The mental load

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-05T15:46:29+00:00

Executing the labor is far less mentally draining than planning for it. It’s called invisible labor.

strainedcrow · 2020-09-05T20:23:49+00:00

I fucking hate that so much. It's never "fair" to them. They value their labor so much more than ours so doing their fair share translates to being your slave. I want them to get over themselves but they're so dense and entitled they absolutely will not.

penandfeather · 2020-09-05T20:53:48+00:00

I STILL find myself thinking back on different situations with my ex and thinking “If only I had explained it better...” or “taught him how to (insert basic adult responsibility here)...”

But I stop myself. That fucker made me responsible for everything (and miserable) for too many years.

Title	The mental load
Author	friendlypetshark
Upvotes	49
Comments	4
Date	September 5, 2020 9:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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