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| 890 | "Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence" | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | enchantedglow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | He doesn't even maintain his own eyebrows... LOL | enchantedglow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:42 AM | |
| 1 | If he hasn't checked up and taken care of you by now, BLOCK and DELETE. | NOTHING BUT FACTS | enchantedglow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | The nerve OLD men have | ROAST-A-SCROTE | enchantedglow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:36 AM |
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| 101 | Is there even a bar anymore?"because wow" wow what? He can't even properly compliment her lmfao. And he really thinks she's just dying to see his dick. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:32 PM |
| 12 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?"burst into tears" Sure they did! LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?Here we go again with the coded think pieces lmfao. Like the other thread wasn't enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 14 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Even people here were talking about the ~children~ like do you not know how to explain conflict to your kids? What about Ukraine and its media coverage? And it was late anyway they shouldn’t have been watching TV let alone about an adult awards show LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 52 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?This. And they're celebrities. Wtf is "speaking to him in private backstage" gonna do after Chris humiliated Jada on live television? Everyone will just think it's a free pass, and most people already do with Black women. Will needed to correct Chris in front of everyone so they know not to mess with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 45 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Reposting bc it got removed due to guidelines. Yup. Will was d*mned if he did and d*mned if he didn't. If he reacted, which he did, he's now the "angry and aggressive" Black man with ~superhero strength~ that could somehow "k*ll" Chris LMFAO. If he didn't react though, he's letting another man make fun of his wife (and socially, what does that say about you to other men) and allowing misogynoir to continue within the Black community (which I'm sure people would call him out for). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 18 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?\<sup>\</sup><sup>\</sup>^ Why the hell is a woman on FDS defending a man and his shitty misogynoir "jokes"??? JFC LMFAO. WW have lost the plot on here. But anything to fit their racist rhetoric I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 27 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?LMAO the amount of WW think-pieces on this is crazy. He is not your father or your ex-partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:18 PM |
| 31 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Facts! A Black man slapped another Black man in defence of a Black woman but somehow, you, a WW, are the victim?? Lmfao. Like how the hell is it about you and your trauma now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:22 PM |
| 4 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I personally don’t think Will’s reaction was violent but 🤷🏼♀️ I get the criticism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 11 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Lmao sorry for going off on you though. I honestly thought you were being dense on purpose. Have a good day now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:52 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Girl 😩 you could have just said that from the start. But yes I agree. To me abuse is a cycle of violence that’s unjustified. It does often have a power imbalance which is how the abuse continues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:43 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Of course you don't care about the wider context of this event. A black man being labelled as abusive and aggressive for defending his black wife doesn't matter, right? Just say you don't care about anti-black racism, because that's the context here. You can infer all you want, just like you're inferring that all violence is abuse and therefore, Will Smith is abusive. And why do you even care about how I define abuse? Is gaining this information going to vastly increase your quality of life? The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:33 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Are you being obtuse on purpose? You are overanalyzing my comment and reaching for something to complain and debate about. A man hitting another man once for saying something misogynistic is not abusive to me. I have written a ton of other comments, especially ones detailing the racism embedded in this whole situation and you want to fixate on this. Go read my other comments and maybe you'll learn something. There are far more important things to focus on like the misogynoir that Jada experience… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:14 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?True. Reading WW's obviously coded takes and seeing other WW agreeing with them have been insane lmfao. Time to cleanse myself now and log off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:30 AM |
| 67 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Period! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:16 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Could not have said it any better. I understand both sides and critiques of how to deal with the situation. I don't think there's an easy and clear cut answer, since all of them are celebrities, it was on live television, and they are all Black. Plus it connects to a deeper issue and history of misogynoir on Chris Rock's part. I also think men (and maybe even the Black community?) have different ways of dealing with things. I don't think it's uncommon for men in general to get physical with each… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:14 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Also a man slapping another man for saying something misogynistic is abusive now? Lol. Overusing the word abusive to describe non-abusive behaviour makes the word lose meaning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:38 AM |
| 30 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?You're projecting. And I never called women who disagree with Will Smith's actions pick me's. I clearly said women who are defending a comedian's "right to joke" without any consequences. Keep reaching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:35 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?👏👏 People fail to realize that you can't separate race from this. I honestly think that some people are projecting their own trauma and labelling Will as an abuser and violent because he's Black and fitting into the "angry and aggressive Black man" stereotype. I can see how some of his words and actions might be triggering though. But all Will did was slap ANOTHER MAN (not a woman) for disrespecting his wife on live television. Not to mention that all three of them are Black. The issue of intern… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:33 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Also we've talked on this sub before about how men need to stand up for women, especially their gfs and wives. It's not about women being weak or needing to be defended. It's about men holding other men accountable for their misogyny. We already know men don't respond to words, they respond to ACTIONS. And men (especially someone as low value as Chris Rock) respect other men more than women. Plus, imagine if Jada went up there instead, angry and upset? People, mainly men, would be flaming her fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:42 AM |
| 45 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?This!! 👏👏 Male comedians and pick me’s are just defending ~tHeIr RiGhT~ to make fun of women’s insecurities (which are caused by society) and not receive consequences for it lmfao. Hard pill to swallow but being a comedian doesn’t automatically absolve you of consequences. And yeah sometimes that means getting hit for talking shit 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:29 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Literally. A Black man held another Black man accountable for misogynoir against his Black wife. I think that’s important to note. Definitely better than sitting there and doing nothing tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:20 AM |
| 0 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?And here comes the downvotes for disagreeing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:50 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Exactly. But here come's the holier than thou people. Like what would you do if that was you or your partner's insecurity as the butt of the joke? lol. Honestly, I'm glad Will Smith did something 🤷🏼♀️ Comedians get away with way too much under the guise of ~cOmEDy~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:36 AM |
| – | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Agreed. I think people are blowing this a little out of proportion (which I can understand because they're celebrities and it was live broadcasted to everyone so obviously there's consequences to that) but I don't think it's that deep lol. And I definitely think anti-black racism is playing a role in people's over-reaction too. Judd Apatow who's worked with James Franco (known for his violence against women) said in his now-deleted tweet that "Will could have killed Chris" and what happened was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 05:30 AM |
| 138 | How to get rid of this school girl crushIgnore him as much as you can and pretend he doesn't exist Don't have any more friendly or personal conversations with him Remind yourself that you do not know him. Any man can pretend to be HV. They do it all the time. Read some of the personal stories with doctors on here lol. From what I've read, a lot of them are cheaters and playboys Remind yourself that if he was interested, he would have already made a move on you. But he didn't. He's just not that into you. And why would you want to have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 46 | interested to hear the thoughts about this post?Why do men always feel the need to mansplain women's dating experiences? 🙄 I feel like I just listened to a whole lot of nothing. But I would argue that it doesn't matter how "successful" a woman is, finding a HVM is hard for every woman bc most men are LVM/NVM. And every woman, "successful" or not, stands to lose the same things- mainly time and money from these gold digging men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Normalise telling men to just shut upExactly. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 16 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.Off-topic and I already reported it but mods, a man posted in the comments. Why can't they just follow the rules 🙄 literally so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Can a man that has done anal be a HVM?this was already a no for me but the comment history confirmed it. it's crazy how we just know lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Men will be men... For them any woman who wants to be treated with respect is a phycho bitchIt's so funny how he thinks he can do that. Posts and comments that are unrelated or break the rules get removed lol. Also imagine having that much time to spare. Jobless behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 02:01 AM |
| 27 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?Same. He's a piece of shit but this could have been avoided if she vetted and didn't have casual sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:59 PM |
| 8 | on personal space in general and in datingI love this. Queen shit. And happy belated birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 22 | Trigger warning for exes of porn addictsYep, or what happens if they don’t wanna send pictures anymore? It’s so weird and dehumanizing to idealize someone like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 10:13 AM |
| 57 | He wants to move in togetherYeah, 24 and 29 is a huge experience gap. And most people’s brains don’t reach full maturity until 25 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 08:29 AM |
| 72 | He wants to move in togetherThis advice is for women who want to get married. It’s honestly not worth moving in with a man unless you’re getting married. I can’t stop you though, so all I can say is make sure to ruthlessly vet him and take legal/financial precautions if you do move in with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 08:16 AM |
| 244 | He wants to move in togetherSeems like you already know what to do- don’t move in with him girl. You clearly don’t want to and have your reasons. FDS also says not to move in together unless you’re engaged (if that’s what you want). Read the handbook if you haven’t already. The age gap between you two is kind of big too tbh. You’re still young so don’t limit yourself to a serious decision/future with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:11 AM |
| 24 | Discussing future financesRather than let it go, I think you need to dump him. He has 2 homes, is working on purchasing a 3rd but wants you to go 50/50? No sis. Also, he clearly makes enough to afford utilities so why does he even want you to pay for that? The fact that he acted surprised is also a red flag. A HVM knows you're worth it and wouldn't question that. Listen to your gut. And I agree with the other posters that the age gap is a concern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 06:59 AM |
| 10 | Why does this man think that this is something to brag about? I already had an idea of what profession the women he was talking about was when I initially read his answer to the Hinge prompt. I've run out of words.Idk how I didn’t guess that 💀 but before I knew who she was I thought it was true because who lists “I’m not good looking” as a truth 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 05:34 AM |
| 65 | Why does this man think that this is something to brag about? I already had an idea of what profession the women he was talking about was when I initially read his answer to the Hinge prompt. I've run out of words.Not the CN tower 💀 can he get anymore basic. Also ew I just searched up who she is. Men really can't help telling on themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:24 PM |
| 44 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦The way thrifting is listed twice LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:01 AM |
| 38 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Ugh this makes me physically sick. I can't believe she's pregnant too. Honestly a tragedy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!This is the worst thing I have ever seen 😭💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any male friends?No. And I haven’t had one in years lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:08 AM |
| 28 | Today marks the 32nd anniversary of the Polytechnique massacre in which 14 women were killed for being engineering students.Yeah, it's apart of the White Ribbon Campaign which I just realized now originated from this massacre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 16 | One slight problem though; roaches can be pretty darn cute. Men often aren't, unless they're little kids doing little kid things.Who made these poor kids dress up like that 😂😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:11 AM |
| 84 | Don't let the man downgrade you!Yikes the love bombing. I find it creepy that he sent flowers to your hotel before even meeting you in person (and I'm usually all for gifts lol). He even tried to neg you during your video call and get YOU to chase instead 🤮 Honestly you should have blocked and deleted when he negged you and tried to put other women down. Seems like he also tried the classic "bait and switch" after or whatever the term is. Glad you blocked and deleted. Edit: never mind removed my second paragraph because I thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:34 PM |
| 9 | What is the general rule or idea of gift giving during the holidays, birthday, or anniversaries?I wouldn't give something too expensive or deeply personal. Just something simple he likes. The price depends on the gifts he's given you and how long you've been with him (Honestly though I wouldn't spend more than $30 LMFAO). Tbh I don't think you need to put in a lot of effort into choosing a gift like you would for a female friend/family member. Provider men usually don't care about gifts, in the sense that they're happy with whatever you give them (and sometimes they don't even use the gift… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:06 AM |
| 19 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerOmg I'm so sorry you and your son are going through this. Men really are trash. Good luck with everything and I hope it gets better for the both of you. Sending lots of love ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 56 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy.Ugh. That is not feminine at all 🙄 more like a pick me urge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:11 AM |
| 28 | Men who want to be there for you won't let excuses stop them.Same I said "yikes" at the age gap then stopped reading to check the comments 😂 I'm glad other ladies are pointing it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?All red flags worthy of blocking and deleting to me. It could be argued that you should give the 1st guy the benefit of doubt but men don't deserve that lol. Your first instinct is right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?He's made anti-semitic "jokes", said the n-word, and promoted a nazi/white supremacist channel along with other bad stuff you can read an article about everything here: https://www.vox.com/2018/12/13/18136253/pewdiepie-vs-tseries-links-to-white-supremacist-alt-right-redpill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?this, plus he's made anti-semitic "jokes", said the n-word, and promoted a nazi/white supremacist channel https://www.vox.com/2018/12/13/18136253/pewdiepie-vs-tseries-links-to-white-supremacist-alt-right-redpill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 17 | Help me find this FDS post/comment?Np girl!! Glad I could help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 55 | Help me find this FDS post/comment?Is it this post? https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/igufgh/men_and_women_multiple_dating_are_not_the_same/ Edit: I just realized this post was a year ago (oops LOL) but I think it was shared in a recent thread so it was in my upvotes list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:20 PM |
| 10 | TW: Thank you for your support in regards to my sexual coercion story.Welcome ❤️❤️ I'm sorry you went through that and had to deal with scrotes on here. We're here to support and protect you girl!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 9 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsMore questions than a school assignment 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 180 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsOmg I just finished typing my comment when I realized THERE’S 4 MORE PICTURES. This is too much to unpack 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:42 AM |
| 35 | If you weren't already convinced that men are depraved, then this will do the trick...Wow, I have no words. Every time I think men can’t get any worse they outdo themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:51 AM |
| 55 | Vetting during OLD/date suggestionsGirl, you gotta unmatch him already. He's showing his true LVM self. I would have unmatched after the cooking suggestion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:46 AM |
| 18 | UPDATE; Today is a turning point in my way to being and fully living as a HVW - I DUMPED HIMWe LOVE to see it!! He sounds like a fucking train wreck. You analyzed his behaviour well; he seems like a narc to me and at the very least, sadistic (the animal abuse video) and manipulative (the negging and gaslighting, especially the "you don't need to worry" line). Congrats on getting rid of him and I'm proud of you too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 03:30 PM |
| 13 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"I'm not a dentist but maybe she has sensitive gums because she doesn't brush or floss enough 😭 man, a lack of dental hygiene grosses me out so much lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 08:38 PM |
| 105 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So ImportantWow I just realized that's what pinch of confidence meant 💀 These men really ain't shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:07 AM |
| 4 | Are these negs? Just a bi woman finally getting around to dating men and these are some of the things that have been said to me so farDefinitely negging. “You didn’t strike me as the type of girl to wear purple nail polish” this made me laugh out loud though- I know it's a neg but who thinks about what colour nail polish someone would wear?? 😂 men are so weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?No problem :)! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Was approached by a man in a parking lot. How to navigate in future?Hey! Hustle can also mean to trick/con someone by pretending to know less than you do (like for example, you hustle someone in a game of poker by acting like you don't know anything, placing a bet, and then winning because you're actually an expert). At least that's how I define it and have seen it used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:25 PM |
| 7 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.WTF. Also the fact that he bragged about not reading the news lmao. What a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 08:12 PM |
| 23 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️LMFAO the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Pre-nupsCan you share tips on how to find a good/aggressive lawyer? I don't even need one but I want to be prepared lol. Feel free to PM me instead btw if that's more comfortable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 09:11 PM |
| 27 | Passive men are a huge turn off, and actually dangerous.Girl, dump him! He doesn’t deserve you. Men like that are repulsive 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Racist scrote had it comingWhat in God's name... they're really this depraved huh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:57 AM |
| 46 | FDS is BACK!OMG YAAASS i missed you girls!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 08:56 AM |
| 3 | This is a silly question but I don’t know where else to ask, pls help 😬Girl, you know what you have to do... he's destroyed your trust with him and there's no going back. Dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:56 AM |
| 5 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Thank you for sharing!! 15 mins in and she's speaking so much truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Tell me how you know your bf won't cheat on youThis is so cringy omfg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Doing proper DD on the men you are datingI'm so glad you dodged that bullet but I have a question! How were you allowed to run a record search underneath his name? I don't think it's legal/allowed in my country unless you're related/married/etc. so I'm just curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:21 AM |
| 3 | I need to get it out in a safe spaceI'm SO sorry you are going through this. You don't owe your ex anything- especially civilness. Sexual assault is not something you can just "get over" so please don't blame yourself or feel bad because of your emotions. You have every right to feel that way- it doesn't matter how long it's been. You are NOT being dramatic. I hope you can someday heal from this but don't rush yourself. In my opinion, you do not have to forgive him for what he did. I know that I would never be able to. I also thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Almost half a million likes - this ain’t cute 🤢Wow... no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Idk how men manage to out-do themselves every time and somehow just be. worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Yikes.Why would I call them child-lovers? lol they’re pedophiles and I am extremely against them and those who cater to them. I don’t really think it matters what you call her because at the end of the day she is still putting children at harm by encouraging pedophiles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Yikes.Not hurting anyone directly? Yes she is lol. You need to use words correctly. She’s catering to pedophiles and it’s only a matter of time before they act on these thoughts/feelings in person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Yikes.I wish you included her name/face, she’s a predator. Also there are unfortunately so many girls that do this. I’m curious to know which one finally admitted it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | 👏 👏 thanks for seeing yourself outLiterally 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | This influencer called out the blatant sexism on YouTube and it's painfully true... At least she made it humorous. But also, she lives with her fiancé and her ex and it's very weird? Or maybe it's just me and it can be done - as it obviously is working for them... (The ex is the model btw)I’ve seen her videos before and it’s honestly so weird that they live with her EX 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:11 PM |
| 4 | YESSSSMood for life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 3 | I’m really disappointed and y’all are the only ones who will understand.If he doesn’t plan anything, break up with him. You deserve so much better. Honestly the fact that he told you he’s saving up for a ring already sounds like bread-crumbing. It’s so unromantic too. That would already be a deal-breaker for me. If he can’t afford a ring now how is he gonna provide for you guys later on? Think about the quality of life you want and whether that’s achievable with him or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 6 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...Hideous and disfigured like Quasimodo??? 😭 girl how did you do it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 40 | Glow!My skin cleared up when I stopped dating LVM (and men in general tbh) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would.This is so sweet!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 14 | Ex sent me this text this morning, what to do?Girl, on snapchat of all places? Blockity block block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 21 | Men are real quick to use the "sexual compatibility" card but get upset when women do the same lol“You could train me” like a dog?? 😂😂 wtf lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:39 AM |
| 25 | Don’t fall for the “send me a pic” bait he tried it. 😒 we planned a date and exchanged numbers. He immediately sent me a pic as the first message “JuSt cOnFiRmiNG iT’s Me” And sent the pic at 5:36pm but his watch says 6:28pm, so this pic confirms nothing. boy bye.😑I’m dying at this description 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:02 AM |
| 23 | Block and move on!Just wanted to add that if he asked you last minute to reschedule for Saturday or Sunday (1-2 days after the set date) you should say no! Even if you are available. He needs to know your time is valuable and you can’t/won’t just drop everything, let alone on a weekend, to accommodate his poor planning and communication | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:58 AM |
| 6 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupGreat points!! And thanks for the heads up about The Rules. I was gonna read it after seeing someone reference it here but now I won’t and can save my time :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Guy harasses, makes false accusation, shows threatening behaviour and then still expects me to be interested?WTF... OMG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | A precautionary tale, of flags, boundaries and what lies deep under the 'cover'...Same. I can't imagine there are "solid reasons" for why it didn't work out three times... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Don’t wash a mans shoes on the first date. Why would he wear those? Her page is about cleaning which would make her a target for men who want to use herGirl WHAT?!!!! Where do I even begin... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if...This is so effing weird. I would be scarred from seeing that in person. I'm pretty sure incels do this because they can't get women. I remember reading about one. I would definitely divorce. He has to be deprived or depraved (probably both) to do that 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄CHILD BEARING HIPS JGHFKJDFJKL i was waiting for someone to state this observation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:22 AM |
| 5 | Don't send nudesHIS DEAD FIANCÉE??? jfc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:32 AM |
| 2 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.Definitely, probably multiple. One of them even tried to PM me LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 12:59 AM |
| 26 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.I totally agree. I would never date an ugly, short or broke man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:47 AM |
| 17 | It’s always the ugly scrotes with the immediate demandsHAHAHA with that face and style? the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:59 AM |
| 50 | I feel this haha. Being poor and being broke are not the same thing.Exactly. This is also true for ugly as well as short men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:21 AM |
| 6 | To Reach or Not to Reach?Ooo I like this one! I'm definitely gonna use it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:52 AM |
| 3 | This snaggle toothed little bitchSNAGGLETOOTHED LMFAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Guy earns 5 times his fiancée’s salary and wants to split everything 50/50. Pickme fiancée has been with him for 5 years.My thoughts exactly. Saying fiances should be "equitable" doesn't sound like FDS ideology when women do SO much free and invisible labour. That's like going 25/75 on a date. You are still losing, even if it's perceived to be less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Guy earns 5 times his fiancée’s salary and wants to split everything 50/50. Pickme fiancée has been with him for 5 years.This ^ he needs to be paying for everything with that kind of income, wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Guy earns 5 times his fiancée’s salary and wants to split everything 50/50. Pickme fiancée has been with him for 5 years.Imagine your FIANCÉ treating you like that? This is criminal. He'll just get cheaper with marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 48 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetYup! I've noticed some ladies on FDS are okay with this, but it's definitely just another way of splitting the bill. Beware, girls! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 20 | YikesWhat are they, children? This is a new level of pathetic, even for reddit men and pickmeishas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:40 AM |
| 10 | Yikes😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:39 AM |
| 1 | FDS Theme shirt I just bought "High Standards" "No clowns Allowed" "Handle with Self care"This is so cute! Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:38 AM |
| 7 | So they’re putting their girlfriends through physical trials now ??? She’s got a bad case of pickme to accept thatWhat the hell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:19 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if he is multi-dating?Trust your gut feeling. You got it for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:18 AM |
| 10 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨“You’ll have to earn that 😉” EWWW where do these losers get their confidence from? also you are way too nice! don’t apologize girl, he’s the one who should be apologizing for that awful entitled attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:33 AM |
| 73 | Won’t someone think of the poor menz who are now *sometimes* expected to do their fair share?What? This is what’s expected of women now, not men LOL. Are there even expectations for men anymore?? Women will provide for (broke) men AND do everything else in the household. Men are parasites now. At least back then they paid for everything instead of trying to go 50-50 and mooch off women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:22 AM |
| 4 | How would you answer these dating Qs as an HVW?I wouldn't. He will just mirror your answers and use it to get what he wants (e.g. sex). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:32 AM |
| 4 | Are men that ONLY date outside their own race automatically LVMs?Yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:13 AM |
| 72 | “nOt AlL mEN”🙄🙄It’s funny how men who say “not all men” don’t do anything to prove this statement otherwise. Women will literally be getting harassed on social media by men and their only reply to the situation is “not all men are like this!!” Okay then prove it. Speak out against your fellow men in the replies instead of letting them get away with harassing women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Am I just being a prude or is this too much for someone who has only spoken to me for 5 minutes? #datingwhenyoure30No, you're not. It's definitely too much. I would have blocked/unmatched after he asked "so for how long have u been single ?" though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:20 AM |
| 19 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?Ideally, we should be dating men who are at their best (when he already has a house and his debt is paid off), not at their potential. But I guess that depends on the age. This room is definitely a dealbreaker for me no matter the age and circumstances though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:16 AM |
| 10 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?Nah I'm leaving. "At this grown age" you can put effort into the place you live, even at a low-cost. Especially if you're planning on inviting your girlfriend over. I think this type of room is acceptable from a friend but definitely not from a boyfriend and possibly a future husband. I would never date a guy who's financially struggling and has low standards like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:05 AM |
| 9 | 25f, I'm feeling insecure, that I will nEveR bE gOoD eNOuGh because I am not as fit and attractive as I could be. I feel like I am wasting the pEaK oF My yOuTh and BeAutY because I'm not iNsTaWoRthY. Fears of losing value as I age. Help me change this silly attitude and replace these shit beliefsI recommend unfollowing all influencers/fitness model accounts and replacing them with body-positive, self-empowerment and positivity accounts in general instead. This will shift your mindset by a lot. I know it has for me. I can DM you some if you want. You need to start making positive posts on your feed the new norm. By seeing these posts often and even repeating some of them as affirmations, you'll soon start to believe them yourself. Sometimes you have to fake it until you make it. It may t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Jeremy Piven stands on tiptoes to appear taller!😂😂 do they have no shame? just wear heeled shoes at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:42 AM |
| 42 | After a lady ranted about low quality men, a man proceeded to suggest she give up her high paying job and nice apartment to attract better men.How much further do men want women to lower themselves for them? We would be underground at this point. Although, I suppose some of them would like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:28 AM |
| 26 | This LVM is forcing his pregnant wife to work 5-6 days a week AND clean + cook, AND STILL CALLS HER LAZY!! The fucking AUDACITY of this negative-value shit. NEVER marry a broke man that expects you to work. Work should be a choice, NOT a necessity to make up for the scrote’s inability to provide.Men really think they own women's bodies. How dare we take care of and put ourselves first without their consent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:23 AM |
| 5 | Am I too sensitive?You are NOT being sensitive. This is completely unacceptable and LVM/NVM behaviour. It was already wrong of him to send you these pictures in the first place, but to do it again multiple times after you told him to stop is just disgusting. He is being disrespectful and disregarding your feelings on purpose. He's trying to make you feel insecure so he can fuel his own ego and gain personal satisfaction. He even admitted it. So of course you're upset. Anyone would be. However, please do not give h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 07:13 AM |
| 23 | Just Had This Video Hurled At Me On A Post On Ex Red Pill As Justification For FDS Being The Same As TRP. WHEN WLLl Pickmesha's Fucking LEARN!!! I Am Done For The Day.This girl is a joke but the men in the comments are just as pathetic LOL. They denounce this sub as if we would ever give them the time of day. It hurts you because you know it's true and your ego is fragile. Too bad your whiny bitter feelings towards this sub aren't gonna stop us from living our best lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:51 AM |
| 23 | Just Had This Video Hurled At Me On A Post On Ex Red Pill As Justification For FDS Being The Same As TRP. WHEN WLLl Pickmesha's Fucking LEARN!!! I Am Done For The Day.Oh my god, I actually have no words. Imagine admitting you’re this much of a pickmeisha. Does she have a humiliation kink? Because this is so embarrassing. You can have all the LVM and NVM girl cause we don’t want them. Hope they see this and pick you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:34 AM |
| 31 | Blocked and deleted! Thanks FDS. (Please don't come at me for my obvious errors, I've learned)"on another note did you have any kinks or role play fantasies?" He thought this was acceptable to ask after your conversation, why? The audacity of these scrotes... Anyway good on you for following through with blocking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:05 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts...A woman in her early twenties dating a man in his 30s is just a huge no. They are in completely different stages of life. She is just beginning hers meanwhile he is most likely looking to settle down (and if he's not looking to marry at 30+ then... red flag). I recently turned 21 and I wouldn't date anyone 25+, even 25 I'm a bit wary of. It just seems too predatory and makes you wonder why he can't get a woman his own age and/or why he prefers to date someone 5+ years younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 4 | I was offered to go to a deli and walk around a park for a first date. What’s the best way to tell him I expect higher effort dates?Do you know him from a dating app? If he offers a low effort date, block/unmatch and move on. If you know him IRL, it may be harder to ghost (if he’s apart of a friend circle or something) so just tell him that you aren’t interested anymore. I don’t trust men who even dare to offer or suggest a low effort date and block them. The last guy I dated suggested a low effort second date so I asked him to change it, and he still had the audacity to make me pay for my lunch. There’s a reason he didn’t m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Negging?Neg. He could have just said you look great and leave it at that. As someone else said, if you have to ask, it’s probably not a compliment. Compliments are straight-forward and leave no room for doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:40 AM |
| 14 | I’m a virgin going into the dating field, what is your advice for me and how do I know if a man is using me to be my first? I’m 20, should I just focus on school right now?Do not tell him you’re a virgin until you’ve successfully vetted and are in a long-term relationship with him (read the handbook). Even then I would be careful disclosing this as many men are willing to play the long game (if he can “sense” that you’re inexperienced he may do this). I think you should focus on your studies for now though. It’s way more important than dating. And honestly (speaking from experience) most guys in their early twenties are not worth dating lol. Most of the ones on da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:34 AM |
| 3 | In the absence of your own desire to improve yourself, lie to the allegedly superficial women who want an educated, driven partner. His post, my answer. The comments were a cesspool of twisted validation for him and denigration of her. I had to say something.Love your response. You explained that perfectly 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 10:04 AM |
| 8 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?Any movie by Quentin Tarantino. I don’t know why I gave this one guy the benefit of doubt after he said that 🤦🏼♀️ there’s no excuse for bad taste! (And supporting misogynists). Obviously Lolita, American Psycho, and 50 Shades are major red flags as well. There are more but I can’t name them all off the top of my head. Also any movie that’s commonly known to be directed by or starring someone who is a rapist and/or pedophile, etc. is a red flag for me. It shows he most likely doesn’t care nor ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:54 AM |
| 36 | I barely graduated high school and this 23 yr old psycho is talking to me like this. It's insane how men think how easy women can be manipulated. Thinking of sending those SS and many more to his parents. He tried to delete them all.Please tell his parents and yours so they’re aware of a creep like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:25 AM |
| 4 | I cannot deal with these bad-hygiene posts!Not the plaque 😭 she needs to leave him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:40 AM |
| 3 | PSA: When exes reach out over two years later, it’s not because they truly care about you.These men need to get a diary 😂 or better yet therapy because we don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 09:41 AM |
| 6 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.God, I despise cheap low effort men like this. The audacity he had to ask that... what a loser. Blocked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:46 AM |
| 8 | Subtle “dick pick” with a side of “emotional connection”This picture made me laugh so hard 🤣🤣 I wish he knew how ridiculous he looks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts?Nope. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:07 AM |
| 17 | Promise ring = future faking unless y’all are literal teenagersThis is so embarrassing 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:50 AM |
| 3 | OLDYeah, it was Hinge. I know! I was actually shocked by the audacity ugly men had to like/comment on my profile as if I'd ever match with them. It's honestly insulting lol. I thought it would be easier to see who liked my profile but these apps just give the worst men access to us. Although there are some men who seem to meet my standards, it's not enough for me to use the app again when there are so many of them who don't meet them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 7 | OLDTotally agree. I was on an app that allowed you to comment on people's profiles, even if you didn't match with them and it was incredibly offputting to not only see what some of the men looked like but go through their lame and creepy comments, especially from those I would never in a million years give a chance to (lol). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I hope he picks the second girl 🥴😴I really don't know how men have the audacity to do something like this. I know they don't care, but it's still jarring to think about. The level of entitlement is insane, as well as the lack of social awareness (besides it being an obvious HIPAA violation). It reminds me of this seasonal coworker from my old retail job who added me on Facebook after a few IRL conversations (that were literally just small talk lol). I never told him my last name, and being naive and young at the time, gave him t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 49 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?"Men don't respond to words; they respond to no contact." Sherry Argov's book was such an eye-opener for me. It also felt like really obvious things to know about men after I considered them. I can't believe I was ever willing to give a man more than they gave me lmao (like emotionally even though I knew about emotional labour smh). My empathy/niceness/etc. was a pick me trait in disguise. I also can't believe I was willing to settle for 50/50 even though I KNEW that was not what I wanted. After… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Say goodbye to long texting conversations AKA textationshipsi'm curious about how emailing works for you and what your age group is? maybe i'll do that in the future when if i feel like dating again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:02 AM |
| 3 | What does being a provider mean in these situations?u/hasaalbafo i don't think it's bad. i want the exact same thing in a relationship- a man who takes care of me (financially, emotionally, physically, etc). don't forget that WE are the prize. and as a result, we set the standards. at the end of the day, we don't NEED a man in our lives (men are more likely to need us). so, if we're gonna have a man in our lives, he better be adding something worthy to it. LVM and NVM want us to believe that we're asking for too much (society has conditioned us b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:48 AM |
| 4 | Why are most men so terrible at consoling people?They just don't care enough to. They know they won't lose anything if they don't empathize/have emotional intelligence (many women will put up with this), so why change? They’re inhumane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:20 PM |
| 11 | The financial break down of what a man gains from having a stay at home GF or wife (sources for this calculation listed below)And scrotes have the audacity to ask "What do you bring to the table?" LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Best motivational FDS quotes?"What one man won't do for you another will." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Men will tell you EXACTLY what they are up to if you just pay attentionThey ALWAYS expose themselves in their dating profiles, it's crazy. I'm shocked at how many of them will admit that they're broke, cheap, racist- whatever, you name it. Men know that women are more likely to lower their standards because we're conditioned to so they'll proudly announce all of their negative qualities and wear them like a badge of honour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:03 PM |
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