Why do men cheat on their partners with less attractive women?For the novelty. New woman = more neurotransmitters. Which is why we’re supposed to keep them in line. The stimulation from the pursuit keeps them from becoming complacent and bored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:44 AM |
| 19 | Committing to FDS is similar to breaking addiction: When you’re “truly” ready to change, you’ll know.Desensitization. Pretty much the same reason porn addicts search for things more and more depraved. They get desensitized to vanilla, we get desensitized to their shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:41 AM |
| 19 | Committing to FDS is similar to breaking addiction: When you’re “truly” ready to change, you’ll know.Since you mentioned addiction, I’ll leave this piece right here. It explains in great detail the mechanisms behind porn addiction, but it can be easily extrapolated to explain other addictions and dysfunctional thought patterns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:18 AM |
| 10 | Reason # 2913738 on why you can’t compliment men. Complimented my DoorDash Driver on his shirt and he took it as hitting on him.I actually have a straight male best friend! We thought of dating a while ago, but our friendship was really strong and we mutually decided we didn’t want to jeopardize it. It is possible when a man sees woman as a human, not an object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:46 AM |
| 11 | When women get rejected, we are taught to blame ourselves. When men get rejected, they’re taught to blame everyone else but themselves.The most funny part for me will always be “women are attracted to men who are attractive.” It has such a r/thatshowthingswork vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 52 | OP's boyfriend of 6 years gets her a ring box with a note saying "haha you thought" for Christmas. OP wonders if she's overreacting to this joke, which her negative value boyfriend called "harmless".Poor poor girl. I hate when men dismiss our feelings like that. She deserves better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Starting to notice and point out LVM behavior in my long term boyfriendHey sweetie, it’s okay. These feelings are incredibly difficult to understand, and society doesn’t help either. We are always told to “give him another chance,” with no pressure on the other party to earn that chance. There’s a lot of time ahead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 06:02 PM |
| 215 | What a CATCH! LADIES FORM AN ORDERLY LINE for this manYeah, jaded and bitter grammar Nazi with an unwarranted sense of superiority is everything I am looking for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 02:06 PM |
| 54 | To whomsoever it may concernAlso it’s normal for the vagina to have a smell, specially after a long day. Excess hygiene can worsen the problem. As long as you wash with water (no soap) everyday and don’t have an infection, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 25 | I’m curious what y’all think about thisI genuinely like to cook, but I don’t like to be taken for granted :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 01:57 PM |
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