I know this is like, FDS 101, but seriously. Don't do it. I don't care how long you've been together or how much you trust him. And if you MUST do it, don't show your face, any identifying features INCLUDING the room you are in.

My ex showed me nudes of all the women he dated before me including his dead fiancée.

I woke up today with an inbox full of VERY disgusting nudes/sex/bdsm videos of an acquaintance and his ex-gf that he allegedly loves. He did this because he was "drunk and mad". Yes he's blocked now.

I am absolutely horrified at the behavior of men. And both of these dudes checked off every HVM box until they showed their true colors.

They get emotional and will do anything possible to hurt people that they feel hurt them. Hell, even when they are blindly in love with them, like my ex was with his fiancée, they will still share these things because they literally cannot help it.

The exceptions are few and far between. Why risk it?